I think people sometimes think Corey’s stuff only applies to single guys or guys trying to get into a more serious relationship. I’m married and I’m constantly reading Corey’s book/watching his videos because even while married I discover things that Corey’s book can help me with. The courtship never ends!
I think married guys have it the hardest, and should be reading the book more than single guys. Everything is on the line, your mental health, kids, property and dignity. Us single guys have it too easy. Honestly the most difficult thing I have to deal with is getting rejected when cold approaching. I got rejected last night by this cute Middle Eastern cashier (I had to go for it I’ve never been with a middle eastern woman) and guess what, I completely forgot about it within minutes, as I was setting up dates on the phone later that night.
This is the most common problem there is along with the one that is completely overlooked. I’ve definitely been guilty of this in the past. Women want you to be the man they fell in love with permanently. “THE COURTSHIP NEVER ENDS!”
My gf disrespected me a year ago , ( admittedly she was drunk and said something that I took pretty personally ) , so I calmly got up , and walked out . She was on the phone apologizing to me the second I got home. She’s been better ever since then, now she knows I won’t stand for that BS.
It's great to know how to ged rid of women rapidly. But also there's a difference between being butt hurt and actually calling women out for their unfairness and selfishness.
Okay Corie ...it's always the man's fault. Women are such honest trustworthy sweet souls. It's never their intentions to deceive and manipulate men, so they come out on top.
@@jamesgeib3461 Your comment shows you didn’t understand the video, read the book or watched more of his videos because he never implies it’s always the man’s fault. Read the book a few times and practice what it says cause it DOES WORK
To be honest never show a woman your scared or butt hurt just be willing to walk and be assertive on your boundaries if she crosses them then she doesn’t respect you and leave. If you show your butt hurt then it means she was able to move you off centre and affect you emotionally. I think we need to think logically with women and NEVER think with our feelings that way we won’t get to emotionally attached and will be willing to do what’s best for ourselves and not be dependent on our relationship to fulfil our happiness.
@@XoXo475 That doesn’t matter if one takes ownership and accountability. Even if it is “the other person’s fault”, one still needs to reflect because they allowed that to happen. Saying it is “the other person’s fault” is just absolving yourself from your own accountability and bad decision making.
Depends if she’s been disrespectful tho bro. You gotta call her out on that behaviour if she’s making you feel like crap some days. Or just do what I did once and walk out. Once they see you don’t stand for that crap , if they love you they’ll smarten up.
If men never take action, she leaves. If she never takes action, she is never accountable. But still leaves! It’s all always your fault in her mind! So remove yourself from the situation problem solved! STAY SINGLE!!! You’re always going to be the one at fault even though it wasnt your fault! You’re always going to blamed for their actions! Go live your own life without them in it! Simply solve your own personal problems and that doesn’t include women! Enjoy your life , life is too short to put up with unacceptable and unaccountable behaviour from women!
Just be assertive and be willing to walk life is miserable if you’re just going to stay single and focus on yourself. The quality of your life comes from the people you surround yourself with even if you sleep with 3-4 women weekly for validation you will still not be happy that mgtow mindset is a giving up mindset. You’re the man so you need to take control and always be willing to leave a woman if she disrespects you.
Before I even watch this video,I can tell you this follow your purpose and mission the women will come as a sideeffect love yourself first before you can love others.
Red pill is a simple understanding of human nature. That's it. Now you can be mad about it or you can read 3% man 10 to 15 times and learn the basics. I'm just coming out of a similar situation where she started making things difficult after 3 years. I was still putting in the effort to court her but she was not happy about the amount of time she was getting. I have a busy life and schedule and she eventually wanted more which I didn't have. It is what it is. No bad feelings towards her at all. On to the next one.
So be it. That's the right way. No harm, no foul. If you did less of your mission for her, it's enabling her. Then, something else potentially could bug her. She needs her needs, and so do you. She still might not get them, and don't be surprised if you hear from her down the line. Another bus every 15 to 20 min
@@connordowlin7266 there's no such thing as masculine center. It's just a game. The problem is that if you base the relationship on a game when you forgot something you will be in trouble.
I don't think it's a red pill thing, I think it's the same as what happens with coach Corey's teachings. Guys are cherry picking what they want to hear or use....both Corey and red pill teach that you must be on your purpose and be a man, but you can't just choose what you like. Work on yourself always and be a man....if you want a certain type of woman, you got to think about what kind of man that woman wants in a man. If you choose the wrong ones and deal with it, you have to take accountability for what you did wrong as well. We have all done it. The less accountable you are the weaker you become.
I completely and utterly relate to this situation. I've been complaining and bitching about her behaviour for months and I felt like since January, she started to emotionally shut down. Though we had 2 dates this past year, it wasn't like before. We haven't broken up but I'm glad this video really showed me where I was going wrong. I recently let her know that I'm open to communicate with her, focused on making her feel heard and understood. I'll just pray and hope everything goes well
I don’t think you did anything wrong apart from not being willing to walk away from her. You were trying to fix things when she was showing you bad behaviour and crossing your boundaries. Just tell them what you don’t like in a loving and assertive way and if they don’t respect that leave them.
This is depressing! Prostitution should just be legalized, got money, legs open! Women are mostly attracted to money and security! They want to boss you around and have the control! They use sex as a weapon! How often to we see a partnership, that is about mutual respect, compassion for one another, and love? Not being in a power struggle!
You'd have to participate with a woman built in a culture who doesn't expect entitlement to control her man... Some of those cultures value their men and treat him like solid gold.
Our perceptions of the world have a lot to do with the circles we run in. If every relationship you see is toxic, it's likely because you're making choices that keep you in the orbit of those kinds of people. Healthy people attract and are attracted to healthy people. If you seek out prostitutes, then the women you know will be prostitutes. ie. If you seek out trashy women because you lack the imagination to seek a good woman, then the women you know will be trashy.
Happy Belated Birthday, @CoachCoreyWayne! I already know that it went well, Brother! Please accept my sincere apologies for the late wish! OH and P.S. I got some downtime from work and I’ve been in your book extensively for a couple days now. I’m not gonna lie, my brain 🧠 does hurt (In a good way) from the knowledge that I’m soaking in due to a lot A-HA moments reading your book. 53 looks good on you. You can get away with looking like you’re in your mid to late thirties!!! 🙌🏾 💪🏾 Much Respect to you!!!!
I thought I had this down. Read the book many times, not been counting though. When she pulled away I thought you’re supposed to mirror her actions like the guy in the newsletter. I wanted to text her but was scared of coming off needy and the message is always don’t pursue and chase her. Remembered the cat analogy from the book. Women, come and go. Sometimes they like to test your strength by pulling back a bit, so I let her. You’ve got to let her come to you when she’s ready? So, I’m like, man, this is all going just as Coach says. I’ve got this. Don’t panic. Focus on you. She’ll be back when she’s ready and be more attracted. Along with all of this, I had Coach’s voice in my head saying always make sure she’s doing at least 70-80% of the initiating, so the sexual polarity remains, we don’t want her trying to friend-zone. I checked this in the book again to be sure, yup, it’s the same as the pick-up, dating section with the relationship skills, 70/80%). All good. She was doing the 70-80% initiating anyway. Again, remembering the book, he says if she’s chasing you she’s not dumping you. Still got dumped.
I think Coach’s work is sound but the variable is the woman. It can also depend on her. If she’s the type of girl that’s avoidant, she’ll push away no matter what.
This is what I’m talking about! I’m tired of having to do all the head games with women, when that same woman will date some loser without a job, and put up with everything from him, not having a car, to him, flirting with her best friend! On the other hand, if you don’t get the mirroring, and no contact, without coming across like you’re purposely, no contact in, you’ll lose her forever! I understand we as men sometimes do screw things up, but for the gang banger to consistently get the girl over the software engineer, shows there’s something also wrong with our culture/society! The number one song in America is called “flowers” by Miley Cyrus, where she’s literally saying how she doesn’t need a man! The very thing, good men bring to the table, the ability to take care of, and protect and spoil a woman, is literally being taught as something of no value to our women. This is been going on for 35 years at least. it’s to the point software engineers and highway patrol officers are now having to turn to dating coaches for tips on how to mimic the behaviors of a gangsta, with no job. I’m on my second week of no contact with a girl who inexplicably started to pull away, even though two weeks prior, I took her shopping for a Kate Spade purse, as a Christmas gift. I’ve done absolutely nothing wrong by any standard a sane person could use , I’ve been attentive, loving, without being needy, totally cool when she says she doesn’t have time to hang out with no pouting, and over the last month I’ve taken her everywhere from Eddie V‘s seafood restaurant in Newport Beach, to the 4D interactive movie theater to see avatar two. Yet, Text messages started getting shorter and shorter, and now I haven’t heard from her in a week. She did make a complaint that she doesn’t like having to be the first to always text me, but that’s about the only thing I can think of that she could be mad about. If I was some Grape St. Crip, that just got out of jail, I’m sure she would’ve already been at my house multiple times to talk things out with me. My retirement and move to the Philippines or Thailand can’t come fast enough!
Yeah - that point of 'why would I want someone who doesn't want me?' is serious. I can do everything right and still they leave because - like a cat! Or another competitive bastard in the wings. Or I'm delusional - which I certainly have been at times when the term 'c@nt-struck' would fit me well.
Na, you don’t Apply it well, believe me after reading it 26 times you won’t think about it anymore it seems that your still thinking things out in other words read the book More and make more mistakes and learn from it do that and in 1-2 years you will be thinking and talking different ✌🏾
When he says women want more sex than men if the men follow the principles in the book, he lost me. I have never heard of a woman that wants sex 2-3 times daily, 365 days a year, no matter how well you treat her. Especially not after a 5-30 years long relationship and never with small kids involved. Women will never need more sex that men in a long term relationship.
@@CoachCoreyWayne You are right but I can't find anything in the book either. No matter hos much I listen and understand her (or try) I only get a crappy sexlife in return. Dating daily is not an option if you have small kids you also need to spend time with. It would be nice to know exactly what to do to turn her on. We have been together for 16 years and I have still not figured it out.
I think there are some facets to the red-pill that overlap with what you teach. But you make a great point about accountability. A man must take responsibility.
Hi Corey, watched many of your videos, read your book many times, and I have learned a lot (particularly in the mission and drive aspect of life). Thank you for that. That being said, I do have something that I see as a problem: In some of your work, you say "men are driven by conquering and drive, so if she pulls away, your natural instinct is to take action" That is just one example, but it highlights an issue. Women only ever have to do whatever they feel like, but men must often go against their feelings and borderline ignore them just for the CHANCE that she will feel like doing her part. This is a massive imbalance, imagine trying to to a team project with someone who only does the work they feel like doing whenever they feel like doing it. You are better off alone at that point. As someone who is very self-aware and takes accountability and responsibility very seriously, I want a PARTNER who does the same. Otherwise they start to feel like dead weight. You are definitely correct that men have their role in this, but as a god fearing, monogamous person, "spinning plates" is out of the question, and so is divorce. If I date someone, it is to marry, and that relationship must endure per oath (responsibility and accountability). My words aren't meant to attack, but merely to create a discussion. I would like your genuine ideas on this viewpoint. Sure, being the perfect archetype (which is no one's true personality) will attract women (particularly those who are easy), but what if you are looking for LOVE, not just carnal attraction?
This guy's says the reason is courting or understanding her. What about giving her space and focusing on your purpose? Maybe she is bitchy because she needs less attention.
Hits home as this is my same situation from a year ago. Still courted and did fun things but became soft and to available. The kitty cat wasn't in the mood anymore and I became a whiner. Stayed way too long while she monkey branched which just made things worse. Learn to ask deep questions until u get everything out.
there is a big difference to choose to do something or change something for yourself as oppose to for results. When you constantly change things about yourself just to get results that is approval seeking in its own right! The results should be the bonus not the main reason or 1st reason you choose to do something. The why you do something is much more important than what you do. So if you are making all these changes so that you can get sex or someone to be with you it’s actually quite disrespectful to your self and your integrity as a person! Nor should you care if anyone realizes the changes or growth you have made or not. You dont do a good deed to then tell people about it as that takes away from what you did. You do a good deed and keep it to yourself so it’s for you and this universe to know thats all! i find alot of this approval seeking and actually “beta” the only difference being you may have someone with you but all on fake bs. Id rather be alone than to have a bunch of fake things around me being people, materialistic things etc..... the cars the houses the friends, family wife etc....... what’s the point if its not fulfilling and based on your soul truth? why people @ some point wake up and say im not happy with this even though i have all this? how did i get here?
I agree with a lot of this. When it comes to dating coaches, the best advice they give is…. 1. Don’t be overly weird/strange in general. 2. Spend some time in the gym. 3. Make sure your finances are at least median income. 4. Go completely no contact when a girl breaks up with you/asks for space, starts disrespecting you or acting a fool. Everything else, the girls should either like you or not. I will say this, though, there is something inherently wrong with the United States culture, and is having an affect on our women. Not saying that it can’t be done here, but it may be easier to go someplace else for actual marriage material.
If there's one thing FemaleDatingStrategy is right about, it's the amount of men that aren't willing to show up in a relationship with the bare minimum amount of decency. For the most part, all Corey is talking about in this video treating your girlfriend as more than a fuckhole and having an independently fulfilling life as a man. But apparently, that's way too much work. 🙄
Hi Corey, could you elaborate a bit on the following quote? "You're not being man enough to stand up to her and put her in her place in a playful and loving way." "Standing up to her" and "putting her in her place" both seem very different from being playful and loving. I mean I guess there's such a thing as tough love, but I'm not sure that's what you mean here. How to strike a balance and achieve both of those at once?
Basically, he means saying what needs to be said without coming across as a jerk, but still letting her know you're not going to keep tolerating whatever it is she is doing. Example: "Babe, I love you and I still think your as adorable as the day we met, but I really don't appreciate it when you talk to me like that. "
Corey Wayne, watching this video hit home when you said what changed after a year, all the women I dated all changed in the year, I was doing the courting joking, keeping it fun playful, then after a year everything starts bothering them!!! your jokes they get mad ,they don't want to do anything anymore, I don't know what happens, I always wondered about that
@port nut what does Corey say they hide the first three months of the real person, it's all a show, then the real girl comes out what do they call them Karen
@port nut my cousin married a minister, he was preaching at a church she went to, he told me when I met your cousin there was nothing I could do wrong!!! five years later he says everything I do is wrong!!!!
Alot of men need to start acting like men if a girl starts ignoring you throwing tantrums, trying to one up them etc is childish and hilarious tbh and likely why you started being shaded to begin with lmao js
Been dating my girl for about 1 1/2 years now, and continueing the courtship and keeping the romance alive is so important. We‘re still behaving like the first few weeks of our relationship and dating life. Sex once or even twice everyday. A thought i had about not continueing to date: if youre really into your girl, you‘d automatically want to take her out and give her a good time, wouldnt you? If its just a temporary thing, your mindset is kinda off. Is anyone with me on this?
i find this to be quite ridiculous and very narrow minded. It’s simple interpersonal communication and relationships. It takes 2 people that are reasonably aware regardless of where they sit on the healthy meter and a desire to work on themselves for them 1st and those they choose to have in their lives 2nd. Life isn’t just about courting and keeping a show going. It is filled with alot of other things that are equally fulfilling. Like going to the restaurant everyday regardless if its fine dining gets old and fast believe me as someone who has done this for years. It’s not where you are or what you are doing rather your mindset and whop you are around! That also goes to always assuming or believing that you are doing something rwrong or not enough as that itself is approval seeking in its own right! This is life not a game or a movie. If you feel a certain way and you like to express yourself in a healthy manner and as a grown adult then that is fine if someone cant take that then they are showing you that they are not real or @ the same energy as you are to stay in your life. If it’s constantly like that. We are not computers nor should we have to place this level of pressure on ourselves for further approval seeking from anyone including family. What’s the point of being red pill/blue pill 3% man etc...... whatever else you want to add if you remain inauthentic? you act different but havent actually caged @ your core?
@@donovanjr284 I have nothing against growth and development in general. There is nothing wrong with absorbing information and applying it accordingly. As you know 1000 people can read the same thing and make 1000 interpretations on it. Perception is reality sir. For someone that has put in a lot of work and effort in getting to know myself and am very in tuned with my core identity all this means nothing. I do not get moved by such things to each their own. GLTU
Here’s the problem I have, and will always have. I understand that I am supposed to get it right every single time. Have great sex 100% of the time, never be in a bad mood, never show too much neediness but never act too in different as well, never text or call too much, but mirror her frequency, etc., etc., etc. Otherwise, her feelings for me may come crashing down. However, these same women will stay with some Pookie or Ray Ray for multiple years, fresh out of jail, with no job, cheating on her with her best friend, still living with his mom, and having to have sex quietly because his mother is in the next room. I understand we can’t be a total dweeb, incel, or complete nerd, and we also have to maintain a certain physical standard to have a chance at attracting and keeping women. However, I refuse to work this hard to cross every T and dot every I for a girl who can’t see my value as a software engineer, but will make every allowance for and give every benefit of the doubt to make things work with T-bone the Grape Street Crip! At the end of the day, it’s good to have these dating skills, but the reason us nice guys need coaches like Corey is because the women we’re dealing with in general have an alignment towards bad boys and losers. Rap music and movies have made women crave the very men are mothers, pastors and teachers told us not to be! So basically, we’re having to mimic certain aspects of bad boy behavior to keep them interested. Of course, if you were raised by both your parents, in a Christian home, you can’t keep up a bad boy persona forever! Again, I appreciate this knowledge, and what Corey teaches does actually work short term, but for a long-term solution, I think I’d rather take my chances in the Philippines or Thailand!
both red pill blue pill this is all inauthenticity! The problem is that the majority of people in general both sexes have wounds and issues they havent worked through or accepted. When you are vibrating at a particular frequency then you wont 1. settle just to have company 2. change things that make up your true core and you would also have a better idea of who you really are and what you are looking for meaning fulfills you more. The goal isn’t to get someone or keep someone rather find someone that has similar core values but can be different in their own unique way as long as they connect with you energetically. What you have is a bunch of idiots running around swapping partners like it’s a 2 dan dine sale which is very immature. I find these behaviours and changes to be very inauthentic and actually very weak mentality! This isn’t about being masculine or feminine rather awoke as an individual and a person.! red pill blue pill all this nonsense these people are 1 in the very same like an atheist and a believer in god complete opposite yet 1 in the same @ their core just utilizing 1 other extreme to justify the choice rather than work on spiritual growth and ascension. RIDICULOUS!
@yessiiiiir , facts. Even Corey screws up. He mentioned it in the book. It's not about perfection. However, with the knowledge from the book you can realize where you went wrong and fix it. Also, the book teaches you how to keep women you want. Don't have to settle for someone you don't click with.
@Call it 24 you know, I can’t tell you how much I needed to hear this! Thank you! Sometimes I lose sight of the fact that the women I choose, are not always the best marriage material. I will know this instinctively, but when I say it out loud, it sounds to myself as if I’m making an excuse for the relationship, not working. Also, I feel bad over the fact that if I can’t make something work with a girl from the “trailer park”, how the hell am I going to make something work with a high class girl? Lol. So, it was nice to be reminded that most of the time is the girls were picking to begin with.
It hurts when that happens you get complacent, I have been there done that, stop reading the book got fat, let myself go. Only thing was that I had to do the dirty job and break it off cause I was miserable with her. As coach says you gotta take responsibility for this shit.
I love the dumping on the red pill so much. A man’s results are 100 percent tied to his own effort, action, and responsibility level he’s willing to accept. I hated this truth early on cause no one ever told me this as a young man but it truly is the most empowering thing once you embrace the fact that you have a penis and that’s what society expects of you if you want to be taken seriously.
It’s tragic seeing a grown man behave like a melancholic blame baby simp. It’s like watching a huge train crash in slow motion. Then the prat directs a plane disaster to fall into the burning rail line. If she leaves cut your losses and move on life is bloody short man!
So Corey I have a super close best friend. that has been close to me for almost 10 years. Before I met her she had a pill addiction for years. When I met her she just finished getting clean. Long story short she got back on them and is at someone’s random house now doing who knows what. I called her a week ago and she still has not gotten back to me. Mind you we talked and hung out multiple times a day for almost 10 years. (Vacation, staying the night, holidays, birthdays, everything). Should I call again or wait for her to contact me? I love her so much bro! ❤ It hurts how things played out 💔❤️🔥. Please respond and help me, I don’t know what to do.
Communication is like tennis. You already reached out. Wait for her to get back to you. Start reading Corey's book asap. Get your read count to 15+ times for the book.
stay away from chicks like that , they will drive you nuts go lift some weights be happy focus on yourself and find someone else , lifes good brother you just have to believe it
@@simosavustaja9420 yeah but i gotta big heart bro. gotta try. i got a hold of her today and got a detox spot for her. if i never reached out to her earlier she couldve ODd anyday
@@Justin11897 I hope all the best for you. I'm not saying your not gonna succeed but please concider that the chance is low and the prize might not be what you want. And because your still gonna do it. Be careful and listen to your heart.
So couch a question: of course am with you about correcting your behavior and all what you said in the video. But don't you think that good relationships needs communication and you should always communicate your needs and wants from your partner? Am just trying to understand
You are a woman.... the handsome guy strikes out... you jump for joy, where is your girlfriend... women are fickle... put a woman in her place? Why are you giving me advice on something you've never done?
I think it’s humorous that Cory doesn’t realize he is red pill. The men he complains about are blue pill. Cory is one of the most red pilled dudes on the internet
I think people sometimes think Corey’s stuff only applies to single guys or guys trying to get into a more serious relationship. I’m married and I’m constantly reading Corey’s book/watching his videos because even while married I discover things that Corey’s book can help me with. The courtship never ends!
Absolutely you never stop courting them or dating them or like Corey says or somebody else will..
I think married guys have it the hardest, and should be reading the book more than single guys. Everything is on the line, your mental health, kids, property and dignity. Us single guys have it too easy. Honestly the most difficult thing I have to deal with is getting rejected when cold approaching. I got rejected last night by this cute Middle Eastern cashier (I had to go for it I’ve never been with a middle eastern woman) and guess what, I completely forgot about it within minutes, as I was setting up dates on the phone later that night.
I always treat my girl like it’s our first date, her feelings and actions are always romantic ,playful and sexually attracted towards me.
Good job dude. 👏🏽
So, nervous, twitchy and awkward?? I’m not doing that!!! 😂
How long have you been with her?
Excellent!
This is the most common problem there is along with the one that is completely overlooked. I’ve definitely been guilty of this in the past. Women want you to be the man they fell in love with permanently. “THE COURTSHIP NEVER ENDS!”
If you cannot walk away from your girl, you will not be able to be honest with her or stand up to her if you disagree with a situation.
My gf disrespected me a year ago , ( admittedly she was drunk and said something that I took pretty personally ) , so I calmly got up , and walked out . She was on the phone apologizing to me the second I got home. She’s been better ever since then, now she knows I won’t stand for that BS.
Exactly you have to be willing to walk otherwise you cannot be assertive and enforce your boundaries.
It's great to know how to ged rid of women rapidly. But also there's a difference between being butt hurt and actually calling women out for their unfairness and selfishness.
Okay Corie ...it's always the man's fault. Women are such honest trustworthy sweet souls. It's never their intentions to deceive and manipulate men, so they come out on top.
@@jamesgeib3461 woman are just emotional driven. emotions are the enemy.
Jose’ speaks the truth!
@@jamesgeib3461 Your comment shows you didn’t understand the video, read the book or watched more of his videos because he never implies it’s always the man’s fault. Read the book a few times and practice what it says cause it DOES WORK
To be honest never show a woman your scared or butt hurt just be willing to walk and be assertive on your boundaries if she crosses them then she doesn’t respect you and leave. If you show your butt hurt then it means she was able to move you off centre and affect you emotionally. I think we need to think logically with women and NEVER think with our feelings that way we won’t get to emotionally attached and will be willing to do what’s best for ourselves and not be dependent on our relationship to fulfil our happiness.
The red pill movement is the opposite of the feminist movement as a man you should follow your own path thanks coach again!
Wrong
Big lesson is learning to reflect on yourself when things aren't going the way they should or the way you want them to.
Depends who’s fault it is too bro
@@XoXo475 That doesn’t matter if one takes ownership and accountability. Even if it is “the other person’s fault”, one still needs to reflect because they allowed that to happen. Saying it is “the other person’s fault” is just absolving yourself from your own accountability and bad decision making.
Thank you Corey. Was about to go home and express how pissed off I've been to my girlfriend but this video reminded me that isn't how you get results.
Depends if she’s been disrespectful tho bro. You gotta call her out on that behaviour if she’s making you feel like crap some days. Or just do what I did once and walk out. Once they see you don’t stand for that crap , if they love you they’ll smarten up.
If men never take action, she leaves. If she never takes action, she is never accountable. But still leaves! It’s all always your fault in her mind! So remove yourself from the situation problem solved! STAY SINGLE!!!
You’re always going to be the one at fault even though it wasnt your fault! You’re always going to blamed for their actions! Go live your own life without them in it!
Simply solve your own personal problems and that doesn’t include women!
Enjoy your life , life is too short to put up with unacceptable and unaccountable behaviour from women!
Great name sir .
that's why i'm switch sides. trans women here i come.
Just be assertive and be willing to walk life is miserable if you’re just going to stay single and focus on yourself. The quality of your life comes from the people you surround yourself with even if you sleep with 3-4 women weekly for validation you will still not be happy that mgtow mindset is a giving up mindset. You’re the man so you need to take control and always be willing to leave a woman if she disrespects you.
Before I even watch this video,I can tell you this follow your purpose and mission the women will come as a sideeffect love yourself first before you can love others.
Red pill is a simple understanding of human nature. That's it. Now you can be mad about it or you can read 3% man 10 to 15 times and learn the basics. I'm just coming out of a similar situation where she started making things difficult after 3 years. I was still putting in the effort to court her but she was not happy about the amount of time she was getting. I have a busy life and schedule and she eventually wanted more which I didn't have. It is what it is. No bad feelings towards her at all. On to the next one.
Good job sir. Looks like you dodged a needy one.
So be it. That's the right way. No harm, no foul. If you did less of your mission for her, it's enabling her. Then, something else potentially could bug her. She needs her needs, and so do you. She still might not get them, and don't be surprised if you hear from her down the line. Another bus every 15 to 20 min
Well said.
@@Iamtemjin hey should take my girlfriend on a date
Some people would love that! I’ve got one that doesn’t need me 😂 well, she’d never ADMIT it if she did.
A woman wants a man, not someone who belongs in a nursery
Facts.
Then why bother with a girl who never leaves the nursery?
I’m taking my toys and going home = Mangina 🤣🤣🤣
A lot of men stop courting because their spouse stops respecting them first.
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You are half right but why did the spouse stop respecting them? It's almost certainly because the man began losing his masculine center
They lose respect because the man's behavior has turned them off. THAT'S the truth.
@@connordowlin7266 there's no such thing as masculine center. It's just a game. The problem is that if you base the relationship on a game when you forgot something you will be in trouble.
I don't think it's a red pill thing, I think it's the same as what happens with coach Corey's teachings. Guys are cherry picking what they want to hear or use....both Corey and red pill teach that you must be on your purpose and be a man, but you can't just choose what you like. Work on yourself always and be a man....if you want a certain type of woman, you got to think about what kind of man that woman wants in a man. If you choose the wrong ones and deal with it, you have to take accountability for what you did wrong as well. We have all done it.
The less accountable you are the weaker you become.
I completely and utterly relate to this situation. I've been complaining and bitching about her behaviour for months and I felt like since January, she started to emotionally shut down. Though we had 2 dates this past year, it wasn't like before. We haven't broken up but I'm glad this video really showed me where I was going wrong. I recently let her know that I'm open to communicate with her, focused on making her feel heard and understood. I'll just pray and hope everything goes well
update: she broke it off
I don’t think you did anything wrong apart from not being willing to walk away from her. You were trying to fix things when she was showing you bad behaviour and crossing your boundaries. Just tell them what you don’t like in a loving and assertive way and if they don’t respect that leave them.
@@thomesgomes6613 she ended things mate, I'm sorry
@@peanutlover409 yea it’s cool we all been through it as well just don’t try to fix their problems put yourself first.
This is depressing! Prostitution should just be legalized, got money, legs open! Women are mostly attracted to money and security! They want to boss you around and have the control! They use sex as a weapon! How often to we see a partnership, that is about mutual respect, compassion for one another, and love? Not being in a power struggle!
Women are not attracted to money. Golddiggers are though.
You'd have to participate with a woman built in a culture who doesn't expect entitlement to control her man... Some of those cultures value their men and treat him like solid gold.
El Remedio, calm down.
Our perceptions of the world have a lot to do with the circles we run in. If every relationship you see is toxic, it's likely because you're making choices that keep you in the orbit of those kinds of people. Healthy people attract and are attracted to healthy people. If you seek out prostitutes, then the women you know will be prostitutes. ie. If you seek out trashy women because you lack the imagination to seek a good woman, then the women you know will be trashy.
@port nut "they" say "Non western" supposedly eastern european and many latin american countries are treating their men with respect.
Happy Belated Birthday, @CoachCoreyWayne! I already know that it went well, Brother! Please accept my sincere apologies for the late wish!
OH and P.S.
I got some downtime from work and I’ve been in your book extensively for a couple days now. I’m not gonna lie, my brain 🧠 does hurt (In a good way) from the knowledge that I’m soaking in due to a lot A-HA moments reading your book. 53 looks good on you. You can get away with looking like you’re in your mid to late thirties!!! 🙌🏾 💪🏾 Much Respect to you!!!!
Wow what the actual? Cry like a baby, then you end up alone. Women don’t want that
@@BlackoutPatriot nope. Women speak from emotions, not logic. Whenever they say that, they really want you to be their rock. Open them up.
I thought I had this down.
Read the book many times, not been counting though.
When she pulled away I thought you’re supposed to mirror her actions like the guy in the newsletter. I wanted to text her but was scared of coming off needy and the message is always don’t pursue and chase her. Remembered the cat analogy from the book. Women, come and go. Sometimes they like to test your strength by pulling back a bit, so I let her. You’ve got to let her come to you when she’s ready? So, I’m like, man, this is all going just as Coach says. I’ve got this. Don’t panic. Focus on you. She’ll be back when she’s ready and be more attracted.
Along with all of this, I had Coach’s voice in my head saying always make sure she’s doing at least 70-80% of the initiating, so the sexual polarity remains, we don’t want her trying to friend-zone. I checked this in the book again to be sure, yup, it’s the same as the pick-up, dating section with the relationship skills, 70/80%). All good. She was doing the 70-80% initiating anyway. Again, remembering the book, he says if she’s chasing you she’s not dumping you.
Still got dumped.
I think Coach’s work is sound but the variable is the woman. It can also depend on her. If she’s the type of girl that’s avoidant, she’ll push away no matter what.
@@Gio-m
She wasn’t. She’s healthy. She asked me to take her virginity. Muslim girl, non-religious. She’s nineteen years younger than me.
This is what I’m talking about! I’m tired of having to do all the head games with women, when that same woman will date some loser without a job, and put up with everything from him, not having a car, to him, flirting with her best friend! On the other hand, if you don’t get the mirroring, and no contact, without coming across like you’re purposely, no contact in, you’ll lose her forever! I understand we as men sometimes do screw things up, but for the gang banger to consistently get the girl over the software engineer, shows there’s something also wrong with our culture/society! The number one song in America is called “flowers” by Miley Cyrus, where she’s literally saying how she doesn’t need a man! The very thing, good men bring to the table, the ability to take care of, and protect and spoil a woman, is literally being taught as something of no value to our women. This is been going on for 35 years at least. it’s to the point software engineers and highway patrol officers are now having to turn to dating coaches for tips on how to mimic the behaviors of a gangsta, with no job.
I’m on my second week of no contact with a girl who inexplicably started to pull away, even though two weeks prior, I took her shopping for a Kate Spade purse, as a Christmas gift. I’ve done absolutely nothing wrong by any standard a sane person could use , I’ve been attentive, loving, without being needy, totally cool when she says she doesn’t have time to hang out with no pouting, and over the last month I’ve taken her everywhere from Eddie V‘s seafood restaurant in Newport Beach, to the 4D interactive movie theater to see avatar two. Yet, Text messages started getting shorter and shorter, and now I haven’t heard from her in a week. She did make a complaint that she doesn’t like having to be the first to always text me, but that’s about the only thing I can think of that she could be mad about. If I was some Grape St. Crip, that just got out of jail, I’m sure she would’ve already been at my house multiple times to talk things out with me. My retirement and move to the Philippines or Thailand can’t come fast enough!
Yeah - that point of 'why would I want someone who doesn't want me?' is serious. I can do everything right and still they leave because - like a cat! Or another competitive bastard in the wings. Or I'm delusional - which I certainly have been at times when the term 'c@nt-struck' would fit me well.
Na, you don’t Apply it well, believe me after reading it 26 times you won’t think about it anymore it seems that your still thinking things out in other words read the book More and make more mistakes and learn from it do that and in 1-2 years you will be thinking and talking different ✌🏾
When he says women want more sex than men if the men follow the principles in the book, he lost me. I have never heard of a woman that wants sex 2-3 times daily, 365 days a year, no matter how well you treat her. Especially not after a 5-30 years long relationship and never with small kids involved. Women will never need more sex that men in a long term relationship.
That’s because you don’t understand women or how attraction works.
@@CoachCoreyWayne You are right but I can't find anything in the book either. No matter hos much I listen and understand her (or try) I only get a crappy sexlife in return. Dating daily is not an option if you have small kids you also need to spend time with. It would be nice to know exactly what to do to turn her on. We have been together for 16 years and I have still not figured it out.
@@user-bq7nm4mv3c Make sure to be confident and try new things with her. Be a little mysterious.
I think there are some facets to the red-pill that overlap with what you teach. But you make a great point about accountability. A man must take responsibility.
I read the book 21 times but nothing helps if I can’t get a stiffy
Hi Corey, watched many of your videos, read your book many times, and I have learned a lot (particularly in the mission and drive aspect of life). Thank you for that.
That being said, I do have something that I see as a problem:
In some of your work, you say "men are driven by conquering and drive, so if she pulls away, your natural instinct is to take action"
That is just one example, but it highlights an issue.
Women only ever have to do whatever they feel like, but men must often go against their feelings and borderline ignore them just for the CHANCE that she will feel like doing her part.
This is a massive imbalance, imagine trying to to a team project with someone who only does the work they feel like doing whenever they feel like doing it. You are better off alone at that point.
As someone who is very self-aware and takes accountability and responsibility very seriously, I want a PARTNER who does the same. Otherwise they start to feel like dead weight. You are definitely correct that men have their role in this, but as a god fearing, monogamous person, "spinning plates" is out of the question, and so is divorce. If I date someone, it is to marry, and that relationship must endure per oath (responsibility and accountability).
My words aren't meant to attack, but merely to create a discussion. I would like your genuine ideas on this viewpoint. Sure, being the perfect archetype (which is no one's true personality) will attract women (particularly those who are easy), but what if you are looking for LOVE, not just carnal attraction?
Courtship never ends, never forget that guys
Thank you coach for always setting us straight.
This guy's says the reason is courting or understanding her. What about giving her space and focusing on your purpose? Maybe she is bitchy because she needs less attention.
Hits home as this is my same situation from a year ago. Still courted and did fun things but became soft and to available. The kitty cat wasn't in the mood anymore and I became a whiner. Stayed way too long while she monkey branched which just made things worse. Learn to ask deep questions until u get everything out.
It’s simple to fix it, don’t get involved!!!! Problem solved!
Great video as always! Coach may not always be right BUT he is NEVER wrong 😉 much love
there is a big difference to choose to do something or change something for yourself as oppose to for results. When you constantly change things about yourself just to get results that is approval seeking in its own right! The results should be the bonus not the main reason or 1st reason you choose to do something. The why you do something is much more important than what you do. So if you are making all these changes so that you can get sex or someone to be with you it’s actually quite disrespectful to your self and your integrity as a person! Nor should you care if anyone realizes the changes or growth you have made or not. You dont do a good deed to then tell people about it as that takes away from what you did. You do a good deed and keep it to yourself so it’s for you and this universe to know thats all! i find alot of this approval seeking and actually “beta” the only difference being you may have someone with you but all on fake bs. Id rather be alone than to have a bunch of fake things around me being people, materialistic things etc..... the cars the houses the friends, family wife etc....... what’s the point if its not fulfilling and based on your soul truth? why people @ some point wake up and say im not happy with this even though i have all this? how did i get here?
I agree with a lot of this. When it comes to dating coaches, the best advice they give is…. 1. Don’t be overly weird/strange in general. 2. Spend some time in the gym. 3. Make sure your finances are at least median income. 4. Go completely no contact when a girl breaks up with you/asks for space, starts disrespecting you or acting a fool. Everything else, the girls should either like you or not.
I will say this, though, there is something inherently wrong with the United States culture, and is having an affect on our women. Not saying that it can’t be done here, but it may be easier to go someplace else for actual marriage material.
👌🏾 Great advice, coach.
If there's one thing FemaleDatingStrategy is right about, it's the amount of men that aren't willing to show up in a relationship with the bare minimum amount of decency. For the most part, all Corey is talking about in this video treating your girlfriend as more than a fuckhole and having an independently fulfilling life as a man. But apparently, that's way too much work. 🙄
Hi Corey, could you elaborate a bit on the following quote? "You're not being man enough to stand up to her and put her in her place in a playful and loving way." "Standing up to her" and "putting her in her place" both seem very different from being playful and loving. I mean I guess there's such a thing as tough love, but I'm not sure that's what you mean here. How to strike a balance and achieve both of those at once?
Basically, he means saying what needs to be said without coming across as a jerk, but still letting her know you're not going to keep tolerating whatever it is she is doing. Example: "Babe, I love you and I still think your as adorable as the day we met, but I really don't appreciate it when you talk to me like that. "
Corey Wayne, watching this video hit home when you said what changed after a year, all the women I dated all changed in the year, I was doing the courting joking, keeping it fun playful, then after a year everything starts bothering them!!! your jokes they get mad ,they don't want to do anything anymore, I don't know what happens, I always wondered about that
@port nut what does Corey say they hide the first three months of the real person, it's all a show, then the real girl comes out what do they call them Karen
@port nut my cousin married a minister, he was preaching at a church she went to, he told me when I met your cousin there was nothing I could do wrong!!! five years later he says everything I do is wrong!!!!
when a woman is playing up....theres another guy in background i promise you
Not always . Sometimes the woman is just batshit.
@@XoXo475 yes she acting like shit because she has another option
People still chasing woman? Wow
Pulling back sometimes is necessary to keep the attraction alive?its part of the courtship
You sound like you get it. Men should listen to you
Alot of men need to start acting like men if a girl starts ignoring you throwing tantrums, trying to one up them etc is childish and hilarious tbh and likely why you started being shaded to begin with lmao js
Mines had the runs because she was an alcohol so I stopped sleeping with her
Been dating my girl for about 1 1/2 years now, and continueing the courtship and keeping the romance alive is so important. We‘re still behaving like the first few weeks of our relationship and dating life. Sex once or even twice everyday. A thought i had about not continueing to date: if youre really into your girl, you‘d automatically want to take her out and give her a good time, wouldnt you? If its just a temporary thing, your mindset is kinda off. Is anyone with me on this?
i find this to be quite ridiculous and very narrow minded. It’s simple interpersonal communication and relationships. It takes 2 people that are reasonably aware regardless of where they sit on the healthy meter and a desire to work on themselves for them 1st and those they choose to have in their lives 2nd. Life isn’t just about courting and keeping a show going. It is filled with alot of other things that are equally fulfilling. Like going to the restaurant everyday regardless if its fine dining gets old and fast believe me as someone who has done this for years. It’s not where you are or what you are doing rather your mindset and whop you are around! That also goes to always assuming or believing that you are doing something rwrong or not enough as that itself is approval seeking in its own right! This is life not a game or a movie. If you feel a certain way and you like to express yourself in a healthy manner and as a grown adult then that is fine if someone cant take that then they are showing you that they are not real or @ the same energy as you are to stay in your life. If it’s constantly like that. We are not computers nor should we have to place this level of pressure on ourselves for further approval seeking from anyone including family. What’s the point of being red pill/blue pill 3% man etc...... whatever else you want to add if you remain inauthentic? you act different but havent actually caged @ your core?
Read the book 10 to 15 times
@@donovanjr284 I have nothing against growth and development in general. There is nothing wrong with absorbing information and applying it accordingly. As you know 1000 people can read the same thing and make 1000 interpretations on it. Perception is reality sir. For someone that has put in a lot of work and effort in getting to know myself and am very in tuned with my core identity all this means nothing. I do not get moved by such things to each their own. GLTU
So how do we channel frustration?
Kick the dog
Hey coach, what about when they are in menopause and their sex drive is low then? Even if you do everything in the book, it will still be low?
Coach, do you ever plan to publish updated version of this book. Maybe with the new insights, new things you've learned since, etc.
Here’s the problem I have, and will always have. I understand that I am supposed to get it right every single time. Have great sex 100% of the time, never be in a bad mood, never show too much neediness but never act too in different as well, never text or call too much, but mirror her frequency, etc., etc., etc. Otherwise, her feelings for me may come crashing down. However, these same women will stay with some Pookie or Ray Ray for multiple years, fresh out of jail, with no job, cheating on her with her best friend, still living with his mom, and having to have sex quietly because his mother is in the next room.
I understand we can’t be a total dweeb, incel, or complete nerd, and we also have to maintain a certain physical standard to have a chance at attracting and keeping women. However, I refuse to work this hard to cross every T and dot every I for a girl who can’t see my value as a software engineer, but will make every allowance for and give every benefit of the doubt to make things work with T-bone the Grape Street Crip!
At the end of the day, it’s good to have these dating skills, but the reason us nice guys need coaches like Corey is because the women we’re dealing with in general have an alignment towards bad boys and losers. Rap music and movies have made women crave the very men are mothers, pastors and teachers told us not to be! So basically, we’re having to mimic certain aspects of bad boy behavior to keep them interested. Of course, if you were raised by both your parents, in a Christian home, you can’t keep up a bad boy persona forever! Again, I appreciate this knowledge, and what Corey teaches does actually work short term, but for a long-term solution, I think I’d rather take my chances in the Philippines or Thailand!
its not about being on point 100% of the time, the trick is to know what to do when you eventually fuck up. nobody is perfect
both red pill blue pill this is all inauthenticity! The problem is that the majority of people in general both sexes have wounds and issues they havent worked through or accepted. When you are vibrating at a particular frequency then you wont 1. settle just to have company 2. change things that make up your true core and you would also have a better idea of who you really are and what you are looking for meaning fulfills you more. The goal isn’t to get someone or keep someone rather find someone that has similar core values but can be different in their own unique way as long as they connect with you energetically. What you have is a bunch of idiots running around swapping partners like it’s a 2 dan dine sale which is very immature. I find these behaviours and changes to be very inauthentic and actually very weak mentality! This isn’t about being masculine or feminine rather awoke as an individual and a person.! red pill blue pill all this nonsense these people are 1 in the very same like an atheist and a believer in god complete opposite yet 1 in the same @ their core just utilizing 1 other extreme to justify the choice rather than work on spiritual growth and ascension. RIDICULOUS!
@yessiiiiir , facts. Even Corey screws up. He mentioned it in the book. It's not about perfection. However, with the knowledge from the book you can realize where you went wrong and fix it. Also, the book teaches you how to keep women you want. Don't have to settle for someone you don't click with.
@Call it 24 you know, I can’t tell you how much I needed to hear this! Thank you! Sometimes I lose sight of the fact that the women I choose, are not always the best marriage material. I will know this instinctively, but when I say it out loud, it sounds to myself as if I’m making an excuse for the relationship, not working. Also, I feel bad over the fact that if I can’t make something work with a girl from the “trailer park”, how the hell am I going to make something work with a high class girl? Lol. So, it was nice to be reminded that most of the time is the girls were picking to begin with.
T bone Is a blood not a Crip ..🤣
It hurts when that happens you get complacent, I have been there done that, stop reading the book got fat, let myself go. Only thing was that I had to do the dirty job and break it off cause I was miserable with her. As coach says you gotta take responsibility for this shit.
I love the dumping on the red pill so much. A man’s results are 100 percent tied to his own effort, action, and responsibility level he’s willing to accept. I hated this truth early on cause no one ever told me this as a young man but it truly is the most empowering thing once you embrace the fact that you have a penis and that’s what society expects of you if you want to be taken seriously.
It’s tragic seeing a grown man behave like a melancholic blame baby simp. It’s like watching a huge train crash in slow motion. Then the prat directs a plane disaster to fall into the burning rail line. If she leaves cut your losses and move on life is bloody short man!
Dang, the moment when you realize that Corey very well may be completely accurate about the red pill community and how it hurts/ruins relationships.
So Corey I have a super close best friend. that has been close to me for almost 10 years. Before I met her she had a pill addiction for years. When I met her she just finished getting clean. Long story short she got back on them and is at someone’s random house now doing who knows what. I called her a week ago and she still has not gotten back to me. Mind you we talked and hung out multiple times a day for almost 10 years. (Vacation, staying the night, holidays, birthdays, everything). Should I call again or wait for her to contact me? I love her so much bro! ❤ It hurts how things played out 💔❤️🔥. Please respond and help me, I don’t know what to do.
Communication is like tennis. You already reached out. Wait for her to get back to you. Start reading Corey's book asap. Get your read count to 15+ times for the book.
She likes pills more than you. It's not your job to save anyone.
stay away from chicks like that , they will drive you nuts go lift some weights be happy focus on yourself and find someone else , lifes good brother you just have to believe it
@@simosavustaja9420 yeah but i gotta big heart bro. gotta try. i got a hold of her today and got a detox spot for her. if i never reached out to her earlier she couldve ODd anyday
@@Justin11897 I hope all the best for you. I'm not saying your not gonna succeed but please concider that the chance is low and the prize might not be what you want.
And because your still gonna do it. Be careful and listen to your heart.
This video just reamed my ass out!
Ewww
So couch a question: of course am with you about correcting your behavior and all what you said in the video. But don't you think that good relationships needs communication and you should always communicate your needs and wants from your partner? Am just trying to understand
Communication is really important. If one or both partners can't communicate effectively it is never going to work out
Corey you keep these butt hurt men in an uproar 😂🤣😩
I don't think he's read the book as many times as he says he has.
If he had read it 10 times he wouldn't be making those rookie mistakes
Agreed.
what book is for long term relationships?
The book 📚 of the single life!
The title of this one 😂
Let’s goooo
So?
Hey everyone should I take my girlfriend on a date because I have not seen my girlfriend in 7 months but I have a crush on someone
She’s already left!
You are a woman.... the handsome guy strikes out... you jump for joy, where is your girlfriend... women are fickle... put a woman in her place? Why are you giving me advice on something you've never done?
“If you are lousy in bed she will not keep coming”. How can we not be lousy in bed…couldn’t find that in your book
Read the book again. It’s in there (Part IX specifically under “It Feels Like Making Love”).
Also, watch more porn and learn good oral. Man to woman obviously 😂
I think it’s humorous that Cory doesn’t realize he is red pill. The men he complains about are blue pill. Cory is one of the most red pilled dudes on the internet
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Andrew tate always blames men…