Why Women Cause Men To Lose Their Cool

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  • @terrodar19
    @terrodar19 Рік тому +190

    I have vowed to NEVER lose my frame around women. no matter what behavior, it will never move me. Never again

    • @steveenczi8967
      @steveenczi8967 Рік тому +19

      Yea I lost my center with a girl and started reading the book and must say I love it definitely going for the 15
      Times

    • @BridgeAtArcole
      @BridgeAtArcole Рік тому +24

      @@steveenczi8967 Goof for both you guys. This has been the hardest part for me… I’ve also dated a fair share of mentally ill ladies 😂

    • @Una2Cold
      @Una2Cold Рік тому +13

      @@BridgeAtArcole that’s the exact issue. When you’re dating someone who is mentally ill, it’ll make you feel mentally ill trying to deal with it. When you are dealing with someone who I mentally sound, thats when they principles all come in and work best. When you are dealing with a crazy it just ups the ante and makes it so much harder. I’ve learned this lesson and still find myself holding back some days dealing with the craziness. Like Corey says, practice infinite patience but boy is it hard

    • @Una2Cold
      @Una2Cold Рік тому +12

      @@Junoj101 such a great point. The social cues of today have made it much harder for men in general. The world has changed but men are supposed to remain the same. It is very difficult. But I guess only the strong survive lol

    • @johnbingaman3645
      @johnbingaman3645 Рік тому +2

      Good for you man from glad everything's working out great

  • @Shayne.Donohue
    @Shayne.Donohue Рік тому +17

    The jack-in-the-box impression had me in tears. I’ve watched it about a dozen times already. Please incorporate this into more of your videos!

  • @mikehydrusko3744
    @mikehydrusko3744 Рік тому +13

    The 1st guy's email is so relatable. Having dated a girl who has depression/anxiety issues, I know how hard it can be. It's a powerless feeling knowing there's only so much you can do. Ultimately, you can offer your help and be their to support her, but it's still on her to do what she has to do. You can be there to support someone, but it's not your job to fix them. Thank you, coach.

  • @jakecappelluti
    @jakecappelluti Рік тому +34

    “You can’t make good wine with bad grapes” was the whole truth, slipped in there oh so smoothly😂

  • @kflashcarr1992
    @kflashcarr1992 Рік тому +43

    Hey coach, I just wanted to let you know that your work really helped me in hard times. Thanks.

  • @jarhar007
    @jarhar007 Рік тому +43

    The robot impersonation always makes my day!

    • @illinoisgreg
      @illinoisgreg Рік тому +1

      I’d say more impressions is definitely my request

    • @Tookode1
      @Tookode1 Рік тому

      @@VoiceOfTheAh yes! The Jack in the box had me rollin here at work lmboooo #RaawahhhWaaaahRuuuhhhrr

  • @pierrechambon2965
    @pierrechambon2965 Рік тому +12

    Hi Corey, I just want to thank you for your great work. I've read the book ten times, watched countless videos... and you made me take a decision I would have never imagined taking in a million years : walk away from the woman who by far knocked my socks off more than anyone in my entire life, but who ended up friendzoning me after some back and forth. It may be the hardest decision I made, it hurts A LOT, but I know deep inside it's the right thing to do. You taught me how to be a better man, how to stand for myself, and more things that are invaluable. Much love and gratitude from the bottom of my heart.

  • @jarhar007
    @jarhar007 Рік тому +28

    No way I would call someone after they hung up on me.

  • @steveenczi8967
    @steveenczi8967 Рік тому +8

    Just finished how to be 3%man twice 13 more to go thanks coach Corey!!

  • @revolutionaryfrog
    @revolutionaryfrog Рік тому +7

    LOL as a computer science student, i agree. You HAVE to read the book 10-15 times and really understand the nuances of each topic.

  • @tonykoz
    @tonykoz Рік тому +4

    Corey’s “Think like James Bond” is great advice for this topic.

  • @TheSpacefish2
    @TheSpacefish2 Рік тому +15

    My wife refuses to improve… no matter the approach. Money is tight- but she wont stick to a budget, she wont look for a job , won’t take care of herself ( complains about being overweight or health problems then eats a bag of chips), wont keep house, does the bare
    Minimum for the kids ( doesnt play with them or plan activities ) .
    Soo stressed out and I hate that my kids have this person to look up to.

    • @terrodar19
      @terrodar19 Рік тому +3

      Something HAS to be done. start exercising together or something. its a mental issue

    • @ryanvandy1615
      @ryanvandy1615 8 місяців тому +1

      She needs an allowance

  • @BrijanbMentalIron
    @BrijanbMentalIron Рік тому +7

    😅😅 coach you’re on one today! But totally right about this like always. If you already know your girl is perpetual depressed become the positive part of their life, not someone who keeps reminding her about all the issues

  • @SP-dx7em
    @SP-dx7em Рік тому +31

    I dated a girl yrs ago who was on bipolar meds. It was a Rollercoaster half the time and the sex was fire, which was the only reason I messed with her. Other than that, when she wasn't taking her meds,, she was an absolute headache.

    • @the_bogeyman.
      @the_bogeyman. Рік тому +4

      Messed with few chicks like that in my 20s. Freaks under the sheets as you say, but the false accusations are a real risk nowadays more than ever.

    • @XoXo475
      @XoXo475 Рік тому +3

      My girl probably IS bi-polar and isn’t even on meds or recognizes her problems… she goes wonky every few weeks lol

    • @socol76
      @socol76 Рік тому +3

      @@XoXo475 dude she’s probably just PMSing every few weeks

  • @miryanski
    @miryanski Рік тому +8

    Coach, I really love your videos. My favorite is when you do The Robot! 😂

  • @jacobsnak81
    @jacobsnak81 Рік тому +2

    I take subtle hints like a brick to the Head thanks coach for helping me understand women that much better, all women say the same things! I absolutely love it when coach bust balls!!

  • @CoachSteveJandS
    @CoachSteveJandS Рік тому +21

    Being angry is like drinking poison in an attempt to punish the wrongdoers....

    • @rik-keymusic160
      @rik-keymusic160 8 місяців тому

      I know! But i have to work at that !!

    • @thomesgomes6613
      @thomesgomes6613 3 місяці тому

      Exactly once you show the wrongdoer your angry or hurt and that you care it’s a lot worse for you best to assertively express your unhappiness about something and be willing to give them a chance to apologise and get inline if they don’t walk away. never show anger, fear or the fact that your hurt to a woman or even men but in relationships with women if you show this she knows your weak mentally and you will feel a lot worse off

  • @KaydahYT
    @KaydahYT Рік тому +26

    I am the second guy. I am half way my first reading and I honestly start to see what I was doing wrong. Thanks for the constructive criticism.

    • @tonykoz
      @tonykoz Рік тому +1

      That’s what helped me. Making mistakes, using Corey’s book to identify what I did wrong, and correcting the problems.

    • @Kingslayer-m5j
      @Kingslayer-m5j Рік тому +1

      Come on man

  • @johnmooney4983
    @johnmooney4983 Рік тому +1

    Reading your book. Preach it.

  • @sallyjrwjrw6766
    @sallyjrwjrw6766 Рік тому +1

    I won't open up if I don’t feel safe. My ex-husband would either get mad or "logical" when I tried opening up so I stopped. Then we got divorced. Now I'm looking for a man who makes me feel heard and understood.

  • @aaronlang2764
    @aaronlang2764 Рік тому +8

    Yep.. sex is great but the headaches are not fun. Done the same. Started with a fun all the time mindset and turns into a save them mentality. If you hear the "I'm not good for you" time to run don't be a savior..

  • @brego12317
    @brego12317 Рік тому +1

    You gotta know when ta hold em. Know when ta fold em. Know when to walk away. Know when ta run.

  • @TomP-nw4wu
    @TomP-nw4wu Рік тому +15

    Gulp! All of them are on medication, 2 attempts at contact and move on.

  • @Hanashi_mma
    @Hanashi_mma Рік тому

    Great vid as always coach

  • @allday2772
    @allday2772 Рік тому

    YOUR THE MAN COREY!
    DAD WE NEVER HAD!
    #GURU #3%MAN

  • @Madmok128
    @Madmok128 Рік тому +3

    Thatz the second time in my entire life ive heard that phrase “hott beef injection” 🤮 once was here, and the other was a line from the breakfast club a million years ago lmfao

  • @zachwells4677
    @zachwells4677 Рік тому +3

    I have a buddy who is Extremely handsome, but he has OCD, depression, and Borderline personality disorder. Consequentially he can't hold down a relationship even though many women stare at him and like what they see. Like he's so handsome that straight MEN will give him flirtatious compliments. What can I do to help him? He's not one of those guys who's frothing at the mouth to have a girlfriend but I can tell it's definitely weighing on him.

    • @adana7788
      @adana7788 Рік тому +3

      Advice him to Start DBT therapy. It works best for people who have BPD. It wil give him the tools to regulate the inner chaos BPD is causing him. First thing is, if he wants to help himself, he should start by going to therapist and psychiatrist. Hopefully this helps. Cheers!

    • @rik-keymusic160
      @rik-keymusic160 8 місяців тому

      I have similar issues. instead, woman tend to not like me because of my looks. They think that i think that i'm beter then them and confuse confidence with arrogance. I can spot it in their behavior. Believe it or not but there are many chicks out there looking for an easy target they can control and manipulate.

  • @kvs7876
    @kvs7876 Рік тому

    Corey Robot!!!! I love it !!

  • @TriadTradingOfficial
    @TriadTradingOfficial Рік тому +1

    Literally at the perfect time. Thank you coach!

  • @ryandaniel1179
    @ryandaniel1179 Рік тому +5

    So if a woman says you never take her on a date four days after you did, you then have to do it again? Sounds like a slippery slope that she will take advantage of.

    • @mariqua5507
      @mariqua5507 Рік тому +11

      If all she wants is an expensive date, maybe she's not the type of girl for you?
      Plenty of girls who'd love to be taken on a walk or a hike. Free and plenty of attention to shower on her

    • @gedbookings2328
      @gedbookings2328 Рік тому

      Fast food in the care can be a date…she just want to be out with you

  • @AndrewSun15
    @AndrewSun15 5 місяців тому

    I absolutely love the voices 🤣

  • @MattCassCook
    @MattCassCook Рік тому +6

    So what you’re saying is: guys can’t get annoyed with women for anything?

    • @theevolutionofthebear3093
      @theevolutionofthebear3093 Рік тому +7

      You can get annoyed but you have to learn to hold it in a masculine way. Getting angry has never solved anything.
      Feel your feelings and learn to manage your emotions around said feelings. Once you learn to do that the woman will follow. If she doesn't, let her go. This goes for friends too.

  • @MrRahlo42
    @MrRahlo42 Рік тому

    You always talk about the vetting process. Does your book talk about how to bett women? Thanks

  • @earthpart3
    @earthpart3 Рік тому +3

    i always laugh when people tell me they were arguing and fighting with their significant others cause now i know it just means the guy is clueless and thinks yelling is gonna fix it lol

  • @nunka34ify
    @nunka34ify Рік тому +3

    So like Jada causing Will to lose his cool?

  • @alfredbornemann792
    @alfredbornemann792 8 місяців тому

    The transcript when you said verbally butt hurt said buttered
    This problem with the transcript happens frequently

  • @KaraRocknRoll
    @KaraRocknRoll Рік тому +2

    Slacker? Did Coach Corey Wayne’s principal by any chance happened to be Mr. Strickland from Back to the Future?

  • @TheRealPrimeOne
    @TheRealPrimeOne Місяць тому

    The jack in the box was hilarious.

  • @johnbingaman3645
    @johnbingaman3645 Рік тому +9

    I dated a girl with all them issues, check please, Elvis has left the building oh, it's a fixer upper, the only Fixer-Upper you get is a house you'll definitely make money

  • @XoXo475
    @XoXo475 Рік тому +6

    I’ve got a gf of 3 years who still likes ME to chase her .
    She’s stubborn as hell and sometimes hours will go by with neither of us making that move to find the other one by way of a message. I’ve read Corey’s book at least 20 times and this chick is still walking all over me lol. So I definitely did stuff wrong early on in the relationship, and now she plays me like a frickin fiddle. Dance monkey dance!!!

    • @christophervanzetta
      @christophervanzetta Рік тому

      Sump her dude. She’s toxic

    • @Lonewolf-vb8dn
      @Lonewolf-vb8dn Рік тому +1

      Men lead women follow

    • @margaretc5679
      @margaretc5679 Рік тому +6

      She is stubborn because she doesnt contact you every few hours? So wait a day. Find something to do that interests and excites you and focus on that for a day. She will eventually contact you.

    • @brianwaller7383
      @brianwaller7383 Рік тому +3

      She toys with you because you allow it. I’d dismiss her immediately once she started her bs. But too many guys too afraid to lose the girl calling her out. Women are like car dealerships never be afraid to walk away if the deal isn’t right

    • @EyeOfTheCat2002
      @EyeOfTheCat2002 Рік тому +2

      If its been like that for 3 years it's not going to change. Better finding someone else sounds like she's playing games with you and doesn't respect or take you seriously.

  • @howtosnatch
    @howtosnatch 10 місяців тому

    12:30 Robot Corey, never change.

  • @1970broncoman
    @1970broncoman Рік тому +2

    I read “why women cause men to lose their hair” lol

  • @SwaggyE212
    @SwaggyE212 8 місяців тому

    I think that’s one of the things I’ve been working on most when I’m on a date with a women. A simple question ends up feeling like they need to drop all of their baggage on me. I have to become the driver of the fun bus. But yeah, definitely need to be more observant.

  • @danielmeans9539
    @danielmeans9539 Рік тому

    Coach Corey you cracked me up in this one haha 😂😂😂!

  • @ginborgho
    @ginborgho 9 місяців тому

    robot Corey never miss 😭

  • @Piznick64
    @Piznick64 Рік тому +1

    4:41 lmfao

  • @topdog5252
    @topdog5252 Рік тому

    Perfect.

  • @rik-keymusic160
    @rik-keymusic160 8 місяців тому

    yeah, i got angry with a female bar tender. she refused to serve me another drink just for the sake of it she excluded me that night. Everyone else got drinks but me... i gave her te finger and left. I know, i have anger issues when it comes to nasty mind games but i don't know who to stay calm in that moment. i don't know why i give that woman so much controle over my inner state. it's ridiculous.

  • @jroll5858
    @jroll5858 Рік тому +1

    If the second guy doesn't read the book & recalibrate himself he'll end up in the Red pill/MGTOW community

  • @RenaissanceMan29
    @RenaissanceMan29 3 місяці тому

    That was pretty funny....

  • @farthead43
    @farthead43 Рік тому

    I brought out the hour clock

  • @sdickinson5234
    @sdickinson5234 Рік тому +8

    Not every single girl has mental health issues but almost every girl with mental health issues is single.

  • @SH0WPECE
    @SH0WPECE Рік тому +5

    This translating womaniese is exhausting, communicating one thing while meaning another means they have a communication issue. Why is the onus on us to decipher this bullshit?

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  Рік тому +18

      It’s called being a Man, a leader. The word lead means to go first.

    • @Phil-bv4dh
      @Phil-bv4dh Рік тому +8

      I hear you man. But women will always be this way

    • @zacharywallace2243
      @zacharywallace2243 Рік тому

      Ooof!

    • @SH0WPECE
      @SH0WPECE Рік тому +4

      @@CoachCoreyWayne I'm not sure how that correlates, masculinity isn't about tolerating nonsense. Women move mountains for the right guy, correct her communication issue or move on.

    • @EyeOfTheCat2002
      @EyeOfTheCat2002 Рік тому

      ​@omartageddi4987 You don't have to be a redpill incel to complain dude. It's like saying a woman is a radical feminist because she complaints about certain male behaviours.

  • @OzoneSports777
    @OzoneSports777 Рік тому +2

    Beef injection 😂😂

  • @christopher-yi3rm
    @christopher-yi3rm 6 місяців тому

    if you show the girl nothing.she just thinks your acting masculine for her and when things get really close you will fall apart.

  • @giovanniabraham7653
    @giovanniabraham7653 Рік тому +1

    All that Is too tiring 😂

  • @Revolt4newlife
    @Revolt4newlife Рік тому +1

    26:09 😅🎉

  • @ralfj.1740
    @ralfj.1740 9 місяців тому

    Very gladly gave Like No. 1K :)

  • @TheColtonStreeter
    @TheColtonStreeter Рік тому +5

    Hang out, have fun and hook up seems like such a shallow relationship

    • @TheGreatSalsaMan
      @TheGreatSalsaMan Рік тому +7

      Women treat men like an ATM, so why shouldn’t we treat them like a Bank and make small deposits then take and withdraw our money to a new one when the bank fails?

    • @joecoolberry911
      @joecoolberry911 Рік тому +10

      Relationships without Christ are doomed to fail. We are all naturally selfish and a long term relationship will only work when God is put first and dying to yourself

    • @keydabeastgamingg
      @keydabeastgamingg Рік тому +6

      He’s not just telling his viewers to only be doing that in their relationships. He’s just saying it should be that simple. No muss no fuss, just a good time.

    • @andrebaxter4023
      @andrebaxter4023 Рік тому +2

      Colton. Read the book sir.

    • @TheColtonStreeter
      @TheColtonStreeter Рік тому

      @@andrebaxter4023I'm celibate

  • @mimimi5140
    @mimimi5140 Рік тому

    Hi coach. Can you reverse getting friendzoned? For women. Btw I find you funny!

    • @jackLoveX
      @jackLoveX Рік тому +1

      Yeah it’s easy. Just be hot

    • @TheGreatPower365
      @TheGreatPower365 Рік тому +1

      Show him your feminine side. Be warm and show him he is safe with you. It might not change anything, but it might be worth a try.

    • @dozoneil1253
      @dozoneil1253 Рік тому +1

      If you’re a woman getting friendzone you’re probably aiming out of your league, no man would friendzone you if he didn’t have other options, it’s too hard out there for man to get the benefit of rejecting women, even ugly ones.
      A man will at least get in a relationship with you, but never take you serious, but if he doesn’t even do that, be ready to get played, he doesn’t see you that way at all.

    • @carloscabrera5311
      @carloscabrera5311 Рік тому

      When a guy doesn't like a woman, he makes her a "friend with benefit."
      When a woman doesn't like a guy, she friend zones him.
      So. Men don't friend zone.
      Women do...🤣

    • @drvofoka7033
      @drvofoka7033 11 місяців тому

      @@carloscabrera5311 They do if the chick is ugly. A chick getting friendzoned is just ugly, plain and simple.

  • @eddiewalker6866
    @eddiewalker6866 Рік тому

    Corey i wonder if you can help me imgoing to the philippines in september for 1 month holiday what i need from you is there is a group called passport btos there givig info like you but here is the problem they are all mummys boys and as such unlike you do not give good advoce iwould be interested in your thoughts

  • @ramirofernandez3986
    @ramirofernandez3986 Рік тому

    Hahahahahahah jack in the box 😂

  • @BloodyHeck
    @BloodyHeck Рік тому +8

    Like most dating/relationship coaches, the only things you hear are overly simplistic advice that might work on some women sometimes somewhere, but doesn’t apply to the majority of women in the real world.
    The idea of the masculine remaining calm and not losing frame control is something discussed by most men’s coaches. Great. Sounds simple and easy, at least in a quick video or as a chapter in a book. Now how do you handle real women in the real world?
    A friend once told me “not only does she know how to push my buttons, it’s like she enjoys doing it”.
    Most men’s coaches will tell you that she’s testing you to see if you overreact and lose your cool and that you must maintain frame control. Sounds easy.
    But what do you do when she doesn’t stop? What his wife, my wife and so many other women that so many men have known aren’t just testing to see how you react, they keep going UNTIL you react. They don’t want to see if you crack, they want to see how much it takes to make you crack.
    So once it starts, a man remaining calm and maintaining his frame, all that does is piss her off more. Whatever she was first upset about is now behind her and what she’s now upset about is that she hasn’t gotten you to be upset. Sometimes the worst thing you could do is to keep calm but we’re not going to see a video as to what to do then.

    • @jshowy7053
      @jshowy7053 Рік тому +6

      Walk away from her and never look back.

    • @TheGreatSalsaMan
      @TheGreatSalsaMan Рік тому +13

      Bro a woman like that is toxic af and NOT high value at all. You walk away from people like that…women are supposed to make your d**k hard not your life.
      Tests are tests but constantly trying to get a rise out of someone just because…that is borderline abusive right there that leads to physical domestic violence.
      Any woman pulls that the only proper response is calmly say “Are you ok?” Then walk away/drop her if she continues to be a crazy ***t. No matter how hot she is or how good the sex is nothing is worth that level of headache.

    • @keydabeastgamingg
      @keydabeastgamingg Рік тому +10

      Bro if you listened to his videos and read his book 10-15 times you would understand. If you are not applying the knowledge or tricks no amount of listening is going to do anything. Idk what other coaches you listen to but coach Corey Wayne’s advice actually works if you apply what he is teaching. It sounds like you just watch and listen to videos and expect shit to just go your way instead of actually working hard to hone the info you are taking in. He says love is supposed to be fun and you are in relationships to give and not for what you can get out of it, but if she isn’t giving to you what want or treating you how you want to be treated then go find someone else. It’s not going to be that easy but real men would rather be single and alone than be with someone who treats them like shit. His advice applies to all women, not some, that just sounds like an excuse to justify your situation. If she has a high level of interest in you or if you were being in your masculine (which no offense you don’t seem like you are), they wouldn’t be testing you or trying to get a rise out of you. If she has low interest or you are not doing what you should be doing, of course they are going to test you, why would you even want to deal that someone that makes your life harder?

    • @starseed855
      @starseed855 Рік тому +1

      @@keydabeastgamingg Well spoken bro👏🏼

    • @lomane5327
      @lomane5327 Рік тому +5

      You have a lot to learn young grasshopper

  • @russellsaffa3062
    @russellsaffa3062 Рік тому +1

    Bc if they didn’t have sex appeal and we weren’t lustful we wouldn’t need them. Unless you’re weak and need emotional support

  • @joegonzales4749
    @joegonzales4749 Рік тому +1

    Never use paturd as a word ever again Cory

  • @sarifuchs
    @sarifuchs Рік тому

    Boyfriend hat 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

  • @joshwilliams6517
    @joshwilliams6517 Рік тому +3

    Meat injection

  • @ralfj.1740
    @ralfj.1740 9 місяців тому

    SSRIs made a good friend of mine develop erectile dysfunction 🙈

  • @recommens-comedy-central9761

    Robinson Danger Danger

  • @miguelfloriano9039
    @miguelfloriano9039 Рік тому

    Damn coach you still look the same from 10 years ago.

  • @davittjess
    @davittjess Рік тому +3

    I don't understand why more men don't realize an orgasm makes the world right

    • @stevis78
      @stevis78 Рік тому +3

      I don't understand why more women don't understand that

  • @russellheyns1846
    @russellheyns1846 3 місяці тому

    Check your stats. I was married for 20 years. I can tell you that NO married couple I knew was having sex 2-3 times per week. You are very knowledgeable about female nature and dating and short-term relationships but I don’t think you should talk outside your knowledge base, i.e. long term relationships/marriage.

    • @Sisco14
      @Sisco14 3 місяці тому

      Why do you sound hurt? Have you read the book?

  • @rickghai6839
    @rickghai6839 Рік тому

    Lollllll

  • @faekz
    @faekz Рік тому +1

    Deer ing. Defend explain excuse rationalize
    Don't do it

  • @TheADRIANOVALENTINO
    @TheADRIANOVALENTINO Рік тому

    With this first emailer's girlfriend, regardless if he told her" lets get together and have some fun" she still wouldnt have come out. She seems very difficult all over the place type of person.
    A girl thats super interested in you will communicate all her dramas with you.
    Dude, let her go..... Plenty of chicks out there.. 👍👍👍

  • @avcyberactive538
    @avcyberactive538 Рік тому +2

    I've spotted so many red flags just by following Corey's work 30 Miles awaya.
    Just ...
    Hangout
    HaveFun
    Hook Up
    Thats it!