Depression, Anxiety and Money Problems
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- Опубліковано 29 тра 2017
- In this video, author and depression counselor Douglas Bloch discusses why so many people with depression and anxiety also have money problems. This difficult relationship works both ways. Being depressed or anxious hampers one's ability to earn a living, and having financial stress can bring on an episode of depression and anxiety.
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THIS VIDEO HELPED ME A LOT , BECAUSE ALL MY FAMILY THINK I´M LAZY BASTARD, I WENT THROUGH WAR, AND THIS IS WHAT I GOT LOST JOB, LOST MY OWN APARTMENT, LOST "FRIENDS", LOST EVERYTHING AND EVERYTIME i WAKE UP THE CIRCLE STARTS OVER AND OVER, PTSD, ANXIETY , DEPRESION,
There is good professional support out there for healing from PTSD
Your family sounds ignorant ..sorry to say. At least it seems they have no understanding of your status.
Hope your doing better now.
The people that walk away from you when you fall ill are the people you don't want in your life .!! It's better they walk away because they are harmful to you.
THANK YOU DOUGLAS i ONLY WISH I CAN SHOW THIS TO MY BROTHER ,MY MOTHER, AND EVERYBODY IN MY FAMILY, BECAUSE i GET MORE SUPPORT FROM STRANGERS THEN MY OWN FAMILY
I hope that you can educate your family, too.
Yeah my family sucks too
you not alone
Yes
For years I struggled with outstanding debts, bills and my children's school fees. I was at a point where I wanted to give up. I came across every UA-cam channel about how to make and multiply your income through passive income. Fortunately, I had saved some money and decided to start an investment, Now I have bought my second house already, earn on a monthly through passive income and got 4 out of 5 goals, just hope it encourages someone that doesn’t believe in investing.
Hey Joy,currently, I am in dire need of investment advice or tips. Last year, I hesitated and failed to take any action until the year concluded. However, this year, I am determined to try something new, as I am very receptive to various investment ideas.
I strongly recommend Regina Louise Collaro, a reputable US-based financial advisor and consultant. Through her collaboration with an international organization, she has provided invaluable guidance and support on my financial journey until I reach my goals. Choosing the right financial consultant is vital, akin to finding the ideal life partner, as both profoundly influence your life's direction. I am thankful to have found such an excellent financial consultant who has aided me in accomplishing my financial goals, spanning from education to nearing retirement.
I value your recommendations. It's challenging to locate a trustworthy person. I could really use your investment advisor after seeing how much money you've made through investing. If you don't mind revealing her information, that is.
Alright, you can easily find her information by doing a quick 🔍 search. Feel free to reach out to her directly with any questions you may have.
I've wanted to start investing for a while. Yet, I've always considered it to be late, and I believe I should quit putting things off. I'll absolutely contact Regina Louise Collaro to ask her for advice. Much thanks. This was quite helpful to me.
Anxiety leads to depression because being extremely anxious is miserable. Chronic misery makes you more depression and anxiety like a vicious feedback loop.
This video couldn't be any more relevant to what im going through. I've had debilitating anxiety for years, which has really affected my ability to work and keep jobs. So, I've been on disability and unemployment and actually recently have been doing a little better, but the unemployment just ran out which is forcing me to drive more for uber eats, which has big time increased my anxiety. So, now im at a cross roads. I don't feel healthy enough to work full time, but I need money for rent, car, food, etc, which increases my anxiety and makes it even harder to try to work full time. It's a cycle. You feel trapped and feel absolutely paralyzed about what to do. Im trying my absolute best, but feel very concerned/ worried that this will all be too much for me.
I understand your situation. Is there a buddy in your world who could help you out a little bit. You might also check out up there any kind of jobs you can do out of your home
Samuel Koch your situation sounds exactly like what I'm going thru..its so hard! And it feels like u just plunge yourself further in debt ya know!!! My thoughts are with u and everyone dealing with this type of situation💙
@@katiloftis1364 exactly like mine to,i just try stay in the moment as hard as it is,once you start thinking far ahead,trouble!
I often feel like that too. Arthritis is hampering me in my feet but I work on my feet all day. That's what it takes to pay the bills. I am hoping that I will soon not spend too much time anymore in a job where I have to be on concrete all the time.
Being paralyzed when being harassed does not help. I then often forget which financial goals I have. If I plan on a bill to get paid and then get harassed like I did today, harassed so badly it must have paralyzed something in my brain. Then I forget which financial goal I had and spend money on another financial goal. Then I have to backtrack and quickly cover the expense as soon as I realize my mistake.
Today that happened and luckily I thought about that mistake soon enough to cover all expenses.
I am being harassed by awful awful, really really awful people and today it almost messed up my finances. Is not the first time, somehow PTSD shows during those times and I get lapses in financial matter decisions.
But, whew, I covered it tonight, just in time.
I hope your coping somehow.
I think that this is the best Douglas Bloch video thus far.
+R J Stove i'm glad you enjoyed it.
Lord please help me I need you more then ever😭
Kim Haulcy me toooo 😞
The Lord ain't gonna help you
Help yourself and God will help you. That's what we say. I hope you will have enough strength to get through this.
Very true. Financial problems is the cause and a major trigger of my depression. However, when I do get money I tend to overspend because I overcompensate to "make myself happy".....and it seems like a vicious cycle. 😥
You might want to talk to a counselor about this
mate,thats quite common believe it or not,UNIVERSAL!
This is exactly my situation. Running in circles seems no way out.Thank you for this video.
BENN HENKO !!! YOU ARE NOT ALONE, I CARE AND WANT TO HELP YOU !!!!
Douglas, I enjoyed your video, very educated not only for people with depression but for someone like me that never knew anyone with depression or anxiety but now I'm trying to learn and be the best support to my DEAR FRIEND ....thank you.
I'm glad that you are becoming educated about mental health disorders and that you are reaching out to your friend.
Walking is one of the cheapest, easiest and best exercises in the world. (running too).
😭 When you don't have anywhere to go walking
I used to do that and it was so much fun. But I am being stalked and the nastiest people turned up to seriously harass me when I was walking.
I am coping and have actually a nice at home exercise program that I really do enjoy.
Another issue to throw in to the works is that work can actually induce anxiety/depression
I held down a good paying job for almost 6 years but my mental health was declining from that.
Yes, I know what you mean. Workplaces are often huge pits of a whole bunch of narcissistic people that like to harass others and sabotage others. I know this is not good for my mental health. But not having a comfy home would also not be good for my mental health.
Financial freedrom is the answer
😢it is an incredible challenge... In same mode, health n financial bust.
Doing what i can and hoping and praying for best gor us all in this situation. 💖🙏✨✨
I feel like everything has its place in life. Even depression and anxiety, even though this may sound like I’m not serious about this serious topic. I am, as I’ve gone through it myself and watched a family member of mine losing the battle. I am very thankful for videos like this. What I mean by everything has its place is that if you be with it, push through it and accept your darkest shadows as they are and over time allow them to leave (the depression etc.), you’ll come out a strengthened and also deeper person I think. For me going through that it showed me how sick our society is somehow. People who are depressed often can’t flee into the materialistic and nihilistic paradigm which western society is made of (like buying stuff and consuming things to make the emptyness go away). Instead they’re forced to look within and build up methods for being with oneself while most of the people don’t do that cause they can easily distract themselves with materialism. That doesn’t mean at all that these other people are somehow lower people or something like that. What I am trying to say is that, to me, depression can be a purification process where you lose the bs in life to focus on things that are meaningful. At least that’s my standpoint.
I feel trapped . I have worked hard to heal from severe childhood neglect. I was thrown to fend for myself similar to an orphan at a very young age when I did not had any survival skills. The terror of having to walk to kindergarten by myself, feels like the same terror I feel to have to “go out there “ and find a job.
I do have many skills that I can bring to an employer, but my confusion takes over. I feel paralyzed and I have isolated myself bc throughout my life I have attached only to toxic people that have harmed me and taken advantage of my generosity and lack of boundaries. I have not only had to survive my own CPTSD from severe child neglect, but from toxic relationships with people with cluster B personality disorders. I finally arrived at a place where was able to find my way out of a partnership with a man who is a sociopath , while at the same time I cut out of my life a controlling friend with BPD and about two other full blown narcissist.
I am saying this to say that I have arrived at a place where I am alone with 11 year old boy and having been without a job for many years , I don’t know how to get back out there and manage not neglecting him. The more I torture myself with the thought of “ I need a job” the more I feel like a failure. Specially because everyone around me seems to be making so much money post pandemic. I don’t know who to ask for help which makes me continue feeling depress and inadequate for not having the financial security one “ should have” at this stage of my life. And although a part of me knows that I can be very efficient, another part of me doesn’t have a good internal image and that push/ motivation I need to write a resume, send it out , interview, etc. It feels like a vicious cicle and it is very heart crushing.
Do you have a counselor or therapist you can see? I think you can make progress with the right kind of support.
You have a thorough understanding of the complex interrelationships between all the factors that cause or are an outcome of depression and anxiety mental health breakdown💎🍀
Thank you Douglas. You seem like a kind man.
You are welcome. My cat Bruce is ver kind, too. I made some videos about him.
I've spent my entire life chasing extremely small amounts of money. I'm talking R1000 a month and often less. Every job I've done feels futile and meaningless. Even my friends jobs seam meaningless yet they get payed probably 100 times or greater than I xD. I find it hilarious how money driven the entirety of the world is. Here i am hating the very concept of money to the point where money bodes zero flattery. I have really intense anxiety as well as depression of which both i have accepted after many interesting journeys. But what does one do when motivation reaches null. I just can't accept another arbitrary occupation that just might lock my lifestyle down. Another underpaying job where the money disgusts me and the job itself has no metaphysical rewards. I'm often faced with a decision, focus on what makes me happy or focus on maximizing my income :/ Yeah i'm one of those people that will throw up on your shoes if they're too shiny.
I agree that it is difficult to work at meaningless jobs. I am sad that money disgusts you. Money is just a medium of exchange. It is neither good nor bad in itself; it is how it is used that makes the difference. Money can be used to accomplish good.
I feel the same way, just accept that you're a peasant and have it better than millions of people before you and millions of people today. I hate comparing myself to others but do remind yourself there ARE millions who would kill to be in your shoes. Our first world lifestyle has destroyed our humility. Don't watch television or listen to music that promotes material wealth, it just F's up your head.
Even though your story has been posted for nearly a year, it really stands out. Sounds to me like someone might be looking for you, and if so, this is what He has to say: " ....I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly."
John 10:10b
@@DouglasBloch if we all went back to the barter system we wouldn't have the need for money, the horse and buggy days we much more simple and happier!
OMG, I know what you mean. To have a meaningful job one day would be awesome. I work in one place where the work is pleasant but the people are turning out to be such backstabbers.
When I draw SSC I may explore more meaningful jobs and certainly work more in my beautiful business out in nature: ah peace, well most of the time.
This information was very helpful. Thank you!
You are welcome
I clicked like once i saw the title . So realistic
Thank you Douglas. Very good advice, especially for people who are new to this. I'm hanging in and practicing gratitude for what I do have. Also finding support groups. Medicare and Medicaid are invaluable. And for those of retirement age, Social Security generally pays more than SSDI or SSI, particularly if you do have a work history when you were healthy. My agoraphobia is improving and my cat is still my best friend! Your book and videos are awesome. Thank you.
Frank, it is good to hear from you. I am glad that you are doing a bit better and that you are looking for potential support. Keep up the good work.
can't wait for SSC, it will lead me away from some very nasty people and I will be able to spend less time in an abusive workplace. My other workplace also has abusive people though.
A little bit of advice today, a little bit of advice tomorrow I do look forward to your program each day. Thank you very much.
Kindest regards from Loutraki Greece
You're more than welcome.
I don't have a problem been alone. But when comes to lack of money for the basics, I get into the desire not to live anymore and I pray to die. It''s pathetic to live like that.
I have been in that situation before, I was harassed out of jobs because I reported harassment at work. There was one time when I had just lost that job I was crying because I did not know how to survive and was worried I would not get another job in time.
Aside from lying about the whole case that led me to turn in a stalker at work, those same people set stories into the world that described a completely different scenario that made me look like a person with seemingly pathetic problems and they just turned it into a huge nasty lying story.
I just feel better if I am sleeping.
Glad I found this video today, struggling and this helped a lot. Thanks Douglas. 💜
Thanks Pamela. It’s always good to hear from you
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I have severe anxiety and depression which includes stress i always need to spend a lot of money to relieve all the stress and anxiety that has bubbled up inside of me. Its hard for me to cope and resolve my problem as i get very panicy if i dont have any money left for the things that i do need except for crap that i usually buy..... I need help.....
You might try seeing a financial counselor who can help you to budget your money and spend it only on essentials.
Douglas Bloch i will thank you☺
I had acute anxiety and depression growing up friend....know just how you feel. Counseling is very important but so is the answer. Please know that. I found my answer from the giver of life; and this is what He had to say: “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Matt 11:28. It works friend. I'm living proof.
You speak for me, thank you Douglas x
Always good to hear from you. Have you been on any of my live chats?
Douglas, I've already left multiple comments now on your other video as you know but here's another one...lol.
Yes, pretty much what you say in this video is it except for me, I've never not gone to work because of depression but rather the pitifully low pay is what depressed me. I never liked let alone loved any of my jobs but if it paid a lot better, then whether I enjoy it or not is only secondarily important. I don't subscribe to the whole idea of "do what you love and you'll never work s day in your life" nonsense. If it doesn't pay enough so that you can live comfortably , you're not gonna love it for long. I'd rather make 100K plus a year doing something that I may not like (but not absolutely hate) than make $10-15 an hour doing what I might really love (novelist or painting if I was any good at it) and then use the money and time outside of work to enjoy life in a variety of ways. I see work as only a means to an end and the majority of the population do not have the luxury of having a job they love and making good or sufficient money on top of it. Which is why I try but have little sympathy for those who say they make a lot of money but they are not happy with their job. I'm tempted to say to them , "well , would you like my job that I know you won't like and you'll only make $11 an hour for it?" Didn't think so. As the saying goes , I'd rather be rich and miserable than poor and miserable . I firmly believe that there is a large segment of people who become or are depressed because of not enough money and resources and the ramifications because of it but nearly all literature almost solely focuses on someone who is chemically depressed who might otherwise be content and productive members of society and little to no attention to those depressed by circumstances alone such as myself. I think I may have a slight propensity to being naturally anxious and depressed but just slight . I know the difference in the way I feel when I'm able to make my rent and my very basic expenses for the month vs months where my rent is late and starving. In fact I'm going through that this month and it takes all my mental wherewithal to not break down in tears. Thank you for your videos , they are encouraging.
Another thoughtful comment. It is true that money can't buy happiness, but when you can't meet your basic survival needs, things are a lot worse. Perhaps you can learn some kind of "trade" that pays better than a survival job.
Thanks Douglas
Money and mental health can go hand in hand. I can't keep a job due to hospitalations
and depression/anxiety
Very useful vedio. Thanks Douglas
Well spoken Douglas 💜🐈 so true x
Hope to see you in a future live chat
I worked VERY hard my entire life. After 30 years working as a professional in my field, my career was taken from me, therefore my ability to earn a living. I lost my husband, mom and dad at the same time and helped all of them as they died. During that time, I did not reach out to people and they didn't reach out to me. Life got worse...and worse and worse. I want to die and tried to kill myself recently. I can't take anymore.
Dear Elisabeth, im here because of the same situation. 30 years of hard work... 30 years of struggle. Living in Croatia is everyday struggle: fight to find a job, fight to keep it, fight to stay sane. And am a professor... Life is so expencive, due to Covid situation is even worst. Im so carefull with money but....
I stubled upon this video to save my sanity. I want to live, but today is my day d. Tomorrow is a new day: plan for surviving this finantial horor.
So, stay with me even you dont know me. Fight! Endure!
Think about those who suffer now: floods, wildfires... If they can, we can too.
You are not alone!
I'm sorry that you have gone through so much trouble. But I do believe that life can renew itself. Have you tried reaching out to a counselor or therapist who can help you to process your losses? Here is a page from my website called Reasons to Stay Alive. Perhaps something here will resonate with you. www.overcomingsuicidalpain.com/home/reasons-to-stay-alive/
Also, if you're up to prayer you can try calling a wonderful prayer ministry called Silent Unity at 1-816-969-2000. If you call them up they will put your name in the prayer chapel for 30 days. I've sent many people there who are undergoing much suffering, and calling Silent Unity seemed to help.
@@sanjastojanovic3146 thank you. I'm cryijng. Thank you. Let's try and do this together?
@@DouglasBloch thank you. I'll call. Thank you. Thank you for your service to others.
Thank you. Let me know how it goes with the call to the prayer line. You can also email me if you wish. douglasbloch@gmail.com
I was in the hospital twice last year. Now I’m dealing with major bills. It’s all I can think about. And it’s making me suicidal
😢it is an incredible challenge... In same mode, health n financial bust.
Doing what i can and hoping and praying for best gor us all in this situation. 💖🙏✨✨
I’m currently living with this and have been for 8 years now ..
Same here. Suicidal thoughts are only thing in my head
@@dilyan-2904 feel u i can't even bring it to do it and that makes me even more depressed its like theres no way out its so easy saying "just go out of your comfort zone and hustle etc.."
Excellent video
Thank you.
wish I could afford all sorts of treatments like TMS, ECT, therapy...the job interview on Monday didn't really go well but I was finally able to book an appointment with a psychiatrist. I'm visiting the clinic tomorrow to discuss medication.
I hope you and the doctor come up with a good medication to try.
Douglas Bloch the doctor prescribed me 2 different benzos instead of antidepressants. one is Alprazolam 0.4 mg before bed and the other is Bromazepam 2mg when needed (I don't think I suffer from anxiety). He said I shouldn't experience any side effects and didn't say anything about the withdraw symptoms. I felt the doctor wasn't right fit for me as he didn't really care what I explained during the session so didn't feel like taking them. and I did research into them, watched Noahs videos, comments and now I really don't feel like I can trust this doctor. the last time I went to a mental clinic in Japan was 2005 in my hometown. After 12 years, although this time I'm in a different city, nothing has changed for the better. I have no experience with big hospitals (I need a referral )but it disappointed me. I guess at least I can say I tried.
Don't give up. Try locating a different doctor. Get a referral from your primary care physician. Use the Internet to search for mental health professionals in your area. And go to a local mental health clinic or hospital and ask for referrals.
Excellent piece Douglas. I have gone and am going through all the things you talk about, including successfully obtaining Social Security benefits. I've dealt with major depression and anxiety since 1992, so I've been at this for a while. This video is invaluable for people that are new to major depression and anxiety, as well as for those who have been dealing with these illnesses for a while. Keep up the good work.
Thank you Joe. Pass this video on to those you know who are struggling with a mood disorder and financial problems.
Will do Douglas.
great videos Doug.... who needs self help books with your videos! lol
Thank yoU. 😊
Wow, $1000 for depression meds? That's just cruel, exploiting mental health issues like that. Way I see it, if you can afford it, you probably don't need it, and vise versa.
It's all about money.
oh wow. I pay 4$ for mine. but my insurance is jacked up 👎
I agree, it is so tough to plow through PTSD, depression, and anxiety. To hear that patients should pay that much money for meds makes me sad. Most people with PTSD have trouble even to survive and to have to carry such a burden, wow. It is tough enough to keep all financial matters straight when having PTSD. That is a huge challenge.
I have anxiety and depression because of my financial problems. I am disabled and can't afford to live. Once my dad dies I will be homeless. As a result I suffer from suicidal ideation. I am 53. Social security pays me 1400 a month and its not enough for food, rent, car insurance, utilities, etc.
Thankyou. I've been trying to listen to meditation/hypnosis for anxiety on UA-cam, trying to reduce my anxiety in order to deal with what I have to deal with. But the audio always comes to "keep calm, your problems aren't real". Unfortunately my bills are very real, pretending they aren't won't help. Grim is good, I need a grim treatment. Soothing meditations just makes the procastination worse. My anxiety won't go away until my real problems are at least at an acceptable level. So I have come to the conclusion that I need to turn my anxiety into a force instead of a blocking fear. Does anyone know how to do that?
Did the ECT help you? Is it something you would recommend?
ECT did help me, as well as a number of my clients. So yes, I would recommend it. Here is a video I made on ECT. ua-cam.com/video/cG90sVDsuR4/v-deo.html
Thanks :)
You're welcome.
I'm just angry about money.
I do not really like money. I hate greed and I hate watching people go googoogaga all over money and profits. Money is what I need for a comfy life, but I do not like consumerism or capitalism. People who only think about money I want nothing to do with.
The question for me is why should I go bust my gut for pennies, when some 10 yr old just made more money than I will ever see in 1 yr. So tell me the point?
Well, work and sometimes have other benefits besides just money such as having a place to go and connecting with other people. But it is very difficult when you have a low wage.
Thanks
I'm a diabetic, almost broke with huge debt, my sons in university need money every months.. these really make me anxiety and depression..
I understand. Perhaps you can find a financial counselor.
Guy in the bank once said it's gotta be about money n the sad thing thing is every1 in their misfortune circumstances responds diffrently to financial freedrom n tat can be hard idk how to figure this one out
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Just a note: On SSD (SSDI), you don't get on Medicare until you've been on it for two years.
Thank you for the update
I learned that I'm pretty much fucked....I don't have money and I certainly can't afford any type of treatment.
In Portland there is either a low-cost or no cost counseling. We also have the Oregon Health Plan has free insurance. Do you have anything like that in your area.
I basically learned that I’m fucked.. and there is no hope for me. So thanks for that.
There is always hope if a person reaches out for support.
@@DouglasBloch I have. I’ve taken medication. Seeked therapy. I’m just tired of trying anymore. Nothing helps. I have medical conditions and I can’t afford any of the medications. I’m seeking temporary copay relief but it’s temporary. I recently lost my job can’t find work.and I have insurance but who knows how much longer.
@@jeffreydavis2578 i hear you mate,im in a similar boat...i dont get it.HI 5 from New Zealand anyway...one step at a time is the most realistic way to look at it i guess
@@nahzewilliams5912 Thanks man. I want to be clear, I’m not giving up, or giving up anytime soon.. But yah I’ve always hated my life for as long as I can remember.. If I can’t figure out how to radically change my perspective on life . I’ll probably just become another statistic...
Three essential life skills I think emotional intelligence serenity and meditation
My problem is that I got $155 for my birthday and a couple hours today I thought about the money. Like I don’t even want the money and I’m scared because usually that’s not normal from me not wanting money. And whenever I like at money, pretty much my anxiety level kind of go up. I keep thinking that I had so much money I didn’t know what to do with it. A couple of days ago I thought about saving up my money, but I don’t really want the money, also I’m only 11. I just feel so scared I don’t know why even when I think about things that cost money sometimes.
You’re awfully young to worry about money. That’s what grown-ups do. If you’re having anxiety, you might want to talk to your parents for a counselor
Ur a small child,
How would this work: those without a lot of money can "rent" a room in a friend's home, not with money but with housework? That will provide some sort of community and something to do.
Think that this is a very good idea. Let me know when you meet someone who has tried it out.
I’ve tried this a few times and “friends” eventually screw you over as well when it comes to money they aren’t getting.
i believe nature can get u a profound answer when u are stressed so tats why im spreading the word so every1 can see ahead of time
Yeah I can not seem to make enough money to pay my bills. I get a job I like and my boss treats me like shit. Why do bosses like my work but treat me like a door mat. Now I am giving up.
Here is a video that talks about not giving up.
ua-cam.com/video/FEche0QQB9M/v-deo.html
Good video
Thank you
How long does ECT treatment last?
Usually 9 to 12 sessions. Talk to your doctor about it
I'm actually really good with money but I don't really care about my job. I'm just skating by.
Here's another clever method I devised about budgeting just take your.monthly income divided by the total number of 4 weeks in a month then divide each 1 week by 7 days n each day will give u the amount u can spent
ive been having this for years, they wont give me jobs, usually fail when studying. I feel kinda stuck
Have you reached out to a mental health professional?
@@DouglasBloch Thanks for the response. I have not. Ive been thinking about it but my economi is rough right now. I will as soon as possible when i got a balanced economi again, i hope it Will help me
mutual aid! living in shared housing with other people is a great solution. sure, it presents its own struggles. but it has many benefits.... company during the days, the tasks of cleaning, cooking etc are not your own responsibility, cuts down the housing costs. and relational systems of care and mutual aid outside of capitalist paid only relations like with therapists are much more rewarding, I'm my experience. especially if ppl. share some of the experiences.
My nephew who is 31 lives in a house with the people for the same reasons
traveling n nature traveling can help cope without excessive luxuries.
The root is how much money u need to be happy tat can save u from the sick society inducing hazards tat r so prevelant
i read this once in a book by a pediatrician if you can find a smart way to pay your bills and live simple like tat tats enough.
Low income people can get Medicaid in many states. That may change soon, though, with the budget cuts.
Yes, Medicaid is very helpful. Hopefully, the Senate will eliminate the Medicaid cuts in the proposed budget.
Does money anxiety causes money deficiency?
Not necessarily, unless the anxiety keeps you from working
Actually, I'm female and my name is not Frank, it's Frann. Lol.
Of course I know you are Frann. I am tired after a long day, and I made one of my many typos. I'm glad that you found it funny.
I'm looking for under the table income and having no success. Can't get a p.t job with disability cause I have 1099 that need to be filed and don't have any cash. Any pointers Dr Bloch. I'm trying to recover I'd like to make an extra 150 a week. Also to help my mother. Thanks
What kind of disability you have?
what if it is the socio-economy itself that is causing your anxiety and depression, either directly or indirectly?
and engaging with it causes you to be more anxious/depressed, because finding a job you like is more due to luck than employment laws (Labour, take note please). This is due to different circumstances in every job, which sort of stands to reason. Why don't politicians talk about this more? Standardisation is, imvho, extremely difficult to achieve.
Indeed, should we even be aiming for standardisation in the first place?
Here is a vide I made on the subject.
Am really struggling with little money and not helping my depression plus i don't work on benefits i live in uk.
I hope there is some financial support in the UK.
it's a vicious cycle that's difficult to stop and get off
What I hate is when a lapse appears and I am totally unaware of it. Today I had such a lapse that caused me to almost make a financial mistake. But I recouped and inside I shake my head how easily PTSD causes such lapses. It totally amazes me, boom and PTSD is there causing you to make mistakes. And then I notice when I write I use words that describe the opposite of what I feel. That is by far the weirdest thing ever. That is when I really know my PTSD is there.
I will just sleep. It's all about money and drugs. I refuse to take drugs. I will just sleep.
Sometimes medication can be helpful
@@DouglasBloch for some people. I don't want all the medication.
Doctor office -money and drug's
Add all this on top of being a full time college student in engineering. I’m hanging on by a string
Take it a day at a time. Maybe you can find some free financial counseling at your college
Hang in there. It feels amazing to know you've passed your last exam despite everything.
ironically cant afford dinner but she can pay the psychiatrist $100 an hour? how can they give advice about being broke and seeing a bright future when theres has great wealth possibilities and most of ours are quite the opposite.
I've been dealing with anxiety and depression for a long time! Not fun😓
Keep persevering and reaching out for help.
And some health insurances still don't include mental health services
Developed nations still have systems, organisations in place.
In poorer nations, the struggle is even more. The need to cling onto the job requires extra mental effort. And what's disability benefits in India? You don't get a dime.
Sorry to hear that.
this world is cruel...why cant it all be equal for ALL..Love from New Zealand!
so we are talking about consequences of capitalism and wealth inequality and funny enough that is not even said once. We are suffering of capitalism; depression anxiety and lack of money are just consequences.
:( I suffer now I don't know how to get out... I have more dept 😢😢
I recommend that you call up a Mental Health counselor in your area and talk with him or her
Dep needs money and money creates dep
For yesrs job problem and money
Every word is true
can u help me with my financial problem,.. 😓😓😓😔 im so tired ..
There are financial counselors around that you can consult with.
@@DouglasBloch but the problem is money sir,. can u lend me?
im sorry for asking help,. i cant ask help fron people around me.😓😓😓
I feel so heavy since aug last year now im feeling im goingo breakdown thinking about ending my life. Reason is its massively fall down of our family business no money to pay bills plus lots of debts
Hold on. Things get better. This is a temporary condition you’re going through. Here is an article on a website I created for overcoming suicidal pain. I think it will be helpful to you.
www.overcomingsuicidalpain.com/hope/
@@DouglasBloch thank u sir. I really feel bad everyday in just a snap business fall down bigtime . Im trying to continue the business but each day always negative in the sales. Btw im selling fresh pork and chicken in the public market. God please take me to end this suffering just tell the people that i loved that in sorry just include may dogs pls take care of them
Do you have a therapist or a counselor you can reach out to
@@DouglasBloch no sir , i dont have money anymore lots of debts and bills to pay
I always want to tell people going through this to not get pushed to that point. I was in a miserable financial situation, almost killed off by a stalker and a vicious ex husband. Don't know how I survived that, but I wanted to end it all too.
If I can help just one person: there are days with extreme lows and on those days we think about doing things that are final but later on we find solutions.
Some jobs you can't take depression meds.
Why is it so hard to make money?
Its like you can’t breath anymore puts people on medication too save themselves
so if depression can be remession d for long or if meds works then why they apply for disability! and its not right to charge 300 dollars per ketamine
Some people don’t have a mission and they don’t get better with meds so disability is an option. You’re right about the price of ketamine
@@DouglasBloch thanks can you make video why and how to live as depressed person what to do more in life style
Severe mental health problems and poverty is Douglas a frightful combination. It's not nice to say but it can be a death sentence at worst.
I understand. I've been there. I wish you luck in improving your financial condition
There is also another problem if it helps...
America is not the only country in the world...
There are people that live in poor countries with poor health care system and will probably never see a psychologist in their lives
Good point
No money for the gym, tell those clients to not bullshit themselves like that, I've been homeless for long time, im just coming back from my daily workout, if you want to exercise there's no excuse, go to the ground and push-up yourself, run, jump, lift rocks...
For I, the Lord your God hold your right hand. It is I who say to you "Do not fear, I will help you" Isaiah 41:13
Sooooo, as a person with severe agitated depression and financial problems, the advice I'm hearing sounds like this, "Find a way out of shithole America or you're completely fucked". I knew that already. This fucking country's bullshit is the leading cause of my depression and financial problems.
I have never understood how they can call America a free country. The truth is so different.
Unless illegal immigrant 🤯
I don't want to die I need help
There is help. Have you reached out to for Mental Health Professional in your area?
@@DouglasBloch No not yet I don't have time im trying no to become homeless😢
I hope you're ok
Exercise doesn't help me
Go to gyms tat are 25 dollars a month very cheap.
Or just exercise using your body weight making personal exercise choice n how u want to look n feel good tat are realistic.
So what if you have money problems, and you live in the worst mental health state in America?
That certainly can be a real problem. Here in Oregon we are lucky because we have the Oregon Health Plan which provides health insurance for those who are not covered by private plans. We also have low-cost mental health clinics that charge as low as $15. Maybe you can look for something similar in your area.
I have. I have been to many of the places around here. They do not have any way for us to afford insurance. Just lots of reduced clinics filled with under paid people who are overwhelmed. They could not diagnose me properly.
@@DouglasBloch I dont have any extra money after rent and bills. And they tried to put me on so much medicine that it was ridiculous. Literally 8 pills to treat depression. And they didn't even give me a proper diagnosis.
Did you ever learn about your diagnosis?
@@DouglasBloch I could afford to go to a decent therapist for 4 sessions before they stopped taking the sliding scale and bumped up their rates. They gave me a diagnosis of major depressive disorder and generalized anxiety disorder. But I display a lot of symptoms of being bipolar, when attending another expensive but good counselor. especially after the manic episode incident, she felt they had diagnosed me wrong, but she was a counselor and could not actually give me a diagnosis. The first people are the people that gave me lexipro without a mood stabilizer.
Discussing on how to pay for medication to go to work to have insurance to pay for medication seems so medieval.
I could not agree more. In the United States at least we have to have better healthcare coverage
Douglas Bloch mental health is rarely protected. Even public health systems in Canada rarely support mental health unless it poses a clear and immediate danger in a crisis.
That's why we have to do the best we can take care of ourselves
this guy wont solve ur problem
3 years of lawyers to get on disability if you get it at all.
I hope you got on.
@@DouglasBloch oh sorry, i should be more specific. I'm talking about my friends. I do work. I'm kind of a mess mentally but I manage to compartmentalize and get it done. I have a lot of responsibilities.
Don't feel judgement if you get benefits.
@@kevinrichardson6686 I don't, but I have friends that do (finally) get disability. They went through hell to get it. One of them still has difficulty affording medications and sometimes I buy them for her when there is a shortfall. I understand there has to be some barrier to entry to prevent scammers, but it's way too difficult for legitimately disabled people to get help and often what they get is woefully inadequate. I hate to think what would happen to me if I lost my vision for example. The American safety net is barely there anymore.