A ps5? I have no kids and I'd have to save up for months to get it.. How on earth can humans just have kids and treat them this way. How are the authorities doing nothing?
@@pa4o93ir49it is actually, it’s neglect also these parents are having their room in luxary while these kids sleep near the front door on a foam matt on the floor, what if someone breaks in??
It's not like it's love either, it's very neglectful. Especially if you have to decide between buying a gaming console over having enough to buy the things your kids need or want. Or enough to have the living space for all of your kids. They didn't even give them beds. Just the topper that you put on top of the bed. The dad won't even get a job and is still expecting another kid. Abuse is not just hitting kids!
My mom was a single mother of three, and she always struggled to give us what we needed. I can't hold it over her head that she couldn't give us the same luxuries other kids around me had. What I can hold over her head is that she would regularly go out on Saturdays to go dancing or gambling at Casinos and spend a good chunk of change on alcohol every week.
This is child abuse and animal abuse. They are both so selfish. They want to add more kids to their family, but they can’t even afford to get a bigger house and basic necessities to have these kids have a good childhood.
Fr being poor and having kids doesn’t mean the parent is bad BUT trying to have more kids and the dad having ps5 and stuff instead of focusing their time and money for their already existing kids is extremely abusive WHY ISN’T CPS DOING ANYTHING THEY ARE RECORDING THEIR CRIMES ON THE INTERNET
8:00 if she's pregnant she shouldn't be handling the cats' litter because the bacteria can harm the baby... basically the first things taught in my high school child development class
8:00 if she's pregnant she shouldn't be handling the cats' litter because the bacteria can harm the baby… basically the first things taught in my high school child development class
I’m internally screaming PREGNANT AND CATS?!? They live in a tiny space and she does all of the cleaning. Ain’t no way she’s not handling the litter. I had to read the comments to see if anyone else mentioned it because it triggered me. Lmao.
I dont understand how there are parents out there that are okay with letting their children live in situations like this. I am 5 months pregnant and not in the best situation, however I spend every waking moment trying to get my life together to ensure that my baby has the BEST life she can. I fixed my car, gotten out of debt ( mostly lol ) and now im on track to getting into a 3 bedroom house where my baby will have her own room. A year ago, not even, 6 months ago I was homeless, my car was completely illegal, and I was swamped in debt. Honestly if i hadnt gotten pregnant, id probably still be in that position. But because I now have a life other than my own to support, I had no option other than figure it out. It baffles me how other people can have so many kids and not constantly be fighting to give them a better life.
I HATE people like this. These children deserve so much better! Parents who give their children the bare minimum while keeping anything 'luxury' for themselves, while simultaneously saying that they need assistance for their children when in reality, all they want is for people to buy them the things they need, instead of doing what's required to take care of their own children, are inexcusable scum and never should've been parents in the first place. It doesn't matter if it's "Online rage bait" it's still detrimental to the kids! When those kids grow up and realize that the way they did wasn't normal, and that their parents didn't do as much as they could've- NOT because they didn't have the ability to, but because they didn't care enough to? SO many issues are going to sprout as a result of it. I sincerely hope that those parents realize that and change before it's too late. And that their children will be able to move past it all in a healthy manner when they're grown. FFS i really hope the children remain as unscathed as possible
For real, if most other families were like this they'd give the Kids their own space & have the parents staying on the coaches. The bedroom they have could fit all 4 kids with bunks easily. Also man's gotta get a real job so they can afford at least a 2 bedroom place if not 3 cause if another baby on the way I don't think 7 people could realistically share a 1-2 bed place
Seeing these people have kids they can't even properly care for when my parents had to jump through every hoop in the book just to adopt me makes me furious, they would have adopted a second but they said they were just so happy to have a child in general that they didn't want to take that adoption joy from anyone else and I respect the heck out of them for it. All children deserve parents but not all parents deserve kids
Andrew admitting to being ~$6K behind on child support (at least) + only paying through garnishments on his side gig job. He doesn't want a real job because he'd have to catch up on those arrears. I hope that CPS & the child support reps see all of this.
Idk if it’s different for each state, I assume it is, but here in Minnesota if the parent that pays child support stops paying it they take your license away, they’ll throw a warrant on you and take you to jail, they will hold you accountable! You would think a parent would want to pay for their child though..
@@CloudSociety420Oklahoma does the same thing. They also garnish tax returns and inheritance. A guy that I worked with years ago didn’t have a license and couldn’t get it back until he was caught up on payments.
@@shirashiraonthewall I love your dedication to find information I love watching your videos because you put actual information instead of leaving me halfway in the dark
@@shirashiraonthewall I’m sure lots of people care they just don’t show their appreciation or forget sometimes people need to be told to realize how good it was
@@shirashiraonthewall as stinky as those unburied poops are, that means that the cat feels safe enough in your home to not have to bury it from predators. So it's technically a good thing even though it does not smell like a good thing 🤣
As someone who has 7 siblings I can say that this family is so weird when I was a kid we had an actual house and we had a bunk beds and all of are basic needs this family should be saving up for a bigger house for their family and to getting real job my mom is also stay at home mom my parents would have never had that much kids if they knew that they couldn't afford it this family should not be having that much kids.
Man, seeing the way they make their kids live is so saddening, especially when they could be doing so much more. Instead they have things like a PS5, don't work, and allow their living conditions to be unsanitary with all the clutter, moldy clothes, and smelly cat boxes. And they want MORE kids? I seriously hope someone has called cps, I know what its like to live in a chaotic, unstable, messy environment, I unfortunately had a similar childhood.
These are HORRIBLE conditions to have your kids in, I get living is expensive but. THERE IS ELEVEN LIVING BEINGS in a ONE bedroom apartment, that is too small. However how bad they are DOES NOT EXCUSE doxing them. But I feel really bad for the kids in the situation they're in, I also really love cats and that is not a proper environment. Like dogs, CATS NEED PROPER SPACE TO ROAM AND EXPLORE. But I'm done yapping, stay safe! Thank you!
That's just insane. My family was stuck in a tiny, 2-bedroom apartment for six years. We had our 5-year-old and 3-year-old in one bedroom, and our 4-year-old and 1-year-old in the other bedroom. Mom and Dad slept on a mattress on the living room floor, that we put up against the wall in the bigger bedroom during the daytime. We did everything we could to better our situation, and before our oldest turned 12, we had bought a 6-bedroom HOUSE in a cheaper state, so all the kids could have their own rooms before they hit those teen years. These "parents" are putting their own selfish desires ahead of their children's well-being. If they left Portland (we left Eugene) and moved to a cheaper area, their kids could actually have bedrooms. I'm not even gonna go into the fact that they both refuse to work. Someone has to be home with the kids, because daycare for 4-5 kids would cost WAY too much...but at least one of them could work, or they could BOTH work to support those kids if they worked different shifts. They are being incredibly selfish and lazy, and this woman wants to bring MORE kids into this situation?!?!? 😢 Bonus factor: the kids that shared rooms when they were littles...are best buddies with each other even now that they are older and all in separate rooms! With 4-5 kids all crammed into the same small space...I see a lot of fighting and animosity in their future, if they aren't there already!
Thank you for saying this because I was in a similar situation when I was younger. We once lived in a 2 bedroom apartment with 5 people living in it, and we converted a portion of the living room for a "room." We were all fed, had warm clothes on our back, shower necessities and for toys we had scooters and darts. Both hand me downs from 2nd hand shops. No car or vehicle so we caught the bus everywhere or walked.
The mum previously lived with her mum in a 3 bedroom, so a room each for the adults and the 2 kids she had then shared a room. She deliberately left that and moved in with him in a 1 bed with his kid. I cannot understand taking your kids out of a comfortable stable situation and into a worse one by choice, then adding more kids to the discomfort
Also, cats will go to the bathroom on the floor, walls, sheets and clothes if their litter box is too small or it isn't getting cleaned regularly! I clean my cat's two litter boxes 3 times a day! Our home does not smell like cat sh!t all the time. They are not cleaning those cat's litter box regularly!
16:57 -- yeah, no. There is no such thing as "amazing meals" in a place infested with lice and fleas. Nope. Food safety is a thing, and it's NOT a thing with BUGS and cat mess all over the place. They don't disappear just because "lookit! I made a quiche!" Hygiene and sanitation are part of being a good cook.
6:35 - Wait a second...so she has 2 kids, he had 1 kid, and they (almost) have 2 together. BUT he also has a child that he never sees, and refuses to pay child support for...is she counting THAT child in her total of 7 kids for this man? Or is that child just being left out entirely?
Honestly having kids shouldn't be a given for everyone anymore, there should be inspections in the living spaces where those kids will live, what those kids will eat, where/what the parents do for work/how much money is made, if the environment is safe in simple words. Someone my mom went to school with had 5 kids but neither did she or her husband have a job, and during this time my mom wasn't even married yet! Those 5 kids would go hungry often, have to go look for clothes on their own, pay for things that their parents should have payed for, but noooo that would be an infringement on their rights. My aunt had a kid that was about the same age as one of the kids, and the fact that CPS hadn't stepped in was mind-blowing, but this was the 90s-00s before my time so idk the exact criteria that would've had to have been met. I'm glad my mom waited and married someone at a decent age (33) but had me later (40 isn't perfect for having kids but whatever) and only had me.
I can't help but think this lady thought if she posted and acted greatful and positive about her situation that she would gets donations and it just completely backfired.
I grew up in poverty with my stepdad while my mom ran off as a drug addict and that man worked at night made sure our clothes were clean food was cooked and made sure we helped around the house to insure a clean living environment being poor is no excuse to be dirty ! If you have to give them kids some chores!! Sell that ps5 it's distracting his work ethic
16:14 with the detailing business My guy are you sure you can actually afford proper detailing supplies? I'm a mobile detailer, most basic service I do is a $25 touchless wash. Let me break down the cost of the tools and materials I need to achieve a quality touchless wash: Pressure washer: $350 Blow dryer: $200 Snow foam cannons: $100 each (I need 2) Wheel cleaner: $50 per 600ml bottle (It's not cheap at all) All Purpose Cleaner: $70 for 5L Car Snow Foam: $60 for 5L Spray Sealant: $50 for 1L All together: $980 Very rough breakdown and obviously you can spend much less and get similar results but does he even have at least $600 to get started? And does he even know how to properly detail a car? It's not as simple as just washing a car, and it can get extremely involved Jus saying, think this dad needs to start applying to proper JOBS
I knew someone like this - she didn't have kids, but she did guilt-trip people into buying food for her cats because she "couldn't afford to feed them", right before ordering her 5th takeaway coffee + doughnuts order of the week. She would tell people she had no money and take donations and amazon Wishlist purchases, but was simultaneously splashing cash on fancy energy drinks. These are honestly the worst kinds of people, they use people's generosity to their own advantage
my dad has 8 siblings and my mom has 6 siblings . my grandparents did a good decision of having my aunts and uncles and parents at a bit separate, like waiting for my oldest aunts/uncles to MOVE OUT and even my cousin is one year older than my mom. if you wanna have a big family , i suggest you have your kids at pretty separate times.😭
what the actual hell. my mom sewed all our costumes for halloween for years!! but i guess sewing is now a skill not many do. also, she had 4 kids, and she and my stepdad afforded a condo where only two siblings had to share a room apiece, then we got a house with our own rooms. this is beyond negligent and abusive.
If it was a temporary thing because of storm damaged their house or something like that i would understand, but it's like everybody has has to now down to him and even a bit her pisses me off so much!
@@Lisa.IlikefnafOk. oh yeah you're right, growing up everyone around me was well adjusted. Before social media, parents would only: - beat the crap out of their kids, - go on drunken stupors, - beat their spouse in front of em, - lose everything in gambling, - leave drugs and alcohol unattended, - go out in bars while the kids are left unattended, - chain smoke cigarettes in cars with the windows closed - send kids to shady summer camps - send kids to the catholic church - send kids to work - feed them canned food everyday - call them names - used tv & game consoles as nanies - left kids out at night - buy them guns, knives, fireworks - spend as less as possible on clothes and school supplies to pay for drugs or cigarettes - etc The list keeps going but you get the idea. If only social media never happened... we could go back to the good old days. Parents have lost their way now that they all want to be internet famous XD
The reason we don't require tests like that to have kids is because it would be very hard to enforce without forcibly sterilizing people before having the kids, which is eugenics
@@Lisa.IlikefnafOk.sorry to break it to you but bad parents have existed since the dawn of time, now they can just film themselves and make some money from it. It's nothing new, just more in view
as someone who has lived in a one bedroom as a family of 4 with animals (me and my brother shared the room and my parents took the living room) you make do but normally parents sacrifice luxuries for themselves so the kids can be comfy my parents slept on a futon for probably a year or two we now currently like in a 2bedroom with 3 cats (had 4 but we had to give our older cat to my grandma cuz he was getting beat up) 2 dogs and 3 rats me and my brother got the rooms and my parents are in the living room. to this day half my clothes are gifted or thrifted. if my parents can do that these parents can put two bunck beds in the bedroom so the kids have a space of there own its really not that hard
I have two cats. We have an actual house. Two kids. 4 bedrooms. Two cats seems like too many for me some days. We also had to pay literally just a tad over $5000 when one of our cats started just unexpectedly dying and needed bladder stones removed and a several night stay at an animal emergency hospital that we had no warning signs to prior. You shouldn’t have kids if you can’t afford them. You shouldn’t have animals if you can’t afford them. You damn sure shouldn’t rehome an animal that you can’t care for and turn around and get ANOTHER animal. So horrendously irresponsible
My only concern with these people(because this is 100% self inflicted) is the lack of noise…. I have 2 kids and they are so loud… where does she records the voice overs? Are those kids allowed to be themselves in a ONE bedroom apt?
As someone that lives in 1 room with my boyfriend and baby, I clean everyday. By the end of said day it’s destroyed again. Our daughter just has so much stuff and toys that they end up every where by the end of the day. But it looks NOTHING like their house does 🥴 everything has its place the clothes all get folded after laundry and we have a hamper. I do laundry once a week, but it never feels like it’s clean that’s fs 😩 it’s truly exhausting but it’s no excuse to not keep it as clean as humanly possible.
These people are the worst I knew someone who always wanted more babies they loved babies but did not like kids. They had several and every time they got older they lost interest leading to spoiled babies and neglected children. Yet they wonder why they’re kids won’t talk to them anymore
"We live in cramped, tiny living conditions with our already oversized family... LETS HAVE ANOTHER KID" Also I live in a house with five cats and a dog and yeah they're a handful. I can't imagine having them in such cramped conditions! If I lived in a 1 bed I'd have 2 cats maximum. I'm not surprised the litterbox stinks either she probably feeds them cheap, garbage cat food and they probably only have like 2 of them tops! You're meant to have one for each cat AND A SPARE, we have seven litterboxes in our house for our lot and they are scooped daily and cleaned out twice weekly. I can't imagine she's doing that. And then she adopts another one after getting rid of one because of medical issues! If you can't afford to take your cat to the vet, DON'T OWN ONE.
@@zammmerjammer Probably, I can't imagine how stressful that environment is for them. Probably messing outside of the box because it's overflowing as well.
This living situation sounds like hell on Earth. I had a deadbeat partner and that was hard enough WITHOUT KIDS. Don't know how the mom keeps it together but she needed a plan yesterday.
Laundry?! WHAT LAUNDRY?! SHE IS AT HOME! if she does not have a machine, then idk…WASH WITH HANDS? our washing machine broke 3 years ago and ever since then we wash once a week, with hands in warm water! And washing powder! What does she think people did before washing machines were invented?! I live in the east and compared to us, these still get not only a ton of support, but some luxury stuff as well! These are people begging for others to pay for something THEY caused for themselves, and nothing more, I’m just disgusted. I eat once a day bc we can barely afford food after the bills, but I still want to work or give something in return for the price of a coffee even! Not just beg with puppy eyes and roll brats out of myself ugh
I learned a lot in this video. I had know idea what "garnishment payments" and "w2 jobs" were. Family vloggers are in general weird but this family is especially weird. (I don't live in the USA)
13:54 It teaches your kids resilience and resourcefulness to not have their basic needs met?! Yeah, no, I call 'cap,' my dear. She's getting into absolute toxic positivity at this point, trying to point out the 'good parts' of having absolutely unmet needs as a child. I also very much wonder if Drew being gone 150 days in a row for 16 hrs a day means he's doing something she's not aware of, bc...where's the $?
This is sad because we had 10 kids and my parents even finished the unfinished basement to make 5 more rooms for us we were foster kids and still treated better room wise then these people bio kids its sad
My stove broke last year. It was November. I went to Rent one got a new stove. I just now paid it off. My kids have beds, cloths and shoes. I've been wearing the same cloths and shoes for 4yrs.
I live in an upper middle class family with a big house, and 7 cats is way too much to handle. No idea how they got through with that little space and so many mouths to feed. I wouldn’t mind adopting some of those cats, I love cats and my family has the money to take care of them
I find this particularly annoying because there are alot of people living in similar conditions to this who are legitimately just struggling to make ends meet in this economy and doing the best that they can and getting mowed down by abusive systems that keep them in poverty but people like this make those people look bad.
This is when CPS needs to step in. At this point they are poor because they want to be and she's become a baby mill. Any sane CPS worker would instantly remove those kids. Under certain circumstances no more than 2 or 3 kids in one room, boys and girls aren't allowed to share a room after about 8 years old due to puberty. As a former foster kid, I think the system is broken because those who truly need help out - like them - don't get the help needed. I pray for the best for those kids...
There has to be some huge dissonance going on here to like.... be so caring for your children, but literally not keeping them in a safe/healthy environment. Get those bugs outta here bae 😭😭 Get the Sims strats IN
The fact that they keep having more kids, and getting more cats, when they live in such a tiny apartment is wild to me. Me and my girlfriend are barely in our 20s (I'm 19, she's 20), and we are responsible enough not to get even ONE cat until we move out of our studio.
I became a mom when I was 16. I lived with my parents until I turned 18, during the time that I lived with my mom, my daughter, my cat, and I shared a bedroom + kitchenette & bathroom. My daughter had her own crib and it was pretty much her room and I just had a bed & dresser in it. When I moved out we did get a one bedroom apartment, it was what I could afford, she got the bedroom and I made the living room into my room. Now we live in a 3 bedroom apartment with my best friend, she has her own room , and so do me and my best friend. I never ever put myself over my daughter, her life and her privacy and her happiness come before mine ALWAYS.
If the channels were actually aimed at helping improve the lives of the children then it wouldn't be so bad, but almost invariably they are doing more harm to the children. Numerous stories emerging of children in social media families who no longer speak to their parents 🤷
if only the worst people in this world were also the most infertile ones so that very fewer children have to suffer of such incompetent and/or even cruel people as parents.
So wait....she got together with someone who dosent have a stable job, and her wanting to be a stay home mother?? Not to mention the kids conditions......I'm sorry to these kids really do
@@shirashiraonthewallyou could do early access. It doesn’t have to be much if you don’t charge much and those who want can support you. Not saying do this but ik someone who has the buck a month club and that is pretty much all they do and you can ask them questions. Granted it is a mechanical channel but still.
I can’t believe having the four cats right I have 3 cats but live with my Mum half the time & my dad half the time so two cats at my mums *big* house and 1 at my dads *big* house When I say big I Mean big to them considering how big their apartment is
I love you Also you look beautiful and i love your videos and i think someone needs to call cps this dangerous to let those poor kids leave like this i really hope something is done soon
My mom sold her engagement ring (after my parents divorced and she was broke) to buy my brother and I Christmas gifts one year. I didn’t know until I was grown.
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A ps5? I have no kids and I'd have to save up for months to get it.. How on earth can humans just have kids and treat them this way. How are the authorities doing nothing?
It isnt abuse
@@pa4o93ir49tfym of course it is
@@pa4o93ir49it is actually, it’s neglect also these parents are having their room in luxary while these kids sleep near the front door on a foam matt on the floor, what if someone breaks in??
It's not like it's love either, it's very neglectful. Especially if you have to decide between buying a gaming console over having enough to buy the things your kids need or want. Or enough to have the living space for all of your kids. They didn't even give them beds. Just the topper that you put on top of the bed. The dad won't even get a job and is still expecting another kid. Abuse is not just hitting kids!
I rather have a ps5 and multi pets than kids tbh
My mom was a single mother of three, and she always struggled to give us what we needed. I can't hold it over her head that she couldn't give us the same luxuries other kids around me had.
What I can hold over her head is that she would regularly go out on Saturdays to go dancing or gambling at Casinos and spend a good chunk of change on alcohol every week.
No. Ugh. That sucks so hard I’m so sorry
@shirashiraonthewall don't be. It all worked out in the end :)
This is child abuse and animal abuse. They are both so selfish. They want to add more kids to their family, but they can’t even afford to get a bigger house and basic necessities to have these kids have a good childhood.
Fr being poor and having kids doesn’t mean the parent is bad BUT trying to have more kids and the dad having ps5 and stuff instead of focusing their time and money for their already existing kids is extremely abusive WHY ISN’T CPS DOING ANYTHING THEY ARE RECORDING THEIR CRIMES ON THE INTERNET
8:00 if she's pregnant she shouldn't be handling the cats' litter because the bacteria can harm the baby... basically the first things taught in my high school child development class
8:00 if she's pregnant she shouldn't be handling the cats' litter because the bacteria can harm the baby… basically the first things taught in my high school child development class
Yep! I think the dad handles it most of the time atleast I hope he does lol
@@Theunicorn2012
Why tf you copying?….
I’m internally screaming PREGNANT AND CATS?!? They live in a tiny space and she does all of the cleaning. Ain’t no way she’s not handling the litter. I had to read the comments to see if anyone else mentioned it because it triggered me. Lmao.
I honestly think she has no business having cats or any other animals since she can't take care of them probably
I dont understand how there are parents out there that are okay with letting their children live in situations like this. I am 5 months pregnant and not in the best situation, however I spend every waking moment trying to get my life together to ensure that my baby has the BEST life she can. I fixed my car, gotten out of debt ( mostly lol ) and now im on track to getting into a 3 bedroom house where my baby will have her own room. A year ago, not even, 6 months ago I was homeless, my car was completely illegal, and I was swamped in debt. Honestly if i hadnt gotten pregnant, id probably still be in that position. But because I now have a life other than my own to support, I had no option other than figure it out. It baffles me how other people can have so many kids and not constantly be fighting to give them a better life.
Breeder
Wtf is wrong with you? Who are you calling a breeder?
@pa4o93ir49 who are you calling a breeder
Omg I’m so proud of you, I’m gonna cry 😭you’re an amazing person and will be an amazing mama
this!! really cheering for you, sounds like your doing awesome :)
I HATE people like this. These children deserve so much better!
Parents who give their children the bare minimum while keeping anything 'luxury' for themselves, while simultaneously saying that they need assistance for their children when in reality, all they want is for people to buy them the things they need, instead of doing what's required to take care of their own children, are inexcusable scum and never should've been parents in the first place. It doesn't matter if it's "Online rage bait" it's still detrimental to the kids!
When those kids grow up and realize that the way they did wasn't normal, and that their parents didn't do as much as they could've- NOT because they didn't have the ability to, but because they didn't care enough to? SO many issues are going to sprout as a result of it. I sincerely hope that those parents realize that and change before it's too late. And that their children will be able to move past it all in a healthy manner when they're grown. FFS i really hope the children remain as unscathed as possible
Oh please the kids are fine, there are children in worse situations than this
@@pa4o93ir49well of course there is worse but it is still bad I mean these kids need privacy
For real, if most other families were like this they'd give the Kids their own space & have the parents staying on the coaches. The bedroom they have could fit all 4 kids with bunks easily. Also man's gotta get a real job so they can afford at least a 2 bedroom place if not 3 cause if another baby on the way I don't think 7 people could realistically share a 1-2 bed place
anyone else hear that ominous bell tolling???? 🤣🤣🤣 no?? just me?????? 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Seeing these people have kids they can't even properly care for when my parents had to jump through every hoop in the book just to adopt me makes me furious, they would have adopted a second but they said they were just so happy to have a child in general that they didn't want to take that adoption joy from anyone else and I respect the heck out of them for it. All children deserve parents but not all parents deserve kids
Amen!
Andrew admitting to being ~$6K behind on child support (at least) + only paying through garnishments on his side gig job.
He doesn't want a real job because he'd have to catch up on those arrears. I hope that CPS & the child support reps see all of this.
Idk if it’s different for each state, I assume it is, but here in Minnesota if the parent that pays child support stops paying it they take your license away, they’ll throw a warrant on you and take you to jail, they will hold you accountable! You would think a parent would want to pay for their child though..
@@CloudSociety420Oklahoma does the same thing. They also garnish tax returns and inheritance. A guy that I worked with years ago didn’t have a license and couldn’t get it back until he was caught up on payments.
Do those parents know what feeling bad for children is?!
I saw a different video on them but you showed more information on them so props to you for showing me how much worse they are than I thought
LMAO I do my RESEARCH 🧐
@@shirashiraonthewall I love your dedication to find information I love watching your videos because you put actual information instead of leaving me halfway in the dark
YAY THANK U FOR APPRICIATING IT i feel like most people dont care but like i wanna do a good job
@@shirashiraonthewall I’m sure lots of people care they just don’t show their appreciation or forget sometimes people need to be told to realize how good it was
As someone with many cats, the only reason the litterbox smells is because there is poo in it...easy solution: clean the litterbox.
HAHHA! Okay sometimes my male cat takes the nastiest poops tho like AND HE DOESN’T BURY THEM like ?????
@@shirashiraonthewall as stinky as those unburied poops are, that means that the cat feels safe enough in your home to not have to bury it from predators. So it's technically a good thing even though it does not smell like a good thing 🤣
AW I DIDNT KNOW THAT OMG im gonna cry
@@shirashiraonthewall so next time you smell an absolutely rank and horribly stinky poo, just know that it means your cat loves you
@@Zoe_Lipman Damn all of my 7 cats feel comfortable af and love me, who would've known
As someone who has 7 siblings I can say that this family is so weird when I was a kid we had an actual house and we had a bunk beds and all of are basic needs this family should be saving up for a bigger house for their family and to getting real job my mom is also stay at home mom my parents would have never had that much kids if they knew that they couldn't afford it this family should not be having that much kids.
Man, seeing the way they make their kids live is so saddening, especially when they could be doing so much more. Instead they have things like a PS5, don't work, and allow their living conditions to be unsanitary with all the clutter, moldy clothes, and smelly cat boxes. And they want MORE kids? I seriously hope someone has called cps, I know what its like to live in a chaotic, unstable, messy environment, I unfortunately had a similar childhood.
Yeah plenty of ppl called CPS apparently but I doubt they will do anything :(
Same
Gentlemen, let Drew be an important lesson on what NOT to do as a father.
These are HORRIBLE conditions to have your kids in, I get living is expensive but. THERE IS ELEVEN LIVING BEINGS in a ONE bedroom apartment, that is too small. However how bad they are DOES NOT EXCUSE doxing them. But I feel really bad for the kids in the situation they're in, I also really love cats and that is not a proper environment. Like dogs, CATS NEED PROPER SPACE TO ROAM AND EXPLORE. But I'm done yapping, stay safe! Thank you!
Amen and agreed!
That's just insane. My family was stuck in a tiny, 2-bedroom apartment for six years. We had our 5-year-old and 3-year-old in one bedroom, and our 4-year-old and 1-year-old in the other bedroom. Mom and Dad slept on a mattress on the living room floor, that we put up against the wall in the bigger bedroom during the daytime. We did everything we could to better our situation, and before our oldest turned 12, we had bought a 6-bedroom HOUSE in a cheaper state, so all the kids could have their own rooms before they hit those teen years. These "parents" are putting their own selfish desires ahead of their children's well-being. If they left Portland (we left Eugene) and moved to a cheaper area, their kids could actually have bedrooms. I'm not even gonna go into the fact that they both refuse to work. Someone has to be home with the kids, because daycare for 4-5 kids would cost WAY too much...but at least one of them could work, or they could BOTH work to support those kids if they worked different shifts. They are being incredibly selfish and lazy, and this woman wants to bring MORE kids into this situation?!?!? 😢
Bonus factor: the kids that shared rooms when they were littles...are best buddies with each other even now that they are older and all in separate rooms!
With 4-5 kids all crammed into the same small space...I see a lot of fighting and animosity in their future, if they aren't there already!
Thank you for saying this because I was in a similar situation when I was younger. We once lived in a 2 bedroom apartment with 5 people living in it, and we converted a portion of the living room for a "room." We were all fed, had warm clothes on our back, shower necessities and for toys we had scooters and darts. Both hand me downs from 2nd hand shops. No car or vehicle so we caught the bus everywhere or walked.
The mum previously lived with her mum in a 3 bedroom, so a room each for the adults and the 2 kids she had then shared a room. She deliberately left that and moved in with him in a 1 bed with his kid. I cannot understand taking your kids out of a comfortable stable situation and into a worse one by choice, then adding more kids to the discomfort
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I see this as child neglect. Kids need their own space.
Also, cats will go to the bathroom on the floor, walls, sheets and clothes if their litter box is too small or it isn't getting cleaned regularly! I clean my cat's two litter boxes 3 times a day! Our home does not smell like cat sh!t all the time. They are not cleaning those cat's litter box regularly!
Definitely! They have only 2 litter boxes for 4 cats too which doesn’t seem like enough
18:00 THAT'S SO TRUE! my mom is a single mom and I can't believe how much our life have changed for the better since she divorced!!
SAME!
@Scarlett-p7n yay
16:57 -- yeah, no. There is no such thing as "amazing meals" in a place infested with lice and fleas.
Nope. Food safety is a thing, and it's NOT a thing with BUGS and cat mess all over the place. They don't disappear just because "lookit! I made a quiche!"
Hygiene and sanitation are part of being a good cook.
Yeah I didn’t think about that. I think I was hungry making the video LMAO
7 kids? What’re they trying to do, make all the fallen humans?
6:35 - Wait a second...so she has 2 kids, he had 1 kid, and they (almost) have 2 together. BUT he also has a child that he never sees, and refuses to pay child support for...is she counting THAT child in her total of 7 kids for this man?
Or is that child just being left out entirely?
It’s completely being left out unfortunately, luckily that child has a loving mother and family that aren’t the dad 🙄
Honestly having kids shouldn't be a given for everyone anymore, there should be inspections in the living spaces where those kids will live, what those kids will eat, where/what the parents do for work/how much money is made, if the environment is safe in simple words. Someone my mom went to school with had 5 kids but neither did she or her husband have a job, and during this time my mom wasn't even married yet! Those 5 kids would go hungry often, have to go look for clothes on their own, pay for things that their parents should have payed for, but noooo that would be an infringement on their rights. My aunt had a kid that was about the same age as one of the kids, and the fact that CPS hadn't stepped in was mind-blowing, but this was the 90s-00s before my time so idk the exact criteria that would've had to have been met. I'm glad my mom waited and married someone at a decent age (33) but had me later (40 isn't perfect for having kids but whatever) and only had me.
I can't help but think this lady thought if she posted and acted greatful and positive about her situation that she would gets donations and it just completely backfired.
Yeaaaaah the internet doesn’t mess around
Thanks for posting it makes my day better, even on the days i cant get out of bed i just watch your videos and it helps a lot, thank you for posting.
AWWWW STOP IMA CRY 😭 you got this!!
Your mom sounds like an amazing person and i hope she lives for a very very long time ❤️
Me tooo!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I grew up in poverty with my stepdad while my mom ran off as a drug addict and that man worked at night made sure our clothes were clean food was cooked and made sure we helped around the house to insure a clean living environment being poor is no excuse to be dirty ! If you have to give them kids some chores!! Sell that ps5 it's distracting his work ethic
Amen!
16:14 with the detailing business
My guy are you sure you can actually afford proper detailing supplies? I'm a mobile detailer, most basic service I do is a $25 touchless wash. Let me break down the cost of the tools and materials I need to achieve a quality touchless wash:
Pressure washer: $350
Blow dryer: $200
Snow foam cannons: $100 each (I need 2)
Wheel cleaner: $50 per 600ml bottle (It's not cheap at all)
All Purpose Cleaner: $70 for 5L
Car Snow Foam: $60 for 5L
Spray Sealant: $50 for 1L
All together: $980
Very rough breakdown and obviously you can spend much less and get similar results but does he even have at least $600 to get started?
And does he even know how to properly detail a car? It's not as simple as just washing a car, and it can get extremely involved
Jus saying, think this dad needs to start applying to proper JOBS
OH MY GOD I wish I knew this when making this video LMAOOOO! Can’t he just work at a car wash? Like???? BUSINESS? Boy, sit down
Some people just need to stop breeding
breeders gonna breed, especially these two it seems
I knew someone like this - she didn't have kids, but she did guilt-trip people into buying food for her cats because she "couldn't afford to feed them", right before ordering her 5th takeaway coffee + doughnuts order of the week. She would tell people she had no money and take donations and amazon Wishlist purchases, but was simultaneously splashing cash on fancy energy drinks. These are honestly the worst kinds of people, they use people's generosity to their own advantage
No she didn’t. UGHHHHHH this is awful WHY
my dad has 8 siblings and my mom has 6 siblings . my grandparents did a good decision of having my aunts and uncles and parents at a bit separate, like waiting for my oldest aunts/uncles to MOVE OUT and even my cousin is one year older than my mom. if you wanna have a big family , i suggest you have your kids at pretty separate times.😭
Drop everything, Shira posted, not just one but twice in a week!
I know, I’m tired lol
what the actual hell. my mom sewed all our costumes for halloween for years!! but i guess sewing is now a skill not many do. also, she had 4 kids, and she and my stepdad afforded a condo where only two siblings had to share a room apiece, then we got a house with our own rooms. this is beyond negligent and abusive.
Sewing is pretty easy to pick up BUT the initial cost of the machine + materials is usually too high for people struggling unfortunately
Why do pregnant influencers/vloggers ALWAYS feel the need to show their bellies?? We get it, youre pregnant. Now have some class.
the parents have such a tiktok teen's bedroom lmao just floor to ceiling tiktok shop
If it was a temporary thing because of storm damaged their house or something like that i would understand, but it's like everybody has has to now down to him and even a bit her pisses me off so much!
I can’t believe how bad parents can be these days, why can’t we take a test before being parents?
These days?!? XD
@ Yes, parents weren’t @ssh0les then. Most parents these days don’t care at all and are mostly influencer moms.
@@Lisa.IlikefnafOk. oh yeah you're right, growing up everyone around me was well adjusted.
Before social media, parents would only:
- beat the crap out of their kids,
- go on drunken stupors,
- beat their spouse in front of em,
- lose everything in gambling,
- leave drugs and alcohol unattended,
- go out in bars while the kids are left unattended,
- chain smoke cigarettes in cars with the windows closed
- send kids to shady summer camps
- send kids to the catholic church
- send kids to work
- feed them canned food everyday
- call them names
- used tv & game consoles as nanies
- left kids out at night
- buy them guns, knives, fireworks
- spend as less as possible on clothes and school supplies to pay for drugs or cigarettes
- etc
The list keeps going but you get the idea.
If only social media never happened... we could go back to the good old days.
Parents have lost their way now that they all want to be internet famous XD
The reason we don't require tests like that to have kids is because it would be very hard to enforce without forcibly sterilizing people before having the kids, which is eugenics
@@Lisa.IlikefnafOk.sorry to break it to you but bad parents have existed since the dawn of time, now they can just film themselves and make some money from it. It's nothing new, just more in view
as someone who has lived in a one bedroom as a family of 4 with animals (me and my brother shared the room and my parents took the living room) you make do but normally parents sacrifice luxuries for themselves so the kids can be comfy my parents slept on a futon for probably a year or two we now currently like in a 2bedroom with 3 cats (had 4 but we had to give our older cat to my grandma cuz he was getting beat up) 2 dogs and 3 rats me and my brother got the rooms and my parents are in the living room. to this day half my clothes are gifted or thrifted. if my parents can do that these parents can put two bunck beds in the bedroom so the kids have a space of there own its really not that hard
I have two cats. We have an actual house. Two kids. 4 bedrooms. Two cats seems like too many for me some days. We also had to pay literally just a tad over $5000 when one of our cats started just unexpectedly dying and needed bladder stones removed and a several night stay at an animal emergency hospital that we had no warning signs to prior.
You shouldn’t have kids if you can’t afford them. You shouldn’t have animals if you can’t afford them. You damn sure shouldn’t rehome an animal that you can’t care for and turn around and get ANOTHER animal. So horrendously irresponsible
My dad worked 2 jobs, taking any overtime he could and my mom worked part time to keep us afloat… kind of feels like self inflicted poverty
6:15 every time my mom says give me grand BABIES. She doesn't like kids over 9
ugh yep - same here LMAO i told them i dont want kids
And yet people say others are selfish for not having kids 😵💫
My only concern with these people(because this is 100% self inflicted) is the lack of noise…. I have 2 kids and they are so loud… where does she records the voice overs? Are those kids allowed to be themselves in a ONE bedroom apt?
She says she records when they aren’t home usually because Jesus Christ kids are loud lmao
ok this time i cant complain abt not getting notified, since i was watching deadpool 3.🥶🥶🥶🥶 btw youre gorgeus❤ love the vids
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@ youre welcome
I have 4 cats in a 3 bedroom home and still don’t think it’s big enough, one room home is cruel the cats can’t have their own space when they need it
They need room!!!
As someone that lives in 1 room with my boyfriend and baby, I clean everyday. By the end of said day it’s destroyed again. Our daughter just has so much stuff and toys that they end up every where by the end of the day. But it looks NOTHING like their house does 🥴 everything has its place the clothes all get folded after laundry and we have a hamper. I do laundry once a week, but it never feels like it’s clean that’s fs 😩 it’s truly exhausting but it’s no excuse to not keep it as clean as humanly possible.
the definition of "RELEASE ME!!"
These people are the worst I knew someone who always wanted more babies they loved babies but did not like kids. They had several and every time they got older they lost interest leading to spoiled babies and neglected children. Yet they wonder why they’re kids won’t talk to them anymore
"We live in cramped, tiny living conditions with our already oversized family... LETS HAVE ANOTHER KID"
Also I live in a house with five cats and a dog and yeah they're a handful. I can't imagine having them in such cramped conditions! If I lived in a 1 bed I'd have 2 cats maximum. I'm not surprised the litterbox stinks either she probably feeds them cheap, garbage cat food and they probably only have like 2 of them tops! You're meant to have one for each cat AND A SPARE, we have seven litterboxes in our house for our lot and they are scooped daily and cleaned out twice weekly. I can't imagine she's doing that. And then she adopts another one after getting rid of one because of medical issues! If you can't afford to take your cat to the vet, DON'T OWN ONE.
I'm sure the cats are messing outside the boxes from stress.
@@zammmerjammer Probably, I can't imagine how stressful that environment is for them. Probably messing outside of the box because it's overflowing as well.
Yeah as much as I love cats, I wouldn’t have THAT many because bro… the amount of work that takes. The space they need. Come on
This living situation sounds like hell on Earth. I had a deadbeat partner and that was hard enough WITHOUT KIDS. Don't know how the mom keeps it together but she needed a plan yesterday.
Deadbeat partner club lol mine didn’t know how to cut vegetables
Love you shira❤❤❤ please dont stop making vids
I’ll try thank you! It’s been hard
Got damn it, now people a "certain" community gon be citing this man as evidence for bigoted views
Laundry?! WHAT LAUNDRY?! SHE IS AT HOME! if she does not have a machine, then idk…WASH WITH HANDS? our washing machine broke 3 years ago and ever since then we wash once a week, with hands in warm water! And washing powder! What does she think people did before washing machines were invented?! I live in the east and compared to us, these still get not only a ton of support, but some luxury stuff as well! These are people begging for others to pay for something THEY caused for themselves, and nothing more, I’m just disgusted. I eat once a day bc we can barely afford food after the bills, but I still want to work or give something in return for the price of a coffee even! Not just beg with puppy eyes and roll brats out of myself ugh
Ok I watched the whole thing, GIRL do u know what’s the definition of ab.se?! I don’t think so
I learned a lot in this video. I had know idea what "garnishment payments" and "w2 jobs" were.
Family vloggers are in general weird but this family is especially weird.
(I don't live in the USA)
These are the people who go online and say "gument done took my baby for no reason" when they get caught.
Those rooms kinda look like the rooms I used to make in Toca World for kids ngl
Just subscribed this is insane I can’t believe people like this it’s so frustrating to watch
America is not the richest country in the world it’s actually Luxembourg
(Guys don’t come at me I learned this last week in history)
13:54 It teaches your kids resilience and resourcefulness to not have their basic needs met?! Yeah, no, I call 'cap,' my dear. She's getting into absolute toxic positivity at this point, trying to point out the 'good parts' of having absolutely unmet needs as a child.
I also very much wonder if Drew being gone 150 days in a row for 16 hrs a day means he's doing something she's not aware of, bc...where's the $?
Yeah, he's not out there working hard to provide for his family. He's just *avoiding coming home.*
My family is a family of 5 in a studio apartment 🙃
This is sad because we had 10 kids and my parents even finished the unfinished basement to make 5 more rooms for us we were foster kids and still treated better room wise then these people bio kids its sad
My stove broke last year. It was November. I went to Rent one got a new stove. I just now paid it off. My kids have beds, cloths and shoes. I've been wearing the same cloths and shoes for 4yrs.
you're an amazing mum !!!!
U should make a membership where u can shout out ur members then give them early access to vids and maybe even allow them to give u vid 💡 ideas
THATS AN AMAZING IDEA! i will yes!!!
I live in an upper middle class family with a big house, and 7 cats is way too much to handle. No idea how they got through with that little space and so many mouths to feed. I wouldn’t mind adopting some of those cats, I love cats and my family has the money to take care of them
I find this particularly annoying because there are alot of people living in similar conditions to this who are legitimately just struggling to make ends meet in this economy and doing the best that they can and getting mowed down by abusive systems that keep them in poverty but people like this make those people look bad.
Yeah unfortunately you’re right :/
I am only 4:00 into the video and already having to take cringe over load breaks from the mom and dads behaviour
LOL
@shirashiraonthewall my concern is the priority for the ps5 and tv over the beds for the kids
People have too many kids 😓
This is when CPS needs to step in. At this point they are poor because they want to be and she's become a baby mill. Any sane CPS worker would instantly remove those kids. Under certain circumstances no more than 2 or 3 kids in one room, boys and girls aren't allowed to share a room after about 8 years old due to puberty. As a former foster kid, I think the system is broken because those who truly need help out - like them - don't get the help needed. I pray for the best for those kids...
My head is itching just from that footage… can you catch live from UA-cam?! 😅
There has to be some huge dissonance going on here to like.... be so caring for your children, but literally not keeping them in a safe/healthy environment. Get those bugs outta here bae 😭😭 Get the Sims strats IN
I like ur makeup style with the blush but still soft and defined. Good balance
Hehehe trying my best to compliment my low contrast features
The fact that they keep having more kids, and getting more cats, when they live in such a tiny apartment is wild to me.
Me and my girlfriend are barely in our 20s (I'm 19, she's 20), and we are responsible enough not to get even ONE cat until we move out of our studio.
Yeah it’s important to wait until you have the space for an animal
@@shirashiraonthewallIt really is. It drives me crazy that these people can't understand that when two basically children can.
I became a mom when I was 16. I lived with my parents until I turned 18, during the time that I lived with my mom, my daughter, my cat, and I shared a bedroom + kitchenette & bathroom. My daughter had her own crib and it was pretty much her room and I just had a bed & dresser in it.
When I moved out we did get a one bedroom apartment, it was what I could afford, she got the bedroom and I made the living room into my room. Now we live in a 3 bedroom apartment with my best friend, she has her own room , and so do me and my best friend. I never ever put myself over my daughter, her life and her privacy and her happiness come before mine ALWAYS.
Awwwww I’m so proud of you for getting through that! You seem like an amazing mom!!
@@shirashiraonthewall you are so sweet 🥹 thank you
xD That sims ending is perfection.
Omg welcome back i missed youuu
youtube hasnt been PUSHING me but ive been posting but thank u!!
@ no problemm just happy to see you posting again🤍
AW thank you for missing me
If the channels were actually aimed at helping improve the lives of the children then it wouldn't be so bad, but almost invariably they are doing more harm to the children. Numerous stories emerging of children in social media families who no longer speak to their parents 🤷
It’s never a good idea to share your kids online
Imagine the mould that would be under those mattresses yuk
I love ur content!
Shira doing a Jenkin’s video! Thank you. Angel! ❤❤❤
YAYAYAY hehhehehe
@ love you…so beautiful and smart!
I’ve done better for my sims. I did a 100 baby challenge in a two bedroom apartment. No kids ever slept in the living room
LMAOOOOOOO STOP
if only the worst people in this world were also the most infertile ones so that very fewer children have to suffer of such incompetent and/or even cruel people as parents.
I feel cramped in a 3 bedroom with 2 adults 2 kids 4 dogs and 3 cats.
That’s rough! 4 dogs would be a lot too!! I’m having trouble with 1 dog 😂
So wait....she got together with someone who dosent have a stable job, and her wanting to be a stay home mother?? Not to mention the kids conditions......I'm sorry to these kids really do
1:19 upon inspection that is Little Nightmares 2, one of my favourite games
You should make a membership
Yass
what perks tho? i dont know what to put lol
@@shirashiraonthewallHmm maybe being able to request video ideas?
Maybe like an extra video or something
@@shirashiraonthewallyou could do early access. It doesn’t have to be much if you don’t charge much and those who want can support you. Not saying do this but ik someone who has the buck a month club and that is pretty much all they do and you can ask them questions. Granted it is a mechanical channel but still.
This is why birth control exists.
17:45 yes!!
And men like Drew is one of the other reasons why I am joining the 4B movement
Ima make a video about 4B because YES
@ OMG YAS!!!
I grew up in foster care trust me this is way better
No that’s crazy
Drew refuses to get a job cause he owes years of child support for his first son (he doesn't live with them but with his blood mom)
Yeah i know I covered that in the video lol
How are her kids not taken away by now...?
CPS has been called but they don’t care, I think they are underfunded
I can’t believe having the four cats right I have 3 cats but live with my Mum half the time & my dad half the time so two cats at my mums *big* house and 1 at my dads *big* house
When I say big I Mean big to them considering how big their apartment is
Has anyone called CPS on this family?!?
Now that the world is ending, we can all take solace in the fact that the tiktok grift transcends the end of days. 😂
I love you Also you look beautiful and i love your videos and i think someone needs to call cps this dangerous to let those poor kids leave like this i really hope something is done soon
My mom sold her engagement ring (after my parents divorced and she was broke) to buy my brother and I Christmas gifts one year. I didn’t know until I was grown.
AWWWWWWWWW