the art of setting healthy systems, not goals

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  • Опубліковано 31 гру 2024
  • hiii everyone, i've missed UA-cam so much this past month but i hope you enjoyed this vid or it resonated in any way xx
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  • @shahdbatal
    @shahdbatal  4 місяці тому +94

    hiiii loves, how is everyone ???

    • @Nemahsis
      @Nemahsis 4 місяці тому +7

      we’re great now that you’ve posted🫶🏽

    • @loubnaelyoussefi6471
      @loubnaelyoussefi6471 4 місяці тому

      Love you from Morocco ❤

    • @Naimah-zgd
      @Naimah-zgd 4 місяці тому

      Alhamdulilah

    • @Petitecibelle
      @Petitecibelle 4 місяці тому +1

      I'm not sure how I feel. But came running to your video straight from Instagram. I loved all that I learnt. 👌🏾 Thanks for this❤️

    • @kiaj.d.5855
      @kiaj.d.5855 4 місяці тому +1

      I’m feeling sad. I did get up and do fajr though. May do a quick workout instead of sitting here crying.

  • @fatimaelamin6675
    @fatimaelamin6675 4 місяці тому +88

    I love seeing how you evolved, Shahd. I've been a subscriber since you bought your first ysl wallet. I am so happy to see you make things happen for yourself. I love seeing your creativity in editing your videos shine. Your love for literature and making videos is apparent in your personal style now. My heart feels so warm knowing you didn't give up, you took all the breaks you needed, and kept coming back stronger. I love the effort you put in your videos and how you choose the quotes so precisely. It's like I can finally find someone who genuinely loves reading and not just pretends to. Keep it up, stay different, and may Allah bless you endlessly.

    • @zeinabfaisal3209
      @zeinabfaisal3209 3 місяці тому +5

      I luvvv stumbling at those random comments that show the authenticity and how genuine some ppl r ❤

  • @hawwaabdallah12
    @hawwaabdallah12 3 місяці тому +5

    Shahd! I can’t overestimate how useful these kind of videos are. Such beautiful reminders. Jazakhillah khairan 💕

  • @tuduleshiggins8832
    @tuduleshiggins8832 4 місяці тому +22

    The most unique young sister on the net, genuine. You inspire those that you will never meet, you encourage those you know. So pleased you have found your peace.

  • @JuzlaJeffry
    @JuzlaJeffry 4 місяці тому +22

    Where have you been all my life omg!! This is the type of content I love!! Thank you for taking the time to create this well thought out video. Appreciate it, Jazakallah khair💕

  • @Wisecatladyy
    @Wisecatladyy 4 місяці тому +33

    If you’re back in the states, the system doesn’t want to see the influencers HAPPY! Keep being YOU and keep blooming beautiful.💝😘✨

  • @Nemahsis
    @Nemahsis 4 місяці тому +18

    running to make my morning coffee for this watch❤

  • @Neima-rm5xi
    @Neima-rm5xi 4 місяці тому +11

    Allahouma barik, i literally ended tearing up with the quote from the flinch. Thank you so much for this video Shahd. I needed this

  • @mmp980
    @mmp980 4 місяці тому +3

    Your videos radiate so much peace and calmness, love watching them!🤍

  • @makiseasuna
    @makiseasuna 4 місяці тому +1

    I can’t even put into words how much your current way of making videos and the approach/information you’re sharing speaks to my soul. Thank you so much ❤

  • @sesenberhane3295
    @sesenberhane3295 4 місяці тому +3

    the creativity and immaculate visual design!!! thank you Shahd!

  • @salwaabdussabur5578
    @salwaabdussabur5578 3 місяці тому +1

    Sis, thank you this is exactly what I needed GURL you have no idea. So happy for all girls gym mashallah! You videos are a source of comfort affirmation and inspiration. Thank you for being you🤲🏾

  • @naj425
    @naj425 4 місяці тому +1

    seriously this is a great video and I feel like Allah sent this right as it was needed. A lot of the stuff mentioned was like a lightbulb moment for me. Allahuma barik may Allah bless you girl. I missed you and im glad to see your vids on my tl again!!!!!

  • @naj425
    @naj425 4 місяці тому +3

    I didn’t realize I needed this video until I saw it

  • @Hiddenmoon3
    @Hiddenmoon3 4 місяці тому +1

    Shahd, sincerely, this video was amazing. The editing, the aesthetic, but also the deep reflections and concrete examples of systems. Watching this while drinking my morning coffee was so inspiring. Baarak ‏الله oufiki

    • @Hiddenmoon3
      @Hiddenmoon3 4 місяці тому

      oh and also the last long quote made me tear up ahah I needed this

  • @iitsgi
    @iitsgi 4 місяці тому

    can not stress how much i love your way of explaining everything and your editing style. keep doing you

  • @rayhanahb.ibrahim4821
    @rayhanahb.ibrahim4821 Місяць тому

    Wow, every words are beautifully said. Thank you for this!✨

  • @MsRaab123
    @MsRaab123 4 місяці тому

    This is the nicest UA-cam video I’ve ever seen. Genuinely felt like a warm hug subhnallah 💕

  • @tidatambedou8013
    @tidatambedou8013 3 місяці тому

    Been following you forever! Always wanting the best for you. This advice was needed.

  • @Saamia101
    @Saamia101 3 місяці тому

    I enjoyed every minute of this incredible art and I love your storytelling style

  • @jayquex3
    @jayquex3 4 місяці тому +5

    this is so timely i was journalling earlier this week about how i want to change how i approach goal setting cause i wasn't feel good after i completed or missed a goal...i'll def be using this as inspo for revamping (:

  • @youngandrichwoo
    @youngandrichwoo 4 місяці тому

    OMGGGG THIS LITERALLY MAKESSS SENSEEEE THAT'S WHY WE HATE IT ALL, WE SETTING GOALS AND NOT SYSTEMS OMGGGG❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Medlifememoir
    @Medlifememoir 4 місяці тому

    I love you for the sake of Allah🥺❤️
    You radiate peace 🫶 and i smiled all through this video. Your voice is soothing. May Allah bless you

  • @chrissiec2123
    @chrissiec2123 4 місяці тому

    I needed this video realll bad. I’m not Muslim, but I’ve been following you on UA-cam and Instagram for years now. This video speaks to where I am in life. The concepts, structure (especially the structure, oh my goodness!), aesthetic, and editing were just perfect. Thank you, Shahd. 🩶

  • @hodiyahhelps6331
    @hodiyahhelps6331 4 місяці тому

    Beautiful and inspiring perspective... I've been feeling this the past couple of years BUT I love how you summarized this!
    Thank you 🧡💜

  • @lifealtaring
    @lifealtaring 4 місяці тому +1

    Alhamdulillah Shahd….pure poetry and righteous intentions .. love your evolution and brilliant work . May Allah continue to send barakah to you and protect you always ❤

  • @Yapping.with.Mila1
    @Yapping.with.Mila1 4 місяці тому

    Omg you dont get it how much you inspire me. Everytime i Watch your Video i already feel WAY better and more productive because you make me Belive i can do what i want. ❤

  • @haneena.7732
    @haneena.7732 3 місяці тому

    i loved this with my entire heart

  • @MomoTicker
    @MomoTicker 4 місяці тому +7

    OMG!! I was watching some of your videos 7 years ago, idk what happened to you recently but you’ve changed tremendously. Hope you doing well!!!

  • @mubeenahmuhsinat
    @mubeenahmuhsinat 4 місяці тому +2

    JazakhaAllah Khair habibti Allah bless and accept you always in the best of all of His Manners in this life and the next Allahuma Amen

  • @nimojamaa3572
    @nimojamaa3572 4 місяці тому

    I want to be in your company.
    You are somebody that is improving for the better and that is what we live for 😊❤

  • @jude4653
    @jude4653 3 місяці тому

    this was so beautiful

  • @Samah_El
    @Samah_El 4 місяці тому +1

    It’s always great to see us evolve as human beings and learn from previous experiences and mistakes. Unless it’s something that is really good for you than stay in it forever 😂

  • @crescentflower444
    @crescentflower444 3 місяці тому

    such a beautiful vid so glad i found u

  • @els8555
    @els8555 4 місяці тому

    Soooo calming, thank you

  • @qhayiyanongogo56
    @qhayiyanongogo56 4 місяці тому

    What an amazing vlog… thank you for sharing such a unique perspective on life ❤ it’s so necessary 🫶🏾

  • @asrathomas6921
    @asrathomas6921 4 місяці тому +4

    Washing dishes and drinking my coffee and thinking “hmm I want to listen to something good while I finish up…”. Miss Batal posted.. Alhamdulillah 🌺🎉

    • @21972012145525
      @21972012145525 4 місяці тому +2

      Fortunately/unfortunately alot of the video needs to be read, so not ideal when doing dishes 😅

  • @Mark0099z
    @Mark0099z 3 місяці тому

    You executed your video information very well sis!!

  • @hannaahmed2316
    @hannaahmed2316 4 місяці тому

    Masha Allah you look so beautiful ❤️❤️🌸🌸🌸. The glow up is crazy allahumma baarik

  • @nasryibrahim94
    @nasryibrahim94 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for this videos ❤

  • @SadafShaikh2500
    @SadafShaikh2500 4 місяці тому

    @shahdbatal ohhhhhhhhhhhh seeeeeee whose back againnnnnn.......stay tune pls........❤🎉

  • @SegundoSegundo
    @SegundoSegundo 4 місяці тому

    learned so much, this video came at the perfect time for me Al hamdulilah

  • @onepathprojects9683
    @onepathprojects9683 4 місяці тому +1

    I would love you to show us your simple make up routine

  • @Essica1
    @Essica1 4 місяці тому

    This was really helpful may Allah reward you for spreading beneficial knowledge

  • @amiramarwan1665
    @amiramarwan1665 3 місяці тому

    I am new here and i like the video your shots and most important the feeling and the thoughts those thoughta they are in mind but you said it smoothly and it hits me softly and gentily reminder ❤❤❤

  • @hassen000
    @hassen000 4 місяці тому

    How I love your everything girl 😢

  • @happihippieyasmi
    @happihippieyasmi 4 місяці тому

    Loveddddd this ❤

  • @nd70005
    @nd70005 4 місяці тому

    The beginning of this video reminds me so much of Atomic Habits

  • @latifabako
    @latifabako 3 місяці тому

    Allahuma Barik 😘🫰🏽❤️

  • @Hubba_Bubbaaa
    @Hubba_Bubbaaa 4 місяці тому

    Oh my Allahumma Barik…such a beautiful video✨

  • @n6ra
    @n6ra 4 місяці тому

    u inspire me so much

  • @AniqaAnjum
    @AniqaAnjum 4 місяці тому

    wow I was having Greek yogurt exactly when you pulled it out in the video..crazy synchronicity. We love protein 😌

  • @afraababirye
    @afraababirye 4 місяці тому

    you inspire me ! mashAllah

  • @Antisocialhijabi
    @Antisocialhijabi 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing this ! 💌

  • @JohnSmith-ct1nb
    @JohnSmith-ct1nb 4 місяці тому +2

    Hey Shad, I’m a guy but I’m Muslim into self care, positive energy etc. Just one question, what kind of brush is that or what kind (brand) you use for dry brushing your skin?

  • @shaattuu
    @shaattuu 4 місяці тому +1

    My favorite🫶🏻

  • @crescentflower444
    @crescentflower444 3 місяці тому

    wow the flinch quote.....

  • @Maryam-pn9vw
    @Maryam-pn9vw 4 місяці тому

    amazing video jazakallah khayr shahd

  • @abrarosamaa
    @abrarosamaa 4 місяці тому

    I love this video and the idea behind it , you delivered everything so simply yet effectively. I definitely needed all of whats being mentioned in the video, thank you 🩷🩷

  • @Evelynokwa
    @Evelynokwa 4 місяці тому

    I needed this for my prayers i ask God to make me a better Moslem woman through your videos,i love how you dress , now looking forward to starting a system have always had systems that's how i live but need one to lead me to a prayerful believer to have my prayers as they should be in time, checked your Instagram and ran here ASAP
    May God Keep you grounded in the good and simplicity you believe in that way many of us will always be reminded that life doesn't really need too much but just a little bit of what we love around us plus God's will

  • @tagwasalih6173
    @tagwasalih6173 4 місяці тому

    These quotes are everything!! I would love if you could share your book list ❤ mA

  • @Yapping.with.Mila1
    @Yapping.with.Mila1 3 місяці тому

    Please Tell me which Programm do you use to cut your Videos ❤

  • @doc_daily
    @doc_daily 4 місяці тому

    missing yur videos sooo much

  • @nidamaryam2338
    @nidamaryam2338 3 місяці тому

    I love this woman I saw Jon Pinterest

  • @21972012145525
    @21972012145525 4 місяці тому

    Enjoyed this.
    However, what if enacting the systems is my goal? Ive been working on it dor awhile but get stuck at a certain point. Start over/recover, do better, then eventually get stuck again.
    Also you didn't address any relationships in this, besides mentioning friends for a work date. I would argue family, spouse, and kuds take up the bulk of one's life. How to manage and create systems on that?

  • @qulanimohammed8433
    @qulanimohammed8433 4 місяці тому

    Doing good Alx💕 which dry brush do you use for body care ?

  • @yasminyaqub316
    @yasminyaqub316 4 місяці тому +1

    Shahd lots of love from 🇰🇪 Kenya 🫂

  • @jan4n601
    @jan4n601 4 місяці тому

    so so good

  • @AB-ms4vg
    @AB-ms4vg 4 місяці тому

    Thank YOU for sharing

  • @nnebundoannaobi1386
    @nnebundoannaobi1386 4 місяці тому

    Thank you🎉

  • @dianewhosane
    @dianewhosane 4 місяці тому

    @shahdbatal can you share the cycle syncing reference you displayed, thank you!

  • @BiancaColacin
    @BiancaColacin 4 місяці тому

    I’ve never been great at keeping routines/system. Lately, I’ve been super consistent w my skincare routine and didn’t even realize I was being consistent. It has inspired me to implement routine across the board.

  • @aishallnot
    @aishallnot 4 місяці тому

    loved this video mashaAllah

  • @whoareyou6227
    @whoareyou6227 4 місяці тому

    Please post more shahd

  • @handcraftedHues
    @handcraftedHues 4 місяці тому

  • @yeahnah4303
    @yeahnah4303 4 місяці тому

    love you

  • @kafiyaabdulkadir4886
    @kafiyaabdulkadir4886 4 місяці тому +1

    First❤

  • @Ayesha-vh2uc
    @Ayesha-vh2uc 3 місяці тому

    Assalamualaikum! The aesthetic of the video is so pretty,, Allahumabarik! Also if I heard correctly there was music in the intro, do remove that please!

  • @user-mj5zn9dg6n
    @user-mj5zn9dg6n 3 місяці тому

    Very demure very cute Shahd 🤍

  • @camaram2726
    @camaram2726 4 місяці тому

    Let’s say I’m not Muslim or even religious at all but want to cover, is that ok?

    • @twinkle_yara
      @twinkle_yara 3 місяці тому

      Yeah it’s okay darl ! If you want to be more modest go for it !

    • @camaram2726
      @camaram2726 3 місяці тому

      @@twinkle_yara like hijab and everything?

    • @twinkle_yara
      @twinkle_yara 3 місяці тому +1

      @@camaram2726 yeah darl ❤️

  • @Divyv520
    @Divyv520 3 місяці тому

    Hey shahd , really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you with more Quality Editing in your videos and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail and also help you with the overall youtube strategy and growth ! Pls let me know what do you think ?

  • @philamcithi
    @philamcithi 3 місяці тому

    Jesus Loves You!

  • @greengreen5286
    @greengreen5286 4 місяці тому

    Are these law of attraction?
    Also Cycle syncing is not Islamic sister it’s rooted in paganism (Hindu/Budism). Not an Islamic concept. Please be careful with what you share:)

    • @safiyeyuksel2016
      @safiyeyuksel2016 3 місяці тому

      It could be coming from these but as a muslim women myself I can tell you, regardless we agree (all women) that during your periods it‘s hard for us. We feel tired, exhausted, low energy, painful and many things more. No need for „Cycle Syncing“ for understanding this concept. I believe men have certain hygiene topics too that they agree on. Maybe she wanted to use that word because it‘s (that concept of not feeling always good depending on you cycle) known to most people under that name. Even I do in my everyday vocabulary when I‘m with women because it conveys easily what I mean but I don‘t believe in hinduism or buddhism. And such in our conversation we (the women I talk to) all understand quick what I‘m trying to tell them.

  • @sarrrahhhh
    @sarrrahhhh 4 місяці тому +1

    thank you

  • @peaceandlove11-h2b
    @peaceandlove11-h2b 4 місяці тому

    sis please post more frequently your videos are so inspiring ❤‍🩹❤‍🩹❤‍🩹

  • @ilikewatermel0n
    @ilikewatermel0n 4 місяці тому +1

    Nemahsis sent me here 🥹