How To Deal With Betrayal - Fake Friends Who Exploit You, Abandon You, And Stab You In The Back

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  • @OwenCookSelfHelp
    @OwenCookSelfHelp  2 роки тому

    Transform Your Life with www.blueprintreloaded.com/

  • @robichard
    @robichard 4 роки тому +153

    Is m 68 years old, and I can tell you from experience in the School of a Hard Knocks that this young man has just nailed it about the essence of life. This video is filled with wisdom and insight, and if you want to be truly inspired to be the best you can be, watch it to the powerful end.

    • @OwenCookSelfHelp
      @OwenCookSelfHelp  4 роки тому +88

      Thanks so much for saying that. I'm beyond passionate about sharing these ideas because I would have had SUCH a different life if I'd had content like this as a younger person. Society moves forward and evolves though, and both you and I have benefitted from the work of others. So just gotta keep sharing the lessons -Tyler

    • @centanhotbox84
      @centanhotbox84 4 роки тому +4

      hats off to you

    • @tonymckay17
      @tonymckay17 4 роки тому +1

      One of my new favorite teachers.

    • @SupportKennedyVoteTrump
      @SupportKennedyVoteTrump 3 роки тому +1

      @@OwenCookSelfHelp i cannot believe how similar our personalities were before you leveled up.
      I'm a 60 year old gal who's generous, kind and can talk endlessly on any subject I'm interested in...I'm always surprised that no one else finds the electrical nature of emotion fascinating.
      I've always treated others how I'd want to be treated.
      When I got divorced 7 years ago that's how I rolled...and got rolled.
      The first video of yours i watched was the one about the eyeglasses and your helpful advice about the many options.
      That was a couple of days ago.
      A few months ago I started pushing back...it was torture but it got results & I kept at it.
      Then I came across your vids.
      Everything I'm not getting i believe i will find here.
      Feeling kind of lost, a bit scared, but hopeful & keeping the faith.
      If I can get 1/4 of the distance you've managed I will be okay.

  • @CharismaMastery
    @CharismaMastery 4 роки тому +181

    Years of hard earned lessons in here

  • @SerbianTexan
    @SerbianTexan 4 роки тому +144

    Everything. I learned initially about the game was from you. And 12 years and a few hundred women later it still holds true 100%. Thank you brother!

    • @RyzeMaster
      @RyzeMaster 4 роки тому

      Odakle si tebra?

    • @justspacing9031
      @justspacing9031 4 роки тому +1

      That's awesome to hear man and inspiring as well. Thanks for sharing your experience with us !

    • @SerbianTexan
      @SerbianTexan 4 роки тому

      RyzeMaster Beograd. Karaburma. Ali poslednjih 20 godina Teksas 😊

    • @born7invincible
      @born7invincible 4 роки тому

      Did you suck whit wom?an, or just normal?

    • @SerbianTexan
      @SerbianTexan 4 роки тому +2

      born7invincible I was an alright chode but nothing to write home about. Tyler’s stuff got me to have harems and date women I never thought possible before. But it also got me into Echart Tolle which was a game changer for my whole life. Definitely worth listening whatever he has to say about anything!

  • @octane2344
    @octane2344 4 роки тому +9

    People want a mentor. They crave high value, powerful attention, because we intuitively understand we become like the people we surrounds ourselves with. So take advantage of the craving to be around emotionally powerful people, and take steps to be emotionally powerful. Break inhibitions. Heal trauma. Express yourself more. Chase your dreams on your free time until you can make your dream your business.

  • @mav6232
    @mav6232 2 роки тому +8

    34:00 don’t get bitter and close off
    48:30 being vulnerable with your partner- don’t do that
    50:00 human nature- peoples survival need will always top of loyalty. Don’t be surprise

  • @vixenvalenzuela
    @vixenvalenzuela 4 роки тому +55

    This topic is always so good to come back to and refresh my understanding on the reality of how humans operate. It’s surreal

  • @jeffmatas4060
    @jeffmatas4060 4 роки тому +46

    I believe Owen Cook will go down in history as one of the worlds most influential men! Keep up the good work brother and thank you!

    • @onemanshow4116
      @onemanshow4116 4 роки тому

      😂 Almost nobody knows who this guy is. How could he possibly get into a history book 😂

    • @faulerhund2725
      @faulerhund2725 4 роки тому +1

      Think of "Mystery" too. 😉

    • @jeffmatas4060
      @jeffmatas4060 4 роки тому

      Fauler Hund Mystery is definitely OG

    • @jeffmatas4060
      @jeffmatas4060 4 роки тому

      OneManShow Troll 😘

    • @onemanshow4116
      @onemanshow4116 4 роки тому

      Jeff Matas Just keeping it real, my dude. Sorry you can’t handle it.

  • @Lukasbimba93
    @Lukasbimba93 4 роки тому +5

    Just clicked on and can tell I will like it. Too much self-help is like "Be nice to people and they'll be nice to you" yeah.... I tried that and its not reality. When I was the nicest to my old friends they became the worst, everything started unfolding.

  • @KarismaKing
    @KarismaKing 4 роки тому +6

    This girl made Owen a beast. Hats off to her.

    • @Gamechangerr667
      @Gamechangerr667 4 роки тому

      Hey! Happy new Year Denton!

    • @KarismaKing
      @KarismaKing 4 роки тому

      @@Gamechangerr667 happy new years!!

    • @KarismaKing
      @KarismaKing 4 роки тому

      @Ronnie Othman dude we should all be learning game from the pita pit guy 😂😂

  • @GKAxProductionz
    @GKAxProductionz 4 роки тому +116

    This is some real high quality content man, love it!!

  • @GooberStudios
    @GooberStudios 2 роки тому +1

    ive watched almost every single video owen has made and i tell myself:
    "yea i got these concepts nailled down sonnn," then a few years past and i go through a situation where the video address that EXACT issue, then i go back to that 2-5 year old video and im hearing the concepts almost like ive never heard them before and make me go "WTF had i just followed this i would have been ok" but its like the concepts never truly landed in the past, its so mind bending

  • @raymondreamer3675
    @raymondreamer3675 4 роки тому +47

    Not gonna lie man, you make the best content on UA-cam, just in general.

  • @aleksabisercic1410
    @aleksabisercic1410 4 роки тому +43

    To all my brothers, please watch this video till the end. Beautiful message, and has a paradigm shifting information. It explains the nature of the Ego or in other words Human condition.

    • @RyzeMaster
      @RyzeMaster 4 роки тому

      Odakle si?

    • @OwenCookSelfHelp
      @OwenCookSelfHelp  4 роки тому +16

      Thanks, that ending by the courthouse is my fav video-blog speaking I've done in a long time. However.... there is a nice backlog of content like is coming as well, as I took it to new levels. Watch what's coming this year, it is full-on bonkers -Tyler

    • @justballin91hitta14
      @justballin91hitta14 4 роки тому

      Gang Gang

  • @antonioortizburciaga1158
    @antonioortizburciaga1158 4 роки тому +126

    Welcome to the early 20s

  • @OwenCookSelfHelp
    @OwenCookSelfHelp  4 роки тому +109

    Hope this helps heal a lot of pain! I'm headed to CHICAGO JANUARY 9 - 12 for a full FOUR DAY FREE EVENT! www.rsdfreetour.com - come join for this epic event completely for free. I've also set up a free call system to chat and want to talk to you: www.bestsociallife.com let's set up a chat. See you in Chicago, fly in if you get a chance, it will be a huge event and more than worth it! Hope you're having a great holiday, and let me know what you think of the vid. Thanks! -Tyler

    • @Viriyascybin
      @Viriyascybin 4 роки тому +6

      I really hope I can end much of my internet addiction in 2020. This will be a great fucking decade.

    • @RedMixRecords
      @RedMixRecords 4 роки тому +1

      Thanks man

    • @DomAraz
      @DomAraz 4 роки тому +6

      I love your work man. I could go into detail about everything that has happened to me recently and explain how this video helps a lot. All I really need to say is thank you for sharing your stories and the things you have learned from them. I'm glad that you are moving into a more self help field now.

    • @craigjonson7892
      @craigjonson7892 4 роки тому +3

      You're one of the best role models I've ever had and everything you talk about I resonate with, you truly are one in a million man thank you.

    • @MayankSharma-kt7zs
      @MayankSharma-kt7zs 4 роки тому

      Thanku so much tyler

  • @dincerekin
    @dincerekin 4 роки тому +8

    this entire video was like a massive hit of mdma or metta meditation, honestly this is the first time in a while that i've felt such positive feelings for the rest of humanity, loving kindness is the only feasible solution to the dark side of human nature.
    How do you have such a positive impact on someone's emotional state even through a laptop screen???? straight up superpower witchcraft shit. I can only imagine how people you interact with in real life are left feeling after an actual conversation.

  • @FUGENTVJDM
    @FUGENTVJDM 4 роки тому +2

    I totally relate with this, i made a deal with a guy, do his marketing for him for 1/3rd the actual cost for a year in return for buying a company together, busting my ass off 12+hrs a day everyday, helped him jump from $200k to $1M+ in 12 months, and at the end of the year the guy tells me, it doesn't make sense for him to buy a company or honor his word, and its just business. I had signs though he is known for screwing over his partners. Never give someone else the control of how your life plays out. Great editing and style Owen, thanks for opening our eyes, much gratitude

    • @jonathonharbeck7287
      @jonathonharbeck7287 4 роки тому +1

      That’s rough, but you provide amazing value and you always have that. Hope your material success is where it should be. Spiritually you have everything you need brother!

  • @andersbjorkman8666
    @andersbjorkman8666 4 роки тому +5

    Thank you Tyler :) One of my best friends, that I've known for 15 years, said he wanted to put our friendship on "indefinite pause", a person I have invested so much time, energy. and also money into, that I thought would be there forever. I was a shock, and even though it was a few months back, it still hurts very much to think about. This video is gold :)

    • @cjmac3636
      @cjmac3636 2 місяці тому

      Same happened to me recently with two group of friends known for 15 years turned on me as my personal situation was improving. One I considered very close friend told me he viewed me as just a drinking buddy to my face being serious. I thought how could he say that after what i thought was a great friendship over 15 years. It hurts but it can also be a blessing in ways.

  • @JustinMarc
    @JustinMarc 4 роки тому +12

    Owen Cook hands down has the best self development content out there! Much love bro!

  • @frozenrohan
    @frozenrohan 4 роки тому +2

    This guy is such a boss, not getting taken down by the shitty cards he was dealt and facing life head on, and making something AMAZING that has helped millions.
    Such a legend.

  • @5qcW_WLlgt6-lke9-_kiQg
    @5qcW_WLlgt6-lke9-_kiQg 4 роки тому +20

    There can be no loose ends in relationships. Individual needs, concerns and turn-offs must be shared and perhaps even discussed weekly between the partners. One takes care of a relationship. You leave it running by itself it would lead to an unpleasant awakening down the road. When each partners point of view is being communicated they just know what's going on and are prepared for anything. No surprises, my friend.

    • @OwenCookSelfHelp
      @OwenCookSelfHelp  4 роки тому +5

      Yes SPOT ON. In the ones I spoke about, I would see the end coming. And do my best to "right the ship". But once that RAS has flipped, it is near impossible to course-correct. So you've got to do this from the very beginning -Tyler

    • @izksr
      @izksr 4 роки тому +2

      But I think sometimes you have to course-correct without communicating, because otherwise you may overcharge the relationship and create persona-images that are as well near impossible to erase afterwards. It's complex. I believe that connecting long term with another human being is the highest form of art. btw this one gets in my tyler's top5. Just mind-blowing content. Unbelievable (L)

  • @Wowc1999
    @Wowc1999 3 роки тому +1

    Have no clue why I stopped watching your videos a few years back. Thank you for all that you do

  • @Monkey-pq5zt
    @Monkey-pq5zt 4 роки тому +19

    I got bad tinnitus a year ago and 6 months in my friend group of 2 years ostracized me bc this girl they're friends with threw a fit that I didnt hold the same opinion as her. They abandoned me in my most painful time of loneliness and mental torture over something as small as a difference of opinion and the girl they probably all have a crush on deciding I shouldnt be allowed to be friends with them. Tinnitus got better to barely noticeable and got some friends now but man that still goes through my mind that I did literally nothing worth getting angry over or insulting but they all left me when I was considering death as a valid option, I havent felt this betrayed since when I got cheated on but this time its that feeling with friends.

    • @nonenone2669
      @nonenone2669 4 роки тому +1

      I (think) white noise helps with that. Or radio frequency..i forgot. But google/UA-cam it.
      Try it out if you havent.

    • @1_Lando
      @1_Lando 4 роки тому +1

      Don’t worry bout it your better than em rise above it

    • @TheAwhi
      @TheAwhi 4 роки тому

      All the best with tinnitus man, my dad has it, it affects your mind and all, feel free to message me if you ever want to talk

    • @HarryRLees
      @HarryRLees 4 роки тому

      How long did it take for tinnitus to go?

    • @Monkey-pq5zt
      @Monkey-pq5zt 4 роки тому +1

      @@HarryRLees year from it I dont hear rings, 7 months is when it started to stop ringing or being noticeable outside a quiet room

  • @improvementgoals
    @improvementgoals 4 роки тому +8

    PLEASE Tyler, stop realeasing GOLD content for a moment , I have exams soon lol (JK)

  • @SahilTayal
    @SahilTayal 3 роки тому +1

    There was an 'I' years before who found Owen as the eternal guiding light. For anyone who has not checked out yet - Find one of the major mentors for Tyler/Owen - Eben Pagan. They have inspired me to become a lighter soul/particles/energy/vibe. I would give up my life for such work to resonate with more people than the 2.7K who liked. Now, the catch is - it is easy to die for something you love than live to protect it from dying. I promise to carry the weight and share the lessons this emerging newness tries to communicate.

  • @jordancox2910
    @jordancox2910 4 роки тому +5

    Best RSD Tyler video ever. 🙏
    20 min. of daily meditation is the perfect antidote for not being able to still the mind. It’s easier than you think!

    • @dincerekin
      @dincerekin 4 роки тому

      why stop at 20? I would keep working your way up to 45 mins a day if you have the time (that was a joke, make the time). If you are interested in further reading check out The Mind Illuminated by Culadasa

  • @hijodecally
    @hijodecally 2 роки тому +1

    Congratulation, I was move, It remains me of a group of friend that really betray me in the worts way. You really have outdone your self. Now go on and be happy, thank you!

  • @ssmd7449
    @ssmd7449 8 місяців тому

    It’s crazy the story Owen talks about in the beginning is the EXACT same story that happens to all of us including me. It’s crazy how us guys are never taught this and just become depressed. I’m happy for this experiences now because I learned so much and I’m happy now.

  • @buttersstotch9449
    @buttersstotch9449 4 роки тому +5

    i like the guy sitting on the bench soaking in all the good info tyler was sharing

  • @Zenitself
    @Zenitself 4 роки тому +13

    Watching this in 2020. I love this guy so much.

  • @liasinceritakarma
    @liasinceritakarma 4 роки тому +1

    I don't see beauty in suffering since every one can achieve complete freedom from suffering 👏🤩

  • @joshmccray2683
    @joshmccray2683 4 роки тому +75

    i am completely living the experience that Owen is sharing and this has helped me so much. Thank you Owen Happy New Year!

  • @izksr
    @izksr 3 роки тому +1

    This is the only video I’ve seen Tyler sighing at the start. He knows he’s about to share some personal and profound advice.

  • @danzeeman69669
    @danzeeman69669 Рік тому +1

    We love you Tyler. I felt like you were speaking directly to me at the end.

  • @conscioushealing1602
    @conscioushealing1602 5 місяців тому

    Your content is like a blissful fever-dream, surreal with the editing and music, very creative stuff, you inspire me bro. You've unlocked your genius

  • @az015
    @az015 4 роки тому +1

    Owen I love you. Been watching your videos for many year, your words have helped me to grow so much. And every time I get knocked down, it's your spirit that lifts me up. You've helped so many people, God bless your soul

  • @Canonmentos
    @Canonmentos 4 роки тому +1

    Tyler you are one of the greatest modern philosophers of our time. Literally. Y’all think about that.

  • @ducksauce123
    @ducksauce123 Рік тому

    Man, this hits home. This is the hardest shit ever as my best bud and woman of 15 years snuck behind my back and got together.
    They don’t tell anyone the whole story and just sweep it under the rug. It’s taken me everything to chill out but still very hard. I don’t know what I want out of telling people the truth…
    I will do my best

  • @RajivB.
    @RajivB. Рік тому +1

    Year after year i come back and watch this video. Thank you Tyler. This one single video has gave me and friends the guidance we need through our lives

  • @dredheadluna420
    @dredheadluna420 2 роки тому +1

    I watched a previous video that gave a superficial answer which was to forgive and forget, which we've all heard but this video goes into it deep like a surgery.

  • @morrobox221
    @morrobox221 4 роки тому +13

    Watching this video is like watching my favorite movie I never wanted to end...good job Owen...

    • @OwenCookSelfHelp
      @OwenCookSelfHelp  4 роки тому +5

      That's a great compliment, thank you so much! -Tyler

  • @alexwolfthedj
    @alexwolfthedj 4 роки тому +14

    Excited to see what lies ahead for Tyler in 2020!

  • @kasparovthegodofwar
    @kasparovthegodofwar 4 роки тому +3

    I kept attracting people like this in my life. I now judge before i allow them in....damn this is gonna be Tyler's most epic vid 🙏

  • @princesspersia247
    @princesspersia247 4 роки тому +8

    You’re so much in a state of love that it’s infectious. I cannot wait to meet you.

  • @christianvaldez755
    @christianvaldez755 4 роки тому +6

    Nearly at the half of the video there was a shift of energy, i felt it, Beautiful message at the end, really sometimes we think we are the only ones, but we are in this together, we can use our human capacity to the benefit of the world. Love You Owen.

  • @dualoutput
    @dualoutput 4 роки тому +7

    4:56 "but first of all why is she taking my ice cream.... " 😂😂😂😂 Love the Pita Pit saga's !!

  • @hpttLBOYeFainAlexLeA
    @hpttLBOYeFainAlexLeA 4 роки тому +4

    Never heard anyone going into such a topic with such depth. And I could really sense a lot of empathy from you Owen, thanks for sharing this 🔥

  • @5675421
    @5675421 4 роки тому +2

    I needed this positive spin on a brutal reality. Just when I'm about to head into the abyss, I find some immense value in one of your videos Owen. I'm grateful. Thank you

  • @NightRiderBUICK
    @NightRiderBUICK 4 роки тому +6

    my experience is either get something like power over them so they need you or just dont be there all the time around them so they kinda chase you around and for some reason that increases value

  • @tresojos
    @tresojos 4 роки тому +2

    friends are overrated. You only need a 2 or 3 real friends in life. Other than that it's absolutely good to know a lot of people and be on FRIENDLY TERMS with them. Just don't BEFRIEND everyone and don't get over-attached to just anyone

  • @Mellow4all
    @Mellow4all 4 роки тому +4

    This definitely help hea my pain. Because of this vid, i was able to reconnect with 3 people i stopped talking to for tge wrong reasons. Thanks Tyler

  • @shaykhchilly8529
    @shaykhchilly8529 3 роки тому

    A saint, your tireless effort to help qualifies you for gosh darn modern day sainthood! You are so appreciated!

  • @Nobody-eu5qn
    @Nobody-eu5qn 4 роки тому +1

    Holy shit this videos production is really high quality and he’s giving it away for free

  • @iamlescobar
    @iamlescobar 4 роки тому +3

    Owen your videos over the past years have always seem to hit me on topics the moment they happen to me in life. I appreciate your work and was glad to meet you the times you came out to Boston. Keep up the great work.

  • @allisonleighandrews8495
    @allisonleighandrews8495 4 роки тому +1

    How have I gotten through these past few videos without crying?😅 thank you for sharing this and it has been a great journey, grateful to still be taking it with you.

  • @zacharyaguilar4373
    @zacharyaguilar4373 Рік тому

    Its amazing, because I was about to buy my way with a friend that I thought I had. I also got triggered when a friend disappeared and didn't tell me what was up. I was ready to make post about getting people out of your life if they don't appreciate and support you and to keep taking care of yourself and keep the friends that make you laugh and feel at peace but in all honesty there was a little bit of ego attached to the idea of dropping them out of my life and not getting them back in. I thought about the dark times I went through and how it made me feel. I thought about the dark times they've went through and how that would make them feel. They're on their own spiritual journey and I know its hell. You can become a monster at times or accidently slight people. I genuinely felt for them at that moment and I still wish them the best on their journey in life. I still care about them and I genuinely wish for them to come out okay.

  • @johnk5503
    @johnk5503 9 місяців тому

    This may have been one of the most enlightening things I've ever watched
    Thank you

  • @unmovable
    @unmovable 4 роки тому +3

    This was so beautiful and deep. Thank you, Owen, for continuing to shine your light on all these heavy topics that so many of us struggle with. I cannot wait to meet you in person!

  • @chandler7270
    @chandler7270 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks Tyler. Shoutout to the cameraman and the cameraman filming the cameraman.

  • @liasinceritakarma
    @liasinceritakarma 4 роки тому +1

    In a relationship where there is fidelity and respect, doing what your girlfriend or boy friend likes to do ( if it's not dangerous or something ) is a nice thing to do and it's a way of getting to know your partner, I would do it with pleasure

  • @tannerheekin9605
    @tannerheekin9605 Рік тому +1

    Just had a very fresh one. I am gonna have to be honest with myself and say being their friend was a mistake.

  • @P0ETICsin
    @P0ETICsin 4 роки тому +9

    Ill make it a new years resolution to see you on a tour this year in California.Among self development"influencers" You're ahead of the game ,I'll argue you can mentor all of today's well known self development faces on this platform . Some of us still lack in the men to woman dating aspect your ideas are gold 👍

    • @Gamechangerr667
      @Gamechangerr667 4 роки тому

      I met Tyler in person last year. It changed my life for better. He's the game himself.

  • @carlocenteno5947
    @carlocenteno5947 4 роки тому +2

    This truly was an experience! Thank you! The biggest concept I took away was that it’s in our best interest to understand our dna motives as human beings, and create circumstances that provide win win outcomes for everyone involved. Yours was a truly masterful presentation of these concepts.

  • @RotationFSX
    @RotationFSX 4 роки тому +3

    I've tasted this behavior with the same girl numerous times. Thanks for the in depth reasoning behind this Owen. It's frustrating as you think its you..

  • @lukewodka7910
    @lukewodka7910 4 роки тому

    This universe resembles something extremely chaotic, yet fits together so perfectly. It is hard not to find incredible peace in that. Happy New Year everyone

  • @dragangolubovic3628
    @dragangolubovic3628 4 роки тому +1

    Recently I've realized how selfish I was all of my life. It was all about "me" even though I thought that I was this good person. Now I know that it's time for change. It's time to give instead of just take. I believe we can all do this. We can all find that part of us which knows that it's far more important to understand other people than just to criticize. We are all one.

  • @ministerc.politics4305
    @ministerc.politics4305 4 роки тому +2

    Lesson learned.
    I'll never play a board game again. EVER!!!
    Thanks Tyler

  • @OwenCookSelfHelp
    @OwenCookSelfHelp  2 роки тому

    Endless Motivation 2.0 is LIVE! www.endlessmotivationblueprint.com/em - Owen

  • @InsideTheJoshMind
    @InsideTheJoshMind 4 роки тому

    So impressed with this man.
    But also
    The lack of giving a fuck for anyone he walks by? Not stuttering or stopping? Balls man. Tyler (Owen) is incredible and so damn developed!

  • @jvillawst
    @jvillawst 4 роки тому +3

    I’m sorry that you experienced those things, Tyler. Throughout watching I couldn’t help but think - there are genuine people out there. I promise they are out there folks.
    Thanks for the great video!

  • @rochefort6121
    @rochefort6121 4 роки тому +2

    Amazing! A day after what I feel was a major betrayal, this comes out. Thanks Owen!

  • @10010011001100110101
    @10010011001100110101 4 роки тому +1

    You wont hear this shit from anyone else, so blessed

  • @jameshunter9422
    @jameshunter9422 4 роки тому +2

    I knew that I had let up a little too much in my previous relationship.. That experience that you described was pretty spot on with what happened to me right before my birthday in December. Unreal! I remember thinking, as she was listing out these insignificant instances where I had done something or said something wrong and thinking that exact thing - "this is just an absolute rationalization to avoid the truth.".. Of course, I had my own rationalizations following the breakup and it took some time to gain the clarity that I needed to move on since I was left with none. I had never been broken up with either.
    Sometimes a swift kick in the balls is truly a much needed thing.. Just when you think things are good! Not to mention COVID 19 happened shortly after (LOL). Leaning in! Thank you Owen.

  • @JesusHComedy
    @JesusHComedy 4 роки тому +2

    I didn’t need this video in my life. But none of my UA-cam subs have uploaded for the holidays so this video is what I needed

  • @JohnnyS31416
    @JohnnyS31416 4 роки тому +10

    The colour quality is beautiful

  • @terrythompson7535
    @terrythompson7535 4 роки тому

    Bless your heart, Tyler. It's been tough on all of us. Unbridled competition in a superficial world is destroying relationships.. people like you and I had to actually do research to understand why we were getting left behind. Our intellects will pull us through.

  • @julianandres8041
    @julianandres8041 4 роки тому +9

    CEO of Life

  • @SuperTrollGuru
    @SuperTrollGuru 4 роки тому

    Thank you Owen...doing God's work. As the world get crazier and crazier...we need to understand each other more than ever. This is the path forward. You're fostering a generation of leaders, so a thanks to you and your team. Hope to see you in the near future, much love.

  • @abyssmanur3965
    @abyssmanur3965 4 роки тому

    Thanks Owen, from betrayal to the meaning of life and beyond, with flawless delivery straight from the heart...lots of wisdom here, magnificent!

  • @andyluong3780
    @andyluong3780 4 роки тому +2

    Very deep and nuance content. 👍👍

  • @97JG
    @97JG 3 роки тому

    Just came out of summit, wanted to relax in consuming RSD content to focus on applying all that I learned from summit.
    But as I’m talking to myself about this situation, THIS video is at the top of my feed.
    Thank you Owen! 🙏🏼

  • @None_of_your_business666
    @None_of_your_business666 4 роки тому +1

    This is the first time i see one of these videos beginning to end without stop.
    Thank you Owen!

  • @allesgutnatur
    @allesgutnatur 4 роки тому +3

    Tyler great work actually did feel human and uplifting and inspiring sometimes the strongest of us need a little venting its human it makesbus so so so relatable. Another thing for all the law of attraction people. Remember if you attract negative events into your life it actually means that you are in alignment. Dont be like oh iam attracting negative events life is punishing me the universe is punishing me, i must be out of alignment, iam doing sth wrong, no actually what it means is the universe received your desire for expansion maybe for love or for money and your spiritual part your higher self decided lets give him this negative life event lets make him feel like crap lets show this person what love is not, to get him to love, lets show this person what money is not to get him to money. To repease resistance sctually become aware that this negative circumstance appearing as a physical manifestation is actually exactly what you need to grow the way you want to the way u wish to. Be excited if you feel miserable please know that you are so on the right path so so so right. Look at tylers example. When we go through big shit we are close to a breakthriugh. And dont expect butterlfy and roses just release resistance dont judge any circumstance. Actually there is just growth. From one standpoint all there is is growth. Enjoy the process. Joy is inside your being. The ways of life are a mysterium. Keep fucking going. Always keep going it will work out no matter how life has you down keep keep keep fuckin going and you will succeed. You are chosen, You are special, You ara amazing. Have an amazing week. Steven

  • @danielgwiltsoftware
    @danielgwiltsoftware 4 роки тому +1

    This is probably one of the best videos I've seen from Owen and he has a lot of good ones. Perhaps this one in particular really resonated with me. Or maybe it's because it's 2020 and Owen has been constantly improving his company and himself. My guess is it's both. Keep going, Owen!

  • @xw7239
    @xw7239 Рік тому

    Thanks for your vulnerability. May you be blessed 🙏🏼

  • @S.McCall_ICNPro
    @S.McCall_ICNPro 4 роки тому

    Thankyou @Owen Cook for this one. It actually came as the perfect debrief and source of clarity for me following an incident which happened a couple of weeks ago where I'd been tricked by a girl I'd been seeing into believing that she was separated. Someone entered the house because they "still had a key" and at the time I was naked in the bathroom. He entered the bathroom and attacked me, knocked me out cold, kept punching for maybe 8-10 more times and left me in a pool of my own blood with the rest sprayed at least a meter up the walls of the shower. (Side note: I have my black belt in a very deadly traditional martial art and have been training martial arts for over a decade but the fact that I was caught off guard and in a very compromising position meant that it was essentially useless in that moment. I actually tried to talk to the guy as he came around the corner which in hindsight was also useless simply because of his blind rage at the time). Looking back, and especially after watching this video, it's become abundantly clear (although I still might be wrong) that she was with me because her RAS had flipped on the other guy and the fact that my value had risen quite a lot due to certain other achievements I'd made in the months leading up to when we first started talking meant that I perhaps wasn't equiped to deal with her being attracted to me as much as she was. It was an extremely brutal way to learn the things that I did, but I'm still grateful for the useful things I've taken away and WAY better prepared for whatever comes next, I hope. Also, funnilly enough, I found out that since that night he has "picked up his game" while being stuck there in isolation and is helping out around the house and is being more supportive to their kids etc, so I guess that would mean her "kinship/survival needs" have been balanced out by him again. Typing this out I'm just laughing at the whole thing to be honest haha. What a year. xD

  • @soundmusic7590
    @soundmusic7590 4 роки тому +1

    Love the production quality and the content is deep. I like it man, I like it. I was kinda meh about you for a while but now I like you so unexpectedly more

  • @bodhitreesocial
    @bodhitreesocial 4 роки тому +6

    When he said “What if I gave you a billion dollars to not be my friend right now” I really considered that and I strangely came to the conclusion that I wouldn’t want to take it 🤔

    • @bodhitreesocial
      @bodhitreesocial 4 роки тому

      Ronnie Othman Yeah I mean likely if someone seriously propositioned me with a billion dollars I would take it but I just thought it was funny that when I was thinking about it I was like “No I don’t wanna lose you Tyler!!!” 🤣

  • @leodelgado9356
    @leodelgado9356 4 роки тому

    It’s hard to put in words how VALUABLE this video is.... Owen, thank you so much!

  • @aleksandarj.8369
    @aleksandarj.8369 4 роки тому

    Tyler i watch you since 10 years but this is another level. You made it man, you raise the bar.

  • @talionrayon4137
    @talionrayon4137 4 роки тому +1

    Wowww! DAMN! THIS IS WHAT I NEEDED RIGHT NOW! Had been seeing this beautiful, smart and amazing girl for 3 months and started even calling her wifey, which she found cute. Even on 29th I had this girl hitting me up to go with her to this trip with her friends, telling me this was gonna be our honeymoon and stuff. There I went and no one was asleep for 24 hours straight through the journey. I was feeling a a tad bit insecure as she was not giving me enough attention, as well as tired and frustrated. She told me to sleep next to her. So everyone went to sleep and there I couldn’t. She was in the next room, sleeping next to her sister. Then again she told me she was not gonna go up the peak after all as she was on her period and I will have to go along with her plan, even though she said the opposite in front of her friends. So at 2am, being dazed and confused about what the hell should I do, I called up her sister , who was still awake and told her to open up the door. Well, as the lights were out, she began searching for the switch. In the process, waking up her sister, who regularly takes heavy meds to sleep, but didn’t take any during this trip. Well she woke up, told be what was up in a loud tone. I went in,saying that you got my charger cable in your backpack and grabbed her purse to look for it which was laying at a distance. She looked enraged and said told me to give her the purse so she can give me the cable. In the heat of the moment, I threw her the purse and she totally flipped out. She accused me of acting weird and I was harassing her! Dude, the girl was literally hugging , kissing and grinding against me even 2 hours ago. So after flipping out, she went out, calling her mom , dad, who is in the military to take her away, as the area was a restricted military area. She also called up a navy dude who literally came in to propose to her in front of me, and she was shit talking about him all the way. She was crying to all of them. Well, the situation calmed down and me and one of the friends I took with me to the tour was laying in a separate room. So we began chatting and he told me that she was using me, and I told him about the navy dude’s story as it was rationally bothering me. She exploded again, as she could gear us from the next room, striking down on the door, calling us all sorts of name. We opened the door, she literally came in, slapping my friend. I was so in a haze. Her 3 fringe were also confused and all. In that mess, she again called up her father, telling us to pack our bags, as we will be kicked out the camp and will be charge with harassment cases. So we started packing our bags and in the mean while I was so infuriated that I even lashed out on her friends, telling them to fuck off as it was their tour and all. So they also turned against me. So they all took her back to the next room, trying to calm her down. So she did eventually and called everyone up to say the situation was under control. Then she called up my friend, telling him she loved him that’s why she was able to hit him. And as she didn’t have any feelings for me, she didn’t put her hands on me. She told him that I should cut off all ties to her upon returning and everything was cool. So next day, she and her sister decided to stay back and we were all supposed to go to the peak. But as I was so emotionally ruined, I acted out a plan so we won’t have to go at all. I feigned to vomit, as such all the plan was ruined. Her three friends, who were the main instigators of the tour, turned against me completely. My friend did too, as he was also wanting to go. So that afternoon, when we were all going on a walk, and at the request of the girl I was seeing I was allowed to go with them, I told them the truth that I feigned and all the anger made me do it. They all turned against me. So ya, there I was, for the rest of the tour, fully being hated on. My friend hates me now and she started flirting with the dudes she was bitching about in front of me. Even heard her and her friends call me mentally unstable. And two of her friends told me that they were feeling uncomfortable travelling back with me, so I had to take another bus back. I knew I messed things up pretty bad and gladly accepted. She blocked me from everywhere and oh god , I am glad. I am so much in shock and numbed by all of this that I don’t know what to say. Of course I am not resisting and trying to feel all the sadness and anger bubbling up inside. Also I want to leverage this to propel me to be a better person. So guys, what do you think my next steps should be ?

  • @giancaingles
    @giancaingles 4 роки тому

    You just helped me a lot man... You have no idea of how you've just contributed to fight back some shit I was about to keep going on into. Love you Owen, best self developing mentor ever, I really love you

  • @ezrabay4393
    @ezrabay4393 4 роки тому +1

    Hey guys. I once made a super sad comment on one of Owen's videos about being a 27-year-old virgin and having given up on life. Someone even replied me that I should become a monk or something because if it hasn't happened by 27, it's not gonna happen, and I replied back that if I can never have intimacy I might as well cause others suffering instead. Well, I'm happy to inform you that I lost my virginity on Christmas Eve and have had the sex with her on most days since then, and I'm starting a new education next week.
    Thanks Owen for sharing some of the ideas that have helped me.

  • @captainswift3903
    @captainswift3903 4 роки тому +6

    Tyler I haven't enough time to watch the video since it was released 12 minutes ago but I can already say this is some good content, thanks for uploading!

  • @kevingarubba1370
    @kevingarubba1370 4 роки тому +4

    Wow.. wow, this one really hit home. Thank you Tyler

  • @jdkarlesky
    @jdkarlesky 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you Owen . You truly have great philosophical insights and are a mentor to the masses. Thanks for exposing yourself for the benefit of the whole, it is greatly appreciated.

  • @ajajamin123
    @ajajamin123 4 роки тому

    I miss you dearly, brother, hope the world brings us together. God bless.

  • @JackarCrackar
    @JackarCrackar 4 роки тому +1

    My ex and a close friend just got together after he coached her through our relationship issues and made out I'm terrible. Thank you for this video.

  • @andres3725
    @andres3725 3 роки тому

    This was beautiful brother much needed atm, it is true, we all go through a lot...I needed this hardship to happen to allow me to accept people and their flaws and honestly I feel so vulnerable, but i'm tired of ignoring the lives around me. I want to engage more with the world and feel secure within myself. I appreciate you bro, you are a beautiful loving person.