WHY DO WOMEN WANT THE MEN THAT DONT WANT THEM? by RC Blakes
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- WHY DO WOMEN WANT THE MEN THAT DONT WANT THEM? by RC Blakes
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It stems from childhood trauma. When you don’t love yourself, you are attracted to men that don’t love you. If you were never properly loved and cared for by your parents, it sends a message that you are unlovable, flawed, unworthy, and so you go out subconsciously attracting anything that reinforces that belief. You can break that toxic cycle by healing the little girl in you, and learning to truly love yourself. I am a firm believer that you’ll only truly get to that space by connecting with GOD, and spending time getting to know yourself outside of what you have learned in childhood, or what other people have told you.
True. Learning about myself now.
Well said👏🏿
@Alicia Woods: I stand in full agreement. 💞
This!!! You described me to the T
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When a man does NOT want you.... YOU CAN NOT RUN FAST ENOUGH TO CATCH HIM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ENTIRE VIDEO
PRICELESS !!!!!! Beyond words !!!!
What makes a woman go after men who don’t want her: 😢
1: You always mistake lust for love.
2: You are attracted to what you believe you deserve
3: You’re thirsty for approval
4: Addicted to chaos
5: You want what the world says is desirable.
Thank you ☺️
@@mandyq8578 You’re welcome 👑. 💛😘
👍🏿💯👌🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Heal me Lord and i will be healed.
For me, it was 1 and 3. I'm so glad I'm in a place where I'm healing and learning to love myself.
Desperation. Ladies and gentlemen know your worth. Don't let someone tell u once they don't want u. At least twice.
My husband soon to be ex husband tells me this everyday 😢 😢 it’s so hard to accept, but it’s definitely necessary in order for me to let go and start this healing process.
I remember one time I met my ex boyfriend friends. He said to me,"With all due respect, you are a beautiful and good woman. You being with him makes you look really bad". At that time I was with a guy who was selling drugs. I thought I could "save" him. Of course, I was wrong. The words his friend told me stuck throughout life and has helped me choose better people. Thank you for this video.
Hey, if God can use a donkey to get a message through then he can use a non-believer
Powerful
The so called friend jus wanted to smash and take his spot that all .. 🐍 in the grass
What’s makes you think you could save him though?
❤ thanks for sharing this statement is so powerful🎉
We start chasing the wrong people because our primary caregivers didn't give us the necessary love, support and guidance we needed to grow up properly. Because this wasn't granted to us naturally we grew up with the illusion that we must chase, hunt everything we need. Now we must forgive them and ourselves and believe God will always show and give us what we need. Amen
AMEN. This is Exactly my Story. 😢
I grew up in a decent family but my parents were so busy with other things they never took the time, but I was never a man chaser just married a man who was a narcissist, I'm free of him now & focusing on myself & learning all I can from your teachings God Bless You & Lady Blake's 🙏💞🦋
Similar background. ❤
Yes Debra
@@sunshinesunflowerz1647 me too! So I’m happy we can all relate
Same here
❤️🙏🙌
This word is so profound and so true. Lord, please heal us broken women and make us whole to receive the right man.
Irina Nicole l think it's a little too late for black women in America, we are getting our passports because you all too messed up
Amen
@@quin8463 Totally Agree
Amen
❤
Yes Pastor. I left A LOT of my husbands in the friend zone. Today I finally accepted that I have been the problem. Misguided standards, oversized desires, wrong illusions of what I deserve. Lord! I am accepting I have not been humble enough I hope I can be forgiven for all the times I did not love myself enough to see this clearly.
P😊😊😊p
That is so powerful and beautiful all at the same time. Your honesty is pleasing to God. You've been heard
@@teannaabraham9090 In Jesus Name! Amen!
Me too! Speak.
so do I
Let’s not forget to like ladies!! We need to get this out to our fellow queens
And Share too
i was in a 4 yr relationship with a 63 yo man who was 13 yrs older than me. he was cheating, at his old age! i came across ur page in the midst of my soul-tie breakthrough. Dear Lord, you have been such a blessing with my healing/grieving process!
So many old men are still out there spreading diseases, cheating and lying. Glad that you know the truth!
Age don't mean a thing when it comes to cheating. Good u moved on
@@debk5227 Say what!
My exact story age and all. Wow
@@debk5227 omgggg
I somehow only attracted narcissistic men. I came from an abusive family. My parents hated each other! You're spot on as usual! Now, I need to find out who I am! I'm divorced and refuse to allow anyone else to ever treat me poorly! God bless you and Lisa!
As a child, how did you take that? So many people think staying together for the children is the only way, but I think children should not grow up seeing their parents despise each other either.
There is a narcissist.....same one for the past 8 years that tries to get in contact with me but I don't reply or anything. No contact is the best way with people like that.
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Im a mature 56 year old woman who has been single for 17 years. I enjoy my peace and if it is Gods plan for me to have someone Im ready. If not Im content on living as a single person. I was born single.
AMEN!👊🏿
God doesn't have plans for dating,, he abandoned us long ago. You're on your own, sister!
I grew up with my father being in the house and he taught and showed me how a man is surppose to love,and treat me. I love Sarah. I was married for 14 1/2years. He passed in 2020,and I'd rather be in the house with a gold fish and a puppy,than to be with someone that doesn't love,respect and care for me. I know my self worth, I'm a Queen. I love Sarah too much.
Amen!!! That’s what I have!!!
A High Value Man !! Married 31 years and counting!!❤❤❤
You lucky
Blessed!💞💪🙏
Congratulations!!! God bless your marriage with many more blessed, wonderful years!!! 🙏🏽🎊
@@avadonadelle2815 thank you so much!!! I appreciate your kind words ♥️
@@Christine-jg3hf Thank you so much!♥️♥️♥️
Hello! I am Indian 🇮🇳 and watching your videos everyday from France 🇫🇷 Thank you for elevating women, sometimes I feel like you are the divine intervention in my life, because you have opened my eyes on so many things that I couldn’t see before. It would be nice if you could do a video where you respond to some of your viewers questions (like a Q&A format), it’s just a suggestion! Thank you again and Amen 🙏
That really would be awesome. He'd put the other worldly dating shows on the back burner if women and men could come here for real advice without the judgment and mean attitudes on other channels.
He has a patreon where he can answer questions for a closer circle. Check his website. Link is in the video description
You can email Pastor
Preach. So many arrogant men would ve thwarted if women didn't think just having any old adult boy was a good thing. Praying for the self esteem of women.
push and pull is very addictive when u havent heal child trauma- the recreation of an unavailable parent becomes a pattern in relationships till u do the work and fight the toxic attachment and free the ego !! Love is walking together in equal partnership!!! God always gives us clarity and restore us ! We just need to trust !!
"How can I love somebody else? If I can't love myself enough to know, when its time, time to let go...- Mary J. Blige "Be Happy"
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That's IT! I'm addicted to chaos and probably because I grew up with my parents who were in constant chaos with one another. Unfortunately I'm hearing this so late in life. I won't ever find another man now, but all my life, the ones I loved were dysfunctional. Don't let my story be YOUR story, young ladies.
I personally dont believe that you e run out of time, so long as you are alive...you still have a chance
Same, it’s too late for me but for the ladies who still have time I hope they listen and heal.
As long as you’re still breathing it’s not to late.
Keep your trust in the Lord, he will bless you with a good man Queen!
You can still find true love. Trust God! Love has no age limit. God bless you! 🙏🏽❤️😇
"Why are you letting blind people proofread your vision." Wow!!! I had to fix my focus with that statement. 😮💨😮💨😮💨
@RC Blakes, Jr Just emailed you.
Thanks to RC's Queenology teaching, I escaped a crazy wolf of a man in two dates!
You know the message is good when immediately after The Live Stream you hit Playback. God bless you man of God..
This man blows my mind EVERY TIME I listen to him!!
It’s a harsh reality for me but needed to be said. I felt every word! I’m trying not to cry at my desk. 😢 Thank you for this word.
I swear you are spitting straight knowledge and at the same time funny “when a man don’t want you you can’t run fast enough to catch him” 😅
I'm trying to overcome rejection 😪
Rejection Of Man Is God's Protection. Stay In Prayer. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
The minimal effort men. Block, delete, move on.
@@LA-wv7gf I agree why waste time on a man who has no substance.
Unfortunately for ppl with abandonment wound.. these guys come on strong then retreat... we internalize it and feel shame... i blocked and deleted... but suffer in the aftermath of shame
"When a man wants to roll you around in a hotel bed..." 😆😆 I can't!
😂💯He didnt lie tho!👍🏿
Their rolling you up in their aluminum foil. Fake king😂😂😂
Bishop I'm currently going through this right now and I think about him pretty much everyday knowing that he's not even a good friend to me. I just want to get him off my mind help me Lord Jesus to let go of him COMPLETELY! 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
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Thank you for your wisdom. You hit the nail on the head as always. I am a divorced mom of 2, previously married to a narc. Just came out of a situationship with a similar type of man. Through the healing process and going within and asking myself so real tough questions, I realized I was stuck in the approval loop for over 30 years stemming from middle/high school trauma. Finally having this awareness is helping me heal and raise my standards.
Mr. Blake's. The opening song gets me. EVERY time.
@RC Blakes, Jr Just get a job and keep it.
"You are who you attract"...Sad, but that statement makes a great point. Therefore, if you don't like (with valid motives) who you're attracting, then maybe that's The LORD'S way of inviting you to let HIM heal you. Just as this Bishop referenced, you got to have THE LORD'S standards for you! Just don't choose the mate based only on status, looks, or just because he appears to be the only one interested in you. Let THE LORD match you up and if the encounters doesn't match up with your best interest, then maybe it's not time for you to be matched up just yet, but instead to...HEAL UP!!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Im ready to hear this message
You are so right! It's high time for me to approve and accept a man who really cares about me. God removed my father from my life, because he was so morally corrupt, that he would have never been able to provide a good role model for his 3 daughters. My mother filed for divorce, and my father kept boasting about not paying for child support. He suffered from arrested development and is unable to realise the wrong that he's done to us. Unfortunately, I chose men like my dad, that is to say, they were emotionally unavailable and not willing to affirm and honour me. Oh Lord, please, deliver me from the approval trap, so that I can be happy in a fulfilling relationship with my future husband! I'm learning to love and validate myself now. Thank you Pastor for opening our eyes, be blessed!
It's funny how God will place things in our paths that we are meant to meet; He knew just how much I needed to hear this gospel, and the fact I haven't been able to control my tears is undoubtedly a testament to that.
Thank you R.C Blakes! 🙌🏾
If you can't say amen...say ouch!! Thank you Bishop Blakes!!
I said ouch! This stung!
@@Anonymous-cl2es I did too.
Amen
My father was a loving godly man... I just can't find that in these weak men today😪
This song!
Magnificent in so many ways.
🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼
"She", by Dave Hollister. To my understanding he wrote it just for Bishop's Queenology platform.
Yes this song touched me!
"our attractions are the indicators of our consciousness"
I definitely want to hear this word. I just watched your video about soul ties and I'm sure that's probably some part of the answer. But I was with my husband 23 yrs and we have 3 children. He moved out 3 weeks ago now I just want to learn how to move on in the healthiest Godly way possible.
God bless you 🙏❤️
Sorry to hear, he will be back
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God bless you i have been there i have learned
Blessed you pastor wish i was listening to these wirds a long tm ago 😂❤
Papa Blake’s, thank you for all of your teachings 🥺🥺♥️♥️ I’ve been listening to you over 4 years now. I am now happily married as of October 3, 2022. I’m truly happy 🥹🥹💙💙💙 gracias a dios 🧡🧡🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 Thank you for teaching me to readjust my crown 👑 🙏🏼❤️💙
Amen!!
Pastor Blakes, you are truly a blessing. Thank you for this word.
This message is saving my life. I thank god for brining me this message today. I will claim back the love in my life and it will come from myself. My soul is broken but I will repair it. Thank you god.
😢 Speechless 😶 Lord I’m watching again ! Lord thank you 🙏🏼
Use to mistake lust for LOVE! I finally got it together. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Hi Bishop Blakes! You are beloved by us, and we appreciate the way you care for us ❤. I am grateful that the Spirit inspires you to hold this weekly platform that serves as a pre, pre-marital class. Sort of like singles enrichment for the online Church community. Blessings 🙌🏿🙌🏿
That’s a great description!!!😊😁 I see him and my UA-cam father and marriage counselor.
The father part hit home ... But NO MORE .. Thank God I'm healed from that! Walking in my Queen consciousness... I Love it over here! Not going back .
Watching for the second time. Deep conversation helped me understand my downfall with myself and men. Always choose the wrong type of guy for myself. Broken conscious is real. I’m Learning to love God and love myself before I can love anyone else
Ouch! 🤕 I needed to hear this!! May the truth set me free 💯
I was not going to listen to at 1st because I'm not getting into a relationship now I have to heal after a divorce, but I need to prepare for the next husband
I praise the Father for you and your ministry. I have learned so much from you. I am being delivered from my old ways as I continue to observe your teachings . I am learning to know myself and my worth thanks to you Sir. May The Father continue to increase you and your wife.
We have an illusion that the one we want has potential to be actually the way we want. We think our loving them, and our guidance and help and giving them what they need will bring about this miraculous change. Too late we realize it will never happen. It's the challenge, we somehow need to feel needed. They do climb up to a point, and we think it's working. It has actually worked but they never loved us, they needed that leg up from us and for a while they treated us nice. Once they get to where they want to get to, they leave to go the way they want and it's not us. That's when they run. That's when we break. But we seem to repeat this with the same personality in another's body over again... repeat, again. This is the cycle. Until we wake up. God 🥀 willing.
“When a man don’t want you, you can’t run fast enough to catch him” whew
Great question. I’ve been asking myself the same all day. Finally came up with an answer to at least one of them. I blocked the phone number. Ty for all your help RC 😊
“Letting the blind proof read your vision”. Dropping gems fam….love it💕
I needed this! Thank you father
Why I just googled this Topic this morning and got on here …”BOOM”…. Your speaking on it! I was just talking about this last night!
You are God’s gift to us Pastor Blakes. Thank you so much for all the lessons 🙏🏻♥️
Yeah....dont get side tracked by the men vs women thing. The same principles apply, yes...... thank you Sir Blake's for you relational insights and ministry 💯💖💯🙏🏽💯⭐💯👍🏼
😥😥😥this has really touched my soul,like pastor was talking about me and it's so painful growing up without a father's love....🙏🙏🙏God please heal me and make me whole again so that you can bring my husband to me Amen and thank you pastor for this
Bishop you are going real deep on this young women, they can't handle all that truth!!
I'm grateful that you always end your message with a prayer.
😭 Pastor is talking STRAIGHT to me, every word but I'm growing and learning every day.
Me too!!
Please tell your son, to please send those good men my way! They will never go out of style for me at all! I'm sick of dealing with the idiots, cheaters, liars, players, lazy men who don't want to work at all. Thank you so much for this video. I really love your videos Pastor Blakes. You have been changing my life.
I don’t want ANYONE who doesn’t want me nor do I pursue or chase them. I don’t plan on settling for someone I don’t want neither just because he happens to be “nice”, there MUST be attraction there & he doesn’t have to be “my type”
Amerokee Wiya…I get what you are saying totally! And there right now. I truly appreciate this message totally and learned a lot…but I don’t feel someone should settle for someone that’s just “nice”. And there’s nothing else there.
@@channettebrown4623 Exactly, that’s just as bad as staying with a man you’re attracted to who treats you poorly. Being with a man you don’t desire is slow torture & just as bad if not worse.
@@amerokeewiya1320 I agree!
@@amerokeewiya1320 😢yes, unfortunately
I can’t thank you enough for always keeping the message 100% REAL🤦🏽♀️✔️ and whether we like it or not we need to hear the truth and wake up💪🏽🥰👍🏽
Amen!!!
Hi,
Are you single? You're cute!
Wow!😳 RC! Talk about a dose of reAlity! You hit on sooo many cylinders of reality, nerves and facts! O my!
You have Summoned all Queens 2 wake up wake up and and step up!!
😳............👑 grab your pearls back ladies! I sho am!
Thank you RC & Lisa🧡💫
So true!!!! Been there, done that and as a result lost myself and now a lonely older woman. Didn't know my senior years would be spent full of regrets! To young women, listen to this! I didn't know what is being by this Pastor. I didn't teach this and wound up a shipwreck having turned down one's that would be the right one and being ALONE, listen y'all you don't want this !!!
Wow, the song was so soothing to my soul 😌 🙌🏽
Rev u telling the truth I have let 8 good men go and fixed them up with my friends an cousins .So now I will patiently waiting on God not gonna make no moves on no men. I'm getting along real good right now without one in my life but God has already told me to hold on he's coming.I have already scene him twice in dreams but he has no face but he has on a tuxedo in both dreams so I think he will be the one an worth the wait we shall see !! Well I love u rev keep helping all of us women.🥰💙
I can't thank you enough for all your wisdom. I have my baby father who for the last 27 years I can't let go. Now that I understand why I can start my healing. May our God continue to bless you.
We can easily overlook or ignore rather someone who could be great for us, simply because they may be packaged differently. Great message💪🔥🙏☝️👑
RCBlakeJr. I shared this video with my brother today ❤. I watched this video for the second time today.01/03/23. Truly amazing how I got more out of it today than the first time I watched 🤩. You’re my spiritual Grandfather you have In lighted me to see myself and helped me to overcome soul ties ungodly relationships and I’m free from it . Thank you for sharing and caring enough to help women and men around the world 🌎🤩. I know longer have a broken conscious. Thank you Jesus no longer addicted to the drugs dealer hood men anymore. ❤
I was bought up by a narcissistic father. My parents had a weird love fight relationship.
Emotional, physical and mental he did his damage. I am very glad about the forgiveness of Jesus/ Yeshua. And I now need to change for the sake of the younger generation. My dream was to be with a good man but it never worked out. I learn slow but I learn well.
Now I raise my 12 year old grandson. And pray that everything comes under God's perfect order.
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And the truth shall set us free!!! Hallelujah!!!!! Leveling up ty Bishop 😊
I haven’t listened to the message just yet. I was so thrown by the introductory song. It’s bomb 💣…I knew immediately who this awesome artist was.. he has such a distinctive voice and is very much slept upon, I absolutely love his music !!! This song is beautiful! And to you you (RC Blakes) great man of God, awesome 👏🏽 choice! We are grateful for your content. ❤Thank you! 😇
I agree with your comment.
Just finished listening to this beautiful 🎵 song . Please tell me who this talented artist is.
ᴅ᷈ᴏ᷈ɴ᷈ᴛ᷈ ꜰ᷈ᴏ᷈ʀ᷈ɢ᷈ᴇ᷈ᴛ᷈ ᴛ᷈ᴏ᷈ ʜ᷈ɪ᷈ᴛ᷈ ᴛ᷈ʜ᷈ᴇ᷈ ꜱ᷈ᴜ᷈ʙ᷈ꜱ᷈ᴄ᷈ʀ᷈ɪ᷈ᴘ᷈ᴛ᷈ɪ᷈ᴏ᷈ɴ᷈ ʙ᷈ᴇ᷈ʟ᷈ 🔔ᴛ᷈ʜ᷈ᴀ᷈ɴ᷈ᴋ᷈ ʏ᷈ᴏ᷈ᴜ᷈ ᴀ᷈ɴ᷈ᴅ᷈ ɪ᷈ ᴡ᷈ɪ᷈ʟ᷈ʟ᷈ ᴀ᷈ʟ᷈ꜱ᷈ᴏ᷈! ɴ᷈ᴇ᷈ᴡ᷈ ꜰ᷈ɪ᷈ɴ᷈ᴅ᷈ɪ᷈ɴ᷈ɢ᷈ꜱ᷈🤫 ᴡ᷈ɪ᷈ᴛ᷈ʜ᷈ ʏ᷈ᴏ᷈ᴜ᷈ ɪ᷈ɴ᷈ ᴀ᷈ ᴍ᷈ᴏ᷈ᴍ᷈ᴇ᷈ɴ᷈ᴛ᷈*# privately🕵️♀️ 💬💬█♱𝟭𝟯𝟬𝟭𝟰𝟬𝟵𝟳𝟰𝟮3💬
I love it too .Who is the singer ?
Thank you so much Pastor Blakes! Stay on the Wall of Truth!
This is so incredibly healing! I truly desire to be married and always have. I realized I never really understood how to properly position myself. I threw myself into a Caregiver role with my family after my brother with Cerebral Palsy fell ill and passed away. I lived in a bubble of grief and guilt for so long. I've taken an active role in intentionally healing and God truly continues to do an incredible work through me. Also down over 70 pounds and learning how to better position myself to have the right man pursuing me. I appreciate your care ❤️❤️❤️
THANK YOU RC BLAKES FOR POSTING WHAT GOD WANTS YOU TO TALK ABOUT. YOUR MESSAGES ARE ALWAYS ON TIME. I NEEDED THIS 2 YEARS AGO. BUT, I BELIEVE IM SEEING THIS NOW BECAUSE I AM READY TO HEAR THE TRUTH. MY SPIRIT NO LONGER FEELS UNEASY LISTENING TO THE TRUTH, THANK YOU 🙏🏽.
Thank you RC Blakes, God bless you eternally. This break down was amazing! Only God knows where I would be had I heard your teachings years ago. I can only imagine the man I would have in my life. I will definitely continue to watch your videos, I've never had a father to speak to me about what's necessary as a woman. Right now being single is serving me well, living life on my terms and developing my Queenship. 'No Clowns in Crowns '👑
Pastor RC have such a heart for women!!! Thank you so much
That intro song has me in my feels everytime! 🥹❤️🥰
This is powerful
This is a life changing conversation
I agree with your teaching is because it is biblical. Many people want to do it their way or some other way, that God did not design for us. But yet they are surprised that they are miserable and their lives are in shambles.
Ooooo Pastor u speak so much truth here. Dang😭😭😭 Lord help us come out of this broken state. Help me to love me and see me the you see me Lord. Thank you Pastor 👏🏿I love you♥
This was an excellent teaching.
I think this helped validate my feelings about what I’m attracted to. I don’t find the bad boys attractive nor do I look at a man’s bank account. I just want to find a good man that’s into me as much as into him. There seems to be a disconnect for me in they respect of attraction thou. Either I’m really attracted to them but there are not to me, or vice versa. That’s been the road block for me. But the bad boy trope is not at all appealing to me
This is exactly me Els F!
@@channettebrown4623 it’s hard isn’t it. It’s like everything he says I’m doing, however the attraction piece is lacking on either my side or his side.
@@elsf yep same here! I’ve known a man for over 15 years. He’s always shown interest but I never liked him on that level. I just don’t think we should force ourselves to like anyone…it’s also not far to the guy. As you I don’t do bad boy, nor am I a gold digger… I just feel it should be mutual between the two & not forced.
@@channettebrown4623 ABSOLUTELY! I had a lady ask me is the guy had everything on my list but I wasn’t attracted to them what would I do. And I’m like I wouldn’t want to be with someone I have to force myself to be intimate with. That should come naturally. I wouldn’t want to be with a man that felt that way about me.
@@elsf omg…girl you have me shouting!! I literally just said that about being intimate with someone you’re not attracted to. No one should force themselves to be with anyone intimately or in a relationship. My question is though for pastor is what do you do in this case?
Thank you 🙏❤️
True message, thanks for sharing your wisdom. Loving the background btw.
Straight fire!🔥🔥🔥
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OUTSTANDING!!!
Thank you Bishop Blakes!❤
Your wisdom is INTOXICATING!
Thank you Pator RC Blake for this message, I'm middle aged woman I'm just now really understanding my value, it's very painful to get to this place so late in life but everyday I'm discovering my value and worth. Thank you for being my spiritual father for two years now. May god continue to bless you and your union amen.
Same here. I'm 48, and I mourn almost every day that I'm discovering my worth now. I went from having no standards to very high standards in just over a year. But now these high standards at this age I feel will only seal my destiny to remain single for the rest of my life. It's like having 2 strikes against me.
What a life changing word 🙌🏾 👏🏾
Truly Powerful and very useful message
What a gift that you are. Praise to the most High Yah!
Thank you.