HOW A WOMAN BUILDS CONFIDENCE by RC Blakes

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  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  Рік тому +182

    HELLO FAMILY! Happy Labor Day to all of my USA family! Please SHARE this on FACEBOOK and TWITTER. Also LIKE this video please.

    • @annbonaventure4919
      @annbonaventure4919 Рік тому +1

      😮😅😂

    • @EnterTainment-vv1qs
      @EnterTainment-vv1qs Рік тому +3

      Any videos for Men? How do Men Build Confidence?

    • @princehamdanjournal
      @princehamdanjournal Рік тому +1

      ❤ Blessings

    • @UndeniableKeziah
      @UndeniableKeziah Рік тому

      🙏🏽

    • @shikhak6476
      @shikhak6476 Рік тому +1

      Your videos come just at the right time. Helps bring clarity and confirmation to self reflection.
      Thank you Father! 💐
      I bow to you for giving me what I lacked since childhood 🙇‍♀️
      I am so blessed to have you 🍀

  • @JanelJohnson_RN
    @JanelJohnson_RN Рік тому +268

    - Confidence is “I’ll be fine if they don’t like me.”
    - To build confidence, you must insulate your soul today. Have boundaries between you and other influences.
    - Meditate on Gods word and what he says about you
    - Reflect on accomplishments and what God has done
    - Reject lies ( 2 Corinthians 3:5)
    - Qualify the voices that speak in your life. Can’t listen to everyone
    - Be prepared
    - Refrain negative thoughts
    - Always show up at your best
    -

  • @keepingitrealwithe1819
    @keepingitrealwithe1819 Рік тому +293

    IF YOU GUYS REMEMBER ME A WHILE BACK I WAS TALKING ABOUT MY SON WHO IS IN STAGE FIVE RENAL KIDNEY FAILURE...WELL IT TOOK ME A YEAR ...WE BEEN ON CALL FOR A KIDNEY..NOW FOR A MONTH DEVIN IS 16 NOW LETS KEEP DEVIN LIFTED UP AS I KEEP TRYING TO DO ALL I CAN 🙏🙏🙏

  • @areneecreatesNewEra
    @areneecreatesNewEra Рік тому +205

    Let’s all go ahead and click like (if you hadn’t already) because we know it’s going to be good

  • @ladykeiaj
    @ladykeiaj Рік тому +55

    “”Confidence is not “They will like me”. Confidence is “I’ll be fine if they don’t.” “” - Christina Grimmie

  • @sheenalynne8244
    @sheenalynne8244 Рік тому +28

    “Comb yo hair before you go to Walmart”😂😂 I can’t

  • @dawnweston10
    @dawnweston10 Рік тому +99

    I always press the 'like' button before RC's talks, because everything he says is something worthwhile, that I feel is a privilege to listen to.🙏🏽

  • @kawana8072
    @kawana8072 Рік тому +17

    Wow “You don’t have to feel like a winner to win “! Powerful

  • @rochellebartholomew
    @rochellebartholomew Рік тому +18

    “This culture thrives on the broken consciousness of women” 😢
    You are a truth speaker RC, I always feel clearer and more confident when I listen to you regularly.
    Thank you 💛

  • @ladybrown03
    @ladybrown03 Рік тому +42

    “Keep going no matter what you’re feeling. This is how you dominate doubts. If you keep going, your life is going to disprove the doubt. You don’t have to feel like a winner to win.” - RC Blakes 🙌🏾

    • @Lashay_Taylor
      @Lashay_Taylor Рік тому

      This was the one for me too.

    • @elleelle7200
      @elleelle7200 Рік тому +1

      He’s brilliant…psychologically this is a very important principle.

  • @barbyyakubu6718
    @barbyyakubu6718 Рік тому +80

    Confidence is owning and protecting your energy from any insignificant action of another. Its self love ❤
    Thanks a bunch Bishop Blakes, quite a prudent advice. ✌👍

  • @sarahpeyton3824
    @sarahpeyton3824 Рік тому +6

    The ear gate & the voices that we listen too! My God!!! IMPERATIVE

  • @sarahpeyton3824
    @sarahpeyton3824 Рік тому +11

    Confidence has an undeniable presence! Absolutely True!

  • @Ruth-vy1qj
    @Ruth-vy1qj Рік тому +19

    I need to hear this about confidence many people try break your confidence out of their insecurities/problems. We need to know our identity in Christ. Build your faith up by reading the Bible(spiritual food) daily like you eat your physical food.

  • @Kashmir-lt4cx
    @Kashmir-lt4cx Рік тому +1

    @34:33 I ❤❤❤ the ziploc analogy! Thank you!

  • @Feliciamsmith48
    @Feliciamsmith48 Рік тому +33

    Excellent teaching tonight. Another successful course in the RC Blakes University classroom tonight.... Thank you, Pastor Blakes.

  • @darlindahairston199
    @darlindahairston199 Рік тому +7

    Being true to myself and loving me has brought me great confidence to be in any circumstances.

  • @lynellb
    @lynellb Рік тому +3

    The ziplock bag illustration was on point!

  • @kimmcgrory9404
    @kimmcgrory9404 Рік тому +6

    Good evening! Listening in Philadelphia

  • @debbiepatterson6365
    @debbiepatterson6365 Рік тому +10

    "I own my energy." I love this. Thanks, Pastor Blakes . 🇨🇦

    • @lisaj47
      @lisaj47 Рік тому

      I like this one.

  • @Faith_First
    @Faith_First Рік тому +10

    Good evening Queens 👸🏽 and Hi to any Kings peeping on this live 😂

  • @goodfree4807
    @goodfree4807 Рік тому +23

    🙏🏽 can’t wait to hear the wonderful word Pastor 🙏🏽

  • @markesabowers1567
    @markesabowers1567 Рік тому +3

    Am empowered the more pastor Blakes I've discovered why some of my enlaws who are verbally abusive because they have father woundedness,brokenness. I'm glad that the Lord has built me the things that I've endured didn't kill me. I'm glad to discovered that it's a choice nolonger will I be a prisoner of the past am a prisoner of hope! I choose to speak life over death becoming the best version of myself unapologetically. Rejecting lies on purpose dwelling in healing not my fillings projecting myself. Divorce my past officially embracing my bright future.💜🙏

  • @glorianelson976
    @glorianelson976 Рік тому +7

    Love! Love! Love! this one RC. I am taking a holiday by myself, luxury accommodations and I am travelling on busy, many lane hi ways and I am turning my fear into Thanksgiving. God is with me and He wants me alive. I have work to do. Boundaries! I need to practise more and be ready for the energy takers. Thank you for leading me from sorrow to joy.

  • @andreawilliams1786
    @andreawilliams1786 Рік тому +17

    Bishop RC Blakes I want you to know I really appreciate every video that you do because it helps me in my life. And then I go and I help others in their lives and I just like to say thank you so much and keep up the good work of God that you do.

  • @pollyross8148
    @pollyross8148 Рік тому +6

    Good evening to you beautiful people😊😊...greetings from Guyana, South America🇬🇾🇬🇾

  • @Mildred-b7r
    @Mildred-b7r Рік тому +5

    Meditation, Reflection, Rejection , Projection. Amen 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Jewell-uc3nl
    @Jewell-uc3nl Рік тому +3

    To Pastor and new found friends. I would like to give a shout-out to your beautiful wife for allowing her husband her friend and her confidant To share him with the world of other beautiful women. Sooo much Love and respect to you first Lady Lisa. Continue Blessings to your family. Coming from West Park Florida.

  • @sarahpeyton3824
    @sarahpeyton3824 Рік тому +9

    THANK YOU Lady Lisa 💕🌷 and Bishop RC. I was totally Blessed and am so grateful for this Teaching! Gn & God’s Blessings

  • @jamela6020
    @jamela6020 Рік тому +1

    My parents were both born in the 1920's so they never instilled in me that I can be anything and they never really guided me in anything in life. As a teenager, I found confidence in myself on my own. I took care of all my needs as a young teenager. Female issues and college. I became a mother at 18. My dad was disappointed in me but I had confidence that I can have this child and be a good mother, continue my education, land a good career and a husband. All of what was true. Where it all got tricky for me was trying to maintain relationships with my partner/partners.
    I am editing as I am listening to you..now an 'aha' moment: meditation...somehow I learned along the way about meditation and this is what I always come back to when dealing with my partnership relationships, especially when it comes to a transition. The transitions are not always easy for me but somehow I always find a way. Currently going through a tough one.
    Wow...Great teaching...thank you..🙏🏽

  • @Feliciamsmith48
    @Feliciamsmith48 Рік тому +5

    Salute you Pastor and First Lady Blakes!

  • @immahana6854
    @immahana6854 Рік тому +3

    This is One Summorn I Needed This Season! For sure

  • @allanmartinez7535
    @allanmartinez7535 Рік тому +132

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @allanmartinez7535
      @allanmartinez7535 Рік тому

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do i reach her?

    • @allanmartinez7535
      @allanmartinez7535 Рік тому

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @QueenConsciousShay2445
      @QueenConsciousShay2445 Рік тому +1

      I’m sorry @allanmartinez7535 😢. If she left, she probably wasn’t for you. God has something greater later. Don’t take me word for it. Speak directly to Him and listen for His voice. He will never steer you wrong🙂🙏.

    • @Reclusive_Butterfly
      @Reclusive_Butterfly Рік тому

      Spam

  • @mariagilliam6783
    @mariagilliam6783 Рік тому +5

    Your teachings are so very discerning and wisdom filled.

  • @amorca4653
    @amorca4653 Рік тому +6

    Thank you, Pastor. I love the visual of the ziplock bag "you are loved" and the responsibility each of us have to protect that God given truth.

  • @Blessed75463
    @Blessed75463 Рік тому +11

    Good morning Bishop, this teaching was needed, one word Awesome!!!! Thank you, for this father, daughter lesson🙏🏾🙏🏾!!

  • @rosalindcooper1672
    @rosalindcooper1672 Рік тому +10

    Thank you Pastor. I always receive wisdom from your teachings.

  • @HannahManu-s1y
    @HannahManu-s1y Рік тому +7

    Good EveningAll ! Looking forward to tonight’s message. God Bless you, Pastor Blakes!

  • @jenniferadderley2566
    @jenniferadderley2566 Рік тому +4

    Good evening and Blessings everyone ❤🙏

  • @annaa6259
    @annaa6259 5 місяців тому

    32:33 - “ I hope this is helping somebody” . I am sure I speak on many behalf, these teaching saved us and for some are the first decent teaching we heard from healthy male role in our lives

  • @vickyl1010
    @vickyl1010 Рік тому +1

    Your illustration rocks! I will never forget it. Thank you!

  • @believing984
    @believing984 Рік тому +6

    Hiiii RC 😃 Congratulations 🎉 on your journey for better fitness, looking great! I'm excited to hear your teaching on today's topic

  • @TammyeCross
    @TammyeCross Рік тому +2

    Grateful I found you and Lisa!!

  • @UndeniableKeziah
    @UndeniableKeziah Рік тому

    Thanks!

  • @chinatolliver3527
    @chinatolliver3527 Рік тому +6

    This is a word right here! Thank you Bishop for holding us in faith, prayer and works. ✨

  • @LatashaSims-r2p
    @LatashaSims-r2p Рік тому +5

    I bought your queenology book it was great

  • @adinahaynes338
    @adinahaynes338 Рік тому +2

    I have listened to this message multiple times already. That’s how much I want this message to sink into my spirit. Your lesson always resonate with me and I thank God that he made this your mission, to help us women. God bless you.

  • @berlinejeanbaptiste783
    @berlinejeanbaptiste783 Рік тому +3

    Thank you RC ❤😊

  • @bora_white
    @bora_white Рік тому +1

    Your offerings are pure medicine - thank you so much 🙏🏻

  • @lexiebboutique
    @lexiebboutique Рік тому +1

    Yessssssss❤❤❤❤❤ this is invaluable can't write a check big enough for the gift God has given you!! Thankyou!!

  • @silviat8759
    @silviat8759 Рік тому +2

    One of the best❤❤❤

  • @FelisaPagaran
    @FelisaPagaran Рік тому +1

    Praying for you❤

  • @Kashmir-lt4cx
    @Kashmir-lt4cx Рік тому +1

    @55:00 not all the time! Sometimes one can think very well of themselves if they are a great human being, good-looking, lotsa God traits, and get opposite!

  • @hishandywork55
    @hishandywork55 11 місяців тому +1

    Power-packed, dipped in the anointing and prophetic-power word. I am so grateful and proud of my spiritual dad, who did it again.

  • @Jay-qc7dx
    @Jay-qc7dx Рік тому +2

    This was needed. I am blessed by this information. Thank you.

  • @LatashaSims-r2p
    @LatashaSims-r2p Рік тому +4

    This was very informational thanks bishop 😊

  • @toshikoroberts8023
    @toshikoroberts8023 Рік тому +3

    I like this waiting room graphics & music 🦋

  • @violethimeezembikandjavera1712

    Thank you 💕🙏

  • @fitdiva737
    @fitdiva737 Рік тому +5

    Own your energy!

  • @Thegirlwiththecolorfulhue
    @Thegirlwiththecolorfulhue Рік тому +1

    Thank you 🕊️

  • @relaxlistenrainsounds3063
    @relaxlistenrainsounds3063 11 місяців тому

    I’m in the right season to have found your teachings, I thank god for you.

  • @spin2643
    @spin2643 Рік тому +1

    Wow. This has been one of the best messages thus far… I will be rewatching to take notes. This was awesome!!!! ❤

  • @MartyMar-yk1ik
    @MartyMar-yk1ik Рік тому +1

    I’m so grateful

  • @lorettarambo2245
    @lorettarambo2245 Рік тому +5

    As a child my grandmother always told me to have a mind of your own. Now that the Holy Spirit helps me with my mind, the Word of God guides and directs my life too.

  • @nenasee8427
    @nenasee8427 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for explaining the demonstration I am going to use it to help my daughter understand how important it is to have that 'insulation'...

  • @aimajeffresswood8702
    @aimajeffresswood8702 Рік тому +1

    Immeasurable Gratitude. Sharing is noted.
    Blessedness! 💚🙏💯

  • @taiasia7053
    @taiasia7053 Рік тому +1

    Thank you ❤❤❤

  • @renico123
    @renico123 Рік тому +1

    'If you keep going your life is ging to disprove the doubt' .........nice

  • @bettyarchie-zp8ty
    @bettyarchie-zp8ty Рік тому +3

    Dear Pastor RC and 1st Lady Lisa , It's so refreshing that EACH OF YOUR WORDS, teach/tells us directly how to live a righteous life. I love it. You combine God's WORD/God's Way. Your presentations are real easy to understand.

  • @mss888
    @mss888 Рік тому

    I love the song. Powerful lyrics! ❤. God is good! Above excellent!

  • @sharonskinner2143
    @sharonskinner2143 Рік тому +4

    Yes so true

  • @renico123
    @renico123 Рік тому +2

    'you aint going to pull me up and you aint going to pull me down. IM the ONLY one who's controlling my own thermostat'

  • @lwarfield52
    @lwarfield52 Рік тому +3

    Thank you Bishop and First Lady Lisa. 🙏🏽🌷💗

  • @LeafsIn2025
    @LeafsIn2025 Рік тому +4

    How is this not at 25K likes not just views?!! 👍👍👍🙏🧡🇨🇦

  • @intheantemeridiem
    @intheantemeridiem Рік тому +1

    Thank you 🎉 the way you teach RCB Jr. is really a gift to us. Blessings

  • @ardoniaamand6196
    @ardoniaamand6196 Рік тому +2

    Love the intro! Two of Chicago’s finest voices.

  • @jennifersesley1998
    @jennifersesley1998 Рік тому +4

    Good evening Bishop ❤

  • @tonya1529
    @tonya1529 Рік тому +3

    Great teaching!!

  • @Moniquejohnson80
    @Moniquejohnson80 Рік тому +3

    God bless you Bishop Blakes for this message. This is much needed 🙌🏽

  • @debbiefoucha2679
    @debbiefoucha2679 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for sharing very good message

  • @leverajackson4172
    @leverajackson4172 Рік тому +2

    Thank u 🙏 🙏 🙏 🎉🎉🎉

  • @maricelg777
    @maricelg777 Рік тому +2

    Thanks ❤

  • @sharonskinner2143
    @sharonskinner2143 Рік тому +2

    Good evening all blessings from Chicago

  • @sarahpeyton3824
    @sarahpeyton3824 Рік тому +2

    Definitely Helping👌🏼

  • @reeree536
    @reeree536 Рік тому +3

    Good evening everyone

  • @Wearethechamps
    @Wearethechamps Рік тому +1

    Omg wow. This I listened too 4 months later but on time. Thank you God the universe for having my back and the gratitude I have for you RC and all my trusted mentors I've been lead too is just wonderful. Blessings love and peace from England 🇬🇧 Fam ❤😊

  • @philiciawatson5398
    @philiciawatson5398 Рік тому +2

    Step into the best version of myself! Yes ❤

  • @landrat3481
    @landrat3481 Рік тому

    Thanks for the Gems Pastor Blakes ✍️🙌☝️💞

  • @tabomwangelwa4150
    @tabomwangelwa4150 Рік тому

    Beautiful illustration Pastor RC Blake. Powerful.

  • @DeisyGonzalez-c7w
    @DeisyGonzalez-c7w 8 місяців тому +1

    Love this!

  • @Stormyweather551
    @Stormyweather551 Рік тому +3

    Own your Own Energy!!
    I love it, And you as well… Because you don’t have to be a Messenger!! God loves you!! So Many Men!! Know but don’t teach!! They use and misuse!!!!❤❤❤

    • @nzingahoney
      @nzingahoney Рік тому

      He is immortal among women worldwide for this very thing

  • @brittanyb5942
    @brittanyb5942 Рік тому +2

    Love this! Needed to hear it!

  • @ThatgirlNYE
    @ThatgirlNYE Рік тому

    This was for me!!! Thank you so much 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @erinpalagye8011
    @erinpalagye8011 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for your wisdom ❤⭐️✨🌟🦋🌞

  • @ikanyengmasole8504
    @ikanyengmasole8504 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Bishop, you minister unto my life every single day. Much love from Botswana

  • @kristinajensen1545
    @kristinajensen1545 8 місяців тому

    This is an excellent talk, received with gratitude.

  • @angelaj9397
    @angelaj9397 Рік тому

    Thank you fam. 🙏🏽🙏🏽💜💜💜

  • @iyannasmith4238
    @iyannasmith4238 Рік тому +1

    Awesome message as usual 🤗

  • @fmldiversify01
    @fmldiversify01 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Bishop 😊

  • @paulettehargrove2778
    @paulettehargrove2778 Рік тому +1

    This is one of your best messages I will keep this as a reminder of who I am