ASKING MY DAD AWKWARD GAY QUESTIONS
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Unfortunately his brother (my uncle) passed away when I was young. I wish I got to meet him when I was older ❤
That’s honestly very sad. I wish I would have had a gay relative that I can get to know and learn from. I’ve made up my mind that incase any of my nieces or nephews come out I will be there to support them ❤
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@@jameseb89 That’s very kind.
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I've been waiting for some of my nieces and nephews, but I guess not.
My sister's ex husband had a gay twin brother. We all loved and accepted Mike too. I never had the courage to come out although I know most suspected I was gay. I love your content/videos. You are an inspiration dude!!
You are so lucky to have such a great Dad. I'm 77. As the youngest son of seven, my Dad would tease my brothers telling them he loved me the most. As a kid and teenager he was always there for me, never missed my events, at every baseball/basketball game cheering me on. When I was 20 I told my Dad I was gay. I didn't want to go through life hiding it from him. He walked away and never spoke to me again. I ran into a childhood neighbor in 1969 who told me he passed away in 1965.. He never answered my birthday or Christmas cards sent year after year. Same with my 6 brothers, all of whom have passed away now, but I never once received a birthday, Christmas card, or phone call from any of them. They never acknowledged or met their nephews (my husband and I had (fraternal) twin sons via surrogacy in 1990.) My boys never met their grandfather. Today my boys are 37 and have given me 4 wonderful grandsons. Hug your Dad. Tell him every day how much you love him.
I can't imagine the sense of sadness and betrayal you must have felt when those you love most, didn't accept you for who you are. But you really could have done nothing. It certainly wouldn't have been worth concealing yourself & lying your entire life. And if they could only accept you if you adhered to their conceptualization of a 'perfect' son or brother, based on the ignorant beliefs they inherited, they failed themselves. Because they allowed that to get in the way of a strong relationship. One fueled by unconditional love. You can only control how you react to others, and you simply chose to keep your integrity. If anything, I find that couragious.
It’s a bittersweet story because ,in the end, you did find your happiness, but it sucks that your family never seemed to realize and/or want that happiness for you. I’m proud of you for staying true to yourself. Also, as a 19 y/o gay guy, your story gives me so much inspiration and hope that one day I’ll grow old and have kids and maybe grandchildren as well ❤
Wow! Im so sorry your family did that but also so happy you had a family of your own. Thanks for sharing this.
I am so sorry you went through that. They lost out big time. May you and your family know healing, peace, and joy.
At first I thought this was a really heartbreaking story, but then I realized that given the kind of people they must have been you were probably better off without them.
You're dad is the kind of man every gay kid deserves.
He's the kind of dad *EVERY* kid deserves.
Yeah...see him 20 years ago, before it was ok to be gay. Trust me, I lived back then. He would have been one of the homophobes, I had to put up with in school and society, I guarantee you. Hes just accepting- because his son is now gay. Believe me, the LGBTQ+ community wasnt a thing back then, anyone "different" was shunned and treated like a nasty disease. Dont be fooled, once a phobic always a phobic.
Your dad: “You knew he was gay?!”
Your mom: “I suspected it”
Love these Q&As with your family! 😂❤
Your dad handled those questions like a true loving, understanding parent. Love how your family supports you 100%. Let's see more family videos, maybe your older brother?
Your dad is a good sport to participate in this with you! I great seeing the support he has for you.
Your dad is a cool guy. Other videos show that your whole family is cool too. You are lucky to have them! Be careful - they might start making their own videos to compete with you! 🤣
I'm in my sixties now. Your father is how I wanted my father to be. Unfortunately that wasn't so. My father disowned me when i came out. He also told my straight brother's to forget about me. I was deeply hurt. But he made a choice, one that my mother stood by him on. I have navigated my life up the present, on my own. I have been independent, which I'm proud of. I accepted myself, and have been true to myself. I haven't lived a lie like some gay men do, by pretending to be straight. My life today is very different than it used to be. I don't live the gay lifestyle anymore, and have no interest in it. I'm at peace. I have been brutally violated in the past in a gay hate crime. I keep to myself, and i am wary of who i associate with.
I'm so sorry. Your story brings tears and breaks my heart. I'd love to be your friend if you lived in my city. Peace brother. ✌
@@travisgrant5608 Thank you. It was hard. But I understand why my father did what he did. He thought that homosexuality was a perversion. One my straight brothers contacted me years ago , and told me what my father had said about me. And it wasn't good. He was ashamed to have a gay son. But I have lived my life as I am. I'm not ashamed to be gay.
@@carltwidle9046 sending you big hugs and love❤️
@@justmeok3609 Thanks, and all the best to you.
How lucky and wonderful it is to live as a gay person today. Being gay isn't a lifestyle, i.e. a 'choice'. No one would choose to be something that is ridiculed, has less rights, costs more, and is not accepted by one's peers. If being gay were a choice, most gay people would simply choose to be heterosexual. As Chris' Dad said, he worries more about his gay son than he does his straight sons, and the violence you've suffered is evidence of that. My husband and I had a wonderful life together. He has since passed away, but I cherish every day that I am still alive. I don't live a flamboyant screaming queen way of life. In reality, that conduct is a small percentage of the gay community and growing smaller with every generation. I'm rarely recognized as being gay by the general public. OTOH, I am very proud to be a gay man.
This man is a gem. Please take good care of him. He’s such an amazing father.
One thing that stood out to me is how much love your dad has for his brother.. and I love that..❤
You can see that love the way he looks at Chris.
You're VERY fortunate to have two very cool parents, I hope you let them know how much you appreciate them and treasure their support/ positivity. Good interview. :)
I’m 54. My dad died 9 years ago. Never take it for granted that you can talk to your dad about this. My dad knew I was gay and both my parents were fine with it as long as I didn’t talk with them about it. There was no shame. I was able to have my boyfriend in front of them - just don’t ask don’t tell, I suppose was the unwritten rule. While my father and I were close we never were as close as you and your dad. Always appreciate how open and honest about yourself you can be with him. Many of us were not as fortunate.
I'm 67 and my family said they didn't want anyone knowing we had
a queer in the family. I made my own way, and just forgot about them.
@@geofffikar3417 How bloody, bloody awful. I'm sorry. Raymond
Hi Chris. My Dad is Gay and I am as well. This discussion between you and your father is awesome! It’s the acceptance that both my father and mother had with me. ❤️🌈 Thank you for them, and my parents! My father is also Gay. And made a life with my Mother mutually agreeing to bring me up before telling their epic story in the 80’s/90’s. They are great friends. Hope we can connect. I’ll share my story. It’s long, but epic because of my parents. ❤
As for this video, I can’t wait to hear this, I think it’s cool your family is open to talking openly!
Kinda wanna know more about your dad brother, maybe someday you make a video with him?
Anyway, you have such a cool parents that everyone wants 🥲
Why do I feel awkward 😂
The whole gay-son/daughter-interviews-uncomfortable-parent thing IS cringy.
Don’t make it awkward. It was fun
6:35 OMG! Was Chris adorable as a child or what?!! 👍🏻😊🧡
Dad is such a sweetheart!!! Definitely he worries about all his boys. Looks like you got your beautiful eyes from him. I'm 69 y/o together 40 years. Never did come out to my parents, but they loved my husband more than me. There just was never a need to discuss it. my mother told him that he never played with me when I was little. Mom took me out to buy boy toys LOL. So then i played trucks, trains, built stuff, sewed doll clothes, put on heels and nylons, knit. They were confused! Loved them so much and miss them. BTW I'm a physician and came out in medical school in the 70's.
I love your parents and your brothers being in your videos. Chris was so cute when he broke his leg ❤👍Nice to see you got sponsored.
As a father, I am so happy to see the love and support your dad has for you. No one should even consider becoming a parent unless they are committed to supporting and loving their children unconditionally! Cherish the relationship you have with your parents because so many LGBTQ+ children are not so fortunate. ❤❤🏳️🌈❤❤
Chris, I continue to appreciate you and all of the good in you. Give your dad a big hug for all of us.
So funny. You dad is just so cool. We all need a dad as laidback & understanding as him🫶
Yours is a true loving family, nice to see in these crazy times. Love your content. So from the heart, with humour andvoh my goodness your smile is amazing. ❤️
Your Dad is such a real guy and it's obvious he adores you. Thanks for doing this one.
Your dad is very cool. You won the dad Lotto. Cheers.
You are blessed with a wonderful dad...make sure you show him some love for how understanding, and wise the fella is...your mom is cool too....
I think he is very close to his brother. Every other question he is talking about his brother. ☺️
Sounds like he passed
I would like your father and mother for being so honest to the audience, and loving and supporting and loving to all your sons. As someone who had to tell my mom and dad less than one year before dad's death, we had so little time to reconcile all the shocks of having a gay son.
Chris, your dad is awesome. You are the luckiest. 😊
Chris I can5 believe how cool your Dad is ..his open mindedness is award winning 🏅 love him ❤️
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Oh my God! She rammed her finger up there like as if she were the Titanic going at flank speed! Not enough lubrication either. 😱😮💨
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Titanic isn’t the fastest hip nor the biggest one, learn that.
Great Q&A. Your Dad is chill and cool. Some parents (my father for example) do take coming out badly. Took my Dad a long, long time (years) to come around to accept me as his gay son. (Fear of the unknown, fear of what his friend's would think, there's a lot to that dynamic .... ). When he finally met my partner he talked with him non-stop and now always looks for him when we visit.
Wonderful Dad there Chris, and I echo many others here that you are so lucky to have such a great dad. Sadly I fell out with my Dad but then you can't sometimes change people. Keep up the great content 😘
you have / are such an inspiration to young people. great voice, great presence and unlike the others...you are really REALLY FUN !!
Your dad is cool! You are very fortunate to have your family.
You are so fortunate Chris to have such a cool, caring and loving father. In fact your entire family is awesome! 👍🤗💞
please do more with your dad. that was wonderful. he seems so happy and such a good sport.
At 6.37 when your dad says "very much a bummer", made me chuckle. A slang word for being gay when I was growing up was that bummer meant a gay kid, so it is quite sweet to hear that from your dad.
You have great supportive family and wish that every person had that x
Great content! Totally enjoyable spending my time with you both. Thanks for the experience.
who knew you could have such a wonderful father and still end up with daddy issues
I'm curious how that works now
The jury is still out on what actually causes people to be attracted to certain people and/or things, or lack thereof. Most of the theories that state that parenting directly influences what or who a person will be attracted to, have been discredited by modern science. There was a theory that an absent father is what made a son turn out gay. We now that is not the case with most gay men, and clearly not the case with Chris, here. Nowadays, people say it leads to daddy issues, but as you've pointed out, that is not the case here. We do not know what causes sexual orientation, we do not know what causes partner preference, kinks, fetishes, etc. There are theories, but most are not proven. The point of view of modern pscyhology is, something is only considered a sexual disorder if it is something can cause harm to the patient or to someone else, such as pedophilia. Being gay, bisexual, being attracted to older people, younger people (as long as they are adults), or specific things such as muscles, bellies, beards, etc. are not considered abnormal of by the standards of modern science, and there is no consensus on what causes these particular orientations and things.
@@robbyoconnor Like I said in my comment, modern science has no direct answers. There are theories, most have been discredited
@@jameseb89 To add to the whole debunked theory of "absentee fathers create gay people", I honestly think it was a pretty dumb theory to begin with for multiple reasons. For one, before it was debunked, there were plenty of out gay men whose fathers were not absent. But then the other reason you could tell it was a crackpot theory was because when people learned you didn't have an absent father, people would try and suggest "oh, I guess he just didn't show that much affection". Of course, if that didn't work, they would go down the road of "your father was TOO affectionate" or "your mother didn't love you enough so you sought after love in men", etc etc. until they could find something to pin down on what is "wrong with you". Shame is, people still probably believe those things, but even if they don't believe those specific things, there's still many people who think being gay is one of the worst things ever or whatnot and I think that's depressing. But I move past it because I have to, as unfortunate as it is that it is something I had to learn to move past.
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Chris, you and your family are the BEST. Stay happy and loving.
Love it!!!! it's so heartwarming :) I even almost cried...
That was a great video, Chris. It's fun to see you interact with your family. BTW, I like the new shorter hairstyle a lot--getting rid of the bangs illuminates your handsome face.
awehh chris u have ur dad’s smile!
You are so lucky to have such supporting parents 🥹 happy for you
Great video Chris! I found it very powerful. I am certain their are many younger folks who will find great strength in this video! Thanks!
It's cute to see how your family supports you Chris ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
what a gift to be able to talk like this with your family. i wish i had been born later sometimes
Bravo to your dad! He is so amazing and supportive. You are a lucky guy to have him. My respect. And, you are so cute ❤
You have such cool parents, your dad rocks
I love this Q&A with your Dad and your Mom watching. I am 70 and came out to my family when I was 21. My brother didn't care and said he suspected, neither of my parents had suspected. My Dad was uncomfortable to say the least and said I was young and just experimenting, he and I never spoke about it again. I loved and respected him because he always treated me and my boyfriends/partners well. I knew he was aware of my truth so I never felt the need to talk with him again about being gay. My Mom did not handle the news well at first but eventually came around. I finally found my life partner when I was middle aged. My parents welcomed him into their home for holidays and many family meals. My Dad is gone now as is my wonderful life partner. Enjoy your boyfriend and loving family, the years pass by so quickly. I love your videos!😍👍
ugh this is so sad
I came out at 28 in 2020 now I'm 31 my brother knew and cousins and aunt and uncles knew but not my dad :( it's hard because my dad Is homophobic
You have the best Dad! What a funny, articulate guy!
Thank..what a great father you have.. happy new yearxx
The kid is just adorable, smart, sensitive, thoughtful ad loving , a credit to his loving family
Your dad is so awesome 💗 love to all your family 👪 ❤️ I could never sit down with my Daddy and ask any questions especially these questions 😲 he's in his 70s and we've always avoided awkward things. He knows about me but we don't talk about it. Stay well 💗
I'm hearing the "Leave It To Beaver" theme song in my head as this video winds down. Go figure. And I'm glad your leg mended and no one got landed on by a skateboard. Your whole family seems so comfortable around life and the camera.
your dad is amazing!
Blessings to your family 👏
You have an incredible Dad❣️ You are very lucky‼️
This was awesome your dad was great please do more of this
Awesome family. Amazing dad!
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That was super casual and warm...enjoyed and liked...rock on...Peace-Love...☮💗
Aloha from Hawaii! Your Dad is an absolute treasure! Such a loving & lovable human. 🥰
I hope you appreciate how lucky you are. I still have rocky relationships w/ my parents & it’s so nice to see how caring they are. Any chance they’re looking to adopt a grown man? 😂
Your skiing experience is exactly why I have never gone skiing. I know the same thing with it happened to me if I ever had tried.
Your dad is so cool...Really an ideal dad he is...love your dad❤️❤️❤️
Hey StanChris, as a rule I don't like or follow "UA-camrs." You are the only exception. You seem humble, kind and down to earth. It's refreshing especially for someone so gorgeous. And your dad is super cool. I wish my immediate fam was as cool as yours seems to have been when you came out. Cheers, blessings and love to you and yours, man! Keep up the amazing videos on here!
Bravo!! You are blessed with a loving family and your dad is an inspiration.👍👍
Oh it was really heart ❤️ warming video. Your dad is really cool. Thank you ☺️
Next video: Q&A - "Who knows me better? My dad or my daddy (bf)?
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Haha loved this video. Your parents are amazing and your Dad's advice was solid. You're lucky man...tell your parents you love them everyday. =)
Smart Dad! And kind, love is great!
Your a genuine person your q favorite person ❤️..again, from Connecticut!
Great, thoughtful video! Interesting to watch! Good Job!
you look so handsome in this video Chris! You have such an amazing father. Love this video! Much love to you bro ❤
Love your Dad! My daughter is gay, she's 28 now and came out to us in middle school, she was so worried that we would not be happy about it, and I was like, I kind of knew your were, but didn't want to tell you before you told me. lol. Parents, support your kids no matter who they are, gay, straight, trans, etc.
love you chris, i dont like these gay you tube channels most times, but i love yours!
I’m proud to be a member of your channel
My husband and I meet when I was 28 and he was 17. We have been together since 2008 and have 1 adored son. We are a rarity in the gay world.
Loved this video!!!
Aloha from Hawaii I just subbed I can’t wait to binge watch all your videos. Aloha and Mahalo hope your new year is going great 👍
You have a great dad. He's definitely a good man. Because close to him for as long as you can!
just as an aside ... I think that you are a well rounded young man ... a lot of credit to your parents ... and btw, you are a very handsome young man
Very down to earth and cool dad. Lucky boy 😁
You look so happy & glowing 🥰
Love your videos would love to see more of you and your family
Such a chill das very open minded! Wish i had that kinda relation with my dad.
You parents seem like my parents. I’ve found it’s so rare after talking to lots of guys. They’re good parents…yours I mean. My dad sees me in rubber clothing a lot these days lmao.
I hope that these days it's much easier to come out to your family. Not all families are accepting - I still hear stories of parents who disown their children - but hopefully more than in the past. As far as I'm concerned, if you disown your child because they are gay, then you have utterly failed as a parent. My parents died when I was 17, so I never had a chance to come out. I'm glad that your parents are so loving and accepting of you.
I'm watching your vid again. I really enjoy it. I like your haircut. It's solid
Your dad is such a cool guy! He’s like an older skater guy! 😆
omg your smile is identical
Chris’ mom is so funny😂
Chris your dad rocks!
Always !! Lovely One !! With Lovely Family !! Always !!
Aww.. your dads so sweet and funny. He said, "it's probably a pretty low number". 🤣🥴
That’s a great guy right there Chris
Love the video ❤️
Very touching video, wish more parents where like yours.