A single mother of three, and running a business at 30

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  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2021
  • At 17, Pelyn Tan became a mother.
    12 years on, she’s now a proud mum of three who runs a thriving baked goods business. She’s gone through diplomas, a degree, a marriage, a nine-year nursing career, and countless lessons on life. This is her story.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 164

  • @skirtrunning
    @skirtrunning Рік тому +1

    This woman is one hell of a warrior for the strength she exhibits.

  • @wailinglee1335
    @wailinglee1335 2 роки тому +28

    Such an optimistic, diligent and loving person! You are a great mum cos you always make time for your kids despite your busy schedule, they are definitely proud of you!

  • @RealMadrid008100
    @RealMadrid008100 2 роки тому +37

    She feels like giving up but she does not. That is a sign of her strength. Massive respect.

  • @mokhtaramin2011
    @mokhtaramin2011 2 роки тому +12

    Overcoming such challenges at a relatively young age is impressive. I luv your Dad. Cool man. Please don't be upset with your Mom's reaction, it's honest and she did play a major part in ur life and made u what u are. I wish you luck and success in your endeavours. Well done 👍

  • @geekroute
    @geekroute 2 роки тому +20

    Hi Pelyn, if you're reading this, I just wanna tell you - you're awesome!

  • @ivanyee446
    @ivanyee446 2 роки тому +53

    You're such an inspiration. This puts a lot of things into perspective. Its heartening to see such a bright and beautiful smile despite all the challenges thrown your way. Thank you Pelyn for sharing your story.

  • @weili3
    @weili3 2 роки тому +56

    I was brought up by my single mother. I can feel your emotions and drive to survive. I wish you the very best in life with your young kids!

  • @btslee
    @btslee 2 роки тому +107

    She’s so courageous, what a heroine 🦸‍♀️👏
    May her struggles today blossom into smiles tomorrow

  • @bakkwa8705
    @bakkwa8705 2 роки тому +28

    Wow 😮 she’s a really strong woman , such amazing fortitude ! To study/childcare and work/childcare at the same time is no joke ! Wishing her and her kids all the best in everything . May God’s Blessings be with you always 🙏

  • @Staar624
    @Staar624 2 роки тому +11

    I can listen to her talk all day

  • @livetill7136
    @livetill7136 2 роки тому +4

    You are amazing! You find no excuse to keep going. Truly an inspiration!

  • @christopherlaw9184
    @christopherlaw9184 2 роки тому +22

    WELL SAID PELYN 👍🏻 LIVE WITH NO REGRETS! Your smile and laughter is your positive energy. RESPECT YOU ✊🏼

  • @ILovePlayingZeldaGamesOnSwitch
    @ILovePlayingZeldaGamesOnSwitch 2 роки тому +26

    May your business grows more.

  • @dnrgarments-hunt5635
    @dnrgarments-hunt5635 2 роки тому +3

    So Heartwarming. U go girl!

  • @beckham48
    @beckham48 2 роки тому +56

    She is cheerful despite what she’s been through

  • @stuartrodrigues4095
    @stuartrodrigues4095 2 роки тому +6

    You’re a beautiful mama. Stay strong babe

  • @pllin240
    @pllin240 2 роки тому +10

    thanks for sharing; very courageous and amazing 👏 👍stay strong and happy

  • @qyu...976
    @qyu...976 2 роки тому +4

    Strong and cheerful women👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @spyboy71
    @spyboy71 2 роки тому +14

    all the best, you are a extremely strong person

  • @Laorealestate
    @Laorealestate 2 роки тому +3

    Very beautiful and positive! You go momma!!!!

  • @abdulfattah4276
    @abdulfattah4276 2 роки тому +5

    respect you for being an awesome mum

  • @frankieteo6659
    @frankieteo6659 2 роки тому +19

    Wow.. bless to see you staying strong and positive. Keep up your achievement and success by going through tough time. A single mom with 3 kids. Heads up to you.. God bless and cheers..

  • @tomahawk1556
    @tomahawk1556 2 роки тому +9

    This is very inspiring! May Good Gods & Goddesses Protect , Guide & Love Pelyn Tan & Family always! 🌷🌿🌎💖

  • @aclp003
    @aclp003 2 роки тому +11

    Well lived! I've much to learn from her! Truly inspirational!

    • @marimo66666
      @marimo66666 2 роки тому

      starts from making babies at 17 😂

  • @VS-wv4qg
    @VS-wv4qg 2 роки тому +2

    Thank You for sharing this story it brought tears to my eyes ,I can relate on every level.
    Your perseverance has been everything to me in just 8 mins.
    God sees the struggles,the tears,the heartache,the lonliness.
    When He rewards He will Bless You infront of all the people who thought you would not make it.
    Never give up.
    Stay Strong.

  • @antoinesimeon728
    @antoinesimeon728 2 роки тому +2

    Keep going Pelyn! We'll be here for you!
    My mother was virtually in caring for her 4 children, alongside her parents, or our grandparents. We have all made it through. You can too girl!

  • @chandutomaz
    @chandutomaz 2 роки тому +1

    Very inspiring story

  • @max308767
    @max308767 2 роки тому +5

    Stay strong and seek strength in your kids. Take care!

  • @tricialow217
    @tricialow217 2 роки тому +18

    不是一个空有美貌的女子,她更是一个让父母放心,孩子安心的好榜样。

  • @LL-ys8uy
    @LL-ys8uy 2 роки тому +6

    You’re a pretty mommy and that’s a fact. Good job, move forward and try not to let your past haut you . Good luck

  • @eugene4261
    @eugene4261 2 роки тому +8

    Jiayou to this fabulous and strong mum! 💪

  • @joelpayne1193
    @joelpayne1193 Рік тому

    Wow, I totally respect lady who rasie 3 kids and running business at same time. Kids are lucky for their mother would role model for inspiration for their future. Good luck and may God bless this family 👪 😊

  • @simonloo1588
    @simonloo1588 2 роки тому +1

    Her story is quite unique but I find her personality very cheerful and strong . Kudos and it helps that she is pretty too

  • @maryngshwuling9916
    @maryngshwuling9916 2 роки тому +4

    What a remarkable woman 🌈

  • @thomashay79
    @thomashay79 2 роки тому +3

    U are a real super woman... Salute!

  • @rubennachang3196
    @rubennachang3196 2 роки тому +3

    Definitely strong lady!

  • @skg901
    @skg901 2 роки тому +2

    6:28 The way she said - "definitely"... Says a lot about her...

  • @paperluvxhearts8510
    @paperluvxhearts8510 2 роки тому +4

    Such a pretty and strong lady. Very likeable

  • @celestialstar124
    @celestialstar124 2 роки тому +11

    加油, i hope you do well and your parents, 3kids and you are happy. ❤️

  • @richardwang8080
    @richardwang8080 2 роки тому +15

    This , this is journalism at its finest

  • @jiarui1312
    @jiarui1312 2 роки тому +26

    Through her bff Tammy, I bought her nutella cookies, which is really really good! Worth trying!!! But with all the hardships u faced with the past, makes u a better person towards the future! U go girl! Jiayou!!!!

  • @denyce06
    @denyce06 2 роки тому +4

    Keep up the good job!

  • @JLWWANG
    @JLWWANG 2 роки тому +5

    Salute to all single parents 🖖

  • @Danderman888
    @Danderman888 2 роки тому

    Respect!

  • @darrelcheong8369
    @darrelcheong8369 2 роки тому

    kudos! inspiring

  • @abdulrajaf6
    @abdulrajaf6 2 роки тому

    Wow...the NEVER GIVE UP ATTITUDE...inspires me...I understand that your Kids are your STRONG POINTS...(Awesome...having Kids is the MOST...Mothers...would DIE to protect them)...Take Care...👍

  • @gerardvong
    @gerardvong 2 роки тому

    Thank for sharing luv y smile

  • @anermila6325
    @anermila6325 2 роки тому +8

    So pretty ;)
    And I am proud of you too.

  • @nurainshahrier9769
    @nurainshahrier9769 2 роки тому +6

    very brave and inspiring to all the single moms.

  • @venesleunam9293
    @venesleunam9293 2 роки тому +1

    We as Chef here we very proud u n I'm looking forward to support on event basis

  • @jerryooiss
    @jerryooiss 2 роки тому +1

    Inspired by you! Great job Mom!

  • @SharlemNina
    @SharlemNina Рік тому +1

    What a great interview 💗

  • @sgfuture9472
    @sgfuture9472 2 роки тому +45

    Being a mother is no easy task, so just imagine how hard it is when you have to do it all alone. Nothing prepares them, but they do it anyway... Single mums are Heroes...

    • @sumit6190p
      @sumit6190p 2 роки тому +1

      So true and imagine being a mother at 18.

    • @eatdrinkrunwalk
      @eatdrinkrunwalk 2 роки тому +2

      Dun forget single dad's as well....we are also super heroes

    • @nicholaschan4257
      @nicholaschan4257 2 роки тому

      ALL moms are heroes -.-

    • @m1xxified
      @m1xxified 2 роки тому

      I want to give her 1 more baby

    • @eatdrinkrunwalk
      @eatdrinkrunwalk 2 роки тому +1

      @@m1xxified How is it possible when ur small head is still underdeveloped?

  • @HyramaisaraMohd
    @HyramaisaraMohd 2 роки тому

    Stay strong ,so proud of u,keep doing wat u do ,keep strive, having a bless no woman have that

  • @ustadzahelmihamidahalimin3405
    @ustadzahelmihamidahalimin3405 2 роки тому

    Amazing 🤩

  • @askjoannaable
    @askjoannaable 2 роки тому +30

    Always want to say that your Nutella bakes is very delicious! You go girl, Pelynoobakes!

  • @iamvaibbhavchachad24
    @iamvaibbhavchachad24 Рік тому

    Strong enlightenment

  • @huffingting
    @huffingting 2 роки тому +1

    Her beauty is over shadowed by that toughness, like a statue 🗽🗿

  • @arthurdubois9978
    @arthurdubois9978 2 роки тому

    Lovely lady

  • @terenceeng597
    @terenceeng597 2 роки тому +1

    good inspire... hope u cheer

  • @Cat-lo6sk
    @Cat-lo6sk 2 роки тому

    Stay strong gal 💪...Me too life move on after my wife passed away 😢...Good luck in yr baking business..

  • @power279
    @power279 2 роки тому

    my kind of woman❤️🌹☺️

  • @xxxxxx8818
    @xxxxxx8818 2 роки тому

    Your brother is a fighter, but i didn't know you are one too! All the best!

  • @atkins8644
    @atkins8644 2 роки тому +6

    You have done out of mother love that there is no other love can substitute. Your strength will be their strength. Just keep doing the right thing not to sway into sin. You will surely and slowly see abundance in time to come.

  • @mylife5237
    @mylife5237 2 роки тому +2

    A man who leaves a woman with kids is a scumbag. When you're father, kids are priority, nothing else matters.

  • @kim-vw4wr
    @kim-vw4wr 2 роки тому +1

    Singapore is a very stress country even what you do you always feels very tired

  • @wayntang3714
    @wayntang3714 2 роки тому

    🙏🏼

  • @liu.dadong768
    @liu.dadong768 2 роки тому +6

    An amazing woman. Strong and beautiful. It's your ex husband loss right leave you. His loss. Don't look back. U are doing so much better now.

    • @leechengho8407
      @leechengho8407 2 роки тому

      You're very right, her hard-hearted ex-husband leaving this exceptionally courageous lady with 3 children, will definitely live to regret.

  • @samymorty4112
    @samymorty4112 2 роки тому

    she has such a cute personality 🥺

  • @kckamote
    @kckamote 2 роки тому

    ❤️

  • @jalanjalan7099
    @jalanjalan7099 2 роки тому +3

    Beautiful and strong mama! Jia you! 💪

  • @sicasfuc1204
    @sicasfuc1204 2 роки тому

    Courier is here. :))

  • @venesleunam9293
    @venesleunam9293 2 роки тому

    Be strong u sure can rise again

  • @zapp99
    @zapp99 2 роки тому

    So strong and focused. Amazing.

  • @keonglim
    @keonglim 2 роки тому

    Keep it up

  • @jaynetan3672
    @jaynetan3672 2 роки тому +1

    😍

  • @mabeldin7891
    @mabeldin7891 2 роки тому

    You are proving alot of women that life can be charged with positivity as long as you keep moving forward. I had thoughts of giving up too and also brought alot of insurance just in case.. But having a child stopped me. I had those sliver linings too. Hahaha. Anyway, if i am a insurance agent, I will target single mother. Hahaha

  • @thomasthampengkintham452
    @thomasthampengkintham452 2 роки тому +5

    life is a journey, good and bad times, it was tough but you overcome it, have faith, stay strong and believe i your inner self and ask God for wisdom. Good luck and God speed u and your three lovely kids.

  • @jeal79m
    @jeal79m 2 роки тому +1

    妈妈是最伟大的!

  • @thiahrazak6033
    @thiahrazak6033 2 роки тому

    wow

  • @steventay5834
    @steventay5834 2 дні тому

    I will feel very sad for her if I am her dad. But I will take good care of her and her children

  • @samk1918
    @samk1918 2 роки тому

    Hero

  • @asthenyukimori9853
    @asthenyukimori9853 2 роки тому

    I thought she gonna say from zero to hero.

  • @DressedRunner
    @DressedRunner 2 роки тому

    She might have sacrificed her precious youth but she gained more time with her kids. That's a fair trade.

  • @isozai
    @isozai 2 роки тому

    ☀️

  • @eliteprogamer27
    @eliteprogamer27 2 роки тому

    Funny when you see people you know on UA-cam, my mother is friends with her and I am very good friends with her son since they were in the same school and got pregnant around the same time but my father is still married to my mother and I am a single child

  • @salmahmuhd7398
    @salmahmuhd7398 2 роки тому

    👍👍👍👍👍♥️

  • @sweetyome475
    @sweetyome475 2 роки тому +1

    Strong independent women. So preety so educated with experience. Ill pray for you my dear.. women like u deserve better and more.just you wait and see 😊

  • @mohdyusuf1865
    @mohdyusuf1865 2 роки тому +2

    As a man,woman must be well educated...be strong n independent...if you want to marry ,go ahead...for marriages are all not made in heaven...if you can live alone...go ahead ...as a muslim myself...i feel sometomes women are not treated well n fair...well done my child....may life be always good to you n your children

  • @shiongyeow3977
    @shiongyeow3977 2 роки тому

    Jia You!

  • @ustradingdiary
    @ustradingdiary 2 роки тому

    What baked goods. Will buy to support?

  • @pamelakoh4660
    @pamelakoh4660 2 роки тому

    🙏🔥🔥🔥👍💪🙏

  • @jetsonje8654
    @jetsonje8654 2 роки тому

    What's her business contact to order the cookies?

  • @SuccessforLifester
    @SuccessforLifester 2 роки тому +1

    So steady. Many women aged 30 still not yet married.

    • @goodman2758
      @goodman2758 2 роки тому

      Marry for what they can afford them no need man ma haha

    • @SuccessforLifester
      @SuccessforLifester 2 роки тому

      @@goodman2758 I think most have very high expectations of guys until they missed the boats..

    • @goodman2758
      @goodman2758 2 роки тому

      @@SuccessforLifester tall handsome rich is their minimum requirement 🤣🤣

    • @SuccessforLifester
      @SuccessforLifester 2 роки тому

      @@goodman2758 Yeah..

  • @romantic2saygoodnite
    @romantic2saygoodnite 2 роки тому

    I want to buy her cookiesssss

  • @Interloper322
    @Interloper322 2 роки тому +3

    Pump and dump x3 lmao.

  • @trufflett803
    @trufflett803 2 роки тому +2

    ya i ate her nutella cookies i swear i need somemore

  • @jessicalang7320
    @jessicalang7320 2 роки тому +6

    She is a divorcee and hence a single parent. Single mother is one who has children out of wedlock.

  • @ssvegeto1610
    @ssvegeto1610 2 роки тому +1

    i want to say the husband or whoever decided to have the 2nd child whilst she was still studying AND working shift is damn irresponsible and ought to be smacked honestly. On top of the 1st young child too. Condoms exist for a reason, just cause you're married doesn't mean you can't use them anymore.

  • @felosio
    @felosio 2 роки тому +1

    I'm so curious how can her teeth be so white and shiny??