Deathbed volunteer: I hold their hands in their final moments

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  • Опубліковано 26 лип 2024
  • 67-year-old Lydia Tan is a deathbed volunteer. She befriends those with little to no family, creates happy moments with them, and holds their hands at the end of their lives. To Lydia, death is her friend and greatest teacher.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 63

  • @davidliu2243
    @davidliu2243 2 роки тому +173

    The fact she went to the temple on the patient's behalf is so heart-warming.

  • @kimleongloh4548
    @kimleongloh4548 2 роки тому +115

    Very kind and compassionate lady. Stay healthy so that you can continue to spread love to others.

  • @vennsim71
    @vennsim71 2 роки тому +81

    Very touching, and very brave of her. Not many people can deal with the terminally ill folks whom may pass on anytime. And the grieve of someone they befriended and watch them go.

  • @icelam1430
    @icelam1430 2 роки тому +24

    A lady overflowed with God's love and spreading her blessings to all around her.

  • @hotline333
    @hotline333 2 роки тому +8

    She not only tells the dying she cares but she shows them she cares by being there with them through their end stage of life. That is compassion.

  • @klloh5012
    @klloh5012 2 роки тому +2

    Angels. Angels walking on earth. Some wouldn’t even do that to their own family let alone total strangers, years after years.

  • @sabbyn.1815
    @sabbyn.1815 2 роки тому +14

    God bless all the volunteers. True angels!

  • @grayecious
    @grayecious 2 роки тому +15

    So moved to see her love and compassion in action. Not just talk, but real action.
    I didn’t know such volunteer work was possible. This was a very eye opening and stirring piece from Mothership. Thank you.

  • @georgetang3489
    @georgetang3489 2 роки тому

    Rare gem…thank you and inspiring

  • @flogo8315
    @flogo8315 2 роки тому +33

    Lydia is compassionate with no monetary return, real love

  • @prudywoody3265
    @prudywoody3265 2 роки тому +5

    This is such a wonderful testimony in our modern and fast paced world, which is often harsh, hard and cold. Thanks for this very meaningful video!

  • @CatherineMiloCookiee
    @CatherineMiloCookiee 2 роки тому +32

    This is something I wish I could do in the future.

  • @onghc5892
    @onghc5892 2 роки тому +46

    Mdm, You are a very great, courageous and super kind hearted person!!! I agree with what you have said in this video. You have done good deeds!!!! My respect to you. I wish you and your family all the best!!!!

    • @onghc5892
      @onghc5892 2 роки тому +4

      mdm, You are a very good example for all the people in Singapore. You sacrifice your time and the effort you put is great without anything in return. You are a great person!!!!!!!

  • @leadership345
    @leadership345 2 роки тому +37

    God bless her.

  • @kikilala4313
    @kikilala4313 2 роки тому +4

    Yes its true, besides suffering from the terminal illness, the hardest part of dying is resentment, anger, fear and letting go.. I have witnessed it myself. An advice for myself is treat yourself better when you are still healthy.

  • @ritateo1656
    @ritateo1656 2 роки тому +1

    You’re an Angel sent by God to help them. 🙏🏻💖

  • @celestialstar124
    @celestialstar124 2 роки тому +4

    This is something I respect and I know I can not capable of doing. I am horrible at dealing with departure but I know most old folks are lonely and some are unmarried so no family members to accompany them at old age.
    Thanks for bringing comfort to those lonely old folks.

  • @lynnlee5061
    @lynnlee5061 2 роки тому +5

    I’m so blessed to know Lydia and her selflessness has touched many people around her. She has always been amazing and inspiration to many! God bless her and her family!

  • @cindychuah4581
    @cindychuah4581 2 роки тому

    She is great, got the heart of gold to help them with the terminally ill. Not many people can deal and befriended with them. God blessed her.

  • @joannatan7284
    @joannatan7284 2 роки тому +20

    What a wonderful human being👏👍😊

  • @wlim1260
    @wlim1260 2 роки тому +35

    Thank you mothership for showing us this and thank you to Lydia for your compassion to those you journeyed with.

  • @dan01
    @dan01 2 роки тому +1

    This is touching & noble. We thank her for the kind service.

  • @anziar3038
    @anziar3038 2 роки тому +8

    👍👍Many thanks to the volunteers.

  • @xinweifang1981
    @xinweifang1981 2 роки тому +12

    Keep up the great work NODA is doing!

  • @onghc5892
    @onghc5892 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you on behalf of all the people in Singapore to you!!!! 👍

  • @prishoh
    @prishoh 2 роки тому +1

    Grateful thanks for this meaningful video to help us to learn well to accept death. Celebrate life not mourn a death.

  • @ultralight5550
    @ultralight5550 2 роки тому +12

    May god bless her soul

  • @kentot2position
    @kentot2position 2 роки тому +9

    Thank you

  • @ericlim428
    @ericlim428 2 роки тому

    What one gave will be Rewarded in Full , to Us or our Descendants ! Blessings n Keep Healthy !

  • @tayhuiyun7238
    @tayhuiyun7238 2 роки тому +1

    👍this video reminds us to cherish our loved ones

  • @kehidupankanada
    @kehidupankanada 2 роки тому +10

    True words

  • @putrinadirah7
    @putrinadirah7 2 роки тому +3

    So much respect to this lovely lady!

  • @shy3102
    @shy3102 2 роки тому

    I applaud her courage. It takes a very strong and compassionate person to be able to do it. So much respect for her 👏
    I don't think i could do it myself even. I cannot bare to see people pass away all alone but it would break my heart to see them go without their love ones beside them. 💔

  • @HartoTarto
    @HartoTarto 2 роки тому +11

    Well this is touching

  • @yeowmenglee776
    @yeowmenglee776 2 роки тому +8

    Thank you so much!

  • @musenw8834
    @musenw8834 2 роки тому

    Respect to this auntie for the care and love provided ☺️

  • @alison3776
    @alison3776 2 роки тому

    You are very brave & have a big heart... My respect to you. 🙏

  • @june4634
    @june4634 2 роки тому +9

    Commendable !! 💕🥰

  • @nanamitakuminonaka2075
    @nanamitakuminonaka2075 2 роки тому +5

    Such a meaningful 6:30min video.

  • @joelchoy6056
    @joelchoy6056 2 роки тому

    Beautiful and inspiring! Your rewards are in heaven. This is the true embodiment of living a life of love, self giving and the way of Christ.

  • @tengsusan4234
    @tengsusan4234 2 роки тому

    TqVm for your warm heart. God bless you.

  • @infinitelight465
    @infinitelight465 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for your unconditional love and compassion!

  • @earthcitizen4266
    @earthcitizen4266 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you for the kindness and feeling the heart. Lydia, Happy New Year 2022!

  • @p6h14
    @p6h14 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this video:))) ❤️❤️❤️

  • @mimib1142
    @mimib1142 2 роки тому +1

    Lovely lady

  • @clairechu9645
    @clairechu9645 2 роки тому +1

    so touching 🥺

  • @eugeneseow312
    @eugeneseow312 2 роки тому

    Keep it up 👍 great job , you never walk alone 💪

  • @tanjohnny6511
    @tanjohnny6511 2 роки тому +4

    I think we must talk more about death so that we can lead a more meaningfull life with compassion and love.Material wealth and status are superficial pursuits of life.

  • @terencetez
    @terencetez 2 роки тому +1

    I teared up

  • @leekokhong3829
    @leekokhong3829 2 роки тому

    Thank you for all that you do :)

  • @vincent81975
    @vincent81975 2 роки тому +1

    You will have a VIP welcome into the arms of God Madam ♥️♥️♥️

  • @SingaporeUntold
    @SingaporeUntold 2 роки тому

    This is a lovely story

  • @eelju
    @eelju 2 роки тому

    made me tear.....

  • @patmoh4204
    @patmoh4204 2 роки тому

    It is so contrary that a patient has a gastric tube to prolong his suffering, a urinary catheter because of incontinence. Ll these contraptions used as long term solutions needs to be rethink. The appliances cayse discomforts, pain,& infections. If you have ever suffer from urinary infections you know how painful it us. Hope the caring professions will rethink the procedures.

  • @mytortisearedogsone3349
    @mytortisearedogsone3349 2 роки тому +1

    Pls let me know how can I join you in this volunteer?

  • @ranggihustler2014
    @ranggihustler2014 2 роки тому +3

    How can i volunteer like her?

  • @chinchowpowpook
    @chinchowpowpook 2 роки тому

    As what they say your deathstyle depend on your lifestyle now!

  • @bappaichotu
    @bappaichotu Рік тому

    would it be possible to DM you Ms Tan?