Why People You Once Knew Try To Come Back Into Your Life (SHOCKING)

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  • @wheres_bears1378
    @wheres_bears1378 5 місяців тому +19

    The number one secret weapon I’ve learnt to use is this: keep your business to your self. Everyone is on a need to know basis

  • @AbsoluteMdot
    @AbsoluteMdot Рік тому +44

    I am very cautious of people that I use to know. These demons want to try and come crawling back into life with bad intentions. Do not fall for the trickery and foolery, keep them cut off!!!

    • @kisigma1011
      @kisigma1011 Рік тому +5

      I cant believe these people 💯

  • @hindwidad2723
    @hindwidad2723 Рік тому +50

    Especially those exes that treated you like you were nothing and abandoned you for someone else. When they say you're doing so well without them, Here they come crawling back with their tail behind their legs. No thank you! 😅

    • @kisigma1011
      @kisigma1011 Рік тому +2

      yeah mang

    • @goodone5590
      @goodone5590 Місяць тому

      Yeah man ignore them! That detroys their ego, trust me it works very well

  • @bctheicegodtv
    @bctheicegodtv Рік тому +53

    Been experiencing this 💯 They have no choice but to respect the new version

    • @marieke74
      @marieke74 Рік тому +8

      They don't ever respect you ....believe me ...

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 Рік тому +5

      BETTER to not deal with it

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 Рік тому +3

      @@marieke74 Agree, it's a waste of time.

    • @Bairom06
      @Bairom06 Рік тому +3

      Better to go 👻

    • @amenekram3555
      @amenekram3555 Рік тому

      @@marieke74
      No ....
      these people never experienced true discipline
      No competition
      They need a very good ass kickin
      And ruled with Ai...iron first and granite flint stone rulership
      They are gog and magog
      They opened a grave a door and a wound...that can never be closed.
      (These people are the ancients
      It's too late
      They are ment to be trampled and dominated forever
      They worshiped a stone anyway)
      .........
      Ever

  • @mysticlisa369
    @mysticlisa369 Рік тому +18

    As Eric Clapton sings “Nobody loves you when you’re down and out…but when you get back on your feet again, everybody wants to be your long lost friend” NOT HAPPENING! I am well aware of the snakes 🐍 and they won’t be slithering back in. 🙄😉

  • @Bxl19
    @Bxl19 Рік тому +13

    Be very careful of these type of people they asking questions for a reason to gain information from you don’t give them no information about you stay away from them

  • @MakeHipHopatreasureconscience
    @MakeHipHopatreasureconscience Рік тому +60

    I am being careful of people I once knew. it seems you are right, because it seems like they want a piece of whatever accomplishments I have done- even if small. But why didn't they see the efforts i was making and now I see why, they couldn't see it, because I was asking for support and assistance. There's a saying: "you weren't asking for to much, you were just asking the wrong person/people". They are also the wrong people to enjoy success with- they can turn on you for all the wrong reasons.

  • @Summermoon7.
    @Summermoon7. 2 місяці тому +2

    They want to make sure you’re not doing better than them, and if you are they want to try and sabotage/compete/speak curses over whatever you have going on. They want you back in that same hell pit they stayed in. They are relentless with it too…always in groups or a pair, can never work alone. This will go on for YEARS and YEARS. This is always sent in friendships and romantic partners etc. ignore, block, and protect your piece and privacy at all costs! Energy is contagious as hell.

  • @irocwellOO3
    @irocwellOO3 Рік тому +9

    They come back….Ignore, Block, Delete.

  • @ThaVisionaryTeam
    @ThaVisionaryTeam 7 місяців тому +7

    True colors show when you are broke and losing in life because they can't benefit off of you. So they will disrespect you, can't see you for who you really are, talk behind your back, laugh at you, downplaying, etc. But as soon as you make it in life, all of a sudden they want to respect you, see you for who you really are, be all happy and go lucky for you now. Most people fall into the trap of forgetting all of the wrongdoings the other person or people did but a person like me lmao.... You have to be a cold hearted mf to cut off all ties without batting an eye because I 100% guarantee if you were to ever fall back off, they would go right back to their old ways like nothing changed. So have financial independence and personal independence so you would never need a person to do anything for you ever again. Riches and butt naked beautiful women only at this point for me personally haha.

  • @BIGCHILLS
    @BIGCHILLS 4 місяці тому +5

    I have had this happen multiple times. NEVER HANG OUT WITH THEM. Whether you improved or not, it doesnt matter. There is a reason you didnt hang out with each other. You dont like eachother. Just say a good thing and leave. I legit dont even want to meet people. Just work, make a decent wage, make ends meet, go to sleep. Its legit relaxing.

  • @johnmoran7996
    @johnmoran7996 Рік тому +13

    Most people I used to hang with are complete failures at this point in their lives.and,I'm better off being by myself with my best pet gang!😎💪👍🐹🐾🐾🐾🐾🐾

  • @gvlzkz1118
    @gvlzkz1118 Рік тому +16

    There's a saying In Mexico that goes
    "A Mexican's worst enemy is another Mexican".
    I think this applies to every other country and their countrymen/women. Sheesh.

  • @drummerAVA
    @drummerAVA Рік тому +15

    It reaches a point where it feels like you’re becoming people’s therapists… because you’re around doing your thing and people start feeling some type of way, and they start whining, lashing out, asking questions… this, that, and the other… and suddenly it’s like you’re coaching them on what they can do to do better and/or why they’re being ridiculous.
    Like man, y’all are GROWN adults acting like children… everyone was just chillin, no cares in the world, until YOU did enough to make a fool of yourself. Whipped an issue right out of thin air when there was none…
    These people are their OWN worst enemies!

  • @bumblebee_mrs
    @bumblebee_mrs Рік тому +14

    The mistake I made was giving girls from my school a second chance on our 25 year reunion. Never again.

  • @OnThePrecipiceMedia
    @OnThePrecipiceMedia 4 місяці тому +5

    As My friend back home in Queens Ny would always say, “The Ghost of Your Past will come back to haunt You” … smh 🤦‍♂️ Crazy ass fucked up World We live in.

    • @Mainman7
      @Mainman7 4 місяці тому +2

      I like that

    • @OnThePrecipiceMedia
      @OnThePrecipiceMedia 4 місяці тому +1

      @@Mainman7 Haha Lol . Thanks but it’s so Fkn true . Unfortunately smh

    • @tums2254
      @tums2254 Місяць тому +1

      Great saying. However, if that ghost shows up, it is going to get a fierce exorcism.

    • @OnThePrecipiceMedia
      @OnThePrecipiceMedia Місяць тому

      @@tums2254 Just Bring It On

    • @OnThePrecipiceMedia
      @OnThePrecipiceMedia Місяць тому

      @@tums2254 💪 😆

  • @a_womans_intuition7195
    @a_womans_intuition7195 Рік тому +14

    Love this beyond true 💕..reality is learning to Validate your own feelings, otherwise they will gaslight the shit out of you, into their “reality”

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Рік тому +13

    Those individuals are useless valueless takers , when I am elevating I am setting strongest boundaries with them ! They are crazy low value people , they will get their karma and I already saw it somewhere

  • @ninjawarriorsword4798
    @ninjawarriorsword4798 Рік тому +8

    I rejected my old sitters friend request because I know the kind girl she is, no good

  • @dan5660
    @dan5660 3 місяці тому +3

    ..because their own life is down the toilet and they're curious due to gossip/social media chatter about you(if you're not talking to them). Beware.

  • @nawal10
    @nawal10 Рік тому +13

    In my case when I kick someone to the curb they think I'll get over it later so they come back seeking another chance lol. Usually we do talk but in my mind it won't go far. I forgive but I'm no fool. I'm really friendly and kind and like to think I give good advice. Sometimes it's just the wrong timing and things go wrong. If they hadn't crossed any major lines, I leave the door open. U just never know. My ex used to tell me u think u can help everyone but u can't! He was so angry with me for being like this. But I can't help it it's who I am.

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Рік тому +6

    Always walk away from people who with anger issues

    • @kisigma1011
      @kisigma1011 Рік тому

      That alot people today in small community

  • @ninjawarriorsword4798
    @ninjawarriorsword4798 Рік тому +13

    That happened to me once , an old baby sitter of mine from childhood tried to hit me up on my social media, she's is a bitter hater now she betrayed my parents decades ago they treated her like a daughter , she must have recognize me that I became very attractive grown ass Smart woman , she renounced her Faith in Christ so sad , We cut her off decades ago cause of her selfishness .......I'M not Nice anymore either been taking advantage over the years for helping other's with there sh*** , now I've heard I'M intimidating because I don't take sh** anymore!!!

  • @yahyaelmi8435
    @yahyaelmi8435 Рік тому +8

    Like nipsie hussle said “don’t blend in ,stay in your lane there is no traffic in your lane , “ he also said watch out for snakes rip the goat

  • @daynesmith5281
    @daynesmith5281 Місяць тому +1

    Basically some are blinded to what others perceived of you and make there plans based on how they can benefit of your star qualities icon vibes etc

  • @healthymind7419
    @healthymind7419 Рік тому +2

    Yup. The tape recorders. They never appreciate how far you came or give you the recongnising they just take what you say so they have some gossip to tell the next person about you and add their negativity to it. Low lives with no lives

  • @DivineTiming8888
    @DivineTiming8888 Рік тому +11

    I appreciate your videos bro, really enlightening and spot on to what I’m going through. My career took off and coincidentally a lot of people want to talk to me now, it’s almost funny.

  • @trey369
    @trey369 Рік тому +7

    Well said my man 💯 Terry laying down a reality check

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Рік тому +3

    Jesus set the strongest boundary with all snakes , never let any snakes eat even one apple from my eden don't even touch my grass ! kind of spirit !

  • @kurapikainred
    @kurapikainred 9 місяців тому +2

    NO EXACTLY BRO like just bc his little gf he literally cheated on finally left him he's coming back crying into my life for what??? I'm not gonna let him back EVER

  • @marieke74
    @marieke74 Рік тому +1

    Yep , my narc family try ! they don't give up ! I am at such a point that I Just can't handle those toxic energy anymore ! They lost their chance's . They want to come back Just to win over you and destroy you ! Seeee yah 😎✊💯

  • @robertgoogoo22
    @robertgoogoo22 Рік тому +9

    Speaking true facts rn❤️💯

  • @angelperkin2861
    @angelperkin2861 Рік тому +2

    I learn that you can't always help your family because they think it's okay to keep coming back. I can see now when it come to people hurting you no one i mean no one said this happen to you behind your back every one kept their mouth shut an let people hurt me. I don't have friends only myself and god.

  • @mijven9204
    @mijven9204 Рік тому +3

    And you're exactly right they're just trying to get information but I already know that they want to know how I'm doing things I'm doing and I forgot people stalking me watching me if they have eyes let them see they have ears let them hear I don't care what they do they're not in my life and they don't run my life I don't follow nobody never was a father I'm a leader that's why most people are not going to like me cuz I play by the rules and they go by the the rule book

  • @brattyxbre
    @brattyxbre 11 місяців тому +2

    nothing but the truth man, thank you for your videos ❤

  • @marktiltins8845
    @marktiltins8845 Рік тому +2

    They couldn't do what I could do
    Yeah, live my own life

  • @mijven9204
    @mijven9204 Рік тому +2

    You're right my friend they tried to send to offers my way but I rejected it and turned it down because I already knew it was a fake I know what they were plans were

  • @koban4max
    @koban4max Рік тому +4

    They can treat me like king but I will still treat them like peasants

  • @PsiPinkki
    @PsiPinkki Рік тому +3

    Mom never left me. Others.. kinda did! SO ! 🙂

  • @elanahammer1076
    @elanahammer1076 Рік тому +2

    Terry I know you are strong in your lighted path of helping others. Thank you for your goodness in humanity.🤔❤🇺🇸

  • @omarblack4206
    @omarblack4206 Рік тому +1

    Damn bro you are right. Thanks I needed to hear that

  • @latricehamilton6980
    @latricehamilton6980 Рік тому

    Thank you for allowing God to use you. You’re messages are always on point ❤

  • @makenziepolston1220
    @makenziepolston1220 Рік тому

    Great message they call good evil and evil good love this message

  • @Klainnso4L
    @Klainnso4L Рік тому +1

    You would be a good father, If I heard you talking to me like this Ill just feel warmth lol.

  • @kaylajoytv5859
    @kaylajoytv5859 29 днів тому

    Nothing but facts spoken bro 👌🏽

  • @isaacwilliams8355
    @isaacwilliams8355 Рік тому +2

    Love these videos

  • @forwhatitsworthwithHolli
    @forwhatitsworthwithHolli Рік тому +3

    Thanks!

  • @forwhatitsworthwithHolli
    @forwhatitsworthwithHolli Рік тому +2

    God bless you yes that's exactly what it is. You are so brilliant and I love and respect everything you say 💕

  • @bhmgmusic_nahbi
    @bhmgmusic_nahbi Рік тому +1

    This is waaay to honest and real Good job sir this is my real life 🙏 🙌

  • @Movieclips_101
    @Movieclips_101 Рік тому +3

    Speaking facts 💯

  • @Rico.splash
    @Rico.splash 4 місяці тому

    I needed this video 💯

  • @blackout8105
    @blackout8105 Рік тому

    I never change, comes over time, but the one thing that is mantra is God. Thank you for the message. Once again , Thank You for the message. Spot on! Blessings to you.
    I really don’t care what others do it’s their thing. Just be in control of God’s Path for themselves. Just don’t begrudge someone else.

  • @jiggerman1000
    @jiggerman1000 Рік тому

    ...Roger That Terry...I Hear Ya Brother...~
    Jig

  • @jessicamarieporter5391
    @jessicamarieporter5391 Рік тому +2

    I'm hearing you 💯

  • @justinpetcavqge9645
    @justinpetcavqge9645 Рік тому +1

    Great video again

  • @mijven9204
    @mijven9204 Рік тому +5

    Yeah I'm on my right path I was told I'm right where I put I'm supposed to be but I thank you and I appreciate that it's good to hear that from somebody I've been alone with this stuff for a whole year myself before my mom died in April and it's just good to get along with somebody you know feels good that's probably why I've been a lot because I was all keeping inside and not saying nothing one of my family members but whatever so thanks for the talk my man sitting here chatting back while I'm chatting back and forth with you but hey I don't mind talking

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Рік тому +1

    Take each single step very cautious bro

  • @glorytoogod6782
    @glorytoogod6782 Рік тому +2

    Joel, a owe u alot & listen if a do become as succesful as i think al defo, reward u because u make me happy when am sad

  • @godsowndeploy
    @godsowndeploy Рік тому

    I love you for this message ..OMG so true. Men needed to watch out for the girls doing spells for their wallet luring them in

  • @reaganwilliams7789
    @reaganwilliams7789 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for the motivation to stay straight and steady. Kindness for weakness. They're ways aren't mine thats why I stay with the Lord and they wonder who I think I am beacuse I win everytime. I wasn't at my worse so you deserve my best. BurrPink print. God be the Glory. Ice fire burn of reality.

  • @schutba
    @schutba Рік тому

    Amen. Reality is True.

  • @Benjamin-fn3fl
    @Benjamin-fn3fl 3 місяці тому

    Really relatable video

  • @krisgoldekofficial
    @krisgoldekofficial Рік тому +1

    truth big bro

  • @ArianeVan
    @ArianeVan Рік тому

    Thank you , you are very unique and a blessing.

  • @mijven9204
    @mijven9204 Рік тому +2

    I mean I appreciate everything you say I honestly do I'm a man of my word but I already know all this it's my job to know

  • @newluden1111
    @newluden1111 Рік тому +1

    I hear you. I know that's right bruh. 🙄🙄
    That's what happened and I'm not going to ...😉😉

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Рік тому +1

    If I don't take my life seriously , everyday would be anxious day , I won't get girls I deserve ! those emotional problems girls !

  • @trapstarmoses21
    @trapstarmoses21 Рік тому

    I had sombody to hit me up recently for sho,that they knew me from 6th grade till now and wasn't supporting an switch up.they first response was "It's Good to see you doing Well"my Response was Do you bet on it.and after they was like was im okay.they know truth was revealed..

  • @kisigma1011
    @kisigma1011 Рік тому +1

    18:24 facts 💯💫⚔

  • @thomasgyebi8717
    @thomasgyebi8717 4 місяці тому

    Im focusing primarily on internal work before i start focusing on the physical.

  • @Andformerthingshavepassedaway

    Interesting your correct and I think sometimes there can be well meaning people or even some of us have been that person, and I'm concerned my fiance of 8 years may become that person, even if it wasn't planned the tables have turned she'd be fine without be but I might no longer be ok, with her.

  • @Seasquares
    @Seasquares Рік тому +1

    My response to them?
    Wrong number bud.
    Moving on

  • @diadash
    @diadash Рік тому +1

    Dead on. 💯💎

  • @Newshustle
    @Newshustle Рік тому +3

    One of my brothers just stopped speaking to me about 3 years ago out of the blue after I helped him quite a bit for free. He used to call me all the time now he seems to have some hate towards me

  • @DeangeloBailey99
    @DeangeloBailey99 8 місяців тому

    This home bro I love it

  • @sylviamjames
    @sylviamjames Рік тому +4

    Yea, you know we just do not have to work so hard on trying to make them understand us anymore. If they are not for me, and are against they never were with me. The only one that will not let me down. The One True one ☝️ He is for me.

  • @Spirit-Life980
    @Spirit-Life980 Рік тому +1

    Wish I could have seen it sooner

  • @4yajustblazin
    @4yajustblazin 3 місяці тому

    Deuteronomy chapter 24 verses 2-4...

  • @marvanewborn2287
    @marvanewborn2287 Рік тому

    😉"EXCELLENT"!!

  • @terryrocks2j
    @terryrocks2j 4 місяці тому

    For me, I like to give 2nd chances. So far I've only got one guy that I really made peace with. If I was in the wrong, I'll try to make things right but if they don't want to accept me, then so be it. There is only one guy that I am really hesitant in letting back. Lets say he always expect people to apologize to him if they wrong him, but when he wrongs you, nothing is given. He is trying to be my friend again, but I don't see him giving me the same respect in what I give him.

  • @mebarekzaki
    @mebarekzaki Рік тому +2

    im a muslim and i feel so hurt that's why i listen to yu man thnkx for every thing

    • @jdoe7674
      @jdoe7674 Рік тому +2

      Respect bro I been thinking about becoming Muslim for a while now it seems like a much more discipline belief system opposed to modern Christianity which I grew up in where the rules were basically do what u want and as long as u believe in Jesus ur good

    • @idrinktapwater6174
      @idrinktapwater6174 Рік тому

      @@jdoe7674 Nah bro Qutham was deceived by Satan, had 9 wives, one of them was a 6 year old, attempted suicide multiple times and the earliest surviving manuscripts that survived Caliph Uthman's book burnings all talk about Jesus. It is a mess and you do not want to kiss a black pagan rock. Islam let's you marry, consumate marriages and divorce 5 year olds.

    • @mebarekzaki
      @mebarekzaki Рік тому

      @@jdoe7674 seems yu are a smart gey with values..so basicly islam is a religion with bunch of simple rules that make your life stright with aplaying faith and disipline ..if yu want learn more about islam i'll give yu my insta

  • @mijven9204
    @mijven9204 Рік тому +1

    Actually they're going to have to sit there and watch me rise to the top with all my fame and everything everyday every night that's all they're going to be able to see that's God's punishment to them who came across me who did not believe in me and made fun of me

  • @jessebradford7130
    @jessebradford7130 Рік тому

    You have a great smile....wait. 😄

  • @hugh2hoob668
    @hugh2hoob668 Рік тому

    depends ive had cool past friends that had no motives

  • @belindaking1362
    @belindaking1362 3 місяці тому

    His ex came crawling back, because we was doing to well for her liking he let her back in and she destroyed us both, then went dancing of in the sunshine. Laughing at him. His still doing the same old shit. 😅😅😅

  • @StarEssences
    @StarEssences Рік тому +1

    I left a lot of the men I dated in my past; and the stupid TOP tried to make me go back to them which I never did! When I leave I left for JUST reasons. The 11% income class have a lot of explaining to do when it comes to Marriage and committed relationships and paid wages.

  • @daynesmith5281
    @daynesmith5281 Місяць тому +1

    If you can go from working juggling djing film scripts lyrics music etc then realise u been living from 16 till 42 like a monk then you got women frim the past popping up out the blue what wood u think???

  • @rapstar4575
    @rapstar4575 Рік тому

    fine tuning like a tuna fish.

  • @Mainman7
    @Mainman7 4 місяці тому

    This is happening to me now

  • @WoziduranJahemter
    @WoziduranJahemter Рік тому +1

    Questions to ask them misery entitled demanders:
    1) Why didn't you wanted to contributed to my life from the start? Did you?
    2) Why you don't put some effort to improve your life instead?
    3) Why do you think you deserve a place in someone's life without gaining any self worth first?
    4) How it happens that you didn't appeared to help when the things were the hardest?
    5) Did you enjoyed the times when I was in stress and agony?
    6) Can you improve your life by starting from 0 first as anybody else who is a decent person instead of trying to cling to others?
    7) Why you don't laugh maniacally now as in the times you did misdeeds behind closed doors and wicked schemes?
    8) How much do you think you can live with the guilt if you don't start to accept the change and differences?
    9) Why do you think some people are equal if they are on different paths, actions and sets of intentions?
    10) Do you think that you deserve only good things without having some sense of urgency to be dedicated to aid others in need?
    11) Why do you think that you didn't earned any value in all of this passing time?
    12) Why you didn't improved?
    13) Why do you live in survival mode instead of listening more and be obedient to God?
    14) Why did your conditions in life degraded, can you admit to yourself what other more compassionate and decent things are to be improved and implemented into your life?
    15) Why do you expect another person to take care of you when you couldn't even take care of yourself to evolve and be better?

  • @THEECHIEFMUSICIAN
    @THEECHIEFMUSICIAN Рік тому +3

    🎯

  • @Jessica-jn4tj
    @Jessica-jn4tj 11 місяців тому

    You really should stop thinking negative - peace

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Рік тому

    Bro as a highly self disciplined and developed person , cut off all people who aren't on time all the time who today like this and tomorrow like that , all of them aren't trustworthy , get rid off them my social media

  • @spirituallyawakened3939
    @spirituallyawakened3939 Рік тому

    It’s nick I haven’t watched all of your videos

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Рік тому

    📸👨‍💻🔐🏘️💪 I am my own bodyguard

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Рік тому +2

    Snakes belong to Jezebels , it wrote in bible !

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan Рік тому

    Approach girls I am interested directly bro ! Ignore noisy people , all of them , all of them !

  • @The_Stockfather
    @The_Stockfather Рік тому

    Some of them were the bus

  • @phill8260
    @phill8260 Рік тому

    🙌🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @staceydelbucchia2576
    @staceydelbucchia2576 Рік тому

    🙏🏼❤️