Austin did the right thing; I don't know why Jenn felt blindsided when she never gave him a personal one-on-one to build the relationship. Austin, was not going to waste his time any further, and that is okay. He is really a nice guy and I pray he finds his person soon.
@@tjoue3007 I feel it has nothing to do with the connection, or lack thereof, she had with Austin but more with her "need" to be wanted/chosen by the men and her spiraling when Austing chose himself.
Sam repeatedly shows his inner jerk. He had zero reason to be so obnoxious to Matthew who was polite and LEAVING and yet decided to do so. Then he blames everything on editing on SM. Really Sam? Are the producers editing in your “blaccent” too?
Devin was awful too. He attacked Jenn basically and threatened to leave. What kind of a “fight for the love of your life” is that? At least Sam would have tried to win her. The only guys I can away half way respecting in their reaction to the boyfriend was Grant, Spencer, and Sort of Jonathon and Marcus.
😂His comment was giving full closure- You're in the past. It's good to state that to some ex that's now "a great friend" they can creep in on a lady at any weak moment. Lol. It happens. I like Sam. There's no guessing there. No BS either. Is Jen his wife match tho? NOPE.
I think therapy should be mandatory for all participants on this show. So far, the guys are either emotionally unavailable or emotionally wounded and use trauma to bond with her.
It seems every season there are some contestants that share trauma stories. I know it wouldn't make for an interesting date for the show, but I'd love to hear what they plan on doing after the show, where Jenn fits in, do they want to relocate? More of the important questions!
I adore Jen, buuuut yeah... To be fair, though, it's not like they gave her a good selection to choose from. These are some desperately slim pickings, and that's not her fault. It's so bad this year.
I’m really bored with this season. I don’t feel like there’s much personality from anyone or real connections, just drama and surface level interactions 🤷🏽♀️
100% same. I only watch the recaps but I feel like even a 12 min video about an episode is almost too long because there is just nothing interesting going on. The contestants are bland and Jenn seems to hide her personality behind insecurities and feeling the need to be perfect in order not to get hurt. All the drama feels forced and empty and there is no spark of any love connections. I think the Bachelor/Bachelorette shows have struggled for years now and really need to reinvent themselves or call it a day.
It’s always kinda rubbed me the wrong way that the one-on-one dates feel more like the contestants treating the bachelor/bachelorette as their therapist
I've always found it weird that everyone who goes on this show needs to have a "sad story" prepared to pull out in case they go on a one-on-one. Just the rules of the game, I guess.
The cry story--not the typical convo a couple would have on a first date. Coached by producers as it makes for better TV than talking about how many siblings you have, where you grew up, what your favorite color is, etc.
I disagree. I wasn't sure at first, but after seeing several episodes there are some really good guys for her to choose from! I like Devin, Dylan, Grant, Jeremy, Jonathon, Marcus, & Spencer. There were several guys sent home week 1 & 2 who could also have been contenders. I would have difficulty choosing one of these men for the next bachelor as at least 4 of them seem very worthy.
Can I just say thank you for your recaps. I have a newborn and not much time to sit and watch 1hr+ of TV unless it’s super late in the evenings (when I’m already falling asleep 😅). These recaps give me all I need!!
I always watch the next morning. I've watched every season of the Bachelor Bachelorette & everything. I started when I was pregnant with my first child with the first season. 😊
I agree to an extent: I don't think she - or any of these guys - is ready for a serious commitment. Which makes sense, cuz Jenn is only 26 I believe? That's why I kinda never wanted her to be the Bachelorette, tbh. Bc she seemed too young & immature & unable to weed out big red flags, since she herself admitted she's never been in a healthy long-term relationship. I was more team Maria for Bachelorette - and not just bc of her authentic, no BS energy, which would have made for a funner, more entertaining season. More so bc she's older, seemed a bit more mature, secure in her choices, & clued in when it comes to a life-long commitment. Like she wants a partner not for that validation & reassurance it can offer, but just for the companionship & joy it can add to your life. That's my worry w Jenn, that she's doing this to prove something to herself: that she can finally be in a healthy relationship and pick 'the right guy,' and that she's ready it. Oftentimes, if you're seeking that reassurance outside of yourself or to prove that you're over something, that means you're actually not ready at all. (But hey, what do I know therapising over here when I don't know her IRL 😂) At the same time, I do sense a pretty strong overall connection w Devin & Marcus, as well as a physical/romantic connection w Jonathon. Only issue w Jonathon is, their connection feels very fresh and new -- like I can sense both of them holding back, since they don't fully trust each other yet. So I do think that, atm, he's playing catch up compared to Marcus & Devin. (That's not to say he doesn't make it to the finale, btw.) W Marcus, I feel like she's def barking up the wrong tree: them together wouldn't last bc they both still have their healing & issues to resolve, and he is clearly in no place to be dating for marriage, let alone a long-term relationship. (So honestly, I have no clue why he applied for the show, but whatever 🙄) And yet it seems she feels the strongest for him - outside of Sam M, who is just a walking red flag, so I won't even get into that lol - which is concerning. Finally, I may be totally wrong but I suspect Marcus' inability to emotionally let himself go takes him to fantasy suites, but not further. Similar to what happens w Sam M: he's made it this far despite all his glaring flaws bc she "likes him SO much" and wants it to be him so badly, but it reaches a point next week - or whenever in the near future - where she has to admit defeat & send him home bc she simply can't ignore the warning signs anymore. So that leaves Jonathon & Devin - both good picks, altho perhaps Jonathon is the more mature, emotionally stable choice lol. Then again, we don't really know him that well, & w the lack of him in the previews and the expression of his doubts, & how far behind he seems right now, maybe it is Marcus & Devin in the end. (Basically, either way, Devin is there 😂) Regardless, if she does decide to pursue an engagement at the end of the show, I don't see it lasting long-term w any of these guys. Bc none of them - including herself - are in a place to be in a serious commitment atm. And there's nothing wrong w that, but I do think it's a big reason this season has felt like a disappointment to a lot of us... I think this would've gone down very differently w Maria, and w a different set of guys. (Or maybe w Maria picking different guys from the first night.) So although I know we're all speculating Jenn proposes to her final pick, I'm actually kinda hoping she realises she needs to stay single, continue to work on herself, & not get engaged to anyone right now. Or at least, I hope she tells him she wants them to just date first, and see where it goes. It's strange tho, bc my perception of the preview- due to height- is that she says no to Devin & tells him he can't propose to her for whatever reason & then she says yes to her final pick who is Jonathon (or Marcus, I guess...? since he has way more finale footage.) But maybe she actually says no to Marcus/Jonathon and they just seem taller than usual bc they're on a higher platform so it's creating an illusion? Orrrrr she sends one of her final 3 home early (if it's Jonathon or Marcus, your guess is as good as mine!) so at that point, there's actually only one guy left. So she's deciding whether or not to just date him, propose to him, or dump him. A plan that she considers after he meets her family & they give her their feedback. (So maybe only 1 guy meets her family? Idk...) Anyways, I'm sorry this comment was so long, jeez! I didn't mean to monologue for so long 😅
I'm so glad Austin decided to leave. He never even alluded to Jenn not being enough. I can understand her being upset, but ultimately these guys are getting to know her as well and seeing if she is "their" person. She's got plenty of guys that believe she is and when one she doesn't show real interest in leaves, it's all about her. She didn't make it about Austin at all lmao.
This is just a guess from what we’ve seen so far, but I think Marcus, Devin and Jonathan for final 3. Based on screen time seems final 1 could maybe be Devin and Marcus. Also Jenn said her relationship with Jonathan hasn’t been as fast. Makes me think perhaps he ends up final 3. I’m ready for Sam M. to go home at any time and preferably sooner rather than later.
Maybe I've fallen for editing tricks but I really think Marcus isn't going to be able to "get there" with Jenn. He seems to have a lot of stuff left to work through.
@@naturalnaiad I've been feeling for a while that he might actually talk to her and tell her that he's not sure he can quite "get there." I think he genuinely really likes her though and maybe he does have some strong feelings. But I just feel that he's not quite ready.
I've been saying for a while now, that altho there's more finale footage of him than there is Jonathon, so ofc we can safely assume Marcus is final 2, something is holding me back from saying that w confidence... Bc I just cannot see him getting there w her at all. Or truly opening up & being vulnerable around her, esp during fantasy suites, when cameras are gone. Like genuinely, he seems to have so many demons and so much past trauma to work thru -- he is not ready for a life-long commitment at all, let alone a long-term relationship. So how she can blow past that & put him in the final 2 slot is shocking to me, esp when she claims to have worked thru her past toxic behavior. but from the previews, it truly seems that's what she does, unless they're hiding Jonathon in the promos on purpose to mislead us. In my opinion, footage aside, I would assume - logically - that she sends Marcus home during fantasy suites bc he's not able to open up enough or be intimate w her emotionally, so she decides to cut the cord, despite how much she wanted it to be him. (Same w Sam M: she hopefully FINALLY sends his awful ass home next week bc despite how much she likes him and wants it to be him, she can no longer ignore the red flags.) That leaves Jonathon & Devin, and your guess as to who she picks- or if she even picks any of them- is as good as mine! However, if we do take into account the footage we've got, it seems more like Marcus & Devin are her final 2, and she either doesn't let either of them propose to her and "chooses herself" aka stays single, or she simply decides to date her final pick instead of getting engaged, or she proposes herself as BF suggests. Or maybe her saying she "can't let him propose to her" is her telling off her second choice (Marcus) before she decides to propose to her final pick (Devin/Jonathon.) Essentially, I can't see a world in which she chooses Marcus, bc he is def the most closed off out of the three... But if she does, then I'll be damned! Lol. I have a suspicion that what we may be missing from the footage is one of her final 3 going home (or sending themselves home) early, meaning that maybe only one of them is left at the end, and only one of them meets her family. But I could be totally wrong, esp bc Marcus' footage looks more like final dates than fantasy suites... I was just thinking that if we set the footage aside, maybe Marcus is sent home/leaves DURING fantasy suites, i.e. right after their overnight. Orrrr maybe Jonathon is sent home/leaves before fantasy suites, i.e. right after hometowns? Basically, she eliminates Jeremy at the hometowns rose ceremony, but then, at some point during their fantasy suite date, Jonathon says he can't go further w her bc he doesn't feel confident enough in their connection, & he's been doubts & insecurities on where they stand, bc of the other men left. Jenn then tells him if he's not sure about her, he should leave, so he does. She's upset bc she kept him over other men who maybe deserved the spot more, like Jeremy. And that makes her doubt her instincts & worry she'll make the wrong choice in the end. Which is then solidified on her fantasy suite date w Marcus, where during the night portion, he admits he's not in love w her yet, and doesn't know what's stopping him. She then feels even more insecure, bc she feels so strongly for him, but he's not able to be vulnerable w her & reciprocate those feelings. So she's left confused, contemplating what to do when it comes down to the final rose ceremony... Especially bc she's now down to her final two sooner than expected, which she's upset about. She feels it's a reflection of her poor decision-making. So she wonders to herself - and her family - who meet both men (that's if Marcus doesn't self-eliminate, which it seems he doesn't): will she continue to repeat toxic patterns and go for men who can't open up to her & where she is the one constantly giving, or will she finally set that boundary & tell him he can't let him propose to her, bc of the way she's been treated? Honestly, who knows, this is all just me speculating what happens & getting very carried away w different hypotheses! Lol sorry it was so long 😂
It’s refreshing to see Jenn’s response to the men when they share their struggles with her. She listens without interrupting them and acknowledges their experiences. Most leads just say “thank you for sharing that”. Although she often tries to empathesize with their experiences by relating them back to her childhood trauma and abusive past relationships. It could be the editing, but it seems like she somehow always turns the conversation to make them about her!
@@mariem3429 people can have more than one previous relationship, mariem. just because that ex wasn't one of her bad experiences doesn't mean she's lying about abusive exes
@@abandonablesnowman same way you judged Me to be "worse kind of person" based on 1 comment 🙄 Jenn says she was emotionally abused in ALL her past relationships (surprised b/f enters, Oh but not him)...also Jenn's over the top reaction to Austin leaving (Group therapy required) "I'm never enough, boohoo" meanwhile she kicks off how many guys?
@@abandonablesnowmanhow is devin not white? and jonathon too for that matter? altho maybe he’s hispanic but still - you can be hispanic and white. i don’t actually know either of their races or ethnicities btw, so feel free to enlighten me!
@@frecklesandwine You can, but Devin said his dad was Mexican, so I didn’t want to not include him. To me Jonathon looks Latinx af and non-white, but maybe you know something I don’t
@@abandonablesnowman That still makes him white though; ethnicity-wise he's just half Hispanic, I guess. And no I don't know anything about either of their backgrounds, that's why I asked you 😂 Cuz I assumed you knew, since you definitively said that they're all not white. So I thought you'd done some research.
@@Jcarp_88that’s not how it works did you never go to school? You can’t currently be a nurse. You do an undergrad degree in life sciences/biology/chemistry and take the required pre reqs to get into PA school while you complete your bachelors in science. Once you get into PA school (which Jenn has completed one year of), you become a PA student. Not a nurse. Educate yourself
@@cookiesarelikecream There are many pathways to become a NP vs. PA, and most require nursing or other direct patient care experience as EMT or paramedic. And most of those bachelors degrees you're talking about are in nursing as that is preferred... But my point was that she is not currently a PA as she has not graduated her program or taken the board exams, and is in school.
Devin is all talk. Ugh he’s so scary how he talks about how he doesn’t care about her behind her back and just spews generalizations at her. It all feels so rehearsed.
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Is the criteria for having a one-on-one date that you’re willing to share something traumatic AND air someone in your life’s dirty laundry? That feels so icky to me. 😣 Also it’s possible the real reason no guy got a group date rose is because none of them could find the gate that they ran past several times. The farmer is probably still talking about how ridiculous that was. 😂
That does seem to be the formula (at least from an editing perspective) for this show... All the fun/goofy/other facts about people get left on the cutting room floor.
Has anyone come up with the theory that Jenn is actually the one who does the proposing at the end? I think that's what she meant by saying she's going to finally take control. And the "I can't let you propose to me..." is going to be because she's going to be the one asking.... I can't wait for the preview breakdown! As always, thank you for your service, BF!!
@TheRealJohnHooper I don't know if that's what's going to happen. It's just the impression I got. And if I'm remembering correctly, in the beginning of the season, they said she did something no other Bachelorette had ever done before... I'm just making a guess, I'm not taking sides. That's between her & her man, lol.
I'm surprised by all the comments saying there aren't any good guys to choose from this season. I think Austin was a great guy, wish she would have given him more time instead of Sam M. Grant, Jonathan and Marcus all seem like really genuine guys as well. Dylan was really sweet. I'm excited to see more of Jeremy and I actually think Devin is a really supportive, loyal guy, just a little immature sometimes. I was thinking its one of the best group of guys I have seen on the show.
I really liked Dylan too! he was maybe a little bit too aloof & insecure at times, but he seemed really pure hearted and well intentioned. Super sad he's gone, tbh, but obvs there was no connection there w Jenn. As for Devin - I totally agree, despite how loud & obnoxious & immature he can be, his heart is in the right place & I really like him too! And they def have a connection, so let's see what happens. out of all the guys, Jonathon would prob be the best choice maturity wise - but I kinda want her to pick Devin lol. esp bc at this point we really don't know Jonathon well enough & their connection doesn't seem that strong. As for Marcus, he's a giant walking red flag to me lol. whether or not he's genuine is irrelevant when I don't think he's ready for a commitment or long-term relationship at all. he's not ready to open up or face his demons & still has a lot of trauma to sort thru in my eyes, so it does make me question why he applied for the show in the first place, and his readiness for all of this. then again, Jenn also seems to suffer from a lack of self-awareness in that regard, which would explain why they're drawn to each other, but ultimately, they would be a recipe for disaster. I think w Grant, he seems SUPER invested and sweet, but maybe a bit too keen? In the sense that he seems more invested in the idea of him & Jenn & being in love than he is the reality of them together. And that idealist mentality can be a bit naive. As for Jeremy - idk. We don't know nearly enough about him yet to make a judgment call either way, but atm he seems a bit bland, ngl. And I'm not sure if it's that the show hasn't given us the chance to get to know these boys properly, but I do understand where ppl are coming from when they say they aren't a great bunch. From what the producers have shown us, they all seem a bit disinterested, unprepared, immature and not that bright/no standouts - as a whole. Compared to past seasons, at least. Feels more like a group of boys than it does men. So either the editing is the problem, or the guys are.
This is the 3rd recap video I've seen today and no one pointed out that the guys, specifically Devin had that reaction because they / he assumed the ex was the toxic ex. Jenn did not tell them otherwise and she looked somber and bummed out telling them at all so ya people assume and the show loves that they let them run with it and spiral off of assumptions production knows aren't true because Jenn told US he wasn't the negative ex. The guys were in the dark as to who he was.
The twist definitely is jen proposing to the man. I have been feeling bad that sam is going to make jen look stupid when she goes to watch this back. I hope the producers help turn this narrative around.
@@shannonceleste5557 she's a PA (physician's assistant) so I think she's mostly a dr's assistant in an office, altho some shots from the hospital def had me confused lol so maybe she's a PA in a hospital (or did parts of her training there.) and btw, u don't have to go to med or nursing school to be a PA, so idk why the contestants who are studying for their mcat or in med/nursing school keep bringing it up as if she can relate.... like she's not a dr, and she's not a nurse. lol. (to be clear, i'm not saying being a PA isn't hard, or that it isn't impressive. it's actually harder than nursing school, bc there are more requirements to fulfill in a shorter period of time. so it's a bit more labor intensive from a learning perspective, bc it copies the medical model. but still, it's not the same as being a dr or nurse, despite being in the same field. that's all I was trying to say lol.)
Bye bye Thomas 😆🤣 Pls don't bring him back for BIP. Jen is SO sensitive, She can dump guys left & right including her Ex (which wanted screen time only & not abusive) but when Mullet leaves, she needs group therapy 😵💫
Thank you for the entertaining recaps!😂 I just couldn’t watch this season anymore… This show feels so bland. Everything has become so painfully predictable and I hope Jenn seeks therapy. I don’t think she was ready to be on a reality TV show like this (or deal with the behind the scenes dynamic with the producers).
Man, I'm struggling with the ex situation. He seemed so nice and genuine and he also suggested that he had told her before that he was in love with her, which she continually says has never happened before. I am losing confidence that we're getting an authentic picture of Jen and her past. I'm having a hard time rooting for her when I don't feel like I trust her.
Thanks for your recaps! (I find them highly entertaining.) I like Jenn-but I think that when she speaks, she often has a similar affectation like Queen Kane from the “See” series-and I just can’t unhear it!
this season of guys has screwed her. she might as well get her swimsuit ready for paradise. or even try love is blind at this point. i havent ever seen such a unfit group of men
I know some people find this season boring and that they don't see any true love connections, but most of the fun seasons and "true love" seasons have ended in breakup or divorce. Maybe a boring season is what will actually lead to a lasting bachelor couple. Idk we'll see haha
I know that Jen doesn't know how Sam behaves when he's with the other guys, but the way he behaved during their date I would have ended it there, but since she's physically attracted to him, I think she's ignoring his behavior. 🤷♀ 🤷♀ I get Jen's connection with Devin. He always looks for opportunities to be with her even when the other guys are present. So, even though I don't like his methods, they're working. So, during the group date, when Jen said that she wanted to see which of the guys would seek to spend time with her and given attention, I knew that Devin was going to do just that. I think that's why he got the alone time (the farmers probably saw how he spent time with Jen, despite everything else). And with Jonathon and Grant, I see no connection, no chemistry between them. 🤷♀🤷♀🤷♀
I was thinking earlier about how Jenn sent two guys home the first night for displaying fuckboy behavior and they were both black, but she excuses it in Sam M. Obviously not intentional on her part, but it is interesting that she has the blinders up for him that she probably wouldn’t for other guys
The fact that you don't see Devin's stealing time from other men and wanting her being with him 'alone' on 'group' dates as a red flag baffles me. Why can't he compete with everyone else and actually win more personal time fairly. The same way you think a guy only wants to have you to himself is cute is the same way one by one he will cut other people out of your life because he wants you only to himself. Devin isnt it.
Like I know it’s literally the core of the show and everyone wants more screen time but I hate that the message is, “Whaaat? No! Of course we’re romantically compatible and wouldn’t just be better as friends. That’s crazy!”
That conversation with Jonathan was odd. You didnt mention it all but he talked about his ex "self medicating" and then that he woke up and she was gone. And that she accused him of being all forms of abusive. It was real odd. If i was dating him and would see red flags, at the very least he needs therapy.
I’m surprisingly loving this season, even though I really didn’t think I was gonna like Jenn, she’s good, no wonder these men are fighting like cats and dogs over her. She embodies old Hollywood glam, she’s a lady lady
There was one moment in this episode when Jonathan and this other guy went outside to talk on the lawn and it was late at night. I am not sure they knew the cameras were on them from the background but, Jonathan asked the guy if he had feelings for Jenn and he said-yeah I do. Jonathan then said- I don’t know man, she’s just weird and the irony was that Jonathon was wearing a rose already from his one to one date he had with Jenn. Did anyone else’s caught this?? Not cool if he leading Jenn on….
Yes Jonathon was talking to Grant and Grant was the one expressing his feelings for Jenn. But no, I don't remember Jonathon saying he thinks Jenn is weird. I think he said the situation is weird, like all of them pursuing the same girl and having feelings for her so fast yet not knowing where her head is at, at all. But again, I don't remember him calling her- or even the situation- weird? So maybe Grant was the one saying it and you misheard? Like maybe he was saying he feels weird bc he's catching feelings so soon for a girl after just one date, and that's never happened to him before. So he feels strange and uncomfortable w the potential of getting dumped now that he's opened up & thinks he's starting to fall for her, bc he has no idea if she feels the same. (which we know, she doesn't. lol)
My father's coworker was in an LSU frat with devin haha. from what ive heard the personality is played up for the show but i wouldnt be surprised if it was at least a little authentic
@@Stormy575 I agree. Although there was that one season, the person had a bad edit and ended up winning…Courtney Robertson, but they haven’t done it since then. I don’t think Sam will win.
I know it sounds a little wack, but I actually didn't blame Devin for the way he reacted. After being cheated on, if he knows that he won't personally stand for Jenn allowing her past to come in and Matt being an unfair opponent... I guess I just understood his feelings there
Oh my God, this is the only season where even the Bachfantakes feel long. Bad casting choices, no on screen chemistry, all made even worse by the lack of a strong lead. Insufferable. I'm sorry.
Jenn's one of the strongest leads we've seen. She carries herself well and handles situations with grace and intelligence. She's certainly no worse than the trainwrecks we've had in the recent past.
@@AmyJLiang I'm assuming you haven't watched much of the Bachelorette. Being a good well rounded person and being a good lead on a reality TV show are two different things. Everyone in the comments has agreed that Jenn is very beautiful, very kind and sweet. But a good lead has to be able to command a room; she has to be the person in control. Rachel Recchia was also not a very good lead, she was simping over the guys when it should've been the other way around, Jenn (who has thankfully been way less dramatic and emotional than Rachel) is pretty much doing the same thing; investing all of her time into very few men who clearly aren't emotionally available or there for the right reasons.
Seems to me she felt that she was in control of these men and what she wanted I understand that but it's what they want also and how they feel. Austin's a grown man it feels that there's no connection he's going home. That was a little confusing of how immature she got when he said that he was going home.... I agree I think a lot of these men thought it was going to be Maria and Jen was in place of
I love jenn but these guys have literally zero going on. They haven't deserved the measley 5k followers theyve gotten. Definitely glad I moved to love island usa
I did not like Jonathon's oversharing that his ex girlfriend had a substance abuse problem. I found that inappropriate and why did he admit that his ex called him abusive? Is there any truth to it?
This episode has suddenly convinced me that the last one standing will be Jonathan. I'm just getting that vibe. I love Marcus but I think he'll have to leave because he's not ready to get engaged to Jenn, Devyn(?) seems to be one her favourites but I think he's had almost too much screen time it's suspicious (also I don't really like him, he's all talk and acted very immature regarding the ex). Nobody spoil it for me please, but I am saying Jonathan! Let's goooooo.
I'll be covering Love is Blind UK tomorrow so the preview breakdown will be out Thursday instead!
My prediction: 200k by The Golden Bachelorette! Let's GOOOO, Chris!
Yayyy... excited about love is blind UK
Not gonna lie, I’m disappointed that you did not include the clip of Jeremy’s smiley-to serious face talking to devin at 44mins 😂😂😂
@@michelleperdue6653 7:52 this one?
Jenn is not a nurse. She’s a physician assistant student
Austin did the right thing; I don't know why Jenn felt blindsided when she never gave him a personal one-on-one to build the relationship. Austin, was not going to waste his time any further, and that is okay. He is really a nice guy and I pray he finds his person soon.
I hope Austin is on BIP, Jenn is too into herself, so upset over Austin leaving (required group therapy) but it's ok for her to send men home
@@tjoue3007 I feel it has nothing to do with the connection, or lack thereof, she had with Austin but more with her "need" to be wanted/chosen by the men and her spiraling when Austing chose himself.
@@tjoue3007It is confusing to me that Jenn repeatedly shares her traumas, then people wonder why she’s making the decisions she is
@mariem3429 Well said 👏🏾 she's a little immature and didn't realize that she didn't give Austin the time (as she gave to Sam) to build a connection.
@@tjoue3007stfu lol, it’s all ego, she’s mad that she feels “dumped” even though everyone knew Austin was probably being sent home soon anyway
The farmer's comment were the best part of the episodes. I died when he said there wasn't a lot of collective intelligence "😂.
Sam repeatedly shows his inner jerk. He had zero reason to be so obnoxious to Matthew who was polite and LEAVING and yet decided to do so. Then he blames everything on editing on SM. Really Sam? Are the producers editing in your “blaccent” too?
😳😬🤭
Devin was awful too. He attacked Jenn basically and threatened to leave. What kind of a “fight for the love of your life” is that? At least Sam would have tried to win her. The only guys I can away half way respecting in their reaction to the boyfriend was Grant, Spencer, and Sort of Jonathon and Marcus.
For real. Sam is such a tool
I thought I was alone, hearing his blaccent, especially when he's arguing.
😂His comment was giving full closure- You're in the past. It's good to state that to some ex that's now "a great friend" they can creep in on a lady at any weak moment. Lol. It happens. I like Sam. There's no guessing there. No BS either. Is Jen his wife match tho? NOPE.
I think therapy should be mandatory for all participants on this show. So far, the guys are either emotionally unavailable or emotionally wounded and use trauma to bond with her.
!!!!!!! They think “going deeper emotionally” means trauma bonding
It seems every season there are some contestants that share trauma stories. I know it wouldn't make for an interesting date for the show, but I'd love to hear what they plan on doing after the show, where Jenn fits in, do they want to relocate? More of the important questions!
@@Alisonk.mgreat point about the questions. Like outside of the trauma, what else do we have in common?
@@renatangaiza7775 that's exactly how they're viewing it. I wish they would do the inner work before taping started.
Don't forget the Emotionally Immature crew! 😊
I’m glad you called out Devin because his reaction to Matthew being around was not nice. Grant was way more mature
😊@fifabublz17…AGREE!!!…. Love Grant, He’s Sooo nice & Cuter,,, And he’s got $$$$,,,,,And is ready to spend it on HisLife/Wifee❤
@@GlenTaylor-f4kGrant is a day trader lol that’s not a stable job
I hope grant does well as bachelor, he def had a mature take on it
I do like Jen, I think she's gorgeous and seems so fun and sweet. But man, she gives HB a run for her money when it comes to liking the worst guys.
I adore Jen, buuuut yeah... To be fair, though, it's not like they gave her a good selection to choose from. These are some desperately slim pickings, and that's not her fault. It's so bad this year.
Whats HB?
@@icedcoffee40179probably Hannah brown
@@icedcoffee40179 Hannah Brown (I assume)
@@runningonempty6679 oh okay (Didn't watch that season so idk)
I’m really bored with this season. I don’t feel like there’s much personality from anyone or real connections, just drama and surface level interactions 🤷🏽♀️
100% same. I only watch the recaps but I feel like even a 12 min video about an episode is almost too long because there is just nothing interesting going on. The contestants are bland and Jenn seems to hide her personality behind insecurities and feeling the need to be perfect in order not to get hurt. All the drama feels forced and empty and there is no spark of any love connections. I think the Bachelor/Bachelorette shows have struggled for years now and really need to reinvent themselves or call it a day.
The men are just terrible and Devin is the absolute worst of the bunch with so many 🚩 and she most likely is going to pick him. So disappointed.
That’s literally every season tho 😂
Should have picked maria
I know Maria and Daisy watching this season like “THANK GOD I WASNT THE BACHELORETTE“
The edit with the demonic sheep is GOLD 😂
It’s always kinda rubbed me the wrong way that the one-on-one dates feel more like the contestants treating the bachelor/bachelorette as their therapist
Every damn time!
I've always found it weird that everyone who goes on this show needs to have a "sad story" prepared to pull out in case they go on a one-on-one. Just the rules of the game, I guess.
The cry story--not the typical convo a couple would have on a first date. Coached by producers as it makes for better TV than talking about how many siblings you have, where you grew up, what your favorite color is, etc.
Seems like they picked the worst men for her
I disagree. I wasn't sure at first, but after seeing several episodes there are some really good guys for her to choose from! I like Devin, Dylan, Grant, Jeremy, Jonathon, Marcus, & Spencer. There were several guys sent home week 1 & 2 who could also have been contenders. I would have difficulty choosing one of these men for the next bachelor as at least 4 of them seem very worthy.
@@rkeppel4243I feel as you do.
Exacerbated by the fact that she picks the worst men of her slim pickings
Can I just say thank you for your recaps. I have a newborn and not much time to sit and watch 1hr+ of TV unless it’s super late in the evenings (when I’m already falling asleep 😅). These recaps give me all I need!!
I always watch the next morning. I've watched every season of the Bachelor Bachelorette & everything. I started when I was pregnant with my first child with the first season. 😊
I have a newborn too and these recaps have been super helpful! Congratulations on your newborn!
@@saradigiovacchino74 Congratulations to you both. It's been a long time since my kids were little. 😉❤️
I got hooked on these recaps after the birth of our 1st kid… you’re in good company
I just don't see a true love connection with anyone, so far.
if she chose no one, i wouldn't be mad at all
@@icedcoffee40179 I totally agree with you 👍🏻
@@tjoue3007 I only see concern not love
Yeah, I think these guys need to chose differently when it comes down to it.
I agree to an extent: I don't think she - or any of these guys - is ready for a serious commitment. Which makes sense, cuz Jenn is only 26 I believe? That's why I kinda never wanted her to be the Bachelorette, tbh. Bc she seemed too young & immature & unable to weed out big red flags, since she herself admitted she's never been in a healthy long-term relationship. I was more team Maria for Bachelorette - and not just bc of her authentic, no BS energy, which would have made for a funner, more entertaining season. More so bc she's older, seemed a bit more mature, secure in her choices, & clued in when it comes to a life-long commitment. Like she wants a partner not for that validation & reassurance it can offer, but just for the companionship & joy it can add to your life. That's my worry w Jenn, that she's doing this to prove something to herself: that she can finally be in a healthy relationship and pick 'the right guy,' and that she's ready it. Oftentimes, if you're seeking that reassurance outside of yourself or to prove that you're over something, that means you're actually not ready at all. (But hey, what do I know therapising over here when I don't know her IRL 😂)
At the same time, I do sense a pretty strong overall connection w Devin & Marcus, as well as a physical/romantic connection w Jonathon. Only issue w Jonathon is, their connection feels very fresh and new -- like I can sense both of them holding back, since they don't fully trust each other yet. So I do think that, atm, he's playing catch up compared to Marcus & Devin. (That's not to say he doesn't make it to the finale, btw.) W Marcus, I feel like she's def barking up the wrong tree: them together wouldn't last bc they both still have their healing & issues to resolve, and he is clearly in no place to be dating for marriage, let alone a long-term relationship. (So honestly, I have no clue why he applied for the show, but whatever 🙄) And yet it seems she feels the strongest for him - outside of Sam M, who is just a walking red flag, so I won't even get into that lol - which is concerning.
Finally, I may be totally wrong but I suspect Marcus' inability to emotionally let himself go takes him to fantasy suites, but not further. Similar to what happens w Sam M: he's made it this far despite all his glaring flaws bc she "likes him SO much" and wants it to be him so badly, but it reaches a point next week - or whenever in the near future - where she has to admit defeat & send him home bc she simply can't ignore the warning signs anymore. So that leaves Jonathon & Devin - both good picks, altho perhaps Jonathon is the more mature, emotionally stable choice lol. Then again, we don't really know him that well, & w the lack of him in the previews and the expression of his doubts, & how far behind he seems right now, maybe it is Marcus & Devin in the end. (Basically, either way, Devin is there 😂)
Regardless, if she does decide to pursue an engagement at the end of the show, I don't see it lasting long-term w any of these guys. Bc none of them - including herself - are in a place to be in a serious commitment atm. And there's nothing wrong w that, but I do think it's a big reason this season has felt like a disappointment to a lot of us... I think this would've gone down very differently w Maria, and w a different set of guys. (Or maybe w Maria picking different guys from the first night.) So although I know we're all speculating Jenn proposes to her final pick, I'm actually kinda hoping she realises she needs to stay single, continue to work on herself, & not get engaged to anyone right now. Or at least, I hope she tells him she wants them to just date first, and see where it goes.
It's strange tho, bc my perception of the preview- due to height- is that she says no to Devin & tells him he can't propose to her for whatever reason & then she says yes to her final pick who is Jonathon (or Marcus, I guess...? since he has way more finale footage.) But maybe she actually says no to Marcus/Jonathon and they just seem taller than usual bc they're on a higher platform so it's creating an illusion? Orrrrr she sends one of her final 3 home early (if it's Jonathon or Marcus, your guess is as good as mine!) so at that point, there's actually only one guy left. So she's deciding whether or not to just date him, propose to him, or dump him. A plan that she considers after he meets her family & they give her their feedback. (So maybe only 1 guy meets her family? Idk...) Anyways, I'm sorry this comment was so long, jeez! I didn't mean to monologue for so long 😅
I'm so glad Austin decided to leave. He never even alluded to Jenn not being enough. I can understand her being upset, but ultimately these guys are getting to know her as well and seeing if she is "their" person. She's got plenty of guys that believe she is and when one she doesn't show real interest in leaves, it's all about her. She didn't make it about Austin at all lmao.
Yeah she made it all about her, which really says a lot. She is very immature.
This is just a guess from what we’ve seen so far, but I think Marcus, Devin and Jonathan for final 3. Based on screen time seems final 1 could maybe be Devin and Marcus. Also Jenn said her relationship with Jonathan hasn’t been as fast. Makes me think perhaps he ends up final 3. I’m ready for Sam M. to go home at any time and preferably sooner rather than later.
This makes sense.
Maybe I've fallen for editing tricks but I really think Marcus isn't going to be able to "get there" with Jenn. He seems to have a lot of stuff left to work through.
@@naturalnaiad I've been feeling for a while that he might actually talk to her and tell her that he's not sure he can quite "get there." I think he genuinely really likes her though and maybe he does have some strong feelings. But I just feel that he's not quite ready.
I've been saying for a while now, that altho there's more finale footage of him than there is Jonathon, so ofc we can safely assume Marcus is final 2, something is holding me back from saying that w confidence... Bc I just cannot see him getting there w her at all. Or truly opening up & being vulnerable around her, esp during fantasy suites, when cameras are gone. Like genuinely, he seems to have so many demons and so much past trauma to work thru -- he is not ready for a life-long commitment at all, let alone a long-term relationship. So how she can blow past that & put him in the final 2 slot is shocking to me, esp when she claims to have worked thru her past toxic behavior. but from the previews, it truly seems that's what she does, unless they're hiding Jonathon in the promos on purpose to mislead us.
In my opinion, footage aside, I would assume - logically - that she sends Marcus home during fantasy suites bc he's not able to open up enough or be intimate w her emotionally, so she decides to cut the cord, despite how much she wanted it to be him. (Same w Sam M: she hopefully FINALLY sends his awful ass home next week bc despite how much she likes him and wants it to be him, she can no longer ignore the red flags.) That leaves Jonathon & Devin, and your guess as to who she picks- or if she even picks any of them- is as good as mine! However, if we do take into account the footage we've got, it seems more like Marcus & Devin are her final 2, and she either doesn't let either of them propose to her and "chooses herself" aka stays single, or she simply decides to date her final pick instead of getting engaged, or she proposes herself as BF suggests. Or maybe her saying she "can't let him propose to her" is her telling off her second choice (Marcus) before she decides to propose to her final pick (Devin/Jonathon.)
Essentially, I can't see a world in which she chooses Marcus, bc he is def the most closed off out of the three... But if she does, then I'll be damned! Lol. I have a suspicion that what we may be missing from the footage is one of her final 3 going home (or sending themselves home) early, meaning that maybe only one of them is left at the end, and only one of them meets her family. But I could be totally wrong, esp bc Marcus' footage looks more like final dates than fantasy suites... I was just thinking that if we set the footage aside, maybe Marcus is sent home/leaves DURING fantasy suites, i.e. right after their overnight. Orrrr maybe Jonathon is sent home/leaves before fantasy suites, i.e. right after hometowns? Basically, she eliminates Jeremy at the hometowns rose ceremony, but then, at some point during their fantasy suite date, Jonathon says he can't go further w her bc he doesn't feel confident enough in their connection, & he's been doubts & insecurities on where they stand, bc of the other men left. Jenn then tells him if he's not sure about her, he should leave, so he does.
She's upset bc she kept him over other men who maybe deserved the spot more, like Jeremy. And that makes her doubt her instincts & worry she'll make the wrong choice in the end. Which is then solidified on her fantasy suite date w Marcus, where during the night portion, he admits he's not in love w her yet, and doesn't know what's stopping him. She then feels even more insecure, bc she feels so strongly for him, but he's not able to be vulnerable w her & reciprocate those feelings. So she's left confused, contemplating what to do when it comes down to the final rose ceremony... Especially bc she's now down to her final two sooner than expected, which she's upset about. She feels it's a reflection of her poor decision-making. So she wonders to herself - and her family - who meet both men (that's if Marcus doesn't self-eliminate, which it seems he doesn't): will she continue to repeat toxic patterns and go for men who can't open up to her & where she is the one constantly giving, or will she finally set that boundary & tell him he can't let him propose to her, bc of the way she's been treated? Honestly, who knows, this is all just me speculating what happens & getting very carried away w different hypotheses! Lol sorry it was so long 😂
I love these recaps so much
It’s refreshing to see Jenn’s response to the men when they share their struggles with her. She listens without interrupting them and acknowledges their experiences. Most leads just say “thank you for sharing that”. Although she often tries to empathesize with their experiences by relating them back to her childhood trauma and abusive past relationships. It could be the editing, but it seems like she somehow always turns the conversation to make them about her!
Abusive past relationships? Ummm ok, it really appeared that way with this 3 yr guy who showed up for screen time. Let's hear the guys side
@@mariem3429 people can have more than one previous relationship, mariem. just because that ex wasn't one of her bad experiences doesn't mean she's lying about abusive exes
@@mariem3429Why would you question someone who says they were emotionally abused? Lol honestly can’t imagine a worse kind of person 😂
@@abandonablesnowman same way you judged Me to be "worse kind of person" based on 1 comment 🙄 Jenn says she was emotionally abused in ALL her past relationships (surprised b/f enters, Oh but not him)...also Jenn's over the top reaction to Austin leaving (Group therapy required) "I'm never enough, boohoo" meanwhile she kicks off how many guys?
Yes! She’s so caring and attentive with the guys, and is a great communicator
Your use of Joey's, "That is whack!" made me laugh outloud multiple times. 😂🎉
the sheep edit had me dying fantake never ease to surprise us with each recaps 😂🐑☠.
I really liked Dylan. Super bummed he's gone.
@mmem4264...Yesss....He's rly Nice!!...And O Love Grant...Verrry Cute with Alotta $$$$$
Me too Dylan for bachelor ❤
So over the my husband is in this room bit. True for I think 4 bachelorettes out of 21 seasons? And one of those four just got divorced 😅
I didn't even think it was that many
2 of 5 bachelorettes who married their final pick got divorced
@@AmaraEmme Rachel L is one, who’s the other ?
@@Sarah-ml4fvAshley (JP was her husband)
@@Sarah-ml4fv ashley herbert
Are they contractually obligated to keep at least one person of color around until week 5 because it’s giving that vibe lol
Was wondering the same thing then wondered would the same thing happen in other parts of the world where the ratio is the opposite 🤔
Marcus, Jonathon, Grant, and apparently Devin are all non-white lol
@@abandonablesnowmanhow is devin not white? and jonathon too for that matter? altho maybe he’s hispanic but still - you can be hispanic and white. i don’t actually know either of their races or ethnicities btw, so feel free to enlighten me!
@@frecklesandwine You can, but Devin said his dad was Mexican, so I didn’t want to not include him. To me Jonathon looks Latinx af and non-white, but maybe you know something I don’t
@@abandonablesnowman That still makes him white though; ethnicity-wise he's just half Hispanic, I guess. And no I don't know anything about either of their backgrounds, that's why I asked you 😂 Cuz I assumed you knew, since you definitively said that they're all not white. So I thought you'd done some research.
nurse and PA aren’t the same btw
she's in a PA program and not one yet. I'm assuming she is currently a nurse.
@@Jcarp_88that’s not how it works did you never go to school? You can’t currently be a nurse. You do an undergrad degree in life sciences/biology/chemistry and take the required pre reqs to get into PA school while you complete your bachelors in science. Once you get into PA school (which Jenn has completed one year of), you become a PA student. Not a nurse. Educate yourself
@@cookiesarelikecream There are many pathways to become a NP vs. PA, and most require nursing or other direct patient care experience as EMT or paramedic. And most of those bachelors degrees you're talking about are in nursing as that is preferred... But my point was that she is not currently a PA as she has not graduated her program or taken the board exams, and is in school.
Devin is all talk. Ugh he’s so scary how he talks about how he doesn’t care about her behind her back and just spews generalizations at her. It all feels so rehearsed.
I’m with you. I don’t really trust him- I just have a feeling that he seems like the type of guy who isn’t nice to his partner over time.
He’s sooo fake. I agree. Don’t like him at all.
Devin and Sam are both equally shallow and phoney, just in different ways.
See who she picks. I am disappointed in her choice. This is a boring season. I liked the last Bachelor.
@@iamdorito Your comment aged well
I Love your recaps!!! It beats watching for 2 hours with commercials! I don’t always have time to Watch, and I’m Not paying for Hulu, until I see something that I can’t live without!!! Thanks!!❤😅
I don’t watch the show anymore just this recap is soooo much better!!
She keeps talking about her toxic relationships… yet, she continues to entertain people like Sam
Sam has so many red flags. Major ick.
Sheeple!! 😂😂😂 The gift of humor FANTAKE.
An evening without drama…Dream on! 😂Here comes Matt, the “EX”.
Is the criteria for having a one-on-one date that you’re willing to share something traumatic AND air someone in your life’s dirty laundry? That feels so icky to me. 😣
Also it’s possible the real reason no guy got a group date rose is because none of them could find the gate that they ran past several times. The farmer is probably still talking about how ridiculous that was. 😂
That does seem to be the formula (at least from an editing perspective) for this show... All the fun/goofy/other facts about people get left on the cutting room floor.
Has anyone come up with the theory that Jenn is actually the one who does the proposing at the end? I think that's what she meant by saying she's going to finally take control. And the "I can't let you propose to me..." is going to be because she's going to be the one asking....
I can't wait for the preview breakdown!
As always, thank you for your service, BF!!
@TheRealJohnHooper I don't know if that's what's going to happen. It's just the impression I got. And if I'm remembering correctly, in the beginning of the season, they said she did something no other Bachelorette had ever done before... I'm just making a guess, I'm not taking sides. That's between her & her man, lol.
Yes this UA-camr predicted that in earlier episodes
@@Gabrielle49 I saw!! I knew I was on to something! Lol
I'm surprised by all the comments saying there aren't any good guys to choose from this season. I think Austin was a great guy, wish she would have given him more time instead of Sam M. Grant, Jonathan and Marcus all seem like really genuine guys as well. Dylan was really sweet. I'm excited to see more of Jeremy and I actually think Devin is a really supportive, loyal guy, just a little immature sometimes. I was thinking its one of the best group of guys I have seen on the show.
I really liked Dylan too! he was maybe a little bit too aloof & insecure at times, but he seemed really pure hearted and well intentioned. Super sad he's gone, tbh, but obvs there was no connection there w Jenn. As for Devin - I totally agree, despite how loud & obnoxious & immature he can be, his heart is in the right place & I really like him too! And they def have a connection, so let's see what happens. out of all the guys, Jonathon would prob be the best choice maturity wise - but I kinda want her to pick Devin lol. esp bc at this point we really don't know Jonathon well enough & their connection doesn't seem that strong.
As for Marcus, he's a giant walking red flag to me lol. whether or not he's genuine is irrelevant when I don't think he's ready for a commitment or long-term relationship at all. he's not ready to open up or face his demons & still has a lot of trauma to sort thru in my eyes, so it does make me question why he applied for the show in the first place, and his readiness for all of this. then again, Jenn also seems to suffer from a lack of self-awareness in that regard, which would explain why they're drawn to each other, but ultimately, they would be a recipe for disaster.
I think w Grant, he seems SUPER invested and sweet, but maybe a bit too keen? In the sense that he seems more invested in the idea of him & Jenn & being in love than he is the reality of them together. And that idealist mentality can be a bit naive. As for Jeremy - idk. We don't know nearly enough about him yet to make a judgment call either way, but atm he seems a bit bland, ngl. And I'm not sure if it's that the show hasn't given us the chance to get to know these boys properly, but I do understand where ppl are coming from when they say they aren't a great bunch. From what the producers have shown us, they all seem a bit disinterested, unprepared, immature and not that bright/no standouts - as a whole. Compared to past seasons, at least. Feels more like a group of boys than it does men. So either the editing is the problem, or the guys are.
Jump8ng ahead of the preview breakdown, but 100% Jenn is going to propose to her F1
I don't trust Devin. And Sam is a jerk. Yet these two seem to be the frontrunners. It's hard to get invested.
This is the 3rd recap video I've seen today and no one pointed out that the guys, specifically Devin had that reaction because they / he assumed the ex was the toxic ex. Jenn did not tell them otherwise and she looked somber and bummed out telling them at all so ya people assume and the show loves that they let them run with it and spiral off of assumptions production knows aren't true because Jenn told US he wasn't the negative ex. The guys were in the dark as to who he was.
That makes sense.
The twist definitely is jen proposing to the man. I have been feeling bad that sam is going to make jen look stupid when she goes to watch this back. I hope the producers help turn this narrative around.
I love these recaps! All the references are spot on haha thank you for what you do!
"Lions don't concern themselves with the opinions of sheep" is a line from Game of Thrones.
I love your use of “Wake up Sheeple.” Very funny.
Jenn is not a nurse
I can't look it up right now but I cannot remember for the life of me what Jenn does for a living
Like gun to my head rn I couldn't tell you
@@shannonceleste5557 she's a PA (physician's assistant) so I think she's mostly a dr's assistant in an office, altho some shots from the hospital def had me confused lol so maybe she's a PA in a hospital (or did parts of her training there.) and btw, u don't have to go to med or nursing school to be a PA, so idk why the contestants who are studying for their mcat or in med/nursing school keep bringing it up as if she can relate.... like she's not a dr, and she's not a nurse. lol. (to be clear, i'm not saying being a PA isn't hard, or that it isn't impressive. it's actually harder than nursing school, bc there are more requirements to fulfill in a shorter period of time. so it's a bit more labor intensive from a learning perspective, bc it copies the medical model. but still, it's not the same as being a dr or nurse, despite being in the same field. that's all I was trying to say lol.)
Bye bye Thomas 😆🤣 Pls don't bring him back for BIP. Jen is SO sensitive, She can dump guys left & right including her Ex (which wanted screen time only & not abusive) but when Mullet leaves, she needs group therapy 😵💫
They also keep long hours on the show. They don't get their normal amount of sleep, and probably don't eat right. This can affect emotions and mood.
@@jenniferhansen3622 Right? Every episode I’m just like, Jenn is in serious need of a real friend, and probably a phone call with her mom
Thank you for the entertaining recaps!😂
I just couldn’t watch this season anymore… This show feels so bland. Everything has become so painfully predictable and I hope Jenn seeks therapy. I don’t think she was ready to be on a reality TV show like this (or deal with the behind the scenes dynamic with the producers).
honestly this season isn't giving for me 😭
Is anybody even talking about how Jeremy looks like he could be Jedds little brother?
Been calling him Jed the whole season so far 😂
I thought that the first night, and now that’s ALL I can see 😂😂
Correction, Jed’s older brother. Jeremy looks like a good 42 and may as well be tbh
OH MY GOD
@@avajean7202 same 😂
jenn isn't a nurse - she's a PA student
The overuse of the word toxic in this episode 😅…
The sheep edit 😂🐑
I think this season is hilarious these guys are a bunch of toddlers mostly 😂 it's entertaining
Jenn's not a nurse,she's a PA student :)
6:50 Okay first I rolled my eyes SO hard, also isn't that a Tywin Lannister quote?
Loving the recaps… disappointing season overall though 🫠
Feel the same 🥱
Missed your live stream last night! Hope all is well! Glad you’ll be covering Love Is Blind.
Man, I'm struggling with the ex situation. He seemed so nice and genuine and he also suggested that he had told her before that he was in love with her, which she continually says has never happened before. I am losing confidence that we're getting an authentic picture of Jen and her past. I'm having a hard time rooting for her when I don't feel like I trust her.
The editing of this video is A+ and chef's kiss @ 9:53
BTW you have a great voice for a narrator! I always enjoy your content!
The lion/sheep comment is literally from Tywin Lannister in game of thrones lol
Thanks for the recap! I was sad to see Dylan go. He seems like he would be a great Bachelor but I think he's a little young (24).
Me too he is awesome ❤
So sad to see Dylan gone, hope he gets on the next BIP or possibly the next Bachelor!
Thanks for your recaps! (I find them highly entertaining.)
I like Jenn-but I think that when she speaks, she often has a similar affectation like Queen Kane from the “See” series-and I just can’t unhear it!
this season of guys has screwed her. she might as well get her swimsuit ready for paradise. or even try love is blind at this point. i havent ever seen such a unfit group of men
This recap is hysterical 🤣 Love it! ❤️
I know some people find this season boring and that they don't see any true love connections, but most of the fun seasons and "true love" seasons have ended in breakup or divorce. Maybe a boring season is what will actually lead to a lasting bachelor couple. Idk we'll see haha
I thought so too, hope they have it in them to stick it out and work through the hard times
Sheep date really giving snooki where is the beach energy
Yawn. Thank you for sitting through this for those of us that can’t.
It made me laugh and cry... wasn't boring for everyone.
that Devin flashback was diabolical 🤣🤣🤣
This was the dumbbest Batchelor Nation group date ever! Sheep? Really?
You could see all the flies radiating off of them in the wide shots too… how romantic 😂😂
Jenn wants to live on a farm, so that's probably why they had a date like this.
It was entertaining! lol
They have one of these farm dates literally every season lmao where you been?
The farm dates always suck. And there's always muck.
the way contestants trauma-dumb on their dates to stand out reminds me of students trauma-dumbing on their college essays to get admitted
Favorite farm group date was this sheep farm group date. My friend and I were dying watching it all go down.
It is ridiculous how good looking Grant is!
@lallana2882.....Yessss❤...Love Grant & his personality!!
He's Very Nice Looki ng!! Plus He's gta Lotta dough & Ready to Spend It!
And so sweet! Jen looked like she was falling asleep on their date though lol
Hope he gets the next Bachelor!
Think he might be the first Grant since Fireman Grant
Grant for Bachelor!
Is Jenn a nurse? I thought she was a PA student ?
She's a PA student
She may be both idk
@@abandonablesnowmanShe’s not both. She never went to nursing school. This youtuber just didn’t do his research
Your recap is spot on.👏👏
She is not a nurse, she a Physician’s Assistant student. Which is almost a doctor
These videos are hilarious!!!
I know that Jen doesn't know how Sam behaves when he's with the other guys, but the way he behaved during their date I would have ended it there, but since she's physically attracted to him, I think she's ignoring his behavior. 🤷♀ 🤷♀
I get Jen's connection with Devin. He always looks for opportunities to be with her even when the other guys are present. So, even though I don't like his methods, they're working. So, during the group date, when Jen said that she wanted to see which of the guys would seek to spend time with her and given attention, I knew that Devin was going to do just that. I think that's why he got the alone time (the farmers probably saw how he spent time with Jen, despite everything else).
And with Jonathon and Grant, I see no connection, no chemistry between them. 🤷♀🤷♀🤷♀
I was thinking earlier about how Jenn sent two guys home the first night for displaying fuckboy behavior and they were both black, but she excuses it in Sam M. Obviously not intentional on her part, but it is interesting that she has the blinders up for him that she probably wouldn’t for other guys
The fact that you don't see Devin's stealing time from other men and wanting her being with him 'alone' on 'group' dates as a red flag baffles me.
Why can't he compete with everyone else and actually win more personal time fairly.
The same way you think a guy only wants to have you to himself is cute is the same way one by one he will cut other people out of your life because he wants you only to himself.
Devin isnt it.
Omg when Sam CLIMBED on top of her! It was soooo uncomfortable to watch, he really creeps me out.
Like I know it’s literally the core of the show and everyone wants more screen time but I hate that the message is, “Whaaat? No! Of course we’re romantically compatible and wouldn’t just be better as friends. That’s crazy!”
What is the name of the song and Artist who was playing when she was kissing the boy in the rain on the solo date?!?!?
That conversation with Jonathan was odd. You didnt mention it all but he talked about his ex "self medicating" and then that he woke up and she was gone. And that she accused him of being all forms of abusive. It was real odd. If i was dating him and would see red flags, at the very least he needs therapy.
I’m surprisingly loving this season, even though I really didn’t think I was gonna like Jenn, she’s good, no wonder these men are fighting like cats and dogs over her. She embodies old Hollywood glam, she’s a lady lady
I literally watch to the end to hear what the final voiceovers will be 👂
I also very much thought of The Boys immediately when I saw the sheep! 💀 🐑 🐑
What horror (?) movie are you referencing with the flying sheep clips at the beginning of the video?!
Jen is actually a physician assistant student, not a nurse.
There was one moment in this episode when Jonathan and this other guy went outside to talk on the lawn and it was late at night. I am not sure they knew the cameras were on them from the background but, Jonathan asked the guy if he had feelings for Jenn and he said-yeah I do. Jonathan then said- I don’t know man, she’s just weird and the irony was that Jonathon was wearing a rose already from his one to one date he had with Jenn. Did anyone else’s caught this?? Not cool if he leading Jenn on….
Yes Jonathon was talking to Grant and Grant was the one expressing his feelings for Jenn. But no, I don't remember Jonathon saying he thinks Jenn is weird. I think he said the situation is weird, like all of them pursuing the same girl and having feelings for her so fast yet not knowing where her head is at, at all. But again, I don't remember him calling her- or even the situation- weird? So maybe Grant was the one saying it and you misheard? Like maybe he was saying he feels weird bc he's catching feelings so soon for a girl after just one date, and that's never happened to him before. So he feels strange and uncomfortable w the potential of getting dumped now that he's opened up & thinks he's starting to fall for her, bc he has no idea if she feels the same. (which we know, she doesn't. lol)
My father's coworker was in an LSU frat with devin haha. from what ive heard the personality is played up for the show but i wouldnt be surprised if it was at least a little authentic
FANTAKE when do you think Sam will go home? Or is there any chance he can be final 1?
He’s hot but shallow, I hope she figures that out
If he was F1 he'd be getting a better edit
@@Stormy575 I agree. Although there was that one season, the person had a bad edit and ended up winning…Courtney Robertson, but they haven’t done it since then. I don’t think Sam will win.
Damn I love Jen but I think we needed Maria this season it would have been so great
I know it sounds a little wack, but I actually didn't blame Devin for the way he reacted. After being cheated on, if he knows that he won't personally stand for Jenn allowing her past to come in and Matt being an unfair opponent... I guess I just understood his feelings there
Can we just talk about how handsome Grant is. WOW
This Jen is not the same Jen when she was on the Bachelor
Just FYI Jenn isn’t a nurse. She is a physician assistant student.
I guess I’m an outlier in these comments cuz I LOVE JEN AND DEVIN!! I think they have such cute chemistry 🥹✨
I do too! I'm actually enjoying watching them together
I really like Devin
I agree, I love Devin
I really like Devin! He has a great energy.
It doesn’t bother you that he threatened to leave at the first inconvenience? Also he’s super right wing, apparently
So dumb of Jenn to take Austin's perfectly reasonable departure and make it all about her, and spending a night fishing for validation.
Animals shouldn't be used for entertainment like this. What was even the point?
What does Jenn see in Jeremy? 😂 dude looks 48 and has this super condescending vibe
& the petting her on the head??? Can’t stand him
I do not feel like there is much chemistry with Jenn and any of the guys.
Oh my God, this is the only season where even the Bachfantakes feel long. Bad casting choices, no on screen chemistry, all made even worse by the lack of a strong lead. Insufferable. I'm sorry.
Jenn's one of the strongest leads we've seen. She carries herself well and handles situations with grace and intelligence. She's certainly no worse than the trainwrecks we've had in the recent past.
@@AmyJLiang I'm assuming you haven't watched much of the Bachelorette. Being a good well rounded person and being a good lead on a reality TV show are two different things. Everyone in the comments has agreed that Jenn is very beautiful, very kind and sweet. But a good lead has to be able to command a room; she has to be the person in control. Rachel Recchia was also not a very good lead, she was simping over the guys when it should've been the other way around, Jenn (who has thankfully been way less dramatic and emotional than Rachel) is pretty much doing the same thing; investing all of her time into very few men who clearly aren't emotionally available or there for the right reasons.
Seems to me she felt that she was in control of these men and what she wanted I understand that but it's what they want also and how they feel. Austin's a grown man it feels that there's no connection he's going home. That was a little confusing of how immature she got when he said that he was going home.... I agree I think a lot of these men thought it was going to be Maria and Jen was in place of
I love jenn but these guys have literally zero going on. They haven't deserved the measley 5k followers theyve gotten. Definitely glad I moved to love island usa
It's hard to get my friends and so to watch it. Which really sucks
I did not like Jonathon's oversharing that his ex girlfriend had a substance abuse problem. I found that inappropriate and why did he admit that his ex called him abusive? Is there any truth to it?
This episode has suddenly convinced me that the last one standing will be Jonathan. I'm just getting that vibe. I love Marcus but I think he'll have to leave because he's not ready to get engaged to Jenn, Devyn(?) seems to be one her favourites but I think he's had almost too much screen time it's suspicious (also I don't really like him, he's all talk and acted very immature regarding the ex). Nobody spoil it for me please, but I am saying Jonathan! Let's goooooo.