15 Things Which Your Child Must Learn To Do Before 15 Years Of Age
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15 Things Summary
1. Make your bed when you wake up
2. Make kids learn how to clean bathroom
3. Teach them washing clothes or the process
4. Once a week make them clean their rooms fan once a week
5. Organise clothes n things in their almirah properly
6. Once in 15 days You n ur kid should wash utensils together
7. Teach them atleast one dish to make...cutting vegetables n fruits ,
teach them to make tea even if they dont drink etc etc teach them these
8. Teach them making online payments paytm google pay etc etc...handling money increase cofidence
9. If someone comes to repair AC fans or anything in house make ur kid stand n watch them doing it...
in this way he will learn basics to do incase problem arises in future
10. Serve ur father or mom water glass n ask them how are you etc etc
11. Make your kid a assistant...
12. Basics of gradening like watering plants
13. Once a week clean your vehicles involving your kids
14. Dinner rule : after eating food make them know where to keep all
things like curd etc etc in correct place in fridge.
15. Make your kids take the responsibility of locking doors at night
Hare krishna have a positive day ahead...
thanks
Thanks 🙏
Thank you so much
Well said..sir
Hare krishna
1- making bed
2-cleaning toilet
3-putting clothes in washing machine
4-cleaning fan once a week
5-setting almirah
6-clean utensils once a fortnight
7-learning making rice, dal, sabzi, and cutting vegetables (doing things with hand keeps away depression)
8-paytm and online banking, swiping card
9-observing ac and other appliance servicing
10-giving father water, tea when he comes home
11-being parents' virtual assistant, reminding things, keeping documents handy
12-watering plants
13-cleaning vehicle in proper way
14-keeping leftover food in fridge in proper utensils in organised manner
15-taking the responsibility of locking doors properly before going to bed
Thank you for noting it down !
I am a housewife but I can proudly say that my both children do most of the things (12-13).2 more points l wish to add
1.Ironing own clothes
2.covering own books and copies
Agreed... Even my parents used to give these additional 2 tasks to us..
Good parenting. My mom also gave me some pocket money for doing tasks at home.
My son and daughter have both been doing all the above mentioned tasks since they were 10-12 yrs old and also in addition have been handling extra responsibility of bank related work as well as buying groceries and vegetables etc. And I really see how it has helped them grow as a well rounded person
👏👏
Aapko sammandhi bananeka dil karta hyai.
Navodayans aur military school wale kar lete hain.
Also 1) to bring in clothes given outside to dry, especially when it rains
2) wipe floor with mop when maid is absent, (my 5 year old son learnt during lockdown)
3) use the microwave
4) keep shoes neatly near the front door.
Basically all life skills. Yes. absolutely important.
I am 18 and I already do all these things thanks to my parents
My 10 year younger Twin is very active. He can make omlette, sandwich, maggi. He can also make the bed.The elder one is lazy, loves to sit idle , read books and eat 😂🤣
1. Bed making
2. Keep your Bathroom Clean.
3. Wash your own clothes in washing machine and by hand.
4. Clean your fan in your room once a week.
5. Keep your cupboard set at least a week.
6. Wash your dishes at least once a week.
7. Learn basic cooking and cutting fruits and vegetables and tea.
8. Teach online banking.
9. Involve the child in home reparing activities.
10. Give water to father and mother when they return home.
11. Make your child as your assistant.
12. Utilise the ability of your child to increase their ability.
13. Make your children water 💦 plants.🌿 .
14. Teach your children to clean your cars .
15. Teach them to put ready their refrigerator.
16. Teach them to lock 🔒 doors are at night 🌃 properly.
My 1st kid is 10 year old, except financial matters, I trained her in almost all these activities but that was in most when my health was not good. But now , your video gave me confidence that there is nothing wrong but good in making them as our helpers. Thank you sir 🎉
Seriously nobody is teaching how to live a life.... All are teaching meditation, coding, finance goal, reals, dance....
Very true
बहुत बढ़िया...
भारतीय समाज की बहुत बड़ी समस्या है यह..
आपने आईना दिखाने का कार्य कर दिया।
❤❤❤❤
नमष्कार,
40 साल उम्र है मेरी, आज ये वीडियो देख papa की याद आ गई जो बचपन मे हमें ये सब करने को कहते थे। वे फौज मे थे।
बहुत अच्छा वीडियो।
धन्यवाद।
सर सब parents तो ऐसे नहीं है जो बेटियों को रोक टोक करें. लेकिन बेटियों ki safety कैसे करें. कुछ parents तो zamane को देख कर डरते हैं बेटियों की शादी से. 😢
😢😢😢😢
Please बताइए कि life partner का nature कैसे judge करेँ selection के वक़्त. आजकल के parents who are born after 70s 80s ये नहीं सोचते कि बच्चे arranged marriage करें या love, but ye zaroor सोचते हैं कि कैसे एक अच्छे nature का life partner mile.
Kai parents बेटियों को घुमाना firaana चाहते हैं पर safety reasons se डरते हैं.
Parents नहीं बेटे बेटी में फर्क़ करते , ब्लकि वो तो बहुत प्यार करते हैं बेटियों से पर फिर भी बेटा इसलिए चाहते हैं क्यूंकि उन्हें बेटियों के लिए हमेशा चिंता लगी रहती है. और शादी के बाद अपने जिगर के टुकड़े को किसी और घर में भेजते हुए bahaut डरते हैं.
हर parent सिर्फ money नहीं देखता शादी में but specially आजकल जब बेटियां bhi independent होती हैं कमा सकती है तो माँ बाप की zyada चिंता लड़के और उसकी family के यवहार को लेकर होती.
इसपर zaroor एक वीडियो बनाएं कि अच्छा लड़का in terms of व्यवहार nature behaviour कैसे select karein. कैसे intution itni बढायें कि धोका ना मिले, गलत behaviour ना मिले, ek शांतिपूर्ण वातावरण मिले बेटी को .
Excellent 15 points sir...... Will follow it with my both kids..... One suggestion sir... Add another 2 points.... Taking care of their belongings... Startvwith pen, pencils, books & Spects... Mobile.. Wrist watch and another point.... Switch off the fan.. Lights... !!! This generation know only switch on... And use.... !!!! Make 17 points sir 😅
Awesome as always. 14:28 really very important. Fathers MUST be respected❤🙏
I am 18 yrs old and I can proudly say that my mom taught me all of these things since growing up and I must say, everyone should know how to do these works no matter what's the gender.
Half of the households fights disappears if everyone knows how to maintain a house 😊🙏
I have been doing exactly the same with my kids. First taught my daughter all these things since she is elder and then my son who is now 15yrs. He helps me with most of my chores at home just as you said 'an assistant'. He does most of his work himself starting with making his bed as he wakes up. Then helps me with my chores even when he goes to school or classes. It keeps him busy, helps him learn and I also get to spend quality time with him while we chop vegetables together! Really great video, I am glad people are starting to realize how important this is. ❤
Make sure he is also able to do hard things. The things in which he can fail. Washing, cleaning is OK. One should know but nobody can fail in it. Level him up to face the harsh competition outside where failure & setbacks is inevitable. Don't let him turn softer.Send him outside. Let him deal with the people outside. It should not be his duty to do household chore. I hope you get my point.
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@@Demon-th5di I think you r right. My son does all house hold chores helping me in the kitchen n I'm proud of him. But I think for the same reason he is not very confident outside. They need exposure to outside world also. My son is still young n he still has time but u r very much right
@@arushbodigum2735Thanks for acknowledging. May God bless you and your family.
Good thing is my mother made me learn all the things at the mentioned appropriate age. Bad thing is my brother was 12 years elder than me he could perform only 1-2 things out of these and still it's the same.
The thing is in India these things are taught to girls from an early age....but not to boys mother overly pamper their boys and the consequences have to be dealt by their wives.
I can say this as I am now married and I can see that my husband can't perform these basic tasks. We have a 1.5 year old baby girl and I have to perform all the tasks starting from financially helping in the family, taking care of our baby girl (no house help) and household tasks.
But I feel people like Sir are spreading awareness and time are changing and will surely improve as I can see lots of positive comments.
What an amazing video , although many things I have been following but will add the remaining things
1 make your bed
2 clean bathroom
3 know how to wash cloth
4 clean your fan weekly
5 set almirah
6 wash utensils twice monthly
7 learn making dal chawal sabzi roti , cutting skills
8 knowing online banking/electric bill/ card payment
9 all activities/AC service etc observation
10 serve water tea etc when father comes home
11 become a personal assistant/documentation
12 watering plants
13 dusting cleaning vehicle/car
14 know how to organize fridge
15 responsibility to close doors/windows everynight ❤
Some 25 to 30 years ago here in Mysore (this custom is followed in many places in sooth India) mother used to keep away from all house hold work during her menstrual period for three days every month.
She was not allowed to do cooking,
Pooja etc. So in those days it was responsibility father and kids to manage everything. Due to this we learnt to do every household job and
go to school college etc. This was a blessing in disguise for women and family also.
True. This was the method by which two advantages at the same time. Mother deserved the rest during her weak days of the month and the work was done and learnt by the teenagers.
So true, Mysore is truly a heaven. Even I have done this and total rest during some festivals.
बच्चों को आध्यात्मिक शिक्षा दो. मन को प्रबल बनाने और मानसिक बीमारियों से बचे रहने में हमारे अध्यात्मिक शास्त्र बहुत उपयोगी हैं.
Huge respect ! You are literally talking about the core issues . I can compare the old times and now the young generation where it is leading ..
Too great sir, my son is 15 yrs old now and I am already telling him all these 15 things from last 2 to 3 yrs. Thank you for confirming me and my family that we are doing right upbringing. I am not only telling them to do everything but also do it myself and explain practically. Thanks again for adding into my confidence.....
Travelling packing essentials can also be added to the list
Thank you so much sir for imparting the practical knowledge
Which is greatly required in today's society
I hope everybody follows these advice. Excellent advice and very important for future india.
Beautifully explained Sir 💯
👌सरजी बोहोत बढिया ऐसा व्हिडीओ हमने पेहेली बार देखा है. बोहोत अच्छी जानकारी है. हम अपने bachho को जरूर सिखायेंगे विडिओ बनाने के लिये दन्यवाद
very practical advice, aap bilkul sahi keh rahe ho
Very good guidance thanks alot
I really admire u as a fatherly figure,my dad had same thought process as u r having and he incultinate all these habits as a result my fridge is always neat and clean, thanks a ton for some extra points which I should learn as a mother
So beneficial advice...thank you
Very nice and practical advice, waiting for more detailed information.
Lovely video..i dont have kids but i wish my brother and i were raised like this ! We grew up as spoilt army kids where sahayak bhaiya took care of everything . A video worth sharing !
Bahut badhiya guruji, you are a real guru for all , good teaching, keep it up
Excellent video Guruji. It will change the lives of kids and their families who will follow it
Fantastic video,gr8 knowledgeable...Thanks for sharing
Most needed advice for all millenial generation teenagers. Very well explained, meticulous points made in regarding life experience lesson for all.
Aapane bahut acchi baten samjhi mere ko bahut pasand I thank you so much
Good practical video. Thanks
Eye opening. Plz give more mental health related boosting packages for growing kids and elders as well. Thx Sir :-)
One of the most beautiful videos ❤❤❤, few of the things I have already started telling to my child… very useful
This VIDEO has to GET VIRAL . Thanks You Sooo Much SIR for All Your Efforts on This Video , My Son is doing all these Activities right from the 5th Std. we never had maid , both My Children had their own duties managed on their own . Today after Your Video I realized that Why both Our children have so much Respect for US as a Parent . My Son Says Mama You Are The Best , Presently Both Are Out for their Higher Studies .
I don't have Any Complain from them regarding their Daily Routine.
Bahut bahut dhanyavaad gurujii. Aapne jeevan ki seekh de di
Thanks sir. Bahut achhi baatein
Batai apne.
Dhanyabad shriman ji.aap ka bichar practical and clear hota hai.
Great video Sir, Absolutely convincing
Best videos on parenting....kya kahen ki kitni keemti baat kahi aapne...
You are doing real social work...which has potential to restore our values, family and most important happiness 😊😊
I always like what you say, very practical and logical and everything you teach leads to happiness and satisfaction. I hope people listen to you and understand the reality of life.
Very good video. I have been following some of the things but now consciously will give them better training. I have 2 sons no daughters and they help me in some things. Now I will give them more responsibilities so that they become confident
Very knowledgeable, Thank you sir.
Awesome video!! I will always recall the contents and teach my son.
You are absolutely right....our parents used to do this with us.
Video bahut e Acha a sir and bahut e jaruri b . Thanku for sharing ds info
Very Practical...
I am a house wife ..I saw u video and I loved it a Lott...sab Sach Hai life ka aap ne bataya ...ur eye opener ..
Mai yeh sab kaam karate hu bachho se .per mere parents muje tok karate hai ..per ab muje laga ke yaar aapne bacho ko independent banane Mai koi problem nahi this their age which will help them in future ..I am feeling so proud ke mere parrvish Galt nahi hai .
Beautiful presentation to inculcate the habits narrated by you sir.
Excellent. Even vegetables buying can be added. Wonderful inputs. Best Wishes
Aapki wisdom ko pranam!!
To good aap ke sujhab bahut sahi hai thanks 🙏
I strongly agree with each and every point you have put accross
Sir, this is an extremely important and apt video
I am so happy me n my son do all that ❤ always felt these were very basic life skills for kid to be self sufficient.
But ur right because I was working single mother. These all made sense.
Sr Great thought eye opener
Hello sir
You are absolutely right.!!
These are the basic things to be kept as important one. We theach these tasks to our kids to do...!!! Thanks a lot for you suggetions
Very practical and useful video
Huge Respect sir,very informative video.this will help me alot for my kids
Thank you very much
It’s an excellent video sir🎉 thank you for that and I have practiced all these with my 3 daughters all are very confident bold and very active
Veluable. Video. Thanks for gidence.
Very nice and practical ways to make the child independent. This will not help only the parents but also the child in future.
Very good and practical.
Thank you very much.... And
Yes the Fridge is always MESSY...
Very very relevant advise. I am already practicing this with my son
Uncle ji meri beti 10 saal ki hai Or beta 5 years ka main ye sbhi kaam apni beti se krwati hu or wo krti bhi hai last one year se or beta khud fresh hota hai apna bag rkhna is trh k chhote mote kaam wo bhi krta hai gamle me pani dena apne brtn khud rkh kr aana
Bahut hi sahi video hai sir....
Kitni sundar bahut kahi 🙏
Super tips will help in running home smoothly at the same time children learn so many things
Very nice video. It should be implemented by everyone..
My 12 year old son all of these things! He himself wanted to learn how to make tea and dosas! You have made a wonderful list of chores. Great video!👏👏
Very nice explained thanks 🙏🙏
Sir,
Whatever u have said our parents directly or indirectly taught us and we still do it at our home ....
A special thanks for making us understand its moral values in today's fast lifestyle...
Very useful n helpful
Thank God I trained my both sons like this . Apart from this..
table cleaning after meal
putting utensils in their designated place after washing,
filling up water bottles
Wash their under garments
These are life skills. Every child should learn these
Thankyou for sharing your thoughts on this topic.
and you are right Parents focus more on studies, they think such work would kill their precious time which in return kills their child caliber to even study.
Gajab sir
Thanks a lot 🙏
Bahut badiya..... really good
A life changing video. Thank you 🙏
Wow is the great tips guruji thanks
I’m so proud to tell you that my all three daughters are following all the 15 points. Thank you so much for sharing this video.
Really very important suggestions and should be applied by mothers at home as well by teachers at school
Thanks sir.. This is a video which should be imparted to the kids of todays time so that they can work independently and contribute at home ..
Sir very valuable jankari Dey rahey ho aap
Sir I am going to Share this VIDEO with both My Children . Because This VIDEO is very Deep Clean And Clear ,
Very good sir ji ,
Great bahut acchi baat batayee
Really great sir,thanks for guide us🙏
Very good points.thank you sir🎉
1.Make bed early in morning.
2.keep bathroom clean after use.
3 keep dirty clothes in washing machine .. Which will be washed. How to wash.
4 cleaning his room fan
5 setting his own almerha.
6 wash untensil.
7 teach them to cook. Chopping fruit.
8 online payment karana
9 ac cleaning
10 ask for tea or water to family members like father. Greet them.
11 make him assistant . Documentation
12 teach them planting.
13 cleaning car from inside.
14 how arrange left over food in fridge.
15 .teach them to check if house is locked before sleep.
Good, thanks.
Very good content guru ji 🙏