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Jo kuch aap leh rahe h ye maine apne pati ko shuruaat me hi bata diya tha to jo parivar pura mil k meri saas ko pratadit kr raha tha wo meri saas k sath mil k mete khilaf ek ho gaya.....dhritrashtra aaj bhi maje le raha h ladwa k sabko
My Fil died, still we live separately. We have provided everything for mil comfort. Once because of joint family we were facing divorce situation now after separation of 12 years from parent in laws our marriage has turned into a very romantic one. I simply don't remember when was the last time we fought.
Maja aya. Ap ekdum sach bol rahe ho. Ek eonshabd sach hai. Sare fasad ki jad admi hai aur dosh aurat ko diya jata hai. Apke is video ne dill jeet liya sangwan ji. Jiyo mere sher
Very rational and progressive outlook towards saas bahu issue and love the clear straight forward attitude of yours !! Absolutely agree to every word !!
Accidentally found your video.. ur views and opinions are very close to middle class family and parivar and I love to watch ur videos... Before I watched motivational things or listened to music while doing my work .. but now whenever I watch tv either working on the computer or phone i start watching ur videos.. which very much admires me personally ..thank u sir.. and yes maza aa gaya... Keep motivating us with all ur experience and observations... Thank u so much...😊
Sir you are brilliant and brave ... Exposing the truth fearlessly ... Please continue ... The truth you speak is so much more helpful than fake religious and spiritual gurus who don't really help in anything ... This is the real deal ... A real social revolution ... May our unhappy society change soon
Greetings sir ji.. After listening your videos I must say you have observed, studied, analyzed everything in so details.. I must say you must be a great daddy for your children and definitely creating awareness and spreading knowledge in the society which is beneficial for us.. Keep going..
Please share your own family's details. How are they behaving and how is your advice having results in your in family. Hope you will have courage to do so.
There is tendency in Indian male members that Bahu has come in family as transcend of Mother in law role. Whatever mother in law has been doing, how she is managing has to be done by bahu in same way , no matter , which they label as 'sasural k taur tarike', 'get adjusted' . They don't accept that girl has her own way of living and doing things , she might not be interested in cooking food or being on toes daily.
@@FromProfessor is it not a matter of ego for boys accepting girl earning more than them? And also boys tend to be older and hence get the time to have higher income . So for a girl to have income higher than husband, will a family boy look for girls older than the boy? Boys do night job or US timing for high income. Will a family be supportive of the wife doing night shft?
Sir, I am a woman who is a researcher. In last one year, I have cried a lot because of my career and mental health getting affected. Honestly, I don't see my in laws as villains but unfortunately the systems they blindly believe in. If I live like them, I have to be dead inside. After a lot of thought, I had proposed my husband that if he wants me to stay near him happily, we must develop alternative arrangements for their parents and my parents too. But, he is afraid that his parents would be hurt. But, I am very firm with sticking with my idea. In my bad financial times, except for formal asking ....no one including my husband helped me out. So, I have to think for myself even if I earn the label of a bad Bahu. I watched your videos and was honestly but happily surprised how your prescribed thoughts and solutions are atleast 90% matching with me. Also, I have tried practicing 'no' politely. Still, as a woman many compromises await. Agar wo kuch useful compromises hotey phir bhi sochti but most of them are power control to satisfy insecurities of the society and regressive family systems.
Same here sister. With 1 year of marriage gave inlaws grankid at risk of corporate job. Finally got maternity leave but they are bent on making me their housewife with earning, while keeping their clueless boy as useless to demand bedtea for himself while i am cater to the child as well. SIL wants to demean my choice in corporate attire of smart casuals by forcing chunni, ghoonghat and chamcham suits with village jewelry, Speaking derogatorily of my attempt upskill and switch jobs. They try to keep me bound to their house, don't allow me to mingle in the neighborhood, forbid me from buying my things from shop, insert inane 'traditions', even try to stop my mother's house visits.
@@divyasinghphougat8520 Sorry Divya, I am in a better position. From beginning of my marriage, I had decided not to do anything to impress but at times do all these rituals or cultural practices out of my love. But, I can definitely understand your situation. Main na isliye apne bure financial time main jab mujhe kisine help nahi kiya tab khud hi apne savings se apne college fees etc bhara. I was planning a kid but unless certain things are solved...I am not going to bring in a kid until I am emotionally and physically ready.
@@divyasinghphougat8520 It was and is tough but I do not ask permission for staying with my father. But my fil tries to indirectly pressurize me by asking when I can stay with them. I don't mind staying with them. But my food and cultural habits are different. When they force upon their food habits on me, I get uncomfortable as it is a shocker for me at a humanitarian level. I am a good cook but my mil insists to learn cooking from her so that I cook them. On phone, she criticises my choice of recipe that I cook and instructs me what my husband should eat. I am educated regarding health and infact good at making balanced diets. Since I do not criticize her or anyone's food habits , it is difficult for me to constantly face so much discussions regarding food. My mil says o you cooked only one sabzi....my Babu can't eat with one sabzi. On the other hand my husband is extremely fond of what I make.
My sister suffered from the same problem. Her father in law was the villain. She suffered from mental trauma after her marriage because of his rude behavior and taunts.
Marriage and parenthood are overrated in India. I am single and childfree for life.😇 Ratan Tata, Abdul Kalam, Vajpayee, Jayalalithaa, Lata Mangeshkar, Mayawati, Mamta Banerjee, Ekta Kapoor etc are single and childfree and some of the most successful people in India.
I totally agree with you. The moment you said, jis ghar mai women dukhi hai, woh ghar kabhi sukhi, happy nahi ho sakta. This was my thought which came on in this video. Must appreciate your thoughts. Thanks for your videos.
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Sooo right.. 😀😀😂😂👌👌 I can see and feel the toxicity in my family between my parents.. They are narcissistic 😞 my father kind of controls everything..I'm divorced, my in-laws were like u said exactly.. Great content ..maja aa gaya😊❤
superb , awesome video. The more I listen to your videos , the more I am in awe of your practical sense, boldness, observation power , and simple way of explaining them . love you Sir.
I just got surprised how could you know d real day to day problems of middle class families.Curious to know that have u gone through such problems also?So accurate problems n solutions.Thank u sir for such unique episodes.
Deeply influenced by your thoughts Sir🌺.. have joined your Channel platinum membership today.. Looking forward for more enlightenment on topics that improve quality of life and make it more worthy for a happy society 🙏🙏🙏
Awesome . Itni sahi baatein aap bata rahein hain, mere to aasoon hi nikal aaye.itni achhi tarah expalin kiya hai aapne. Mein 1980s ki model hu ,na idhar ki na udhar ki. Aajkal k baccho k liye aap ekdum sahi advice de rahein hain . Ladka ladki dono k maa baap sirf bachcho ko supresss karte hain. Mein 47 yrs ki hu aur kehna chahti hu aapne kya sahi vidoes banaye hain. Asli culprit Sasur. Eye opener hai yeh baat !! Yeh b khoob kaha ki aapas mein old husband wife lad pade agar ghar p beta bahu na ho. Kya hi baat kahi aapne . ❤
At the moment my husband needs to see this eye opener. Who tries to be a good boy in his 70s. Now I'll have fun sharing this with him . Thank you ji. Perfect content. 😄 😀 😊
Correct.. Salute sir.. Samaj ki kadvi sachai.. Bahut achha vedio banaya.. Hope sabhi ye dekh ke apna believe system change kare aut family me khushali banaye..
Ram ram 🙏 sir Ji pausing the vedio and looking back in life my Grand father than father and then father in law and then husband 😂😂💐🙏all are giving commands and great lesson to ladies but iam watching your video now and understand who is culprit aabhar Dil se Bhai ji 🙏 great words 🙏💐
U nailed it sir,this is what i say always everywhere when issues arise in the family...its the male members of the family who are chiefly responsible for all the issues and then conveniently shift the blame either on "saas" or " bahu"
I completely agree even my father has torched us a lot. He had created a huge misunderstanding between my mother and my grandmother (his other family person) and write now his whole family members have become our enemies and he is secretly enjoying it
Mazza aaya aapko sunke 😂 isi baat pr follow you sir aaj hi morning maine isi issue pe bola apne hasband ko aur first time aapka video suna iska matlab mai right thi tysm for showing mirror every hidden villian
This is the bitter truth.Parents have toxic marriages and they think next gen can also live like them.They keep crying that they sacrificed so much for us .😊
Sahi hai Sir, meri maa to gujar bhi gai abhi bhi mere baap ka wohi chal raha hai, pahle maa ko bharkaya ab bb ko bharkate hai... satya wachan hai apke, salute
Very much true Sir. Thanks for bringing up this. But for our Beta , Father, son in law and Father in law to improve, it will take another decade I feel or more maybe. This video should reach each and every house hold of India
So glad you are bringing up these issues! I always brought up these issues and was told I was too radical😂 Also then told that Grewal girls were known to be, “ too spoilt”. I feel validated😂😂😂
Bilkul sahi hai Mai pichley 22 saal se joint family Mai hu Pati jyada tar bahar hi rehti hain Do baccho aur in-laws ki take care karti hu aur sabki baatein sunti hoon Aapney karma exhaust kar rahi hu
Very good advised sir, thankfully my husband understood this quite early and he was the one who decided to have our own house.But in India majority of people don’t understand this and they look down upon couple who do not live with their parents.
It's 100% true we need to discuss & understand also.., mere sasur ji nahi h, but all these things are happening with me every day just coz of my husband & mother in law, they are thinking girls life are based on facing the sacrifice & tolerance so you have to face it, & when ever I rise the voice against of them so they say to me, that I'm battamiz & many more . My humble request to all husbands don't do violence with our wife. Love & Take care of mother as well as wife also.
What to do in cases where saas is alone, sasur is no more alive. And that alone saas is emotionally blackmailing Bahu n Beta to stay with them and making their life hell even when they are not staying in her home.
एकदम सही कहा आपने. घर में आग लगाने का काम ससुरही करते है. एल्जाम बहु पे लगाते है. इसके लिये मा बाप को हद से ज्यादा महान बताया जाना भी है. इसी की आड मे वे गलत भी करे तो खुद को गलत नही समझते. चाहे वो खुद के बेटे का घर तोड ना ही क्यु ना हो.
बिल्कुल सच कहा आपने असली विलेन ससुर है कितना बढ़िया अनालिसिस है आपका और कितना सटीक तरीके से समझा रहे हो आपकी उम्र के लोग अंकल जी गीता और रामायण की बातें करके खुद को बहुत ज्ञानी समझने लगते हैं आपकी उम्र में आपको इतनी अच्छी समझ असली कर्मयोग यही है जौ आप समझा रहे हो
Yes... I had guessed it's father in-law,i recently had argument with him, and thts when i realised after 15 yrs of marriage that my father in law was playing double game. He has messed the family, spoilt his son, spread rumours about me, n he is doing this very quietly...
100% true and relatable video.what a rational and progressive thoughts... excellent analysis, maja aa gaya. I'm from an 80's generation, almost married for 14 years. Highly educated but controlled by villains. Always submissive, obedient, cultured ... But now I feel like to rebe wasted all my life's golden years listening to them as if I don't have my liking, now I want to focus on myself and my hobbies a little bit. So that after 10 more years I won't be regretting it any more. I don't want to become a villain in my bahu's life. Thanks for sharing it n showing the mirror to society 🙏
Villans not just immediate family, relative near distant...especially if you are single senior citizen every one wants to control you,relatives,neighbours,retire ke baad collegues bhi...god knows who not.
Bahut galat baat hai madamji, phir toh mard bhi bolenge auraoto pati nahi ATM machine chayie. Kon ladki aise ladke ko date karti hai ya shadi jiske pass paisa na ho. Aurat bhi pase ke piche hi hoti hai. Fact hai. But aajkal ghar ka Kam nahi karna aurat ko. Toh phir kon karega, pati office jayega ya ghar ka kaam. Aurat kyun nahi phir househusband se shadi karti hai. Phir Equality kahan jati hai apki. Jaise admi aurat ko finance karta hai, aurat bhi kare. Aajkal ke divorce cases mein agar wife husband se zayada bhi earn karti hai, toh bhi maintenance aur alimony demand karti hai. Equality aur victim card dono saath mein nahi hoga.
@@dr.bhartitiwari4642 aap bahut filmi hai Madam. Waise indian judiciary ke cases ka data bhi dek leti. Aap jo keh rahi hai usse urdu mein Lafazi kehte hai aur english mein logical fallacies. Aur kya pankay tripathi househusband hai? Aurat gharjamai se shadi kyon nahi karti? Data aur Statistics par baat karie. Ek do cases honge, mein mana nahi karta but kya majority ladkiya date karti hai aise ladke ko jiske pass job na ho? Aur househusband bane ko tayar ho ?Apna point prove karne ko aap ek do example de bhi de, but yeh sample survey mein insignificant number hai. Aur kya maid aurat nahi hoti. Uska ghar baccha nahi hai. Middle class aurato ko lagta hai ameer pati mil jaye. Aur maid raak de. Agar aurat ghar ka kaam karke maid hoti hai, toh jab aap Bahar bag lekar kaam par jati hai, tab kya hoti hai princess? Jab koi aur aurat apke ghar par kaam karke maid hai, toh aap bhi chahe koi bhi job kare Bahar, aap bhi maid hi hui. Agar yeh baat aurat ko samaj aa jaye, toh bazarwad khatam na ho jaye. Waha aap workforc(maid) bhi hai aur customer bhi. Toh ghar ko apna samaj kar, waha Kam karne mein kon si insult hai. Vinash kale vipreet budhi.
Madam mein judiciary mein hi job karta hun. Aur aap ki baateino se samaj aa kyon kehte hai ki aurat se debate mein bhramaji bhi nahi jeet sakte. Kyoni aap numbers aur stats par nahi apni man marzi par baat karti hai, par aise duniya nahi chalti. Jai Ramji ki.
Accidentally found your channel, best thing I came across on UA-cam till date! I have been binge watching all your old videos and sharing them with family. I strongly feel all of your content is spot-on, need of the hour for most Indians. Thanks for making much needed content 🙏
@@shasankv85 my father in law was super arrogant, narssissistic and would bring the house down with shouting and yelling if something went against him....... He wouldnt take a glass of water by himself..... Someone should always be ready to serve him.
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Jo kuch aap leh rahe h ye maine apne pati ko shuruaat me hi bata diya tha to jo parivar pura mil k meri saas ko pratadit kr raha tha wo meri saas k sath mil k mete khilaf ek ho gaya.....dhritrashtra aaj bhi maje le raha h ladwa k sabko
My Fil died, still we live separately. We have provided everything for mil comfort. Once because of joint family we were facing divorce situation now after separation of 12 years from parent in laws our marriage has turned into a very romantic one. I simply don't remember when was the last time we fought.
❤❤❤ god bless you! I hope to recover just like you
Mere pati ke to dur baithe hi maa baap behan dil dimag me baithe rahte hain 🙄
He is such a blessing to our society! God bless you sir !
Par kitne log is video ko dekhenge???? problem ye hai
This ws beyond 'mjaa aa gya'...excellently said n amazingly revealed the bitter truth of middle class Indian families
Maja aya. Ap ekdum sach bol rahe ho. Ek eonshabd sach hai. Sare fasad ki jad admi hai aur dosh aurat ko diya jata hai. Apke is video ne dill jeet liya sangwan ji. Jiyo mere sher
Very rational and progressive outlook towards saas bahu issue and love the clear straight forward attitude of yours !! Absolutely agree to every word !!
Accidentally found your video.. ur views and opinions are very close to middle class family and parivar and I love to watch ur videos... Before I watched motivational things or listened to music while doing my work .. but now whenever I watch tv either working on the computer or phone i start watching ur videos.. which very much admires me personally ..thank u sir.. and yes maza aa gaya... Keep motivating us with all ur experience and observations... Thank u so much...😊
Sir you are brilliant and brave ... Exposing the truth fearlessly ... Please continue ... The truth you speak is so much more helpful than fake religious and spiritual gurus who don't really help in anything ... This is the real deal ... A real social revolution ... May our unhappy society change soon
Guruji, aap aur aise gyan jagaye aur hamare Bharthiye parivaaro ke jeevan me clarity laaye🙏🙌
Greetings sir ji.. After listening your videos I must say you have observed, studied, analyzed everything in so details.. I must say you must be a great daddy for your children and definitely creating awareness and spreading knowledge in the society which is beneficial for us.. Keep going..
Please share your own family's details. How are they behaving and how is your advice having results in your in family. Hope you will have courage to do so.
I m from 80s and I thought I was the only one who could see this and was saying this. Thanks for raising this on social platform.
There is tendency in Indian male members that Bahu has come in family as transcend of Mother in law role. Whatever mother in law has been doing, how she is managing has to be done by bahu in same way , no matter , which they label as 'sasural k taur tarike', 'get adjusted' . They don't accept that girl has her own way of living and doing things , she might not be interested in cooking food or being on toes daily.
@@FromProfessor is it not a matter of ego for boys accepting girl earning more than them? And also boys tend to be older and hence get the time to have higher income . So for a girl to have income higher than husband, will a family boy look for girls older than the boy? Boys do night job or US timing for high income. Will a family be supportive of the wife doing night shft?
@@FromProfessorlets see when u will be married..after almost 5years come nd update uss😅😅
@@shalinisingh700yeah but yk he will not come back ever
Sir such mein aap ekdum Sahi bol rahe hai. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sir, I am a woman who is a researcher. In last one year, I have cried a lot because of my career and mental health getting affected. Honestly, I don't see my in laws as villains but unfortunately the systems they blindly believe in. If I live like them, I have to be dead inside. After a lot of thought, I had proposed my husband that if he wants me to stay near him happily, we must develop alternative arrangements for their parents and my parents too. But, he is afraid that his parents would be hurt. But, I am very firm with sticking with my idea. In my bad financial times, except for formal asking ....no one including my husband helped me out. So, I have to think for myself even if I earn the label of a bad Bahu. I watched your videos and was honestly but happily surprised how your prescribed thoughts and solutions are atleast 90% matching with me.
Also, I have tried practicing 'no' politely. Still, as a woman many compromises await. Agar wo kuch useful compromises hotey phir bhi sochti but most of them are power control to satisfy insecurities of the society and regressive family systems.
Don't want to prove yourself each and every one
Same here sister. With 1 year of marriage gave inlaws grankid at risk of corporate job. Finally got maternity leave but they are bent on making me their housewife with earning, while keeping their clueless boy as useless to demand bedtea for himself while i am cater to the child as well. SIL wants to demean my choice in corporate attire of smart casuals by forcing chunni, ghoonghat and chamcham suits with village jewelry, Speaking derogatorily of my attempt upskill and switch jobs. They try to keep me bound to their house, don't allow me to mingle in the neighborhood, forbid me from buying my things from shop, insert inane 'traditions', even try to stop my mother's house visits.
@@freedom4813 I earn and I have my dreams of becoming a professor.
@@divyasinghphougat8520 Sorry Divya, I am in a better position. From beginning of my marriage, I had decided not to do anything to impress but at times do all these rituals or cultural practices out of my love. But, I can definitely understand your situation. Main na isliye apne bure financial time main jab mujhe kisine help nahi kiya tab khud hi apne savings se apne college fees etc bhara. I was planning a kid but unless certain things are solved...I am not going to bring in a kid until I am emotionally and physically ready.
@@divyasinghphougat8520 It was and is tough but I do not ask permission for staying with my father. But my fil tries to indirectly pressurize me by asking when I can stay with them. I don't mind staying with them. But my food and cultural habits are different. When they force upon their food habits on me, I get uncomfortable as it is a shocker for me at a humanitarian level. I am a good cook but my mil insists to learn cooking from her so that I cook them. On phone, she criticises my choice of recipe that I cook and instructs me what my husband should eat. I am educated regarding health and infact good at making balanced diets. Since I do not criticize her or anyone's food habits , it is difficult for me to constantly face so much discussions regarding food. My mil says o you cooked only one sabzi....my Babu can't eat with one sabzi. On the other hand my husband is extremely fond of what I make.
Perfect points said today. This must be shared to all in India.
My sister suffered from the same problem. Her father in law was the villain. She suffered from mental trauma after her marriage because of his rude behavior and taunts.
Yes you are 💯✅ right ,nobody ever thought in this line ,you are really great,please keep it up ,do make such videos .Thanx 🙏🙏🙏❤️
I have never heard anyone speaking so boldly and fearlessly about the dark truths of the Indian middle class family
Hats off to you,Sir
Marriage and parenthood are overrated in India.
I am single and childfree for life.😇
Ratan Tata, Abdul Kalam, Vajpayee, Jayalalithaa, Lata Mangeshkar, Mayawati, Mamta Banerjee, Ekta Kapoor etc are single and childfree and some of the most successful people in India.
I agree I am his big admirer
@@anewlife5846 नरेंद्र मोदी ऑल्सो
@@sachintyagi4386 He is married to Jashoda but he just doesn't co-habitate with her.
Yhi mard prr bante h bhag jati h😂😂😂
Very very true. The head of the family is utterly lazy, irresponsible but wants all the power.
👏👌👍
True
Uncle ji U r so accurate in life mantra..I’m becoming ur fan🙏🏼
Uncle mat bolo. He is quite young
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I totally agree with you. The moment you said, jis ghar mai women dukhi hai, woh ghar kabhi sukhi, happy nahi ho sakta. This was my thought which came on in this video. Must appreciate your thoughts. Thanks for your videos.
Love your life lessons..I happened to watch one episode..and I was hooked to your channel...watched all your episodes..almost..
Itne sateek..progressive vichaar..much needed for the society..Bahut achha kaam Kar Rahe ho aap..kitna khul ke bolte ho..wahwahwah..:):) Have forwarded to many in my circle.. !! Thanks for coming up with such unique stuff.. 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏
Thanks
MAJ
I just want to forward this to my sasuraal group offend ho jayenge bas 😅
MAJ
Bhout Badhiya this is reallty of life
Sooo right.. 😀😀😂😂👌👌 I can see and feel the toxicity in my family between my parents.. They are narcissistic 😞 my father kind of controls everything..I'm divorced, my in-laws were like u said exactly.. Great content ..maja aa gaya😊❤
Roots of Patriarchal society.
True Message.
Role of Woman is Changing.
Now she has started to understand.
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Aap kitney clear ho life ko lekar but sir situation aisi ho jaati hai ki sab samay par thal diya jaata hai😌😌
First time seeing some person who have so clarity in life 😊bahut badiya video
Very deep and honest thoughts presented fantastically.
सही कहा आप ने असली विलन ससुर ही हैं मेरे साथ भी यही हुआ है
superb , awesome video. The more I listen to your videos , the more I am in awe of your practical sense, boldness, observation power , and simple way of explaining them . love you Sir.
You are so right. Toxicity in the family is rightly described. Wish I had heard this before. So very true. What is the solution
Sahi bole aap. You r the only guy with a spine n gumption.
I just got surprised how could you know d real day to day problems of middle class families.Curious to know that have u gone through such problems also?So accurate problems n solutions.Thank u sir for such unique episodes.
He is consultant. So. Like a doctor he solves these problems everyday by counselling. So his analysis is so accurate.
Deeply influenced by your thoughts Sir🌺.. have joined your Channel platinum membership today.. Looking forward for more enlightenment on topics that improve quality of life and make it more worthy for a happy society 🙏🙏🙏
Awesome . Itni sahi baatein aap bata rahein hain, mere to aasoon hi nikal aaye.itni achhi tarah expalin kiya hai aapne. Mein 1980s ki model hu ,na idhar ki na udhar ki. Aajkal k baccho k liye aap ekdum sahi advice de rahein hain . Ladka ladki dono k maa baap sirf bachcho ko supresss karte hain. Mein 47 yrs ki hu aur kehna chahti hu aapne kya sahi vidoes banaye hain. Asli culprit Sasur. Eye opener hai yeh baat !! Yeh b khoob kaha ki aapas mein old husband wife lad pade agar ghar p beta bahu na ho. Kya hi baat kahi aapne . ❤
At the moment my husband needs to see this eye opener. Who tries to be a good boy in his 70s. Now I'll have fun sharing this with him . Thank you ji. Perfect content. 😄 😀 😊
Totally agree 👍 🤝 👏 👌 🙌 💯
Sir Respect about you, at this age say true opening hats of you👍This issues need discuss and helpful to understand all life situations 🙏Thank you.
Thank you Sir for your golden words in this video.
KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK.
Uncle ji aapane To Mere Dil Ki baten Bata Di bahut bahut dhanyvad aap log hi Hain Jo Bahu Ka Dukh samajh sakte hain
You are a genius sir. Every single word is right
Correct.. Salute sir.. Samaj ki kadvi sachai.. Bahut achha vedio banaya.. Hope sabhi ye dekh ke apna believe system change kare aut family me khushali banaye..
You are abs right sir. Can't believe that thoughts can be so clearly expressed
Ram ram 🙏 sir Ji pausing the vedio and looking back in life my Grand father than father and then father in law and then husband 😂😂💐🙏all are giving commands and great lesson to ladies but iam watching your video now and understand who is culprit aabhar Dil se Bhai ji 🙏 great words 🙏💐
Bhutttt bdia
Aise hi mind opening videos chahiyen
Mann to krta h apne saas sasur k kamre m ja k ye video chla du
Very informative and eye opening content! Keep up the good work!
Beautiful! Extremely 100 per cent accurate 👏 The older generation in Indian society is my role model of what ‘NOT’ to be!
U nailed it sir,this is what i say always everywhere when issues arise in the family...its the male members of the family who are chiefly responsible for all the issues and then conveniently shift the blame either on "saas" or " bahu"
Great content! 100% CORRECT!
I completely agree even my father has torched us a lot. He had created a huge misunderstanding between my mother and my grandmother (his other family person) and write now his whole family members have become our enemies and he is secretly enjoying it
Ekdm sachh hai sir...😢
Mazza aaya aapko sunke 😂 isi baat pr follow you sir aaj hi morning maine isi issue pe bola apne hasband ko aur first time aapka video suna iska matlab mai right thi tysm for showing mirror every hidden villian
Correct.
मां बाप को छोड़ दे तो वो आपस में लड़कर बरबाद हो जायेंगे
अगर साथ में रहो तो डिसीजन नही देंगे , सिस्टम चेंज करने नही देंगे
Each word of what you said is so true to my life, wish I had come in contact with you earlier.
Ekdum sahi.hum bhi aise hi sasur hai.
I have already asked my son to have separate house before marriage.very mature advice
This is the bitter truth.Parents have toxic marriages and they think next gen can also live like them.They keep crying that they sacrificed so much for us .😊
Sahi hai Sir, meri maa to gujar bhi gai abhi bhi mere baap ka wohi chal raha hai, pahle maa ko bharkaya ab bb ko bharkate hai... satya wachan hai apke, salute
Need more people like you for progress in social & family relations !!! Your videos are addictive 🤣👏👏
100 percent true. Quite agree with you
Very much true Sir. Thanks for bringing up this.
But for our Beta , Father, son in law and Father in law to improve, it will take another decade I feel or more maybe.
This video should reach each and every house hold of India
So glad you are bringing up these issues! I always brought up these issues and was told I was too radical😂
Also then told that Grewal girls were known to be, “ too spoilt”.
I feel validated😂😂😂
super sir aap jaise logo ki jarurt hain 🎉
Bilkul sahi hai
Mai pichley 22 saal se joint family Mai hu
Pati jyada tar bahar hi rehti hain
Do baccho aur in-laws ki take care karti hu aur sabki baatein sunti hoon
Aapney karma exhaust kar rahi hu
Karma exhaust karne ke kuch easy tareeke bhi hain....meditation and yoga
Agree with you 100%
Mind-blowing sir
Main accused hamare habits ka hai...aajkal ke beto ko mummy ke kaam me hath bantana hoga..Kyoki aane vali bahu Ghar nahi baithegi kaam kaji Hogi
Very good advised sir, thankfully my husband understood this quite early and he was the one who decided to have our own house.But in India majority of people don’t understand this and they look down upon couple who do not live with their parents.
Yes, both males in the house, specially the son
Sir. App ka bahut bahut dhanyavad ye video banane ke liye
I agree with 100% I am faced same situation manipulation n mentally torchere
Sir very well explained ….that is true….thank you so much
It's 100% true we need to discuss & understand also.., mere sasur ji nahi h, but all these things are happening with me every day just coz of my husband & mother in law, they are thinking girls life are based on facing the sacrifice & tolerance so you have to face it, & when ever I rise the voice against of them so they say to me, that I'm battamiz & many more . My humble request to all husbands don't do violence with our wife. Love & Take care of mother as well as wife also.
Very very true 😢
Bilkul sahi bol Raha hai ap
What to do in cases where saas is alone, sasur is no more alive. And that alone saas is emotionally blackmailing Bahu n Beta to stay with them and making their life hell even when they are not staying in her home.
Same question from my side also.
Same here
Aap bilkul sahi bol rahe hai mere
Bilkul 100% truth
OMG vvv nice video bhaiji 🙏🙏🙏🙏
It's very much true
Bilkul sahi baat h ek ek baat sahi h
Mai agree hun aapki baat se ..
एकदम सही कहा आपने. घर में आग लगाने का काम ससुरही करते है. एल्जाम बहु पे लगाते है. इसके लिये मा बाप को हद से ज्यादा महान बताया जाना भी है. इसी की आड मे वे गलत भी करे तो खुद को गलत नही समझते. चाहे वो खुद के बेटे का घर तोड ना ही क्यु ना हो.
Absolut Right
Bilkul sach
Very true 👍
So true🎉
Baat to sahi h sir aapki
Aap ekdum sahi bol rahe thanks samaj ke samne aap laye
You are right sir
You're amazing 🎉🎉 seriously someone dared to say this
Right 👍 sir ji
True making her villain and self becoming like very understanding sasur they make there wife villain for bahu and son also enjoy this
Very true
बिल्कुल सच कहा आपने असली विलेन ससुर है कितना बढ़िया अनालिसिस है आपका और कितना सटीक तरीके से समझा रहे हो आपकी उम्र के लोग अंकल जी गीता और रामायण की बातें करके खुद को बहुत ज्ञानी समझने लगते हैं आपकी उम्र में आपको इतनी अच्छी समझ असली कर्मयोग यही है जौ आप समझा रहे हो
Yes... I had guessed it's father in-law,i recently had argument with him, and thts when i realised after 15 yrs of marriage that my father in law was playing double game. He has messed the family, spoilt his son, spread rumours about me, n he is doing this very quietly...
ur case father in law / most cases when women would reply would be husbands father😇
Same here
100% true and relatable video.what a rational and progressive thoughts... excellent analysis, maja aa gaya. I'm from an 80's generation, almost married for 14 years. Highly educated but controlled by villains. Always submissive, obedient, cultured ... But now I feel like to rebe wasted all my life's golden years listening to them as if I don't have my liking, now I want to focus on myself and my hobbies a little bit. So that after 10 more years I won't be regretting it any more. I don't want to become a villain in my bahu's life. Thanks for sharing it n showing the mirror to society 🙏
Kya bat ha!! Josh aa gayo..viedos dekh kar,
More power to u ❤
Villans not just immediate family, relative near distant...especially if you are single senior citizen every one wants to control you,relatives,neighbours,retire ke baad collegues bhi...god knows who not.
Same with me
Same feeling with me. Always don't become a naukrani in front of the villians
Kalesh ka karan sabko muft ki naukrani chahiye,pehle biwi fir bahu
I agree
1000 thumbs up for you mam 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍. Me and my brother were raised by a single mother
Bahut galat baat hai madamji, phir toh mard bhi bolenge auraoto pati nahi ATM machine chayie. Kon ladki aise ladke ko date karti hai ya shadi jiske pass paisa na ho. Aurat bhi pase ke piche hi hoti hai. Fact hai. But aajkal ghar ka Kam nahi karna aurat ko. Toh phir kon karega, pati office jayega ya ghar ka kaam. Aurat kyun nahi phir househusband se shadi karti hai. Phir Equality kahan jati hai apki. Jaise admi aurat ko finance karta hai, aurat bhi kare. Aajkal ke divorce cases mein agar wife husband se zayada bhi earn karti hai, toh bhi maintenance aur alimony demand karti hai. Equality aur victim card dono saath mein nahi hoga.
@@dr.bhartitiwari4642 aap bahut filmi hai Madam. Waise indian judiciary ke cases ka data bhi dek leti. Aap jo keh rahi hai usse urdu mein Lafazi kehte hai aur english mein logical fallacies. Aur kya pankay tripathi househusband hai? Aurat gharjamai se shadi kyon nahi karti? Data aur Statistics par baat karie. Ek do cases honge, mein mana nahi karta but kya majority ladkiya date karti hai aise ladke ko jiske pass job na ho? Aur househusband bane ko tayar ho ?Apna point prove karne ko aap ek do example de bhi de, but yeh sample survey mein insignificant number hai. Aur kya maid aurat nahi hoti. Uska ghar baccha nahi hai. Middle class aurato ko lagta hai ameer pati mil jaye. Aur maid raak de. Agar aurat ghar ka kaam karke maid hoti hai, toh jab aap Bahar bag lekar kaam par jati hai, tab kya hoti hai princess? Jab koi aur aurat apke ghar par kaam karke maid hai, toh aap bhi chahe koi bhi job kare Bahar, aap bhi maid hi hui. Agar yeh baat aurat ko samaj aa jaye, toh bazarwad khatam na ho jaye. Waha aap workforc(maid) bhi hai aur customer bhi. Toh ghar ko apna samaj kar, waha Kam karne mein kon si insult hai. Vinash kale vipreet budhi.
Madam mein judiciary mein hi job karta hun. Aur aap ki baateino se samaj aa kyon kehte hai ki aurat se debate mein bhramaji bhi nahi jeet sakte. Kyoni aap numbers aur stats par nahi apni man marzi par baat karti hai, par aise duniya nahi chalti. Jai Ramji ki.
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Same
Maz
Very nice video
You are 100℅ correct. Not only in North India, same situation in South also. But this father in laws are so arrogant that they don't have any regret.
100% true
Correct, fathers and father-in-laws are super worst beings.
@@shasankv85 my father in law was super arrogant, narssissistic and would bring the house down with shouting and yelling if something went against him.......
He wouldnt take a glass of water by himself..... Someone should always be ready to serve him.
South situations are more bad I feel
Bilkul shi