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It doesn’t have to take 10+ years to heal…it can take a lifetime, but it doesn’t have to! One of the biggest aspects I learned after unburdening in therapy 💗
Understanding our parents, forgiving, honoring them and moving fwd is key, It's not about revisiting the wounds. blaming and remaining in Victimhood for ever, there is no Healing or Appreciation shown, by doing that.
My parents were shopping with my siblings..not too much older. Left me age 5 at childcare and didn't pick me up until 9 pm. When all kids were picked up by 5pm. It traumatized me so much! Dad didn't say he loved me until I was 45. Yea 😢
I put my kid in a playpen to keep her safe. Not for hours, but to be able to clean or cook. She is in a happy marriage and did not need therapy for being in a playpen occasionally 😅.
I think once your life is in order and don't need but rather want the best for the other, be amazed at the things she wants to give to you without it being transactional. Man and wife become one! 🙏❤
I just found your videos. Thank you for sharing your heart! I actually told my hubby yesterday how much I like him, the things I like about him, and he was so surprised. lol. I love to shock him and make him laugh. I'm one lucky girl!! And I'm grateful.
Recently I took your advice and I paused while talking to a guy and said "I like you." He actually changed his entire demeanor and started talking "sweet" to me. ☆ Your advice does work! Thanks, Jonathan!
I remember, as a child living in the country, being told to go to bed, at 7 pm. For a while, I would just lay in my bed, that I had to share my bed with, say" Bad mommy, bad daddy". That was my way of complaining against being sent to bed, while it was still daylight, lol
Another amazing podcast, Jonathon. So many golden gems. I remember running across one of your videos ~ 6 ys. Ago where you were pontificating your thoughts and ideas. I listened once in a while. I wanted to critique you back then, but something said not to. In the last year+, I have become a loyal fan because you have grown so much. Your vulnerability and sharing personal struggles is so relatable to me and to your listeners. Thank you. ❤
Loved the Breakfast Club…Judge Reinhold and Ally Sheedy. I share your childhood difficulties. Came to England aged 10 and dad became over protective overnight stopping me from hobbies like ballet and sleepovers with friends, parties, drive me everywhere. Plus difficult childhood looking after my sister 10yrs younger. Certainly adult relationships challenging. Now seeing someone recently divorced with possible Asperger’s. I’m turning big 50 this year and hope I can settle down with a man compatible with me..thanks for your riveting content Jonathon
I agree with you, Jonathan: I'm hearing both women and men blaming each other and refusing to look at their own beliefs, feelings, attitudes and behavior, and how those impact others. Many haven't at all looked at what they went through as small children, and how it affects their ability to relax, trust, commit to appropriate partners, respect the other's needs, and resolve conflicts.
I really appreciate you sharing some of your difficult memories of your childhood with us. I agree that all want to be liked and develop deep friendships at a core level. I also believe we can change for the better. Thank you so much Jonathon for your vulnerability in this video. You are a remarkable man. 💛
Hi People's!! I would just like to thank Jonathaon for recommending the Hoffman Process!! ❤ the book came today and I couldn't wait to start reading it. I have just starting reading ch 2 ..I've been honest with myself...I know I need to do this to be able to have an honest fulfilling life. After reading Ch 1 and part of 2 I already feel hopeful. X
I agree with you,it has nothing to do with her profession being a flight attendence.she thinks she is better than any one and she has to humble herself
Your Mother put you in a play pen to keep you safe. You could play with your toys and she knew where You were. I was put in. Play pen and put my kids in one Too when they were little.
Everyone has being on a crib with toys or a baby chair or loft with safety gate, or in a play pen, etc. but sometimes we’re just stuck in the past or in victimhood
You said it soo well. Simple👏👏👏👏Bravo Jonathon. Thank you for sharing that this was so brave of you. It must have hurt so much. Yes hurt people hurt people.
What a wonderful self transparency real discussion . You are so sincere here and spoke for so many of us with our hurts and family dynamics. They didn’t h ave many books on how to raise us ADDHD children and yes playpens did contain us. Your walk hasn’t been easy ( fears still) but ur positive projection is fabulous! Really listening and working on my self growth. U realky interview people well and listen to them . Learning a lot about men… thank you.
It was part of being a kid in the country, but still felt it unfair. The parents though probably felt they were protecting us from the wolves and such, lol
Jonathon- sorry I missed this live- question- I have said ‘I really like you’ - he is a highly analytical and intelligent man- can he really receive this??’ Not sure if he’s capable… can’t wait for Sunday video… this was a fantastic video!!!! He really cares for me- he’s struggling.
Cara excuse me but as a woman i feel you are completely unable to be honest and straightforward with your thoughts, and you dont seem to be in touch at all with your feelings. You should first love yourself, learn to do that, and then feel if someone else is able to love you. You seem to not be at all focussed on yourself. You are maybe scared to face your feelings but life does not have time for your fear. We are in charge of ourselves. No one can use us if we love ourself. We love ourself FIRST, and then someone else who is healthy can be atracted to us. I cant see a woman give away SO much. Please dont. Please focus on you first. Forget anyone else.
How long did your mum put you in the play pen? Today's lifestyle that would be called time out. Parents who don't say no have children grow up without boundaries! Children cry... adults cry that's a normal emotion.
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You couldn't control how you were raised/treated, but now as an adult ,you CAN control how you heal, react, and move forward.
Exactly
It doesn’t have to take 10+ years to heal…it can take a lifetime, but it doesn’t have to! One of the biggest aspects I learned after unburdening in therapy 💗
Understanding our parents, forgiving, honoring them and moving fwd is key, It's not about revisiting the wounds. blaming and remaining in Victimhood for ever, there is no Healing or Appreciation shown, by doing that.
My parents were shopping with my siblings..not too much older. Left me age 5 at childcare and didn't pick me up until 9 pm. When all kids were picked up by 5pm. It traumatized me so much! Dad didn't say he loved me until I was 45. Yea 😢
I put my kid in a playpen to keep her safe. Not for hours, but to be able to clean or cook. She is in a happy marriage and did not need therapy for being in a playpen occasionally 😅.
I think once your life is in order and don't need but rather want the best for the other, be amazed at the things she wants to give to you without it being transactional. Man and wife become one! 🙏❤
Yes ❤️
I just found your videos. Thank you for sharing your heart! I actually told my hubby yesterday how much I like him, the things I like about him, and he was so surprised. lol. I love to shock him and make him laugh. I'm one lucky girl!! And I'm grateful.
Wonderful!
Recently I took your advice and I paused while talking to a guy and said "I like you."
He actually changed his entire demeanor and started talking "sweet" to me. ☆ Your advice does work! Thanks, Jonathan!
Great job!
🎉maybe a little too sweet! 😅
Yes. Everything goes back to childhood!!!
Exactly
I remember, as a child living in the country, being told to go to bed, at 7 pm. For a while, I would just lay in my bed, that I had to share my bed with, say" Bad mommy, bad daddy". That was my way of complaining against being sent to bed, while it was still daylight, lol
Thanks for sharing
Another amazing podcast, Jonathon. So many golden gems. I remember running across one of your videos ~ 6 ys. Ago where you were pontificating your thoughts and ideas. I listened once in a while. I wanted to critique you back then, but something said not to. In the last year+, I have become a loyal fan because you have grown so much. Your vulnerability and sharing personal struggles is so relatable to me and to your listeners. Thank you. ❤
Thanks for listening
Loved the Breakfast Club…Judge Reinhold and Ally Sheedy. I share your childhood difficulties. Came to England aged 10 and dad became over protective overnight stopping me from hobbies like ballet and sleepovers with friends, parties, drive me everywhere. Plus difficult childhood looking after my sister 10yrs younger. Certainly adult relationships challenging. Now seeing someone recently divorced with possible Asperger’s. I’m turning big 50 this year and hope I can settle down with a man compatible with me..thanks for your riveting content Jonathon
I agree with you, Jonathan: I'm hearing both women and men blaming each other and refusing to look at their own beliefs, feelings, attitudes and behavior, and how those impact others. Many haven't at all looked at what they went through as small children, and how it affects their ability to relax, trust, commit to appropriate partners, respect the other's needs, and resolve conflicts.
I really appreciate you sharing some of your difficult memories of your childhood with us. I agree that all want to be liked and develop deep friendships at a core level. I also believe we can change for the better. Thank you so much Jonathon for your vulnerability in this video. You are a remarkable man. 💛
You are so welcome!
Hi People's!! I would just like to thank Jonathaon for recommending the Hoffman Process!! ❤ the book came today and I couldn't wait to start reading it. I have just starting reading ch 2 ..I've been honest with myself...I know I need to do this to be able to have an honest fulfilling life. After reading Ch 1 and part of 2 I already feel hopeful. X
You are so welcome!
I like how people get on the hot ! Very brave but very generous ! The phone falling 😅 so real. Thank you for sharing and helping us learn.
Thanks for watching!
I love it when the young man hugs me. Love hugs. This is why I'd love to hug you Jonathon.
Hugs 🫂
I agree with you,it has nothing to do with her profession being a flight attendence.she thinks she is better than any one and she has to humble herself
Why do you say that?
Your Mother put you in a play pen to keep you safe.
You could play with your toys and she knew where
You were. I was put in. Play pen and put my kids in one
Too when they were little.
Everyone has being on a crib with toys or a baby chair or loft with safety gate, or in a play pen, etc. but sometimes we’re just stuck in the past or in victimhood
Alignment...is the Key to a successful connection ❤
Jonathon the playpen picture of you is adorable! Bless your heart, sending hugs! 🤗💕🤗💕🤗💕
Thank you! You too!
You said it soo well. Simple👏👏👏👏Bravo Jonathon. Thank you for sharing that this was so brave of you.
It must have hurt so much.
Yes hurt people hurt people.
Thank you so much!
You are so interesting, wise, vulnerable and funny Jonathan! Truly one of a kind!
Thank you 😊
I learn something from you every video or live.
You are so appreciated 🎉
I appreciate that
What a wonderful self transparency real discussion . You are so sincere here and spoke for so many of us with our hurts and family dynamics. They didn’t h ave many books on how to raise us ADDHD children and yes playpens did contain us. Your walk hasn’t been easy ( fears still) but ur positive projection is fabulous! Really listening and working on my self growth. U realky interview people well and listen to them . Learning a lot about men… thank you.
Awe... thank you 😊
You are a Human Being what ever you do or say is up to you Live and let live😊
Thanks ☺️
Question..😢Jonathan,I think you’re awesome.Embrace who you are
Jonathon, Thank you so much for your ability to share who you are with us. It makes such a difference in how I see myself.
Happy to hear that!
It was part of being a kid in the country, but still felt it unfair. The parents though probably felt they were protecting us from the wolves and such, lol
Hey Jonathan 👋 I like you and I appreciate you! 🙏
Jonathon- sorry I missed this live- question- I have said ‘I really like you’ - he is a highly analytical and intelligent man- can he really receive this??’ Not sure if he’s capable… can’t wait for Sunday video… this was a fantastic video!!!! He really cares for me- he’s struggling.
Thank you for sharing
Hi Jonathan.
I love watching your channel and I am learning a lot. I am late to perhaps but this topic resonating me pretty good.
Happy to hear
❤ from india.....you r so sweet guy...learning abt childhood wounds n adult trauma....😊
Happy to hear
Haven’t heard of nomadic practices. Going to look this up
Somatic Therapy
Thanks for correcting me. I will look it up. Thank you 🙏
Her name is Alley Sheedy great movie
Yes
For those that caught it,
Cemection= chemistry/ connection
Most won't 😊 ❤ Jonathan ❤
Wait? What did I say?
Yes yes yes
She was crazy, not him everything is her problem
Your a sweetheart
Awe... thank you 😊
🎉awe! You in a "play pen" ... compasion is important.
Thank you 😊
Cara excuse me but as a woman i feel you are completely unable to be honest and straightforward with your thoughts, and you dont seem to be in touch at all with your feelings.
You should first love yourself, learn to do that, and then feel if someone else is able to love you.
You seem to not be at all focussed on yourself.
You are maybe scared to face your feelings but life does not have time for your fear.
We are in charge of ourselves. No one can use us if we love ourself. We love ourself FIRST, and then someone else who is healthy can be atracted to us.
I cant see a woman give away SO much. Please dont.
Please focus on you first. Forget anyone else.
@6 min there’s play therapy for young children…
Not when I was growing up
Indeed, me either.
I Like you Jonathan
Awe... thank you 😊
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How long did your mum put you in the play pen? Today's lifestyle that would be called time out. Parents who don't say no have children grow up without boundaries! Children cry... adults cry that's a normal emotion.
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@JonathonAslay ohhh that is different! I'm sorry to hear that. I've just received book by Tim Laurence. Will be reading your book next ❤️
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