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Thanks - when I have steady work, yes as I also have a Narcissist Ex who emptied the accounts… I’m trying to pull myself & 3 young boys under 10 out of the mess….
@@JonathonAslay Hi Jonathan, I agree with you on refraining from multiple dating. I read a dating book written by a man for men and I was disgusted when he advised to date multiple women, keeping the "funnel full" . I felt that they were being encouraged to try multiple pieces of meat in order to find their favorite flavor. It was gross. :-(
A truly loving relationship is NOT transactional and people might find it hard to accept but it will destroy your relationship if you keep seeing it like a 50/50 share the bill thing.... 😢🙏❤
Relationships are too exhausting. As an introvert I actually like being alone most of the time. I can go out with friends and after 4-5 hours I am ready to go home. Because I can be vivacious and happy when I am out people don’t believe that I am an introvert. I like being an enigma and men seem to chase me because I never pursue them. I was married for twenty years and have two adult daughters who I spend most of my free time with. I am not sure what my love language is so I need to read this book to find out.
A partnership /team work with chores is best especially with inflation and if both partners are working the same amount of hours It’s best if it’s shared Imagine both people working the same hours yet only one is doing all the cooking n cleaning That’s quick burnout and feeling unloved What do you think ?
In my practical experience, it’s rare unless the sexual elephant in the room is addressed. (Or one of the people is gay.) I’ve explain this to my daughter each and every time she wants to be friends with a guy she’s not interested in lol. It inevitably leads to her having to ‘turn him down’, although she does remain friends with them.
I agree, men & woman can be just friends. I have many male( straight) friends. Some are married & some single. Boundaries between both are a must but definitely can work.
THis paying for dates stuff. If a woman cooks,that counts. The guy pays to take you out. You bake his favorite pie/cake. You find out his favorite meal and cook it for him. You make some dishes for him. If there's something his mother makes, be careful with that one. Never act like your a better cook in front of his mother. Cooking rules. Guys want women to make "food" for them. I was never appreciated for all the food I made that was excellent and saved everybody lots of money.
@@JonathonAslay Not getting this response to the question , it feels out of integrity for men and women to say they want a relationship, but don’t follow through on contacts, aren’t really sure or knowing that would be more appealing for a reader to see that -it sounds out of integrity.
This definitely resonates- I truly love your mention of the 1st few 💗 languages because those are my 💗 languages- my dating style is akin to yours. Sure I can talk to a few, but seeing someone IRL is an entirely different matter… I had a convo yesterday that had me thinking the guy i chose we may be reading different parts of the same book… hmmm 🤔 I confronted him but now I am the one who is taking a step back… I have an attachment style like 3Cats bf bc I grew up rough & have been on my own since 16/17 years old.. so once I see my affection &/or freedom is infringed upon - the relationship is in danger…. I do have other prospects & for someone to come in & behave as if he’s the only one that counts - I have issue with that! As you said- if you point a finger, 3 are pointing back - That’s how Karma works lest people forget… Thank you! 🫶🏼🙏🌹
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Thanks - when I have steady work, yes as I also have a Narcissist Ex who emptied the accounts… I’m trying to pull myself & 3 young boys under 10 out of the mess….
Separated is MARRIED, don’t date a married man-hard stop. These are the guys we fall for hard.
Getting a man easy, keeping equally engaged with each other, another story 😆
Sometimes...
Totally
Agee and the only way to keep him to give your power away and cater to his ego. Honest truth.
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Hi Jonathan, I agree with you on refraining from multiple dating. I read a dating book written by a man for men and I was disgusted when he advised to date multiple women, keeping the "funnel full" . I felt that they were being encouraged to try multiple pieces of meat in order to find their favorite flavor. It was gross. :-(
A truly loving relationship is NOT transactional and people might find it hard to accept but it will destroy your relationship if you keep seeing it like a 50/50 share the bill thing.... 😢🙏❤
Everyone can choose for themselves...
@@JonathonAslay they sure can but most divorces are caused by "money" issues so it shouldn't be easily overlooked.
💯 50/50 is friend zone activity.
Keeping track of what you did so then I can do for you type thing is awful Wounded energy ?? No?
I always find it interesting how one spouse thinks the other is horrible, yet they make multiple humans together
Agreed
i really want it all Jonathon never had it
Yay!
Thank you! Spot on! Our partner’s needs!!Make us happy to care about, together!!
You are so welcome
Thanks!❤love you Jonathan.
Much appreciated 🙏
Relationships are too exhausting. As an introvert I actually like being alone most of the time. I can go out with friends and after 4-5 hours I am ready to go home. Because I can be vivacious and happy when I am out people don’t believe that I am an introvert. I like being an enigma and men seem to chase me because I never pursue them. I was married for twenty years and have two adult daughters who I spend most of my free time with. I am not sure what my love language is so I need to read this book to find out.
Have you ever read the book “how we love”? Very good and understanding, childhood trauma, and how it affects our Relationships
It's on my list
loll omg you are so funny and so right have a blessed day
Thank you 😊
Awww that's sad that she passed away 😢 she was very inspiring and unapologetic.
A partnership /team work with chores is best especially with inflation and if both partners are working the same amount of hours It’s best if it’s shared
Imagine both people working the same hours yet only one is doing all the cooking n cleaning That’s quick burnout and feeling unloved
What do you think ?
I am curious what dating sites you feel are the best?
People have found love in every site...
Question: (according to you) can a man and a woman be only friends or is that door always open for more?
Of course, men and women can be simply friends.
In my practical experience, it’s rare unless the sexual elephant in the room is addressed. (Or one of the people is gay.) I’ve explain this to my daughter each and every time she wants to be friends with a guy she’s not interested in lol. It inevitably leads to her having to ‘turn him down’, although she does remain friends with them.
@@Sunlightsam24 exactly my thoughts on it as well...
I agree, men & woman can be just friends. I have many male( straight) friends. Some are married & some single. Boundaries between both are a must but definitely can work.
THis paying for dates stuff. If a woman cooks,that counts. The guy pays to take you out. You bake his favorite pie/cake. You find out his favorite meal and cook it for him. You make some dishes for him. If there's something his mother makes, be careful with that one. Never act like your a better cook in front of his mother. Cooking rules. Guys want women to make "food" for them. I was never appreciated for all the food I made that was excellent and saved everybody lots of money.
Is that true for all men?.
God's blessings and healing to all Amen 🍀🤗😇😇🍀💚💛
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Jonathon, TBH I love your streams by yourself. Don't think you have to have guests.
It helps me to have that interaction... an hour by myself can be hard
Why being on a datingsite when not knowing what you want?
Because humans want connection
@@JonathonAslay Not getting this response to the question , it feels out of integrity for men and women to say they want a relationship, but don’t follow through on contacts, aren’t really sure or knowing that would be more appealing for a reader to see that -it sounds out of integrity.
1:13 how am i out of integrity? I answered the question @denisemichaels9545
@@Sunlightsam24 How am I out of integrity? I answered the question...
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This definitely resonates- I truly love your mention of the 1st few 💗 languages because those are my 💗 languages- my dating style is akin to yours. Sure I can talk to a few, but seeing someone IRL is an entirely different matter… I had a convo yesterday that had me thinking the guy i chose we may be reading different parts of the same book… hmmm 🤔 I confronted him but now I am the one who is taking a step back… I have an attachment style like 3Cats bf bc I grew up rough & have been on my own since 16/17 years old.. so once I see my affection &/or freedom is infringed upon - the relationship is in danger…. I do have other prospects & for someone to come in & behave as if he’s the only one that counts - I have issue with that! As you said- if you point a finger, 3 are pointing back - That’s how Karma works lest people forget… Thank you! 🫶🏼🙏🌹
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