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I prefer only dating one person at a time but my therapist to date multiple people. I’m going to do what’s best and feels right for me. I can’t judge multiple men!! I don’t like it either!
Jonathon, that woman did you a HUGE favor by not responding but also might have a good personal reason for not responding. Also the Law of Attraction has made all the difference in my life. Instead of being in a state of lack or scarcity thinking, I have changed my thinking to already having the love I've wanted and met the man of my dreams a few weeks later. Being in a scarcity mindset maintains LACK AND SCARCITY. ✨Good luck and God Bless ✨
My daughter is 39 and her partner of over 11 years is 54. No daddy issues, he pursued her for over a year. I've dated younger 3 times. I don't feel there is anything wrong with it.
@@sherryj738 I agree. I am older than my appearance, fortunately. But most men my age complain alot. I have pet dogs that are more fun. 😅 I have spent some time chatting with a younger acquaintance in my area. Not dating. But, he's fun to talk to.
I like the ladder concept. It makes a lot of sense. Not dating yet after 9 yr grieving my husband of 30 yr. Doing my homework now. It's scary territory. Perfection can't be duplicated.
Seriously- From My Perspective - Asking Someone How Their Day Was or Is- Is Just A Cordial Question. I Personally Just Find It To Be A Friendly Breaker.
Know thy self. Know your motives. Know your long term strategy. Put yourself out there. Getting to know each other and investigating intentionality. Commitment, Monogamy, Teammates, I'm all in. Reaching a state of acceptance. Difference. Tolerance. Understanding. Acceptance. Appreciation. Adoration. = Rising to love 💕
@@robinemery I like your definition of 'strategy.'..so to speak. It pretty well defines my long term intention, as well. I'm going very slow ... I'm questioning whether I would ever get past a casual situation. I am for the most part, content with my life as it is now. The risk of getting hurt may not be worth it for me. Time will tell, I guess.
It seems I get to the stage of dating where we start to develop feelings and he pulls away with some excuse to end the relationship. Usually around 6 months or so. This just happened. We had a great connection. He decided he wasn’t mentally capable of giving himself to a relationship. Why am I choosing these men? Why can’t I see it coming before I get this far?
Speaking from experience, that isn't true. I have been divorced for 22 years and made a huge mistake spending ten years working on myself. There are so many available people out there makes it that way too many don't have to nor want to.
Everyone has differences. It would be extremely boring if we didn't. We should be tolerant to a point with our differences. Also I think you can open your mind more and see the world through their eyes it may help yourself as well🤷
Yes I agree… I have learned that I need to allow myself space for mindful discernment. Especially while I explore the quality and potential for further connection in a mate. One of the most vulnerable of connections.. CC just sayin A perfectly “imperfect” human seeking the perfect partnership Ps… thank you So Much for straight talk about the blue pill and our Mutually aging bodies. Facts.
The over bearing family issue is an issue because how do you tell someone can you give me your undivided attention and not be answering phone calls and texts from your family while we’re together especially if it can wait and it’s not an emergency without sounding rude or controlling? The expectation isn’t for someone to not check their phone for 8 hours but it’s very annoying at times and can ruin the mood. do you agree ?
I have the exact same problem as Mari. My ex guy 68, could never get it up. He couldn’t talk about it and I blame myself as well. I couldn’t talk about it except for to get angry and feel rejected. It was a BIG problem in our relationship I ended it, he was always online with other women as well, LTR, 2000 mi away, cheated & made me further feel unattractive..or maybe he was gay? ….said I made him anxious. blame me cheating was his M.O he would go in the bathroom and watch porn before he came into the bedroom and then he still couldn’t do it. I was so devastated, and I felt so unattractive, I wore sexy clothes etc,I mentioned it to him. Nothing .he wouldn’t talk about it PLEASE talk about this topic I might run into it again as I am in my 60s as well. I like want an intimate relationship. I like your program, but I can’t handle the yelling. Please try to tone it down. Thank you!
I agree Jonathan & have been criticized that I only enter monogamous relationships. I had always had been all in and none of my relationships were less than 3-5 years. I don’t know how to date, but people get this confused with the “talking” phase- when I barely even met anyone… I can talk to a few people at a time. I still prefer exclusivity, but I don’t live in a cage lol a tower maybe 😅 But, I still try to let my hair down, but not to let some grown man to climb up- im not crazy 😂 Like you say, I notice people in general have become lazy. So, if he can’t take me out for a drink or a cup of coffee… unfortunately… we don’t really get past that talking phase, unfortunately. Once we can get to the rest of those steps, then we can see how we can proceed. And I am honest and will only be talking to the one man and hopefully he’d give me the same respect. I love how vulnerable you are Jonathan. Thank you for being the big brother we all need ❤
Porn addiction is very real. It wasn’t a casual every now and then look see. This was a guy that daily had a problem. It changed his functioning daily and he didn’t want to have relations because of it. Chose the porn over a loving lady. Sad sad
Porn (too much/addiction) causes ED in many cases!! He wasn’t just a porn user. He was porn addicted with daily use of it…no woman should tolerate that
@@Bb-k4gd he was indeed dismissive. I don’t think he understood that he had an addiction (daily porn) and not just occasional use every now and then. Furthermore, it has been proven clinically that excessive masturbation and porn causes ED because of the dopamine release/brain neurotransmitter. She broke up with him for other reasons but the porn problem he wouldn’t get help with so it makes sense she didn’t want to “compete” with his addiction. Pretty lady. Nice and classy too. It’s a shame! So she broke it off for a valid reason in my book!!
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I prefer only dating one person at a time but my therapist to date multiple people. I’m going to do what’s best and feels right for me. I can’t judge multiple men!! I don’t like it either!
I agree! If you’re not used to it, it’s too uncomfortable…I get it. I’m the same way. You do you 🙌🏽🤗🙏🥂
I'm 66 and I love physical intimacy
Me too
..I'm 72 n my fiancee is 74😊
Jonathon, that woman did you a HUGE favor by not responding but also might have a good personal reason for not responding. Also the Law of Attraction has made all the difference in my life. Instead of being in a state of lack or scarcity thinking, I have changed my thinking to already having the love I've wanted and met the man of my dreams a few weeks later. Being in a scarcity mindset maintains LACK AND SCARCITY. ✨Good luck and God Bless ✨
I didn't like the question anyway
And thank you 😊
@@JonathonAslay Agree but it's not the worst question either 😉
@@JonathonAslay" HOWS YOUR DAY GOING?" (In a Jonathon voice) 😂
❤
My daughter is 39 and her partner of over 11 years is 54.
No daddy issues, he pursued her for over a year.
I've dated younger 3 times. I don't feel there is anything wrong with it.
@@sherryj738 I agree. I am older than my appearance, fortunately. But most men my age complain alot. I have pet dogs that are more fun. 😅
I have spent some time chatting with a younger acquaintance in my area. Not dating. But, he's fun to talk to.
Thanks for your extreme honesty. It’s rare….❤
You are so welcome
I like the ladder concept. It makes a lot of sense. Not dating yet after 9 yr grieving my husband of 30 yr. Doing my homework now. It's scary territory. Perfection can't be duplicated.
Seriously- From My Perspective - Asking Someone How Their Day Was or Is- Is Just A Cordial Question.
I Personally Just Find It To Be A Friendly Breaker.
Yes...Ice breaker. Opens it up comfortably for the fun.
@@cindystoneman4658 Actually, when I ask that, or "how's your life?" & get an honest answer, I really enjoy getting into their head space from there.
I agree Jonathon relationships are not for the faint of heart.
Jonathan, you look quite dapper in that outfit
Thanks!
Awe... thanks
Know thy self.
Know your motives.
Know your long term strategy.
Put yourself out there.
Getting to know each other and investigating intentionality.
Commitment,
Monogamy,
Teammates,
I'm all in.
Reaching a state of acceptance.
Difference.
Tolerance.
Understanding.
Acceptance.
Appreciation.
Adoration.
= Rising to love 💕
Exactly
Thank you !!
@@robinemery I like your definition of 'strategy.'..so to speak. It pretty well defines my long term intention, as well.
I'm going very slow ... I'm questioning whether I would ever get past a casual situation. I am for the most part, content with my life as it is now. The risk of getting hurt may not be worth it for me. Time will tell, I guess.
Thank you Jonathan, childhood is the cause root of emotional health.i,personally had a wounded childhood and mostly make me a bit dependant on people
Truly Connecting with someone requieres courage nothing fase,only then can true love begin.
Indeed
I agree wholeheartedly!!
I would’ve said. I’m really sorry to hear that you’re in a funk today. ❤
No one wants depth. It scares them and I swim in that sh.. daily! 😂😂
It seems I get to the stage of dating where we start to develop feelings and he pulls away with some excuse to end the relationship. Usually around 6 months or so. This just happened. We had a great connection. He decided he wasn’t mentally capable of giving himself to a relationship. Why am I choosing these men? Why can’t I see it coming before I get this far?
Some women fail to attach value to themselves.
Speaking from experience, that isn't true. I have been divorced for 22 years and made a huge mistake spending ten years working on myself. There are so many available people out there makes it that way too many don't have to nor want to.
Jonathon
Your hilarious! 😂
Yes, you're always YELLING😆
Everyone has differences. It would be extremely boring if we didn't. We should be tolerant to a point with our differences. Also I think you can open your mind more and see the world through their eyes it may help yourself as well🤷
Thank you Jonathan - very challenging but definitely helpful. 😊👍
Love the 'did you have a good day'..? 😂😂😄 Greetings from Holland 🤗🩵
Yes I did
This is one of my favorite videos Jonathan. I fully resonate with all of it to the T. I’m sharing it . Super 🙌
Wow, thank you
We are called to be a people of love, forgiveness n acceptance
Acceptance I learned at 40 a great qualiry to learn. Goes both ways
Exactly
Yes I agree…
I have learned that I need to allow myself space for mindful discernment.
Especially while I explore the quality and potential for further connection in a mate. One of the most vulnerable of connections..
CC just sayin
A perfectly “imperfect” human seeking the perfect partnership
Ps… thank you So Much
for straight talk about the blue pill and our Mutually aging bodies. Facts.
I agree, mindful discernment is crucial.
What are they prepared to give in return?
Love the red shirt 😊
Thank you 😊
Thank you 😊
I prefer dating one at a time.
Me too...
Hi, from Cape Town 🇿🇦
The over bearing family issue is an issue because how do you tell someone can you give me your undivided attention and not be answering phone calls and texts from your family while we’re together especially if it can wait and it’s not an emergency without sounding rude or controlling?
The expectation isn’t for someone to not check their phone for 8 hours but it’s very annoying at times and can ruin the mood. do you agree ?
No... Not ever dating more than 1. I'd get them mixed up. 😂
Alpha men are a headache😵💫.
I have the exact same problem as Mari. My ex guy 68, could never get it up. He couldn’t talk about it and I blame myself as well. I couldn’t talk about it except for to get angry and feel rejected. It was a BIG problem in our relationship I ended it, he was always online with other women as well, LTR, 2000 mi away, cheated & made me further feel unattractive..or maybe he was gay? ….said I made him anxious. blame me cheating was his M.O he would go in the bathroom and watch porn before he came into the bedroom and then he still couldn’t do it. I was so devastated, and I felt so unattractive, I wore sexy clothes etc,I mentioned it to him. Nothing .he wouldn’t talk about it PLEASE talk about this topic I might run into it again as I am in my 60s as well. I like want an intimate relationship. I like your program, but I can’t handle the yelling. Please try to tone it down. Thank you!
Off topic. Jonathon, do you know your rising sign? I wonder if It's a water sign?
Leo
Leo is a fire sign
So you're a Leo Sun and Leo Rising...
Invest and Test. Be yourself, speak your truth do it with kidness. If they run they are not the right fit. Hows that JA a good student?😊
Exactly
I surely know you will find your perfect fit. Shes put there.
I would include talking about STD and asking a printed proof of free of HIV, hep B and all others etc.
And I like to call a spade a spade 😂
Yes it does
I agree Jonathan & have been criticized that I only enter monogamous relationships. I had always had been all in and none of my relationships were less than 3-5 years. I don’t know how to date, but people get this confused with the “talking” phase- when I barely even met anyone… I can talk to a few people at a time. I still prefer exclusivity, but I don’t live in a cage lol a tower maybe 😅 But, I still try to let my hair down, but not to let some grown man to climb up- im not crazy 😂
Like you say, I notice people in general have become lazy. So, if he can’t take me out for a drink or a cup of coffee… unfortunately… we don’t really get past that talking phase, unfortunately. Once we can get to the rest of those steps, then we can see how we can proceed. And I am honest and will only be talking to the one man and hopefully he’d give me the same respect.
I love how vulnerable you are Jonathan. Thank you for being the big brother we all need ❤
Jonathan what is your type of woman physically and emotionally
That's not an easy answers to type here in a comment. Please ask me that question on my next live stream.
What's a person a good communicator???
i trll my woman "i love you for you"
Awe... thanks
That’s a good thing!! Soulful as it should be!!
I have a Harry and Sally fan video on my channel. 😊 You pretty much nailed Harry's little NYE monologue. 🎉
Exactly
I do exclusive
You are forgiven 😊
Thank you...
The bible makes room for singleness, how many women know this?
So how old are you?
I’m tired of all the men’s issues!!!!!!
I love your coaching...can you tone it down? Yiu sound like a constant scolding.
No fakery😊
Exactly
Jonathan...listening to her I thought the same thing. I was with someone years ago with ED and yes, there are other things to do sexually
Porn addiction is very real. It wasn’t a casual every now and then look see. This was a guy that daily had a problem. It changed his functioning daily and he didn’t want to have relations because of it. Chose the porn over a loving lady. Sad sad
Porn (too much/addiction) causes ED in many cases!! He wasn’t just a porn user. He was porn addicted with daily use of it…no woman should tolerate that
He knows they make woman feel like they are nothing… not sure why he was dismissive with her and justifying men’s bed behavior…Makes you wonder 🤔
@@Bb-k4gd he was indeed dismissive. I don’t think he understood that he had an addiction (daily porn) and not just occasional use every now and then. Furthermore, it has been proven clinically that excessive masturbation and porn causes ED because of the dopamine release/brain neurotransmitter. She broke up with him for other reasons but the porn problem he wouldn’t get help with so it makes sense she didn’t want to “compete” with his addiction. Pretty lady. Nice and classy too. It’s a shame! So she broke it off for a valid reason in my book!!
At least she was smarter than me. I stuck in there five years.
Kindness sorry a typo
It's okay