106 Year Old Woman interview-Nancy
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- Опубліковано 1 сер 2024
- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Nancy, a 106 year old woman who grew up in Chicago.
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Nancy is my Godmother and my mother's Aunt. She is an absolute treasure to everyone in our family. She is the breath in the lungs of our family. She is the light in every room she walks into. I have been watching Mark for a very long time and once I saw that he had begun to interview everyday people with remarkable stories vs. just those on skid row, I knew I had to connect Mark with my Godmother. My intent was to have her testimony documented for our family to cherish long after she is gone, and for her story to reach a large audience so she could possibly have a positive impact on anyone else's life. I have read every single comment so far to this video and I am blown away by the outpouring of love from this community who found as much value in her as we do. Thank you all for your kind words and thank you Mark for taking the time to go see her and for creating this valuable memento for us to cherish. UPDATE 5/13: I spoke to her for close to 3 hours today and it was the highlight of my day. She shared many more stories and answered many more questions, best of all I got to read her MANY comments that were left for her here and she was overwhelmed with gratitude, she couldn't believe all the kind words. She didn't understand in the beginning why anyone would want to hear about her life but after listening to the comments and me explaining how different parts of her life resonated with so many other people's lives she understands and is honored she had the opportunity to share. ❤️
Thank you for sharing her ❤
Thank you Ashley and Carmaine for sharing Nancy with us.
I would love to hear more of her stories. I hope she can come back on the show. I would also love to see pictures of her when she was young.
She’s extraordinary. Her big beating heart shines through. Her life of hardship and challenge sounded excruciating, and exhausting. I personally love how direct she is. She obviously had to fight her way through life until she met Carmie. She speaks of remaining positive yet her life would sink most people. Would love to know where she finds resilience. Obviously living for her family is a big part of that, but even before she met Carmie and having the one daughter she was a fighter.
She is a treasure! What a fabulous testimony to cherish!
Do y'all realize her mom died 90 years ago, she still weeps for her, to the point where she doesn’t like to talk about it??!! That's true Love of her mother!! I'm not so convinced that time heals all wounds anymore.
Anyone who thinks time heals the wounds of loss and grief has never truly lost anyone they truly love. Time absolutely never heals the pain and wounds of loss.
@@PiecesoftheshadowYou are right, it just seems to become more tolerable. How I wish I could talk to those that have passed away.
I'm almost seventy and I cannot believe how fast time is passing. I realise as I age many events experienced during our lifetime remain as fresh as yesterday. It's not surprising this lady cries at the loss of her mother....bless her heart 🙏.
Time does not heal anything , it just gets easier ! I lost my dad in 7th grade , & I still cry for him to this day! ❤
They say that time heals all wounds but this is not true, you just keep going on despite the emptiness and pain, so thankful for Nancy! My dad would have been 104! And mom 101! Thank you for the interviews Mark! Keep them coming please!
mark, please consider doing a whole series on those 100+. They are treasures that need saving, and sharing.
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A great idea, especially as we are coming upnto the 80th Anniversary of D Day. A big thing in the UK, where anyone who survived that day would be in their late 90s! There are a handful in the UK, maybe even more in the US? Would be great to hear from them! ❤
I totally agree with you. I am much more interested in those who have lived full lives. So much wisdom to share.
yes I 💯 agree, we can learn so much from them. Nancy is definitely a diamond in the rough & proves, that even with so much brutal pain and heartache through life, we can survive & live a long life.
Keep dancing Nancy
"I'm the oldest of seven children, and I'm the only one still here".
Wow.. just wow
Yes. That spoke so loudly to me!
Shook
My father is 103 and still lives on his own. Bless her. I would love it if you interviewed him. WWII Vet. 94th infantry.
What the heck what’s the trick ?
Please, sent Mark a short video to introduce him, and Mark might interview him! Info is in the "about" section in the description box
That would be cool!
It would be great for the younger generation. If they pay attention they might learn something
Interview this man Mark!
Mark, I echo the petition of many commenters here, please interview more elderly treasures like Nancy. They are a vital and needed link to the past. In this fast-paced, technological, make your own facts and history world, the younger generation is losing ties to the past. Everything is here and now with no connection to what came before. We've become amnesiacs with no recollection or notion that there was life before. Listening to the testimony of people like Nancy, who lived true adversity and overcame; who remembers decades of history, who has lived and experienced so much, is valuable education.
This should be pinned! 🙏🏼
Agree 100%, so many immigrant stories Americans don't know...maybe they'll be more humble knowing how they got here.
Mark, this is a new calling. If our young people need anything they need to understand what it means to be American. Our history, our way of life. Thank you!!!
They have a lot of wisdom to share. We need this in the world. 🩵🌸
no different from when you are born memory wiped....the past is either a lie....or one persons perspective...we are a species with amnesia by "design"., as you are in a human farm....not a planet..and when you need to quell any rebellion memory wiping works charm..rather than rely on he says ,she says bs, try critical thinking..
This woman is 106 years old. Looking at some of these comments, some of you need to respect your elders. THIS IS HER STORY! We are blessed to hear it! ❤
I don't see any such comments myself. Of course that's a shame, for their missing out on her story as much as for her. The very fact that he asks her, at one point, "were there any automobiles around?" is interesting; pretty soon there won't be anybody around who can remember a time when automobiles were new enough not to be ubiquitous yet.
The internet let the gates open for the all the weirdos to come out.
Lord bless her. She has seen so much.❤
Thank you for posting this I only saw three comments and they all seemed pretty nice I'd rather have a warning I don't want to see anything negative especially about a person that lived with so much grief and to have the privilege to hear history from this Precious Lady that is over 100 years old,that is Rare& Beutiful ❤
There’s no such comments like this 😂 you just wanted attention
I will never complain about my life again. I'm so glad Mark did this interview. Younger people say that life was easier back when. This proves it wasn't a cake walk for people like Nancy. Thank goodness for her light and love.
✍🏻 go dancing
✍🏻 Be honest, your word is your bond
✍🏻 Pick the right man
✍🏻 Don't be too generous
✍🏻 Save half of what you make
✍🏻Fight fight fight
Thanks Nancy 🤗
Easy peazy huh
Words from a wise woman who's lived a full life and then some. ❤
Her list is great! And I LOVE that she added dancing, that is a unique one!
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I'm 21 and haven't danced with someone since 6th grade. Was drinkin with my sister last night and one of our country songs came on. I reached for her hand and she was super confused, she grabbed it and we started swing dancin. It was all just ingrained muscle memory from 6th grade😂but it was so fun, we were both laughin and hollerin. Really is so refreshing for the soul
99.9% of us will never make it to her age and she for a 106 still beautiful.
That's what people say, right?
@@insane__professional what else are you going to say?
@@jesseray6340it’s possibly her last year. She’s like rose on titanic the old version
She's beautiful regardless of her age 🤷🏽♂️
I take care of a 94 year old man who always tells me he hopes that I live to his age, but the reality is I probably won't. It's sweet though. Like Nancy, his parents immigrated from Italy too.
I remember my great-grandmother, who was born in 1920, telling me a story about how she had to go to the welfare office because she could not feed her family (no thanks to her alcoholic and abusive husband, whom she rarely mentioned). It took a lot for her to ask for help, only to be met by a very rude worker who asked, "Well, you have grass in your yard don't you?". My grandma got no help that day.. aside from an already known recipe for grass soup. After this experience, she got a job at a bank in downtown Pittsburgh which she took the bus to and from every single day, without missing even one, for 40 years straight! Such an amazing and strong woman she was.. ❤
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My grandmother was born in 1916. She made it to 97 years old which I’m thankful for.
my grandmother was also born in 1916, unfortunately we lost her long ago 💔 but I am so happy for you that you got to share your life with your grandmother & probably have many cherished memories ❤️
My great-grandmother was born in 1907 she passed away at 96 in 2003. I was 16 then I was very blessed to have had her in my life she was the best.😊
I am in nursing at a hospital in Sun City, Arizona. Our patient demographic is 50’s-90’s. THIS LADY IS PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY PHENOMENAL
⭐️❤️💕 My grandma is 103 & great aunt 101 with fantastic life stories; extreme wealth vs poverty. They’re still close friends & mentally coherent too. Please interview both together, Mark.🙏😊
seriously! Sharp as a tack. HOW ON EARTH! I can barely remember last week.
My Dad who grew up around the time of the depression tells a similar story.
English and French.
They had 9 children and his father worked in a mill. Spent the paycheck at bars.
Somehow ALL of his sibs and he did very well for themselves!
Maybe poverty and hardship is a huge impetus to do better because it’s THAT painful.
@JoyNoelle......I agree.
100 percent
Man, she's seen some shit in her life, honestly shes still so well spoken for her age. This generation has so much to pass down.
"Has" so much to pass down?
*Had.
Good sir, they are referred to as "The Silent Generation" for a reason.
Exactly because of the fact they DIDNT speak up, they(largely) allowed their children and their society to fall in to complete degeneracy.
Meanwhile, society supported and paid for nearly the entire second half of their lives. While they sat silent.
No offense to this lady personally, but I think they collectively handed us over to hell. Nevermind having "so much to pass down"
People used to care about how they communicated.
She is very cognitively intact, she also looks pretty strong for her age, bless your heart!
She was an infant when the Armistice was signed that ended World War One, just to think about how different things are now and what she has lived through is unreal.
What is her age suppose to sound like?
In Florida I use to ask all of my 100+ year old patients what their favorite memories were. And I always got a beautiful answer. One woman told me about how her family member made her a dress for thanksgiving as a little girl, and the pride she felt walking into dinner. Another cried talking about seeing the young men taking the train off to war as she was being held in her father’s arms. Waving at them and seeing her father upset. Any chance you get, ask your older family and friends to share a story. It will be more rewarding than any TikTok you could come across…
Nancy is a LEGEND and she had a LIFE with a PURPOSE that keeping her going . Thank you for this interview, you gave me a hope.
When she started crying about her mother I just wanted to hug her I felt her pain 🫂
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@@terrytownsend5583 Jackass have some compassion for her she’s been through it you damn troll
So powerful, especially with women’s access to healthcare being limited in the US.
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@@jennifercallens9872 Don't try to compare that nonsense with what people went through back then 😒. It is nowhere near the same.
My grandmother is 104 and still has all of her cognitive functioning. She is truly incredible. These interviews with our elders are so necessary. A beautiful and impressive woman.
Mark would love to interview her, i am sure. Is she in the US? Check the description box for info on how to be considerd for an interview. ❤
Even if Mark can’t get to her, maybe someone local to her can do so.
I agree. I miss listening to my grandma.
that’s great. my dads 97. . make sure she has a daily helper, a charged up cell phone for calling 911 if she ever needs it, and get her a medic alert button. make sure she’s not living alone. God. bless.
these interviews and these people are fascinating
Wow what a queen, lived through soooo many changes. She is more coherent than most politicians.
As someone else said, I would love a series on people 100+ years old… these are life stories that we need to preserve, and that we will all greatly benefit from hearing
The trauma women of her generation took in silence is devastating. Thank you for posting her story. She’s amazing!
And many women in this world are still forced to take.
It was all around then. The men went to Europe or the pacific. Her dad sounds like a total scumbag.
What forced trauma? Its called life! You zoomers think every little bad moment in life is "trauma" i guarantee this woman would never describe her life as what you just said. Also men since the beginning of time had to fight in wars, do all the hard labor jobs, has to provide, protect, and feed your family. The fact you contribute this lone woman's story to all women's stories of back then is pretty sick.
@@Evolution_10_X Typical, to make this about men and a competition.
@@Evolution_10_Xi mean… i think we all know women had to adapt to what rights they had throughout history. i’m the first generation woman in my family who’s got options which is wild cause it’s 2024. i don’t have to marry, have children, i can work or travel or do jack shit nothing! i’d starve if i chose that, but hey. that’s a super recent development for women unfortunately. and many are still controlled even in the states whether that’s financially or otherwise.
I like listening to Old People talk. So much knowledge is passed on.
True that ❤
Me, too!
I so wish I had grandparents.
Or someone elderly who just wanted to sit down and talk about their life.
YESSSS, me too!💯🥰💖
@leneo1731 I understand. I lost my Grandparents in '93 and '94.❤
I agree
Mark, I appreciate your style of interviewing. You let your guests talk and you seldom ask questions. Most interviewers can't do that! Their constant talking and interrupting ruins the interview. Your style is refreshing. Thank you!
Too true hey! xx
I agree
my great grandmother was born in 1930, turning 94 this june. she has a great memory and loves to share her life stories to anyone who will listen, and i would love for her to have an opportunity to be interviewed!
She has such a good memory at 106. I’m 62 and can’t remember what I did this year. Wow! Blessed
@@TessE777 thanks. I hope I remember what you said and claim this too!
@@abrupt_oliver any ideas
@@abrupt_oliver my dad is 92yrs old. Memory sharp as a tack. He brings up memories from my past that I couldn’t remember😒
Fuck she could be our president since our current one has dementia
@@joycehester9106I heard blueberries are really good for memory. So is turmeric
These elderly people are teaching us so much…please Mark! More of these wise people!!
Yes!
Yes!
Yes! We need to hear them.
Yes! The Greatest Generation is almost gone and their life stories need to be captured!
Yes, Please!!
It's so hard to comprehend the level of hardship she had to endure. I cannot imagine the horror of her mother slipping herself into boiling water and being forced to care for all these children. I do not blame her for her resentment for her father. Sounds like there was so much more he could've done to help his family, kindness, if nothing else. By far the most treasured interview for me. While I feel compassion for many, this lady was purely a victim of her circumstance. I'm glad she has a wonderful family and LOVE now. Thank you for sharing your story.
Thank you for sharing the hard parts about your mom. Sounds like so many overlooked her during life. The way you spoke about her brought her so much dignity. And now, millions are witnessing her pain (and yours), and I have nothing but respect for you both.
My granny passed away two weeks ago she was 103. I asked her how she felt at this age. She said she wouldn’t recommend it.
Cute!
@@lynnehuff7059 that’s my granny for ya.
My dad said many times “getting old is not for the weak”
@@JeffMTX Mine too!
My Gma said “getting old wouldn’t be so bad if it didn’t hurt so much.”
This one made me cry. I’m a 43 yr old man bawling over this BEAUTIFUL STORY BY THIS BEAUTIFUL AMAZING SOUL.
⭐️❤️💕 My grandma is 103 & great aunt 101 with fantastic life stories; wealth vs poverty. They’re close friends. Please interview together, Mark.🙏😊
@@FLBeautyQueen I pray he gets this interview
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Love It!🥰
Thank you for this. We really need to give our seniors more credit.
You can say that again
I adore how she says, "It-lee." My grandparents came from Italy, and that's how they pronounced it. They were THE BEST grandparents a gal could ask for! I miss the stories, the food, the gatherings...just the LOVE! God bless you, Nancy! Thank you for sharing your story! Love, from Nancy❤
Aside from her amazing age, her memory still being intact is awesome!
Her memory is better than mine and I'm 46!!! She remembers dates that is amazing!
You are right! She even remembered what she bought for her brother to put in that box! This is amazing!
She probably stays away from doctors😒
Her birthday is April 10, 1918 😍 wow Nancy, you are a true gem!
ARIES QUEEN
Always starsigns being thrown around.
@@insane__professionalwho cares?
@@pleasantsville exactly
Oh the things she has seen. Absolutely amazing
I love the older crowd. This woman is certainly a treasure. I hope the world keeps making more of her. I can sit there and listen to her all day. Her voice reminds me of my grandmother.
"your word is your bond" What a spectacular woman 💯
My Dad passed away 10 yrs ago at 101. Since his passing I have not been around anyone of his generation. Nearly all of them are gone. Her manner of speech, and expressions took me back to feeling like I was around my parents again. Nancy is wonderful, thank you so much for sharing.
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I have a friend who just turned 101. What a generation! The worlds falling apart as they go.
It's heart wrenching that things that happened to her almost a century ago still make her cry. Bless this woman, what a treasure.
This type of documentation is vital to our history! I hope you keep a separate drive filled with these first person accounts in case anything ever happens to UA-cam. Thank you for your contribution to society, Nancy!
I sought therapy after losing my mother who was 91. Could have lived much longer if she had extra help. Physically could climb mountains but dementia/Alzheimer’s was the issue. This woman is very sharp. Unfortunately I sounded the alarm to family and they said I’m blocking you and deleting messages then 10 days later mom was dead. Alone the youngest of 5 children I said goodbye to my mother who the funeral home provided a borrowed casket and plastic hospital gown plus the decency of a bath to have an hour to say goodbye. My siblings didn’t want the bother of a service. Mom was bathed but dressed in a plastic hospital gown because nothing she owned didn’t smell. I cried at her borrowed casket and sang to her. Mom paid for singing lessons. After an hour was up mom was taken for cremation. I’m the one who wanted her ashes. I was handed a plastic box. Mom went from being in a plastic hospital gown to her ashes in a plastic box. I bought her a proper urn Beautiful and engraved price was no concern and I gave my mom her own memorial service as she requested while alive and once again it was just me and the few friends. I’m traumatized by not just the loss itself but how my siblings didn’t show proper respect. Therapy helps but it won’t take away the trauma that will stay forever. Mom was wonderful a person that would work her hands to the bone to give her kids all she could. I have a memorial bench I paid for in her honor at her favorite other place than home Tappen Beach where we spent every summer. Mom is not forgotten and never will be forgotten by me.💔💔💔
What a beautiful daughter you are Joanne, I'm sure your mom was and is still very proud of you. Dwell on the good memories, leave the rest behind. Many blessings to you and Mom in heaven.
My grandmother was born in 1918. We lost her a few years ago. I'm 68 now but granny told us stories of her life. Those memories are so precious to me.Miss Nancy, you have a generous and loving heart. Your life is a testament of your strength and honor. God bless you and your daughter.❤
Let's get your likes to 106!
Sorry for Your Loss! Keep those stories and memories! Spread them to the younger generation! It's important to know and remember where and who we come from
@@therealrobbdee672 You're so right..the younger ones in our family need to know where they came from. I'm the oldest child of granny's oldest son. Dad is gone, most of his 9 siblings are also. I've been writing things down in a journal; surprisingly many of the younger grandkids didn't know their grandparents. Nieces, nephews, great grands and great-great grands always want to read it and browse through the old family pictures. That makes me so happy to see their excitement 😊
Wow beyond words....she is so sharp. I hope you will do more of these. So much to learn from the elderly.
I'm usually a silent watcher of SWU, but this interview has me laughing and crying all at the same time. I'm 23 & Nancy's story gives me hope of all the highs and lows of the future that is to come of my own life story. Life is beautiful.
Well go on with ya bad self! 😀
I can't believe that was an hour and 16 minutes. It seemed more like 20 minutes. I could listen to her all day. An hour wasn't enough. She's been through world wars and who knows what other amazing stories she has. My grandma just passed away 2 years ago. She was born in 1923. She almost made it to 10p. But I remember growing up I would spend the night at her house o. The weekends. She would tell one story after another as we played cards or did a puzzle or something. Even as a kid I never got bored of hearing those stories. And she would repeat them a lot. I think she liked reliving a lot of them. Her war stories were just amazing. But anyway, great guest today Mark. This is one of my favorites now. Maybe she would come back someti.e. Great work Mark. Thank you.
Mark the more she talks, the more I would like to hear. Please have her back.
I love this! Please interview more older people like her, she’s full of life and a good story teller, what a memory she has. I love listening to older people they have so much to say all valuable.
For sure I think mark is on to something, the old with wisdom and the much needed help within.
Yes, agreed! These people are rare Gems! Most really persevered through hard times,live without complaining & not giving up. I would 100% rather listen to our oldest than the people of today. I can't understand the entitlement thinking, angry, violent, drug addicted people of today. I do pray for them and this world now because it is spiritually corrupt. And we all need need community, prayer and blessings❤
Totally agree!
Too bad US doesn't care of the elderly other countries do
I love that you got her a chair with a back. I'd never sit on a stool and talk for more than 5 minutes
Is crazy how a person that endure so much pain and a poor quality of life can live so many years. She is such a strong woman
OK moms who started bawling when she was so genuinely thankful for being able to breastfeed her baby for 18 months this woman is a warrior
You don't breastfeed a kid for 18 months, that's way too old to be sucking a tit. Kids can drink from a cup at 1 year old
She complains way too much. My mom went through the same era and never brings up anything bad but has told us kids about it when we ask.
This woman can't find a single thing to be thankful for, I find it difficult to keep listening to her complain and complain. Yes, her life was hard, so were literally millions of others going through the same thing in this timeframe. Jeez, enough already.
@@getin3949when she said her regret was being too good to people my mouth fell open. You can’t take it with you and giving from your heart with no regrets is better than being resentful that you gave or helped at all. She should be thankful that she could help whether she wanted to or not. Not just monetarily either. Giving of yourself is priceless. And to have a child late in life so you wouldn’t be 106 and all alone… surely that’s not why she had a child in her mid thirties? I’ve never had kids and I’m going to be all alone. I’ve never wanted to have someone be responsible for me that’s what nursing homes are for. Good nursing homes. I like being alone and with my dogs. I dang sure don’t want nor hope to live to be a hundred. But that’s just me.
@joannabreaks435 type 43 months
@@rudyiraheta80 you're my hero too ❤️
It’s incredible she is still in possession of all her faculties. A great storyteller and full head of beautiful curly hair. Thank you Nancy for sharing your life story with us.
My grandma was 102 when she passed. She and I had a special bond. I still cry. I hear her voice say “Don’t cry Mel”
She would say that every time I had to go home or leaving after being in AZ visiting her. The stories of her younger life and about my Bampa and great grandma who were her parents. She would cook Swedish dishes and pastries. Her Toll house chocolate chip were the best and she and I would bake together via telephone. I miss her so much even as I turn 60 and still attempt to make Swedish coffee bread and her Toll House cookies. 1:15:43 1:15:43
I love this! I see a lot of people are commenting about their elderly family members. My aunt Stella will be 102 in December. She was the oldest of 8. The daughter of Greek immigrants. I spent some time with her at Christmas. She has absolutely no cognitive issues. And I wish I could have spoken to her for hours because she has so many stories like Nancy that I would love to have chronicled. Her sister, my Aunt Mary will be 100 in July. Only 3 of the 8 have passed. I think these are great stories!
I could listen to her for another 106 years. What an amazing life.
Marc I would welcome a whole series of thoughts and wisdom from our elders.
I second that ☝️ love the old folks ❤❤❤
Yes! I always gravitate towards the elderly when I’m out shopping and I almost always strike up conversations. I have heard some fascinating stories.
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My dream job right there! & everyone should write down some of these shared thoughts from our elders!
Yes please Mark!!! Our elders mean so much to our lives.
Can you imagine having 106 years of memories. This beautiful lady had such a tough life. We have no idea how poor people were at that time. And the abuse! A violent father who doesn't even work. Her mother burnt and died. It's all so cruel. The pain never goes away. ❤ I'm 74 but I don't feel my age. Like Nancy, being 106. Your soul stays young. She's still dancing. I'm still singing.
What an amazing woman, I laughed, I cried. If anyone from her family reads this, please, please, write down or record her stories! This was amazing to listen to!
Since the interview I have talked to her several days for several hours and I always keep a notebook and pen in hand ❤
As the 54 year old grandson of a 99 year old Italian American grandmother, I can attest to the fact that these people don’t die. They just get smaller and smaller until they vanish.
LOL - It is so true!!
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So true! My Italian grandma is about to turn 100 in February! She sounds just like Nancy.
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I love your comment! From now on that’s the way I’m thinking of it ❤️
This is a testament to the effect of childhood trauma. This sweet lady is still overcome with grief about things that happened to her 90 years ago. She has great strength. There is a lot of truth to the old saying "Men suffer, while women endure". I was glad to read her God-daughters comment about what a treasure she is to their family.
My mother had a horrible childhood in Poland and then the war broke out and she never saw them again and came to America and married my dad who was abusive to her. She still cried for her family her whole life. She missed them so much it physically hurt. Her whole life was awful. I hope she is with her family now in heaven
@@Pureimagination200I hope she is too idk if you believe in prayer but I’ll be praying for your mom!!
@@vivlagabster unfortunately not a lot of people here do.
@@vivlagabster thank you but she passed away 10 years ago. She’s with her long lost family now
@@Pureimagination200people like your mother may have suffered in life but she has her eternal peace now, and regardless of circumstances she allowed for you to be alive by having you. I hope your own life is filled with less suffering and more happiness than your mother’s was, and you make her proud.
My grandmother is 117 this month. She still drives and everything. I love her stories too. She’s had a hard life. Everyone is so kind to her in the town she lives in. When they see her car coming they move out of her way and everything. Even at the stop lights they give her Cadillac the right of way. So sweet of them. We thought we had lost her a few years back but when she was dying the hospice nurse made a mistake and instead of giving her morphine she gave her ephedrine. She rose up on the bed, got up and found her keys and drove home and has been going strong ever since. Miracles can happen and my Nonna is one of them.
My grandfather would have been 106 this year. Born the same year as this lovely lady, 1918. He past away when he was 101. I got to spend a lot time with him shortly before and hear some of his stories. He was a passionate sailer and carpenter here in Michigan, he even ice-boated at 100 years old. He had a reason to live, so he kept on living! He just couldn't find the purpose anymore when my grandma died and was basically waiting to die he told me. Broke my heart and I can't imagine the amount of heart break he must of felt. There is a lot to learn from centenarians. Thanks Nancy for sharing your story and for sharing this video, Mark.
The Greatest Generation right here, folks. This is what "tough as nails" looks like. What a beautiful lady! Bless her. ❤
Yes, but a lot of men were very abusive and extremely misogynistic. My grandmother used to hide my mother and her brothers when he came home really drunk. And he would belittle my grandmother a lot, even if he was just trying to be funny, making fun of what she had made for dinner. He knew that it hurt her feelings. She put up with it because almost all the other women of her generation did the same. But I will say I adored him when I was growing up.
Absolutely 👍 best generation.
@@kalevala29 That still happens. WWII people were TOUGH.
And to think we have ppl in their 20s crying on TikTok about working a double shift at Starbucks and needing a break.🙄🙄
@@nicolesellingstuff because starbucks is awful and people have the right to complain
Listening to old people talk is one of the most valuable things you can do with your time. I used to listen to my grandmother's stories endlessly before she passed away this year. She was a wealth of knowledge and listening to her made you realize how easy we have it now! She was not afraid to speak her mind just like Nancy. God bless her. Miss you baba.
My grandfather recently passed away January of this year at the age of 93. Watching Nancy made me cry because hearing her story is so important and my grandfather always talked for hours about his family and childhood. I could listen to him all day and I loved that I got to live most of my life with him. Please talk to your elders and hear their stories. It’s so important.
I wish I had a time capsule of my grandmother. She lived to 110.
This is a blessing!📽️🤗
I can't remember what I did last week, she's 70 years older than me, but remembers her childhood. Phenomenal lady 💚
It may be fiction. I would love to hear her father's side of the story.
@@1WhipperinHer story was par for the course up until mid 1980s. Nothing unusual about it. There were enough witnesses to my grandfather’s & great-uncle’s lives, to know that they were lazy… until it came to trying to impress.
@@sunshine3914 Men are no good, lazy bums for most of history.
@@1WhipperinWhat is wrong with you? Are you just an attention- seeking troll?
@@aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470 Nothing wrong with me. I am slightly skeptical rather than totally gullible. Why do you judge me as an attention seeking troll?
It's so sad how even as we age, we are haunted by the cruelties of our lives. We may rise above them, but they are still there hurting somewhere.
What a dear woman. Thank you for bringing her in Mark, for this insightful interview.❤
What does not kill you only makes you stronger.
When the going gets tough the tough get going.
No hill for a stepper….💚🇮🇪🦾
I know that's part of the life experience but you're right, it's so hard to see. I'm glad at least some of us see it but ever since I was little I've always wished that people would be kinder to one another and help each other more. Life itself isn't hard, it's this fake reality we have been living in for hundreds of years where we have to work ourselves to death to survive because we can't figure out a way to help each other thrive. For every problem we solve and everything we improve we create so many more problems.
It is totally true! Some wounds never heal fully. Or they do heal, but they leave a scar that aches at times for the rest of your life. Here are two great quotes that I love from two of my favorite books. The first is from "The Lord of the Rings", and the second is from "The Five People You Meet In Heaven" (when the main character first dies).
1- Lord of the Rings:
"Alas! there are some wounds that cannot be wholly cured,’ said Gandalf.
‘I fear it may be so with mine,’ said Frodo. ‘There is no real going back. Though I may come to the Shire, it will not seem the same; for I shall not be the same. I am wounded with knife, sting, and tooth, and a long burden. Where shall I find rest?’
2- The Five People You Meet In Heaven:
"He felt no pain from his death. All he felt was lightness and calm, as if every hurt he had ever suffered had been washed away."
That's a choice.
@@jercasgav Beautiful comment. Ty for sharing. Loved both quotes. ❤❤
There is nothing like hearing the stories of the elderly. It takes you back in time ⏲️❤❤❤❤
You mean to those horrible times? Cause everything that happened to her is pretty disturbing.
My precious Grandmother made it to 98 before passing away this past April. I always wanted to document her but work and life got in the way. We were extremely lucky to have kept her as long as we did and get to soak up her love, wisdom and stories.
Thank you to Mark and Nancy. This interview is pure gold...
I am 48 and when i was 8 years old i remember talking to my great grand mother who was born in..1896...just thinking about it make me feel like the richest man on earth.
You are the richest man in the world ❤️ I got my great grandmother in my life until I was 35. She was only 52 when I was born. Can you believe that??? haha my grandmother was only 36 when I was born. She got to know my granddaughters before she passed 5 years ago (so those were her Great greats. I’m now 55 and have 5 of my own grandchildren. The oldest being 17. They all have their great grandmother (my mother) around who is only 74 now. I think my mom will see her great great grands for sure. We are so blessed. I know people who never met their grandparents.
My grandmother was born also in 1896...and lived to 104. She was, and still is, amazing and my role model...almost lived in 3 centuries!
@@blueskyeranch6495 God bless you all 🙏
@@5DNRG thats amazing to know we interacted with peoples who lived trough the 19 century !
My grandmother was three when she moved to Kty… in a covered wagon.
I work night shift at the hospital, i love listening to older patient's stories. It makes me appreciate every little thing i have. This was a great watch, what a strong soul.❤
This is just the best interview yet. I smiled, laughed, cried.... i just love her.
What a tremendous treasure Nancy is!! Such a horrific, hard life when she was a child to young adult especially!! A lot of people would have been broken with everything she saw and experienced. For Nancy, it made her very strong, determined, so smart, resilient and very independent. It instilled in her a responsibility raising and caring for her younger siblings, being their mama. Family is very important to her. Even now, she tries to teach her young great- greats how to save money but also to enjoy a portion of what they earn. Love that she still loves to dance and have parties and family coming together! I’m glad her second husband realized what a very special woman she was!!🥰🦋🌹😘❤️💕🇨🇦
There is zero filter and tons of experience. She is a national treasure.
What a life, what a woman ,cannot believe she is 106. What a horrible life her mother had and also what Nancy had to endure as a child. She should write a book. Wish her lots more healthy time in front of her. Awesome.
She's so beautiful, reminds me of my grandma, (rest her soul).
Nancy's story would be a movie I would cherish.
So glad he joined Arthur Murray on the sneak! How romantic. Love it.
I wish sometimes in these interviews we could see photographs of their lives with their family etc. I would have loved to have seen her husband and children
Yes I would have loved seeing a photo of her when she was younger.
My dad is 105 yo he born 1918 in October still walking talking laughing, he came back to Peru 10 years ago, so wise man ❤
Amazing! God bless you and your wonderful dad. ❤🙏
@@jewelsbarbie thank you my dear! 🥰
She gives me hope that my "lighter traumatic " life might give me calming existence from now on. She is incredible. Thank you for your story......I was born in April too.❤❤
My aunt just turned 100. What a great thing to have... ESPECIALLY for those who are fortunate enough to be able to listen to her share her stories
'I didn't think anything about being 100.. i could do exactly what I did when I was 90'
I love her
My mother is on her way to her 101st birthday in November. I cherish every minute with her. She’s still very lucid and conversational.
Let her talk..listen..absorb
Omg, scorpio gang?
🥰❤️
This, by far, is my most favorite interview. This is one super strong, smart, beautiful human. To come out of all she's been through and stay kind, it's absolutely amazing. I could listen to Nancy for hours upon hours. God bless her always.
Sitting here watching and listening to Ms. Nancy talk about her life over 106 year's has made me smile laugh and tear up a bit. I could listen to her for hour's our elderly are our treasures. Thank you Mark for this interview I hope that you do more interviews with people her age. ❤😊🎉
Nancy will endure here - she is immortalized by this digital age yet her lessons are timeless. God bless you, Nancy!
I love hearing elders stories. I befriended a 99 year old friend. He told me about serving n WWII … he died a month shy of 100… I miss him so much
I’m a 3rd generation 100% Italian. This is my most favorite interview out of them all. This is my family’s similar story. My grandfather was just like her father. I lost my mom 3 years ago, but this lovely woman made me remember all the stories i heard and lived. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am in tears
My Nonno died at 90 in the 70's. His mom died delivering her 14th chld. He always said, to kill your wife legally, keep getting her pregnant. He'd cry when he talked about her and her beautiful hair. He only had my mom. Accident, I believe. But they loved her much
I really enjoyed listening to Nancy hearing her story was captivating I could listen to her for ever. Hearing what life was like for her way back then is something not very many of our loved ones live to tell not very many of our older folks around now😢we must cherish their memories🤎
This is the best interview you’ve made to me! How incredibly inspiring her story is with all that she has endured. Thank you for these videos.
I unexpectedly started crying when she talked about how good her second husband was
I’ve known older widows who will speak of how loving & wonderful their deceased husbands were, when, in fact, they had been anything but. IDK if it’s in comparison of former loves or their dads or just wishful thinking of what they had hoped.
My former bf came to visit right after lockdown & we stopped in shops we used to frequent in the 80s, all women shop keeps now widowed - all painted these wonderful pictures of men who were known to be very abusive.
@@sunshine3914 Well she isn't one of them considering she had no good words to say about her first husband, who is also dead. Not sure why you would imply the possibility that she's lying.
yes and her gratefulness for 2nd husband never beating her and then learned to dance together so romantic winning the waltz at Arthur Murray's Dance studio
I'm so glad she found a wonderful man!
@@sunshine3914well aren’t you a ray of sunshine
Ms. Nancy is the perfect example of the fountain of youth...can you imagine what she has endured in her 106 years. Ms. Nancy has a phenomenal story. 😮😔Thank you Mark for her interview. ❤
She told us yes, no need to imagine.
I have been glued to every word Nancy says. I have cried over her sorrows and cried for her happiness with Carmie. What a treasure. Thank you for sharing your life story Nancy and thank you Mark for for everything you do.
I pray that Nancy will forgive her Dad. This will bring her healing and heaven.
I love the elderly. I’m 36 but man I’d prefer a good story and a lesson from my elder than to listen to 95% of people my age. Cherish them while you can.
My beloved Gimma was born in April 1911 and passed peacefully at home in March 2018, just a few weeks shy of her 107th birthday. I miss her every day. 💞
What a wonderful lady ❤
Wow, what an amazing, long life she lived! I can’t imagine how many beautiful memories you have with her. May she rest in love and peace. 🥺❤️
My great GMA was born in 1911, im 33, she passed when I was like 12.. it's truly a priceless gift to have my my memories with her and be able to pass on her wisdom to my own kids 😭 🙏🏼❤
Aww that’s amazing as well!
I'm so glad you reached out to Mark so that the world could hear true old time stories, just so people realize what the world is like and how it was, and how it is now.
How is this woman still alive with the life she had?!!!! She is so amazing!!!❤️
This reminded me to go hang out with my grandma cause I can listen to her talk about her life for hours. We need to cherish our elderly more 😢
Yes we do because they are our history ❤
Smh I couldn’t word it any better 🥰🥰🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I do understand why Mark interviews the homeless, drunks, addicts....He shows us they are human. Someone's child, parent, loved one. So many people dismiss those who are poor or intellectually disabled.
This interview was a little bit different. She led a difficult life. She made the best of everything she was handed. Awesome lady. Thank you Mark.
This is such a wonderful interview. Had me choked up several times. Thank you so much for sharing this with the world.
Thank you, Ms. Nancy & Mark for this lovely interview 💕 Far & away one of my favorites on this channel. Ms. Nancy reminds me so much of my own Mamaw who was born in 1920, but had passed on now. The women born & raised back then were made tough & lived through things we in today’s world could never endure. Im so happy Ms. Nancy found the happiness in life she so deserved 💕
I never really have wanted to live to be 100, but seeing this interview may have changed my mind! Especially if I can still be with people who care about me, do things, drive & dance- just like Ms. Nancy!!💕 What a GEM💎