This is a beautiful, strong, talented, wise woman. And she has been since birth. Shame on the evil parents. Shame on those ignorant high school peers. All they had to do was read up on this subject. I wish I could meet her, for I believe she has much to share. It is my hope that God leads her to write a book.
What I loved about this interview is the fact she knows who she is, went through so much to get where she is, and has no regrets except for waiting to get divorced. This is one powerful woman. Kudos to her.
Good for your grandmother for taking you home with her, no questions asked. During my rough childhood times i so desperately wanted someone to rescue me like that.
Look you are a woman through and through. .people are really jealous of such successfull people, especially in small little towns, small minded people.. wish I knew you. Good luck in whatever you still do girl.❤.
Right now I am in deep grief over the passing of a close friend , someone whose family has always felt like my family. I've known him for 45 years. And suddenly he's gone. But I found myself laughing when she said her dad was from Kentucky. There were many times I laughed and I am more than thankful. I know someday life will get back to normal but until then, these moments will help heal my heart.
It might have been either cancerous or would very likely become cancerous. But yeah, it's definitely not something to do lightly. The fact she was 9 makes me feel like it was a health issue that became about due to the different hormones
@charlottemiller7675 if you listen to her story, the Dr admitted the reason they did it was because she presented with both organs and her parents wanted a boy, so they figured they'd "make" her one.
@@caitmlp I did listen to the whole thing but I don't think that was in reference to the hysterectomy. That seemed medical. According to her statements they picked which one that wanted much earlier on as is common in with ambiguous morphology of the genitals
That was a different time. Up until the 90’s it wasn’t uncommon for doctors to make parents “choose” their intersexed child’s gender to make it official on a birth certificate. They believed incorrectly that nurture (how you raised a child) trumped nature (chromosomes/physical/hormonal/brain chemistry). We now know it is so much more complex.
I came here to listen to a story and be educated on a topic that I don't know much about. What I got was an amazing testimony from a strong woman who was born a little different and didn't use it as a stop sign! These are the people's faces and stories that should be in magazines and news articles. What an amazing force this beautiful lady is! Her story touched me, and the intersex part wasn't even the cherry on top - it was her overcoming and being a light! Bless You ma'am - your testimony touched my heart. ❤
She's amazing, and her story is yet another reminder that something has got to be done about child abuse. Child abuse should be discussed as much as all our other important world issues like climate change, war, income inequality, etc.
theres something so comforting about this woman I feel like I could listen to her tell stories all day and never get bored. She kinda reminds me of my grandmother and the stories shes used to tell me.
it feels like the warm comforting and nurturing presence of a grandma telling stories exactly. A well seasoned, strong, wise woman to listen to and learn from is always so special
Yes same feel that's because she tells the truth ❤ it gets to you feel all she suffered what an amazing woman came out of all so strong went through hell her parents treated her so badly but just goes to show what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
It’s amazing she’s the person she is today and not in a mental institution or jail. I bet she has some really good friends today. She seems like she’d be a good person to have as a friend. Bless her.
This woman is an inspiration to all women who survived trauma! LOVED listening to her and would love to see her back in your chair for a part 2 please!
Want the opportunity to hear more from Richelle. If it's not too creepy and you're reading this post, it would be great to talk more. Not so tech-savvy so I don't know how to make that happen other than to start a conversation with Richele here. Is this possible? Thankful for your courage and forthright sharing. God has certainly helped you in SO many ways!❤
It is a breath of fresh air to hear a sensible, well balanced, mature voice on this channel. Richelle's shared experiences offer an honest perspective rarely heard from certain other interviewees.
She doesn’t sound so sensible to me, with her religious stuff and hatred of pornography. And I bet the same kind of opinions can be found in people throughout this country - they’re the same people who are trying to stuff their beliefs down all of our throats, using changes to our legal system.
@@Ceerads I like how you're ignoring how her faith carried her through her struggle to bash religion. Not to mention porn really doesn't benefit anyone except the ppl who make it and even then it comes at a cost. And as it goes for the rule making bit I agree but it's a reaction to how they were treated when more "liberal" powers took control.
Amazing story. Richelle could easily have become bitter and damaged, but she just kept putting one foot in front of the other and was true to her core beliefs. The result is a wonderful person who makes great contributions to our world. Thanks to Richelle and Mark for sharing her story.
Richelle you are an inspiration to me. I'm a straight female, born female. But I sincerely admire your strength & your determination in life. You have so much to be proud of. I pray for you & your loved ones. I pray that ppl who truly need to hear your story will be able to get some type of positivity for their life. God Bless you Always✝️🙏🏼🫶
Poor woman. Not only was she physically and psychologically abused by her parents. She was medically violated by doctors and then was set up for more trauma by the outside world because she was forced to live as a boy. This poor lady has been to hell and back. My heart goes out to her.❤
Day by day... GOD was watching over you...❤ and, through all the heartache, and neglect, you emerged a Hero... !!!🎉 You've found your calling ... your PURPOSE... ❤ many are those, who're better off, because you extended LOVE... not HATE...!!! ❤ Your story is painful😢 yet .. so inspiring !!!!! 🙏 The World must hear... !!!
I really like this lady. She sure has had a heck of a cross to carry in this life. I hope when her time comes, as we will all face one day, she goes directly to heaven.
Wow! You can absolutely tell that no matter how this cruel world has treated her, she still has love in her heart to give.. Commending and applauding her for sharing her story❣️
@@smnewstead4093 yes, he did - he thought he knew more about her than she knew about herself - he shut up rather quickly when he realized who he was dealing with - she brought him down a few notches - hope Mr. Know It All of All Things learned a lesson.
I don't even know this woman, but I love her! I could sit for hours to hear all of Richelle's stories. What an amazing person, truly! This has to be my favorite interview ever.
I must admit that I felt a great deal of relief when at 1:55 she recounted the time when she asked her mother in regards to her atypical genitalia, “why didn’t you do something?” and her mother responded with, “It looked okay to me!” Far too many children born with ambiguous genitalia have been surgically altered, at parent request and/or doctor recommendation, to appear either male or female. These procedures frequently lead to negative issues including (but not limited to) painful scar tissue, loss of sexual function and/or sensation, and severe depression. I hate her mother, but it seems she did do one thing right in leaving her genitalia alone! Her being given a hysterectomy because she got her period and her parents wanted her to be a boy is a different matter. That’s inexcusable.
Richelle is a breathe of fresh air. She's blessed to be here to give her Testimony with the world. Thanks for sharing your Amazing life with me. Faith is always the best way to survive
What a beautiful woman. I was into about 90% of this intervoew when I suddenly realized I was hanging onto every word she was saying. Incredible! Inspiring! Richelle, I hope you are reading this. I grew up in a severely alcoholic home and severely abusive home. I have had to overcome similar situations regarding abuse, both mental and physical abuse. Today I am a loving (and forgiving) husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, friend, commniy member, successful businessman and a Believer. I may also go into the ministry. I'm praying for Christ's will and guidance on that. Thank you again for sharing your story with us - truly inspiring in so many ways.
I'm sorry you had such a rough childhood. My home life was almost the same growing up. An alcoholic, abusive dad who beat my mom daily. I can relate to your story. You are not alone.
It's wonderful you have come through your trauma so strong. You will give hope to many others. Thanks for sharing your experience. I wish you every happiness in your home, work and community life. Greetings from Ireland.
If you've trusted the gospel of grace for this current dispensation of grace (Ephesians 3), then you are an Ambassador for Christ (2 Corinthians 5:20), commissioned with a "reconciliation ministry." God tells us His will clearly in I Timothy 2:4, "Who will have all men to be saved, and come unto the knowledge of the truth." Once we trust the gospel, He wants us to come to the understanding of truth according to sound doctrine, which involves "rightly dividing" the scriptures (2 Timothy 2:15). We must separate prophecy from mystery doctrine (Israel's law program from the church the body of Christ's grace program). When you do this, you know what God is and isn't doing. God is not micro-managing our lives. We receive "spiritual blessings" only (Ephesians 1:3) in the dispensation of grace. 2 Corinthians 5 tells us all about our reconciliation ministry. We preach the gospel and propagate Pauline sound doctrine. Paul said, "teach no other doctrine" in I Timothy 1:3. So, God is not going to tell you "His will" for your life because He already told you in I Timothy 2:4 what His will is. However, how you make that happen is up to you. The gospel that saves: Christ DIED for our sins; He was BURIED; He ROSE AGAIN the third day. This gospel is found in I Corinthians 15:1-4. Ephesians 1:13 tells us when we simply HEAR this gospel and trust it, we are sealed with the Holy Spirit of promise. Colossians 2:13 says we are "forgiven all trespasses." Colossians 2:10 says we are "complete in Christ." Salvation is a free gift received only by grace through faith because there is "no boasting" (Romans 3:27, Ephesians 2:9). The King James Bible is God's perfectly preserved Word according to His promise in Psalm 12:6-7. Grace and Peace, my Friend.
God would not give you a message to tell people they have dirty, filthy hearts. We already all know this. Every single one of us knows this because God gave us all a conscience. How did God tell you that we sinners need to clean our hearts? If it was God, He would have told you to tell people the gospel that saves. No one can clean themselves up; they must trust how that Christ DIED for our sins, and that He was BURIED, and that He ROSE AGAIN the third day for our complete justification. This is the only way a person can get saved - by trusting Christ's death, burial, and resurrection as atonement for their sins. (I Corinthians 15:1-4, Ephesians 1:13, Romans 3:27, Ephesians 2:9). King James Bible.
This woman is amazing. After having such a life filled with pain and abuse, she doesn't let it get her down, but keeps on going and giving. She is also a Christian and obviously gets strength from God. I pray for her and her son, Erin. God bless you both.
I have never felt quite this way about an interview...she is a stunning human! And the best part is she does it without telling everybody else how to handle their own lives. I really want to see her again! I feel like there is more to her story. I would love to see her 1 woman show!
@@lavernemusicyour absolutely right she did...I hadn't thought of that until I read your comment. Bless her heart,the pain the suffering shes had her entire young life,but look at this wonderful woman,she would have gone far if her parents had treated her with love and respect. Plus in political field she would have been a force to be reckoned with ,if only those 4 jealous wicked people had allowed her to live her life.... ( I know the heartache jealousy can bring) Brave Brave woman,she had God in her heart ,he had his hand in hers... What an incredibly resourceful wonderful lady. I wish her and her son the best health and life she can have moving forward.❤🙏🥰♥️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I thought out of most of what I have watched on this channel this story was absolutely amazing and the I agree with you she is just fabulous and I wish I could hear more stories from her ❤❤❤
This is the kind of story i want to hear. Not the same stories of the same people who are honestly never going to change. I want to hear stories of resilience and perseverance.
Me too. I am glad that there are individuals that explain and express their difficulties and eventually make their own decisions of what is best for them instead of foolish parents.
Ok, I will say it: how many prostitute and drug addict stories can we hear?! They are just different shades of the same colour, so to say. It isn't a matter of not having empathy for these persons, it's just that we have heard and seen the same song and dance on this channel for years re: drugs and prostitution. Sometimes, we crave something with a different flavour. What's so wrong in that?! @@Abishhhhh
This woman is absolutely captivating! I watch your interviews all the time Richelle you are remarkable and so beautifully spoken. Please bring her back for more
It sounds like she was a victim of family scapegoat abuse in addition to being born intersex. Geez she was dealt a rough hand! Seems like a strong & level-headed lady.
She said very plainly that she was always a female. She just had stupid people around her. (But not now). I live close to Indianapolis and Lafayette IN, and I would love her as a friend.
I, Chucks wife commandered his phone to comment. I just fell in love with your truthfulness. You have been so candid about so many things that many of us lie consistently to ourselves about. You are incredibly forthright and honest about your life. You make no excuses. I would have loved to have seen you as an entertainer. I applaud you and wish you only the best. Your story will help so many people. Thank you.
“To thine own self be true”. Thank you Richelle, you are amazing indeed! Many people would let their beginnings define them! You stood up for yourself, had an awesome grandmother and saw yourself through cancer, an unhappy marriage and obtained your two degrees etc., etc, etc. girl, you have LiVED! Well Done! You are a wonderful force for good.
This woman is my new mentor and she gives me hope to continue to battle this horrible cancer that's filling my body. God bless you for your courage, strength and perseverance to face your lifetime of humiliation, fear and personal injury. I will remember you always and will continue to while I'm on this journey of mine. :) With love and kindness I send it your way.
Rachelle, I’m 70 years old and I admire the person you are! What a beautiful testimony! Tfs! Sending blessings to you! ❤🙏🏼😊🥰 You are beautiful, inside and out!
@@breannalaughlin6002yes it does but far worse in the 60s as no one had the internet to read the truths,then they made their stories up ,as she said about those 4 people defaming her name.when she ran for office. God bless her...❤
Sometimes you think you have problems until you hear the problems of other people it's only the grace and mercy of God that brought this dear soul out of such a horror of hell, God bless you sis, God is still using you to give hope and assurance to others.
Richelle for taking the time to share your story. It'd be awesome to sit on the porch, drinking sweet tea, and listening to your stories😉 God Bless you!
What broke my heart the most is how she talked about her parents. Getting beat for doing something she loved. How disfunctional and terrible. I want to give her a hug.
Mark must’ve loved this interview! Richelle is an awesome story teller, you just prompt her once and she tells you a fascinating tale minute by minute. Thank you for sharing your history, Richelle!
@@PhysicalGraffiti97omg dude google is your friend🤦♀️induced lactation has been around since antiquity, smooth brain. Just because you never heard of it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist💀
@@PhysicalGraffiti97 That came out of your butthole, estrogens and androgen have been synthetically produced and used in the medical community for well over 80 years.
@@PhysicalGraffiti97 It's hard work, but lactation can be induced. I know women who have breastfed their adopted children. Ask La Leche League about the process. And do your research...it was happening in the 70s for sure...I was there.
What an amazing story, told by an amazing story teller...❤❤ one of my favorite interviews on this channel hands down. Thanks for sharing your story. May God continue to bless you. 🙏💙
I have been watching your videos for a while now. This one is my favorite. The way Richelle spoke and held herself, you could really tell she has a strong spirit. She deserves all the love, happiness and content in the world. I pray she has that for the rest of her life 💚
It's insane that this women had to be raised this way. No love. No positive attention or affirmations. The fact that she's here telling her story is amazing.
Her marriage sounded similar to my mother and father's marriage. My mom is a very attractive, hard working, smart woman who stayed with a man who was not faithful and who sat back while she did all of the work. 15 years after they got married, she finally left him and never looked back. My dad blames their divorce on "women's lib"....smh.... The women of that time were bearing and raising kids, working, and doing most of the work at home. We (the younger generations) couldn't endure that life for one day. No wonder this poor woman got so sick. Her ex husbands lack of participation, lack of support and love caused her to carry way too much burden and also caused a lot of pain for his son. This is one of the strongest, kindest, most tolerant women I have ever had the privilege of hearing. Thank you for sharing her, Mark and thank you for telling us part of your story, Richelle. Much appreciation and love from Arizona.
Its stil going on women bear the brunt of taking care of raising kids and all work that goes with it. Now they also are trying to jiggle full time jobs..overwhelming still for women. Still doing it all
Oh yeah, back in those days men loved to blame everything on ‘women’s lib’ just like the Incels today blame their inability to socialize on feminism. It’s so important that young women never forget how terrible it was before feminism, it can never go away.
What a woman! This is one of the most inspirational life stories I have ever heard. She went through so much suffering throughout her life, and still wanted to help others. She really is an Angel, but her wings are no longer broken. Thank you for sharing with us Richelle ❤❤❤
Lady you are a strong woman. I am an RN and have SLE been ill since 1993. Last few years have been pure torture….hell. You have a remarkable testimony. The lupus has put me in lt.sided heart failure. My life has not been easy by no means. Thank you for sharing. I have found more joy in my profound suffering. I am Lakota Sioux. Thank you for remembering the tribal children. Creator be the glory. Nothing better in this life than gratitude. I lost my only child in 2002. I miss him each day. I was born raised in LaGrange, IN. Currently, living in the PNW. Washington State to be exact. I have quite a story of my life too. You are a woman of integrity and outstanding mother. I wish you and your son well. ❤️🙏🌹
Hi, I came acroos your comments and what really caught my attention was I'm sorry for your loss and I want you to know that you are not alone and life is too short not to share your testimony, anyway we all have some challenges and trial somewhere in our lives. Thank you, for sharing yourself to us..take care now..
@@weemarie1137 i am writing a book. Hope to have it out next year. The SLE make’s it difficult to accomplish goals. I feel it is important to share my life story. Perhaps will help others. We all agreed to come to earth with a mission. Even animals sign an agreement and cone with a mission. Earth and humanity are in a time of great changes. We must stay positive and in love & light. White buffalo calf born recently in Yellowstone. A sign to our Lakota and world that better days are ahead. We have a few tough times but will come through to the light. I would love to hear your story too. We are all related, my sister. I send you love, light and hugs. ❤️🙏🌹.
Mark!!! This is hands down, THE best interview you've ever done! I am in awe of this sweet lady and her love and strength and compassion. My 2nd marriage was identical to hers and I still carry that pain every day, though its been 15 years since the divorce. Her resilience and courage to be led by God and heal her life is a true testimony of faith. I'm in tears from her words and I thank you both for sharing...wow...just wow. ❤
I clicked on this video thinking I’d watch a few minutes before heading off to work. Fast forward to me, sitting in my car, arriving to work late because I had to finish hearing her story. I know she’s not like Forrest Gump, but her story reminds me of a Forrest Gump type of story. So much living in her life. A lot of bad, but a lot of good. Could definitely see her story being put into book form or maybe even a movie. She has a gift of communicating when she speaks. I was riveted. Thanks for posting this!
babyg****** me too I thought oh I'll watch 5 mins just to see....I didnt take my eyes off the screen,until it finished. So many people have such privileged lives yet complain, moan,she pulled her socks up and showed everyone...this will not define me Brave Intelligent gentle kind hearted woman,even after the start of life she had.. Shame on her parents she needed love not beatings.❤🙏🥰♥️
I luv this interview!!! Very moving. What an amazing woman. Thanks so much Richelle and Mark for sharing. A nurse, a counselor, a performer, a missionary, and an abuse survivor. Had zero encouragement from her parents as a child, was raised as the wrong sex, and still went on to do incredible things.
God bless you Richelle for your faith and being the strong woman. I grew up in the 60’s too with strict parents who experienced abuse themselves. You are in my prayers
This woman Richelle, is a wonderful storyteller. Her degrees in psychology and belief in God may have helped her in regards to her ability to forgive and move on, to not go thru life with bitterness or a chip on her shoulder, but rather treat others with the kindness and love she hadn't received. I hope someone along the way someone does encourage her to write a book about her life, filled with humor and love, like her story. And you Mark, should welcome her back for a part 2 and part 3 focusing on the insight she's gleaned thru the years of dealing with all the different folks along the way. Great interview!
What a beautiful soul..I could listen to her all day ! Have her back on one day..I would love to hear more of whatever she has to say..Rough childhood but never made any excuses..She’s a rose that grew from the concrete..Bless her heart 🖤
Richelle, you are BEAUTIFUL. I wish you would create your own You Tube channel so we could all continue hearing your testimony. This video wasn't long enough! You made sweet lemonade out of rotten, sour lemons. I've been in a very negative life loop recently and you have inspired me today. Thank you Mark, for sharing this amazing human being with us all. Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU!!! With faith, anything is possible!
This lady is smazingly classy. You can't pity her bc she has come out on top. This all had to happen. This is what made her who she is now. Her ex husband put it the best. She's "an angel with broken wings." I cried throughout this whole interview, and when I wasn't crying, I had a knot on my throat. This was so overwhelming for my spirit and soul. God bless you, ma'am!
I sat here, watched this episode, was angry, cried, was thankful for grandparents, admired the fortitude of this beautiful woman and now I just want to give her a hug and protect her. It’s not about me but I am so emotionally drained. She deserves a life full of peace, love, and many. many hugs.
In my humble opinion, Richelle does NOT need protecting. She is no longer that little girl. She is grown, mature, highly educated, and free to be herself. I think it's narcissistic to think she needs you to protect her.
Wow! This woman had a powerful testimony! A real inspiration to me. I was feeling in the dumps, but this woman has inspired me to keep moving. I was married to a narcissist also and I love what she said about her only regret was staying too long with her narcissist. A breath of fresh air to me because i often wondered about that.
Another absolutely impressive, strong, non-moaning non-whining woman, doing and giving instead of expecting. God bless her (and you, Mark, for giving her space and time).
Richelle is a wonderful storyteller. Her answer to what was the greatest thing she learned was the icing on the cake! Strong lady! Wish her all the best! 💪💖
Richelle is just too darn precious! She is a tough cookie and I love it! Thanks a bunch for interviewing her Mark. More of folks like her please. The older, the wiser, the better.
Thank you Richelle and Mark for this incredible interview. I'm glad I got to meet Richelle and hear her life story. She's a true American in every way.
The general public is SEVERELY undereducated when it comes to knowing about intersex. Quite sad everything this lady has had to endure due to ignorance. I wish her the best
The right-wing anti-LGBT morons in particular could learn something from watching this. Nature can be sometimes be nuanced when it comes to gender - it's not as black and white as they seem to believe
I'm from Indiana, my mother is from Kentucky, she had a hard hard life. My parents where good but really tough. I relate to this woman soo much. I just wanna give her a hug.
Richelle, your life story is incredibly moving and powerful. The resilience, authenticity and grace you have shown in the face of such profound challenges is tremendously inspiring. Thank you for so openly sharing your journey of self-discovery and embracing your true identity despite the societal barriers and personal hardships you faced. Your unshakeable commitment to living as your genuine self, while still extending kindness to others, provides an uplifting example for all. Though the path was not easy, your perseverance paid off in finding wholeness, purpose and joy. Thank you for using your voice to raise awareness - your candor will surely help others feel less alone. Wishing you continued happiness and fulfillment.🙏🏻❤️
I’ve watched dozens & dozens of your interviews & this, by far, will stand out to be the best, most inspiring one of all. I hope she writes a book someday bc her message is clear & concise. What a strong, lovely lady is she. I love your interview style bc you always know when to ask questions & when to just let your subject carry the conversation themselves. There’s a humility in that which makes you so endearing, imho. Thanks so much for a wonderful interview.
My nephew is intersex. He was born with ovaries, and internal female things. His testosterone levels were high. After many surgeries, they removed the internal female stuff. He had one viable testicle which was descended. Many surgeries on his urinary tract and what is now a penis. He’s all boy. He’s ten now, and happy and well adjusted. He had amazing physicians, and well educated parents who took advice from grown intersex people, as well as doctors.
please excuse a forward question, but how did they know that removing the ovaries was the right thing to do? as opposed to removing the testicle or just leaving the child to grow up naturally as long as everything was healthy and functioned okay?
Having worked for a medical Genetics office, there were many women in the Westchester NY area who were giving birth to children with "Ambiguous Genitalia".
I was absolutely captivated by this strong women's amazing story and so impressed at her strength getting through her trials. I felt so sad at how she was treated and the next minute smiling at many of her comments. This interview was so deep, her no nonsense, honest and caring personality really came through.
Richelle, I'm the oldest and suffered alot of abuse growing up to. We're more alike than people think. I'm so sorry you suffered through all of this. I know what's it's like to be an outcast, I'm 6ft tall, i know what it's like to be bullied. I'm so glad you survived all of this. You deserve a great life. I hope you know this. ❤❤❤❤
This is a very interesting video to me I’m 56 years old and my mom would always tell me her stories of how her mom always treated her like the black sheep and treated her sister like a princess..very disturbing for me to hear my momma’s stories 😢
Im about to attend ny 50th reunion, so Richelle and I are about the same age. What a remarkable woman and mother. Through abuse, being made fun of, an "unfaithful" husband, shes come through it with her trust in God. She's an accomplished and humble woman. Keep shining, Richelle 🤍
This is a great interview. She has very good story telling skills. She worded everything great and made it an easy thing to listen too. She seems like a great person too !
She has so much to offer - I haven't laughed as much (and I know much of her story was NOT humorous) in such a long time. Thank You for sharing all that you have to us.
My grandmother raised my father as a precious little girl. Beautiful pictures in dresses. At puberty, he rebelled by throwing eggs at the walls. She let him dress like a boy after that, but always told everyone he was a very very bad boy... he was the best daddy ever... rest in peace now daddy...❤❤❤
THAT is an amazing journey Richelle has gone through. God has blessed her in so many ways and brought her through all the drama and trauma and she has done so much for others. I pray He will continue blessing her.
What a fantastic interview this was! If Richelle ever reads these comments, I want to say that we need more people like you in this world! You are one of the strongest people that I have ever listened to. Your son is a lucky man! ♥
"let me finish, I'm only 2 minutes into the story" 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 she's amazing and knows how to stand her ground and gracefully demand respect.
Mark is anything but rude. Questions out of curiosity and to define what this person has. She's a bit rude . Respect is earned.
@@juleestoner3939agreed she didn’t need to be snippy.
@@shaunalea823She was not rude.. Mark was.
He was focused on his "story hook" = the intersex piece
@@davidhibbs6989You're projecting your own Daddy issues.
Her words at the end, "I was *never* a boy." Just broke my heart. What a resilient and kindhearted woman even after all she's been through.
Dang, this woman is Amazing & Awesome & I wish her the VERY Best 🤗👍🌻⚘️
This is a beautiful, strong, talented, wise woman. And she has been since birth. Shame on the evil parents. Shame on those ignorant high school peers. All they had to do was read up on this subject. I wish I could meet her, for I believe she has much to share. It is my hope that God leads her to write a book.
God bless this woman and family she is a strong wonderful lady, she makes me proud and happy.
Her childhood is heartbreaking. Why any parent would treat their child that way is just horrible! God bless this sweet lady, she has been thru hell!
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Please bring Richelle back so we can learn more about her. Such a great interview and a wonderful person
I agree!! I could have gone much longer listening!!
Same here! She is amazing! 🥰❤️
I say she needs to write a book!
Yeah so we can ask pointed questions about her fabrications
What an amazing interview! She is sooo interesting
What I loved about this interview is the fact she knows who she is, went through so much to get where she is, and has no regrets except for waiting to get divorced. This is one powerful woman. Kudos to her.
Good for your grandmother for taking you home with her, no questions asked. During my rough childhood times i so desperately wanted someone to rescue me like that.
She seems like a sweet person
God bless her always
Me too!
Me too
@user-sh5qv5kv1r, I wish someone would have saved you too. Growing up is hard 💪🏽
Wow, this woman knows how to communicate. I got drawn in and was captivated by every word. Thanks so much for sharing.
Right. It was like reading a good book.
Look you are a woman through and through. .people are really jealous of such successfull people, especially in small little towns, small minded people.. wish I knew you. Good luck in whatever you still do girl.❤.
IMO, her story has been very well rehearsed and rehashed throughout the years.....
I actually paused this video, stopped what i was doing, made a coffee and just sat listening to a really captivating story right to the end.
@@LisaDawnn and what is that supposed to mean?
_"I had a mother who was completely insane and a father who was from Kentucky."_ I found that hilarious. This is going to be one hell of an interview.
😂😂😂
@@karendavidson6272 "let me finish, I'm only 2 minutes into the story"
Me too!
😂😂😂
Right now I am in deep grief over the passing of a close friend , someone whose family has always felt like my family. I've known him for 45 years. And suddenly he's gone. But I found myself laughing when she said her dad was from Kentucky. There were many times I laughed and I am more than thankful. I know someday life will get back to normal but until then, these moments will help heal my heart.
To give a child a hysterectomy is criminal.
It might have been either cancerous or would very likely become cancerous. But yeah, it's definitely not something to do lightly. The fact she was 9 makes me feel like it was a health issue that became about due to the different hormones
@charlottemiller7675 if you listen to her story, the Dr admitted the reason they did it was because she presented with both organs and her parents wanted a boy, so they figured they'd "make" her one.
@@caitmlp I did listen to the whole thing but I don't think that was in reference to the hysterectomy. That seemed medical. According to her statements they picked which one that wanted much earlier on as is common in with ambiguous morphology of the genitals
i agree. unnecessary surgeries on intersex children should be criminalized.
That was a different time. Up until the 90’s it wasn’t uncommon for doctors to make parents “choose” their intersexed child’s gender to make it official on a birth certificate. They believed incorrectly that nurture (how you raised a child) trumped nature (chromosomes/physical/hormonal/brain chemistry). We now know it is so much more complex.
Great interview.
God bless her grandmother who took her from the abuse. & that doctor.
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Yes that doctor that said "i dont do sexchange" amazing
But one dr took her womb!
I came here to listen to a story and be educated on a topic that I don't know much about. What I got was an amazing testimony from a strong woman who was born a little different and didn't use it as a stop sign!
These are the people's faces and stories that should be in magazines and news articles. What an amazing force this beautiful lady is! Her story touched me, and the intersex part wasn't even the cherry on top - it was her overcoming and being a light! Bless You ma'am - your testimony touched my heart. ❤
Me too. I came seeking an education on one subject and found myself schooled on several. What am amazing life she has lived. ❤
Amen!
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She honestly is my hero. Wow. To spend a day chatting with her would do my soul good. Mark, more of these I reviews with incredible humans!! 🎉
She's amazing, and her story is yet another reminder that something has got to be done about child abuse. Child abuse should be discussed as much as all our other important world issues like climate change, war, income inequality, etc.
theres something so comforting about this woman I feel like I could listen to her tell stories all day and never get bored. She kinda reminds me of my grandmother and the stories shes used to tell me.
it feels like the warm comforting and nurturing presence of a grandma telling stories exactly. A well seasoned, strong, wise woman to listen to and learn from is always so special
Yes same feel that's because she tells the truth ❤ it gets to you feel all she suffered what an amazing woman came out of all so strong went through hell her parents treated her so badly but just goes to show what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
I agree.
It’s amazing she’s the person she is today and not in a mental institution or jail. I bet she has some really good friends today. She seems like she’d be a good person to have as a friend. Bless her.
This woman is an inspiration to all women who survived trauma! LOVED listening to her and would love to see her back in your chair for a part 2 please!
Want the opportunity to hear more from Richelle. If it's not too creepy and you're reading this post, it would be great to talk more. Not so tech-savvy so I don't know how to make that happen other than to start a conversation with Richele here. Is this possible? Thankful for your courage and forthright sharing. God has certainly helped you in SO many ways!❤
Yes, she is amazing and a great story teller.
It is a breath of fresh air to hear a sensible, well balanced, mature voice on this channel. Richelle's shared experiences offer an honest perspective rarely heard from certain other interviewees.
It really was refreshing
She was an incredible speaker and storyteller. Thank you for sharing her life story with us.
She doesn’t sound so sensible to me, with her religious stuff and hatred of pornography. And I bet the same kind of opinions can be found in people throughout this country - they’re the same people who are trying to stuff their beliefs down all of our throats, using changes to our legal system.
Yes very. She was great ❤
@@Ceerads I like how you're ignoring how her faith carried her through her struggle to bash religion.
Not to mention porn really doesn't benefit anyone except the ppl who make it and even then it comes at a cost.
And as it goes for the rule making bit I agree but it's a reaction to how they were treated when more "liberal" powers took control.
Amazing story. Richelle could easily have become bitter and damaged, but she just kept putting one foot in front of the other and was true to her core beliefs. The result is a wonderful person who makes great contributions to our world. Thanks to Richelle and Mark for sharing her story.
I 💯 agree!
Ikr. I wish i was as positive & ambitious as her.
She is so brave and strong. I wish I had her drive.
It’s true Thank you, well said 🫵🏼🏁
Wonderful film
Richelle you are an inspiration to me. I'm a straight female, born female. But I sincerely admire your strength & your determination in life. You have so much to be proud of. I pray for you & your loved ones. I pray that ppl who truly need to hear your story will be able to get some type of positivity for their life. God Bless you Always✝️🙏🏼🫶
She’s also a straight female born female. Weird need to label yourself as if she’s other.
Poor woman. Not only was she physically and psychologically abused by her parents. She was medically violated by doctors and then was set up for more trauma by the outside world because she was forced to live as a boy. This poor lady has been to hell and back. My heart goes out to her.❤
What a beautiful woman inside and out! ❤
This woman is a warrior! Hold your head high, you are an inspiration, never stop being you!
Day by day... GOD was watching over you...❤ and, through all the heartache, and neglect, you emerged a Hero... !!!🎉 You've found your calling ... your PURPOSE... ❤ many are those, who're better off, because you extended LOVE... not HATE...!!! ❤ Your story is painful😢 yet .. so inspiring !!!!! 🙏 The World must hear... !!!
You are an amazing Lady, and a inspiration to all women God bless you always ❤🌹
I really like this lady. She sure has had a heck of a cross to carry in this life. I hope when her time comes, as we will all face one day, she goes directly to heaven.
Wow! You can absolutely tell that no matter how this cruel world has treated her, she still has love in her heart to give..
Commending and applauding her for sharing her story❣️
Her story is so sad I am weeping 😢
Such a wonderful lady! I’m so sorry for the way she had to suffer though. But how resilient and wonderful she is despite it all!
I love that you don't interrupt them and just let them tell their story. What an amazing lady.
"her"
@@STFU1_1 I meant all of the interviewees he talks to.
@Warriorofchrist34 I know, I meant all of the people he interviews, I appreciate that he just lets them talk, no interruptions.
He did interrupt and was pretty rude
@@smnewstead4093 yes, he did - he thought he knew more about her than she knew about herself - he shut up rather quickly when he realized who he was dealing with - she brought him down a few notches - hope Mr. Know It All of All Things learned a lesson.
I don't even know this woman, but I love her! I could sit for hours to hear all of Richelle's stories. What an amazing person, truly! This has to be my favorite interview ever.
“I don’t regret marring the man I married, I regret waiting to divorce him” I felt that to the core!!! 💯 ❤thank you for your amazing story Richelle❤
Just between us, I stole that line. I completely understand what she meant.
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I must admit that I felt a great deal of relief when at 1:55 she recounted the time when she asked her mother in regards to her atypical genitalia, “why didn’t you do something?” and her mother responded with, “It looked okay to me!”
Far too many children born with ambiguous genitalia have been surgically altered, at parent request and/or doctor recommendation, to appear either male or female. These procedures frequently lead to negative issues including (but not limited to) painful scar tissue, loss of sexual function and/or sensation, and severe depression. I hate her mother, but it seems she did do one thing right in leaving her genitalia alone!
Her being given a hysterectomy because she got her period and her parents wanted her to be a boy is a different matter. That’s inexcusable.
I completely agree.
It's insane. This poor woman.
Richelle is a breathe of fresh air. She's blessed to be here to give her Testimony with the world. Thanks for sharing your Amazing life with me. Faith is always the best way to survive
I too agree. I was horrified when I heard that. 🤬
Right?
What a beautiful woman. I was into about 90% of this intervoew when I suddenly realized I was hanging onto every word she was saying. Incredible! Inspiring! Richelle, I hope you are reading this. I grew up in a severely alcoholic home and severely abusive home. I have had to overcome similar situations regarding abuse, both mental and physical abuse. Today I am a loving (and forgiving) husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, friend, commniy member, successful businessman and a Believer. I may also go into the ministry. I'm praying for Christ's will and guidance on that. Thank you again for sharing your story with us - truly inspiring in so many ways.
I'm sorry you had such a rough childhood. My home life was almost the same growing up. An alcoholic, abusive dad who beat my mom daily. I can relate to your story. You are not alone.
It's wonderful you have come through your trauma so strong. You will give hope to many others. Thanks for sharing your experience. I wish you every happiness in your home, work and community life. Greetings from Ireland.
I think she is my hero! I wish I had half the confidence and presence as has❤️
If you've trusted the gospel of grace for this current dispensation of grace (Ephesians 3), then you are an Ambassador for Christ (2 Corinthians 5:20), commissioned with a "reconciliation ministry." God tells us His will clearly in I Timothy 2:4, "Who will have all men to be saved, and come unto the knowledge of the truth." Once we trust the gospel, He wants us to come to the understanding of truth according to sound doctrine, which involves "rightly dividing" the scriptures (2 Timothy 2:15). We must separate prophecy from mystery doctrine (Israel's law program from the church the body of Christ's grace program). When you do this, you know what God is and isn't doing. God is not micro-managing our lives. We receive "spiritual blessings" only (Ephesians 1:3) in the dispensation of grace. 2 Corinthians 5 tells us all about our reconciliation ministry. We preach the gospel and propagate Pauline sound doctrine. Paul said, "teach no other doctrine" in I Timothy 1:3.
So, God is not going to tell you "His will" for your life because He already told you in I Timothy 2:4 what His will is. However, how you make that happen is up to you.
The gospel that saves:
Christ DIED for our sins;
He was BURIED;
He ROSE AGAIN the third day.
This gospel is found in I Corinthians 15:1-4. Ephesians 1:13 tells us when we simply HEAR this gospel and trust it, we are sealed with the Holy Spirit of promise. Colossians 2:13 says we are "forgiven all trespasses." Colossians 2:10 says we are "complete in Christ." Salvation is a free gift received only by grace through faith because there is "no boasting" (Romans 3:27, Ephesians 2:9).
The King James Bible is God's perfectly preserved Word according to His promise in Psalm 12:6-7.
Grace and Peace, my Friend.
God would not give you a message to tell people they have dirty, filthy hearts. We already all know this. Every single one of us knows this because God gave us all a conscience. How did God tell you that we sinners need to clean our hearts? If it was God, He would have told you to tell people the gospel that saves. No one can clean themselves up; they must trust how that Christ DIED for our sins, and that He was BURIED, and that He ROSE AGAIN the third day for our complete justification. This is the only way a person can get saved - by trusting Christ's death, burial, and resurrection as atonement for their sins. (I Corinthians 15:1-4, Ephesians 1:13, Romans 3:27, Ephesians 2:9). King James Bible.
This woman is amazing. After having such a life filled with pain and abuse, she doesn't let it get her down, but keeps on going and giving. She is also a Christian and obviously gets strength from God. I pray for her and her son, Erin. God bless you both.
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Aaron
I have never felt quite this way about an interview...she is a stunning human! And the best part is she does it without telling everybody else how to handle their own lives. I really want to see her again! I feel like there is more to her story. I would love to see her 1 woman show!
Yup 👍🏼
Same ❤
@@germainewright7348❤❤❤
yep she is no joke
“I was never a boy” was super powerful
She basically married her father
@@lavernemusicyour absolutely right she did...I hadn't thought of that until I read your comment.
Bless her heart,the pain the suffering shes had her entire young life,but look at this wonderful woman,she would have gone far if her parents had treated her with love and respect.
Plus in political field she would have been a force to be reckoned with ,if only those 4 jealous wicked people had allowed her to live her life....
( I know the heartache jealousy can bring)
Brave Brave woman,she had God in her heart ,he had his hand in hers...
What an incredibly resourceful wonderful lady.
I wish her and her son the best health and life she can have moving forward.❤🙏🥰♥️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
She is a pillar of human decency and dignity
I thought out of most of what I have watched on this channel this story was absolutely amazing and the I agree with you she is just fabulous and I wish I could hear more stories from her ❤❤❤
I really am disgusted by lousy parents that abused their kids. That's a real sickness.
Agree!!!
This is the kind of story i want to hear. Not the same stories of the same people who are honestly never going to change. I want to hear stories of resilience and perseverance.
Right? Such a tiny portion of this story was related to being intersex. It was about LIFE.
Great interview and what an inspiration.
Me too. I am glad that there are individuals that explain and express their difficulties and eventually make their own decisions of what is best for them instead of foolish parents.
passive aggressive asf lmao jus say youre talking about addicts and that u have no empathy for addiction . just say it
Ok, I will say it: how many prostitute and drug addict stories can we hear?! They are just different shades of the same colour, so to say. It isn't a matter of not having empathy for these persons, it's just that we have heard and seen the same song and dance on this channel for years re: drugs and prostitution. Sometimes, we crave something with a different flavour. What's so wrong in that?! @@Abishhhhh
This woman is absolutely captivating! I watch your interviews all the time Richelle you are remarkable and so beautifully spoken. Please bring her back for more
It sounds like she was a victim of family scapegoat abuse in addition to being born intersex. Geez she was dealt a rough hand! Seems like a strong & level-headed lady.
She said very plainly that she was always a female. She just had stupid people around her. (But not now). I live close to Indianapolis and Lafayette IN, and I would love her as a friend.
Yes,dealt with a lot of bs & she is still level headed
To say the least!
I get scapegoating as well.
She is a woman. She is not in some gray area between male and female.
I, Chucks wife commandered his phone to comment. I just fell in love with your truthfulness. You have been so candid about so many things that many of us lie consistently to ourselves about. You are incredibly forthright and honest about your life. You make no excuses. I would have loved to have seen you as an entertainer. I applaud you and wish you only the best. Your story will help so many people. Thank you.
What a life!!!! She can write a book or make a movie! Very uplifting and heartwarming! God bless this woman! 🙏🏽💕
Why do you invoke a god because someone bares their soul?
I love this woman! God bless her! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤❤❤
@@jabe3780why is your name jabe?
Why do you ask, goose?
I'd watch that movie
Wait…she was married at 28, married 17 years, cancer for 10 years, missionary work for 25 years….no idea how old she is but she’s beautiful.
What is her last name so I can look her up! What a fascinating story
wasn't is seven not seventeen years??
Yes married for 7 years.@@DaniStenko
I couldn't figure out her age either. Didn't add up or how old her son is.
@@DaniStenkoseven years when they adopted their son. She stayed with the scumbag another ten years. 7, plus ten, is seventeen.
“To thine own self be true”. Thank you Richelle, you are amazing indeed! Many people would let their beginnings define them! You stood up for yourself, had an awesome grandmother and saw yourself through cancer, an unhappy marriage and obtained your two degrees etc., etc, etc. girl, you have LiVED! Well Done! You are a wonderful force for good.
This woman is my new mentor and she gives me hope to continue to battle this horrible cancer that's filling my body. God bless you for your courage, strength and perseverance to face your lifetime of humiliation, fear and personal injury. I will remember you always and will continue to while I'm on this journey of mine. :) With love and kindness I send it your way.
Rachelle, I’m 70 years old and I admire the person you are! What a beautiful testimony! Tfs! Sending blessings to you! ❤🙏🏼😊🥰 You are beautiful, inside and out!
Boy this infuriates me what her crazy cruel parents put her through. No child should ever have to be a victim of such cruel ignorance.
This happens to many intersex people when they’re young. Even today.
@@breannalaughlin6002yes it does but far worse in the 60s as no one had the internet to read the truths,then they made their stories up ,as she said about those 4 people defaming her name.when she ran for office.
God bless her...❤
Remember so many did not understand what interested meant. The cruelty is unacceptable but the lack of knowledge is understandable.
@@breannalaughlin6002Not any worse than infant cercumcison.
Sometimes you think you have problems until you hear the problems of other people it's only the grace and mercy of God that brought this dear soul out of such a horror of hell, God bless you sis, God is still using you to give hope and assurance to others.
Richelle for taking the time to share your story. It'd be awesome to sit on the porch, drinking sweet tea, and listening to your stories😉 God Bless you!
Save me a chair! ❤
@@debramason1898 Same here ❤
Captivating
I'll bring my own chair and a casserole!
I’ll bring some strawberry lemonade in case the sweet tea runs out!
What broke my heart the most is how she talked about her parents. Getting beat for doing something she loved. How disfunctional and terrible. I want to give her a hug.
Mark must’ve loved this interview! Richelle is an awesome story teller, you just prompt her once and she tells you a fascinating tale minute by minute. Thank you for sharing your history, Richelle!
@@PhysicalGraffiti97 lactation can be medically induced - to a certain degree.
@@PhysicalGraffiti97omg dude google is your friend🤦♀️induced lactation has been around since antiquity, smooth brain. Just because you never heard of it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist💀
@@PhysicalGraffiti97
That came out of your butthole, estrogens and androgen have been synthetically produced and used in the medical community for well over 80 years.
@@PhysicalGraffiti97 It's hard work, but lactation can be induced. I know women who have breastfed their adopted children. Ask La Leche League about the process. And do your research...it was happening in the 70s for sure...I was there.
Amen ❤ @@maryansel932
This is probably the best story I've heard on softwhite underbelly
Same here🥰
I think this is what they call having
"True Grit."👍🏻😁
Me too
Same!
same! I love her straightforward honesty! And sass. Gotta love her
This story was really refreshing. Love Richelle’s sense of self and the way she assertively expresses it.
What an amazing story, told by an amazing story teller...❤❤ one of my favorite interviews on this channel hands down. Thanks for sharing your story. May God continue to bless you. 🙏💙
I have been watching your videos for a while now. This one is my favorite. The way Richelle spoke and held herself, you could really tell she has a strong spirit. She deserves all the love, happiness and content in the world. I pray she has that for the rest of her life 💚
Spot on the Best interview I Have watched on this Channel An Amazing Life Story from an amazing Lady A Real Star ⭐
One of the best interviews. Where is her book or movie?
I hope she is invited back for more interviews. I could listen to her stories for hours, even over the course of many days. She's so captivating!
She sure is. Not many people can keep my attention this long. The whole video.
Same @@candyflair7946
Theatre and music kids are truly the most inclusive, respectful and supportive people you’ll ever meet.
And yet she is not! She displays none of those characteristics!
I work in a highschool and this is 100% how the kids are in band and drama.
@@shelliesmith6564 how so?
@@stacyschuessler9028 hello thanks for your comment. Answer your question, I go over my answer each of the instances where I believe several instances
True. I was very happy my kids also gravitated toward music and theater kids.
It's insane that this women had to be raised this way. No love. No positive attention or affirmations. The fact that she's here telling her story is amazing.
Her marriage sounded similar to my mother and father's marriage. My mom is a very attractive, hard working, smart woman who stayed with a man who was not faithful and who sat back while she did all of the work. 15 years after they got married, she finally left him and never looked back. My dad blames their divorce on "women's lib"....smh.... The women of that time were bearing and raising kids, working, and doing most of the work at home. We (the younger generations) couldn't endure that life for one day. No wonder this poor woman got so sick. Her ex husbands lack of participation, lack of support and love caused her to carry way too much burden and also caused a lot of pain for his son. This is one of the strongest, kindest, most tolerant women I have ever had the privilege of hearing. Thank you for sharing her, Mark and thank you for telling us part of your story, Richelle. Much appreciation and love from Arizona.
Glad your mom had the gumption to leave. Good for her!
Its stil going on women bear the brunt of taking care of raising kids and all work that goes with it. Now they also are trying to jiggle full time jobs..overwhelming still for women. Still doing it all
I truly believe the female is the stronger of the genders. Of course not physically but emotionally and mentally.
Oh yeah, back in those days men loved to blame everything on ‘women’s lib’ just like the Incels today blame their inability to socialize on feminism. It’s so important that young women never forget how terrible it was before feminism, it can never go away.
Your story was my story. I lasted 19 years.
No one should judge anyone. Respect and kindness needs to be front and center. I'm so tired of all the hate. You're doing great. Good for you.
The Bible says otherwise contrary to popular belief. The Bible says to use righteous judgment.
What a woman! This is one of the most inspirational life stories I have ever heard. She went through so much suffering throughout her life, and still wanted to help others. She really is an Angel, but her wings are no longer broken.
Thank you for sharing with us Richelle ❤❤❤
This woman is bulletproof. I love her perspective. I’m so thankful she shared her story.
Lady you are a strong woman. I am an RN and have SLE been ill since 1993. Last few years have been pure torture….hell. You have a remarkable testimony. The lupus has put me in lt.sided heart failure. My life has not been easy by no means. Thank you for sharing. I have found more joy in my profound suffering. I am Lakota Sioux. Thank you for remembering the tribal children. Creator be the glory. Nothing better in this life than gratitude. I lost my only child in 2002. I miss him each day. I was born raised in LaGrange, IN. Currently, living in the PNW. Washington State to be exact. I have quite a story of my life too. You are a woman of integrity and outstanding mother. I wish you and your son well. ❤️🙏🌹
I hope this channel reads this and gives you a chance to tell you story ❤
Hi, I came acroos your comments and what really caught my
attention was I'm sorry for your loss and I want you to know
that you are not alone and life is too short not to share your testimony,
anyway we all have some challenges and trial somewhere in our lives.
Thank you, for sharing yourself to us..take care now..
@@weemarie1137 i am writing a book. Hope to have it out next year. The SLE make’s it difficult to accomplish goals. I feel it is important to share my life story. Perhaps will help others. We all agreed to come to earth with a mission. Even animals sign an agreement and cone with a mission. Earth and humanity are in a time of great changes. We must stay positive and in love & light. White buffalo calf born recently in Yellowstone. A sign to our Lakota and world that better days are ahead. We have a few tough times but will come through to the light. I would love to hear your story too. We are all related, my sister. I send you love, light and hugs. ❤️🙏🌹.
Agree amazing story. I have SLE, too. That is a hell in it's self.
Mark!!! This is hands down, THE best interview you've ever done! I am in awe of this sweet lady and her love and strength and compassion. My 2nd marriage was identical to hers and I still carry that pain every day, though its been 15 years since the divorce. Her resilience and courage to be led by God and heal her life is a true testimony of faith. I'm in tears from her words and I thank you both for sharing...wow...just wow. ❤
I clicked on this video thinking I’d watch a few minutes before heading off to work. Fast forward to me, sitting in my car, arriving to work late because I had to finish hearing her story. I know she’s not like Forrest Gump, but her story reminds me of a Forrest Gump type of story. So much living in her life. A lot of bad, but a lot of good. Could definitely see her story being put into book form or maybe even a movie. She has a gift of communicating when she speaks. I was riveted. Thanks for posting this!
I need to wake up soon for work… I’m awake needing to see the end! Lol
babyg****** me too I thought oh I'll watch 5 mins just to see....I didnt take my eyes off the screen,until it finished.
So many people have such privileged lives yet complain, moan,she pulled her socks up and showed everyone...this will not define me
Brave Intelligent gentle kind hearted woman,even after the start of life she had..
Shame on her parents she needed love not beatings.❤🙏🥰♥️
Me too! I need to go to the grocery store, but can't stop watching.
Oh please bring Richelle back for Part Two!❤
She's witty and interesting.
Yes!!
She needs a page on this internet.
Yes, please do a part two 🫵🏼🏁🫡 Thanks for Part One.
Ya, I think my most favorite interview & I've been on the channel for a long time
I smell a documentary
Captivated from beginning to end. Please come back.
I luv this interview!!! Very moving. What an amazing woman. Thanks so much Richelle and Mark for sharing.
A nurse, a counselor, a performer, a missionary, and an abuse survivor. Had zero encouragement from her parents as a child, was raised as the wrong sex, and still went on to do incredible things.
You forgot Philanthropist. lol
Somebody truly alive basically
@@ewap789 Yes!!!
@@friendbrookmeadows Oh, Yes, that, too!!!
God bless you Richelle for your faith and being the strong woman. I grew up in the 60’s too with strict parents who experienced abuse themselves. You are in my prayers
This woman Richelle, is a wonderful storyteller. Her degrees in psychology and belief in God may have helped her in regards to her ability to forgive and move on, to not go thru life with bitterness or a chip on her shoulder, but rather treat others with the kindness and love she hadn't received. I hope someone along the way someone does encourage her to write a book about her life, filled with humor and love, like her story. And you Mark, should welcome her back for a part 2 and part 3 focusing on the insight she's gleaned thru the years of dealing with all the different folks along the way. Great interview!
What a beautiful soul..I could listen to her all day ! Have her back on one day..I would love to hear more of whatever she has to say..Rough childhood but never made any excuses..She’s a rose that grew from the concrete..Bless her heart 🖤
"... a rose that grew from the concrete..."! I love that.
@@DrummerGrl001 thank u 😊
Richelle, you are BEAUTIFUL. I wish you would create your own You Tube channel so we could all continue hearing your testimony. This video wasn't long enough! You made sweet lemonade out of rotten, sour lemons. I've been in a very negative life loop recently and you have inspired me today. Thank you Mark, for sharing this amazing human being with us all. Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU!!! With faith, anything is possible!
I was rivitted, what a great story teller. I could listen to her for hours. Thank you for sharing your story.
This lady is smazingly classy. You can't pity her bc she has come out on top. This all had to happen. This is what made her who she is now. Her ex husband put it the best. She's "an angel with broken wings." I cried throughout this whole interview, and when I wasn't crying, I had a knot on my throat. This was so overwhelming for my spirit and soul. God bless you, ma'am!
I sat here, watched this episode, was angry, cried, was thankful for grandparents, admired the fortitude of this beautiful woman and now I just want to give her a hug and protect her. It’s not about me but I am so emotionally drained. She deserves a life full of peace, love, and many. many hugs.
In my humble opinion, Richelle does NOT need protecting. She is no longer that little girl. She is grown, mature, highly educated, and free to be herself.
I think it's narcissistic to think she needs you to protect her.
Mark, plz bring her back so we can learn more about this smart lady. What a life she has led. She’s an inspiration to anyone facing adversity in life.
Wow! This woman had a powerful testimony! A real inspiration to me. I was feeling in the dumps, but this woman has inspired me to keep moving. I was married to a narcissist also and I love what she said about her only regret was staying too long with her narcissist. A breath of fresh air to me because i often wondered about that.
Another absolutely impressive, strong, non-moaning non-whining woman, doing and giving instead of expecting. God bless her (and you, Mark, for giving her space and time).
What an extraordinary story - and she ‘didn’t even tell half of it’ So inspiring, yet such a simple message, be true to oneself. Thank You!
Richelle is a wonderful storyteller. Her answer to what was the greatest thing she learned was the icing on the cake! Strong lady! Wish her all the best! 💪💖
Richelle is just too darn precious! She is a tough cookie and I love it! Thanks a bunch for interviewing her Mark. More of folks like her please. The older, the wiser, the better.
Thank you Richelle and Mark for this incredible interview. I'm glad I got to meet Richelle and hear her life story. She's a true American in every way.
The general public is SEVERELY undereducated when it comes to knowing about intersex. Quite sad everything this lady has had to endure due to ignorance. I wish her the best
BRAVO🙏
I believe the term Hermaphroditism
Birth defect. But now parents discuss with Docs
Agreed. Im 63, and this was the first i hv ever heard this term.
The right-wing anti-LGBT morons in particular could learn something from watching this. Nature can be sometimes be nuanced when it comes to gender - it's not as black and white as they seem to believe
@@cozettalandry3429 It used to be but that term is considered ignorant and not used any more.
Casually clicked on and couldn't stop watching. Compelling. And a story that should be shared.
I'm from Indiana, my mother is from Kentucky, she had a hard hard life. My parents where good but really tough. I relate to this woman soo much. I just wanna give her a hug.
I relate, too. Parents from Ky. Things are either black or white.
Richelle, your interview was life changing for me. Thank you sharing so boldly and bravely.
She's an amazing story teller. I would definitely like to hear more from her.
One of my favorite interviews so far. Thank you Richelle, thank you Mark
Richelle, your life story is incredibly moving and powerful. The resilience, authenticity and grace you have shown in the face of such profound challenges is tremendously inspiring. Thank you for so openly sharing your journey of self-discovery and embracing your true identity despite the societal barriers and personal hardships you faced. Your unshakeable commitment to living as your genuine self, while still extending kindness to others, provides an uplifting example for all. Though the path was not easy, your perseverance paid off in finding wholeness, purpose and joy. Thank you for using your voice to raise awareness - your candor will surely help others feel less alone. Wishing you continued happiness and fulfillment.🙏🏻❤️
I’ve watched dozens & dozens of your interviews & this, by far, will stand out to be the best, most inspiring one of all. I hope she writes a book someday bc her message is clear & concise. What a strong, lovely lady is she.
I love your interview style bc you always know when to ask questions & when to just let your subject carry the conversation themselves. There’s a humility in that which makes you so endearing, imho. Thanks so much for a wonderful interview.
Do you know if she can be found online, perhaps videos of her singing or being in plays? Thanks.
she's amazing👠 bring Richelle back for Part Two
I loved this interview ❤️!!
So much faith and resilience Richelle had. Thank you for giving these beautiful humans a platform to share their story!!
My nephew is intersex. He was born with ovaries, and internal female things. His testosterone levels were high. After many surgeries, they removed the internal female stuff. He had one viable testicle which was descended. Many surgeries on his urinary tract and what is now a penis. He’s all boy. He’s ten now, and happy and well adjusted. He had amazing physicians, and well educated parents who took advice from grown intersex people, as well as doctors.
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please excuse a forward question, but how did they know that removing the ovaries was the right thing to do? as opposed to removing the testicle or just leaving the child to grow up naturally as long as everything was healthy and functioned okay?
@@gmle843 great question
that's a female then
Having worked for a medical Genetics office, there were many women in the Westchester NY area who were giving birth to children with "Ambiguous Genitalia".
I was absolutely captivated by this strong women's amazing story and so impressed at her strength getting through her trials. I felt so sad at how she was treated and the next minute smiling at many of her comments. This interview was so deep, her no nonsense, honest and caring personality really came through.
This is one of the best interviews on this channel. In spite of challenges this woman was able to find joy and meaning in life. Through Christ.
Richelle, I'm the oldest and suffered alot of abuse growing up to. We're more alike than people think. I'm so sorry you suffered through all of this. I know what's it's like to be an outcast, I'm 6ft tall, i know what it's like to be bullied. I'm so glad you survived all of this. You deserve a great life. I hope you know this. ❤❤❤❤
That is one thing I do not understand. How a family can treat one kid so differently than all the rest
They treated her like crap because she was not the son they wanted. :( The others fit into the parents' mold of what boys should be.
My mother treated my sister exactly opposite of me. I was her punching bag. Little sister was her angel. It happens every frikin day.
This is a very interesting video to me I’m 56 years old and my mom would always tell me her stories of how her mom always treated her like the black sheep and treated her sister like a princess..very disturbing for me to hear my momma’s stories 😢
Scapegoat Theory - as related to family dynamics.
It happens.. unfortunately..
What a woman! She got through all her life's hardships and still stands up strong without moaning. Great inspiration!!!
Im about to attend ny 50th reunion, so Richelle and I are about the same age. What a remarkable woman and mother. Through abuse, being made fun of, an "unfaithful" husband, shes come through it with her trust in God. She's an accomplished and humble woman. Keep shining, Richelle 🤍
a bigot !
@@sarahvanwynendaele2265what???
@@sarahvanwynendaele2265explain how Sarah
This is a great interview. She has very good story telling skills. She worded everything great and made it an easy thing to listen too. She seems like a great person too !
She has so much to offer - I haven't laughed as much (and I know much of her story was NOT humorous) in such a long time. Thank You for sharing all that you have to us.
What an amazing story teller. She should write a book. Wish her continued blessed life🙏🏾
My grandmother raised my father as a precious little girl. Beautiful pictures in dresses. At puberty, he rebelled by throwing eggs at the walls. She let him dress like a boy after that, but always told everyone he was a very very bad boy... he was the best daddy ever... rest in peace now daddy...❤❤❤
I read your comments a lot and I must say - your life sounds absolutely bonkers! It's a miracle you're here ❤
I'm confused
Vile.
Her mother was a jealous old ****..imagine wanting to hurt your kids 😡😡 shameful.
Coocoo
Beautiful lady with a beautiful soul. I love her outlook and wisdom on life after everything she’s gone through. She’s such a comfort.
What a beautiful strong woman, she should be proud of herself, thank you mark 😊❤❤
This was a moving story. Thank you for sharing Richelle. You have given me some faith to dig deeper into the Christian walk and I appreciate that. 🙂
THAT is an amazing journey Richelle has gone through. God has blessed her in so many ways and brought her through all the drama and trauma and she has done so much for others. I pray He will continue blessing her.
This story made me SO emotional, thank you, Richelle for sharing your story. You are amazing, and a gift to the people around you.
What a fantastic interview this was!
If Richelle ever reads these comments, I want to say that we need more people like you in this world! You are one of the strongest people that I have ever listened to. Your son is a lucky man! ♥
Indeed! Strong and tender-hearted.
Omg I love this woman. Please bring her back so we can hear even more of her story!