İI can sometimes be the insecurity or depressive attitudes of the person.I had a girlfriend who could cry from even a little thing.I don't totally blame her though,the way she grew up may had caused to that but after moving on you start to realize you're neither a doctor nor a psychotherapist for the depressed and pessimistic ones,it is not a healthy relationship
Taylor Bruno Moses you’ve been through many breakups in the last couple of months? No , you haven’t been even in a relationship in a couple of months, never mind many, get out of here. Your comment makes you look like a jerk compared to people who are in actual long term relationships and are truly suffering. At best you’ve dated many people in a couple of months.
Truth Magpie had that feeling after every argument, but kept pushing the thought away because i thought that was me giving up and not putting in enough effort to make it work
@@mermaidcirianneaqua Ikr! That guilt is so fucked up! I wish there was someone who'd tell us when it's enough, and you actually have given your 100%. So it's okay to let go. Ugh
Bro, i consider breaking up like a month before i actually broke up with my ex, now i think it would be ten times better broke up with her the very first time i think about it.
Summary of the video: 1. They've betrayed your trust 2. They refuse to change 3. You're holding each other back 4. You're always fighting 5. Your needs aren't being met 6. You've drifted apart 7. You don't see the point anymore 8. They stop making an effort
I've noticed these signs between my girlfriend and I and I've been thinking about calling it off but it's so hard to do for some reason even though our conversations are more like awkward interactions
Don't judge yourself too early in a relationship. Every relationship goes though a level of discomfort. But if you see efforts coming from just one side, maybe it's time.
@@kaybadberg534 No, I don't think so. When we start off the path of doing something new, anxiety is natural. It's important to understand the source of anxiety, keep writing about your thoughts and communicate effectively. Also, If you are studying, maintain a timetable every day so that you are able to focus on all the things
Ive been in a relationship for 2 months now. I feel like im putting in the effort & the other isn’t. And when I explain myself, my SO gets upset & makes me feel bad. Idk what to do.
Keep in mind: all of these issues are things that happen over time and behaviors are not changing and looks like they won’t. Don’t mistake these signs for a simple fight or the basic up and down of a relationship. No relationship will work if both aren’t working together
I’ve been in a relationship for almost 2 years, and it’s pretty good, we don’t fight much, we always try to understand each other. There’s not anything super bad in it, I just feel disconnected. I’ve been thinking if I really want this relationship for a long time, but she always seems to be so secure about our future, that I feel bad about thinking otherwise and just put those feelings aside. I am lying to her, and that breaks my heart to discover. I will talk to her in some days, because today is new years eve, and I don’t want to end a shitty year this way.
Same here bud. That's me but here the future oriented is my boyfriend. I told him today that love for him doesn't come naturally to me, and it already feels shitty. I still haven't been able to do it. God!
I didn't want to let go of my relationship, constantly wanting it to be how they used to be. Broke up with him this week and the pain is just so raw! We can shut off the things we don't want to hear or see but we can't shut off with how we feel. 😭😭😭
For me, I get lonely sometimes... Whenever my old female friend is not texting me back for months now... It's.. just that.. I'm already just a lonely person tbh... 😔💧
A year ago, I had to make an important decision to end things. I thought we were going well actually, but I realized at some point that something felt off. We were drifting apart. He was avoiding interactions and kept hiding secrets. I felt bad everytime we had a fight. One day, I realized that I wasn't happy as before (and it's all thanks to a Psych2Go video!!) I mourned at the reality that the past four years were wasted. I watched a lot of Psych2Go vids to help myself cope. And you know what? Soon, I realized that there was no point in holding on to the past any longer. And I'm glad I let go. Now, a year later, I realized how stupid I was to hold on to something just because I was sentimental about the 4 years. One year being single opened a lot of doors and finally, catching up with friends whom I took for granted. And recently, I met someone who treated me better.
For me, it's not that I don't love them, I love being their friend and I love hanging out with them. But as a friend, I want some time to figure out myself and my mental health and I need to focus on myself and I can't do that when I'm dating someone no matter how hard I try because I'll put them over myself.
Started thinking about how I broke up with my ex and got into dating someone exclusive. This video made me realize I made a great decision leaving my ex who emotionally/mentally abusive, didn't want to change, quit smoking, or do more in life. The new person I met is the total opposite and I'm so much happier
The fact that you’re even taking the time to look up videos like this is the REAL & ONLY TRUE SIGN/REASON that you need to know when to break up with your partner!!
I'm here because I've got a 7 year relationship I've had for most of my dating life... I always thought we'd get married and stay together and ever since I proposed she's just been... odd. She doesn't talk to me, look at me, she just looks tired and the only time she looks happy is when she goes out with friends
I was searching for advice on how to actually do the deed. She is really not going to take it well and I just want to make it as clean and painless as possible for both of us
Packed with some truth. If you’re the only one trying to make the relationship work then it’s best to leave. It will only erode your self esteem and hurt you in the end. Needed this.
Number 7 really hit home for me, it was the reason I had to end things between me and my now Ex. The hardest part is now dealing with missing that relationship and those emotions and feelings and even worse was they thought we were doing great, better than ever. Which only screamed more to me how they didnt recognize the relationship.
Agreed :( I love to hug him and all that mind you I’m not like that with anyone BUT him but he says I’m clingy :/ and I feel like he doesn’t spend time with me but he always does little things to help me out and that’s his way of showing love :/
Honestly, this is one of the things that makes me the most anxious and depressed in my relationship. I'm much more physically affectionate, whereas my partner is much more distant and opposed to physical contact. It can have a much greater effect on your mental health and your relationship than you would expect.
I was in a 5 year relationship and these are the things me and him encountered 1. They've betrayed your trust - Him (He Cheated, Twice) 2. They refuse to change - Me (Im really stubborn 😑) 3. You're holding each other back - Him (I really wanted to pursue my passion in performing but the thought of him not liking the aftermaths holds me back) 4. You're always fighting - he gets upset even with the slightest reason 5. Your needs arent being met - I'm guilty of not giving him enough 6. You've drifted Apart - We wanted different things as we grow 7. You dont see the point anymore - I dont see the point in continuing the relationship but I do high hopes that we fix ourselves apart, and might save the relarionship in the future. 8. Stopped making Effort - Me. I stopped. I just got tired of our fights every single day In conclusion, both of us have faults causing our brakeup. But I still feel a strong connection between us that might give us another chance in the future. I hope.
You can always find a million reasons to break up with someone...Find the reasons to stay together, unless you want to constatly change your partner thinking "I can find better" and then end up alone
Trying to forgive and trust again is the hardest shit when the one you love betrayed you but your the one who pushed them away first. Everything is sensitive to you both. You know you enjoy each other’s company but that gnawing itch in the back of your mind, “I want to trust but what we had before feels destroyed. Is it worth rebuilding?”. Truth is, it’s up to you to decide if it’s worth your time to rebuild with someone when you both destroyed each other.
*Me clicking this because me and my girlfriend don't really talk in general* Me: I'm sure it'll be fi--- 'You've drifted apart' 'You don't see the point anymore.' Me: *chokes*
my relationship feels like a painting. you try and than you’re noticing you failed a little and do it again and again. at some point you don’t won’t to throw it away, bc there is a chance to make it beautiful. after pain and truth i notice it’s sometimes easier to throw a painting bc to much were failed that it could be more than just ‚ok‘. and that’s not on giving up.
I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and his replies were just "ok" We talked about the situation that was bothering me, so we got back together and fixed things between us :)
This video is mostly for love relationships but I find this so relatable to my normal friendship with my 'friend'. I've had enough of her and can't deal with her anymore. I'm unfriending her for good. Thanks Psych2Go.
I just ended a 10 year marriage with my wife. It’s really scary like really scary. There have been times when I thought about getting back together because “the devil you know is better than the one you don’t” (she not the devil, it’s just an expression lol) it’s also really difficult because we have 3 kids so we’re constantly interacting too. Her and mine relationship fit almost every single point here. This is for the one who’s watching this wondering if they should or shouldn’t have that HARD conversation...you are most definitely WORTH it. When you’re on your deathbed no one is gonna give you a medal for throwing your life away. Yes it’s scary but speaking as someone on the other side of it...I was the best decision I ever made. You will get through this. If I can you can too... good luck
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The hardest part for me is seeing that all of these things are probably what my girlfriend sees in me. I think I’m the one who deserves to be broken up with
Just as I’m thinking about breaking up with my bf this video gets uploaded- I really like him and he’s done nothing wrong but I just don’t see him as a boyfriend and more as a friend :( But I don’t want to hurt him
N H L S T i was in the same situation...it's not about hurting others or not knowing what you really want..people can just stop feeling love for another person, it happens to couples who've been together for years and years, i'm sure they didn't breakup because they didn't know what they wanted. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
JustaRandomGal _ yes, but continuing to get with people just to drop them when you get bored of them isnt healthy either. Its our culture of FOMO and unrealistic standards that makes people fall out of love so easily.
I've experienced exactly all these points in my married life. Gave too many chances only to be taken for granted and mentally all drained out in the end. Made a firm choice of cutting him off for once. Moving on happily now😊✌️
I feel these 8 reasons, yet its still hard to leave him. but just did it. required bravery but this short term suffering will bring me the long term happiness and stability that i truly deserve. and you deserve that too!
I love the Video but pleaasssee make a video about insecurity in relationships. I'm sort of having trouble coping up with insecurity despite us not having any troubles whatsoever. Ps. We communicate and acknowledge that both of us are insecure about something in the relationship yet after a while we somehow go back to that insecure state and honestly...we're both pretty much confused now.
You know what sucks the most?.. It sucks when you lost a person, that meant a literally WORLD to you, that were reason of ur smile and now, the same person is reason of your TEARS like oh damn itt lifee why me?? My stupid heart can't get some things :/
This channel is psychic I tell you!... I was _just_ responding to a Psych2Go comment when they responded to my comment in their "9 reasons you're lonely" video. I said my roommate said I have a problem with codependency with my soulmate who's now dating someone else... & then not 1 minute later this video pops up!
Wow, hesitated clicking just because of knowing I truly love this person and they do the same back but clicked because of curiosity. Glad I clicked because all situations explained were answered with a no. Anxiety is the issue. Great video and happy to be where I am with who I’m with. Thank you
I just recently broke up with my partner after 1,5 years. We hold each other back and have to figure things out Seperated. It’s hard and I second guess it every other day. I hope I’ll figure things out soon.
@@raynashaikh6841 oh i already forgot about this comment. Thanks for asking tho! I am great. They tried to get back with me after I broke it off but it just made me realize that I don’t feel good being with them. They didn’t make me feel good about myself and who I was; in the end it was just toxic and i am grateful to myself that I left for good one day. It’s sometimes terrifying to live without this person that was a part of your life for a significant time. But it’s also very freeing in a way.
@@blu3poisonfrog wow thanks for the reply!! I’m in the same situation and I just broke up with my partner of 2 years. It’s hurts like hell but I know he’s not good for me. As much as I want to get back together with him, I want to be free also. I hope I also soon will get over the pain and figure things out. Your comment gives me so much hope thank you :)
@@raynashaikh6841 of course! I understand you very well. You put yourself out there in this relationship and then reaching this decision is never easy or without hurt. But I am sure that you will feel better soon and there are a lot of people in your future that are waiting for you. People that won’t let you feel bad about yourself. :)
The 5th reason is the reason why I broke up with my boyfriend today, we went from talking hours a day to them sending me a message or 2 a day, and he never spends time with me anymore and I tried to get him to spend more time with me but he refuses to make the effort Edit: we are just friends now
Someone broke my heart almost 4 months ago by breaking up with me and it's not the first time I click on a video like this to actually see how broken I am and how much I fucked up but in the end I see I was not the only one that was broken in this relationship. It's weirdly reassuring...
Now I want a video for "8 reasons not to break up with someone" just for some positivity 😉 I love this video tho❤ Your videos have helped me so much...thank you so much😁😁 Edit: omg thank you so much, I've never had this many likes...😳😳
My girlfriend broke up with me because she said she was depressed and needed to have time for herself. I've finally excepted that it wasn't my fault and am trying my best to move on from it. Its sad when things just don't work out, even though you thought it was going to.
I really needed to hear this. I just got out of a rough relationship... I wasn’t sure if I should apologize and give him another chance after all he did... he broke my trust, lied multiple times, didn’t meet my needs, he refused to give up a bad habit, I moved out after he got angry and told me to get out. He stopped making an effort and then after I gave him a second chance he stopped again. I didn’t want to break up with him because I loved him... we were planning our wedding... I almost felt obligated to stay with him because he has helped me some but in the end he was doing more damage than good. It was time for us to go our separate ways even if that’s hard to do.
I’m so confused... :( I feel like my partner doesn’t respect me when we get upset .. & I feel like I’m starting to back off & it hurts me more bc I don’t want too.
Are you ok now ?? I can relate to you and want to know if you are ok now. I too dont want to end my relationship. But he doesn't respect me. So gotta do!
@@JENA170 thats good to hear that you are doing fine. Sometimes one can care about a stranger too just like i was thinking about your pain. And Yes, I am happy right now ! !!!
Anytime I express my hurt feelings, no matter how I try to present it, I always end up wrong, hung up on, and ghosted. Sometimes I’m the one apologizing based off of having my feelings hurt. I’m tired. I even found him messaging a girl who didn’t know me, calling me toxic and he told her that he appreciated her…he’s never said he appreciated me for anything
He is Absent most of the time. When he is present it feels like a (...). I have confronted him but he refuses to see what is in front of his face! He reckons he has done nothing Wrong! It's driving me "Crazy"!!! This Video hits Home!!!
Uch. I held (and tend to hold) on to relationships for way too long. It bit me in the butt this last time in a completely self-destructive way that ruined, at least temporarily, my career. I'm slowly crawling out of it, but I wish I would have be honest enough with myself to let it end better. It hurts way more now then it needed to.
Mine were reasons 3, 5 and 8, first love and toughest situation i had to go through when we decided to break up. But its true that going trhough this break up molded me into a better and wiser person, and in the end, summing things up, i had a blast and i will keep precious memories in my heart ❤
It's so hard to make this choice because I would leave everything behind all the memories all the good times and I still care but the fights keep getting more frequent and worse but I still love them
I'm in a situation where every single thing is relevant. We've been together, for more than ten years. Everything, honestly, is one sided. Mine was trying anything and everything. His was, (for the last 6 years), his career/jobs. To the point where because he now works from home, I don't have a bedroom and I'm sleeping on an air mattress in my converted mudroom. I've been like that for many, many months. He refuses to clean up the bedroom space, is making no effort. ( I have multiple sclerosis so sleeping like this, is he'll. And there are mice I have to deal with to. Including their waste). There are many other things that are really bad to. To many to list. Mostly what me and a few others, know, is mental and emotional abuse. He says it all because of his "social awkwardness". I don't buy it. That his reasoning for ignoring me in person and on text. There's a really cruel example of something I was "punished" for. Won't go into that now. I have seperated myself. ( My house is comparitively big). With the current situation and a few other factors, I'm not able to move out. I am generally a joyful person. Even now. Still. He will NOT steal my joy. I had hoped, he could atleast stay a friend, like my other exes. I have other people relying on me, to stay in this house, so it's very, very complicated. Anyway, sorry for rambling on!!! Hope everyone else is safe and well. Love to all. Have a positive day!!🌞 ( Sorry for any typos).
Hay Psych2go we get so many videos about how a relationship is bad or good, but we don’t get enough videos about how to heal a fractured relationship. Can your next video be about not just recognizing the signs but how to take action or heal a broken relationship?
I was crying about this today. I feel so heartbroken like my heart hurts so bad it’s gonna stop. I HATE being the one that gives everything and get nothing in return. NEVER AGAIN. This is last time I’m allowing myself to break. THIS IS MY LAST HEARTBREAK.
I realized that my boyfriend always wants to talk to me 24/7 and whenever I don’t because I just want to be alone, he texts me like I did something wrong, it makes me feel guilty....
@@Blesshansen i told my friends so many times.. But it's so hard.. I live with him and don't have the new apartment yet.. And its literally taking forever. I mean I'm waiting for almost a year now.. 😅
My past bf knew I was bi and still use "gay" to describe something negative :/ Said he supported me but didn't really seem to give an effort in it or acknowledge it other than "idc that ur bi but dont talk about it around my family they're not too accepting." I appreciated the warning and concern the first time but he kept bringing it up every time as if the first thing I'm going to say whenever I see his parents is "hi I'm bisexual." He was sweet and we had a lot in common but....this was one of the things that broke it for me sadly. And I feel so bad for breaking it off....
This happened just three months ago. It was the first person where I had the feeling I could end up in a relationship with (I'm 21). Everything was fine at first. At our 2nd date we started to feel the sparks. Shortly after, she confessed she was still in a relationship. I was shocked and deeply hurt. I felt used and traited. She said she's been wanting to break up with him for months but was afraid to do so because he emotionally and physically abuses her and didn't know what could happen if she broke up. She apologized deeply with beautiful words and begged me for another meeting to talk it out. I could kind of relate to her situation, though I still found it disgusting to hook up with someone while you're in a relationship. Her words were so convincing though that I decided to give her another chance. We talked it out, I told her she must break up with him otherwise I'm gone. She agreed but wanted me to give her time which I understood. And I supported her. This date (after the talk) was beautiful. It almost felt like it was perfection. I forgave her and we were much much closer than before. Although the situation with her boyfriend gave me a lot of pain plus the terrible things that he does/did to her made me suffer on top. After this things became weird. She seemed distant in chatting and barely texted me anymore on her own. So I talked to her about it. She said she didn't do well because there's so much on her head, then the boyfriend and then there's me and me suffering and professional school. I told her I understand but I demand to talk to me about her thoughts and worries. That's how it works. Didn't really change much. Several weeks passed and she still didn't break up with her boyfriend. So I asked if she still wanted to be together with me or not. She said she does but she needs time. The upcoming 2 dates she declined or had some lame excuses (migraine). This whole mess gave me so much emotional pain that I decided to cut it off. She just wasn't ready for something new. She also had some mental health issues without meaning it negatively (I do too). It would have destroyed me even if she managed to break up with him. I know she really liked me but it wasn't enough to overweigh the rest. I'm still not completely over it. What's fucking with my head is that she visits the same professional school as I do. I didn't see her since because we have bullshit schedules. I sometimes think about what if and what could happen if I talked to her again. But that might just be me being lonely.
My fiancé started out in our relationship as a gentle, kind, selfless person who would work with me through issues without judgement. He broke my trust when I had to beg him for 10 months to get a job, and he only got one after I had a stress-induced mental breakdown. He wants to pay me back for 10 months to make up for all I spent, but I don’t want money. I don’t care about money. He apologizes to me, but it just doesn’t feel genuine. He really hurt me. I lost faith in him. And when I had a conversation with him recently about him constantly staying in our bedroom playing video games with his friends and that I just wanted to spend more time with him, he became aggressive. He said “I’m sorry you aren’t content with how your life is right now, but I am. I just want to enjoy time with my friends, and I’m content with my life and how things are.” He’s right. I’m not content, and he’s making it worse. I just... feel fed up. I have been with him for almost 4 years. Enough is enough, but when am I going to have the courage to say it?
One of my main reasons is my needs are not being met and the words that are said. I was exhausted mentally in putting up with the pickering and harsh words that are used.
I truly don’t even know why I’m still in this relationship. Even before we were dating, I was the only one making an effort in our friendship. I know almost everything about him, but he’s never asked me anything. He has no clue what my interests are. I confused the constant struggle to get to know him + being around him so often, as feelings. If I don’t start the conversation, there won’t be one at all. He’s kind at times, but not very conscientious. It’s more like cluelessness/unawareness. He’s also pointed out features about my body, such as my face and weight (I’m 110lb and 5’5”). I feel like they aren’t insults, but he just points them out like “wow you’re really heavy” or “yeah those are just the scars”(when someone said I had something on my face. I have no idea how to set boundaries and I feel like the one in the wrong for not letting him know what’s bugging me. I really don’t know what to make of what’s going on. I hope I can figure it out soon though.
I don’t want to admit it! Yes, every reason provided fits my relationship. 😭💔 This hurts me so much and I know I’ve been avoiding this and continuing to give it my all. 😔💔
I used this as a 'was my last breakup the right thing to do' and it kinda worked. Maybe it could be a video on its own but either way this video helped out, thank you!
Thanks for this video. My ex broke up with me because I didn't like his bad habits like smoking, drinking, weed, heavy parties and stuff like that but I supported him on everything else (projects, college, career, family, hobbies, etc). He made me feel so guilty about me wanting to change him, when I only expressed him how I felt about his habbits and tried to show him better options like meditation, working out, etc. It really hurted me seeing him doing that kind of stuff but he kept on doing it infront of me and behind my back knowing how bad it made me feel and that led me to having a lot of anxiety and bad mood most of the time, and he would also made me feel kind of guilty for it even tho I started to go to therapy but he would do nothing. I felt guilty for so long after the breakup, I was always thinking that it was my fault because I wanted him to change the smoking and drinking, because of the anxiety I had, etc but then I realised that was what he made me think and it was not my fault, sure I'm not perfect, but I did the best I could with good intentions and he took it another way.
Who’s breaking up with pizza today? Comment below.
Unfortunately-
Not me
Not me I LOVE PIZZA
NEVER!
I guess I have to love it more instead 😅
If you are always crying in a relationship, stop and ask yourself if you're dating a person or an onion
Not an onion. Definitely an alien.
stop making me cry🥺
İI can sometimes be the insecurity or depressive attitudes of the person.I had a girlfriend who could cry from even a little thing.I don't totally blame her though,the way she grew up may had caused to that but after moving on you start to realize you're neither a doctor nor a psychotherapist for the depressed and pessimistic ones,it is not a healthy relationship
It could just be anxiety and depression getting in the way
Shit I’m dating an onion
Funny how many of us already know what we should do, yet we really want external validation for what we internally already know.
I can't agree more. Been through too many break ups in the last couple of months I am beginning to think I am the problem
I can't agree more. Been through too many break ups in the last couple of months I am beginning to think I am the problem
How come it doesn't feel right even though I know it is right?:(
Taylor Bruno Moses you’ve been through many breakups in the last couple of months? No , you haven’t been even in a relationship in a couple of months, never mind many, get out of here. Your comment makes you look like a jerk compared to people who are in actual long term relationships and are truly suffering. At best you’ve dated many people in a couple of months.
@@rmbalay7291 same 😔
Pro tip: Break up with someone if you keep considering breaking up with them
Truth Magpie had that feeling after every argument, but kept pushing the thought away because i thought that was me giving up and not putting in enough effort to make it work
@@mermaidcirianneaqua SAME
@@mermaidcirianneaqua Ikr! That guilt is so fucked up! I wish there was someone who'd tell us when it's enough, and you actually have given your 100%. So it's okay to let go. Ugh
Bro, i consider breaking up like a month before i actually broke up with my ex, now i think it would be ten times better broke up with her the very first time i think about it.
👏👏👏👏
Summary of the video:
1. They've betrayed your trust
2. They refuse to change
3. You're holding each other back
4. You're always fighting
5. Your needs aren't being met
6. You've drifted apart
7. You don't see the point anymore
8. They stop making an effort
Spot on the story of my life :(
Welp its time for a break up with my friend :l
And ty
Heyyy its Layla! !! Haha saaammeeee
I've noticed these signs between my girlfriend and I and I've been thinking about calling it off but it's so hard to do for some reason even though our conversations are more like awkward interactions
@@themenwriteinthesugar7643 True bro it's hard
I really don't miss the person but what I really miss was the memories and moments.
That's exactly how I felt about my ex friend. 😂😭🤧
You said right!
@Jennifer Ayala 😂😂
@@ginthemaid112 same🥺
Yep. I understand
“Letting go means to come to the realization that some people are a part of your history, but not a part of your destiny.”
― Steve Maraboli
Don't judge yourself too early in a relationship. Every relationship goes though a level of discomfort. But if you see efforts coming from just one side, maybe it's time.
thank you so much. this is so true
@@sincerelysophiak It's my pleasure. Do subscribe to my UA-cam channel for more updates
I’m having severe anxiety at the beginning of this relationship and it’s affecting my school work. Should I break it off?
@@kaybadberg534 No, I don't think so. When we start off the path of doing something new, anxiety is natural. It's important to understand the source of anxiety, keep writing about your thoughts and communicate effectively. Also, If you are studying, maintain a timetable every day so that you are able to focus on all the things
Ive been in a relationship for 2 months now. I feel like im putting in the effort & the other isn’t. And when I explain myself, my SO gets upset & makes me feel bad. Idk what to do.
“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”
― Eleanor Roosevelt
A very powerful quote!
Did she literally quoted Epictetus saying “no one can harm you without your consent” smh
I didnt know I needed this lmao, thx
That hit me hard
@@gabrielleaisya1848 would you give consent for someone to harm you????
It's better to be alone, than with the wrong guy.
Keep in mind: all of these issues are things that happen over time and behaviors are not changing and looks like they won’t. Don’t mistake these signs for a simple fight or the basic up and down of a relationship. No relationship will work if both aren’t working together
The worst feeling is watching these videos knowing you can't/won't change anything.. life is hell
Wow....yes!!!
I’ve been in a relationship for almost 2 years, and it’s pretty good, we don’t fight much, we always try to understand each other. There’s not anything super bad in it, I just feel disconnected.
I’ve been thinking if I really want this relationship for a long time, but she always seems to be so secure about our future, that I feel bad about thinking otherwise and just put those feelings aside.
I am lying to her, and that breaks my heart to discover. I will talk to her in some days, because today is new years eve, and I don’t want to end a shitty year this way.
How did it go?
Same here bud. That's me but here the future oriented is my boyfriend. I told him today that love for him doesn't come naturally to me, and it already feels shitty. I still haven't been able to do it. God!
How did it go?
I didn't want to let go of my relationship, constantly wanting it to be how they used to be. Broke up with him this week and the pain is just so raw! We can shut off the things we don't want to hear or see but we can't shut off with how we feel. 😭😭😭
It hurts but you'll get better ❤
For me, I get lonely sometimes... Whenever my old female friend is not texting me back for months now... It's.. just that.. I'm already just a lonely person tbh... 😔💧
@pwl how do you feel now ?
memories are everywhere. You just cant escape them!
Leaving someone is not easy because we have to evaluate ourselves and make sure we are not the problem.
A year ago, I had to make an important decision to end things. I thought we were going well actually, but I realized at some point that something felt off.
We were drifting apart. He was avoiding interactions and kept hiding secrets. I felt bad everytime we had a fight.
One day, I realized that I wasn't happy as before (and it's all thanks to a Psych2Go video!!) I mourned at the reality that the past four years were wasted. I watched a lot of Psych2Go vids to help myself cope.
And you know what? Soon, I realized that there was no point in holding on to the past any longer. And I'm glad I let go.
Now, a year later, I realized how stupid I was to hold on to something just because I was sentimental about the 4 years. One year being single opened a lot of doors and finally, catching up with friends whom I took for granted.
And recently, I met someone who treated me better.
happy for you :> ♡
Aww that's so awesome. ❤
Summer Hues im so happy for you girl!
😊🤗
🥰
For me, it's not that I don't love them, I love being their friend and I love hanging out with them. But as a friend, I want some time to figure out myself and my mental health and I need to focus on myself and I can't do that when I'm dating someone no matter how hard I try because I'll put them over myself.
Started thinking about how I broke up with my ex and got into dating someone exclusive. This video made me realize I made a great decision leaving my ex who emotionally/mentally abusive, didn't want to change, quit smoking, or do more in life. The new person I met is the total opposite and I'm so much happier
Good for you
The fact that you’re even taking the time to look up videos like this is the REAL & ONLY TRUE SIGN/REASON that you need to know when to break up with your partner!!
You’re right
I'm here because I've got a 7 year relationship I've had for most of my dating life... I always thought we'd get married and stay together and ever since I proposed she's just been... odd. She doesn't talk to me, look at me, she just looks tired and the only time she looks happy is when she goes out with friends
My gf just doesn't even care about me anymore she hits me all the time
@@joeforh2215 please break up if your girlfriend abuses you😰😰😰
I was searching for advice on how to actually do the deed. She is really not going to take it well and I just want to make it as clean and painless as possible for both of us
Packed with some truth. If you’re the only one trying to make the relationship work then it’s best to leave. It will only erode your self esteem and hurt you in the end. Needed this.
@K did you break up with your partner?
Number 7 really hit home for me, it was the reason I had to end things between me and my now Ex. The hardest part is now dealing with missing that relationship and those emotions and feelings and even worse was they thought we were doing great, better than ever. Which only screamed more to me how they didnt recognize the relationship.
No, no, I can't break up with my fridge. No, no.
Your fridge can't even move away if you do break up, but you can always leave the food inside.
Talk things out with your fridge, and maybe you can end up breaking up, but staying friends =) then, things’ll work out for both of you
When you have no one to break up with...
JENESIS EDITS what about pizza?
Psych2Go yea
Bones
@@lenaoxton7804 lmaoooo
you can break up with a friend too
It definitely is hard when you both have different love languages. I never realized that until I experienced it
Agreed :( I love to hug him and all that mind you I’m not like that with anyone BUT him but he says I’m clingy :/ and I feel like he doesn’t spend time with me but he always does little things to help me out and that’s his way of showing love :/
Honestly, this is one of the things that makes me the most anxious and depressed in my relationship. I'm much more physically affectionate, whereas my partner is much more distant and opposed to physical contact. It can have a much greater effect on your mental health and your relationship than you would expect.
So true.
I was in a 5 year relationship and these are the things me and him encountered
1. They've betrayed your trust - Him (He Cheated, Twice)
2. They refuse to change - Me (Im really stubborn 😑)
3. You're holding each other back - Him (I really wanted to pursue my passion in performing but the thought of him not liking the aftermaths holds me back)
4. You're always fighting - he gets upset even with the slightest reason
5. Your needs arent being met - I'm guilty of not giving him enough
6. You've drifted Apart - We wanted different things as we grow
7. You dont see the point anymore - I dont see the point in continuing the relationship but I do high hopes that we fix ourselves apart, and might save the relarionship in the future.
8. Stopped making Effort - Me. I stopped. I just got tired of our fights every single day
In conclusion, both of us have faults causing our brakeup. But I still feel a strong connection between us that might give us another chance in the future. I hope.
Dude i hope you get over those feelings, you wanna go back with a cheater. Hope you'll be ok
You can always find a million reasons to break up with someone...Find the reasons to stay together, unless you want to constatly change your partner thinking "I can find better" and then end up alone
Im not first,
Im not last,
But when I see Psych2go,
I click fast
I should have known this before my broken marriage. Keep up the good work guys. Thanks a lot!
Watching this with heart all smattered over places and tears
Same. We broke up and got back together. Now I really think I should break up again.
I got an ad about how men show feelings for his partner before this. Why-
wumbus the universe is telling you something
And I got an ad of "English learning app" siriously I think I need to learn more... Don't know .... Why did I got that ° = °
Wumbus same :
Same the THREE WORDS A MAN SAYS TO THE ONE HE THINKS IS THE ONE
Trying to forgive and trust again is the hardest shit when the one you love betrayed you but your the one who pushed them away first. Everything is sensitive to you both. You know you enjoy each other’s company but that gnawing itch in the back of your mind, “I want to trust but what we had before feels destroyed. Is it worth rebuilding?”. Truth is, it’s up to you to decide if it’s worth your time to rebuild with someone when you both destroyed each other.
*Me clicking this because me and my girlfriend don't really talk in general*
Me: I'm sure it'll be fi---
'You've drifted apart'
'You don't see the point anymore.'
Me: *chokes*
Relatable
9. If he uses this 🙈 emoji
What?😂😂
Yy what's wrong
😂😂😂😂😂
Who even uses that emoji?
Why
my relationship feels like a painting. you try and than you’re noticing you failed a little and do it again and again. at some point you don’t won’t to throw it away, bc there is a chance to make it beautiful. after pain and truth i notice it’s sometimes easier to throw a painting bc to much were failed that it could be more than just ‚ok‘. and that’s not on giving up.
I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and his replies were just "ok"
We talked about the situation that was bothering me, so we got back together and fixed things between us :)
That was self defense...to play cool and act like you dont care is normal if you don't want the other person to see how much it hurts or shocks you
my girlfriend does that shit all the time and then gets upset when i do it back 🗿
@@themenwriteinthesugar7643 bruh
How long did it tske
Thank you! I needed this video today.. just broke up last week. It helped me recognize what i have done and what they have done that ended us.
This video is mostly for love relationships but I find this so relatable to my normal friendship with my 'friend'. I've had enough of her and can't deal with her anymore. I'm unfriending her for good. Thanks Psych2Go.
I just ended a 10 year marriage with my wife. It’s really scary like really scary. There have been times when I thought about getting back together because “the devil you know is better than the one you don’t” (she not the devil, it’s just an expression lol) it’s also really difficult because we have 3 kids so we’re constantly interacting too. Her and mine relationship fit almost every single point here.
This is for the one who’s watching this wondering if they should or shouldn’t have that HARD conversation...you are most definitely WORTH it. When you’re on your deathbed no one is gonna give you a medal for throwing your life away. Yes it’s scary but speaking as someone on the other side of it...I was the best decision I ever made. You will get through this. If I can you can too... good luck
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The hardest part for me is seeing that all of these things are probably what my girlfriend sees in me. I think I’m the one who deserves to be broken up with
U thought that and broke up, but you aren't the worst or anything for commiting some mistakes. Talk to her! You won't regret it
There's a lot going on in Life rn, but watching ur vids make me strong and also give information about certain things. Thnx
it’s so hard when you find your soulmate. i’m still thinking we’re kinda made for eachother, but maybe it’s time
I have met several "soulmates" in my life I don't believe in it anymore
Just as I’m thinking about breaking up with my bf this video gets uploaded-
I really like him and he’s done nothing wrong but I just don’t see him as a boyfriend and more as a friend :(
But I don’t want to hurt him
If you do, Id take alot of time to yourself after instead of continuing to hurt people because you don’t know what you want.
I’m in the same situation. I just don’t want to hurt him but I’m living a lie😞
N H L S T i was in the same situation...it's not about hurting others or not knowing what you really want..people can just stop feeling love for another person, it happens to couples who've been together for years and years, i'm sure they didn't breakup because they didn't know what they wanted. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
JustaRandomGal _ yes, but continuing to get with people just to drop them when you get bored of them isnt healthy either. Its our culture of FOMO and unrealistic standards that makes people fall out of love so easily.
Just end it b4 you grow resentful of him and hurt him more in the end
I've experienced exactly all these points in my married life. Gave too many chances only to be taken for granted and mentally all drained out in the end. Made a firm choice of cutting him off for once. Moving on happily now😊✌️
so happy for you :)
@@marianabulhosa4198 hey thanks❤️
I feel these 8 reasons, yet its still hard to leave him. but just did it. required bravery but this short term suffering will bring me the long term happiness and stability that i truly deserve. and you deserve that too!
I love the Video but pleaasssee make a video about insecurity in relationships. I'm sort of having trouble coping up with insecurity despite us not having any troubles whatsoever.
Ps. We communicate and acknowledge that both of us are insecure about something in the relationship yet after a while we somehow go back to that insecure state and honestly...we're both pretty much confused now.
U doing better?
When someone say “ you’re just so used to jump from a relationship to another”, break up with them
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Amy Anything well, i was in a relationship with this guy who used my past relationships to humiliate me 🤷🏻♀️ ( sorry for my bad English)
@@renaurmom I been worser than that
@@shreay9845 I’m sorry to hear that 🥺
I recently ended an eight year relationship because of substance abuse and I’ve felt bad until now
8 Reasons To Break Up With Someone.
1: Have a love life first.
you can break up with a friend
1 year later update pls.
@@lukrecija8435 abt to do that
@@Psych2go it's a year later, have we got an update yet?
Don't watch these videos if u don't have a fkn relationship. Stop making it's abt u being single
You know what sucks the most?..
It sucks when you lost a person, that meant a literally WORLD to you, that were reason of ur smile and now, the same person is reason of your TEARS like oh damn itt lifee why me?? My stupid heart can't get some things :/
This channel is psychic I tell you!... I was _just_ responding to a Psych2Go comment when they responded to my comment in their "9 reasons you're lonely" video. I said my roommate said I have a problem with codependency with my soulmate who's now dating someone else... & then not 1 minute later this video pops up!
Before anyone asks the main reasons are the last 4 points of the video.
Why the moment I get into a relationship Psych2go starts posting break up videos 🙃😤
Omg, you shouldn't be watching this then haha. Congrats btw!
Halexandra Vil - LOL... maybe consider it a “what not to do” video! Listen to 90s R&B and enjoy your new relationship! ❤️🖤💚
Wow, hesitated clicking just because of knowing I truly love this person and they do the same back but clicked because of curiosity. Glad I clicked because all situations explained were answered with a no. Anxiety is the issue. Great video and happy to be where I am with who I’m with. Thank you
I just recently broke up with my partner after 1,5 years. We hold each other back and have to figure things out Seperated. It’s hard and I second guess it every other day. I hope I’ll figure things out soon.
So how are you now?
@@raynashaikh6841 oh i already forgot about this comment. Thanks for asking tho! I am great. They tried to get back with me after I broke it off but it just made me realize that I don’t feel good being with them. They didn’t make me feel good about myself and who I was; in the end it was just toxic and i am grateful to myself that I left for good one day. It’s sometimes terrifying to live without this person that was a part of your life for a significant time. But it’s also very freeing in a way.
@@blu3poisonfrog wow thanks for the reply!! I’m in the same situation and I just broke up with my partner of 2 years. It’s hurts like hell but I know he’s not good for me. As much as I want to get back together with him, I want to be free also. I hope I also soon will get over the pain and figure things out. Your comment gives me so much hope thank you :)
@@raynashaikh6841 of course! I understand you very well. You put yourself out there in this relationship and then reaching this decision is never easy or without hurt. But I am sure that you will feel better soon and there are a lot of people in your future that are waiting for you. People that won’t let you feel bad about yourself. :)
@@blu3poisonfrog thank you :)
I didn't want to let go but it seems like it was better for them 😔. ❤️ Glad we shared the time together.
The 5th reason is the reason why I broke up with my boyfriend today, we went from talking hours a day to them sending me a message or 2 a day, and he never spends time with me anymore and I tried to get him to spend more time with me but he refuses to make the effort
Edit: we are just friends now
Someone broke my heart almost 4 months ago by breaking up with me and it's not the first time I click on a video like this to actually see how broken I am and how much I fucked up but in the end I see I was not the only one that was broken in this relationship. It's weirdly reassuring...
Now I want a video for "8 reasons not to break up with someone" just for some positivity 😉
I love this video tho❤
Your videos have helped me so much...thank you so much😁😁
Edit: omg thank you so much, I've never had this many likes...😳😳
up
I would like someone to not break up, first...
@@nick5197 true👍🏻
They have videos about how to know he's the one. But "reasons not to break up" sounds wrong. If you shouldn't break up, you wouldn't be considering it
My girlfriend broke up with me because she said she was depressed and needed to have time for herself. I've finally excepted that it wasn't my fault and am trying my best to move on from it. Its sad when things just don't work out, even though you thought it was going to.
The reason I broke up with my boyfriend:
I'm gay 😳
I- Okie-
Yeaaaaaaaaaa *Rock music starts playing*
Lol ok
Bromance!
Why even get in the relationship in the first place 🤦♀️
Last time I was this early, my brother wasn't even born yet. He's 7
You have a small brother? (Just curious)
@@Theguywithspectacles yea I have a lil bro
You are 7 years early. Good job!
@@mziqr_4678 do you like him?
@@Psych2go lol 😂
9. They still Love their Ex and even after they dont, they dont want you anymore
10. Your Partner dont like how you look
11. ...
They are bullying you/abusive.
I really needed to hear this. I just got out of a rough relationship... I wasn’t sure if I should apologize and give him another chance after all he did... he broke my trust, lied multiple times, didn’t meet my needs, he refused to give up a bad habit, I moved out after he got angry and told me to get out. He stopped making an effort and then after I gave him a second chance he stopped again. I didn’t want to break up with him because I loved him... we were planning our wedding... I almost felt obligated to stay with him because he has helped me some but in the end he was doing more damage than good. It was time for us to go our separate ways even if that’s hard to do.
I love the cute little character animations in all the psych2go vids :)
I am breaking up with fast food. I want to be the fittest version of myself now .😊Love you Psych2go team from India.
*How bold of you to assume that I'm in a relationship in the first place* 😱
In a relationship with the person in your profile?:)
This video wasn't made for you? lol
Your vids are always matching my situation, please now im not ready for this i love him😭😭😭
I’m so confused... :( I feel like my partner doesn’t respect me when we get upset .. & I feel like I’m starting to back off & it hurts me more bc I don’t want too.
Are you ok now ??
I can relate to you and want to know if you are ok now.
I too dont want to end my relationship. But he doesn't respect me. So gotta do!
Same
@@nidhipandey2174 yesss I am okay now! are you okay?
@@JENA170 thats good to hear that you are doing fine. Sometimes one can care about a stranger too just like i was thinking about your pain.
And Yes, I am happy right now ! !!!
Can relate
My heart just got on the same page with my mind.. my mind has been telling my heart to run for the hills for a long time now..
Psych2Go out here opening fresh wounds 😅
Anytime I express my hurt feelings, no matter how I try to present it, I always end up wrong, hung up on, and ghosted. Sometimes I’m the one apologizing based off of having my feelings hurt. I’m tired. I even found him messaging a girl who didn’t know me, calling me toxic and he told her that he appreciated her…he’s never said he appreciated me for anything
When you're not in a relationship, but still watching this video... 😂
To prepare for the future.
Same
You are my childhood favorite game...... but I also have to agree.
@@leafy_green7573 OMG, Thank you!
He is Absent most of the time. When he is present it feels like a (...). I have confronted him but he refuses to see what is in front of his face! He reckons he has done nothing Wrong! It's driving me "Crazy"!!! This Video hits Home!!!
I already broke up with her, just making sure I made the right choice, turns out I did.
Uch. I held (and tend to hold) on to relationships for way too long. It bit me in the butt this last time in a completely self-destructive way that ruined, at least temporarily, my career. I'm slowly crawling out of it, but I wish I would have be honest enough with myself to let it end better. It hurts way more now then it needed to.
Mine were reasons 3, 5 and 8, first love and toughest situation i had to go through when we decided to break up. But its true that going trhough this break up molded me into a better and wiser person, and in the end, summing things up, i had a blast and i will keep precious memories in my heart ❤
As far as I can understand people like to glorify break ups
It's so hard to make this choice because I would leave everything behind all the memories all the good times and I still care but the fights keep getting more frequent and worse but I still love them
I'm in a situation where every single thing is relevant. We've been together, for more than ten years. Everything, honestly, is one sided. Mine was trying anything and everything. His was, (for the last 6 years), his career/jobs. To the point where because he now works from home, I don't have a bedroom and I'm sleeping on an air mattress in my converted mudroom. I've been like that for many, many months. He refuses to clean up the bedroom space, is making no effort. ( I have multiple sclerosis so sleeping like this, is he'll. And there are mice I have to deal with to. Including their waste). There are many other things that are really bad to. To many to list. Mostly what me and a few others, know, is mental and emotional abuse. He says it all because of his "social awkwardness". I don't buy it. That his reasoning for ignoring me in person and on text. There's a really cruel example of something I was "punished" for. Won't go into that now. I have seperated myself. ( My house is comparitively big). With the current situation and a few other factors, I'm not able to move out. I am generally a joyful person. Even now. Still. He will NOT steal my joy. I had hoped, he could atleast stay a friend, like my other exes. I have other people relying on me, to stay in this house, so it's very, very complicated. Anyway, sorry for rambling on!!! Hope everyone else is safe and well. Love to all. Have a positive day!!🌞 ( Sorry for any typos).
Good for you! Stay positive
Hay Psych2go we get so many videos about how a relationship is bad or good, but we don’t get enough videos about how to heal a fractured relationship. Can your next video be about not just recognizing the signs but how to take action or heal a broken relationship?
This seems more difficult when you are younger and when you get more established it is easier.
I've actually struggled much more end relationships as an adult.
We’re already broken up. Just making sure if our past relationship ticked all the boxes.
What a coincidence. I was thinking about ending my relationship with my girlfriend
Howcome? Can you list some reasons? Maybe I can learn from them to be a better gf
I was crying about this today. I feel so heartbroken like my heart hurts so bad it’s gonna stop. I HATE being the one that gives everything and get nothing in return. NEVER AGAIN. This is last time I’m allowing myself to break. THIS IS MY LAST HEARTBREAK.
Times awaiting! Go and don’t look back. You need a real partner, he’s using you
I wanna break up with my life
U good?
@@bigfatprawn1682 I didn't break up with my life. I can't bring myself to do it. So I guess I would suffer until death come to me :(
Try to find people to talk. Maybe it will help.
I realized that my boyfriend always wants to talk to me 24/7 and whenever I don’t because I just want to be alone, he texts me like I did something wrong, it makes me feel guilty....
I was literally thinking about this and i got the notification o.o
Me too ... I just told my friend I'm gonna break up with my boyfriend
@@Blesshansen i told my friends so many times.. But it's so hard.. I live with him and don't have the new apartment yet.. And its literally taking forever. I mean I'm waiting for almost a year now.. 😅
My past bf knew I was bi and still use "gay" to describe something negative :/
Said he supported me but didn't really seem to give an effort in it or acknowledge it other than "idc that ur bi but dont talk about it around my family they're not too accepting." I appreciated the warning and concern the first time but he kept bringing it up every time as if the first thing I'm going to say whenever I see his parents is "hi I'm bisexual." He was sweet and we had a lot in common but....this was one of the things that broke it for me sadly. And I feel so bad for breaking it off....
This happened just three months ago. It was the first person where I had the feeling I could end up in a relationship with (I'm 21).
Everything was fine at first. At our 2nd date we started to feel the sparks. Shortly after, she confessed she was still in a relationship. I was shocked and deeply hurt. I felt used and traited. She said she's been wanting to break up with him for months but was afraid to do so because he emotionally and physically abuses her and didn't know what could happen if she broke up. She apologized deeply with beautiful words and begged me for another meeting to talk it out. I could kind of relate to her situation, though I still found it disgusting to hook up with someone while you're in a relationship. Her words were so convincing though that I decided to give her another chance. We talked it out, I told her she must break up with him otherwise I'm gone. She agreed but wanted me to give her time which I understood. And I supported her. This date (after the talk) was beautiful. It almost felt like it was perfection. I forgave her and we were much much closer than before.
Although the situation with her boyfriend gave me a lot of pain plus the terrible things that he does/did to her made me suffer on top.
After this things became weird. She seemed distant in chatting and barely texted me anymore on her own. So I talked to her about it. She said she didn't do well because there's so much on her head, then the boyfriend and then there's me and me suffering and professional school. I told her I understand but I demand to talk to me about her thoughts and worries. That's how it works. Didn't really change much. Several weeks passed and she still didn't break up with her boyfriend. So I asked if she still wanted to be together with me or not. She said she does but she needs time.
The upcoming 2 dates she declined or had some lame excuses (migraine). This whole mess gave me so much emotional pain that I decided to cut it off. She just wasn't ready for something new. She also had some mental health issues without meaning it negatively (I do too). It would have destroyed me even if she managed to break up with him. I know she really liked me but it wasn't enough to overweigh the rest. I'm still not completely over it. What's fucking with my head is that she visits the same professional school as I do. I didn't see her since because we have bullshit schedules. I sometimes think about what if and what could happen if I talked to her again. But that might just be me being lonely.
Honestly, I think it would be best to move forward. Dont waste your time.
@@SunnySummer777 it's not easy for me but I think so too. thanks for your input
My fiancé started out in our relationship as a gentle, kind, selfless person who would work with me through issues without judgement. He broke my trust when I had to beg him for 10 months to get a job, and he only got one after I had a stress-induced mental breakdown. He wants to pay me back for 10 months to make up for all I spent, but I don’t want money. I don’t care about money. He apologizes to me, but it just doesn’t feel genuine. He really hurt me. I lost faith in him. And when I had a conversation with him recently about him constantly staying in our bedroom playing video games with his friends and that I just wanted to spend more time with him, he became aggressive. He said “I’m sorry you aren’t content with how your life is right now, but I am. I just want to enjoy time with my friends, and I’m content with my life and how things are.” He’s right. I’m not content, and he’s making it worse. I just... feel fed up. I have been with him for almost 4 years. Enough is enough, but when am I going to have the courage to say it?
Let him go, he doesn’t appreciate you! You deserve better, do it now
Now
Today is Valentine's Day in Brazil. Perfect timing! Haha
One of my main reasons is my needs are not being met and the words that are said. I was exhausted mentally in putting up with the pickering and harsh words that are used.
Damn pysch2go is really giving me the signs 😂
Update us tomorrow ;)
Very timely. A special and close friend needs to hear this. :) thankyou P2G youre always my fave!
I'm breaking up with game because of my college lessons and projects😭😭😭😭😭😭
I truly don’t even know why I’m still in this relationship. Even before we were dating, I was the only one making an effort in our friendship. I know almost everything about him, but he’s never asked me anything. He has no clue what my interests are. I confused the constant struggle to get to know him + being around him so often, as feelings. If I don’t start the conversation, there won’t be one at all. He’s kind at times, but not very conscientious. It’s more like cluelessness/unawareness. He’s also pointed out features about my body, such as my face and weight (I’m 110lb and 5’5”). I feel like they aren’t insults, but he just points them out like “wow you’re really heavy” or “yeah those are just the scars”(when someone said I had something on my face. I have no idea how to set boundaries and I feel like the one in the wrong for not letting him know what’s bugging me. I really don’t know what to make of what’s going on. I hope I can figure it out soon though.
Ha! What makes you think I have a partner?!?!??!
Doge where’s your friend cat?
@@Psych2go probably rummaging through a garbage can
you watching this video.
I don’t want to admit it! Yes, every reason provided fits my relationship. 😭💔
This hurts me so much and I know I’ve been avoiding this and continuing to give it my all. 😔💔
Every video is posted based off of how I’m feeling. Swear to god. Everytime lol
I used this as a 'was my last breakup the right thing to do' and it kinda worked. Maybe it could be a video on its own but either way this video helped out, thank you!
my partner always guilt trips me into staying :( i can't continue on
Thanks for this video. My ex broke up with me because I didn't like his bad habits like smoking, drinking, weed, heavy parties and stuff like that but I supported him on everything else (projects, college, career, family, hobbies, etc). He made me feel so guilty about me wanting to change him, when I only expressed him how I felt about his habbits and tried to show him better options like meditation, working out, etc. It really hurted me seeing him doing that kind of stuff but he kept on doing it infront of me and behind my back knowing how bad it made me feel and that led me to having a lot of anxiety and bad mood most of the time, and he would also made me feel kind of guilty for it even tho I started to go to therapy but he would do nothing. I felt guilty for so long after the breakup, I was always thinking that it was my fault because I wanted him to change the smoking and drinking, because of the anxiety I had, etc but then I realised that was what he made me think and it was not my fault, sure I'm not perfect, but I did the best I could with good intentions and he took it another way.