10 Signs You Should End a Relationship

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  • @nanaagyare7044
    @nanaagyare7044 4 роки тому +81

    TopThink is an old companion I cherish so much 😍

    • @melissamckinstrygreeson9219
      @melissamckinstrygreeson9219 4 роки тому

      P

    • @tacticalcorndog1732
      @tacticalcorndog1732 4 роки тому +1

      Only like 89 people so most likely.

    • @devvan8431
      @devvan8431 4 роки тому

      @@melissamckinstrygreeson9219 hr

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  • @MrJoon360
    @MrJoon360 4 роки тому +312

    A great relationship doesn't happen because of the love you had in the beginning. It's about how well you continue to build the relationship after that initial spark.

    • @smithwilliams545
      @smithwilliams545 4 роки тому

      Life is full of drama and dilemma which can make you lose all hope and faith. You might even think of committing suicide when life issues get at you. All you need to do is to be strong, learn to motivate, encourage and jeer up yourself. Hard times never lasts, remember there is always a light at the end of a tunnel. People changes but God remain constant with his promises. I faced fierce turbulent situation in my relationship in the past few months ago, from having issues with my wife and all of that. I just woke up one day and I prayed to God for a way out. I spoke to a friend about this and he told me to be calm and introduced me to a great IT expert who helped me get into my cheating wife device retrieve all her text messages, call logs, iMessages, Zoom calls, Snapchat, Instagram and Skype activities. I was at first skeptic of using his services but the word of God came to me he’s the real deal after seeing many good and satisfactory recommendation about him. Many thanks to Smith, you can get in touch with him at Williamsdhackghost (@) gmailcom for all investigatory, spying and tracking services. He’s the best out here, this info retrieved from my wife’s phone helped me to reconstruct my relationship. We got different intents coming here to search for an app to track our partner or friends so it’s advisable to know the truth and not fall prey to the evil ones. His other services include: Website hacks, Retrieval of deleted messages and files, Phone cloning, retrieval of stolen bitcoins and lost wallet address passwords and many more. Reach out to ( williamsdhackghost (@) gmailcom) now!!! and enjoy a quality and wonderful service.
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    • @MsAnchovey
      @MsAnchovey 3 роки тому +4

      @@smithwilliams545 well that was s shifty "bait and switch" comment /advertisement. Your friend would be last one I'd call.

  • @tritsav1017
    @tritsav1017 4 роки тому +424

    1 -abandoning your goals
    2 - Consist complacency
    3 - faking your personality
    4 - fear of inconvenience
    5 - seeking replacements
    6 - fading blindness
    7 - negative change
    8 - familial opposition
    9 - relationship equality
    10 - unacceptable behaviour
    Hope this helps some of y'all :)

    • @richardlacombe2775
      @richardlacombe2775 4 роки тому +20

      Sounds like every relationship anyone has these hahaha. So the key to ending relationships? How about not starting them 🤣

    • @moayad80
      @moayad80 4 роки тому +7

      Then how to find a true good friend? Every "friend" i've hangout with falls to one or more of this kind of category. It seems impossible for me

    • @jwc6444
      @jwc6444 4 роки тому

      Thank you

    • @tamimkhan9093
      @tamimkhan9093 4 роки тому +7

      Thanks, you saved 9 minutes of my life..
      No idea why do I have to click on videos like this 😂

    • @rneshan6484
      @rneshan6484 4 роки тому +1

      It did. Thanks!

  • @codewithkrups9483
    @codewithkrups9483 4 роки тому +130

    Never cry for someone who hurt you...

    • @euradragonfly6797
      @euradragonfly6797 4 роки тому +3

      Thank you.. I'm crying . Been rejected by partner Aug. 22,2020.🤧

    • @chirstianbenn4831
      @chirstianbenn4831 4 роки тому +5

      Sure right & some one who hurts you are redflags & should be avoided period.

    • @carlfiguer1945
      @carlfiguer1945 4 роки тому

      Say Word!

    • @smithwilliams545
      @smithwilliams545 4 роки тому +2

      Life is full of drama and dilemma which can make you lose all hope and faith. You might even think of committing suicide when life issues get at you. All you need to do is to be strong, learn to motivate, encourage and jeer up yourself. Hard times never lasts, remember there is always a light at the end of a tunnel. People changes but God remain constant with his promises. I faced fierce turbulent situation in my relationship in the past few months ago, from having issues with my wife and all of that. I just woke up one day and I prayed to God for a way out. I spoke to a friend about this and he told me to be calm and introduced me to a great IT expert who helped me get into my cheating wife device retrieve all her text messages, call logs, iMessages, Zoom calls, Snapchat, Instagram and Skype activities. I was at first skeptic of using his services but the word of God came to me he’s the real deal after seeing many good and satisfactory recommendation about him. Many thanks to Smith, you can get in touch with him at Williamsdhackghost (@) gmailcom for all investigatory, spying and tracking services. He’s the best out here, this info retrieved from my wife’s phone helped me to reconstruct my relationship. We got different intents coming here to search for an app to track our partner or friends so it’s advisable to know the truth and not fall prey to the evil ones. His other services include: Website hacks, Retrieval of deleted messages and files, Phone cloning, retrieval of stolen bitcoins and lost wallet address passwords and many more. Reach out to ( williamsdhackghost (@) gmailcom) now!!! and enjoy a quality and wonderful service.
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    • @mz.necie1976
      @mz.necie1976 2 роки тому +1

      AMEN 🙏🏽

  • @namastewellness
    @namastewellness 4 роки тому +67

    See if you need therapy before ending the relationship, especially if you're experiencing fear of abandonment, need to control, over giving, or overly (in)dependent. Those are all issues that will follow you to the next relationship.

    • @kimschrodt2179
      @kimschrodt2179 4 роки тому +1

      If it's your soul mate you will find every reason and way to make it. Without them you are not complete. Also with them you truly are unstoppable also there no more pleasing feeling mentally and physically or emotionally . They bring out the best in you and its noy everyday that you even see two people that are truly soulmatrs. If you are blessed to be with yours don't take it for granted And I truly do not want to grow old with no one but you my eternity I ♥ love. You to the moon 🌙 and back to the stars

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  • @bettyjones6240
    @bettyjones6240 4 роки тому +67

    We should already be equipped with this simple relationship information as grown ups. Unfortunately, a lot our parents didn't explain this to us because they were raggedy, unstable or didn't know any better themselves.

    • @smithwilliams545
      @smithwilliams545 4 роки тому

      Life is full of drama and dilemma which can make you lose all hope and faith. You might even think of committing suicide when life issues get at you. All you need to do is to be strong, learn to motivate, encourage and jeer up yourself. Hard times never lasts, remember there is always a light at the end of a tunnel. People changes but God remain constant with his promises. I faced fierce turbulent situation in my relationship in the past few months ago, from having issues with my wife and all of that. I just woke up one day and I prayed to God for a way out. I spoke to a friend about this and he told me to be calm and introduced me to a great IT expert who helped me get into my cheating wife device retrieve all her text messages, call logs, iMessages, Zoom calls, Snapchat, Instagram and Skype activities. I was at first skeptic of using his services but the word of God came to me he’s the real deal after seeing many good and satisfactory recommendation about him. Many thanks to Smith, you can get in touch with him at Williamsdhackghost (@) gmailcom for all investigatory, spying and tracking services. He’s the best out here, this info retrieved from my wife’s phone helped me to reconstruct my relationship. We got different intents coming here to search for an app to track our partner or friends so it’s advisable to know the truth and not fall prey to the evil ones. His other services include: Website hacks, Retrieval of deleted messages and files, Phone cloning, retrieval of stolen bitcoins and lost wallet address passwords and many more. Reach out to ( williamsdhackghost (@) gmailcom) now!!! and enjoy a quality and wonderful service.
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    • @wolfgangk1
      @wolfgangk1 4 роки тому +2

      Speaking, as a parent. Yes, many parents don't know any better themselves, some don't want to "offend" their child to maintain a "friendship". But all that aside, parents' opinion of a significant other is the first to be dismissed. In fact, the average person will stay in a bad situation trying to prove that the parent was wrong.

    • @kokolatte825
      @kokolatte825 2 роки тому

      @@wolfgangk1 exactly. This list doesn't really come down to parenting. Most of these should be the kind of thing that just feels off in a relationship.

  • @donnydsuperstar
    @donnydsuperstar 4 роки тому +24

    Great video, was looking at this now and so many of the 10 things hit the nail on the head and made me realize that ending my current relationship was the only viable option (honestly I was conflicted and heartbroken). A sincere thanks to the people whom put this together. Great job and appreciate the advice.

  • @elansings
    @elansings 4 роки тому +30

    “No relationship can truly grow if you go on holding back. If you remain clever and go on safeguarding and protecting yourself, only personalities meet, and the essential centers remain alone. Then only your mask is related, not you. Whenever such a thing happens, there are four persons in the relationship, not two. Two false persons go on meeting, and the two real persons remain worlds apart.”

    • @shawnvaughn6142
      @shawnvaughn6142 4 роки тому

      I've never heard it quite like the way you put it,but you're exactly right... would like to chat ,how about you?

    • @eguono5132
      @eguono5132 2 роки тому

      Wow! What an insight, I'm amazed.

  • @Beato-vm7wl
    @Beato-vm7wl 4 роки тому +77

    Who else is watching with no partner?

  • @NaRuto23145
    @NaRuto23145 4 роки тому +72

    Reason 11 : lying and cheating behind your back .... GET LOST

    • @carlfiguer1945
      @carlfiguer1945 4 роки тому +1

      Should be #1 right?

    • @smithwilliams545
      @smithwilliams545 4 роки тому

      Life is full of drama and dilemma which can make you lose all hope and faith. You might even think of committing suicide when life issues get at you. All you need to do is to be strong, learn to motivate, encourage and jeer up yourself. Hard times never lasts, remember there is always a light at the end of a tunnel. People changes but God remain constant with his promises. I faced fierce turbulent situation in my relationship in the past few months ago, from having issues with my wife and all of that. I just woke up one day and I prayed to God for a way out. I spoke to a friend about this and he told me to be calm and introduced me to a great IT expert who helped me get into my cheating wife device retrieve all her text messages, call logs, iMessages, Zoom calls, Snapchat, Instagram and Skype activities. I was at first skeptic of using his services but the word of God came to me he’s the real deal after seeing many good and satisfactory recommendation about him. Many thanks to Smith, you can get in touch with him at Williamsdhackghost (@) gmailcom for all investigatory, spying and tracking services. He’s the best out here, this info retrieved from my wife’s phone helped me to reconstruct my relationship. We got different intents coming here to search for an app to track our partner or friends so it’s advisable to know the truth and not fall prey to the evil ones. His other services include: Website hacks, Retrieval of deleted messages and files, Phone cloning, retrieval of stolen bitcoins and lost wallet address passwords and many more. Reach out to ( williamsdhackghost (@) gmailcom) now!!! and enjoy a quality and wonderful service.
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  • @swabby429
    @swabby429 3 роки тому +12

    If your partner displays persistent secrecy, that should be a deal-breaker.

  • @sashaperkins
    @sashaperkins 4 роки тому +9

    This video just described my previous situationship. Here’s the thing though, now I’m pregnant! I broke up with him and rather not have him around during my pregnancy. I plan to coparent with him even though we didn’t work out. I’m not where I need to be in my life right now. So that is my main focus. To get on a better path and maintain my strengths along with my weaknesses.

    • @patrickjlouis6651
      @patrickjlouis6651 4 роки тому +2

      So you were in a situationship with a man who exhibited these characteristics and yet you did not use any birth control, of all the different methods of birth control that women possess none was used by you...I don't understand....

    • @sashaperkins
      @sashaperkins 4 роки тому +1

      Patrick J Louis Thank you for your comment. It’s easy to say that I was infatuated and more in lust with this man. Now I’m taking responsibility and moving on with my life. As I should have to begin with.

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      @joeannpeople7392 2 роки тому

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  • @albertgaspar627
    @albertgaspar627 4 роки тому +9

    Cheating is easy on those you don't respect. So watch how she respects you OUTSIDE the bedroom. if she's blowing off dates, not returning phone calls unless she needs something, etc...its easier for her to cheat. And that's how some women end the relationship--by lining up the next one. But even if she doesn't cheat, the sooner she puts you down in her eyes, the sooner she can rationlize why she doesn't need you.
    When she starts blowing off dates on a regular basis? She's already testing out her new male friend to see if he's boyfriend material. Trust me on this...I've been that guy a few times before she mentioned having a boyfriend already or made it clear she was ready to be more than a friend. This doesn't mean to not trust her male friends--just be aware when they see more of her than you do.
    This sounds obvious, but it usually happens when you're sick of her too, and you are actually happy she's yabbering away in someone else's ear like a mosquito.

  • @antarbo5060
    @antarbo5060 4 роки тому +5

    I liked the video , Way to go guys. Especially tip #9 " Relationship equality " , that sums it all

  • @maximhollandnederlandthene7640
    @maximhollandnederlandthene7640 4 роки тому +21

    The moment they discuss relationship problems with others or tell others about intimacy things you have.
    It's doomed to end isn't it.

    • @wmtrade6328
      @wmtrade6328 4 роки тому

      Do you need some help casting

    • @exposez
      @exposez 4 роки тому +4

      I think you are right... but it also might be that they are seeking external advise or help. But they should always talk to their partner. For example talking about seeking professional help. If they don't talk to their partner or show signs they want to fix it, It think it's doomed, or rather it is. If both don't want to fix, you can't it's over...

    • @smithwilliams545
      @smithwilliams545 4 роки тому

      Life is full of drama and dilemma which can make you lose all hope and faith. You might even think of committing suicide when life issues get at you. All you need to do is to be strong, learn to motivate, encourage and jeer up yourself. Hard times never lasts, remember there is always a light at the end of a tunnel. People changes but God remain constant with his promises. I faced fierce turbulent situation in my relationship in the past few months ago, from having issues with my wife and all of that. I just woke up one day and I prayed to God for a way out. I spoke to a friend about this and he told me to be calm and introduced me to a great IT expert who helped me get into my cheating wife device retrieve all her text messages, call logs, iMessages, Zoom calls, Snapchat, Instagram and Skype activities. I was at first skeptic of using his services but the word of God came to me he’s the real deal after seeing many good and satisfactory recommendation about him. Many thanks to Smith, you can get in touch with him at Williamsdhackghost (@) gmailcom for all investigatory, spying and tracking services. He’s the best out here, this info retrieved from my wife’s phone helped me to reconstruct my relationship. We got different intents coming here to search for an app to track our partner or friends so it’s advisable to know the truth and not fall prey to the evil ones. His other services include: Website hacks, Retrieval of deleted messages and files, Phone cloning, retrieval of stolen bitcoins and lost wallet address passwords and many more. Reach out to ( williamsdhackghost (@) gmailcom) now!!! and enjoy a quality and wonderful service.
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  • @alnahdia3353
    @alnahdia3353 4 роки тому +4

    I will be honest, I was afraid to watch the video! But now this video saved me from making a huge mistake! I am thankful to you guys!

    • @bettyjones6240
      @bettyjones6240 4 роки тому +2

      Follow your heart not a video. Your gut will never deceive you.

    • @alnahdia3353
      @alnahdia3353 4 роки тому +1

      Thanks love!

    • @tintinpenaredondo6531
      @tintinpenaredondo6531 4 роки тому +2

      @@bettyjones6240 yes I agree. Some when I watch its not accurate to the Attachment style relationship. Sme are Dismissive Avoidant Attachment style thats why they cannot express their emotion and some are Fearful Attachment some are Anxious.

  • @michhall0103
    @michhall0103 4 роки тому +6

    He Actually Said if you dont like the way i act then maybe you should just stop talking to me. That really shows he could care less if he ever talks to me again. So he should get his wish. Im sick of giving and getting nothing i want in Return!!

    • @tintinpenaredondo6531
      @tintinpenaredondo6531 4 роки тому +1

      Maybe he is narcissist.

    • @harrisd1983
      @harrisd1983 4 роки тому

      What is the context of why he said it? My family and I can be brutality blunt sometimes.
      My wife will sometimes try to talk to me or ask me a question when I am busy. When that happens I will just say it the first thing that comes into my mind. Which will usually pisses her off. I will say the same thing to her when she gets pissed.

    • @michhall0103
      @michhall0103 4 роки тому

      @@tintinpenaredondo6531 funny you say that because that is Exactly What he is. So Good Call

    • @michhall0103
      @michhall0103 4 роки тому +1

      @@harrisd1983 thanks for your response Doug but no he Meant it Literally believe me thats the kind of Person he is Selfish Taker thats No Good.

    • @tintinpenaredondo6531
      @tintinpenaredondo6531 4 роки тому +1

      @@michhall0103 consider he is a toxic person in a relationship? but you must ask too what is the root of his behavior. Maybe he is FEARFUL AVOIDAND ATTACHMENT STYLE.

  • @alyciakay89
    @alyciakay89 4 роки тому +5

    That moment of "man... if only I'd had this video a few years ago..." This video... is gold.

    • @oscarwilliamson1264
      @oscarwilliamson1264 4 роки тому

      Alycia Kay,hope you are with a good man!😍😍😊

    • @alyciakay89
      @alyciakay89 4 роки тому

      @@oscarwilliamson1264 LOL, I am happily single.

    • @oscarwilliamson1264
      @oscarwilliamson1264 4 роки тому

      @@alyciakay89 oh ok my dearest 🌹🌷🌷🌺🌹.I'm Oscar Williamson from the States.You?

  • @dustbunee2007
    @dustbunee2007 3 роки тому +5

    When I was in my early 20s (I'm in my mid-40s now), I really liked a guy who was about 9-10 years my senior, and it got to the point where we were engaged for a few months. Since my parents divorced when I was very little, I only had to deal with familial opposition from my mom and (now ex) stepdad, but not from my dad and stepmom. Another problem was that since I'm not very good at expressing myself, it frustrated the guy when he would ask how I felt about our relationship, and I wasn't able to tell him. (Another factor could've been that I'm potentially on the autism spectrum, but was never formally tested.) Since then, this guy and I have broken up (and I wanted to end my life over it), and have moved on to the man who's been my husband for almost 18 years now, and is also on the autism spectrum, so he's found ways to deal with my inability to express myself.

    • @nicoleblake1954
      @nicoleblake1954 3 роки тому

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      if yes then l'd like to recommend you to a love specialist who brought my ex back

  • @faithmikealson8726
    @faithmikealson8726 4 роки тому +42

    Im crying while watching this becouse how true it's and also im on my period so im extra emotional

    • @prentices2737
      @prentices2737 4 роки тому

      Yikes. Lol

    • @user-cc4kq6hl4c
      @user-cc4kq6hl4c 3 роки тому +1

      I’m a man and I’m crying too, I have no period to blame it on

    • @Amal-sb8wy
      @Amal-sb8wy 3 роки тому

      I’m crying watching this rn too. The one sided part really triggered it for me :(

  • @mariaceciliamercado4958
    @mariaceciliamercado4958 4 роки тому +4

    And it hard to try fix things in between sometimes alone, without appreciation and respect I feel I can't go on.

  • @davidhidalgo4203
    @davidhidalgo4203 4 роки тому +19

    The end of a relationship doesn't have to be traumatic. When something is over. It's over. I'd like to hear about the Emotional Inteligent, try a little, please.

  • @neliaagpalo1884
    @neliaagpalo1884 2 роки тому

    Time to move on. Harder and harder to be with this person. Extended all the efforts to no avail. Staying with myself to be happy and productive. Be positive always.

  • @kathleendrake6500
    @kathleendrake6500 4 роки тому +1

    True. Putting down or criticize your loved one is a dead give away.
    I think I am with someone toxic. They are an alcoholic.
    Judging, criticizing, and self-will run riot.
    I just wish I knew how to attract a healthy person.
    I stayed alone for most of my 50 yrs. I avoided relationships because of childhood verbal abuse.

  • @ttv_grylato
    @ttv_grylato 3 роки тому +3

    If they are not willing to compromise for your needs, they don’t love you and there is not point continuing the relationship.

    • @hannahkane7024
      @hannahkane7024 3 роки тому

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    • @hannahkane7024
      @hannahkane7024 3 роки тому

      He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯 💯💯

    • @hannahkane7024
      @hannahkane7024 3 роки тому

      Whtsaap him**..

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      @hannahkane7024 3 роки тому

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  • @DanielSelk
    @DanielSelk 4 роки тому +123

    Those who dislike are probably the toxic ones in their relationships. XD

  • @johnnyblaze2257
    @johnnyblaze2257 4 роки тому +16

    This eventually happens with every relationship, that’s why we have so many relationships, why would anyone ever get married!

    • @wolfgangk1
      @wolfgangk1 4 роки тому +2

      No, it doesn't have in all relationships. Either you're bringing bad energy into your relationship or you have poor judgment in selecting a love interest. I'd start by taking a lot of time look into yourself

  • @robinhayes4894
    @robinhayes4894 4 роки тому +2

    Well thx for the video.im going through a divorce an you did confirmation for me that I'm on the right path I knew it since 2007 life just kept rolling by. My gut told me long ago I hated the person I was an became it was starting to really show with others

    • @tintinpenaredondo6531
      @tintinpenaredondo6531 4 роки тому

      Hey bro. What kind of Attachment style of your partner because this one some are not accurate. Better find her Attachment style and you too. Go to Personal Development School youtube channel.

  • @terrywade3696
    @terrywade3696 2 роки тому +2

    #7 Negative Change: Rather than end the relationship, perhaps take a more in-depth look at yourself. Maybe, you’re the one creating the negativity. Maybe, you don’t want to improve or grow and your partner is beginning to expose that to you and you don’t like what you see in yourself.

  • @jakeglenn2246
    @jakeglenn2246 4 роки тому +2

    great info

  • @Bibi-hn6gc
    @Bibi-hn6gc 4 роки тому +2

    I don't have a relationship because I want to finish my degree, it's not that I say that have a relationship while you study
    It is a bad thing but there are times when it becomes very difficult to see with your couple or the desire to redo your plans to be able to be with that person or leave your goals to believe that it is n´t more important than the relationship, I think that if people prepare professionally before having a relationship and I think mainly the girls so they don't have to expect anything from a man and then love will come alone.

    • @Bibi-hn6gc
      @Bibi-hn6gc 4 роки тому

      But for the 😍record, love is the most beautiful feeling in the world and if you are going to look for love in a person just look at their eyes, they never lie. 😳

    • @QUEENMJ29
      @QUEENMJ29 4 роки тому +1

      The best decision. Im in a web n wish i finished my dreams

    • @Bibi-hn6gc
      @Bibi-hn6gc 4 роки тому

      Eyisab Majj Congratulation ❤️✨

    • @Bibi-hn6gc
      @Bibi-hn6gc 3 роки тому

      @Black Dragon I tried but I don’t know
      What it mean ?

    • @Bibi-hn6gc
      @Bibi-hn6gc 3 роки тому

      @Black Dragon Ohhhh 🤣🤣 I got it
      Keep on your own way 🙌 Good journey

  • @chancebrown2787
    @chancebrown2787 4 роки тому +26

    First, get a partner

  • @justinmoore8854
    @justinmoore8854 4 роки тому +2

    I have a partner... wife, always have to discuss other women for twelve years.( keeps us around). That I'm having an affair with them. I lost my job, and want to gain employment and can. I once owned a business and fell to be successful, because we're constantly talking or yelling about my imagined cheated.
    I'm venting about it, but I know that we're better not being together and I don't know how to leave.

    • @theadmiral460
      @theadmiral460 4 роки тому +2

      i had been wit my wife for 14 yrs...treated her much better than she ever treated me or any other guy ever treated her before me...she treats me like employee instead of husband..only nice when she need me for something then right back to her normal rude self..its exhausting for sure

    • @justinmoore8854
      @justinmoore8854 4 роки тому

      @@theadmiral460 I thank you for your time to voice your "issues and lessons". If that'll do for the lack of better words.

  • @josiahwilliams2768
    @josiahwilliams2768 4 роки тому +4

    Love this man thanks

  • @jimmyturner4909
    @jimmyturner4909 4 роки тому +3

    great as always

  • @flyesouisi
    @flyesouisi 4 роки тому +1

    this is the first time watching something like this and could relate every one of the items to a particular relationship.

  • @christinajones3343
    @christinajones3343 3 роки тому

    Yep.. fear asking for my needs..
    Got abandoned for asking...

  • @jiggysteve8058
    @jiggysteve8058 4 роки тому +1

    Well said sir. Thank you.

    • @barbarajolie9358
      @barbarajolie9358 4 роки тому

      Hello dr tuda is able to help you why haven’t you tried him , ? )he helped me get my ex back without stress and delay and I believe he can also help you in all relationships problems

    • @barbarajolie9358
      @barbarajolie9358 4 роки тому

      Whrsapp him

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      @barbarajolie9358 4 роки тому

      +234,815,689,6436

  • @kathycusentino8782
    @kathycusentino8782 4 роки тому +2

    That was a great reading
    Thank you so much for This

    • @mjmoody3796
      @mjmoody3796 4 роки тому

      That was a great reading.... Love it 🤣

  • @Beato-vm7wl
    @Beato-vm7wl 4 роки тому +23

    Use me as a “I’m still single” button

  • @uttredbemberg-kb3dr
    @uttredbemberg-kb3dr Рік тому

    I'm at a person online they are living in Ghana we never met face-to-face but they are coming back in February I am giving them the benefit of the doubt and waiting to see each other face-to-face should I hold on or move on

  • @dianaszamosszegi7677
    @dianaszamosszegi7677 4 роки тому +3

    Absolutely.

    • @mistressevamzonia7087
      @mistressevamzonia7087 4 роки тому

      Hello I can recomend you to dr tuda ,the great relationship restorer /healer ,who will help you. He helped me get my ex back and he can also help you in all relationship problems and get your crush/ ex back too💞💞💓💓💓

    • @mistressevamzonia7087
      @mistressevamzonia7087 4 роки тому

      Text on whtzapp

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      @mistressevamzonia7087 4 роки тому

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    • @christianpulisic7784
      @christianpulisic7784 3 роки тому +1

      Diana Szamosszegi,You are absolutely gorgeous 🌹🥀🥀🌹

    • @dianaszamosszegi7677
      @dianaszamosszegi7677 3 роки тому

      @@christianpulisic7784 thank you

  • @nahidch8697
    @nahidch8697 3 роки тому

    Nice & Healthy Sign for Us, thank you.

  • @nenala7684
    @nenala7684 2 роки тому

    Omg the fading...it's so hard to know love and attachment

  • @UncleVonNewz
    @UncleVonNewz 2 роки тому

    A complete waste of everyone’s time to get with one somebody then suddenly act as if they were not in a relationship alienation of affection is a terrible thing to waste.

  • @samw4728
    @samw4728 2 роки тому

    Number 10 is so true there is a girl I fall in love with over time her real personality start to surface and it scare me is like she is totally a different person

  • @evamcinnis7992
    @evamcinnis7992 4 роки тому +2

    REAL Talk!!

  • @j007t79
    @j007t79 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks

  • @global1federalexpress80
    @global1federalexpress80 4 роки тому

    If u and your partner live in different country and she forgets your birthday most times what does it mean?

  • @Mainyehc
    @Mainyehc Рік тому

    Number 5 can easily be taken as a template for toxic monogamy and jealousy fodder.
    I make a point of keeping *all* of my friends whenever I enter a new relationship, and they should complement that relationship and vice-versa. There’s this idea that only SOs should do all or most of the emotional work in someone’s life, but that couldn’t be farther from the truth. For sure, they may and likely should be the ones who invest more time, but they absolutely do not have, and perhaps should not, be investing more than everyone else combined. Period.
    The flip side of that is that if the SO going through a rough patch for some reason, not burdening her with an unreasonable emotional workload should actually be seen as a good thing. The only point when 5 becomes an issue is if said SO becomes overtly dismissive and/or *only* friends actually care to listen to me or seek me for advice for too long.

  • @silentgrove7670
    @silentgrove7670 4 роки тому +2

    You see any of these:
    Verbal , emotional, physical, sexual abuse of you or others
    Substance abuse
    Lying
    Gaslighting
    Excessive passive/aggressive behaviours
    Infidelity
    Social media, cell phone addiction
    Criminal behaviour
    Stonewalling
    Surprising how many people are in relationships with people that do stuff like this.

    • @Rogerabushh
      @Rogerabushh 4 роки тому

      In other words everybody

    • @Rogerabushh
      @Rogerabushh 4 роки тому

      There are so many problems that just don't have to be problems

  • @felicitarody3966
    @felicitarody3966 4 роки тому +5

    I'm toxic relationship low self-esteem

  • @albertodeulofeu5277
    @albertodeulofeu5277 3 роки тому +1

    Don’t even bother,. They’re rarely work out nowadays. They start to work out again when when we fall back in line with our natural human nature

  • @luc6284
    @luc6284 4 роки тому +4

    Eh I have been way too negligent in terms of reigniting the flame and trying new things. While my ex girlfriend was working hard in university, I just sat at home playing Clash of Clans during corona times. I should've taken more initiative

    • @wolfgangk1
      @wolfgangk1 4 роки тому

      Your admitting is not an epitome. You knew it while it was happening, you just assume that you were all that and she would tolerate your bullshit until she showed you a ghost. I hope you're more honest with yourself than you are in this comment section or you're doomed for failed relationships--unless you can find a girl stupid and needy enough to tolerate you.

  • @Saltynutz333
    @Saltynutz333 4 роки тому +8

    I think my relationship with “TopThink” is healthy and positive. We seem to bond and connect when I listen and compromise to make our relationship work. Thanks, TopThink for a long lasting relationship. 🤓 ❤️

    • @Bibi-hn6gc
      @Bibi-hn6gc 4 роки тому +1

      🤨 I am Jelaous 😂

  • @Treck533
    @Treck533 4 роки тому +17

    If the thought of ending your relationship comes up,you should probably end it 🤣

    • @CC-yh2yq
      @CC-yh2yq 4 роки тому +3

      Not necessarily- hardships can make you question things but you can always increase communication and talk issues out . I get ur point tho 😂

  • @EmilyGloeggler7984
    @EmilyGloeggler7984 Рік тому

    The ex beau and I didn’t have any of those signs but I knew it was over because I realized I was not going to have him as my husband, in spite of the fact that I actually did love and wanted to marry him. He wasn’t good enough. So I dumped him. Eleven years later, I met another man - my best friend and my husband Frank.

    • @Ricardo-ur5os
      @Ricardo-ur5os Рік тому

      What do you mean wasnt good enough? As in you felt you were settling for him?

  • @juliannaokike4063
    @juliannaokike4063 4 роки тому +1

    some people just be in the way......

  • @sharlyntan248
    @sharlyntan248 3 роки тому

    Paper qualifications also count when you are married as it helps you to think properly before making decisions. Everyone will look up to you as an example. Others force them to separate. Some time living our own life out side can be happy.but tough everything have to do it yourself.

    • @goodlivelive2621
      @goodlivelive2621 3 роки тому

      when my ex left me I did everything to get her back but in vain I had to contact a great marabout masters from Benin to help me and he managed to improve my life as a couple

    • @goodlivelive2621
      @goodlivelive2621 3 роки тому

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    • @goodlivelive2621
      @goodlivelive2621 3 роки тому

      He is indeed a problem solve contact him!!!

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      @goodlivelive2621 3 роки тому

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  • @humbertocellig
    @humbertocellig 3 роки тому +2

    I am struggling I need help, this video is amazing. Thank You. Is there anyone there who wants to talk?

    • @nicoleblake1954
      @nicoleblake1954 3 роки тому

      Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately

    • @humbertocellig
      @humbertocellig 3 роки тому

      @@nicoleblake1954 Hey there I am in a long distance relationship but everything is so different now she does not care at all! sad

    • @nicoleblake1954
      @nicoleblake1954 3 роки тому +1

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    • @humbertocellig
      @humbertocellig 3 роки тому +1

      @@nicoleblake1954 thanks whats ur number??

  • @hoodoooperator.5197
    @hoodoooperator.5197 3 роки тому

    One person complaining too much and not acting or working to resolve things is a perfectly valid reason for the other person to not want to hear it anymore. You cannot just be an emotional pin cushion, that is not part of a healthy relationship.

  • @superbrian7997
    @superbrian7997 4 роки тому +5

    As The Green Goblin said to Spider-Man: We are who we choose to be...
    1. Abandoning Your Goals.
    0:14
    Ah, yes... Power, wealth and status. Is that what’s suppose to be my primary goals and focus in life?
    Getting a greater promotion at work? Or my face on the cover of Time Magazine?
    I care very little for power, wealth and status. I care. I value love, companionship and romance so much more, than all that other crap!
    “Your Partner Should Not Give Your Life Meaning.”
    Why not?
    My wife is not “whipped cream on top of a sundae.”
    She’s the cup. The ice cream 🍨 🧁 and the spoon 🥄 too!
    My Lady is my Heaven on Earth.
    I need no savior to bring me into a new paradise. Because anywhere I am where she is not there with me. Might as well be a hell on earth!

  • @JerrellXotiikClemmons
    @JerrellXotiikClemmons 4 роки тому +1

    Love this one

  • @cretickazih772
    @cretickazih772 4 роки тому +3

    Unfortunately I am in a relationship with all this 10 sign .
    Still I am with her. I married to that person and leave everything to be with her. My dream , my goal , money ... everything so I can be with her now I am regretting it every single minute.
    I still love her and don’t wanna break . Just living my with big hope which I know it’s quite impossible.
    Waiting her to be realize what I am 😢😢😢

  • @BMLR1970
    @BMLR1970 2 роки тому

    How about your partner send bunch of pictures of herself to someone and ask him not to shears them with anyone else?

  • @maryamnjf4457
    @maryamnjf4457 3 роки тому

    it was incredible tnxxxx

    • @LoveLife-ry5mm
      @LoveLife-ry5mm 3 роки тому

      Hey, do you wish to get your ex back or restore someone you love ?
      if yes then l'd like to recommend you to a love specialist who brought my ex back

    • @LoveLife-ry5mm
      @LoveLife-ry5mm 3 роки тому

      text me on WhatsApp to know more about the doctor

  • @lafsolot0962
    @lafsolot0962 2 роки тому

    If you are the one not trying and getting annoyed and not agreeing w being gaslighted its time to get out.

  • @kushpatel6498
    @kushpatel6498 4 роки тому

    Thanks for help brooooooo

  • @sandrewmukhim108
    @sandrewmukhim108 2 роки тому

    Your right about it

  • @patriciafowler5837
    @patriciafowler5837 Рік тому

    So true about this

  • @johnpratt6583
    @johnpratt6583 4 роки тому +5

    Im done,i love life ,my wife is doom and gloom and death,ive asked for a divorce she ignores it,im going to a lawyer and just hand her the papers ,im very tired and gettinb older

    • @mistressevamzonia7087
      @mistressevamzonia7087 4 роки тому

      Hello I can recomend you to dr tuda ,the great relationship restorer /healer ,who will help you. He helped me get my ex back and he can also help you in all relationship problems and get your crush/ ex back too💎💞💞💞💞💞💞

    • @mistressevamzonia7087
      @mistressevamzonia7087 4 роки тому

      Contact via whtzapp

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      @mistressevamzonia7087 4 роки тому

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    • @johnpratt6583
      @johnpratt6583 4 роки тому

      @@mistressevamzonia7087 thanks but no thanks i love her but not in that way anymore i rather bow out gracefully,but thank you😊

    • @johnpratt6583
      @johnpratt6583 4 роки тому

      @S D indeed

  • @chrismcevoy2503
    @chrismcevoy2503 4 роки тому +6

    I think love is blind, deaf, and dumb.

    • @chrismcevoy2503
      @chrismcevoy2503 4 роки тому +1

      My love for my ex-girlfriend Tracci Ludwick was all one-sided and she wanted me to carry the weight of the relationship.

    • @smithwilliams545
      @smithwilliams545 4 роки тому

      Life is full of drama and dilemma which can make you lose all hope and faith. You might even think of committing suicide when life issues get at you. All you need to do is to be strong, learn to motivate, encourage and jeer up yourself. Hard times never lasts, remember there is always a light at the end of a tunnel. People changes but God remain constant with his promises. I faced fierce turbulent situation in my relationship in the past few months ago, from having issues with my wife and all of that. I just woke up one day and I prayed to God for a way out. I spoke to a friend about this and he told me to be calm and introduced me to a great IT expert who helped me get into my cheating wife device retrieve all her text messages, call logs, iMessages, Zoom calls, Snapchat, Instagram and Skype activities. I was at first skeptic of using his services but the word of God came to me he’s the real deal after seeing many good and satisfactory recommendation about him. Many thanks to Smith, you can get in touch with him at Williamsdhackghost (@) gmailcom for all investigatory, spying and tracking services. He’s the best out here, this info retrieved from my wife’s phone helped me to reconstruct my relationship. We got different intents coming here to search for an app to track our partner or friends so it’s advisable to know the truth and not fall prey to the evil ones. His other services include: Website hacks, Retrieval of deleted messages and files, Phone cloning, retrieval of stolen bitcoins and lost wallet address passwords and many more. Reach out to ( williamsdhackghost (@) gmailcom) now!!! and enjoy a quality and wonderful service.
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  • @dianaaddison1
    @dianaaddison1 Рік тому

    Am planning to do one beside haven’t met him yet but this dude has really gone tooo far with me money wise , always requesting money,time to end it and move on ….. can’t be dealing with broke ass…

  • @ellishajimcoilyglorytoGod
    @ellishajimcoilyglorytoGod 3 роки тому +1

    They express love differently because they love different

  • @sageparsely2365
    @sageparsely2365 4 роки тому +4

    I love these tips! So glad
    I'm on my own. Ugh 🙃😏

  • @charleslazo6285
    @charleslazo6285 4 роки тому +5

    *Why Am I Watching This?, I don't even have a GF* 😂😂😂

    • @tintinpenaredondo6531
      @tintinpenaredondo6531 4 роки тому

      Maybe youvare getting information so that you can avoid the negative one but you know, no perfect relationship. Also better your find your Attachment style because we have four, Secure, Anxious, Dismissive Avoidant and Fesrful Attachment style. Which one is you? this one has a big impact to choose your gf or partner.

    • @smithwilliams545
      @smithwilliams545 4 роки тому

      Life is full of drama and dilemma which can make you lose all hope and faith. You might even think of committing suicide when life issues get at you. All you need to do is to be strong, learn to motivate, encourage and jeer up yourself. Hard times never lasts, remember there is always a light at the end of a tunnel. People changes but God remain constant with his promises. I faced fierce turbulent situation in my relationship in the past few months ago, from having issues with my wife and all of that. I just woke up one day and I prayed to God for a way out. I spoke to a friend about this and he told me to be calm and introduced me to a great IT expert who helped me get into my cheating wife device retrieve all her text messages, call logs, iMessages, Zoom calls, Snapchat, Instagram and Skype activities. I was at first skeptic of using his services but the word of God came to me he’s the real deal after seeing many good and satisfactory recommendation about him. Many thanks to Smith, you can get in touch with him at Williamsdhackghost (@) gmailcom for all investigatory, spying and tracking services. He’s the best out here, this info retrieved from my wife’s phone helped me to reconstruct my relationship. We got different intents coming here to search for an app to track our partner or friends so it’s advisable to know the truth and not fall prey to the evil ones. His other services include: Website hacks, Retrieval of deleted messages and files, Phone cloning, retrieval of stolen bitcoins and lost wallet address passwords and many more. Reach out to ( williamsdhackghost (@) gmailcom) now!!! and enjoy a quality and wonderful service.
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  • @nursemgbachiamarachi
    @nursemgbachiamarachi 4 роки тому

    Can I write my situation here or is there a handle??

    • @lovespellvoodoo5894
      @lovespellvoodoo5894 4 роки тому

      It hurts when your true love is gone. But you don't need to worry. A powerful spiritual man help me get my ex back is good in casting of spell

  • @eddyhung7497
    @eddyhung7497 2 роки тому

    Number 8 is so true

  • @amandahunter9186
    @amandahunter9186 2 роки тому

    There was 2 I had to end because of the disrespect I dealt with and I am never going to sacrifice my happiness to do things I don't want to as in have children if I dont want to so I broke up with him aka Mike Wheelock

    • @amandahunter9186
      @amandahunter9186 2 роки тому

      @rasheedat hassanayomide you clearly don't understand why I gave up on them. They were bullies to me so why should I if I was treated badly and my mom Terry was yelled at by one of them in Walmart at her job and she cried so why should I deal with it if they both don't care about me and my other ex boyfriend Mike was greedy and didn't do anything but made me feel bad about why he should buy me anything unless it's to brag about his job and force me to use a discount on food I don't want if he doesn't understand that I don't want anything at his job if they don't have anything I want if the donuts are disgusting and everything else because I stopped going to dunkin donuts and I don't understand why he wanted to see me there if I didn't want to and I really wish he understand and another thing he wanted children and I didn't because of his drinking problem with alcohol and I refused to allow children to deal with it if I try to keep them safe from abuse so I don't want them back my ex boyfriends

    • @amandahunter9186
      @amandahunter9186 2 роки тому

      @rasheedat hassanayomide I have someone better than him because Freddie is better than Mike and I hope you understand

  • @mammadebadian9246
    @mammadebadian9246 4 роки тому +1

    oh my...

  • @BetterThoughts
    @BetterThoughts 4 роки тому

    Who else a fun of Topthink before 2020 ?

  • @georgeanastasopoulos5865
    @georgeanastasopoulos5865 4 роки тому

    Number 9 is important.

  • @durnellemds3163
    @durnellemds3163 2 роки тому

    Just ending a relationship 1month ago were I was the one that put 80% of efforts in..

  • @chrismcevoy2503
    @chrismcevoy2503 2 роки тому +1

    They say love is blind I think it’s deaf and dumb too

  • @wolfgangk1
    @wolfgangk1 4 роки тому

    -[CREDENTIALS: LICENCED COUNSELOR]
    - “Experts” and pseudo-experts typically complicate sound judgment with their bad advice concerning differences between men and women. If a person was attentive, expressive during the chase but later slacks to nothing, then connect the dots. Don’t default into cognitive dissonance where you make excuses to maintain the relationship. While the partner may shift the blame on you or they didn’t realize it, they did when they didn’t (you know the rest), remember that wasn’t the case when the chase was on-so they are capable. Also say to YOURSELF, “If s/he fucked up at their job, nobody would have to tell them to apologize or give them an apology script.”
    - [I just put you on the fast-track of recognizing and deleting toxic people. Now it’s your responsibility to ACT.]
    You’re welcome in advance.

  • @0129581s
    @0129581s 4 роки тому +1

    Me NEEDY? 😂
    Let me explain. By the time I put my thoughts together not to upset her, adding the effort it takes to speak with a steady and calm voice throughout, plus the usual further explanations she will requires from an engineer mind, man it got already WAY TOO LONG. 😆😉😂
    I am not NEEDY because I know by a fact I can do it much BETTER, much FASTER, and without loosing so much breath to tell her so many words. 😈😆😂
    There is a say by Karma which goes more or less like this: 'never ask for something you cannot do yourself.'
    I am not a religious person, but I stick by such PRINCIPLE more or less for as long as I can remember. ☺😃😁

  • @doreenporter8176
    @doreenporter8176 4 роки тому +1

    It is time to find someone else.

  • @purplehearts3287
    @purplehearts3287 2 роки тому

    Yes to all 10. I'm not wasting anymore of my life. He's just awful. 😔

  • @Iwtbaf
    @Iwtbaf Рік тому

    She’s great but I’ve become more depressed since we started.maybe she’s just not the right person for me

  • @DEBSTAH29
    @DEBSTAH29 4 роки тому

    everybody is different . everybody has different stories. different complications . talking is important . always respect respect respect your partner . ist impresions are very important . many guys screw up their first impresions and ruin the whole relationship . its mostly the guys fault . that's why so many women end up in the streets these days .

    • @abes3925
      @abes3925 4 роки тому

      No way it’s the woman’s fault cuz they play so many mind games and love the thrill of being chased and feeling wanted than actually being in a relationship. Most woman use the chase as a way to manipulate the guy into buying her things

    • @chrissysousa
      @chrissysousa 3 роки тому

      It's actually both men'sand women's fault.....due to society...have a great day both of you

  • @drgdfhg
    @drgdfhg 4 роки тому

    1 sign you shouldn't start a relationship: you don't know enough about how the brain works.
    Not knowing stuff will obviously make your relationships to fall apart. What if you KNEW HOW TO HANDLE a bunch of stuff and why it happens?

  • @ashok_KA
    @ashok_KA 4 роки тому +2

    How did you know that i just fought with her now ?🙄

  • @StreetsidePhotoOnline
    @StreetsidePhotoOnline 4 роки тому +1

    Relationship advice in a society with an almost 80% divorce rate lol. We are not the experts.

    • @christopherbenson7962
      @christopherbenson7962 4 роки тому

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      @christopherbenson7962 4 роки тому

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      @christopherbenson7962 4 роки тому

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  • @genesiscarolina6158
    @genesiscarolina6158 2 роки тому

    Can't stop thinking *Dr danja the spell caster* for bringing back my relationship relationship

  • @patriciafowler5837
    @patriciafowler5837 Рік тому

    I don't feel the same when I'm with my partner

  • @juliannaokike4063
    @juliannaokike4063 4 роки тому

    I never do this ever.......

  • @giftjohnson3964
    @giftjohnson3964 2 роки тому +1

    Luckily I found a spell that helped me with the issues of my relationship with my wife now we are fine is none other than *Dr Danja the spell caster* Iappreciate his love spell and his magic..

  • @StonerBoy-mel0dy
    @StonerBoy-mel0dy 4 роки тому

    First it should been trust

  • @ChrisyClass-zp2yh
    @ChrisyClass-zp2yh Рік тому

    Ok all the best hope all goes well
    I hope your ok goodbye

  • @lordloud50
    @lordloud50 3 роки тому +1

    Damn😪