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  • Опубліковано 11 лют 2020
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    THIS INSPIRATIONAL father is proving that life really has no limits - despite missing parts of both his arms AND legs. Ryan Hudson-Peralta was born with Congenital Limb Deficiency, a rare condition that gave him severely shortened legs and arms without hands. The now 3ft 6”, 40-year-old describes himself as a loving father, husband, motivational speaker and positive mentor to others - and he has definitely been living up to his word. Ryan still manages to drive a car by himself, make his way up and down the stairs, use his mobile phone AND conduct his full time job of being a successful user-interface designer at Rocket Mortgage in Detroit, MI. Residing in Michigan, Ryan even takes it upon himself to visit and help other families across the States who have children living with similar conditions.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 5 тис.

  • @laurecrp8751
    @laurecrp8751 4 роки тому +2489

    « What are you talking about ? This is my son , bring my son back »
    This Mama is amazing 😍

    • @dogerswag
      @dogerswag 4 роки тому +18

      There are some people that will never be like that

    • @justarandompersonontheinte5949
      @justarandompersonontheinte5949 3 роки тому +7

      @@dogerswag we all know that doge

    • @eeltenaj19
      @eeltenaj19 3 роки тому +40

      That was normal years ago. I'm surprised that it's as recent as 40 years like in this guy Ryan's case. I thought western society had gotten past the "throw them away if they're different" stage. He's got a good attitude. His mom was fierce!

    • @Kay-12345
      @Kay-12345 3 роки тому +11

      His mom is the definition of angel!

    • @camilaquan8906
      @camilaquan8906 3 роки тому +2

      very true

  • @Mndranam
    @Mndranam 4 роки тому +3490

    "...I met my wife when I was 20..." 🤔 You look 20 now

    • @chikipichi5280
      @chikipichi5280 4 роки тому +31

      about 26 for me tbh

    • @gabriellefagan1014
      @gabriellefagan1014 4 роки тому +2

      I know!

    • @b2rvon510
      @b2rvon510 4 роки тому +10

      O think he is in his 40s

    • @TheRubinator13
      @TheRubinator13 4 роки тому +27

      Maybe not having arms and legs has allowed his body to focus all its energy on keeping his face young? He'll probably die at 90 looking like he's 40

    •  4 роки тому +1

      He looks 40. What you smokeing.

  • @fatherchapel
    @fatherchapel 3 роки тому +695

    He's 40?! This man aged like a fine wine, I would have thought he was in his late 20s/early 30s.

  • @KLINESubliminals
    @KLINESubliminals 3 роки тому +345

    The little girl with no arms got my heart melted with her laughter❤️

  • @stormyjackson
    @stormyjackson 4 роки тому +3468

    Him: I don’t want people to see me as a person with no arms or legs
    Barcroft TV: Father of two with no arms or legs

  • @wadisanaa
    @wadisanaa 4 роки тому +2963

    the little girl with no arms is so freaking cute and funny.

    • @amfanakaguccirushgirl9686
      @amfanakaguccirushgirl9686 4 роки тому +124

      yes !! "oops i just farted! lol !"

    • @wadisanaa
      @wadisanaa 4 роки тому +27

      @@amfanakaguccirushgirl9686 lol yup.....I can still hear her angelic laughter

    • @D-M-J
      @D-M-J 4 роки тому +34

      agreed her and the little boy is really cute

    • @randymossfan9883
      @randymossfan9883 4 роки тому +4

      Cry myself to sleep

    • @johnpaine673
      @johnpaine673 4 роки тому +11

      Absolutely adorable she is...

  • @morgansparhawk8410
    @morgansparhawk8410 3 роки тому +314

    Want to take a moment to appreciate his mom for demanding they bring her son to her.

    • @strongwoman9527
      @strongwoman9527 2 роки тому +3

      🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @femf8tal
      @femf8tal 2 роки тому +2

      Ikr I would want my baby regardless. Unless the baby has a low apgar nothing should hinder presentation.

    • @TEM14411
      @TEM14411 Рік тому +3

      Speaks to how our society viewed differences ...doctors and nurses assumed the parents would not want him. Decades ago, these issues were never spoken of and sent to institutions. Thank you God, we live in a world that is more accessible and accepting for all.

  • @dominicksansotta7173
    @dominicksansotta7173 2 роки тому +267

    I love how supportive his wife and children are .

    • @azazello1784
      @azazello1784 Рік тому

      I can't believe his wife didn't want to find a normal guy.

  • @lindablume7552
    @lindablume7552 4 роки тому +2435

    “I Fwarted” So CUTEEEEE how can you not love that little girl

  • @heatherrisawesome
    @heatherrisawesome 4 роки тому +1909

    his necklace says “look mom no hands” his attitude about everything and life is amazing 💕 kudos to this guy

    • @bernlin2000
      @bernlin2000 4 роки тому +35

      He has a huge sneaker collection...that's when I absolutely fell in love with this dude. A great sense of humor will get you EVERYWHERE, regardless of your appearance

    • @Atmanmahatma
      @Atmanmahatma 4 роки тому +3

      🤘

    • @MM-dq2pi
      @MM-dq2pi 4 роки тому +7

      so does his chair

    • @FaisalMalik-mn7pz
      @FaisalMalik-mn7pz 4 роки тому

      hi. hello

    • @Burlykim13
      @Burlykim13 Рік тому

      So did the back of his wheelchair 😊

  • @Sarakate601
    @Sarakate601 3 роки тому +349

    OMG.. that little girl farting and saying “I FARTED” then cracking up seriously made my day! She’s SO freaking CUUUUTEEE!

  • @aoifehannah9246
    @aoifehannah9246 4 роки тому +1953

    “The hardest thing about living without arms and legs, is that people see me without arms and legs.” 😭my heart

    • @nicjade704
      @nicjade704 4 роки тому +17

      Aoife Hannah Really hit me hard that one.
      Constantly people judge what they are seeing before knowing
      Glad you commented it, was looking for it!

    • @aoifehannah9246
      @aoifehannah9246 4 роки тому +7

      Nicola Jade same here, I find it so sad tbh how critical people are of others. I hope one day people just see people as people no matter age, sex, race, disability, gender, religion etc. We’re all just human😒

    • @Sweetdification
      @Sweetdification 4 роки тому +1

      But it's worst being seen as normal?! ✝️🙏And people have No Empathy and are just Wicked?! That's worse

    • @Sweetdification
      @Sweetdification 4 роки тому +1

      Many are The Afflictions of the Righteous person But Adonai promise's to deliver us out of them ✝️🙏

    • @creatorraft9197
      @creatorraft9197 4 роки тому

      Sweetdification wrongo

  • @venticarmelfrap
    @venticarmelfrap 3 роки тому +1274

    He's wearing a necklace that says "Look mom, no hands" and can't explain how resilient this guy is to have that kind of humor towards his condition

    • @josephinetyree1476
      @josephinetyree1476 3 роки тому +11

      Also his wheel chair..... said that.... CUTE.......!!!!

    • @GabrielleTollerson
      @GabrielleTollerson 3 роки тому +5

      ikr!

    • @asiandod325
      @asiandod325 3 роки тому +7

      You either spend your life laughing about it or crying about it.

    • @michaelangelo7204
      @michaelangelo7204 3 роки тому +1

      Bros a real one 💯

    • @lisajoyce6803
      @lisajoyce6803 2 роки тому

      You can choose to laugh or choose to cry but laughing is a better choice with disabilities like this because you have a better outlook on life when you’re happy and your time on earth hopefully a long time but no one knows how long I’m severely disabled as is my son being positive about a disability keeps you from stewing about your problems 24/7 365 days a year.staying positive can make days months weeks and years seem to be flying by when you are not loathing in self misery hats off to him

  • @joanannewallace
    @joanannewallace 3 роки тому +74

    Incredible person and beautiful soul. His mother saying. “He’s my son bring me my son.’ says it all. His parents and the parents of the other little children are special and they have instilled confidence and love.

  • @Janet1975
    @Janet1975 3 роки тому +367

    They said, “It’s okay if you don’t want to keep him” to your mom? That’s disgusting. I’d be so outraged. Your poor mom.
    You’re awesome!

    • @RosieWilliamOlivia
      @RosieWilliamOlivia 3 роки тому +63

      A lot of disabled children get abused out of frustration/ resentment from the parents. Giving the parents a guilt free option of giving up the baby to a better home would protect the child.

    • @sme7385
      @sme7385 3 роки тому +2

      I think that is outrageous too. WHo does not want their child.
      There actually is a Saint Margaret of Castello who was abandoned because
      she was deformed and familied would adopt her to stay at their homes because she was
      good and holy. Enough said. They have great maganiminous personalities.

    • @melynyc5214
      @melynyc5214 2 роки тому +22

      @@sme7385 There are plenty of people that cannot handle these situations like someone already explained to you ,get over it we know your opinion ,but that's not everyone else's, that's called LIFE, and your going on a tangent about some saint saying because "she was "holy " and all that sounded absurd. Their are different people in the world ,time to acknowledge that and get out of your delusional bubble , it makes you sound a bit off.

    • @sme7385
      @sme7385 2 роки тому +2

      @@melynyc5214 These people are special and wonderful. What is what you are trying to say. Please do not judge me for God will judge YOU.

    • @bradleysmith9431
      @bradleysmith9431 2 роки тому +2

      @@RosieWilliamOlivia I don't think they were referring to adoption as being the alternative of keeping him.

  • @3mma674
    @3mma674 4 роки тому +1763

    “i farted” her little laugh lol

    • @BandlerChing
      @BandlerChing 4 роки тому +62

      Had me rolling 😂😂 farts are funny and that is a universal truth

    • @misstinahamilton5714
      @misstinahamilton5714 4 роки тому +51

      Oh goodness - that is the cutest fart I ever witnessed ! She's so precious !

    • @gmodesike
      @gmodesike 4 роки тому +25

      So precious

    • @32lucian75
      @32lucian75 4 роки тому +59

      Let's all agree that, that little girl has a big vocabulary and she's only two

    • @bam2431
      @bam2431 4 роки тому +27

      Omg I haven't seen something so adorable in a long time 😍 I just might rewind and watch it again lol

  • @presidentamanda7468
    @presidentamanda7468 4 роки тому +750

    His parents made him feel loved and wanted so he grew up a confident, contributing member of society.

    • @josyjump
      @josyjump 4 роки тому +14

      And THAT is what happens with ALL kids.. That's how ya do it.. 👏👏👏

    • @notebookluvr
      @notebookluvr 4 роки тому +11

      Wouldn't it be great if all parents did that? I can only imagine what it's like to have parents like that.

    • @katanalashawn4468
      @katanalashawn4468 4 роки тому +1

      Facts

    • @AA-wc3tw
      @AA-wc3tw 3 роки тому +3

      If only every child had such amazing parents. Many of us can only fantasize about having normal parents, unfortunately. I can imagine how my mom would have reacted to have a differently-abled child.....it wouldn't have been a good situation.

  • @cactuscallie5090
    @cactuscallie5090 3 роки тому +69

    That little 2 year old Gabriella calling out "Alexa!" is just cuteness overload! 🥰
    Seeing those little kids and how they have learned to move around and get things done is amazing. The ways that the human body and mind adapt to a specific individual's situation is absolutely astounding ❤

  • @momof4kids735
    @momof4kids735 3 роки тому +184

    What stops these kids from having a normal life isn’t so much their disability, that they can overcome. It’s the cruelty of others. If everyone accepted them for the beautiful, capable human beings that they are, half the battle would be won without any effort.

    • @helenhuskins4231
      @helenhuskins4231 3 роки тому +3

      I think the battle is what makes us all tougher and appreciative of our accomplishments!

    • @Vikingshop
      @Vikingshop 2 роки тому +1

      @@helenhuskins4231 ...and unfortunately most of us only discover it in our latter years. We should teach our...and other....children, that we are here on earth to learn how to fight against evil and for good ...every day of our lives. This is training ground. God Bless All those participating in the Battle.

    • @bizznick444joe7
      @bizznick444joe7 Рік тому

      Failure is not an option, failure is a must. You cannot learn anything in life if you don't fail. It's not a matter of how people should change. Because how can you monitor it. Any moment people can be acting nice but you don't know when they will mistreat them. But if you make these disabled people strong then they can face any adversity. It's not just people, nature itself is cruel and will mistreat them, if they are strong they can overcome it.

    • @momof4kids735
      @momof4kids735 Рік тому +1

      @@bizznick444joe7you can only prepare your children for so much, but they are never truly ready for the selfishness, narrow mindedness, and cruelty other people present. Teaching them coping strategies and to love themselves is great, but to absolve others by saying they do not need to improve themselves because it makes another stronger to live through it, is absurd. Everyone should strive for empathy, compassion, integrity, and civility. Self actualization leads to a more prosperous community as a whole

  • @bam2431
    @bam2431 4 роки тому +580

    His mother did a fine job raising him..its clear. He's a good man..wonderful father and husband. 👏👏👏 kudos mama!

    • @chichitorrellas6019
      @chichitorrellas6019 4 роки тому +7

      God has truly blessed him with a loving and caring mother who was there for him from the start which made him have hope for life which he over came obstacle toward his happiness in his life

    • @carolbassant5396
      @carolbassant5396 4 роки тому

      @@chichitorrellas6019 better than those so called father who have everything and still molesting their daughters.. this man is such a great dad. may u be so blessed in JESUS name..

  • @gradstudentbuthomelessinth3852
    @gradstudentbuthomelessinth3852 4 роки тому +840

    The part where he’s recounting how the docs said “he’ll never drive a car” and then you see him flossing the whip is sick

    • @collettewhosthatgirl1330
      @collettewhosthatgirl1330 4 роки тому +1

      What???

    • @indiracamotim2858
      @indiracamotim2858 4 роки тому +3

      Grad student But homeless in the spring - they actually did him a favor by saying “never” !

    • @SaraS-jq1ln
      @SaraS-jq1ln 4 роки тому +2

      He is cool... your lame lingo is not 😆

    • @RobinFlysHigh
      @RobinFlysHigh 4 роки тому +6

      Haven't heard anyone say flossing or whip in years haha

    • @nomam7358
      @nomam7358 4 роки тому

      Lol sure

  • @jessicakiller8117
    @jessicakiller8117 2 роки тому +15

    "The hardest thing about living with no arms and legs is when people see me with no arms and legs". Man this guy. 🙏

  • @elina7338
    @elina7338 3 роки тому +39

    We need to have the same attitude like this man's mother who embraced her child as he was .........

  • @kiam7904
    @kiam7904 4 роки тому +1492

    He’s really handsome
    His wife is a pretty lady too

    • @Trillzzy3
      @Trillzzy3 4 роки тому +6

      Kia M cap

    • @manoutraore3788
      @manoutraore3788 4 роки тому +3

      @@Trillzzy3 on god

    • @jaygonzalez8575
      @jaygonzalez8575 4 роки тому +3

      Kia M quit lieing !!! 😂

    • @PaiddJadee
      @PaiddJadee 4 роки тому +26

      Jay Gonzalez Learn how to spell. You’re a damn hater bruh.

    • @nataliemccabe3290
      @nataliemccabe3290 4 роки тому +32

      Yeah that's the 1st thing I noticed, how nice he dresses & he's a good looking dude. He's doing alot better that alot of able bodied dead beats.

  • @Ocupada_88
    @Ocupada_88 4 роки тому +894

    The little girl's laugh is contagious. She make me laugh.

    • @hannahcarter5923
      @hannahcarter5923 4 роки тому +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @lamelinna
      @lamelinna 4 роки тому +11

      When she said I farted lol she’s the cutest!!!

    • @Dr_Mantis_Toboggan
      @Dr_Mantis_Toboggan 4 роки тому +2

      Mc 326 omg it was so cute lol I hope I have a funny baby

  • @MeeblesSporella
    @MeeblesSporella 3 роки тому +187

    PEOPLE...how can they be so MEAN?

    • @Exile-tq5vc
      @Exile-tq5vc 3 роки тому +3

      How does he have kids

    • @doctoreggman7308
      @doctoreggman7308 3 роки тому +11

      It's immoral to knowingly pass on disabled genes to your children. Children shouldn't have to go through not having arms and/or legs.

    • @doctoreggman7308
      @doctoreggman7308 3 роки тому

      Nevermind, one of the comments said that the daughter with no arms was from an earlier relationship that his wife had.

    • @zachbrown210
      @zachbrown210 3 роки тому +5

      @@doctoreggman7308 so ur gonna choose to not let someone live because u think they cant handle it? Ask this man if he wants to be dead, he has a great life. Ur looking at life the wrong way....rather live and learn than never live at all

    • @1flash3571
      @1flash3571 3 роки тому +1

      @@zachbrown210 He means to not get pregnant in the first place if you know you have the genes for no arms and legs.

  • @georgeksiawjr4617
    @georgeksiawjr4617 3 роки тому +25

    U can hear the confidence in his voice, soo inspirational.

  • @nightslayer6951
    @nightslayer6951 4 роки тому +503

    He's the ideal man of a great father and husband, many women and kids would dream of having

    • @MC-ly8jc
      @MC-ly8jc 4 роки тому +4

      Nightslayer exactly. The definition of a real man.

    • @dronus
      @dronus 4 роки тому +1

      There's a bunch of us still in existence. :)

    • @nightslayer6951
      @nightslayer6951 4 роки тому

      @@dronus Sorry if I offend you

    • @dronus
      @dronus 4 роки тому

      @@nightslayer6951 none taken. Lol. Take care

    • @nightslayer6951
      @nightslayer6951 4 роки тому

      @@dronus You too

  • @jadedmind7634
    @jadedmind7634 4 роки тому +529

    She said “I farted.” I died. First of those two are adorable and he is a rock star for being there for them and his own two kids! I love it!

  • @missCaution8
    @missCaution8 3 роки тому +20

    The fact that you go out of your way to make children feel more confident in their abilities makes my heart warm ♥

  • @courtesyof24
    @courtesyof24 3 роки тому +26

    He looks SO young!! I would have never believed he was 40. The kids were so freaking adorable! This is so sweet.

  • @shxdow9807
    @shxdow9807 4 роки тому +1376

    So nobody gonna talk about how he flipped the phone in the beginning?

    • @nabranesgamer932
      @nabranesgamer932 4 роки тому +20

      Just how we do things as we learn motor skills at a young age except his are different as some of his body parts or partially missing, but he’s used to it.

    • @D00RK90B
      @D00RK90B 4 роки тому +39

      That was possibly the most awesome thing he did onscreen.

    • @Executivebird
      @Executivebird 4 роки тому +13

      ShxdowX I wonder how he made love with his wife

    • @mirandaelaine7227
      @mirandaelaine7227 4 роки тому +13

      I was just gonna come to the comments to see if anyone else saw how badass that was?

    • @gabziiee
      @gabziiee 4 роки тому +6

      That was hella awesome

  • @0619kittykat
    @0619kittykat 3 роки тому +962

    "I farted!".... That may have possibly been the cutest thing I've ever seen

    • @isaacmemtorie3347
      @isaacmemtorie3347 3 роки тому +43

      I seriously keep rewatching this video to hear her say that, and her adorable laugh after.

    • @xfangirlalwayz1566
      @xfangirlalwayz1566 3 роки тому +25

      5:15 🤣

    • @jon-kl9mk
      @jon-kl9mk 3 роки тому +15

      That part made me LOL : )

    • @jasonx409able
      @jasonx409able 3 роки тому +29

      Her reaction is priceless, such a cutie!!!

    • @josebravo7337
      @josebravo7337 3 роки тому +22

      cuteness overload.

  • @aesthetic.destruction2341
    @aesthetic.destruction2341 2 роки тому +6

    This man has a really powerful will and has made it in life, despite all of the disabilities. This man is a hero.

  • @sonyajeffkaisabenjaminsuem885
    @sonyajeffkaisabenjaminsuem885 3 роки тому +21

    Awww God bless the wife and the children for loving him the way he is.

  • @antasiashaw8815
    @antasiashaw8815 4 роки тому +332

    I love the fact that he has a wife and children who love him for how he is makes me realize there are people in the world that actually love you for you

  • @sharonapark8415
    @sharonapark8415 4 роки тому +956

    Ryan: impossible becomes possible.
    Guys with functioning limbs: Can't even take out the trash.

    • @thegracetofollow4194
      @thegracetofollow4194 4 роки тому +17

      He is doing so much better than men with arms and legs

    • @daphanemcconnell5662
      @daphanemcconnell5662 4 роки тому +17

      Sharona Park yes like my husband. The trash liner in can would over flow to floor. Pissed me off

    • @katzwhite5962
      @katzwhite5962 4 роки тому +10

      @@daphanemcconnell5662 Omg! I so get this. An ex boyfriend never emptied the rubbish bin, even though it was overflowing. I finally lost it one day and called him a c***.

    • @sharonapark8415
      @sharonapark8415 4 роки тому

      @@thegracetofollow4194 way better :-)

    • @sharonapark8415
      @sharonapark8415 4 роки тому +5

      @@daphanemcconnell5662 idk what's wrong with their eyes honestly. Sometimes it stinks too but they act like it was nothing

  • @lolwutathon
    @lolwutathon 2 роки тому +9

    I knew a girl born with one arm, no legs when I was younger. It didn't stop her doing a lot of things either. Big respect to this dude!

  • @Cyril29a
    @Cyril29a 2 роки тому +2

    This man understands, the key to success is failing quickly so you can try again sooner. Fearing failure just prolongs the road to success.

  • @angeljohnson234
    @angeljohnson234 4 роки тому +1316

    This man is amazing. The doctors that counted him out are a**holes.

    • @alexisstone9742
      @alexisstone9742 4 роки тому +51

      angeljohnson234 You have to understand that the doctors asked them for the protection of the child. Everyday children(primarily in other cultures) are discarded do to genetic pre-dispositions. This give the parents an option to give a better quality life for their child.

    • @jsav4269
      @jsav4269 4 роки тому +4

      Guaranteed liberals

    • @black_jackledemon6298
      @black_jackledemon6298 4 роки тому +13

      Common attitude at the time unfortunately.
      It's by no means comparable but they did that to my mother because I had a cleft lip and facial bone deformities
      I'm only a couple years older than him.
      It's great that he takes time to meet kids and parents to reassure them they can have excellent adult lives.
      Thankful the medication that caused my deformity was taken off the shelf. But I've met a few parents that worried their children wouldn't look normal and be able to speak clearly as adults and it felt good to reassure them it's nothing to worry about. Almost nobody even notices it after surgery and I speak 4 differnt languages. You get used to having to relearn how to pronounce a particular word from time to time so learning all new words feels natural.

    • @alexisstone9742
      @alexisstone9742 4 роки тому +1

      J Sav you caught me 😂

    • @jsav4269
      @jsav4269 4 роки тому

      Alexis Stone the doctors of course

  • @silentnight1918
    @silentnight1918 4 роки тому +649

    Personality is everything.

  • @austinbandy5818
    @austinbandy5818 3 роки тому +13

    Not only are you one of the most brave and compassionate people I've seen but you went on to make a stunningly beautiful family. You rock!

  • @j.c.harrisassetmanagement7939
    @j.c.harrisassetmanagement7939 3 роки тому +9

    I watch this at least 5 times a day to hear that little girl. She's just so precious. Omg who cares she doesn't have arms she's so adorable. You can tell she's going to be an angel.

  • @rainbowpandasays8851
    @rainbowpandasays8851 4 роки тому +297

    Who cares how he was born,this guy has everything.

    • @giselef4885
      @giselef4885 4 роки тому +2

      kindness himanity is not esdy to find.

    • @KUSHKOURAFAS
      @KUSHKOURAFAS 4 роки тому

      Facts

    • @terminat1
      @terminat1 4 роки тому

      It's easy to smile for the camera. Everyone has problems. Nobody has "everything."

    • @barrylyndon80
      @barrylyndon80 4 роки тому

      At least he has found true love with his woman.

  • @miken8778
    @miken8778 4 роки тому +514

    If he does nothing else in his lifetime, him meeting and talking to a scared couple who was expecting a child with no arms would be enough. That would be enough to say it was all worth it.

    • @jage5256
      @jage5256 4 роки тому +14

      Just remember your baby is yours. The sky is the limit. If a parent has braces on their mind the child is doomed. If the parent is open to all possibilities the sky has no limit. Yeah. I said it. Lol

  • @valentingarciaable
    @valentingarciaable 3 роки тому +5

    It was especially touching to see how he is able to comfort the other family and show them that everything will be all right.

  • @vellaanna-louisebarto1607
    @vellaanna-louisebarto1607 3 роки тому +12

    That mom is awesome!!! Great respect for her and her son!!

  • @sweetiecuts
    @sweetiecuts 4 роки тому +457

    Does more for the family than some men with all limbs! Inspirational indeed.

  • @sheenabailey
    @sheenabailey 4 роки тому +565

    How is he so cool though. You don’t need limbs for swagger obviously.

  • @tw3609
    @tw3609 2 роки тому +22

    Great inspirational story. I love how he is so willing to give of himself to the children.

  • @B311adonna
    @B311adonna 3 роки тому +4

    To those that said he’d never... LOOK AT HIM NOW!! So proud of you!!

  • @sisterstina3700
    @sisterstina3700 4 роки тому +615

    He's such a cool guy. And also he needs to drop that skin care routine because his skin looks GOOD for his age!

    • @suzykorir5829
      @suzykorir5829 4 роки тому +1

      Sister Stina for sure.

    • @CM_CM_
      @CM_CM_ 4 роки тому +2

      @@steve3370 He literally said in the video someone came up to him in the office he worked at

    • @ivanaivana4661
      @ivanaivana4661 4 роки тому

      @@kristinhoward5077 You are wrong.When you dont have a regular job,or dont work at all you aged slowly.

    • @nomam7358
      @nomam7358 4 роки тому

      Lol

    • @dalays7509
      @dalays7509 2 роки тому

      Maybe cause he doesn't touch his face which causes acne

  • @victoriasnead1662
    @victoriasnead1662 4 роки тому +222

    He looks so young and vibrant I thought his kids were his siblings at first.

  • @giovannidavinci20
    @giovannidavinci20 3 роки тому +25

    Such a great guy, with a lovely lovely family! You rock Ryan.

    • @azazello1784
      @azazello1784 Рік тому

      He should be ashamed for making himself a burden to this lovely woman. If he loved her then he would let her go so she could find a normal guy.

  • @Its_abwa
    @Its_abwa 3 роки тому +7

    I love that on the back of his wheelchair it says, " Look ma no hands"

  • @kathyinwonderlandl.a.8934
    @kathyinwonderlandl.a.8934 4 роки тому +542

    Omg that little girl was so cute I just wanted to give her kisses.. she’ll be a feisty one.. no one will tell her she can’t do anything she wants and the other little boy the same...

    • @ellebailey5358
      @ellebailey5358 4 роки тому +9

      Omg....she is so adorable.

    • @curiosity7774
      @curiosity7774 4 роки тому +17

      She is very mature for her age. I see her every week at church ❤

  • @alejandraalvarezh8938
    @alejandraalvarezh8938 4 роки тому +856

    Did he say he's 40? 😲 Looks quite young and he's also attractive

    • @SamK-qq4qe
      @SamK-qq4qe 4 роки тому +10

      40 is young is he going to look 80

    • @karen-df9wm
      @karen-df9wm 4 роки тому +22

      He is very attractive... that's the first thing I noticed lol

    • @Hildebrunn
      @Hildebrunn 4 роки тому +2

      He looks 30 !!?

    • @funtimefranky
      @funtimefranky 4 роки тому

      Sam K 50 here no wrinkles

    • @funtimefranky
      @funtimefranky 4 роки тому

      Sam K Hereditary

  • @betha.6279
    @betha.6279 3 роки тому +5

    He's clearly and outstanding dad and loving husband! He takes great care of his family and teaches his kids to appreciate the unique strengths in others.

    • @azazello1784
      @azazello1784 Рік тому

      He should be ashamed for getting involved with his wife and then procreating. Now they are stuck with a crippled father and husband.

  • @mamawright156
    @mamawright156 3 роки тому +8

    What an absolute inspiration. I am raising my children to have open hearts and help people whenever possible and to spread love and joy. They love it and this is what this guy is doing just by being himself. How awesome :)

  • @IAmSuzyQ
    @IAmSuzyQ 4 роки тому +200

    5:19 💨 "I farted!", followed by her little giggles...
    Cutest part! 🤭

    • @bam2431
      @bam2431 4 роки тому +6

      Omg ..I just want to squeeze her and hug her so much...so dang cuuuute!

    • @IAmSuzyQ
      @IAmSuzyQ 4 роки тому +4

      @@bam2431 I KNOW, ME TOO! She's the cutest little thing I've ever seen! I'm so glad the three of them have found each other, and I hope the 2 little ones will be able to be an inspiration to other little kids born the same way, when they're older, like Ryan has done for them. You can tell how helpful it's been for them, and their families...what a beautiful cycle of love, acceptance, and support! 👍Yea!

  • @The.Living.Dead.Gurl0233
    @The.Living.Dead.Gurl0233 4 роки тому +209

    He’s extremely handsome, especially when he was younger. Good lord.

    • @jessicalychee8376
      @jessicalychee8376 4 роки тому +8

      Ashley Vaughn hes good looking man too. I grew up in such a vain borough but I could see loving this man!!! He’s so chill. It’s like I see past everything.

  • @RanndiMarie01
    @RanndiMarie01 2 роки тому +7

    Wow I think this was my favorite episode of this series. Ryan is such an amazing man and I love that he’s able to help kids with his deformities as well.

  • @Linda-vx4fn
    @Linda-vx4fn 3 роки тому +4

    Thank God for helping him have such an "overcomer" attitude!
    He sure is a lovely person.

  • @meliortega2491
    @meliortega2491 4 роки тому +407

    When he threw his phone to his neck with his leg i was like damnnn

    • @chrisapplewhite6660
      @chrisapplewhite6660 4 роки тому +5

      Pretty damn slick

    • @bam2431
      @bam2431 4 роки тому +3

      Straight G move! I wanna be that cool

    • @rb5344
      @rb5344 4 роки тому +1

      Skills! 😁

    • @deelite402
      @deelite402 4 роки тому

      Ikr....like a BOSS😎

    • @JonLa89
      @JonLa89 4 роки тому

      I wanna see him on Dude Perfect.

  • @IAmSuzyQ
    @IAmSuzyQ 4 роки тому +193

    The "Look Ma...No Hands!", on the back of his wheelchair, absolutely cracked me up! I had an Aunt who had no legs and her favorite thing to say was, "And there I was, without a leg to stand on!". I miss her everyday and Ryan's sense of humor brought back so many great memories; we spent all our time laughing! She was a trip!👍💜

    • @throwmilly
      @throwmilly 4 роки тому +2

      I just noticed that as I scrolled down and saw your comment.

    • @sashapollard92
      @sashapollard92 4 роки тому +1

      So cool! I'm super glad you got to experience that again.

    • @IAmSuzyQ
      @IAmSuzyQ 4 роки тому +4

      @@sashapollard92 Thanks! She was so hilarious! Right hand to God, she got in a car accident and threw one of her prosthetic legs out the window, just to freak people out! (It worked!😉)
      We had plenty of fun with her too, sometimes we'd turn the speed all the way up on her wheelchair, without her knowing, so she'd take off crazy fast.🤭 I did it to her at Kmart, and she ran into one of those big round clothing racks, and her chair kinda got hung up on it, so when she tried to back away from it, the whole thing went with her...so she was just going forward and backwards, over and over, making hangers and shirts fly all over the place! We all laughed until it hurt, we had tears running down our faces! Thankfully she thought it was as funny as the rest of the family....oh man, we laughed about that for years! 😆😆😆😆 I miss her so much.
      As a nurse, I know the pain my patients go through, and nothing makes me happier than to see those who find ways to laugh through the pain. They're allowed plenty of time to be upset and scared, but I do my best to fill as much time as possible, with fun and laughter. Most of my "training" in the fun and laughter part of my job, came from my time with my Aunt; she was an amazing teacher!

    • @crystalortega2156
      @crystalortega2156 4 роки тому +1

      Suzy Q oh my your post had me laughing and crying all at the same time. My daughter has 17q12 deletion syndrome (missing chromosome 17) (similar to Down syndrome) basically messed up all her internal organs (ears, heart, kidneys, GI, etc) but oddly enough she didn’t come out with the face (which is actually why doctors took so long to diagnose it). People always feel bad for her because she’s so young (4 y/o) and has been through so much and they always say how can you deal with it and I tell them if you don’t laugh you’ll just cry. I tell people “She’s pretty on the outside, but ugly on the inside” lol

    • @IAmSuzyQ
      @IAmSuzyQ 4 роки тому

      @@crystalortega2156 I'm glad my stories gave you a good laugh! I could write a book of stories about my Aunt, she was too funny and such a good sport. We have a relatively small family, there was 6 of us and we were always together; I swear we were like a traveling 3 ring circus! There was a period of time, probably like 3 years, when the 6 of us started chopping each other in the throat, like full-on karate chop, ok? So we walked around with our hand covering and protecting our own necks, but the second one of us let down our guard...CHOP! Then that person would be choking and coughing, mad as hell, and ready to get revenge! That's probably the most painful thing we did to each other... During another stretch of like 4 years we shanked each other, you know when you yank someone's pants down? 🤭 It was never funny to the shanked one, but the other 5 members of this "circus" would die laughing! I got it the worst, when we were all headed on a cruise vacation, but we were late to the airport so we were running/rolling to the gate so we wouldn't miss our flight to Florida...well, my evil mother decided that would be the perfect time to shank me (🖕that's for my mom. It's been 30 years and I'm still a little pissed about it.🤷🏼‍♀️😉), anyways, she shanked me, and because we were walking so fast, I walked right out of my pants!!! So, there I stood, in the middle of the damn airport, in my undies, a good 10 steps away from my pants, because it all happened so fast. It was just perfect timing...as my pants came down, I stepped right out of them....and boy was I mad! Of course they were laughing themselves stupid as I had to walk back to get my pants and put them back on.🙄 I can only imagine how funny it must have been for them, because I know I would have shat myself laughing if it had been one of them.😉 But that was us...that's the kind of crap we were doing all the time. It was on that cruise when we went swimming with the stingrays, and my aunt wanted to get in the water too, so we ripped her legs off, popped some arm floaties on her, and tossed her overboard. That was normal for us, but you should have seen the other people on the tour with us! It was like one of those moments, in a movie, where the record scratches, and everyone turns to look as their jaws hit the floor... But we were all like, "what?". 🤷🏼‍♀️
      There was never a moment that she wasn't right there doing whatever the rest of us were doing, we just found a way. She even climbed Dunn's River Falls with us; it wasn't pretty, but we did it.
      Anyway, enough about my crazy family, let's talk about yours! 😉 Your daughter sounds like a little doll! I'm sorry to hear she has that diagnosis, and I'm really sorry it took so long to figure it out. There's nothing more frustrating than knowing something's wrong, but not being about to name it...at least once you have a diagnosis, you can be more prepared to deal with whatever treatments or milestones are coming. I've actually heard about that diagnosis before, I think it was on a SBSK video. If you haven't already been watching that channel, YOU NEED TO START RIGHT FREAKING NOW! The guy, Chris, who does the interviews is absolutely amazing, and he's bringing awareness to different conditions, so when we see people with these conditions we know how to best react. The parents always say they would welcome people approaching them out in public, and that it's ok to come over and say hi to their child. I know it's hard for folks to know how to act around someone that looks so different or acts differently, but this channel aims to help break those fears, by answering the questions people might have, and it has allowed these kids to have the confidence to go out and be around people, when they were too scared before. It's a truly beautiful thing he and his girlfriend are doing for the whole world! When we learn about each other, and see that we're all just people who have the same hopes and dreams and fears and interests, we gain understanding and acceptance and tolerance and togetherness and support and love... I think that's what we're supposed to be doing with our lives, and his channel helps that process along.
      Now you said your little angel is all messed up on the inside, but perfectly together on the outside; I think that describes us all but to different extents.😉 What, if you don't mind sharing, does her day to day life look like? And what do you expect for the future? Does she require surgeries or treatments, or is it just a wait and see game? Or does her insides function normally, but things are just in weird places? I guess what I'm asking is, "what's the deal?". If you don't feel like getting into it, I totally understand, but if you do I'd really appreciate it! Anytime I bump into someone in these crazy comment sections with a health condition, I always ask because any information is like gold to me! I can take it into practice and better care for my pts, and I share it with my students so they can take it with them, to better care for their future pts.
      Oh my God, I've been blabbing for freaking ever! I'm sorry I got carried away with my silly stories and endless personal questions. 🤦🏼 I'll cut you loose now.... Give your little one a hug from me in NC, and I'll look forward to (maybe) hearing back from you. 😉 Goodnight, Crystal!
      *Please excuse any and all misspellings and grammar mistakes...I suck at that stuff and I just don't feel like proofreading this insanely long reply.😳 It's late and I'm going to sleep...well, right after I read up on whatever our "stable genius" of a president has done today. 🙄 Ugh...that man drives me bonkers.
      Here's a link to the SBSK channel I mentioned earlier... (I think) I kinda suck at computer stuff.😬 Hey, It is what it is. 🤷🏼‍♀️ At least I can admit it.
      ua-cam.com/channels/4E98HDsPXrf5kTKIgrSmtQ.html

  • @sarahrowe6643
    @sarahrowe6643 2 роки тому +3

    He's a kind hearted sweet person. And I'm glad that he's willing to be there for the families and children

  • @tyffaneelavely8087
    @tyffaneelavely8087 2 роки тому +7

    My heart! It's filled with so much warmth and happiness. This was amazing. Ryan, you are amazing.

  • @briannahmaria8270
    @briannahmaria8270 3 роки тому +576

    I went to middle school and high school with his son! I had no idea! It’s really crazy to see what your classmates go home to after school. What an inspirational thing to witness. His son is a super great photographer.

    • @betultunca5418
      @betultunca5418 3 роки тому +11

      Cool 😎
      Thanks for the background info

    • @benzii9331
      @benzii9331 3 роки тому +14

      He goes home to his family after school? Lol what do you mean?

    • @mangoandkate7693
      @mangoandkate7693 3 роки тому +33

      @@benzii9331 she means she watched this video and now knows what happens in his family at home and had no idea his dad had no arms and legs

    • @rebeccajelenawang4306
      @rebeccajelenawang4306 3 роки тому +2

      No need for parternety tests tho:)

    • @amarra7218
      @amarra7218 3 роки тому +9

      @@rebeccajelenawang4306 can’t even spell paternity

  • @zlatkajupe
    @zlatkajupe 4 роки тому +139

    The fact that he has a necklace that says "Look Mom No Hands" tells me he has a great sense of humor and is probably an awesome human being right from the get go

  • @carissachristiansen5800
    @carissachristiansen5800 3 роки тому +3

    I’m so proud of you too! And the confidence you’re going to help others get is amazing. Thank you for who you are and all you do!
    Peace and love from my home to yours!

  • @sophiew1967
    @sophiew1967 3 роки тому +2

    Ryan is an absolute inspiration to everyone .The look on little Gabrielle's face bouncing on her little trampoline was fantastic .I wish Ryan and his lovely family and these two wee kids such happy & healthy lives xx

  • @shalompoop4798
    @shalompoop4798 4 роки тому +206

    That little girl is adorable, her laughter is pure innocence 😂😭 she's so precious. God bless!

  • @Br0th3r7
    @Br0th3r7 4 роки тому +521

    He is so cool and his kids look like great human beings, they raised them well!

    • @winning3329
      @winning3329 4 роки тому +3

      Some one should show this video to the mgtow community so they can see they they are wrong about everything.

    • @ZaZA-pl8ou
      @ZaZA-pl8ou 4 роки тому

      Bro

  • @rachellperry4463
    @rachellperry4463 2 роки тому +1

    Ryan you are my hero…….having all 4 of my limbs I will NEVER complain about what is impossible!!! GOD BLESS YOU!!!

  • @elizabetheddy1073
    @elizabetheddy1073 3 роки тому +5

    What a cool guy!!! He’s someone we can all look up to! I know that I’ve gotten upset about some of the silliest things in life, like oh I broke my nail! Ryan lives his life with such a positive attitude! Just watching this video made me realize how much I/we take for granted! Thanks for sharing this video and God bless!!😊❤️

  • @iamlethibe
    @iamlethibe 4 роки тому +393

    “The worst thing about being without arms and legs is having people see with no arms and legs. I just want to be seen as a friend or a college “

    • @evelynmars9141
      @evelynmars9141 4 роки тому +27

      colleague

    • @pattymayocakes
      @pattymayocakes 3 роки тому +9

      @@evelynmars9141 maybe he just wants to be known as a college 😄

    • @crappyaccount
      @crappyaccount 3 роки тому +5

      @@pattymayocakes Ryan Community College

    • @kjones3748
      @kjones3748 3 роки тому +2

      @@crappyaccount 😂

    • @halalhabibti3388
      @halalhabibti3388 3 роки тому

      I feel as tho she speaks many languages. So PLEASE excuse any misspelled or used word.

  • @alissanolan347
    @alissanolan347 4 роки тому +105

    I was born missing my left arm and when people start asking me questions I always say you can’t miss something you’ve never had. I admire you!

  • @khay9833
    @khay9833 2 роки тому +2

    5:15 - Her humor and contagious giggle absolutely overfilled me with joy

  • @i12C.
    @i12C. Рік тому

    This was so beautiful. Made me cry of joy watching him with those kids. So awesome that they can see that everything will be ok.

  • @corgiville8191
    @corgiville8191 4 роки тому +281

    It just goes to show that the power of the mind is much much greater than the power of the body. I wish Ryan ultimate success and it seems like he’s enjoying life than many

  • @lamyanoor2300
    @lamyanoor2300 4 роки тому +266

    He is a great man
    I respect him and wish him more success in his life

  • @andreannelea7664
    @andreannelea7664 3 роки тому +2

    I can’t believe the doctors said that to his mother that’s disgusting. You are so inspirational, great father and husband

  • @timm1139
    @timm1139 Рік тому +1

    "If you don't get your miracle, you can be the miracle for someone else" Nick V. You sir are that miracle. Blessings.

  • @Luvsinging100
    @Luvsinging100 4 роки тому +220

    “I don’t want you to look me as someone with no arms and legs” I felt this so deeply. My therapist always reminds me , I’m so much more than my condition 🥺😭

  • @sweetnessoverload8787
    @sweetnessoverload8787 4 роки тому +393

    Wow 💪 💪 man. He doing better than other dead beat men.

    • @jenniferbrowne4030
      @jenniferbrowne4030 4 роки тому +2

      He is awesome, wat a wonderful role model, God bless u, y encouraged me thnx, HV a good life wishing u the best

    • @alissa3003
      @alissa3003 4 роки тому

      Just lickin toes

    • @marinevaletudie9617
      @marinevaletudie9617 4 роки тому +1

      @All Day Alchemy this world is not a lolipop, you can't lift a dead beat person, if you try they are going to bring YOU down, love them and be good to them, but trying to change them is just out of the way, only god can do that

    • @lathafalls7675
      @lathafalls7675 4 роки тому

      Marine Valetudie yes Amen he’s name is God not god it’s with a capital G

  • @Bettinasisrg
    @Bettinasisrg Місяць тому

    There are a lot of us who don't see your limitations but see your accomplishments, your heart and your spirit. Thanks for being you!

  • @lukestash7346
    @lukestash7346 3 роки тому

    What a strong individual. It's great that he's so willing to mentor others born like him and help them in any way he can.

  • @mychannel8809
    @mychannel8809 4 роки тому +590

    Can’t believe the doctors told his mom she didn’t have to keep him 😭😭

    • @kevinharding4719
      @kevinharding4719 4 роки тому +48

      Has an amazing mom !!! My biological mother didn't want me .
      That's an awesome support group , kids are adorable !

    • @elizabethshanks6909
      @elizabethshanks6909 3 роки тому +35

      @@kevinharding4719 sometimes real moms aren't always biological ones! I hope you are living a beautiful life ! You deserve the best ! Children are a gift from God ! They are all beautiful and different! That's what makes us all special ! It would be boring to look and be the same as everyone else! God bless you !

    • @kevinharding4719
      @kevinharding4719 3 роки тому +21

      @@elizabethshanks6909 Thank you for the kind words Elizabeth. So right , mom is a wonderful woman and I've had an amazing life !! You sound like an amazing lady and mom yourself !! God Bless Elizabeth !

    • @kylelowry1521
      @kylelowry1521 3 роки тому +5

      @@kevinharding4719 sorry

    • @kevinharding4719
      @kevinharding4719 3 роки тому +6

      @@kylelowry1521 no need to be sorry , but thank you ! I'm not a bitter person , I wish her the best of luck !!!

  • @WarXie
    @WarXie 3 роки тому +171

    Let’s appreciate his mom’s kind heart and his confidence

  • @mainelady2020
    @mainelady2020 3 роки тому +2

    He is such an inspiration to these parents and children...bless him♡♡

  • @devikamenon8605
    @devikamenon8605 3 роки тому

    It’s great to see so much positivity around these kids. It nourishes their outlook towards life so much

  • @RashetaCannon
    @RashetaCannon 4 роки тому +400

    Gabriella is so stinking cute!! 🥰 When she said,”I farted” 🤣& “I love you” ❤️

  • @Mothermoon420
    @Mothermoon420 4 роки тому +206

    I read this and literally said " WHAT?!"
    Simply because I couldn't find the father just by looking at faces. They all look so young!!

  • @ariaalexandria3324
    @ariaalexandria3324 3 роки тому +59

    When he said "Love you" to the little girl, I teared up.

  • @tammyburke9453
    @tammyburke9453 3 роки тому +5

    wow! Awesome. Incredible. Inspirational. And I love how casual he and his family all are. Really great role model for everyone. Thank you!

  • @alynneherman7648
    @alynneherman7648 2 роки тому

    I'm so glad your mom did what she did and didn't allow a doctor to dictate her life and or yours. Your an inspiration

  • @consciousiota2161
    @consciousiota2161 3 роки тому +854

    His oldest daughter wasn’t adopted. She’s his stepdaughter. His wife had her in an earlier relationship.

    • @xLazarusEnvy
      @xLazarusEnvy 3 роки тому +178

      Thank you for your comment clarifying this, was also curious myself. Absolutely beautiful family. Also the little girl without arms is SO precious, when she farts and starts laughing about it hahaha.

    • @consciousiota2161
      @consciousiota2161 3 роки тому +25

      @@xLazarusEnvy Her choice of Whitney Houston is top tier as well.

    • @Fatboy-dt8bf
      @Fatboy-dt8bf 3 роки тому +21

      I was wondering that. Thanks

    • @Fubs_the_queen
      @Fubs_the_queen 3 роки тому +25

      That’s really funny cuz I was thinking about how much they look alike!

    • @kendasatlj
      @kendasatlj 3 роки тому +4

      @@Fubs_the_queen ME too😊

  • @heyoeden
    @heyoeden 4 роки тому +76

    Can we just acknowledge the fact that the entire family is beautiful?

  • @kathleensaenz4717
    @kathleensaenz4717 3 роки тому +1

    What an amazing person! Positive, happy, loving...using the gifts God gave him! Doing, not complaining...making the most of what he DOES have! We should all learn from his example! God bless him and his family. Nurse Kath💗

  • @annmariepardo6989
    @annmariepardo6989 3 роки тому

    This man is beyond an inspiration, he is amazing.
    I am left speechless and humble by him
    And the children in this video.
    This is wonderful message for all the people who say they cannot.