"Women Can't Give Dating Advice"
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- Опубліковано 26 жов 2021
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“She doesn’t know female to male dynamics” lol she’s married ??????
He basically confirmed everything she said! He's trying to tell her that she doesn't understand how relationships work and that her relationship is going to fall apart/she is not appealing to any men and that all of her views on the topic are "bullshit". Basically pressuring women who agree with her into putting out. He also undermined her husband's masculinity and said she must not be attracted to him, even though she MARRIED him and he has never mentioned women being attracted to him/sleeping with him. Literal SCARE TACTICS, MANIPULATION, AND CONTRACDICTION! Literally all the red flags she said to look for before you emotionally commit to a relationship!
@@angygremlin4423 what
Honestly the 30-60 days sex thing is v great advice for women. Of course man who only wants sex wouldn't want to hear it (the incel advice guy). Most men who only want sex give up easily if you make them wait or they become obvious that sex is the only thing they want cause they'll complain about it a lot. My husband and I waited, I wanted to know his personality beforehand. It doesnt mean Im frigid and dont enjoy sex, I just dont want to spend my time w someone who has a crap personality.
@@ecliiipsssse what part is confusing
@@SaintShion Ayo, good on you tbh and it is absolutely a good thing. I started like half a year AFTER we started officially dating but that was like a year and a half of getting to know him (we met on a saying site). Hell, I didn't even miss him 3 whole months after we officially started dating. But also that's because I'm extremely shy, not an actual advice lmao
whenever someone calls women “females” 🚩🚩🚩🚩
Or whenever someone says they are an alpha male or a fan of Jordan Peterson, Ben Shapiro(the list could go on) 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
not wholesome 100 😖
@@wayln2591 And people who say they're fans of Joe Rogan, don't forget him
makes my skin crawl🤢
@@chubbybunny6975 yeah him too....honestly the list is too long. Tim pool, Alex Jones, Sargon, paul Joseph or any conservative in general...
It’s guys like this that say “Men cant be friends with women.” Like no dude, YOU can’t be friends with women
He doesn't have male friends either, let's be honest.
exactlyyyyyy
My buddy said this to me a couple days ago and Its hard to look at him the same
Me who’s gay
@@AirLight1646 me
These kinds of men are pathologically insecure. It’s nauseating. 🙄 Let’s normalize therapy for people who have these views.
I'm going to be honest with you here (and I really am not meaning to mansplain to you here if you are already aware of what I'm about to say) as the son of a serial narcissist - I don't think they can be helped. I think a guy like this would go to therapy only so far as it gets people off his back to go to therapy. They are usually so good at faking emotions, etc, that I could even see this creep going along with therapy for awhile just to fool those around him into thinking he's becoming a better person.
Narcissism, which this guy is 100%, represents a 'special' kind of mental issue, bc all you can really do is try and steer them towards the path of least destruction to those around them, and bc there is no 'cure' for it that is an especially hard task, especially when they are smart enough (like this dude is) to understand they can do absolutely horrible things like make videos like he did and still be well within his rights as protected by free speech, etc.
Narcissists present truly nightmarish situations bc, technically speaking, they aren't inherently dangerous, but at the same time that fact has the ability to change given their particular life circumstances, stress levels, etc.
@@laurabuchanan2180 as someone who was almost married to a narcissist, I respectfully disagree. They will go to any therapy and fake their way through it.
@@drew9141 unless you are a licensed therapist, rn or psych and with the patient one on one, its not really fair to diagnose people. I absolutely agree with the point that if these men have narcissism, that therapy cannot help them, just as therapy cannot help those with anti social personality disorder(or what ppl call sociopath/psychopath they are the same in the dsm-5).
I grew up with parents that have narcissistic tendencies but aren't narcissists(but still very stupid people) due to the fact that they display the ability to change when new information that they trust is shown. We typically wanna diagnose people we dislike with these mental issues because we see the diagnosis as bad and cementing our right to vehemently dislike the person. However, I think we should be more careful.
Personally, I like to join in and poke fun at these people, as I think they are pretty silly. Sometimes I get riled up and feel steam comin outta my ears.
Honestly, therapy should be given as a class in schools especially USA. Sex education already is so lacking in the country so at least teach them empathy
@@CubYall Literally. It’s so gross to see 99% of my school full of bigots who treat everyone who isn’t a cishet guy that conforms to toxic masculinity like garbage fucking sucks. And the school can’t teach them how to not be sexist pricks because it’s too “political”. The teachers don’t even do anything when they say slurs or blatantly make fun of someone. Even physical harm gets a pass most times because they like to act like it’s one big joke.
Gosh, sorry for ranting so much lol. I just experienced some pretty annoying shit in gym class myself so I’m still pretty heated about that.
"don't date women in stem" homeboy I can say from experience that we don't want to date you
like dude I'm watching this video while working on stats homework that would probably make that guy's head turn to steam just shut up
Yeah typically women in STEM are pretty smart so that’s an automatic no to him for them
We also don't have any time to deal with guys like this lmao
your icon is cute!
@@walkingonneedles aw, thank you! i drew it myself ❤️
this guy: sex is the only significant sign of attraction
asexuals: p a r d o n ?
purrrrr 💅🏽🖤💜🤍
PREACH HOMIE 👏
YAS!!!!
Literally preach! I adore this as an ace, represent!!
THANK YOU!!!!!!
What he was talking about early in the video when he said 'don't do nice things all the time for women because then they'll expect it' is an abuse tactic called breadcrumbing. It's when you're mean or ignore your partner most of the time, and when you think they've finally had enough, you compliment them, or start being nice to them so they'll stay. It's called that because the partner is essentially love-starved and 'living off breadcrumbs'
How much you wanna bet he still gets butt-hurt when men are called abusers?
One of my exes would not talk to me for weeks straight, so the bare minimum, and then when I had enough and tell him it’s over, suddenly he wants me again… never knew this is what it was called. He even admitted to doing the bare minimum in life so that when he does something good people will be impressed. Yikes.
@@planets_alignr word he means don’t be a doormat or pushover
“Pursuer” and “pursued” is actually sickening
Also as if women don’t pursue too????
@@darcyroyce yep I have been there as well!! They’ll slut shame you, call you a groupie, act like you’re desperate.. AFTER they show interest (or after you hook up lmao) and I’m never as pushy as men are, like they act like regular courting and flirting is too much when it’s from a woman yet they’re out here askin if you’re dtf or trying to get nudes or sending unsolicited nudes!! 😂
i like how every ‘alpha male’ content creator makes metaphors that do not relate to the topic at hand
More like metaphors that compare women to animals
@@zestynoodle1055 yes, women are everything but women at this point
This comment is like an M4 Sherman WWII tank. You wouldn’t ask the missile how to fire itself, you would ask the tank if it likes the crew inside. Get owned lib
@@zestynoodle1055 theyre straight up furries at this point. Awoooo alpha wolf 😎😎
theyre just talking nonsense all day, spewing what the next guy said
in today’s episode of ‘what are we comparing women to?’: it’s fish!!!
also this guy has definitely never fished a day in his life, if the “fish” don’t like the bait, they ain’t biting… and no one wants this man’s bait let’s be real
@toby the witchboy right!! how could i forget?
however, i do wish i was a fish so i could lack the sentience to have to deal with this sputtering bullshit
@@zoom-ennial you’re not wrong lmao
alrighty guys, fukn blubblub i guess lesgo lol
I love how that lady was complimenting men and gave them the Benefit of responsibility. And he was like “no. ACTUALLY We are dumb :) We don’t have any impulse control. Idiot. “
this guy is like "actually, yes ALL MEN, and proud of it."
one of the most frustrating things about this “alpha” male idea is that they look at women as a general collective like we’re some prey that they’ve studied or some shit. Every person despite their gender is an individual, there’s no game that you can strategize to get what you want. They literally dont view women as individual humans with value other than sex. The generalizations and straight up misogyny is absolutely disgusting
Men like this also treat other men like garbage, reducing them to base animal urges who only care about sex. Any man that doesn't echo their ridiculous viewpoints and treats women like people is crapped all over as well by these idiots. They hate everyone, themselves most of all.
Deadass, they don't view women as PEOPLE
It's interesting because they say things all the time like "Not all men!" with such conviction and then turn around and do the exact same thing to women.
@@KreeZafiwomen typically like certain characteristics in men and pointing it out is some how dehumanizing??
@@mickeycostagain660 What on earth do you mean?
i love how sUpEr sTrAigHt aLpHa MaLeS WORSHIP deadpool like he’s not a raging pansexual himself
Rick Sanchez too!!! like, it’s not cannon, but that man will fuck anyone, he’s not exactly oozing heterosexuality.
@@eg816 Pretty sure it is very canon
lmao that’s literally the first thing i thought of when i saw that deadpool statue
Lol right?? Most will fight tooth and nail to disagree that Deadpool is pan
Haha there is a surprising amount of crossover between the interests of 'alpha males' and fanfiction writers. If only these dudes knew about a/b/o and gay superhero fanfic tropes.
He literally said with his full chest that men can’t control their urges, don’t have impulse control, don’t have patience and the only real reason men and women congregate is sex.
This isn’t a joke, or an over exaggeration, or reading into his words, that’s *literally* what he said. Men can’t control their urges? That sounds a little rapey to me, man. Actually, a lot. It sounds a lot rapey.
im wondering if this is his confession to something now…. 🤔
He admitted men are animals without control. When an animal is dangerous and out of control, they're put in cages or put down.
It's disgusting! This guy needs professional help
As angry as it makes me listening to him saying that shit as a woman, it’s also gotta be infuriating being a man and having all these dudes saying that you inherently have zero impulse control
@@liahamilton8931 quite, especially as a someone who had navigated the world being perceived as female in the past (so I've seen/experienced sexism from "both sides") and also as someone who's been through both sexual assault and harassment. I promise these men that masculinity doesn't at all have to be the way they see it.
'Being a decent human being will make her lose her attraction to you", is just 'women don't like nice guys" while trying not to say that.
As a gay man I'm incredibly attracted to misogynists. Not for their personalities, but because I have a huge fetish for humiliating and dominating weak men. The idea of treating one of these guys the way they treat women is my ultimate fantasy, and they obviously are also gay from how much they seem to hate women. I feel like he would work out his deep seated issues with women if me, my boyfriend, and five of our buffest, most hairy friends ran a train on him. You know, to understand the female perspective.
love this
Based and gaypilled
the only resolution where everyone wins :)
Love wins
@@giannacollins1608 🤣 yoooo!
As a fisherman, I can tell you that we are notorious liars. That analogy was terrible. Ask a fisherman how to catch a fish and he'll likely tell you the opposite. No fisherman wants other people encroaching on their spot, so they give bad advice. lol. Bass Pro Shops even has these words over their entryways, "Welcome fishermen, hunters and other liars."
Wait, that is so true. Why should be trust these guys giving dating advice, they have an incentive to give terrible advice. That way they have less competition for women!
(I they can overthink and project on womens motives we can do the same to them lmao)
Why does your description make fishermen seem like anime villains
Is a tragic backstory required to become a certified fisherman?
@@dungeaterfancam lol it kinda does doesn't it. lol we're not ALL that way, but it is pretty prevalent.
LMAAOO i didnt know that but that makes the analogy even funnier
LMAOOOO
Okay but Derek’s turtle neck is a solid fit
Good luck on your new channel btw
@@chandlersohns6258 well I gotta get a grey turtle neck first. Then I should see some results.
October and November prime turtlenecking
Boyo I'll sub instantly if I see you in a fit like that. also do you make vids?! I didn't know. I've always loved your comments and taste in music (got me into Pink Pantheress lol)
@@judahunderwood8433 I am so glad you gave it a try. Remi wolfs album is my current bop. And I do. Funny enough my last one is about the dos and don’t of dating from tik tok
NOT SCIENTIFICALLY POSSIBLE - man not studying science
"This lady has based her entire brand around male-female dynamics, and yet doesn't know the first thing about male-female dynamics."
Bro, that lady is married; what is he?
Fun fact from a woman in STEM, most of us are leaving STEM fields because of the misogyny and gross treatment we get. I didn't go to school for over 4 years just to deny my "instincts", I do it because I want to help save lives and my work does that. Must suck to be that fragile like he is
I am going to be a software engineer when I grow up.. But now I am scared if guys who are sexist only exist in those fields..
@@thesevenkingswelove9554 some fields are really bad but it’s important that you pursue your dreams… it gets better and better every day and eventually will be equal if we keep working. I’m your little cheerleader, I believe in you !!
I left my career in STEM because of this. The toll it had on my mental health was just not worth it.
Its funny how they think that having a career makes someone sterile
Ok I am so mad that men are driving women away from male dominated fields that make the most money compared to other fields 😡
“Fairytale fantasy land” this child has never had a conversation with a human woman
that line was so condescending dude like at least he’s not hiding how shitty he is and everyone can see it immediately
@@uok6216 no he does not engage in conversation with fishes 🙄🤚
@@Aj01110 he has sec with fish 🏃
@@wonderbookk 🥲
these men LOVE to talk about how sex is all we're biologically wired to want or need, but then turn around and shame women who are sexually active and willing to partake in purely sexual relationships. they don't actually care about the biology of things or the well being of relationships, they care about maintaining power
U shame men for trying to get better with their sex and dating lives
genuinely though, like, the “you’re only here because people need diversity” thing is a thing that I’ve personally experienced. Admittedly, it was in theatre and not in STEM, but being told that a disabled person only got cast so the show would “look good” fucking sucks to hear
Disabled woman in STEM, and I have no reason to believe theatre would be any less awful so, solidarity moment
@@adrienneczerni6516 solidarity moment :(
I'm so sorry that these shitbuckets exist and have the gall to say that to you and other disabled folks, anywhere, anytime. If I see them it's on Sight.
Funny thing is, that dude is probably single. How can u worry about asking a fisherman who to catch fish when you’ve never caught a fish before looolll
the mans aint even gettin near the pond, and when he gets there itll dry up on contact
@@youngwolf024 LMAOOOO
@@youngwolf024 NOOOOO LMAOO
@@youngwolf024 top tier roast
@@youngwolf024 Call him Tantalus cause he can't get this.
"Women have unrealistic standards, like a man who is patient with them" *I guess I'm a lesbian then*
That idiot couldn't even fall over the lowest bar in the world.
I was a bi man but I’m straight now after this
Ladies is it gay to want men to respect u and not compare u to fish?
@@yesvember11 it’s completely gay. Get help!😊
Damn, since when is patience an unrealistic standard. These guys are so depressing istg.
As a woman in the STEM field (Majoring in Physics and Astronomy) I can definitely confirm that this guy is 100% correct. Space is actually gross. I only learn about black holes and gravitational lensing so I can say I'm in STEM. Those things cannot possibly appeal to my super feminine brain. If only I could do all the "girly" things I actually want to do but here I am, forced to learn about the chemical compounds that can predict stellar formation for no other reason than saying I'm in STEM. EW amirite? Pray for me
I think the main problem with the fish analogy is that fish aren't trying to be caught. But women in the dating scene are; they're looking for a partner. The fact that this guy used a metaphor for food that you catch and kill and directly compared it to women makes him even creepier.
it's so weird how guys like these really see women as whole different creatures from them. we're human beings just like them lmao
I know its so funny to me, we are all human beings who all share 99.9% of the same DNA, yet some men talk about women like they are a whole different species of animal, or even worse they just reduce women to objects. They use phrases like "you whamen", "your kind", "females", etc to try to distance themselves from women so that they can say incredibly s e x i s t and disgusting things about women and not feel bad or guilty about it since they don't see women as fellow humans deserving of the same rights.
Nah WE'RE human beings I'm not identifying with that "guy"
It's like humans already suck enough but shitty humans are like worse than cockroaches.
It’s interesting actually, I need to find the study again but there was one done that guys like this genuinely don’t see women as human. They look at a woman the same way we look at something like a lamp. I’ll re-Edit this once I find the study.
“neuroimaging results revealed that men with hostile sexist attitudes towards women showed decreased activation of those brain areas that are typically associated with mind attribution processes when looking at objectified women compared to other social targets. Other research has suggested that objectified female targets are elaborated using cognitive processes that are typically used in our interactions with objects” from Assessing neural responses towards objectified human targets and objects to identify processes of sexual objectification that go beyond the metaphor by Jeroen Vaes
🚨🚨 BREAKING NEWS 🚨🚨
men AND women are part of the SAME species known as "homo sapiens"!!!!!1!!1!!!1
(this is making fun of the people being reacted to, not you ehe)
His fish metaphor implying that women, like fish, do not want to be “reeled in” by him and that it’s pretty much against their will... like it’s fitting but not for the reason he thought
The manosphere has compared women to fish, horses, dogs....Do I need to be a zoologist before I date someone?
I don't get how guys like him can't understand that women are people too, with fully developed brains, who have their own unique thoughts and feelings and aspirations
as a woman in STEM, Nick and Derek talking about how hard it is made me feel validated lmao
queen you are doing great stem is notoriously difficult to get into and on top of that you have to deal with shitty men- you are super valid and tough i hope you are having a great day :)))
What is stem ?
Same here! Cheers fellow woman in STEM!
@@eethan_young ah ok thx
@@idealisticcynic06 thank you so much!! have a great day you amazing human being!
i can smell this guy through the screen straight up corn chip energy
The axe body spray is palatable
@꧁Yashiyah Subliminals ꧁ i can taste them just by looking at him
And Mountain Dew and Doritos
Looking at his face gives you all the flavor of a week old stale two-point broken Dorito chip and six half full cans of mountain dew with a side of takeout grease
He’s like a piss bottle that’s been left under a car seat in 107 degrees (Fahrenheit) heat.
As a disabled person, I gotta say that the whole “high value mate” thing holds so much thinly veiled ableism
I'm not in advanced STEM, but I'm an HVAC service technician, and I had another technician tell me to my face, "you're so lucky you were a girl in your program. I wish I had that privilege to get the better treatment." Like, my man... I was the ONE OF TWO WOMEN in a class of FIFTY. It was TERRIBLE lol. It was two years of school, and I didn't make a single friend besides the other girl because: 1) They were very visibly uncomfortable to be partnered with me in class, no matter how friendly I was, and 2) the three guys who were nice to me were called simps by the 45 other men in class. It was embarrassing for me honestly. I had one truly great teacher who genuinely could not care less I was a woman, and three other teachers who were all harder on me and the other girl because they thought the OTHER teachers were being too easy on us because we were girls... so we just had 3 teachers assigning us extra projects and homework lol.
I don't know where the idea of, "if you're the first of your kind in your program, you must get special treatment! I wish I had that!" came from. I have had ZERO upsides come from being a woman in this trade besides elderly women feeling safer with me than with the loud, burly dudes I work with and I can sometimes fit into spaces some of the bulky guys can't lol.
Sometimes I really wish I had gone into a different field. I love the work itself, but the social climate in the entire industry is terrible to be apart of as a woman.
him dunking on the older woman who has clearly been in many relationships and has age and wisdom and he's like 12. hilarious
Not to mention that she clearly showed she's in a MARRIAGE now with a man whom she actually sees as "high-value" because he has impulse control and patience (no doubt amongst other reasons). She's probably close to my age, which could technically make her old enough to be this kid's MOM...
"Please, son, tell me how this thing I have experience of and you don't works. I REALLY would benefit from your expertise" LMAO
I’m convinced this man has never met a woman in his life
Nuhuh he know his mom. Checkmate liberals
@@nutterbotter8308 he probably is dating his mom
@@nutterbotter8308 actually if he has mommy issues then this makes a lot of sense
But when he talks to that one woman he knows, his mom, all he does is scream at her to get out of his room and bring him more doritos.
His mom left him before his birth
I love that in all these animal metaphors that Alpha males throw out, it's never about 2 animals and their attraction, but about an animal (the female) and a human (the male). They don't want attraction, they want power and dominance over the female usually by training or trickery. It's so fucking telling.
where do men NOT in relationships get the confidence to tell professional women who are married and actually understand what they’re talking about that “they don’t know anything about male/female dynamics”? Genuinely. Like if SHE doesn’t understand those dynamics, I promise you, a man who can’t buy an extra ring light from Walmart hasn’t the slightest clue about them either.
the "dont ask a fish how to fish, ask a fisherman" comparison is so funny. basically, women are the fish and men are the fishermen. however, fishing is one sided - its bad for the fish, that will die, but good for the fisherman, who will either sell or eat the fish.
this guy, subconsciously, sees dating (as in guys only dating girls, cause these people are cisheteronormative as fuck) as something that only men benefit from.
And as a competition, like if the woman rejects them they think it means they need to try harder to "get" the woman
EXACTLY
And apparently fishermen out here making love to fish
@@haventpickedanameyet2527I wonder who perpetuates that notion
As a woman studying to be a chemical engineer, I can confirm. The reason why I pull all nighters studying calculus is so I can brag to men
Obviously the hours I spend solving circuits for my electrical engineering classes are for the men🙄
my condolences. calculus is so frustrating
To be fair, as a man, I love when people brag about their calculus skills because then I know who to ask for help when I can't figure out the solution for problem #5 on the homework
Don't do it for men, do it for yourself. You don't need those creatures validation 💀
The whole reason I bust my ass in organic chemistry is so I can flex on all those beta males
"sex is the only meaningful expression of attraction"
someone has never felt the warmth and joy that comes from holding the hand of someone you love smfh
Imagine thinking holding the door open for your partner, bringing them flowers, and being patient is a lot to ask for
Being a dude in stem with a girlfriend in stem, hearing some of the stuff my DR girlfriend had to deal with while getting her degree is honestly confusing. Women in stem are essential to the progression of society.
i love you and major props to you and your gf :)
Saying the only SIGNIFICANT sign of attraction is sex is honestly so harmful and deluded. That whole sentence he spewed out sounded like projection sooooo….👀
It’s messed up in so many ways but also lol @ the visualization of someone not even realizing someone else is attracted to them until midway into sex. Like, usually you know if someone likes you far before you’re halfway into having sex. 🤦♀️
Ace rights (also aro rights)
as a lesbian, i think guys should ask lesbians for advice on how to get girls. lesbians are notoriously good at building and maintaining relationships. i would know, me and my s/o are really really happy together
Yes! Straight men are henceforth banned from giving out dating advice. There will just be lesbian/bi dating coaches to teach men about respecting women.
by using the fish analogy, he's literally implying that the women he pursues dont WANT to be ""caught""..... uhh,, Yikes?!?!
...brb gotta VOM real quick 🤢😩
Women are not fish though. Fish dont wanna get caught no matter what meanwhile there are some women who are willing to date men and are actually looking for relationships. Go to those women who want relations and ask them, am I missing something? Seriously they need to stop comparing us to objects and wildlife stuff.
Ask women! We're humans with brains and our own unique ideas. We have things that we want. If you wanna hang out with a girl, ask her out, ask her what she likes to eat or whatever. Women aren't a monolith either, we like different things. Relationship expectations are different so it will depends and the woman you're talking to. MEN DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT WOMEN SO DONT ASK THEM ABOUT US! 🤦🏽♀️ stop over complicating shit
Or if they want to use an animal make it a cat, "if you want to know how to pet a cat ask a cat"
Edit: never mind that sounds really creepy let's not use this
@@laurend5457 you could've just deleted the comment tho
@@samt-t5831 I could of but I want people to see how dumb I am
@@laurend5457 I'm dying 😹 I think it's funny
"There are some women who are willing to date men" idk why but the wording of this cracks me up
as a woman, i’ve lost track of if i’m supposed to be a fish, dog, horse, etc. all i know is that i’m not supposed to be a human
I can't tell if the furries wrote his script or he has a weird obsession with animals
I thought we were locks ??? 😧
We are also sometimes cars, so really the possibilities are endless
U can just tell when to change their passive role in the court ship process but the privileged of abundance will never allow for that. It’s really telling when people are obtuse about this analogy, let me put it this way most women have net zero experience being the active party in any part of the court ship process, that’s why you don’t ask women.
"The only reason they congregate." So let's pretend me and my guy friends don't play smash on the weekends then. Apparently all I want and all they want is to get me in the pants LMAO
These dudes really pretend like there's some secret code of conduct with dating and relationships, like it's a constant struggle for power and dominance. Sir, you just gotta be a decent human being and find someone you vibe with. It's not rocket science
As someone whos grown up with a shit ton of STEM women in my family, I find his ramblings so funny lmfaooo. My STEM mother is an immigrant, and people said she only got in because shes ethnic. Well she showed them by being the graduate speaker! love that lady, my dad is super lucky to have her!
Wow your mum sounds inspirational!! 🥳
As she should 😌
this made me smile :) love it
We love that for her 😍
I love how this guy gives this whole sexist rant about how women shouldn't be in STEM, then acts like patriarchy is fake. As if he isn't trying to benefit from it... Imagine being one of the guys who took his advice and you reject a girl because she has a Chem 251 class.
"Women cannot possibly like STEM it's literally impossible. All women in STEM are just denying their one true purpose of raising kids. Anyway what's that patriarchy and sexism nonsense ?! That's not reaal"
I don't get this guy's issue with women in STEM. Your gender doesn't define your career path. Men can be interested in careers outside of STEM, are they doing it for female validation? "It's not scientifically possible."??? Lol stop gatekeeping such a diverse area of study
@@ArturGlass.C He wouldn't last as any STEM major lol. I'd like to think he's just jealous. I don't care if he denies it, I'm saying it. He feels inferior for having brain rot so he gets mad when the "lesser" sex can do what he cant.
Clearly he didn't form a secure attachment to his mom or something and now hates on all women. If women didn't like STEM we wouldn't put years into studying it, like duuuh. Thank u guys for being the polar opposite of that man!
It's nice seeing sane men take down this kind of poison.
this guy got his heart broken one time and now he just hates every woman lmao
Judging on this video he definitely deserves it lol
Crushing on anime characters doesn't really count as a heartbreak
Nah, this guy has never had a relationship that didn't exist entirely in his head. He is mad because he's socially inept and for that reason he blames women for not being interested in him and not his inability to hold their interest.
His example of women's "unrealistic standards" for a man are just things I would love to do amd take joy in doing for a woman as a lesbian lol
My mom’s been an aerospace engineer for 30 years and hasn’t even set up a Facebook page, I wonder what kind of long con she’s running.
the scene of the mom making her casserole has me cryinggg 😭😭
Hi, woman in stem here (comp sci). I see a lot of girls dropping tech as a career because of men like this guy. I’ve had men say to my face “you’re only here cause you’re a woman” and “ you shouldn’t do this since you’ll just drop it when you have kids.” That’s not even to mention the softer sexism which is a whole other rant. A lot of women decide to take on tech adjacent roles like management or smth just so they don’t have to deal with as much sexism. Just had to say my piece about how these pos dudes create real issues
Fr i'm studying cs and when we were doing exercises on databases our prof told us to filter out women among the students (in a database) so that we'd know who should get addictional points for it to be "politically correct".
Another time a girl was solving something and kneeled down to write something on the very bottom of a whiteboard and the prof made a joke abt her kneeling down to give him a blowjob :/
We went to the dean about this but heard that "it's just his sense of humor" and that it's not a big deal.
@@ceprithea9945 ughhh and then they say it’s easier for women. It’s insane how much sexist shit just slips by
I majored in Architecture with a minor in Women and Gender studies. Although I haven't experienced as terrible of comments as you've gotten (at least not in school or actual arch jobs, just on the construction side) the numbers are still pretty bad. In school it's 50/50 but the field has only gone from 15% women to 17% in 20 years. It's definitely a bias thing. I got passed over for an internship because I "didn't show the ability to learn". That same semester I won an award on a research paper and that same hiring manager hired the 2 lowest achievers (men) in my class. My blood pressure is rising just thinking about it.
I know. And it's really sad, they are literally bullying women out of technology, it's a hate crime.
@@ceprithea9945 it is time to publicly shame this professor, wtf that is NOT okay... so sorry to women in STEM, it sounds so difficult.
"We're omega males"
Me, knowing what the omegaverse is:
omg 😭😭
OMG DUDE SAME 💀
Lmao me too 😂😂😂😂
THISS!!! This is why I can’t take the whole alpha beta thing seriously 💀💀
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I observed just how frustrated Derek was cause he's new to this shit. Nick, on the other hand, was like- I do this shit everyday.
This guy is projecting his own insecurities SO hard and he clearly has so little experience with relationships. It's ridiculous how he's making these sweeping generalizations based on a fictional narrative he made up in his head to deny his own faults and insecurity. He needs to take a serious look at himself and how crazy what he's been saying is, otherwise he's in for a hard life.
No unfortunately he's in for an easy life because he is incapable of self reflection and manipulative he will just bully people into getting what he wants
"Women can't give dating advice because they don't know how men think"
*Proceeds to give the most unrealistic scenario of a woman dedicating her life to STEM just to say "GOTCHA" to men*
My son is an only child. He's 8 months old. I just want Derek to know that I did punch him in the leg. Very very lightly but I did it.
Watching the confusion over the fisherman analogy unfold is like watching the last two brain cells try and resuscitate each other.
So much emotion and despair, 10/10
As a girl I absolutely HATE being referred to as a “female” 🤢🤢🤢🤢 EW
Interesting analogy. "you wouldn't ask a fish how to catch a fish". Yes, because the fish might tell you that it does not like getting caught, but it would give you valuable advice nonetheless, because a fish knows best how it works and what it needs. "You would ask the fisherman" because he helps you achieve your own goal, without care what your 'object of desire' actually wants or needs.
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People have such a weird idea of what women expect from men as a sign of decency? I dont think many women actually care that much about getting flowers or having doors opened for them.
Many women care lol it’s sweet
@@mau6068 Not that it isnt a nice gesture, I just think if you asked for like the top 10 things women want those little gestures wouldnt be high priority.
@@MaddyBlu9724 Yeah I'm pretty sure things like respect will be at the very top. But I'm also sure this guy doesn't believe in respecting women.
Lol right it’s a nice gesture to get flowers and things like that but imo there’s no use of buying me flowers they’re just gonna become dead in one week 🤷🏽♀️
right like most of my (straight) friends that are girls just want a dude who's funny and would cuddle with them
Holding the door open: Literally just being polite??
Giving flowers: A very common and endearing expression of love
Being patient with her (probably emotions): UNDERSTANDING THAT EVERYONE HAS EMOTIONS???
Overall analysis: A man with common decency is a tiny whiny poopy beta baby boy with a teeny weeny peeny
In today’s episode of what object we’re comparing women to: FISH!
i love these two
and as a lesbian STEM major dating another lesbian STEM major, i appreciate the love towards women in STEM
omg that's so cute!
omg 🥺 happy for you!
Was this kid raised by a sexist grandpa? He's straight out the 1960's, a time when women couldn't have bank accounts without a man's permission... not that long ago bruh! I love when guys like this talk about what women are and are not capable of... in their bedroom.... alone. Gives me my daily dose of "Well, at least I'm not THAT guy."
On another note, Nick, I'd love to hear you talk about things you are interested in. I know you like music from other videos, so maybe you could talk about music UA-cam or something? I feel you shouldn't make content if it is starting to drain you, so maybe pick an idea that you want instead of only doing what the audience wants. I personally can only take so much of these guys, so I'd love to see you talk about other pop culture or online personas.
He was (probably) raised by the right wing pipeline and how that connects with the manosphere, as the two often go hand in hand with the objectification of women and wanting to return to pre-western women’s empowerment.
The most ironic part is it is nigh impossible (at least in the US) for the average household to be supported by a single income. An almost perfect monkey’s paw situation unless somehow he becomes a prominent right wing pundit suckling on the monetary teat of oil execs.
I love you
I agree, after a while just listening to these guys is a lot, and he’s the one sifting through it 🤢 react to fun stuff!
What that guy said about fishemen is absolutely wrong. I was born and raised in Hawai'i and grew up fishing on my dad's 3 boats, one for each type of fishing...but regardless of what kind of fishing we were doing, the main objective was to try and pay attention to the types of lures fish bite most consistently,the colour of the lure, the material, the shape, etc. As well as when they would bite most often, in what parts of the ocean, and during what months. So yes, you'd absolutely ask a fish how to catch them.
As someone who has no clue about fishing (but knew he was talking out of his ass): thank you for the info! Fish seem dope as heck
It confuses me why men want a woman who stays home. I supported my wife when she decided to stay home with our son. And literally today she asked me if I was ok with her going back to work so that I could take some time off and go back to school. Because she’s studying in STEM (which as this video points out is hard) I asked if that is what she really wanted. And asked If she wouldn’t be comfortable waiting until after she graduates. Even though on the inside the prospect of adding another 70k salary to our income and the idea of taking a lesser loud at work makes me extremely excited.
So my problem is the opposite. I secretly would love for my wife to work, and for me to not have to work as much. but I also don’t want her to feel like she has to do that for me. Because she has a lot going on right now.
I fully financially support my boyfriend and he still thinks I'm not good enough for him. These type of guys are just psychopaths who do not view women as human
Him: Don't do all those nice things without making her earn it.
Also him: Canada's dating coach sucks so bad; she said that women should make men earn their trust and not give them everything right away.
He gave his real intentions away. He doesn't respect women at all, they are just objects to him and it's very plain by the tips he gives (they very same tips that when flipped around he says are women "being manipulative"). I feel for anyone who has to deal with him on the daily, and I envy anyone who hasn't met or heard of him.
Thanks for making fun of this idiot. Gave me a good chuckle this morning.
This guy thinking he's one of those "high valued men" is so hilarious.
Self proclaimed, like lord of the lemurs
Imagine naming yourself like a supermarket item with that shit. It's as if I go out and tell people I'm dishwasher safe (I am not)
Ol dude can’t even handle his acne, let alone any woman 😂
@@basicbrittaniLMAO
the fish analogy is so dumb. we obviously don't ask fish how to catch them because fish dont want to be caught bc *if they get caught they get eaten.* if you're so toxic that you compare a woman accepting a date with you to her literally dying, well then maybe that's the problem
also, like. fish can't talk. I know it's metaphorical, but like you can't make the analogy when the situations aren't comparable. if fish could talk to you (and being caught and eaten by a fisherman was beneficial to them in some way), people would certainly ask them the best way catch one.
I like how the dating coach woman is warning women about dudes who have the exact mentality of the dude in the video and he doesn't understand why women wouldn't want that... because he doesn't talk to women about what they want
That woman’s explanation of men was amazing. Almost said “amen” at the end 🙌🏻
him giving dating advice as if he’s been within 1 mile of a woman
Right? I’m pretty sure the only woman he’s ever talked to is his mommy
I was legit cracking up when Nick took like a good minute to try to think of an analogy
Ah yes women don't actually want careers they only want the careers to spite the fact that they don't wan careers! -the smoothest brain human I have ever seen
One of many, many things that annoy me here is that the guy assumes no woman ever enjoys casual sex so you absolutely have to lie about it. Personally, I'm not interested in relationships now. And definetely not interested in being manipulated. I wish people were honest about their intentions.
its rly interesting because as a queer woman ive never once seen another wlw talk about women this way when like. a wlw and a straight man essentially have the "same goal" in this regard right? to date women? but it's always dudes spinning these fairytales about what women are like/what they want when they've probably never sat down and talked to a woman before....its just v fascinating to me
Agreed. Fucking wanna study this guy under a magnifying glass
@@thatsdisco i wanna put him in a room with a woman and just see how he acts. like will he even be able to talk to her?
I think this fundamentally comes down to cultural norms going back hundreds of years in which women have been viewed as inherently inferior. This still persists in some parts of the world, where women are treated like literal property rather than autonomous human beings, but even in the West some of these views remain. Particularly among heterosexual men, where some of them still view women as literally being lesser human beings. Good only as maids, nannies, and walking fleshlights. Hence all the analogies where women are talked about like animals ("female instincts") or robots ("programmed") rather than PEOPLE. Interestingly, as you say, I've never seen sapphics talk about women this way, and I've never seen gay men talk about other men this way. It's just straight men looking down on women. This is also why I don't trust men who can't be friends with women without any ulterior motives, because it shows how they see women as fundamentally different from men in a way where we're not PEOPLE whose company they may genuinely enjoy, we're either romantic/sexual objects or not worth their time.
@@fyo9918 I completely understand your concern but I don't think there is any such implication, of course women can also be predatory but they don't tend to exhibit this particular brand of misogyny that you see from these kinds of men. These kinds of men view women as being fundamentally different creatures from themselves and don't talk about them like actual human beings. Women can absolutely be predatory too, but I think since they themselves are women they aren't going to see women the way these men do.
As someone on dating apps, I have seen older lesbians talk his way, but it all comes from internalized misogyny. I made a joke about how awful men are making me a lesbian and an older lesbian told me "If they can make you gay they can change you back."
I love how he unironically refers to himself as a high value man when he literally looks like he uses bacon grease instead of soap
the patriarch: "there is no such thing as patriarchy"
as a woman in STEM: yeah, i'm in thousands of dollars of debt just to stick it to the patriarchy
I don't get why these types of guys always compare women to objects or animals like we aren't capable of complex human emotion or that we are something to obtain... like you can clearly tell this guy is coping with his lack of a dating life cause I'm literally willing to bet he has never interacted with a woman outside of his mom.
maybe not even his mom, he screams mommy issues
yeah they just act like women are so stupid that we can be manipulated this easily. like we all think and act the same. any man who thinks this way should stay away from women.
The irony is that he's probably the same type of guy to say women are too emotional
"You make a meal for your girl and your girl gives you a high-five" is a wonderful sentence
I love (/s) how the guy is saying that women are the fish and men are the fishermen, implying that the men are experienced at catching fish, when the woman he's critiquing is literally married. I'm pretty sure she understands how to create a happy relationship better than this guy.
to stick with the fish analogy, you wouldn't ask a fisherman who's never caught a fish before how to catch fish. and that's who these guys are, fishermen who've never caught a fish.
Also you wouldn't ask a fish cuz they can't talk. I feel like that's the biggest one.
@@ArturGlass.C Yeah, I would totaly ask a fish what it prefers to eat to make the perfect bait, if I could speak fish.
Yes, the only reason I'm becoming an aerospace engineer is to stick it to the patriarchy. It totally has nothing to do with the fact that I like math and planes are cool.
obsessed with nick’s himbo energy and derek’s frazzled disappointment in men in this vid
My boyfriend held the door open for me too many times and I knew I hadn't earned that so I lost respect for him.
all i could think of during the fish analogy discussion was danny's dramatic 'the male fish creates into a FEMALE FISH!👿🤬' line
First 🚩 a dude has no idea what he’s talking about when it comes to women/dating:
He uses animals or “hunting” as metaphors for sentient women
Oop, would you look at that-
Ah yes I'm dying over mycology exams because I'm a bitter feminist
This man has 10000000% never been with a woman willingly.