I’ve worked really hard on developing self-trust. By doing so I’m not worried about others as much cause I trust myself to respond well and handle it accordingly. But I am single again now by choice lol.
I have loved and waited for a man for 6 years that is a deeply entrenched DA. I'm anxious. Lots of pain and confusion. Lots of delusional thoughts AND I became addicted to the twin flame journey tarot readings which convinced to hold on in some way even longer. I grew and worked on myself and discovered both of our attachment styles. Healing mine is helping me to let go and move on once and for all but there's always this nagging feeling that he is truly my DM. I've chased him to not avail, opened up, gave my love with NOTHING back. He was my boss and fired me when the chemistry was off the charts. I forgave him for everything. We are a perfect match in every possible way imaginable. He just won't act on it. I need help
Thank you for sharing your story with us. It sounds painful and certainly a difficult relationship experience. One thing I might gently find out when there’s lots of pain in confusion including delusional, thoughts and feelings, love addicted, it’s not a perfect match. The ‘perfect match, twin, flame’ narrative is often the one that keeps us attached to a soulful lesson that we struggle to learn. You might find this video helpful. Am I Anxious, or Are They My SoulMate? ua-cam.com/video/vNoxPtQdAIM/v-deo.html
@@brianamacwilliam.attachment thank you so much! I'll be watching your videos on replay! I think I figured out my soul lessons, triggered from my DA. I've struggled with anxious attachment ALL of my 50 years!
Thank you for sharing your story. The pain you are experiencing is real and I feel for you. The hardest person to leave is the one created in our head. This person, who has caused you much pain and heartache is not your soulmate. Write down those feelings and how this person has made you feel and all the pain he has caused. You deserve better. The bigger question you need to ask yourself, why are you chasing someone like this. Wishing you the best!! ❤
Hi Briana! I love your channel and your work. Thank you for all the valuable content you provide. I wonder what your attachment style was before becoming secure...
Your work is excellent:)! I’m learning so much:) from an anxious attachment and secure attachment (healing it)
So glad I found you. Thank you for your work.
You're an amazing resource. Thank you for sharing your work 🙏
I appreciate that! Glad it was helpful
💞 Your tips are on point. 💯
Glad you think so!
Other fearful-avoidant people have romantic relationships? How'd y'all get that far past the dating process?
I’ve worked really hard on developing self-trust. By doing so I’m not worried about others as much cause I trust myself to respond well and handle it accordingly. But I am single again now by choice lol.
I have loved and waited for a man for 6 years that is a deeply entrenched DA. I'm anxious. Lots of pain and confusion. Lots of delusional thoughts AND I became addicted to the twin flame journey tarot readings which convinced to hold on in some way even longer. I grew and worked on myself and discovered both of our attachment styles. Healing mine is helping me to let go and move on once and for all but there's always this nagging feeling that he is truly my DM. I've chased him to not avail, opened up, gave my love with NOTHING back. He was my boss and fired me when the chemistry was off the charts. I forgave him for everything. We are a perfect match in every possible way imaginable. He just won't act on it. I need help
Thank you for sharing your story with us. It sounds painful and certainly a difficult relationship experience. One thing I might gently find out when there’s lots of pain in confusion including delusional, thoughts and feelings, love addicted, it’s not a perfect match. The ‘perfect match, twin, flame’ narrative is often the one that keeps us attached to a soulful lesson that we struggle to learn. You might find this video helpful. Am I Anxious, or Are They My SoulMate?
ua-cam.com/video/vNoxPtQdAIM/v-deo.html
@@brianamacwilliam.attachment thank you so much! I'll be watching your videos on replay! I think I figured out my soul lessons, triggered from my DA. I've struggled with anxious attachment ALL of my 50 years!
Thank you for sharing your story. The pain you are experiencing is real and I feel for you. The hardest person to leave is the one created in our head. This person, who has caused you much pain and heartache is not your soulmate. Write down those feelings and how this person has made you feel and all the pain he has caused. You deserve better. The bigger question you need to ask yourself, why are you chasing someone like this. Wishing you the best!! ❤
Thank you, from a Spice of Lifers ❤
Thanks for listening
Hi Briana! I love your channel and your work. Thank you for all the valuable content you provide.
I wonder what your attachment style was before becoming secure...
What if you're fearful avoidant in romantic relationships, but avoidant with everyone else?
know thy self and the other persons astrology it works for me
Ugh. Opened this thinking it would be must-know tips *for* FA people wanting to date. Misleading title.
was also hoping this would be tips FOR fearful avoidant people. im trying to learn about self growth
Its absolutely a waste of time, love and patience to b with someone like that! Just run!!!
I’m not a waste of time 🙂
@@tulsalien it is. I wasted 20 years of my life on that kind of men.
@@innan.599please consider that just because a style isn’t in your relationship scope doesn’t make them unworthy of love.
@@innan.599 I wasted 6 months of my life on that kind of women. Yeah, avoid avoidants, this is only their problem.
@@zynnfindo4776 If you are damaged good, you are unworthy. Not everybody will be loved, thats it. Dont ever make baby with avoidant too.
lost you at "eternal spirit"