When people dont understand certain things that happen in their lives, they always say is ANCESTRAL CALLING. Some problems are just life challenges and have nothing to do with ancestors. Eventually, we will all become SANGOMAS if we fail to face our life challenges head on and instead, we run for the ancestral appease. One of my own did the same. I personally knew his own challenges. Instead of doing the right, the right thing we all knew, he ran to sangoming. Anyway, life is a CHOICE. We cant stand on the way when people make their own choices. Sometimes we need to be in charge of our lives and not run away from our realities of life and hide behind the ancestors. Brutal truth, and askies if I have touched a nerve.
Only the mother and the child that shared the umbilical cord, mother is always a mother. Well done mother for supporting your child. Los vir ooh Jafta, Los vir hom. Phelo behoove na sy familie, reg so? Ek dink so, seker.
Pinky has a point on that note cause it has been discussed that family needs to support each other regardless of whatever and Bawu Jafta is nowhere to be found and Loyiso is understandable cause he did consult the family members, and give himself time with his younger brothe and explain to him nangemeko zomsebenzi wakhe cause his relationship with Phelo is solid and is not based kwi events and also check if Phelo is cool about that as an event owner, I like the stand of Phelo'smother in the ceremony and she spoke so wisely in saying it's a call Phelo has to follow and we need to check and support our children in whatever they going through and she hope and believe that Phelo has cahnged in what he was befor uthethe kamnandi njengo Nozala Mamngwevu kuhle kwaye sithi Camagu! Kulondawo wena bhutomkhulu Zwayi xabisa ixesha ukuze ixesha likuxabise kodwa ke naye uyathetheleleka ngoba ebese Johhanesburg empangelweni naye kodwa he is there for his younger brother regardless how far Jburg is noko liyancomeka igalelo lakhe kusapho lwakowabo u bhuti and andisoze ndingakuncomi wena, as for mama I know colonization and christianity has destroyed self-confidence in black people mama get up and walk tall give yourself a patt in your shoulders well done ngenimba yakho emntwaneni, and decolonize your mindset, that will set you free and worry not in living for anyone's expectations in terms of religion, western civilization, culture and traditions
I love my family but I can't love them and hold their hand in sin. Correction is not judgement. Having boundaries doesn't mean I'm selective or convenient in my support.
Apho uzophila khona mzalwane wam enkosini Phila khona coz intsikelelo ziza ngendlela Zonke nam ndingu Mpostile kodwa u Sista wam u Netshoba ndivuyile kwenye I show yenu ndisithi umntu Uzo support into yomye
This is a family thing, Loid and Jafta should learn that. Bro Zwai lento yakhe yofika emva kwexesha must be dealt with. Nci zophila mayikholwe Mama wenze kakuhle Cawa ayinoza kuqala kunemisebenzi yekhaya .
I knew Loyiso won't come. His faith matters a lot to him.
When people dont understand certain things that happen in their lives, they always say is ANCESTRAL CALLING. Some problems are just life challenges and have nothing to do with ancestors. Eventually, we will all become SANGOMAS if we fail to face our life challenges head on and instead, we run for the ancestral appease. One of my own did the same. I personally knew his own challenges. Instead of doing the right, the right thing we all knew, he ran to sangoming. Anyway, life is a CHOICE. We cant stand on the way when people make their own choices. Sometimes we need to be in charge of our lives and not run away from our realities of life and hide behind the ancestors. Brutal truth, and askies if I have touched a nerve.
you are 100% correct.
So true!
Couldn’t have put it better.
Love how real this show is, this the real reality show ❤❤❤
Congratulations Phelo. Do what you have to do. Complete it thoroughly. Forget about views of other people.. Love u for steadfastness.❤
Thus how difficult it is to be a parent 😢
Only the mother and the child that shared the umbilical cord, mother is always a mother. Well done mother for supporting your child. Los vir ooh Jafta, Los vir hom. Phelo behoove na sy familie, reg so? Ek dink so, seker.
Thanks mama for accepting uphelo's journey
Pinky has a point on that note cause it has been discussed that family needs to support each other regardless of whatever and Bawu Jafta is nowhere to be found and Loyiso is understandable cause he did consult the family members, and give himself time with his younger brothe and explain to him nangemeko zomsebenzi wakhe cause his relationship with Phelo is solid and is not based kwi events and also check if Phelo is cool about that as an event owner, I like the stand of Phelo'smother in the ceremony and she spoke so wisely in saying it's a call Phelo has to follow and we need to check and support our children in whatever they going through and she hope and believe that Phelo has cahnged in what he was befor uthethe kamnandi njengo Nozala Mamngwevu kuhle kwaye sithi Camagu! Kulondawo wena bhutomkhulu Zwayi xabisa ixesha ukuze ixesha likuxabise kodwa ke naye uyathetheleleka ngoba ebese Johhanesburg empangelweni naye kodwa he is there for his younger brother regardless how far Jburg is noko liyancomeka igalelo lakhe kusapho lwakowabo u bhuti and andisoze ndingakuncomi wena, as for mama I know colonization and christianity has destroyed self-confidence in black people mama get up and walk tall give yourself a patt in your shoulders well done ngenimba yakho emntwaneni, and decolonize your mindset, that will set you free and worry not in living for anyone's expectations in terms of religion, western civilization, culture and traditions
Camagu, thank you well said
Phelo is confused shame. Change comes from within.
He isn't
Family cant comes first more than our beliefs...no ways. It means there wont boundaries.
I love my family but I can't love them and hold their hand in sin. Correction is not judgement. Having boundaries doesn't mean I'm selective or convenient in my support.
Youre black
You should see your blackness before you see your christianness @@Mmeme2023
Loyiso is so Cool 😊
Ramaphosa cool
Umama has to accept I culture that's who we are...
Phelo is a confuse soul
I'm sure Jen said to Loyiso u can't attend it's against our beliefs and Loyiso can't stand his ground. Loyiso did attend umcimbi what's different now?
Tshisa Phelo! Camagu tata! Camagu Khehla! 👏👏
Phelo just needs therapy
What therapy?
@@kelebogilefaku3969ai us as black people
🙏🙏🙏🙏 love it....❤❤❤
Weeeee mah we are Christian but isithunywa is my number one I think I should thank my family for support me ❤️
I think Jen has a problem with this family she s always fighting with what they are saying she's got issues
Wont Phelo change his mind in the long run😂?
That too is possible 😹
@@zukhanyefunani4973 eyes open🤣
It's possible, so many celebs claim to be called to this and then jiki jiki
@@Mmeme2023 so true hey
Love this...
Thank you mama
There's is nothing wrong with this family Jen is a problem
👏👏👏💞Mabaphile abantu!
Yhooo kunzima ubangumzala betnani😢
Ndingu mpostile umna self Ndayazi lento ukuyo kodwa Sonke ekhayo wonke umntu une believe yakhe sifana Nani thina ekhaya coz wonke umntu ukholwelwa kwinto yakhe nam ndizalwa ndikhula utata wam Wade wangungu Mdala kwi Old Apostolic church kodwa I support yayikhona Oo brother bam boluka isiXhosa engumMpriest
wow wamhle umsebenzi ka Phelo bethuna
Gana uzobona yonkinto wrong umakoti kuhlala kishiwo njalo
Mihlalimashiqana ❤
Apho uzophila khona mzalwane wam enkosini Phila khona coz intsikelelo ziza ngendlela Zonke nam ndingu Mpostile kodwa u Sista wam u Netshoba ndivuyile kwenye I show yenu ndisithi umntu Uzo support into yomye
Congratulations. Lesedi 🛖 🙌🙌🙌💫💫💫🙏🙏🙏👏👏👏
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This is a family thing, Loid and Jafta should learn that.
Bro Zwai lento yakhe yofika emva kwexesha must be dealt with. Nci zophila mayikholwe
Mama wenze kakuhle Cawa ayinoza kuqala kunemisebenzi yekhaya .
@@siyamays mana ethi usuka e Goli, waza wafika umsebenzi uqhuba, kwathi kwathi kanti bekungamele ulala phayana nah yonke into qale phambi kwamehlo akhe, hayi ufuna uswazi ngoku
Camagu!, Thokoza Khehla.
Makwande, kukhanye, kuvuleke, kubekuhle, kubemhlophe, kudede ubumnyama, Lesedi le kganya Tsela Tsweu.
Shame
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Yhooo kunzima ubangumzala betnani😢