How I wish you could marry my cousin brother, I love your honesty and how feminine you are and the tears are part of it.. please don't change for someone to feel comfortable
May you heal Zithobile. You will heal. Forgive yourself. If you gave this experiment your all sisi, you did not lose. You gain lessons. You gained! Anyone who was with the person you were with would have gone through the same thing. It is okay. Lesson learnt. Lessons gained. Love and light ❤. Noluthando thank you.
Zee is so humble and kindhearted. She deserve a caring, loving and understanding partner who understands that she's emotional person. Love conquers all when you love someone you learn and understand their character and personality.
Zithobile you had an opportunity to bash(criticize) Thami on this interview, but you didn't and that speaks volume of maturity. Thami took this whole experiment as a joke and I'm sorry to say this but sometimes I ask myself if the accident was meant to alert him by choosing to joke with someone's feelings and he didn't notice that too. I LOVE YOU AND WISH YOU ALL THE BEST sister and your beautiful just the way you are😍😘
Zee is kind thami didn't deserve her. She is very smart to b played for ratings. You were right by standing your ground and know your worth and stop listening to the noise
There was nothing normal about Zee's marriage and unfortunate a lot of people cant tell the difference between a healthy and unhealthy marriage.Zee's response and feelings were valid.Being marriage to a person who has an overinflated sense of self is the one of the worst things one can go through.
None the less I am sad the union didn't work but they were just too different n I think they were not attracted to each other. But they both tried shame, wishing them all the best on their separate paths❤️
I think we knew that they wouldn't work because of their differences but we still had hope that it might work out. We wish shem healing and all of the best ❤
I never watched the show but watching this vlog made me understand the entire show and I want to say I am proud of you for putting yourself first and choosing what will work for you in the future ❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you mtase for such an interesting vlog❤️❤️❤️👌👌👌
@@nolu_mqinahawu sesi. That was a constructive criticism not an attack. Your response is immature, just listen and do something about it, that's how you grow bathong. You were really interjecting a lot, not allowing Zee to flow.
Zee, is generally a wonderful, sweet and deep human being and can be a good wife. We all saw how she was thoughtful of Thami's likes. I think she needs to go to therapy to adress some issues that makes her not to have lasting relationships. It's just that the sound on this video didn't do justice to the interview.
I did not like you because u cried alot i did not understand you..but now i love you my dear ♥ n wish you find someone special ..Thami is not good for you shame... hope god bless you in so many things ... forgive n forget thami for ur peace sake he is a gay..
Bt I think she nid to grow up a bit coz such a whole grown and big women like her crying for nothing it's boring,she rather grow or stay single.Marriage is very nice and beautiful bt u nid to be strong
@@nolu_mqina siyavuma but she was selfish at some point she expect Thami to meet her standards yet she complains with Thami expectations. You are a princess and wants princess treatment yet a man cant say I am king and want to be treated like one. Lets be fair ladies you must put in something to get something out. Men also have emotions, with that said they were not compatable both need self introceptions and work on their selves
You guys were just bad for each other....he wasn't happy with the experts matching but chose to stay through the experiment. I'm sure you'll find one who'll understand you and wil be happy with the person you are.
Zithobile is selfish and made no effort. What did she give Thami apart from tears? She needs to grow up. Which 30 something year old cries at the drop of a hat. She went so far as to accuse the psychologists of pairing her for ratings. Who does that? Even her mother told her she will never going to get married .
She hasnt met the one she feels at heart. With Thami I think she was scared to air it on TV that the guy she was chosen for her was totally not the type she liked,opposite of what she said she like in a man. A tough strong heafty guy like Khutso or Sebe. Hence she accused experts
Especially as a thick tall lady,you wud go for a taller, tough man. Guys it's obvious we don't want to say T is a bad person, he is good for HIS type as well.
How I wish you could marry my cousin brother, I love your honesty and how feminine you are and the tears are part of it.. please don't change for someone to feel comfortable
Love this! People always have comments about everything body else but themselves! ❤️😍
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May you heal Zithobile. You will heal. Forgive yourself. If you gave this experiment your all sisi, you did not lose. You gain lessons. You gained! Anyone who was with the person you were with would have gone through the same thing. It is okay. Lesson learnt. Lessons gained. Love and light ❤. Noluthando thank you.
What a beautiful heartfelt message sis! I'm so glad she chose herself at the end of it all! 🥹❤️
Lalela!! I’ve never clicked on a video this faaaast 💃🤸♀️💃🤸♀️
Nolu uthanda indaba 😂😂😂
@@nolu_mqina😂😂😂😂 I really needed to hear more of her story
Zee is so humble and kindhearted. She deserve a caring, loving and understanding partner who understands that she's emotional person. Love conquers all when you love someone you learn and understand their character and personality.
Not when you are working alone mntase! Love needs both of us to work 🥹❤️
Finally hearing her side has been something I've been holding my breath for. I can finally breath!
I love that you knew that she must have had a side! It was too good to be true!
Zithobile you are kind and beautiful, I personally saw Thami as a red flag very early…you dodged a bullet
I thought he was wrong from day one. He was giving me gay vibes from day one ! oko through out
Great sitdown Noluthando!❤️🌼 It's good to see our girl being herself
Ncoooo, it's my pleasure 🥹❤️
Yuuuh Noluthando! You remind of a good , a very good friend of mine ❤ keep up the great work! You are a different breath of fresh air in this space.
Wow, thank you - this means so much! That's what we call motivation ❤️🥹. Please say hi to your friend.
We are within😍♥️Thanks Nolu for this video. We love Zithobile this side.
Anytime mntase ❤️😍
Thank you for this sensitive conversation with Zithobile. The show really let her down. Wishing her well 💛🌻🍃
Very sensitive mntase! She walks away with her head held high 🥹❤️
This is wonderful to watch and learn,,,other woman,s perspectives about love and marriage,,,enjoyed this conversation 💐💐
Thank you for the beautiful comment sis! We are glad that it could impact you ❤️🥹
Gorgeous gorgeous ladies ❤❤❤🎉
Rato ❤️🥹
Oh I love you Zithobile🥰 you can do no wrong in my eyes
This is so heartwarming 😍😍
She is a calm person i really adore her
Ewe marn Van! uCutesy usisi🥹❤️
I like her sense of humor.When she spoke about Thami trying to be an musician,her comments about it killed me.
Akazigeni shem 😂😂😂😂
Zithobile you had an opportunity to bash(criticize) Thami on this interview, but you didn't and that speaks volume of maturity. Thami took this whole experiment as a joke and I'm sorry to say this but sometimes I ask myself if the accident was meant to alert him by choosing to joke with someone's feelings and he didn't notice that too. I LOVE YOU AND WISH YOU ALL THE BEST sister and your beautiful just the way you are😍😘
This is the best comment on my feed! Thank you for lifting a sister up!
I love how she respect herself and her work , I get why she gave them that answer.
A smart women!
Zithobile i love the fact you decide to put yourself first 🥰
Dude! Society says otherwise!
Great to hear her version , but i am not going to conclude until i also hear Thami's version.Please bring Thami also
I'll see if I can find him.
Eish, im struggling with the sound
Especially towards the end ne? I need to invest in mics ❤️
Same, especially with Zithobile
I'm sorry ❤️
And when you do, please invite her back. 🙏🏾
this was beautiful mokgotse and you ladies deserve some 💐💐❤️❤️💖
Kealeboga kgotsi waka 😍😍❤️❤️
I love the fact that your chose yourself ❤❤❤
Qha ke! She gained honestly🥹❤️
Beautiful ladies ❤❤❤❤
Thank Veee🥹❤️
Zee is kind thami didn't deserve her. She is very smart to b played for ratings. You were right by standing your ground and know your worth and stop listening to the noise
What drew me to her is the fact that she didn't not settle - she refused, which is rare these days ❤️
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I respect her for choosing her first not to be taken for a fool by that crazy boy Thami
Wow.. you are so beautifull and amazing with cutest smile ..i love it ..Wow I love you most 🌹
Thank you so much
Hi bo mama's niyazi niyathandwa neh.❤❤❤
Nathi siyakuthanda🥹❤️
❤ zithobile you deserve better you are so beautiful
Very beautiful 😍😍😍
Ave ngimthanda uZithobile
Uyakhuthanda naye
I loved and enjoyed the interview 🤍
Thank you Khanyi 😍😍😍😍
Thank you my Khanyi 😍😍😍😍
Thank you my Khanyi 😍😍😍😍
I really enjoyed this💕💕
Glad you enjoyed it! Mntase 🥹❤️
Thank you for the vlog mntase🤗❤we love you Zee🫠🫂
Sakuthandi mntase🥹❤️
There was nothing normal about Zee's marriage and unfortunate a lot of people cant tell the difference between a healthy and unhealthy marriage.Zee's response and feelings were valid.Being marriage to a person who has an overinflated sense of self is the one of the worst things one can go through.
The best comment! It's so said but let's say she dodged a bullet! Imagine if she wanted to see it through.
Well done. MY LOVELY zeee ❤❤
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Well done my friend ❤
Thank you my friend 🥹❤️
You tried sisi all the best. ♥️
She really did and her best was enough!
Zee honestly deserved better 🥹❤️So happy she chose herself
Honestly shem!
❤Zithobile wethu
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Watched till the end ❤
I appreciate you so much 🥹❤️
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Love Zithobile❤
She's amazing 🥹❤️
U zithobile ngempela cc m proud of u don't regret anything!
Especially because she tried!
None the less I am sad the union didn't work but they were just too different n I think they were not attracted to each other. But they both tried shame, wishing them all the best on their separate paths❤️
I think we knew that they wouldn't work because of their differences but we still had hope that it might work out. We wish shem healing and all of the best ❤
Beautiful interview..... Sound though 😢
Thank you mntase! I need to invest in mic’s
Very true, it's spoiling the interview.
The audio failed this beautiful interview 😢
Ish😩😩😩
Zee is such a sweet and kind soul. Great interview Nolu.❤
Thank you Yandi! I should invest in mics 🥹❤️
Yes the sound comments are very true. Sound quality was pure in the interview.
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Hay guys loool as for before Rustenburg lmaoo. I always say it is after the new Protea extensions...
I don't even stress myself akere everyone knows Rusty
My beautiful Zee ave ngimthanda ndithanda uthetha ngaye not omnye umntu❤
Ukuthanda self 😍😍
I loved that dialogue between both of you nolu no zee.🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤
Thank you so much mntase ❤️🥹
Zee my brother is single😍
Let me show her this comment ❤️🥹
This feels felt short yoh 😢😢❤❤
Thank you sis❤️🥹
Zee is such a nice human ❤❤ I hope you get a good man you’ll gel with some day❤
Qha ke because uBra Thami 😂😂😂
Haibo Nolo wethu❤
Ndima lo mntase🥹❤️
Izidundla😂... Nothing wrong saying that..go to hit the gym ❤😂
Cima Gugu 😂😂😂. Siya gyma 😂😂😂
Happy Sunday bahlali❤
Happy Sunday mntase 🥹❤️
I love it for you Zee, you have chosen yourself over that narcissistic ex husband of yours. You deserve better ❤
He still proves that he is a narcissist! A whole divorce party 😩🥹
@@nolu_mqina Yhoooh sisi who does that, how mean😢
Haibo!!!!
I never watched the show but watching this vlog made me understand the entire show and I want to say I am proud of you for putting yourself first and choosing what will work for you in the future ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you mtase for such an interesting vlog❤️❤️❤️👌👌👌
Thank you so much mntase 🥹❤️. Reality shows are very tricky and we don't know what really happens behind closed doors.
Presenter chimes in a lot, give the guest a chance to talk and don't talk over her. Relax sisi
If you don't like my interviewing style, please don't watch or call her and interview her yourself.
@@nolu_mqina as a an up and coming youtuber your attitude is very wrong babe. Don't be too emotional about it, its a constructive critic.
@@nolu_mqinahawu sesi. That was a constructive criticism not an attack. Your response is immature, just listen and do something about it, that's how you grow bathong. You were really interjecting a lot, not allowing Zee to flow.
Aibo le ntombazana 😅😅
Criticism is important, dont present then if u are too emotional. Be rational not emotional. @nolu_mqina
Happy Sunday everyone ❤
Happpiiiii 🥂🥂
I'm glad Zithobile choose herself. Thami is a red flag.
Dude! It's very rare! I'm so proud of her! ❤️🥹
My red flag was when he asked about joined account 😢😅
Dude! So fast 👀👀
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I am glad you checked out of Thamsanqa, awuh ngabe akadlaleli lenye iteam. Ngoba ayi he was too much.
Asi labuthi ustressful yhuuuuuu
Uyayidlalela shame..nomdeni wakhe uyazi futh
Ubezocasha emshadwen
Zithobile is soo kind and matured 🥰🥰
Ma’am 😍😍😍😍😍❤️
I wanted to listen but the audio sounds like their under the bridge 🤔
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Aspiring Doctor...😂
Shhhhhhhhhh😂😂😂😂
Zee, is generally a wonderful, sweet and deep human being and can be a good wife. We all saw how she was thoughtful of Thami's likes. I think she needs to go to therapy to adress some issues that makes her not to have lasting relationships.
It's just that the sound on this video didn't do justice to the interview.
Haybo Nolthando, wat if uwongiwe? Suba too sure mntase maybe unguye uDr omnyumntana.
Nandi mntase, ndiyamazi
Hey plz work on the sound
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Narcissists men will make you look like the crazy one in the relationship.
Dude! And gaslight you 😂😂😂
❤❤❤bye
Enjoy your long weekend 🥹❤️
The sound is bad 😢
Apologies 🥹❤️
The sound😢
Sorry mntase 🥹❤️
Love you Zee you deserve the best im sure there's a guy perfectly for you out there❤😊
Who wants her and will treat her like a queen 🥹❤️
The sound 😢
Dolly mntase! I'll invest in mics 😩🥹
That sound isn't audible
At all..
i want to listen but the sound quality is really hurting the ears😢😢
You don't have to listen Seba 🥹
Bread is fattening...so much like Thami.that guy loves nobody else but himself!
A definition of a narcissist!
😢The sound
Sorry sis 😩❤️
❤ the interview..'exclusive on our channel' 💐We are growing🎉🎉
We are growing sis! We need to invest in mics asap!
@@nolu_mqina definitely
Yhoo hayi guys e comments zenu 😮😢 its always women
Ningcolile kodwa and claim consttructive criticism
Its not what u say but how u say
We are very far from being each others biggest cheerleaders 😩
sound is bad
It's the new update - sorry
I did not like you because u cried alot i did not understand you..but now i love you my dear ♥ n wish you find someone special ..Thami is not good for you shame... hope god bless you in so many things ... forgive n forget thami for ur peace sake he is a gay..
I like that this gave you and glimpse of who Zithobile is! Thank you for the lovely comment ❤️🥹
Bt I think she nid to grow up a bit coz such a whole grown and big women like her crying for nothing it's boring,she rather grow or stay single.Marriage is very nice and beautiful bt u nid to be strong
Mntase kodwa, uyazi expressa ❤️🥹
Crying is necessary sometimes, but I think with Zee it was a lot and unattractive to the guy.
Thami is your soul mate, call him now.
Hai mntase ubusy labuthi
I love Zee but yoh usisi oloko ukhala oko 😢😢ayikho into engamlilisi
Zi emotions mntase akazenzi
@@nolu_mqina siyavuma but she was selfish at some point she expect Thami to meet her standards yet she complains with Thami expectations. You are a princess and wants princess treatment yet a man cant say I am king and want to be treated like one. Lets be fair ladies you must put in something to get something out. Men also have emotions, with that said they were not compatable both need self introceptions and work on their selves
😂That's true, and she's sweet and patient,she needs to reduce the crying part.
You guys were just bad for each other....he wasn't happy with the experts matching but chose to stay through the experiment. I'm sure you'll find one who'll understand you and wil be happy with the person you are.
You said it better! ❤️🥹
Zithobile is selfish and made no effort. What did she give Thami apart from tears? She needs to grow up. Which 30 something year old cries at the drop of a hat. She went so far as to accuse the psychologists of pairing her for ratings. Who does that? Even her mother told her she will never going to get married .
Just a reminder that we get to see a glimpse of the bigger picture in reality shows.
She hasnt met the one she feels at heart. With Thami I think she was scared to air it on TV that the guy she was chosen for her was totally not the type she liked,opposite of what she said she like in a man. A tough strong heafty guy like Khutso or Sebe. Hence she accused experts
Especially as a thick tall lady,you wud go for a taller, tough man. Guys it's obvious we don't want to say T is a bad person, he is good for HIS type as well.
You rude
That is so harsh, hateful and vile yoh. Unless if u know her somehow. Thami wasn't perfect as well.
Doctor from where 🤭🤣😂😂🤣🤣🤣 49:24
Keen marn 😂😂😂😂
@@nolu_mqina 🤣🤣🤣
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The sound 😢
Sorry mntasekhaya🥹❤️
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