We will not accept this marriage -The Bala Family | Mzansi Magic | S1 | Ep 13
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- Опубліковано 13 лип 2023
- Mama V and Bab' Jafta gather their kids together but it ends in tears when the Bala siblings express their disapproval of the union.
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Tata Jafta's kids are sooooo well mannered 💕💕💕💕💕
and bahle sana yhoo
Why not? They have nothing to lose, someone has taken over the responsibility of taking care of their Dad when he gets older..no stress😊.😊
@@xolisankonki8006 nqo
@@xolisankonki8006 injalo
The Balas are hurt don’t confuse it and they said they have accepted. You don’t know how they were when they were still dealing with it
It's Tata Jafta's diary sessions for me😂
He doesn't have the same vigor during the Zwai & siblings.😅
@@NoBuntuMhlambi_MySpace imagine if he came as high pitched as Zwai? It would not solve anything still. It's a sensitive topic to the Bala family
@@nombusombatha2422 yhu they would fight. They would brawl yevha. LIVE, during the cameras & the people. Yhu kungaliwa.
🤣
He sends me straight to laughter central 😂😂😂😂
Their children just need clarity. Seeing your Mom with your dad's friend a few months after losing his wife is obviously going to raise questions, mama is quick to be defensive instead of listening to the questions and giving them CLARITY.
@@neondaba_still with their fathers friend!! N they still providing for her kodwa she's got a hubby that brought only his suitcase to the marriage....
@@Mamakhe048 Well said!
Qha qwaba...Zwai is right to sought for answers. This is his family he should protect them as much as he provides financially and otherwise...
@@neondaba_she was not married to Phelo's dad, she was married to someone else and didn't last and in that process she was not in kids lives including Phelo they raised each other and maybe they were still young to Express their feelings
Xhosa parents sithandwa sam all the time 😊
zwai is honestly the best. its the authenticity for me akavumi nje kwanto. hayi akanamqolo ke u bhuti Loyiso tuuuuu
Bayathandwa ke ooLoyiso ezweni...nam ndihamba noZwai noPinky
I think Loyiso is the sheep of the family and he is like that...asifani vele as siblings...mina I'm the pinky of the family...
Their mom is like my mother doesn't want to discuss critical issues in the family 😮
Yaz Nd kuyonakala eloxesha
What's there to discuss here because they're married. One can't help but just move on hard as it is but I get you.
The problem is that our parents think that, by virtue of them being our parents they DESERVE respect. They usually get aggressive and shout when they know that they are wrong. It’s usually a tactic to shut us up and push us into submission. That behaviour is motivated by shame ya hore “my child is highlighting something that as an adult I should have known”. Forgetting hore they are not perfect. My mother would even cry and accuse us of disrespecting her and ungrateful of everything that she has done for us. Imagine!
As a mother to adult children myself (raised in a Western society), I have had to unlearn a lot to have healthy relationships with all of them. Our parents did the best that they could but in some areas they failed. And it’s okay because they wouldn’t have known everything. However, when we highlight their blindspots, they need to listen and stop being defensive.
@@neomoiloa9669They are already married indeed. However, the purpose of the meeting is for the parents to admit that they did not do things properly. Acknowledge and apologise to their children.
I wouldnt be happy also seeing my mother marry my fathers friend.
I wouldn't be happy to see my mom marry my dad' friend...it will bother me soo much
Same applies here, Zwai s mother and Ntate Jafta are both not transparent about this issue, during the conversation, i couldn't feel any authenticity from both of them. Ntate Jafta was in love with zwai s mother while she was still married with his friend. Correct me if i am wrong.
Welll guess what its not about them . Abasangeni ndawo. Tu kulento
Abe utatakho wamshiya ethafeni emncinci emhle 1982? And u 2nd ngu takaPhelo not taJ
Mama and Tatu Jafta abafunu vuma ukuba ba wrong qha ke. It's not easy especially bengenayo indawo yabo yozihlalela so I'm putting myself in Zwai's shoes because he feels he is failing his father kule mess yenziwe ngu mama wabo nalo tata...but ngoku ke they need to accept it and move on...cos nyhani ke abozokohlukana ngenxa yalonto so uMama makazithobe ebantwaneni bakhe noTata ngokunjalo
This reminds me of former president Mandela n Graca Machel He was married to his friend's wife, 😂😅
😂😂isingcolo sodwa😂😂
Poul Mashatile as well deputy president
Mama is right it happened before. There is nothing wrong. As long as it's happening after death.
But the whole family was aware zange ifihlwe
Usile lo mama nalo tata I wonder why utata Jaft engathathi umfazi wakhe ayohlala kwindawo yakhe zange ndayibona indoda ehlala ebukhweni bayo ulihlazo lo tata qha
😂😂😂 I agree
Guys your mom is old enough to do what she wants maaan.....its unlike your dad left inheritance that needs to be secured.
Their father gave them the gift of song (voice) which they have used to elevate the family name and provide for themselves financially, including providing for uMama, that is the enduring legacy of their late father. Lest you forget!
We don't know if he didn't leave money for them honestly
Yes ooh mam I don't like the Way that they talking to their mom😮
Tato Jafta he's a Legend 😂😂😂
Lol sudika
Mam'Jafta just wants to enjoy her marriage, she doesn't care for anything else.
She must go & enjoy it at Jafta household. It was said in the earlier episodes by Pinky that even their cousins now find it difficult to visit bcoz kukho this tata Jafta. Why are they not getting their own house & leave the Bala's in peace.
Get their own house with what money. They are both retired and have no source of income. If it bothers them so much, they must gazat and buy them a home... Make your mama happy as often as you can...
@@letusmake7093 that lady got married to Jafta, she must go to his house not the other way. Jafter's kids are cool bcoz their mom never neglected them, they do not have issues of an absent mother in their as they were growing up.
@@letusmake7093 haha as for gazat,havent heard that word for such a long time
@@LuntusYou are right!!! This is not a matter of “Happy mother, Happy life”. Ma Bala is emotionally immature.
Hayi Nam uTata uJafta is the star of this show🤞❤️🤣
Heeey!!! 😂😂
The breakaway star honestly 🤞
His diary session are like 🤣😂🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Haybo mama urong qha qwaba, okwesbini lobantwana bakatata Jafata if ubehleli nalomfazi emzini kamama wabo ngebeslwa ngoku bayazi ukuba akhonto kamama wabo esetyenziswa ngulomama yilonto bethule. Nawe tatu Jafata mekumele wakhe umzi wakho nomfazi wakho xa umthanda nyani ukuze kubekho uxolo kwi Bala family njengoko ukwazile ukuphuma kwakho washiya abantwana bakho in peace.
Well said 🎉🎉🎉
Mama Zwai seems to be more concerned about Jaftha children's feelings than her own children. Children, who have stood by you and provided for her. It hurts to witness this, she exudes narcissistic traits. Mama Zwai does not accept her fault in this situation.
Loyiso uzipholele😍😂.
Njee!
Ow I love him kodwa uphola too much😂😂 he's a man he must man up
akazithandi izinto ezithethisayo shem
😂😂spineless lowo!
The couple has been married for 6 years now what would they like to see happen? Saying they won't accept the marriage is not gonna make them divorce mos🤷♀️
Exactly even if they throw tantrums
They should be ashamed of themselves it looks like they want to control their mother that's not fair......they are not perfect either 😮😮
The mother is saying tatuJafta moved to the bhala home...saying that uhleli nefemeli enje...😢 why is he staying with the bala family and not taking him wife to his home...ungene ngebhatyi utata. UPinky said nothing is changing while they are married.they are still buying groceries and electricity...Kuba it's their Home.
@@thabomol Their imperfections stem from the dysfunctional family home. Listen, men can be as rubbish as they want to be, but as a woman, you are the compass point that must provide direction, the glue that holds the family together, the balm that must sooth all wounds. The Bala children have wounds because uMama failed to provide direction or hold the family together. Her childrens 3 divorces go right back to her, these children are dealing with generational curses and their chidlren (the grandchildren) may end up going down that route. Divorce is not a joke, it causes upheavel in the ancestral realms and individuals are born (reincarnated) with curses hanging over their heads.
Bebephi abantwana ngelixesha kusenzeka umshato wabazali
Zwaii and Pinky are angry Kids - Adults
Kukho isizathu...if u read btw the lines mama has always chose man over them. For them to raise Loyiso and Phelo it means mama wayebhabha emoyeni...
I love zwai bala. ♥️
Period mntase
Yindoda emadodeni
Hai sana awunondifuza. I like indoda enomqolo not bhetyebhetye.
@@nonjongovoxeka5487 his a real Xhosa man uZwai…yiDyani yamanyani his firm va period
Uthandwa ndim u zwai ❤
Jonga I ❤ zwai ungajiki bhuti
I wonder if Zwai's mother stayed at the Jaftas, would abantwana baka tatu Jafta be so calm
Enkosi...love ur question. Very profound
Love your critical thinking skills
Haybo lo Jafta uzohlala kwamfazi? It's a no no kaloku
Exactly
I believe there have been a blind spot here of not considering children's' feelings. Adults need clarity in dealing with family issues.,especially when there is financial co-dependence. I have a big question when both parents still stay at Bala home. Tatu Jafta is just enjoying his joy ride. I would feel like Zwaai if things happen that way, without them being involved. This would have been communicated amicably. Indoda ezotshata umama, ihlale ekhayeni lwethu...a deal breaker. The problem here is how things were done, not why they got married.
Well Said!
These kids needs to respect their mother finish and klaar….we might have opinions and think it’s wrong what she did,but honestly they just need to chill it’s her life after all
Yes, we need to respect our parents. Parents need to respect their adult children. Which kind of marriage did Mama Zwai & Rra enter.lf there is no antenuptial contract, Jaftha children can inherit from Mama Zwai. Marriage brings families together but also terms and conditions.
zwai akahambe lungisa ezakhe zomjolo ayeke mawakhe
Nje🤞🤞🤞🤞
I believe this has nothing to do with the marriage per say but rather with the fact that the Bala kids feel like their Mother always puts a man before them. The Balas feel abandoned by their mother, regardless of the best that they do in their lives to try to win their mother's attention and affection
Yes that how I see
Marriage is a union between two families kwanqu umama ayifihle kubantwana bakhe kwasekuqaleni it means yaqala wrongo and unfortunately abantwana bakhe ngoku they have to be involved
Facts 💯
Well said!
Probably bcos uyabazi abantwana bakhe. Love, especially at that age has nothing to do with anyone else but the couple
These kids need to heal and move on. I was 28 when my mom got married. My dad has more than 10 my just 2. Adjusting to being part of a big family takes time. Now we're a big happy family 💕
Why wouldn't you want to see your mom happy if you love her ? I love and respect my mom more than holding on to the past. We all have childhood issues and past mistakes. But having a loving relationship is more valuable.
On the surface it looks like “a simple matter of not wanting a parent to be happy”. This is a matter of a history of a parent who continues to put her interests before that of her offspring.
It’s difficult to have a loving relationship with a parent who is emotionally immature and has low levels of self-awareness. These kinds of parents are emotionally abusive. Their children are often the ones who make an effort to move on from past issues. Often without holding their parent accountable for their bad choices. They will even go to the extent of “buying the love of their parent” to demonstrate that they hold no grudges. However, because of the emotional immaturity, the parent automatically feels entitled to the respect and effort made by their children. As often observed, these kinds of parents often continue to make selfish choices. This is because, despite them abandoning their kids, and being unavailable, their children have managed to thrive without their involvement. When a parent repeats selfish behaviour, their children feel betrayed and come to the realisation that their efforts to build a loving relationship were in vain. It is a cycle that never stops and it hurts the next generations. A cycle that can be traced back to the previous generations.
The Bala children must first acknowledge that their mother is emotionally immature. Get therapy for themselves to gain tools so that they have boundaries and develop healthy ways of dealing with their mother. Based on her age, she may never change. They will be taught ways of how to love her where she is, and how to guard their hearts.
It takes being born to an emotionally immature parent to comprehend such relationship dynamics. Those who have never had this experience, focus on the reaction of the children to a parent’s actions. It’s deep.
Ok mabahambe bayovusa uTatabo mos rhaaa. Bayageza aba!
Abantwana kudla ngokuthwa abangeni ezindabeni zabantu abakhulu or abadala. I understand and I agree respectfuly. It'll take time for the children to come to terms with all of this. Ndyafuna nokuthi utata makathathe indima yabantwana abakhulule abantwana baka mama ngokuthi ondle umama aze anike umama indawo yokuhlala. It's only fair okohlobo surely.
Why Tata jafta engayomhlalisa kwakhe Kanti mfazi wakhe ? Why esendela Kwa Bala? Hay yiwishiwishi
I think one of the major things here is financial independence. I think umama notata are being provided for by their kids but bafuna ukuziphatha...financial dependence is a whole other dynamic & power imbalance issue. Unfortunately it's a dance and position that limits "doing you" wihout consulting the hand that feeds you. Unfortunate but ke people who provide assume power. Yhuuu so simple yet so complicated this issue and it requires everyone to grow up & let go & apologise for mis-steps.
I fully agree with you...and people who are carrying this financial burden are the Bala kids.
@@jabulilemlaka6253 ey, but they can choose something else. U Zwai ingathi he's not giving himself a choice to tap out of matryring himself, khe naye aphumle and see if others will step in. I think others dont step in because he hogs the responsibility & takes it all upon himself. He must tap out & let the house of cards do whatever & not be guilty about it. He needs a break.
So True 🙏🏾
I want to believe in indoda like this mama shame
I feel like it's time everyone accept this union. Otherwise there will never be piece in the Family. Yes the parents need to apologize but they don't need to be crucified for the rest of their lives.
For umama not to tell her kids that she was getting married to her husband’s friend, she knew ukba she’s about to go on a nonsense journey. mna I don’t think I’ll be ok with their marriage wether I was Mr Jafta or Mrs Bala’s child.. their marriage ine question marks man ?????? u Pinky u right when did they decide ukba it was time to get married? After how long they have been dating. Mna I’ll be questioning them..
But it's not like they cheating, both their spouses are no more njena
You don’t understand, would you be happy if your dad or mom get married to another man/woman after few months of your other parent’s death???
I wonder why utata ujafta feels so comfortable uyohlala ekhayeni lomfazi, it's not even mamVs house,yindlu kagogo,hayi zangendayiva, mamV iphi indlu yakho? Utata jafta left his kids in peace in his house wayokuba ngumakoti, pinky ws complaining that they still need to buy electricity etc for mom but mom has a husband
I wonder if Japhta's kids make any contribution.
No guys bebejola uMr Bala esaphila no l will never accept this kind of marriage and what forced her kutshatwe why bebengajoli kanti at their age and why engayomakhela umzi ufunani kwaBala u Ntate Jafta😮
Mr Jafta's demeanor is so calming, he is not emotional about this and that works in his favor,i love how he acknowledges everyone's opinions respectfully.The balas kids are just prideful and arrogant
Tatu Jafta n Mamu Jafta bayathandana n iyacaca kudala bathandana 😂🤣
Akasanga lo Hili ongutat'jafta yheerr...
😂😂 yamaz no Hili
Yho! abazali ngongafuni kuvuma impazamp zabo ungabancama
I c my mom kulo mama. 😆😆😆
The world is going crazy mara yazi...
1. This conversation should not have happened in the first place bcos children (even though they adults) have no footing to get into or discuss izinto zabazali
2. uMama noTata don't owe any of them an explanation, even if they did what is being insuniated
3. Of cos it is quick bcos the older you are, the more you realize the value of time
4. Agree with uMama that there is nothing that they can say/ do for Zwai and Pinky to accept their marriage. Their problem is respect for elders...
5. It is easy to point out other peoples mistakes, to avoid having to deal with your own blunders
6. They are really misrepresenting their late dad when looking at how they treat their mother
7. This is the only mzali you have or better yet, this your children's grandparent when so many others don't have them anymore - Protect them, Love them, Bring their grandkids, Give them an advantage over you, Allow them to make mistakes...
😭
is those from failed marriages are more concerned about their parents marriage, its after six year give mama a break. What do they expect her to do
Zwai and Pinky are such a bullies now i see why their marriage didn't work,they have zero respect!there are ways to address such issues with your elders and still show respect,its obviously not easy for the parents as well,there is a better way they can handle this.
Zwai needs to relax honestly 💕💕💕💕💕
He must hey..yena who is discussing her marriage..
Very true
Ukrwada lo Zwaai
He's rude
Unga relaxa wena xa umama wakho engatshata ichomi katata wakho ongasekhoyo, behind your back without so much as a consultation?
Bangena phi aba bantwana Zwaai is a divorcee, Pinki is a divorcee bazozigqibanini ezabo izinto. Khaniphume kwinto zabantu abadala ndixakwe bobenu u bom. Phumani kwinto zabantu abadala foetsek
Oh I luv Zwai bakithi!!!
Then why befihlele abantwana ukuth sebeshadile
UZwai uyangiqeda mina😅😅😅
I think whats hurting mostly is its their dad's friend. Mama wena you insulted the kids..... so deal with it
This is so sad ngoba umama no Tata knew that linyala eli balenzileyo ngoba ziitshomi ezizithatheleleneyo and kaloku worse uzuqonba bayayaI that it was wrong bayaziba notata Jafta sana uzingomba isiguba soba yintombi yaseMangwevini itshata nomfana
It's important to build and live your own life so that ungazongena too much into your parents business.
Zwai is just so controlling for nothing. I feel sorry for MA jafta. She just to love, loved and be in love. Romantically not agape love only
Wow yoh 💔 kwanzima nkosyami. Ingxubakaxaka qobo, inzukazikeyi 🤦♀️🤦♀️
Ai kumele umama aphile impilo efunwà ibo .kanjani utata wabo akasekho akaphinganga lomama.badlala ngaye 😮
Lo mama wants to blame abantwana baba Tatujafta yet they haven't said anything bad saying Tata is not living in a conducive environment 😮
Soguys please balance here, Zwai n Pinky bafuna kuthini? What do they want to see happening
They want uTatu Japhta to take up the financial responsibility as well, get their mumz a home, and stop living of them
@@zolilemamba5547 does he have? So if he can't get them home what must happen?
Ihe what if lento kudala yaqala n bonk aba bantwana ngaba Tata jafta?
This is funny sorry, mara why bengenamzi wabo or umama amovele kwajafta
Jafta sis'koli.
Kodwa ke ngeke ndiyingene kakhulu eyabakhulu ngoba mna ngeke ndildule bantwaneni torho.😅
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Hayi shame u Tatu Jafta akabahloniphi abantwana bakwa Bala.uzokuchitha I family yena
Yhu hay Mamu Bala
Zwaai uzofa yi heart attack because of a marriage that has happened already 😂and there's no turning back because the wife and husband are happy 😂
Where's Phelo
Awukwazi mama tuuu … tatu Jafta how can ungene kumfazi wechmy yakho ziphi imanners zaboo … bathanda izinto maan tyhini bebephi abanye abantu than iifriends zabo
We can't be questioning that after 22 years of their father divorcing their mother...Haooo madoda...The only people who have a right to question this parents are Jafta's kids because for them it happened suddenly 6 months after the burial of their mother
Still @tumi in xhosa you cant date my father’s friend period nomatter the time frame of their divorce …Stout lomama maan and well tatu Jafta should have looked elsewhere man … haibo
@@tumidigo6217 They was no divorce btw mama and Mr Bala he just passed on. I think what she means when she says she was single since 1982 is that their marriage was dead since then...
@tumidigo6217 thank you. It feels like a forced storyline because they surely can't be upset over something that ended in the early 80s. Even Ta Jafta's kids are confused gore really
What they did was wrong and him staying with her in their fathers house is wrong..
its not their father's house, its their Maternal Grandmother's house and I agree with you its wrong.
kodwa utshata njani without telling your kids hayi she's justifying nonses ngoku
Uphi uPhelo ?
Msangano nje into yalobaba
Asoze ndibe happy nam uMama etshata me friend kaTata aphinde endlini kaTata
@@benedictorkaya-es3xltyhin ungcolile lo Tata atsho ngonyinyitheka nje
@@benedictorkaya-es3xl akuyondlu ka tat uBala, kukokwabo ka mam Veronica, utata Bala kange ashiye nex
@@mademoiselle327 even worse ayiyondlu halo mama kukokwabo....disgrace
Tatu Jafta why ezohlala kwamakhulu wo Zwai akanantloni
Ndimcapukela ukufa la Tata
@@phumzagalada6263 makayofunela mama umzi wabo yindoda enjani zwai zagqibele mqhwaba😂
It's the mother’s parents house not Zawi and Loyiso’s parents house- that is number 1
And number 2- he has his own house and can move out any time if their mom dies
Let's allow people to be happy.
@@nocawemogale6561 makamqhwabe anye🤣🤣 uya endlin ye frnd yakhe kanti yena uyazaz ba uzele ntoni ngcolile naye lomama Adavule amathanda for tshomi yendodakhe rhaaa banamanyala bebadala andiqondi noba wayikhupha mali yelobola ngoba akanamzi kuqala 🤣🤣
@@phumzagalada6263 ntate Jafta manyonyoba. Kudala bayiqala lento
Zwai and Pinky bullies! Qha!
Rhaaaaa abantwana bakwaBala basile. Why umama wenu funek azchaze kuni
Abo Zwai must deal with their own issues. Ba dala. They mist leave uMama a jabule no Tatu Jafta.
Baze bageza abantwana bakwa Bala. Caba ngetheni umama lo? Utatabo wamshoya moss
I dnt understand y zwai n pinky busy remembering their abusive father
This is disrespect from the Bala's towards their mom. Zwai's marriages failed and Loyiso's one you can't tell noPinky too has failed, so them dictating what should happen to their mother's life is totally wrong tshini. This is where they real need to fix their own lives and leave the adults alone for that matter the Bible allows them to marry when their partners are no more.
Bagolo ba ba ba tona these issues need to see discussed in private to respect them as elders now u airing out their dirty laundry. Thlompang bagolo ba pls.
Haai Maan They Must Leave Umama Na Tata Tuuu
Isit wrong to marry a friend of ur late husband? Help guys I didn't know it is wrong... same as a lady ? Can she marry a man of her late friend? I wrongo phi?
Heh wethu, nam ndiyazbuza🤔
@@mademoiselle327 cz I know one lady died but on her death bed she suggested that indoda must marry someone who was so close to her reason was cz my kids are used to her they were young. And she also said she believes the lady will love her kids better than a stranger. So hence I ask ku isit wrong hayboo
Tata jaftha s children is not that they are well mannered, is a liar, big lie,they are not teenagers or kids,they are udult😮😮😮😮😮😮who dont have a burden,This is ridiculous, you dont know the pain of having a mother, bringing another man in their father s house,Tata s jaftha they dont have that burdens 😮😮😮😮😮😮this man,marry their mom in secret and have audacity to move to their fathers house,reallyyy😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
Sis pinky you fail to save your marriage so pls give your mother chance to be loved by Tata jaftre your mother is happy and awaiting pls step back and move on
This is a taboo,a loughing stock to the community 😮😮😮😮😮😮embarrassing situation one has to leave with it,Tabooo....how😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮unacceptable and the pain is too much because mama swai she dont care of her children s feelings,that's why white people they are open to their children before they settle so the kids can be at peace,honesty,Mama swai must apologize and stop being angry 😮😮😮😮😮she hurt her children
Thatha Pinky, you and Zwai are in this together and I like that. The decision of marriage was very wrong from the start, that’s not acceptable at all. It doesn’t make sense at all.
Zwai uxakwe zezskho indaba leave your mum even though your mum naye ke e Rongo, what king of a mother who always get married everytime she meets a man
This is difficult for the Bala children to accept bcoz it seems like utata wabo wabethwa ngestina ngufriend lo ungu tata uJafta.
And clearly utata uJafta had an eye on his friends wife all along, or babebawelana all along. That shows ngokukhawuleza batshate kungekapheli not even a year ifriend after his friends death.
Also utata uJafta must take a wife to his house/home as a man and stop inconviniencing his friends children/family.
His children are enjoying their home kamnandi but the Bala children are forced to accept utatomkhulu online ngendlela esneaky & shady kwelikhaya.
Mna ndithi they must move out to where mama is married to and leave Bala home in peace nabantwana balo until there is a mutual agreement from everyone affected.
Bayadika abantu abadala who want children to acceptthings that are uncalled for.
Tatu Jafta took the wife nit the other way round, so makamthathe kwakhe kaloku amgcine amthande khona bciz she is now Mrs Jafter not Mes Bala anymore.
Kanti don't want to understand na?Bala children have no problem with their mom happiness but it's where & how this happiness is forces into their faces & expected to go with the flow they were n
excluded from in the 1st place
Utatu Jafter use abenesbindi sothi uZwayi unengqondo ezimdaka meanwhile gets the one who played dirty games kulento yonke nje.
Umama ke yena for throwing tantrums instead of being patient & understanding to her children.
Hay inane someone once said indoda sisitshixo sezulu
Mna shame I feel Bala childrens frustrations & I stand with them.
Unyanisile umama xa esithi ngebe khange bababize kwangoku abantwana bakatatuJafta because now bane bad attitude.
I think its too late not to accept this marriage because they are already married. They really need to forgive their mother bethuna and give her support and love.
Qha