Hell yeah you should. I let my girlfriend draw up a monogram for me and it’s currently being engraved. I have an onyx one that I have worn the past two years, but I wanted to level up.
I had a signet ring for my 21st. With my initials, wore it all the time for a decade. Tend to only wear it for special occasions now, but you have inspired me to wear it more. I would get one to commemorate a special occasion, your 30th or as an engagement present, or something similar.
I can understand your mixed feelings on the signet ring. As a…let’s say “more distinguished gentleman” (I’m 56), I now wear a one, but not a family crest, rather my company logo, given as a recognition for 20 years of service to the company. I wear it with pride and a feeling of accomplishment for many years of hard work. I also admire you wearing your grandfather’s watch. I have my grandfather’s presentation watch, of which he was very proud and wore every day, up to and including the day he died. I have more expensive watches, but none more valuable to me. I say as long as a signet ring is meaningful to you in some way, it is neither ostentatious nor ever inappropriate. Wear it with pride.
Very well made video. Cervantes said in Don Quixote when he was counseling Sancho Panza: "Don't worry if you came from labor workers, since a name is something you earn, not something you born with. Just work for a name and earn it. Then you'll become a real noble". So I agree with your way of 🤔 thinking, and again, excellent work with your video.
Hey there, as a heraldry nerd, I'd like to clarify something, not for the sake of being a silly internet pedant but so you guys know that you have more signet options than you may already know. A crest (the bit that goes above the helmet) and arms (the bit displayed on the shield) are different. Some signets feature the crest alone (00:29 or 1:18), some the arms alone (1:03), some both (1:29). Some also use a badge (see King Charles' ring featuring the ostrich feather badge @ 00:51). Badges are a symbol that's not part of one's coat of arms and could historically be adopted and discarded at will. All three are considered fair game/good form for a signet heraldically speaking so if you're having something made it's something to consider - you have some options (badge, crest, arms, arms + crest). It's good to know and understand all your options so you can make a choice that best suits you. Thank you for posting so many examples so they can all be seen in the video. The only thing I'd urge against is bucket shop heraldry - essentially using someone else's arms because you have the same last name. This is considered poor form. PS: If you'd like to learn more about heraldry, the Heraldry Society's beginner's guide (link below) is a great place to start. There's a really active subreddit for it as well. www.theheraldrysociety.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/Heraldry-For-Beginners.pdf
What if I have the same name and am a descendant, even though the design wasn't passed down to me per se. Also, what if it belonged to my ancestors who shared my last name, but with a slightly different spelling due to spelling changes over time?
You aren't too young. Find something meaningful to you and wear it. I received a gold tigers eye ring from my grandfather after he passed away when I was 10 years old. I started wearing it in my mid 20s and I've worn it every day since. I get compliments on it every single day (no exaggeration) and I've had countless people approach me out of the blue and ask me about it. I recommend you find something meaningful and high quality and wear it with pride.
Hi Carlos, thanks for your comment! That sounds like a beautiful ring. As I mentioned, I wear my great-grandfather's watch, and that also gives me a great sense of pride (and attracts compliments). I'm sure I will wear a signet ring when the opportunity for the right one comes along
Fidning a quality ring can be difficult. I recommend used. Unless you have the means. But you will have to come up with 2200 GBP for a serious tailored signet ring by a British firm.
As always. Really good vid. Your doubts about wearing one,resonated with me. You basically make a really good argument for not wearing one. Especially wearing it solely as a fashion statement.
Although like you Z, I am not from money but at 36, I am a commissioned officer and financially independent. I will create a signet ring to both remember my father and express my ambition for the future.
I first started considering a signet ring after seeing Thomas Shelby. And I’ve seen it worn casually in a thin or smaller scale and I love the juxtaposition of a casual outfit, tattoos and a pinky ring. So striking! ⚡️
My signet ring is an ancient Roman one which I restored myself. It meant a lot to somebody 2,000 years ago and it is mine now as I go through life with my challenges.
If your family doesn't come from a high class background you won't have a crest. A coat of arms and its crest isn't something every family has its nothing to do with surnames its direct descendants you either inherit it or you're awarded one by the college of arms which would come with a fee of £9000.
Nah, you can have one if you want it. You can just make it up yourself--boom, family crest! Dinosaurs didn't have crests. They were all made up at some point, and that point could be tomorrow. Are you describing crests or stars on the Hollywood Walk of Fame? ;)
I inherited one from my grandfather and it means a lot to me, I dont care if im not am achieved person yet, the ring reminds me of him what a hard worker he was and inspires me
I do plan on wearing one at some point. I just turned 30 and as I'm getting older my sense of style is changing. Every day I feel my fashion sense moving away from graphic t shirts and moving closer to dressing to impress whenever I have a reason to leave the house.
I wear a unique ring on my left hand middle finger. It’s not a classic ‘signet ring’ by any means but it’s a unique silver design with an amber stone in the middle. It has a middle Easter vibe and whenever i am writing something or signing something (I am also left handed) it always gets interesting comments and is actually a nice ice-breaker in that regard!
Good video and clear explanation. +1 subscriber! thank you! I have several signet rings. One is made of silver, engraved with me and my wife initials which was designed on our wedding invitation. Another is a simple one with lapis lazuli stone. The others are simply accessories.
I am going to get a signet ring with the family crest on it, because I've reached a point in my life where I feel I do deserve it! I have worked hard and gone through a lot of rough business, and plowed through it all. So yeah, I feel I have worked for it, but I get where you're coming from. Maybe set a goal for yourself, you will buy one after getting your degree or after buying your first house, something like that. Or after having your first child. That's a great way to honour your family when you yourself add to it!
Great video! I am currently designing a crest/monogram for my signet ring and plan to have one made in the somewhat near future. It’s been a struggle finding a “blank” ring I like to have engraved.
wearing a signet ring is a symbol of the importance of your family and devotion to them, proudly displaying your family crest as you are proud to be who you are, an identifier not of mafia symbolism or snobbery, but something more personal, you are displaying what family you come from, in a timeless but elegant fashion statement.
I have a sterling silver signet ring that has a Birlinn ship engraved on it that is a descendant ship from the Viking long boat that many Norse Gaelic clans used back in the olden days. Which i brought from hebridean jewellery which I've been wearing 3 or 4 years now. And I would like to make or have made a special treasure signet ring with my clans crest in memory of one of our famous clan chief who was a notorious pirate Ruari the Turbulent.
I have a Family SIgnet ring from my mother's family. I got it when I was 13 and started wearing it when I was 23 -26 while I lived in Europe and again now.
@@Gent.Zhow fabulous! It was a pleasure interacting with you! Thank you for expanding upon the subject with more insight! I definitely see you wearing a signet in the near future! It’s definitely part of a gentleman’s accoutrements in spite of lineage..in my humble opinion.🥂✨
The pleasure is all mine! And whenever I do get to it, I look forward to sharing the process of getting my signet ring with you on the channel!@@devindemond1972
I wear one because my family's had a coat of arms and accompanying motto for 6 generations (as far as the family tree shows). It got passed down to me by my father from his great grandfather.
Nice video! In my opinion, if you already have a family crest and take pride in it, consider getting a ring-age doesn't matter. If you're proud of your family and contribute to its well-being, I believe you deserve a signet ring with the family crest. I currently have a signet ring with a stone inlay for my middle finger. However, I plan to have a signet ring made with a family crest after I get married. For me, this represents the status of being a husband and taking care of the family. I think everyone deserves a family crest signet ring when they assume the responsibility of caring for their family.
Got one for my 25th birthday engraved with my initials. I wear it almost everyday.Had same thoughts of being too young to own. But, why wait when i can wear one now. When i make it in life maybe I'll get a family Crest.
I had a signet ring made with the family crest when I was in my 60's. I like it and it's not so much in your face even though it's solid gold. I don't know why but I don't wear it that often. However, I do like wearing my college fraternity ring on my right ring finger. Maybe it reminds me of my younger days.
I brought my signet ring and wore it on my pinky finger once I saved £100k so I could start my property investment portfolio. It signifies reaching a goal that changed my life. This I feel warranted me wearing it.
I most certainly wear a signet ring bearing the Crest of the Royal House of my ancestors and is passed on from Duke to Duke together with the Royal House gems ring of Amethyst large CT weight center stone and sapphire as well as Ruby's and Amerald
It's the plain gold oval or cushion signet ring worn on the smallest finger of the left hand that is associated with British gentry, old money, and elitist circles. So, to avoid this association, you could wear a stone-set signet on the smallest finger of your left hand (or your right hand, even, to further disassociate from that aristocratic image). Don't get a ring for your pinky with a disproportionately large face, though; it will look absurd, garish, and mafioso-esque (the other stereotype you mentioned). Fairly dainty, simple and elegant is best; and perhaps set in silver rather than gold. However, if you really like the idea of a gold signet ring with an engraved face but don't want to be associated with (or be seen to be mimicking) the British upper classes, simply wear the signet on a non-traditional finger, such as the third finger of either hand, or even the middle or index finger. Ultimately, though, you should go for what you want to wear, without overthinking or fearing what other people perceive. Life is too short to worry about such things, and if you have the disposable income to purchase one, go for it! The meanings and symbolism behind signet rings are not the sole possession of the landed gentry, anyway. They are there to be used by anyone who values a sense of belonging, kinship, and pride in their family roots and origins.
Family crests don’t really exist, at least not as most people believe where everyone with the surname has the right to the design. Rather, coats of arms were awarded to individuals who then passed those down through their families, usually from father to eldest son. For anyone reading this, please do not fall victim to purchasing a ring with a crest that does not rightfully belong to you. It’s better to choose initials, or to create your own design. Yes, the websites will allow you to search “your” family crest. This is a faux pas, and worse yet, one done to earn a quick buck off those who do not know better.
Is that the Bernex you mentioned previously?! I'd definitely like to hear more about heirloom pieces, as I've refurbished several wristwatches from both my wife's and my own family (one of my hobbies). - Adam
I’m almost 47 and what I would say is this: the real definition of a man and the pinnacle of success is not giving a flying f*%k about what people think of you when you’re wearing something. If you like the look of the signet ring as a man then by all means wear it no matter what age you are. That’s easy to say though because I’m at the point in my life where I’m very comfortable about who I am. And that’s probably the sexiest thing of all for a man. So wear a signet ring because you like it not because you think you should or not based upon society. And really that philosophy could apply to anything.
People think that just because there is a crest associated with their last name that means it applies to all people who share that surname. It doesn’t. Most often it only applies to the person it was originally issued to and sometimes their direct descendants. In essence you’re usually wearing something that belongs to another family. That said, great video and you’re putting out great content.
That's a good point you make! There's definitely more research to be done than a Google search if you really want to find your family's crest. Thanks, I'm glad you're enjoying it!
It is quite simple: If you feel well with it, wear the ring if you feel weird with it, don't. No matter how rich and nob you are it will never look right if you feeld uncomfortable with it and no matter how poor and working class you are, it won't matter if the confidence in the style is there.
I was tge eldest grandchild and inherited my grandfathers signet ring in my late teens /early 20s. My father has his own which will be passed to my son as i hope to in turn hand mine to my grandson.
Do I wear one? Yes. Why? Because I’ve always been interested heraldry and though I don’t come from any kind of aristocracy/nobility since I live in the United States, I still believe having a symbol or “crest“ is important to give your family distinction and a sense of pride in your family. I designed the crest for my family similar to how it’s done in the old world - parts from the family of each person who’s getting married and creating a union, therefore having a crest representing both sides. Since I have daughters, I won’t necessarily have anyone to pass my ring down to because typically it would be melted down anyway as in the old ways, the son wouldn’t have the exact ring as the father anyway but would have the family crest with a certain distinction to set them apart since they are not one of the parents, but will show elements as part of the family. I use my ring to seal cards/notes to family members because I like the aesthetic and something showing where it came from that’s unique. I am not what I would consider “Rich“ but I have achieved and still achieving levels of success I feel give reason to have a signal ring as well as it being sort of “signature” around with me at all times. Though people live in the United States, don’t need to have this kind of things, I believe in a lot of the old ways, and I believe in embracing them and using them in a modern way to show the value/importance of the old ways and caring them into the future.
If your family has a coat of arms, then yes, you should wear it - no matter how old you are; if not: stay away from it, it diminishes your appearance, it shows you want to look as someone you don’t are - and so is a sign of low self esteem
It seems there’s been a bit of a modern update on the tradition of a signet ring. A signet ring is gifted by a family elder in recognition of your personal/professional success. A family coat of arms does not reflect this in any way since your ancestry is not an individual achievement. So unless you’ve inherited a ring with your family coat of arms upon the passing of a dear one or some other special circumstance, ordering one of your own for yourself is generally not done.
Attaching so much meaning to a ring for the pinky finger seems pretentious. Family heirlooms are in a different category. I enjoy seeing jewelry on men as long as it is in proportion to their bodies and appropriate to the occasion.
"Power and success - money" thesedays! Most people can't even buy a house anymore, and men are disenfracnhised in a feminsit world! THAT was enough to permit me to get one - a symbol of male virtue in tough times! If you get one, get platinum. It lasts forever and is elegant and understated. Gold has to be re-done and loses its originality.
Except for a watch and a wedding ring (or military academy or World Cup if you won that) men shouldn’t wear jewelry. Earrings, extra rings, bracelets, necklaces, chains and the rest of it look feminine.
Christ allmighty…you look 35 While saying you are 25 Doing the whole “i am not worthy” spiel is tiresome I wear my signet ring not to boast or flaunt but for me since i was 22
I don't know what he's worrying about either. If he thinks like that he probably has pretentitious intentions to begin with. I agree he looks older, but he doesn't even look British to me, but 'somthing' else.
Signet rings should only be worn by aristocrats. To be born as one is no achievement and not to be born as one is no shame, but you should not pretend to be one.
Such a rubbish, what you are saying here. Signet ring for the older generation only. ? Nonsense. In noble families it is - and it has always been - customary to get one when you come of age. Usually when you are 20. Of course if you do not come from a historic family, do NOTwear one no matter how old you are.
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Hell yeah you should. I let my girlfriend draw up a monogram for me and it’s currently being engraved. I have an onyx one that I have worn the past two years, but I wanted to level up.
That's extra cool that your girlfriend is playing a role in the creation of your ring!
OMG, you simp😱 You miss the point of the signet ring, Brah.
I had a signet ring for my 21st. With my initials, wore it all the time for a decade. Tend to only wear it for special occasions now, but you have inspired me to wear it more. I would get one to commemorate a special occasion, your 30th or as an engagement present, or something similar.
I can understand your mixed feelings on the signet ring. As a…let’s say “more distinguished gentleman” (I’m 56), I now wear a one, but not a family crest, rather my company logo, given as a recognition for 20 years of service to the company. I wear it with pride and a feeling of accomplishment for many years of hard work. I also admire you wearing your grandfather’s watch. I have my grandfather’s presentation watch, of which he was very proud and wore every day, up to and including the day he died. I have more expensive watches, but none more valuable to me. I say as long as a signet ring is meaningful to you in some way, it is neither ostentatious nor ever inappropriate. Wear it with pride.
Very well made video. Cervantes said in Don Quixote when he was counseling Sancho Panza: "Don't worry if you came from labor workers, since a name is something you earn, not something you born with. Just work for a name and earn it. Then you'll become a real noble".
So I agree with your way of 🤔 thinking, and again, excellent work with your video.
Hey there, as a heraldry nerd, I'd like to clarify something, not for the sake of being a silly internet pedant but so you guys know that you have more signet options than you may already know.
A crest (the bit that goes above the helmet) and arms (the bit displayed on the shield) are different. Some signets feature the crest alone (00:29 or 1:18), some the arms alone (1:03), some both (1:29).
Some also use a badge (see King Charles' ring featuring the ostrich feather badge @ 00:51). Badges are a symbol that's not part of one's coat of arms and could historically be adopted and discarded at will.
All three are considered fair game/good form for a signet heraldically speaking so if you're having something made it's something to consider - you have some options (badge, crest, arms, arms + crest). It's good to know and understand all your options so you can make a choice that best suits you. Thank you for posting so many examples so they can all be seen in the video.
The only thing I'd urge against is bucket shop heraldry - essentially using someone else's arms because you have the same last name. This is considered poor form.
PS: If you'd like to learn more about heraldry, the Heraldry Society's beginner's guide (link below) is a great place to start. There's a really active subreddit for it as well.
www.theheraldrysociety.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/Heraldry-For-Beginners.pdf
Wow, thanks for the info. Very informative.
@@TheXabl0 Welcome!
Any thoughts on a modern signet ring with the charge(s), rather than the crest, arms, or both represented? Is that poor form?
@@robertsandoval4484 Sounds great. Have fun!
What if I have the same name and am a descendant, even though the design wasn't passed down to me per se. Also, what if it belonged to my ancestors who shared my last name, but with a slightly different spelling due to spelling changes over time?
You aren't too young. Find something meaningful to you and wear it. I received a gold tigers eye ring from my grandfather after he passed away when I was 10 years old. I started wearing it in my mid 20s and I've worn it every day since. I get compliments on it every single day (no exaggeration) and I've had countless people approach me out of the blue and ask me about it. I recommend you find something meaningful and high quality and wear it with pride.
Hi Carlos, thanks for your comment! That sounds like a beautiful ring. As I mentioned, I wear my great-grandfather's watch, and that also gives me a great sense of pride (and attracts compliments). I'm sure I will wear a signet ring when the opportunity for the right one comes along
Fidning a quality ring can be difficult. I recommend used. Unless you have the means. But you will have to come up with 2200 GBP for a serious tailored signet ring by a British firm.
I saw a tigers eye jewel in my high school ring order-book and I remember it to this day! What a great ring. Your grandfather had amazing taste 😎
As always. Really good vid.
Your doubts about wearing one,resonated with me.
You basically make a really good argument for not wearing one. Especially wearing it solely as a fashion statement.
Although like you Z, I am not from money but at 36, I am a commissioned officer and financially independent. I will create a signet ring to both remember my father and express my ambition for the future.
I first started considering a signet ring after seeing Thomas Shelby. And I’ve seen it worn casually in a thin or smaller scale and I love the juxtaposition of a casual outfit, tattoos and a pinky ring. So striking! ⚡️
My signet ring is an ancient Roman one which I restored myself. It meant a lot to somebody 2,000 years ago and it is mine now as I go through life with my challenges.
Where do you get that from??
If your family doesn't come from a high class background you won't have a crest. A coat of arms and its crest isn't something every family has its nothing to do with surnames its direct descendants you either inherit it or you're awarded one by the college of arms which would come with a fee of £9000.
That's cheap
Nah, you can have one if you want it. You can just make it up yourself--boom, family crest! Dinosaurs didn't have crests. They were all made up at some point, and that point could be tomorrow. Are you describing crests or stars on the Hollywood Walk of Fame? ;)
@@SpiffliciousThats the spirit, plus you can design your own and are not stuck with something you might not enjoy wearing in public
I inherited one from my grandfather and it means a lot to me, I dont care if im not am achieved person yet, the ring reminds me of him what a hard worker he was and inspires me
I do plan on wearing one at some point. I just turned 30 and as I'm getting older my sense of style is changing. Every day I feel my fashion sense moving away from graphic t shirts and moving closer to dressing to impress whenever I have a reason to leave the house.
I wear a unique ring on my left hand middle finger. It’s not a classic ‘signet ring’ by any means but it’s a unique silver design with an amber stone in the middle. It has a middle Easter vibe and whenever i am writing something or signing something (I am also left handed) it always gets interesting comments and is actually a nice ice-breaker in that regard!
That sounds beautiful! I am all for the wearing of non traditional signet rings and indeed wearing them however you like!
Good video and clear explanation. +1 subscriber! thank you! I have several signet rings. One is made of silver, engraved with me and my wife initials which was designed on our wedding invitation. Another is a simple one with lapis lazuli stone. The others are simply accessories.
I am going to get a signet ring with the family crest on it, because I've reached a point in my life where I feel I do deserve it! I have worked hard and gone through a lot of rough business, and plowed through it all. So yeah, I feel I have worked for it, but I get where you're coming from. Maybe set a goal for yourself, you will buy one after getting your degree or after buying your first house, something like that. Or after having your first child. That's a great way to honour your family when you yourself add to it!
Great video! I am currently designing a crest/monogram for my signet ring and plan to have one made in the somewhat near future. It’s been a struggle finding a “blank” ring I like to have engraved.
Good luck with that! And let me know which one you end up choosing! Maybe it will inspire when I come to get my own ring made
@@Gent.Z Thanks. I have my wife helping me find a suitable ring/engraver, so we’ll see what turns up.
wearing a signet ring is a symbol of the importance of your family and devotion to them, proudly displaying your family crest as you are proud to be who you are, an identifier not of mafia symbolism or snobbery, but something more personal, you are displaying what family you come from, in a timeless but elegant fashion statement.
I have a sterling silver signet ring that has a Birlinn ship engraved on it that is a descendant ship from the Viking long boat that many Norse Gaelic clans used back in the olden days. Which i brought from hebridean jewellery which I've been wearing 3 or 4 years now. And I would like to make or have made a special treasure signet ring with my clans crest in memory of one of our famous clan chief who was a notorious pirate Ruari the Turbulent.
I have a Family SIgnet ring from my mother's family. I got it when I was 13 and started wearing it when I was 23 -26 while I lived in Europe and again now.
I wear one. I am 64 and a direct descendant of George Calvert,Lord Baltimore therefore the Calvert crest. Also wear the Calvert crest lapel pin.
Very interesting. Thanks for sharing
Absolutely brilliant perspective!!!
Thank you, Devin! It was your comment regarding signet rings a few weeks ago that got me thinking and inspired me to make this video
@@Gent.Zhow fabulous! It was a pleasure interacting with you! Thank you for expanding upon the subject with more insight! I definitely see you wearing a signet in the near future! It’s definitely part of a gentleman’s accoutrements in spite of lineage..in my humble opinion.🥂✨
The pleasure is all mine! And whenever I do get to it, I look forward to sharing the process of getting my signet ring with you on the channel!@@devindemond1972
@@Gent.Z wonderful! I look forward to it!!
Indeed, I adorn a silver Signet ring, elegantly engraved with both my family's esteemed legacy and the distinguished name of our business, 'Grey'.
I wear one because my family's had a coat of arms and accompanying motto for 6 generations (as far as the family tree shows). It got passed down to me by my father from his great grandfather.
Maybe make a silver signet ring, it will not be as expensive and would probably signal more of a technical or working class.
Nice video! In my opinion, if you already have a family crest and take pride in it, consider getting a ring-age doesn't matter. If you're proud of your family and contribute to its well-being, I believe you deserve a signet ring with the family crest.
I currently have a signet ring with a stone inlay for my middle finger. However, I plan to have a signet ring made with a family crest after I get married. For me, this represents the status of being a husband and taking care of the family. I think everyone deserves a family crest signet ring when they assume the responsibility of caring for their family.
I wear the traditional oval with my initials. I ordered mine about 5 years ago. 14k just for my individuality.
Got one for my 25th birthday engraved with my initials. I wear it almost everyday.Had same thoughts of being too young to own. But, why wait when i can wear one now. When i make it in life maybe I'll get a family Crest.
I had a signet ring made with the family crest when I was in my 60's. I like it and it's not so much in your face even though it's solid gold. I don't know why but I don't wear it that often. However, I do like wearing my college fraternity ring on my right ring finger. Maybe it reminds me of my younger days.
I brought my signet ring and wore it on my pinky finger once I saved £100k so I could start my property investment portfolio. It signifies reaching a goal that changed my life. This I feel warranted me wearing it.
I most certainly wear a signet ring bearing the Crest of the Royal House of my ancestors and is passed on from Duke to Duke together with the Royal House gems ring of Amethyst large CT weight center stone and sapphire as well as Ruby's and Amerald
I dont yet wear a signet ring, I do wear a variety of other rings though, and I hope to get a signet ring soon.
Thanks for your comment! I hope you enjoy your signet ring when you get one!
Chose my initials plus a design. Ring for ring finger right hand (not pinky). Chose cushion shape. Love it. My family knows it as my ring.
It's the plain gold oval or cushion signet ring worn on the smallest finger of the left hand that is associated with British gentry, old money, and elitist circles. So, to avoid this association, you could wear a stone-set signet on the smallest finger of your left hand (or your right hand, even, to further disassociate from that aristocratic image). Don't get a ring for your pinky with a disproportionately large face, though; it will look absurd, garish, and mafioso-esque (the other stereotype you mentioned). Fairly dainty, simple and elegant is best; and perhaps set in silver rather than gold.
However, if you really like the idea of a gold signet ring with an engraved face but don't want to be associated with (or be seen to be mimicking) the British upper classes, simply wear the signet on a non-traditional finger, such as the third finger of either hand, or even the middle or index finger.
Ultimately, though, you should go for what you want to wear, without overthinking or fearing what other people perceive. Life is too short to worry about such things, and if you have the disposable income to purchase one, go for it! The meanings and symbolism behind signet rings are not the sole possession of the landed gentry, anyway. They are there to be used by anyone who values a sense of belonging, kinship, and pride in their family roots and origins.
I think you have a great outlook and you make some very interesting points. Thanks for your comment.
Family crests don’t really exist, at least not as most people believe where everyone with the surname has the right to the design. Rather, coats of arms were awarded to individuals who then passed those down through their families, usually from father to eldest son.
For anyone reading this, please do not fall victim to purchasing a ring with a crest that does not rightfully belong to you. It’s better to choose initials, or to create your own design. Yes, the websites will allow you to search “your” family crest. This is a faux pas, and worse yet, one done to earn a quick buck off those who do not know better.
Is that the Bernex you mentioned previously?! I'd definitely like to hear more about heirloom pieces, as I've refurbished several wristwatches from both my wife's and my own family (one of my hobbies). - Adam
That's correct! Thanks Adam :)
I’m almost 47 and what I would say is this: the real definition of a man and the pinnacle of success is not giving a flying f*%k about what people think of you when you’re wearing something. If you like the look of the signet ring as a man then by all means wear it no matter what age you are. That’s easy to say though because I’m at the point in my life where I’m very comfortable about who I am. And that’s probably the sexiest thing of all for a man. So wear a signet ring because you like it not because you think you should or not based upon society. And really that philosophy could apply to anything.
People think that just because there is a crest associated with their last name that means it applies to all people who share that surname. It doesn’t. Most often it only applies to the person it was originally issued to and sometimes their direct descendants. In essence you’re usually wearing something that belongs to another family.
That said, great video and you’re putting out great content.
That's a good point you make! There's definitely more research to be done than a Google search if you really want to find your family's crest. Thanks, I'm glad you're enjoying it!
Coat of Arms are more specific to the person.
It is quite simple: If you feel well with it, wear the ring if you feel weird with it, don't. No matter how rich and nob you are it will never look right if you feeld uncomfortable with it and no matter how poor and working class you are, it won't matter if the confidence in the style is there.
I was tge eldest grandchild and inherited my grandfathers signet ring in my late teens /early 20s.
My father has his own which will be passed to my son as i hope to in turn hand mine to my grandson.
Do I wear one? Yes. Why? Because I’ve always been interested heraldry and though I don’t come from any kind of aristocracy/nobility since I live in the United States, I still believe having a symbol or “crest“ is important to give your family distinction and a sense of pride in your family. I designed the crest for my family similar to how it’s done in the old world - parts from the family of each person who’s getting married and creating a union, therefore having a crest representing both sides. Since I have daughters, I won’t necessarily have anyone to pass my ring down to because typically it would be melted down anyway as in the old ways, the son wouldn’t have the exact ring as the father anyway but would have the family crest with a certain distinction to set them apart since they are not one of the parents, but will show elements as part of the family. I use my ring to seal cards/notes to family members because I like the aesthetic and something showing where it came from that’s unique. I am not what I would consider “Rich“ but I have achieved and still achieving levels of success I feel give reason to have a signal ring as well as it being sort of “signature” around with me at all times. Though people live in the United States, don’t need to have this kind of things, I believe in a lot of the old ways, and I believe in embracing them and using them in a modern way to show the value/importance of the old ways and caring them into the future.
I have 28 signet rings, 29 in a leap year.
I actually have a ring being shipped with my families coat of arms. :)😂
Some guys can pull it off. Some cant. It's a bit like wearing a hat or a bowtie. It either works, or looks like a halloween costume.
If your family has a coat of arms, then yes, you should wear it - no matter how old you are; if not: stay away from it, it diminishes your appearance, it shows you want to look as someone you don’t are - and so is a sign of low self esteem
I wear a signet ring with a masonic design since i'm a member of the freemason
bro，its just a ring worth about 10grams 18k, everybody is equal, wear it if u want
I want to buy one. But my religion prevents me from wearing gold. I want a silver or platinum one. But platinum is hella expensive.
Sterling silver and stainless steel are optional to
It seems there’s been a bit of a modern update on the tradition of a signet ring. A signet ring is gifted by a family elder in recognition of your personal/professional success. A family
coat of arms does not reflect this in any way since your ancestry is not an individual achievement. So unless you’ve inherited a ring with your family coat of arms upon the passing of a dear one or some other special circumstance, ordering one of your own for yourself is generally not done.
Attaching so much meaning to a ring for the pinky finger seems pretentious. Family heirlooms are in a different category. I enjoy seeing jewelry on men as long as it is in proportion to their bodies and appropriate to the occasion.
British accent? I thought you were Australian?
"Power and success - money" thesedays! Most people can't even buy a house anymore, and men are disenfracnhised in a feminsit world! THAT was enough to permit me to get one - a symbol of male virtue in tough times! If you get one, get platinum. It lasts forever and is elegant and understated. Gold has to be re-done and loses its originality.
Except for a watch and a wedding ring (or military academy or World Cup if you won that) men shouldn’t wear jewelry. Earrings, extra rings, bracelets, necklaces, chains and the rest of it look feminine.
I have to politely disagree with you there
Understood. In my culture and family, jewelry on men is considered flashy, over the top, and a little bit girly. That has shaped my perspective.
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Christ allmighty…you look 35
While saying you are 25
Doing the whole “i am not worthy” spiel is tiresome
I wear my signet ring not to boast or flaunt but for me since i was 22
I don't know what he's worrying about either. If he thinks like that he probably has pretentitious intentions to begin with. I agree he looks older, but he doesn't even look British to me, but 'somthing' else.
Signet rings should only be worn by aristocrats. To be born as one is no achievement and not to be born as one is no shame, but you should not pretend to be one.
His eyebrows match his mustache, he looks like he has two pairs of eyebrows 😂😂😂
Such a rubbish, what you are saying here. Signet ring for the older generation only. ? Nonsense. In noble families it is - and it has always been - customary to get one when you come of age. Usually when you are 20. Of course if you do not come from a historic family, do NOTwear one no matter how old you are.
why are these tories deepening a ring
What?
don’t be wearing poor
what type of crap is this your on about ? if gangsters wear it what has social status got to do with it ? you poms are so old fashioned 😂
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