HOW TO BECOME THE WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS | LEVEL UP & REINVENT YOURSELF | TRINDINGTOPIC
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Hey babessss! In this video, I’ll be sharing tips on how to become the woman of your dreams, and how to level up & reinvent yourself into the woman you want to be. I hope this video inspires you to become your ideal self, your higher self, your best self! These are things you can do TODAY! You can literally change your life NOW and become HER! ❤️ Let me know how you ladies enjoy this video & dont forget to LIKE, COMMENT + SUBSCRIBE!
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Thank you for being a big sister figure for a lot of us who don’t have one to get wisdom from 🙏
Don’t make me cry 🥺 that was so sweet! Im so happy to be that for y’all ❤️
Definitely giving big sister vibes
@@kountrigirllexx270 🥺🫶🏾 let me know if y’all have topic suggestions
@@trindingtopicyes! I am the big sister and I need advice too lol
@@trindingtopiccan you do Q&A for advice questions from the viewers?
Writing it down is such a key part. So many times I've reread things I've wrote and seen that I have accomplished them and it is such a good feeling❤
Agreed!
This
True
Really a game changer for real 🎉
THAT PART! It keeps me motivated when I see myself checking things off my list ✨️
“We procrastinate because we don’t feel prepared for whatever it is we are about to do.” Thank you love, this whole thing was really good!
My life makes senses now that she said that 😮😮😮
❤❤
“you should know what you want, who you want, and who you are at all times” 😮💨💯
You feel me?😏
Awesome
I thought I wanted to get married to a rich man and be spoiled and treated like a princess that it wasn’t until I wrote down my dream life that I realized I didn’t want a man at all. I want to be spoiled, but I rather spoil myself and live a fulfilling life on my own. It’s crazy the things that come to light consciously when you write them down
Procrastination is my downfall but I’m trying to do better
Planning & prepping in advance is key! And breaking the task down into smaller ones helps as well
I just turned 22 years old Im a single mom to a 16 month old and pretty much since i gave birth ive been dealing with depression, feelings lost not feeling like my self again and no matter who i talk with i just never find the right answers but God placed this video on my youtube feed and i almost skipped past it thank God i didnt but everything you said i felt it and overstood every word and you have me so ready to get a notebook to jotdown all the things i want for myseld after watching this i've noticed that i also just go with the flow and accept anything because i feel like i dont deserve the best when in reality im the root of my own happiness. Thank you so much for this video God bless 💖
You got this mama. Praying that you learn to love & embrace this NEW version of yourself. I realized that it’s much easier to reinvent yourself after motherhood, rather than trying to get back to your old self. ❤️
A lot of mothers stop their life after children, I have woken up. My children deserve the best ever as the mom
This scripture kept coming to mind the more you advised on writing it.. “Then the Lord answered me and said, “Write the vision And engrave it plainly on [clay] tablets So that the one who reads it will run.”
Habakkuk 2:2 AMP
Amen 🙏🏾
Amen 🙌 God is telling me to make a vision board 🙏
Amen
Aligning yourself with who God wants you to be. Wow! That was a powerful statement! So many great gems 💎 in this video.
God wants you to not be embarrassed by the hair and look he gave you
writing down the person we wanna be is important but the second part of this journey is asking yourself "WHAT can i do to BE that person now?" some things will take time (ex. earning money, losing weight, etc) but that's why you gotta start building those habits! you will attract like-minded people eventually. people are practically drawn towards those with positive energy!
Bingo
While I'm going through a bad breakup, I'm realizing God has placed me by myself again because I wasn't operating in my Higher Self. I've made a note section in my phone of the woman I'm going to be TODAY & I'm excited to work on myself & attract better along the way ❤
Same. Thank you for sharing. I needed to see this. Many blessings to all of us 🩷
I hope you make it , I hope that for you because I want it too .❤
Hi sis thanks for sharing awesome tips so proud of you. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗
I know that’s right!!
Congratulations Sandra! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too
Love this for youuu
Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on. I hope it is useful to you.
How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.
I literally just deactivated every single social media and I’m so glad I ran across this video because I’m definitely rebranding 😭
How is it going? 😊 Taking a break from socials? I'm reaching that stage
@@zelodiaveldschoen842 girl I have not looked back! Twitter , Pinterest, and Tik tok keep me going.
Manifesting ‼️👌🏽 manifesting works and I think a lot of people over think what it is like it’s supposed to be magic ! It’s not magic it’s knowing exactly what you want and working towards it while believing you can have it or that you already have it ! You explained the whole process with out even saying the word manifest lol smooth!
I’m glad you caught it 😌 & you worded that perfectly!
I’m not usually a fan of sit down, chit chat type videos but this was so good. You gave such good advice and I love your authenticity. Felt like I was sitting with a close friend catching up lol
Thank you so much!🥺🫶🏾
Everything you said is 1000% true. I’ve implemented a lot of this and my life has changed dramatically in the past couple of years. I also learned a lot from this video and your perspective. I need more friends with this mentality! Queen energy!
Thank you so much!❤️🥰
You’ve opened my eyes to a lot of things . I realize the main thing standing in my way is me . I will really apply for jobs I know I could do but because of negative thoughts I back out . I’ve told myself I want to talk differently I feel like I talk to aggressive I want to talk softer . I’ve changed my mannerism and how I walk. As a woman how you carry yourself shows your confidence . I do however need to find a dream car because I am like how you were and that’s something deep to think about .
Omgg. I don’t curse and people don’t realize until I acknowledge it. But it’s something people admire for real.
My lash tech doesn’t curse either and that’s actually what made me more conscious of it
Same
Liked for 6:37 “I don’t give off ‘play with me’. ” 🤣 love this
I like the value and confidence you spoke with, unapologetic. A lot of times I’ll see videos like this and they’re like “not to say I’m better” but if you think about it a person is doing a lot when they’re leveling up and there should be no shame in that 👏🏼 Thank you for this video ❤
I completely agree! Thank you ❤️
Wow this is my exact journey I’m on! It’s like our soul is rejuvenated and rebranded.
I can’t sit with those any longer that won’t bring me the energy to motivate my Spirt.
Amen sistaaaa!
Gurlllllll you have encouraged this 43 yr old woman!!! Thank you and keep posting!!
Thank you girly! I needed this reminder. I’m a new mom and wife trying to find myself again and this is definitely a great place to start. I always tell ppl that I “manifested” my husband. When I was in high school, I wrote a list describing my dream man. God blessed me with my husband but I never thought about “manifesting” my dream self. Thank you for this word 👏🏽👏🏽
It is true….you can be married to a man who has money and can be faithful! We’ve been married for 33 years❤
Yes to the limiting beliefs part! 👏🏽 I’ve been studying my human design/gene keys and it talks exactly about this! If you can believe it, you can have it! You react with emotion when you see others with the thing you want because the universe wants you to have it to! It’s just a matter of divine timing. We can all win!!! People give their mind too much power instead of their body. Listening to limiting music, movies, etc is also not good! Be mindful of what you consume! Sometimes your thoughts are actually someone’s else’s limiting beliefs! Speak life into your life! Listen to inspiring things!
Unrelated topic, but your makeup is done so well! You're glowing 💯
Thank you 🫶🏾
I needed this . The part about forgiving yourself and others for what your higher self wouldn’t approve of . Heavy on the LET IT GO !!
Compartmentalizing is my hardest struggle. Love how you worded that and summarized it for me. Genuinely so hard to distinguish giving everyone everything because that’s the person I am, but understanding where to draw the line is a deep lesson and even deeper to practice regularly. Great video ❤
It’s definitely hard but rewarding! Thank you!
That self talk sounded exactly like mine. Just mean to myself for no reason. It’s important to know that someone else is experiencing the same challenges and is pushing through successfully. Big and little wins. Cause this battlefield of the mind… Keep pushing through. We got this!
Exactly! Yes we do ❤️
Writing down the woman you want to become makes it so much more attainable. It solidifies your goals whereas keeping it in your thoughts just floats around and only comes to light when you remember it.
okay, this must be confirmation. I'm been dealing with a lot lately and I do believe you when you say "Write it down." I need to reinvent myself and figure out who I want to be today moving forward. Thanks for the video girl. ✨✨🙌🙌
This video may just jumpstart the shift I need in my life to shed certain people in my life and make room for the ones I'm looking for. My mindset needs to change first so that I can follow bc that's the hardest part for me. Once you level up so much, you won't allow certain people in your space or to double back. Please do more videos like this!! Your channel is refreshing to see.
This content is amazing. So proud of you. I'm learning from you. A person is never too old. 🥰🥰
Thank you so much!🥺❤️
I resonated with so much of everything you said. I am SOOO glad I clicked on this video! I decided to start changing my life a few days ago because I’m young and I want to get a handle on good habits and being the woman I want to be. Thank you thank you thank you!
You are so welcome! Thank you for watching
Love this! You’re amazing sis!! I’m in a place of reinventing myself so I can truly represent the kingdom of God. I have some changes I need to make and everyday I’m choosing to be the woman I know God has called me to be. So much has changed for me in the past few months but it’s so worth it!!
This is SO VERY IMPOWERING I know everybody who watches this feel inspired like how I felt
thank you💕
I love this!! I’m currently In my season of becoming the woman I want to be, and let me tell you I need to start writing it down 😅lbvs but thank you for your words definitely needed it ❤
Absolutely ❤️ you got this
I just read the comment posted right before mine, absolutely bogus!! Don’t let them bring you down. Society tells us we can be one thing and that’s it. That when we become a mother that’s it. You’re still your own person and you’re allowed to want better for yourself. You’re absolutely stunning and I love how you did your makeup. I loved this video as well. I love you and God loves you more!!
Girl trust me it had 0 effect on me 😂 it’s a reflection of where she is in life. but thank you so much! Everything you said is 100% true ❤️ love you right back!
Girllll! This video came at the perfect time!! I’ve been struggling so much to become the best version of myself especially after becoming a mom but I’m still trying to find my identity but thank you soo much for this video! It has inspired me to get up and start working on my ideal self🥰❤️
I know that struggle. As moms we have to try harder than most ppl. I feel you 🫶🏾 you got this tho
I enjoyed this video so much! A lot of people aren’t even aware of so many things that you mentioned like writing things down to make them real, acknowledging your limiting beliefs & getting rid of them, creating the life you wanna live, etc.. spot on video that I needed today. Thank you!
P.s. your makeup is bomb & your channel name is so creative! I love it!
I’m glad y’all are enjoying! Thank you ❤️
Hey Queen!
I must say, your video is nothing short of empowering magic! Your energy and wisdom radiate through the screen, inspiring us all to embrace our fullest potential. Your tips on transforming into the women of our dreams are not just words, they're a powerful call to action!
Your authenticity shines brightly, making it impossible not to feel motivated to become the best version of ourselves. Your words are a reminder that every moment is a chance to evolve, and your enthusiasm is contagious. Thank you for this incredible reminder that change starts within and that we have the power to shape our destinies.
You've truly created a transformative guide, reminding us that the journey to becoming HER starts today, right now! Thank you for being the beacon of light we all needed. Can't wait to embark on this journey and share my progress. Sending you so much love and gratitude!
Thank you so much!!❤️
You spoke to my spirit through this whole video , I felt like I was listening to myself. I’m in a season of transition and this was definitely a reaffirmation for me. Thank you. 💕
I love this video. So many self-improvement videos here on YT only talk about eating right and exercising, making your bed, etc. I love how you consistently touch on self-accountability and doing the inner work.
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I’ve been watching a lot of videos similar to this but this is no doubt one of the best & motivational ones. That writing down who u want to be really helped cuz ppl always say vision boards but that speaks more on WHERE u want to be not WHO u want to be. I need to work on who I am first to get where i need to be! Thank u!
That is so good! You worded that perfectly! Thank you so much ❤️
Omg I’m trying to stop cursing
Giiiirrrrllll!! I just wanted to comment and say “thank you” because I really needed to hear all that you had to say. You said something like, “I didn’t really think it but because I didn’t see it, I didn’t believe it could happen to me” and yes! Our environment and conditioning/upbringing can make us think we can’t have things we can do easily obtain! I definitely had a lightbulb moment!! Thank you for this sis!
Thank you sm I’m glad you enjoyed 🥰
i just looked this up out of nowhere because i’m trying to better myself. i relate to everything you said. this was real! I have to learn patience and it’s really hard.
She’s so well spoken, she’s just so amazing
I love this video
This is exactly where I am at 33
I’m onto improving myself and this video helps me immensely
Thank you for being so articulate
I don’t really understand why watching this made me feel emotional lmao, maybe my spirit just resonated with you and you said a lot of things that I really needed to hear. Definitely going to try to follow this 🤞🏾
this video genuinely helped me so much. love a black queen helping other black queens out ❤
I had this video in my watch later for months. I do a revival every month and for some reason I knew this video would have some tools that were valuable. I’m a writer by nature so I always write things down but on thing you hit which I knew was a character issue for me is limiting beliefs! This is huge and I believe once I get rid of that, I will be unstoppable. My belief and my faith was tried a few years back which caused me to be stagnant in my belief of myself. I know this is where my problems lies. Thank you so much for this video!
Thank you boo for this wisdom I too had no idea what my dream car was because I was so busy trying to help others with their dreams I neglected my own but it definitely is a power in putting ink to paper and manifesting ❤
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Love love love how you included character traits & healing! Alot of videos i watch are all about material or career never really brought up the importance of other things. ❤
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The writing stuff down is real .. I’m getting goosebumps… I did this with the type of man I wanted .. I’m married now but I never did this for myself.. thank you
As a 65 year old SeniorQueen Mother and Grandmother; I truly admire and respect you. You are beautiful, confident,secure, sophisticated,classy highly ethical young woman with excellent morals. Continue to level up,while being selective unapologetically! Stay close to God, with great Christian Character. God bless you always.
The Word of God Says We are what we think.
" As a man thinketh so is he".❤😇🙏
Wow thank you so much! This made my day🫶🏾
Therapy is key for me i think I need get back to it❤
Writing down your vision is simple yet so powerful, life changing
I was struggling with anxiety and identity crisis sooo bad. I just happened to stumble on your page. I watch a video a morning it has truly helped me turn my mental around. Along with seeing a therapist I’m so grateful and thankful for your content and openness.
Mission accomplished 🥺❤️thank you for sharing your feedback!
Thank you for sharing your light with us! Forgiving yourself is huge! :)
So true!
I resonate with this alot, becoming the woman of your dreams is so important for us to actively work on! 💞 love this!
Thank you 🫶🏾
Same here with the cursing! I've had people look at me all weird because I choose not to curse. Now I know I don't need those people in my life. Great video, love.
That's a fact. If you don't know what you do and don't want, you will accept a little of everything. Great advice.
Trinity you speak so much truth and wisdom, you motivated me so much this morning. Thank you for your video, keep it up! You're out here changing lives and inspiring others
Thank you 🥺❤️
Thank you beautiful!! I’m 58 and there are some things that I still want and need to do. This is so helpful! Thanks again! 💕💚
You’re so welcome
This is one of the best videos I’ve watched with self-improvement. As someone who went through narcissistic abuse, I’m rediscovering who I am & this is a perfect example of putting yourself first and attract what you want.
Great channel Little Sister. We need more Young Ladies with good morals and great character traits💞
Thank you so much!
this video came right on time and it’s great to know that i’m not the only one who feels this way especially being in Maryland. i know what part you’re referring to also, so you definitely right😂 it’s crazy how we talk ourselves out of the blessings God has for us but thank God for all of our new journeys to better living❤️
Yesss! 🙌🏾❤️
Yes to all of this. Thank you for sharing. I have identified myself as a people pleaser and realized that meant i was hurting me when I did that. But I didn’t feel confident in choosing myself until you broke down what “being intentional” means, and how it gets read by other people as stuck up. HAHA. it’s wild but saying yes to things I want to say no to is a character trait I did not like about myself. You helped me realize that saying no to things I know are not for me is out of intention which allows alignment with God’s purpose for my life. So thank you thank you for sharing your insight 🤗
Yes! It's also called setting standards and I am so empowered by this presentation.
I do not curse. I made that decision in my life years ago ❤️ great video
I need to be like you 😩
Keep doing what u r doing...u r impacting lives ❤
Thank you!!🥺
Young lady I really enjoyed your video. I'm 59 yrs old and was looking for videos on reinventing one's self and assumed I'd be looking at videos with older women. Yours is the first one that came up so I decided it couldn't hurt to watch it. So glad I did. You shared a lot of wisdom and great step by step ideas. If you keep thinking like this I'm sure you'll create a well rounded life full of good success. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you so much! I’m glad you enjoyed ❤️
Everything you said made so much sense!
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I love your energy, very "know your worth and don't settle" ❤
The thing about the table is KEY. I learned that the HARD WAY.
This video is so perfect, I have been on a self healing journey the past week. Want to continue healing from heartbreaks, change my attachment style..e.c.t. While searching, some people on the videos would talk really fast, and almost overly excited to the point it was difficult to understand. Then there was other videos of women talking so slow, and monotoned that even if the information seemed valuable, it was difficult to focus. I have adhd, and personally found this video perfect. Helpful, tips, and talking at a genuine speed not too slow, not too fast. I appreciate you taking time to explain and be helpful for other people.
Thank you so much❤️ I’m glad you enjoyed
Thanks for this video. I just got off the phone with my bestfriend and we were just talking about commiting to becoming the women of our dreams. Your video popped up at the perfect moment to help me figure out where to start with that.
Wow!! Divine timing
It's almost as if you saw right through me I want you to know that I'm so grateful that you made this video I'm 22 years old who has been working since 17 and I'm finally thinking of leveling up and be who I really should be and this video just summed it all up thank you so much 💗
Yesss. Me with the cursing. My dad told me that if I needed to use profanity I had a limited vocabulary
What I like best about what you said is being intentional. I think I spend my time “ reacting to life” like a pinball instead of planning where I want to go.
Girll!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 you are hitting the 🎯🎯 speaking nothing but FACTS💯 you just don’t know how much you are helping so many women by doing this video.
Changing your mindset is very important in who God and who You want to be! Well done!!🫡 Stay blessed❤
Thank you so much!!
@@trindingtopic your so welcome beautiful💖 keep shining✨
Needed this. The universe brought me to your page so suddenly. Whewww!! Talk that talk. Im going to have to get me a new journal so i can start back journaling❤️
Journaling helped me so much!!
@@trindingtopic yes i got to get back to it.
Whew I felt soo much of what you are saying. You should also speak on the stages of change. Like one of the first stages which is isolation. I am experiancing this stage and of course limiting who I share my energy with.
I don’t ever comment on videos. However, I’ve been working on who I want to be and trying to work on my self discipline to make sure I get there. I always tell myself/limit myself on what I can have or achieve, I don’t have a dream car, house, or anything because in my head I cannot have those things. This video helped a lot with not living aimlessly and reminding myself that whatever I want is tangible. My anxiety keeps me from forgiving myself for the stupid things I’ve done as a teenager (i’m only 21). Thank you, thank you, thank you!
You’re so welcome ❤️
I’m so glad I came across this video! I’ll definitely will be trying this exercise of writing down what my higher self looks like!
Yessss go girl!
I literally stumbled on this video, and usually I don’t listen all the way through because sometimes it’s fluff.
You did an amazing job, it felt very authentic and I enjoyed listening and watching. I hope this reaches every woman in need.
Sidenote: I’m in Silver Spring, MD where do you do lashes?
Thank you so much I’m glad you enjoyed! In Randallstown, MD
This was HIGHLY necessary and great tips! Some women kinda lead others into a rabbit hole when it comes to manifestation while not letting them know the action and patience that goes along with it.❤
Thanks for the reminder. You definitely have to envision what you want your life to be like.
I watched this video start to finish and I never do that 😂. I can relate to literally everything you said and went through. I’m going through the process of rebuilding my confidence now and it feels amazing. God Is working through you! I see your light girl, keep doing your thing! Thank you for this ❤ #NewSubscriber
Thank you so much!
Such a genuine spirit..So relatable.. beautiful Queen..keep doing your thing!!..Ray Charles can see that you will have a huge following just being u!!!!
Thank you so much ❤️ claiming it
Girllll ‘you’s’ my type of girl! Randomly your content came across my timeline and I was like oh yeah God is aligning! I just moved to Maryland & didn’t even know you were from there!
Wow yes that’s divine timing! Welcome to MD🫶🏾
I clicked on this video because of the title. Really was hooked when I heard your name because my daughter’s name is Trinity! Great content. I’m glad I found your channel (love the channel name too lol)
Thank you!! Wow I’ve only met a handful of Trinitys in my lifetime! I’m sure she’s a great great girl 🤣
Believe Believe Believe and use the power of Visualization...its yours! Love from Maryland 🎉❤
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This showed up on my feed and I just took this as a sign that I'm on the right track to becoming the woman I want to be living my dream life! Tomorrow working on writing down all the things you said to ask yourself. Thank you for sharing!
I understand exactly what you mean about material things, cars, houses ect...I lived in Wisconsin for years and moved to Texas. It is so much better here .You see luxury cars all the time here. The home are so beautiful and huge where I live. It does broaden your horizons on things that you want when you are around them. So I'm saying I'm going to have that big beautiful home as well real soon 😊 I'm speaking all these beautiful things around me into my existence.
Your makeup is perfect it look so natural your beautiful
Thank you!
This video was everything I needed and more🧡 Thanks girl🔥
I don’t know why this video popped up but thank you girl I needed this
I did this a while ago but I wasn’t detailed about the things I wanted so when I got them I seen everything that I didn’t know I needed align with those things. So now I’m recreating my list and being as detailed as possible, I love this💜.