How to ACTUALLY show up for yourself
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- Опубліковано 6 лип 2024
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Hey girl! In today’s video, I’ll be sharing simple ways to show up for yourself. These are practical ways to practice self-care. Be sure to give this video a thumbs up and don’t forget to COMMENT & SUBSCRIBE ❤️
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Time stamps
00:00 intro
01:08 take care of basic needs
03:29 commit to habits & routines
06:56 allow yourself to rest
09:10 set aside time for yourself
10:45 set boundaries
11:37 ask for help
13:10 put effort into your look
14:41 life life for YOU
You have easily become my number 1 UA-cam self care queen ❤ just wanna say you just give off this beautiful energy on top of your advice ! My favourite thing is that you literaly give all the basics but you explain them so well as to why they’re important. You let us know to set a good foundation and build up from that. You don’t just talk about what everyone’s talking about. For example you started with that we need food water and exercise which seems obvious but it made me reflect and I am lacking in all those . I’ve been eating unhealthy and not exercising. Also I’m also a toddler mum and it’s so helpful when you say we have to pour into ourselves first and then everyone else. Also that you said sometimes self care can just be a nap and doesn’t have to be bubble bath with candles etc. I think your channel is relatable for any women but as a toddler mum I find it’s perfectly adapted to me. Sure I watch some other women who don’t have kids but I will always find your content more relatable for my life stage ! Love from Ireland ❤
Thank you so so so much! 🥺 I’m so glad y’all appreciated that first one bc I almost edited it out thinking it was obvious lol
@@trindingtopic noo not at all! That’s what I love about you, you always start basic and then get more detailed ! And you give such great specifics and advice ! Thank you 👑❤️
finally someone not telling me to take a bath or do a face mask! i love those things but omg it’s really not the purest form of self care. self care is showing up for yourself and giving yourself everything you need like you would a close friend, everything you said was so true. this stuff is soul care, face masks will not help you enjoy your own company and get to know yourself better!
Amennnn!
I love this.
Liking this while the ads before THEE video intro are still going😫
And I thank you 🥰
I literally just did the same thing! 😭😩
Mee too. Iykyk!!
Same! She's such a Queen 🎉
Same
Routines super important, sometimes though i can be so rigid with the family routine that i feel like anything outside of it is a threat lol but also struggle with the routines for MYSELF
no freaking way! i was just talking about how hard it is to go to the gym especially after work, water intake , everything. i open youtube and your video is first ❤
God be knowing 😌
I talked to a girl who goes to the gym after work and she said she'd love to go before work but she would be sweaty so she goes after work. I said is it your time to wind down after your day like therapy? And she said yeah. I said you like set routines and she said yeah
Thisssss! SHOW UP FOR YOURSELF! Even if it means you’ll be disliked, looked at as “extra” or you’ll ruffle feathers in any way shape or form. Hold your space as well! I’m learning to do this now. Cut the “roster” off just to decenter men and put myself in the center. I’m just learning how to be better and show up for me and nobody else. Why because it shows people how you need to be treated. I needed to watch this before my 4:30am shift.
your channel truly helped me so much especially with my level up journey
Appreciate you for watching 🥺🫶🏾
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Girl I’m on my healed girl era and I have had trouble finding a good routine thank you for being a real one and inspiring me to get things done
I keep going to bed late and hating myself for it in the morning. I truly need to work on my basic needs. Thank you for this video
You snapped. Every word was valuable.
Watching your videos lets me know that I am doing good and okay cause I have been so hard on myself and calling myself lazy because I felt like I wasn’t doing enough and that everything takes time
I'm so glad that you showed up in my feed ❤ I'm not for the fluff. I appreciate that your discussions are real, thoughtful, and relatable to ambitious women. Following!
Girl you are God sent
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Same it's hard for me I have to wake up at 4am for work and I struggle to wake up at 3am just to have time for myself 😭
I’m a ready to show up for myself 2024 !
I love this. I’ve been showing up for myself in new ways lately and sticking to a routine and it feels good. I struggled in the past also
I love the honesty!!! This is so comforting and motivating!
I watch a lot of this type of content and honestly I can say you’re so easy to listen to! Thank you for making these 🥰
You are literally speaking my soul I’m already subscribed
I’m so happy I finally have a day to get organized and catch up on my fave UA-camrs🥰🥰
I can’t wait to see the video of the good shadow work questions 💕 this was always a good vlog ❤
Yes building consistency on those routines is a different level. I over love the get to
The first sentence in this video had me like this video off the jump love your energy 💕
thank you for this video! i really like how you are honest about being good when it comes to creating a routine but struggle with sticking to it. i’m the same! i also like the “i get to” mindset.
you are so beautiful! keep shining your light. ☀️🌷
This was so reallll thankyou so much 🥹
I just followed she hits my point and the practical tips is everything ❤
Such a good point on taking quiet time for yourself, Especially when you’re in a relationship and a mother. 🙌🏾 thank you
Girl, thanks so much for this video, I love every talks you give ❤❤
Loved this ! Definitely right on time & I’ll most definitely watch this video again
Thank you. I def needed to see this video. ❤
I’m currently going through my li shhhh and you definitely are giving me what I need at this time. Even tho I’m listening to u it feels like a convo with a good friend! A wise one. I luv your transparency and how relatable u are !! Thank u
Yesss Trin ❤❤ All the gems 💎
I dont even know if you're older than me but this felt like the big sister talk I needed.
I’ll be 28 in April 😊
I’ve been learning how to carry myself as a woman and your videos have helped. Thank you! I had no idea where to start, the women in my life are very masculine and call me soft…. But that’s my goal lol
This was great ‼️
Such a helpful video! Thank you!
Love this great tips ❤
Great video. I'm learning to show up for myself daily.
love your videos 🙌🏾✨
I relate to you so much, you my internet sister in my head lol. Your self awareness and hearing you admit the things that are not your best traits but also how you’ve worked to change them has helped me tremendously to push through this space I’ve been in especially because I’ve had a lot of the same struggles. I appreciate your realness.
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I identified when you said you commit to your son's routine but can't commit to your own. The struggle is real 😅
Love this!!❤
This content is exactly what I need!!!
I love how your highlighting the practicality of things. ✨
That’s the goal!
Amen to all of this!
I started watching you since the year started and you have really changed my perspectives on things ❤
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Great tips! Awesome video. Self-care is important and essential and WE ( everyone, especially black women) must learn how to care for ourselves including implementing some of your tips, ask for help, delegate, put effort into how you look, and know that we ALL need other people. Thanks! ❤
girl, i just want to say i absolutely love your videos, after watching this video, i was thinking to myself, you're my new youtube friend lol, but yes love your videos, keep doing your thing! ❤
Thanks for making this sis 🎉happy rn ❤
I loved this video it was very helpful and motivational ❤
Thank you for this.
So happy I found ur channel. Obsessed! Thank you for always giving us wisdom❤
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love your videos luv 💗
I love how your replacing I have to to I get to this makes such a big difference
Yes it does!
Very valid advise take it from a more mature women practicing self care showing up for yourself loving on yourself setting bountries saying no to ppl distancing yourself from any person place or thing that makes you feel unsafe or not respected trust those feels if something don't set right in your soul please please question it step back and evaluate those feelings and have a relationship with yourself where God is your primary focus :)
Jus watch two of your videos and I had to sub I love ur content I will be bing watching all your videos 😅 ps. Your personality is definitely a plus😊😊❤
Thank you!🥰
After watching your bodycare routine video I went to get a pedicure finally! And I got some stuff you mentioned to take care of my dry dry cracked feet.
I’m a mom of three and never tend to myself. Small steps…..That pedicure today felt soooo good.
Love your channel. Thank you. 🤎
IKTR sis i love that for you!! ❤️
For the past week i have been listen to you to
Start my morning ❤
Love to hear it 🥰
Always some GOLD Content and relatable topics😊😊😊TK u for changing lives ❤
Appreciate y’all 🥺❤️
Spreading yourself thin like a horcrux gonna make you as resentful as Voldemort when people start breaking It down.
Thank you ❤
Beautiful video. Keep the content coming sis🥰
Thank you!❤️
Your Videos are very impactful
New subscriber! First of all, you’re gorgeous 😍 secondly, I love all of these tips! I, too, have been more intentional about becoming the woman I envision in my future, now. Taking small steps to create better, healthier habits.
thank you! and go girl!
Truly loving your videos. Thank you for giving back to us girlies 🩵
Hey I love your content! I know you’ve mentioned you’re working on balancing time but I’d love to see longer videos in the future?🥰
Thank you. I have plenty longer videos on my channel.
Not you just read me and clocked the entire outfit that I have one right now 🤣🤣 lemme get myself together lol
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I’m still in high school and you help me a lot
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Hey queen! You don’t have to get up early everyday, people who wake up early typically go to sleep really early, we all have the same amount of time unless you’re losing sleep. Be more productive at night and sleep in if that’s what works for you!❤️
Amen sister❤️🇿🇦
Amen ❤
Please post a video on time management
Lord you sent a good woman your content always on point & on time thank you god bless ❤❤❤❤
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Yes I wanna see that video on shadow work ❤
Coming soon!
Apple flavoured water is how I drink the amount of water I’m supposed to hehe 😊
I love pretty girls with this mature open mindset
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Hi queen❤awesome video
Hiii thank you ❤️
yes. i have to force myself to remember to drink more water cause i genuinely don't be thirsty a lot fr.
I bless the day i subscribe to your channel pretty sis.❤
Blessed to have you ❤️
I only drink cold water on very hot days my dr told me to idrink room temperature water and i have for the last 10yrs it keep my stomach down
Now I agree with everything you was saying… until you got to we “need” people.
Yes you shouldn’t be to prideful and asking for help is great , but at the end of the day when the day gotta end… I only need my family and God. That thinking will have you putting up with more than you need to. Be very selective on who you allow in your circle. Great video! New subscriber! Thank you!
Family = people lol
How can I go to sleep early when I'm doing a 95 n studying in college 😭
Girl you HAVE to be from somewhere close to Baltimore,Md. I know this DMV accent anywhere lol
Yes Baltimore 😂
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Girl why do we struggle through the same thing
I need all my fellow people pleasers to see this video, like IMMEDIATELY
Girrrrllll I been feeling the SAME, but I got to do better. New Subbie ❤❤❤
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Can we talk about how she’s been dropping very consistently🤭 ??
I been trying sis 😩
Hey Queen🤍🎀
Hey heyyy🥰
every single thing you say is ‼️‼️‼️
Promo>SM 🤷
This was a good video!!!! I will be my own supporter with my new youtube channel it does not matter who likes it or subscribe. I will show up for me! Thanks sis❤
Girl I would drink more water if my work didn’t have a trashy toilet
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The makeup eats so bad please can we get the products used sis
Link to the tutorial is in the description!
You still have a job what do you do ?
I’m a lash tech
I am too do you have any tips on how to make this your 9-5 instead of working ?
I listen to this at 7:30am as I ate breakfast at work waiting to open the office. And you said everything I needed to hear this morning. Thank you for that. 🫠
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trin is literally the only person who’s words and advice actually penetrate and stick, it’s like i feel obligated to do better 🥹
i love your videos they are truly helpful and i love knowing that you’re from the DMV too 🫶🏼