Consider yourself lucky. 6 months of darkness 8 months of freezing cold weather. That area has weather just like Alaska and Siberia. And your son as a young boy or teenager could drown in that lake 🤔
I live in northern Sweden and honestly it's not that bad during the winter, like yeah it's cold and you have to shovel snow but some people in these comments make it seem like its impossible when it really isn't. Honestly the windy rain/snow mixed winters in the UK are more annoying cause you get wet and cold, in Sweden you basically only get cold if you're not wearing enough clothes. "There's no bad weather, only bad clothes" is a common saying in Sweden and it's true :P
That sounds so wonderful and different! I'm in Queensland, Australia, where summer is over half the year, and winter is an evergreen blip. Blink and you miss it, so I enjoy every second of the cooler weather (down to 16oc at midday and 0 at midnight). Sweden sounds like such a lovely experience.
@@Delfina-ZafiraCan’t really say anything about other ppls houses but my house is a log house from the 1800s and it’s insulated between the exterior log wall and the interior walls, however if you buy a summer vacation cabin they’re usually not insulated that well
@@sebbelp Yep if you want a reality check go and see Jonna Jinton's latest "first days of Spring" videos and the mosquitos of northern Sweden...holly cow I have never seen that many and I live in Canada :)
That slope down to the lake will be perfect for your son to ride a sleigh on in the winter, but what @suzzalaska is saying is that it is completely different when the perpetual darkness comes in the fall and then comes the bitter cold that will break your stuff. Do you need to plow the road to you home? Sure, Sweden is glorious in the summer, but there are nine more months to endure in a year.
I live in the northern part of Sweden and yes the winter is dark and cold but it's not as bad as some comment's say. You can do a lot of stuff during the winter like skiing, ride snowmobile, ice fishing and so on. I think winter time is kind of relaxing and you can always go on vacation to charge you batteries if you have to. The summer in Sweden is the best in the world. The smells, the sound of birds and animals, lazy days in the summer heat. I think you did a great choice.
@@kookietherapy9398 Why 18 months? Why such a specific time frame? They should continue to look. When they find the right property do the same thing, bid and hope for the best.
kookietherapy has a worthwhile perspective. That is, it's Spring now; people want to get out, look around, etc. In six months when it starts to get colder there again, you might still find nice places, maybe a bit less and maybe with less competition.
Northern Sweden is dark for 6 months per year. Added to that these houses are in the middle of the wilderness. Very nice summer in good weather, no doubt. Visit in the middle of a bleak November or February to see what it's REALLY like.
100% agree with your comments, but also very bright for the other 6 months (summer) even down south. When I was there, the birds chirping loud and basically full sunshine at 4am was very disruptive. Everything shut down by 6pm on a Saturday except Bahaus DIY which was seemingly always open. This was 20 years ago though so I am sure things have changed.
On the few occasions that I’ve been in those home-buying scenarios, I have a ritual right before placing the first offer: I stop to do a hard dive on “counting my blessings” and being deeply grateful for my life in that current moment. I sit with that for a while and then say to myself: “I am about to ride an emotional rollercoaster that’s out of my control. Thankfully, if I lose out on the property, it won’t impact my current amazing life. Worst case…. I’m back to ‘square one’, where blessings abound and I still have my savings.” Things have a way of working out.
In Sweden the asking price is not an asking price at all. It is a starting price. Everything nearly always goes for more, sometimes much more. If something needs a lot of work you could be the sole bidder because construction is insanely expensive so that puts people off. Good luck.
Guys, we went through exactly the same heartbreak when we were about to buy our house. On the day of exchange the seller called us asking for more money. That was 30 years ago and we found this house a week or so later. We have been very happy since. Don't worry. As we say in Brazil, nothing happens on the eve. Everything happens the day it's supposed to happen. Keep strong. You have everything you need right now.
What a roller coaster! We have lost houses we loved, but always ended up somewhere better. Your place is out there, and you will find it! Valuable practice in making offer, bidding, and knowing your limits.
@@AnniCarlsson Welcome to the Internet, where everyone has an opinion and think they know better. No one bid over. The house stayed on the market for another 3 months. Be kind and don't call people liars if you don't know the story. ✌✌
I'm a Realtor in the USA, what I tell my first time buyers is have patience, what is to be will be, the right house will turn up. Fall in love but not attached until contracts are signed. I wish you much luck and fun in the search.
You sound like my husband (and that's not a compliment I'm afraid). We've put offers on 3 properties in the past 1.5 years and lost all 3. Telling someone it wasn't meant to be isn't helpful. When you visually put your furniture into a house being sold, then not getting it is heartbreaking.
@@lindathelondonb9504 Real Estate is a numbers game, especially in a sellers Market. Sorry you have lost out, but bad on you for getting emotionally attached, before your in contract.
I'm Swedish and also daydream about owning a little house or cabin in the woods. But then i usually come to my senses and remember the darkness, bitter cold, mosquitos, isolation and general costs of maintaining a house. I think i'll stay in my apartment and rent a cabin for vacation instead.
I've heard that the mosquitos are really bad at lakeside properties in Sweden and that you have to live under a net. Another level from midges in Scotland in summer.
Hi guys! So exciting for you. As an American, living in Norway with a cabin in Sweden a couple of things to land you firmly on the ground. Do check with a bank in Sweden how to get an ID number to open bank account. You will need an account to pay your utilities and annual taxes. Also weather and damp is a struggle. Electric can be expensive. Mosquitos! That’s it. It is so nice in the summer months to be outside all day and just enjoying the space and friendly Swedes
For me, the house is just one part of the equation. The surrounding community, towns, cities / infrastructure as well as climate etc. would be just as important or even more important to me than the house itself. I would take a step back and ponder all these questions before a wild goose chase of a cheap house with a nice view...
I am astounded that they bid on a house without seeing the nearby town and infrastructure first, and without experiencing it at different times of year
Logistics with kids, depend on creating content, climate, history with mental challenges and mosquitoes would keep me away. Portugal is a better option.
I'm British and been living in Sweden (Skåne) for the last 16 years. Honestly Skåne has some of the most beautiful landscapes and nature in Sweden (and some of the best weather and most light winter time!!). You can still get cheap (600 000 SEK) livable properties in the northern parts of Skåne and Småland without having to freeze up north!
I am going to share a secret with you. I am 74 years old. There have been so many times in my life where things seemingly went wrong, I didn't get my heart's desire, things seemed unfair or even punishment from God. But now as I look back I can honestly say I wouldn't change any of them because each one was necessary to lead me to where I was supposed to be. Trust me when I tell you this worked out as it needed to happen to get you where you need to go. It may take 5 years or 15 years to understand but you will understand someday and be so relieved. I admire your positive attitudes..
This is a good place to live, I know, I live not that far from where you zoomed in on the map. People sound a bit negative in the comments. The winters are long, they are also beautiful and the stars are everywhere on clear nights. There is a great sense of freedom with all the space around you, the nature, wildlife, lakes and mountains. The houses are built for the cold, Swedish homes are usually warm inside, the coldest I ever been iinside a house were the winters I spent in Ireland. The community up here is great, good neighbours are important. Mosquitoes aren't really an issue as long as there is a bit of open land around the house so there can be a bit of a breeze. I love this place on Earth. ❤
Interesting! We were born in Sweden and like the nature in the summer. We traveller all around the World until we spent a Christmas in Tenerife. That was 24 years ago. I fell in love and we bought a new built villa the same year. I always wanted to pick bananas in the garden. We are now Spanish citizen’s. Good luck!😊
When we found our first house in UK, we too were very excited like you. We had picked a solicitor, everything was rolling along and we got to the survey. We got a message from the surveyor telling us that he had already surveyed the house for someone else. The owner was selling it to his friend behind our back. We were heartbroken. However, we continued looking and ended up with something better and cheaper. So chins up. It was not meant to be this time but there is a house out there waiting for you.
22 years ago when I was looking at houses, I found a house & was excited my bid was accepted. However, during the home inspection, they found mold in the foundation where it met wood. I am allergic to mold, so that was a no go. I kept looking & found my house! It was even better than the first one. I still live in that house. So, have patience, what’s meant to be will turn out. Good luck Beans!
Been through this journey. I'm a Brit and now live in a cabin in the woods in Sweden. Always expect to pay a lot more than the asking price. Look for places about 20-30% less than your budget. We paid just over a million for a small cabin with 2 acres of land and only 1 and a half hours from Stockholm
I have to jump in and say that I’m a firm believer that “everything happens for a reason”, and iI think that something much better is coming your way! Keep the faith. I know your ❤ was set on it but there’s a different path for you and yours. 🙏
It doesn't. Even as a 5 year old I understood that life is random and sometimes cruel. But if believing that ' everything in life has a reason' makes it bearable for you. Carry on.
@@howareyou857 if believing that makes you feel better then …. I’m 65 and I can tell you, from experience, everything does happen for a reason! I can’t tell you the amount of times, in my life, that I’ve had thing’s fall through or fall apart, just to have something better replace it. So if believing that makes you feel better then go for it because I know things happen for a reason!
@@howareyou857 I’m 65 and I have had a lot of ups and downs. If you choose to believe that, it’s your choice. I can tell you that when things fell apart and things didn’t work out…. Something better came my way! So believe whatever you want! If it makes YOU feel better!
Soooo because that’s what you believe makes you right and I’m wrong…. 65 yrs young and I’ve had many things go wrong and something better comes along… so if what you believe makes YOU feel better, carry on!
@@simplyme6558 there is plenty of nonsensical injustice in this world, murder victims who never see justice, children who die from war. People whose lives are cut short by devastating illness. Life IS often nonsensical and cruel. Accepting limitations but looking, where possible, to create change is the helpful approach. Just believing in ' fate' is avoidance but if it helps you manage, OK.
That area on the map you zoomed in to is about a 10 hour journey from Stockholm. I thought you said 4 hours max would be good. I have driven from Stockholm to Mora, much further south, with young kids - it was a long way and then there were huge mozzies to contend with. Flights not cheap either, just booking today for August to Stockholm. I think you need to visit the area in mid summer and mid winter before you decide.
The house you put an offer on, was sold for 925K ( 85K$/70K£) so 33% up from asking price. Very common for houses here to sell for double the asking price. 💙💙💛💛
If homes sell for often double the asking price. Why do the agents undervalue the property in the first place. Why not value according to market prices. ?
@@stephenellis3430 It's more beneficial for the seller to have a bidding process. These types of isolated properties, far out in the countryside, often start at a very low asking price. This is not the case in our big cities.
@@stephenellis3430 It is a very common tactic in Sweden to put a low initial price to attract people and start bidding wars, unfortunately (I live in Sweden)
I would recommend, looking at places in southern sweden too. There are places in the northern parts of västergötland, dalarna, värmaland, but also småland where you can buy houses insanely cheep. Also the boarder between småland and västergötland. You would probably get less land for the money down here though.
Ive looked at some of the real estate in those regions, at least they aren't as crazy far up north as the typical counties you find cheap houses in (Västernorrland, Norrbotten and Västerbotten).
Tips Tänk på att vi har mycket nederbörd Regn och snö . När snön smälter så kan dom som har hus nära en Å eller sjö få översvämning å det är inte så roligt att vakan upp på morgonen och ha en ½ Meter vatten runt huset . Huset med brygga ser bra ut Men ligger på tok för nära sjön . Sedan måste nu ha en traktor med snöslunga med en så lång privat väg .
I felt anxious when I saw that long driveway, considering the amount of snow removal necessary. That mushiness underfoot is probably normal for spring. Here in New England (esp in VT, NH, and Maine) it's called mud season, resulting from snow melt.
If that was an proper road the local government has to make sure the snow gets away. Local farmers get some money for their service as long as they live there permanently. At the actual property limit they stop.
Things to be mindful of (since you aren't used to colder countries). Be aware that country roads with big hills will be very fun driving in the snow. Also, make sure that your driveway isn't too long - snow shoveling is not fun after the first couple of times. If your driveway is long, you will probably need a snow blower, snow plow etc. Make sure your driveway isn't too steep, or you may have to park at the end of the road whenever it snows.
Completely understand the feeling, we went through the same thing last year but my advice is to not give up. We thought we lost our dream home only to find our current place 5 minutes away and couldn't imagine living anywhere else now 🇸🇪❤
Right property is awaiting you. As a Swede, I am honored you came looking for a home in my country. If I had a house to sell you in the lovely nature with a great property I would. Sicily has nicer weather though for sure 😁🌻. All the best to you 🤍🙏🏽
I can’t remember how many houses we looked at before we finally got one! 40 yrs and 3 kids later we still have it. Gone through many ages of neighbors and all have been great. Wanted more land but that couldn’t happen but small town living turned out wonderful.
I remember the admonishment from my sister when I went to bid on a house that I was enamored with - ‘what are you thinking’ ?! In my case the house was big and so much work, I think for you the reality of Swedish winter would be daunting. The pleasure of a low price is forgotten long before the pain of so much continuous work. Find someplace warmer and easier for family to visit. Good Luck!
Don’t be surprised if they pull out. Sometimes it’s a realtors trick to up the price by having another “buyer” on the hook. But importantly, if it doesn’t happen, it’s because something even better await! Stay hopeful.
Swede here. I hope you can endure the winter. It can be pretty tough if you never have experienced it before. At least in the north where i live. Best of luck. Your house looks beautiful.
Omg I was so gutted you didn't get it .your excitement was contagious I was watching it and hoping for you .I really hope you find a better one and make your memories there.
Omgoodness...I've been in this situation about 20 years ago...we bid on 8 homes and lost every last one...And yes it is blasted hard not to become emotionally attached. Good luck..❤
Have you checked out the cost of taxes, insurance any other annual costs?🧐. Keep looking. I searched for a year and finally found 5 acres with a small cabin and out building in rural Texas just 1 hour from the Gulf coast. I can take my sailboat on it's trailer to launch & go sailing then bring it back home to work on maintenance on the farm. 🤗💖 You will find your dream home at the right price. 👍💖
Well done for sticking to your limit 👍You can't afford to get emotionally involved in buying property. It can be a long waiting game, but eventually more properties will become available and you have all the time in the world to dream your future life once you've bought a place, not before.
Hopefully you will find your forever home soon. We has our forever home for 40 years raised 4 wonderful children there and never thought we would move, but we did and now now we have our new forever home xx
My parents drove by a house and always loved it. Once it was up for sale but it wasn't the right time for us to buy it as we had bought a restaurant nearby and had too much to do....years later they drove by and it was on sale again and we went to have a look and put in an asking price bid and got it. I have been living here for over 50 years with my parents. I think you will find what is yours, and went it's not yours it is not meant to be
I can't remember the last time I felt so nervous watching a UA-cam video. I can imagine it was a stressful process. As someone who has lived in Sweden before, I'm also dreaming about owning a cottage in Sweden. It's just so beautiful and peaceful there. Good luck on finding your dream house!
Check what costs will be when you come to sale it. Capital Gains, Local Tax, State Tax and especially Estate Agency %. Here in the UK we only pay 1% but in Spain where we have just sold it was 5%.
Love seeing the 2 of you in agreement about what you wanted, pursuing that and knowing when to throw in the towel… the home you’re dreaming of is there- keep looking, keep hopeful and stay positive 😊
Hey guy's if that bid doesn't fall through. I don't know about outside the US but here it really makes a difference to add a letter with your bid talking about your little family and how wonderful it would be to get said house. Good luck you guys❤
Good tip! I actually had the advantage that the realtor didn't have time and the owner showed me the house. And we had a really good click which I believe might have worked to my advantage. The highest bid doesn't always win as in Sweden it is always the seller that decides who will get the house.
We got outbid on 5 of the houses we’d put bids on in 2008. We “settled” for our LAST choice, the one we dubbed the bad vibes house. After we got into the house and neighborhood, we discovered we were in actually the best location and house, for us, of the 5 in the neighborhood. There will always be another “dream” house. It may just take more time and now you have more experience. Good Luck!
You know sometimes it's just meant to be. Somebody upstairs is telling you something. Your dream house is out there. And it will be the right one. It happened to us. Be Patient, Stay Positive and keep looking. Sending much love❤❤ from where we are now (Porto, Portugal) The Love Beans, Harriet, Jim and Yuki
a tip for ya, in Sweden if a property is up for say 550 000 sek and you really want it then put in an offer 600 000 but only if they take the property off the market. That way you avoid bidding wars. Always go 50-100 000 sek over the asking price in order to get it and often they accept and take it off the market. Also in Hemnet put the search on oldest property, because if something been up for sale for a long time you can go under price and get a better deal :)
Hello from Norway! I was looking at properties in Sweden for some years in Blocket-but now I cant search in that site as good as before,is it not the best site anymore? By the way,I am 25% swedish also ;) and proud of it! It would be nice to find some stuga etc. in Värmland or near Vestra Gøta land.
You guys and Noah should do a travel vlog around my country, New Zealand. I love watching your UA-cam. You are so inspiring and real. Would love to meet you one day. Can't wait for your next video xxx
We lost out on 5 houses during our home buying process in 2015. I know the market had only gotten more insane since then, but it was so stressful in the moment. The only thing that kept me going was to know that the right thing was meant to happen. Sure enough, our house wound up being perfect for us, in the perfect location, and with a perfect neighborhood and community. I’m glad you also have the same attitude to know what’s meant to be will be!
At least your house did not catch on fire while you were driving it home! Take good care of each other through the disappointments that life puts in our way! Wishing you the best!!
Hey Beans, it is like my mother always used to say if it’s yours it will be yours if not who knows what it is good for. I truly hated it when she said that until I decided in my late 30ies that I wont worry about things anymore that I can not change or influence. It think that change came with the second kiddo. So you know what to do 🤪
I’m so proud of you! You stepped out into the unknown. You allowed yourself to feel all the crazy feelings that go along with this process and stuck to your budget. I know you will end up with a wonderful home where you can create all those beautiful memories.
@@stum8374 It’s not that people/countries misunderstand van lifers, it’s the few van lifers that abuse it and ruin it for everyone, just like so many other things in this world. Rules/laws are typically developed because of the few who can’t act like decent humans, or feel entitled to things they haven’t earned.
Don't feel bad I have bought and remodeled a few places. When I got bid out of a place I have later found out some had sewer failure or a well failure that would have cost a bundle to get fixed right after buying the property. So always keep the price in mind that you need to do a real inspection run the shower for more than a minute, flush the toilets and get a good look at the roof even if you use binoculars to look at it. Something will come up but if you can identify it before hand it is helpful. Remember on a long drive way they are great but you will need to plow it out yourself or hire someone to do it.
hi, When we bought our property in MN Us,I think it was a kind of Binoculars from the county that inspected our house. He said it was ok,but just some days after we had moved in -the rain was coming thru the roof! So that man from the county was not very helpful. We got the price down a little bit though. Sold now,and a very long story many years later.
I forgot to mention, the property buying process in Sweden is extremely fast compared to abroad. You can view one day, and sit at the bank signing papers two, three days later. Done! It's really simplified compared to other countries.
Really exciting! Having gone through this process several times myself I was caught up in your emotional journey. One thing I would suggest though - Sweden is full of beautiful little houses by lakes. Keep looking - if that is your budget, then you will be able to find your actual dream home here. Best of luck and I look forward to following the adventure.
The bit I would really like to understand is regarding residency, you know that small bureaucratic detail that us Brits now have to contend with given we no longer having the right of free movement in the EU.
@@janeenright8450 I imagine there are ways around it based on income but it will be a lot harder that’s for sure. I read that Sweden has been particularly stringent with its expulsion of Brits.
Living in Minnesota in the US, there is a reason why so many of our ancestors came from Sweden. The landscape is very similar. Lake front pieces is not so similar. A place like the one you found would be many many times more here. Perhaps I should consider moving to Sweden! I think you did the right thing with bidding when you saw ourself in that home. Sorry it didn’t work out for you but I hope you learned to trust the process. It will work out if it’s right.
Minnesota was way to far from the ocean for me,but I think people there are very lay back and nice compared to Scandi people ;) another issue with living in midwest, was all that exstrem christianity people all over. So I could never move back ever. Scandinavians are not so engaged in religion. That is best for most people here.
Sweden has a very, very long winter, and even though you might be travelling, you still have to heat the house all winter to protect the plumbing... didn't see the 20,000 dollar house that you mentioned in your title.. property around water will have mosquitoes all summer...maybe it was a blessing in disguise...
There is always something around the corner which will be a wonderful home for you, also do you really want all those very dark, cold and long days, Try Sicily, much cheaper and brighter and Warm. 😅. Happy hunting guys, it's great getting the adrenalin going, and it gets ours going too. ❤
We are in our 60s and have been through this many times and it seems every time we end up with something we love more than we did the original heartache house. There’s a reason.🙏
I've lived in Norway for 22 years now and we are planning on buying a second property as a holiday home in either Norway or Sweden, if I was you I'd definitely go for it, I can't see me ever living in the uk again
I meant to post this comment after your last video but as you said, it really comes down to how a place makes you feel. When I've house-hunted in the past, I knew within seconds of arriving and entering if it was where I wanted to be. And even after thinking through it logically, if those feelings are still there, it's the place to bid on and potentially go on another rollercoaster ride. You definitely learned from this experience and YOUR dream home will present itself. Not only your dream home, but the home you are MEANT to have.❤
I have to tell you, I believe a lot of times those bids are not real that they have. They know what your limit is because the realtors do talk to each other and they will do the bidding wars just to get you to go up to your limit. My husband and I went through that and we did the same thing you did by stopping fairly close to our limit. A couple days later they called us saying the other people pulled out and it did make us believe that it was not a real bidding war. So we told them that we were no longer interested and then we watched the property sit for another little while. Then we went back and offered them their beginning asking price again and they took it. We got the house and we were very happy about it but at the same time we were angry at the feeling of being manipulated or at least they tried to manipulate us. Of course that may just be the way things work in America because that's where we live and the realtors often talk to each other and want to get the biggest commission they can so they will work with each other. So hold out for that dream home. And don't put yourself into a bind and maybe even have a little extra money to put into some renovations. Best of luck and blessings to you both. 29:27
In Sweden, the realtor is obligated to take note of all bids that are made and who made the bids. When the affair is closed the realtor will give the list of all bidders to both sellers and buyers. This is a way to prevent fake bidding.
I wasn't paying good enough attention when responded to this, at one point in the video. Alex says that if the bidding war raises the price but the other person backs out, The price rewinds back to the last thing The people bid before the other folks came in to the process. That's actually how they protect from it and it totally makes ton of sense
My heart breaks for you guys, but I’ve also seen you come across some amazing properties so far. So, I know ow the right one will come along and be yours. I can’t get over how much Noah has grown. It feels like only yesterday you told us you were expecting. He’s such a doll! Hugs to the Beans!
This was similar to a real life movie and I could feel the suspense..almost anticipating a cliffhanger at the end! So sorry guys. You two are remarkably tenacious and resilient. I like that first house more than the other one you checked out, and those properties in Portugal you looked at months before. Well as my late father often said, "Keep the faith".
Come to Finland! Even cheaper. We have a beautiful cottage for sale @45.000€ hardly any mosquitoes lake in most lake side cottages. The more north you go the smaller the mosquitoes become but have bigger teeth!
Left my previous comment too soon... I'm sorry it didn't work out but it's quite incredible to see how beautiful and affordable Sweden is. Hopefully you guys will find your dreamhome soon!
I suggest looking into the metes and bounds of the 1st property. Just at first glance you don't see countless people traipsing down to the water but you never know because they are technically ALLOWED since it's considered common area!!! 🤔
@@butchieblock9118 I think there would be a long list and none of it cheap... I could imagine easing into life in a town first, not going rural straight away. Not so sure about the bears, I'd be more worried about the ticks!
Y’all did a wonderful job biding on a house without going beyond your budget! Congratulations!! That’s not an easy thing to do even with your wishing it was yours! ❤️🤟😘💜🌹💝💜🥰💕👍🤟🤟
Ahh, that's a sad loss. And you two brilliantly shared the emotional reality of real estate! People think climbing the real estate ladder is easy, only they don't take into account the extreme emotional roller coaster that comes with it. The excitement, the fear, the dreams, the disappointments, the falling in love only to fall on the face. I would like to tell you it gets easy, only nope...I have had exceptional success with real estate AND have given myself shingles twice from the emotions! Would I do it again...absolutely! Hypnosis and Meditation helps!
That’s the question they have never answered. I presume that one of them must have an EU passport or otherwise it’s a non starter. As it is they are offering viewers who would like to do the same thing false hope. I expect it’s click bait.
I firmly believe that everything does happen for a reason.... and it just means that was NOT the place for the three of you and the one for you is out there waiting to be found, don't give up it will happen... I love y'all and thank you both so much for sharing your lives with us
I feel hour excitement and struggle. Thanks for video. Let me say, it's ok to be a family on the road. The little one is painting pictures of little cottage with a picket fence. It's all part of life.
Alex and Emma, sad to see you missed out on the lakeside home. But you're in the game and there will be other opportunities. Don't be disheartened over losing out... look at the life you have. You three are an amazing family and no matter what that is what is most important. Excited to see you three grow and your continued adventures!
Hi there , I know the feeling you have . Me and my husband looked for houses 2 years and got out bids every time . But I found our home now and it’s the best. God placed us here. Best veiw ever!!
@@lovisalindquist6678 And gangs and shootings and bombs and stabbings and rapes and murders and all the rest swedes call “dlverslty” . But sure, out in the countryside it’s ok for a little while longer, but still cold and boring.
My goodness, the suspense... I was so lucky when I found my house and there was only one other party bidding and my second bid won. Before that I had lost another house I had really fallen in love with, though, and now I am so happy I had to wait a bit longer and found a much better option. Looking forward to seeing if you will keep looking. Hemnet is on your phone even when you are not in Sweden, and if the perfect property shows up, you could still fly in and check it out...
I might have missed something explaining this so apologies if im repeating. But how can you buy in Sweden with the EU laws of the amount of time allowed in country. Is there something different if you buy a property
No, anyone from anywhere can buy property in Sweden. There is no Golden Visa scheme, and ownership doesn't mean you get residency, you still have to apply seperately.
@@SimonParkerUK They don't have to live there at all, but if they did and then you include the rules it would eat up time travelling elsewhere in Schengen.
Everything you both went through is so normal. And basically, what I think the whole about "not getting emotionally attached" is really only to not let the very normal exciting emotions cloud your better financial judgement. And you are right, when it is meant to be - it will be.
What ever happened to your Portugal dream? Surely it’s much better to have a base in Portugal with so many places to travel too than being stuck out in the middle of Sweden, It’s like the end of the world there. I Enjoyed this video though it was quite exciting! But it’s a sign!!!
Oh good on you...yes emotions is all part of the buying process otherwise you wouldn't stretch out your money...but you can't imagine what's out there still...one day you'll go ' who knew this was in our future when we were looking at that place in Sweden?' All the best & well done. Just keep waking up determined to enjoy what today has to offer - all the very best!
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Consider yourself lucky. 6 months of darkness 8 months of freezing cold weather. That area has weather just like Alaska and Siberia. And your son as a young boy or teenager could drown in that lake 🤔
You need to do some digging on better help guys
@AB_538 very true, many different licesing boards are starting to consider lawsuits against them
Why?
Never mind Beans, you know that your dream home is out there, just ask Kinging-It! 😉 👌 ❤️
I live in northern Sweden and honestly it's not that bad during the winter, like yeah it's cold and you have to shovel snow but some people in these comments make it seem like its impossible when it really isn't. Honestly the windy rain/snow mixed winters in the UK are more annoying cause you get wet and cold, in Sweden you basically only get cold if you're not wearing enough clothes. "There's no bad weather, only bad clothes" is a common saying in Sweden and it's true :P
That sounds so wonderful and different! I'm in Queensland, Australia, where summer is over half the year, and winter is an evergreen blip. Blink and you miss it, so I enjoy every second of the cooler weather (down to 16oc at midday and 0 at midnight). Sweden sounds like such a lovely experience.
i always thought that was a german phrase :D
Are these log houses insulated at all?
I heard they aren't
@@Delfina-ZafiraCan’t really say anything about other ppls houses but my house is a log house from the 1800s and it’s insulated between the exterior log wall and the interior walls, however if you buy a summer vacation cabin they’re usually not insulated that well
I also live in the nothern part of sweden (umeå) and in january it gets too cold i feel like, it got 31-40 celsius last year on most days.
I live in alaska....trust me.....maybe rent for a year first....feel ALL seasons.
And futher north in sweden in summer the less blood you will have left due to mosquitos XD
@@sebbelp Yep if you want a reality check go and see Jonna Jinton's latest "first days of Spring" videos and the mosquitos of northern Sweden...holly cow I have never seen that many and I live in Canada :)
I'm Swedish, and I've lived in Stockholm my whole life. I would _never_ buy a house where they are looking, and the reason is *_MYGG_*
That slope down to the lake will be perfect for your son to ride a sleigh on in the winter, but what @suzzalaska is saying is that it is completely different when the perpetual darkness comes in the fall and then comes the bitter cold that will break your stuff.
Do you need to plow the road to you home?
Sure, Sweden is glorious in the summer, but there are nine more months to endure in a year.
@@elisaa9981What area would you suggest?
I live in the northern part of Sweden and yes the winter is dark and cold but it's not as bad as some comment's say. You can do a lot of stuff during the winter like skiing, ride snowmobile, ice fishing and so on. I think winter time is kind of relaxing and you can always go on vacation to charge you batteries if you have to. The summer in Sweden is the best in the world. The smells, the sound of birds and animals, lazy days in the summer heat. I think you did a great choice.
It just means that your actual dream house is still out there somewhere. You just have to find it. Chin up Beans! All is not lost.
I wouldn't buy anything for at least 18mos. WAIT !!!
@@kookietherapy9398 Why 18 months? Why such a specific time frame? They should continue to look. When they find the right property do the same thing, bid and hope for the best.
kookietherapy has a worthwhile perspective. That is, it's Spring now; people want to get out, look around, etc. In six months when it starts to get colder there again, you might still find nice places, maybe a bit less and maybe with less competition.
@@CreatorInTrng 6 months makes sense. 18 months does not.
Zackly, this is just a precursor, and now they have experience.
Northern Sweden is dark for 6 months per year. Added to that these houses are in the middle of the wilderness. Very nice summer in good weather, no doubt. Visit in the middle of a bleak November or February to see what it's REALLY like.
Absolutely true. They're being very naive.
@@A-Nobody yep...
I agree with this. It looks like a very cold existence!
100% agree with your comments, but also very bright for the other 6 months (summer) even down south. When I was there, the birds chirping loud and basically full sunshine at 4am was very disruptive. Everything shut down by 6pm on a Saturday except Bahaus DIY which was seemingly always open. This was 20 years ago though so I am sure things have changed.
To be fair, they did visit in the cold weather with snow, not the warm summer
On the few occasions that I’ve been in those home-buying scenarios, I have a ritual right before placing the first offer: I stop to do a hard dive on “counting my blessings” and being deeply grateful for my life in that current moment. I sit with that for a while and then say to myself: “I am about to ride an emotional rollercoaster that’s out of my control. Thankfully, if I lose out on the property, it won’t impact my current amazing life. Worst case…. I’m back to ‘square one’, where blessings abound and I still have my savings.” Things have a way of working out.
In Sweden the asking price is not an asking price at all. It is a starting price. Everything nearly always goes for more, sometimes much more. If something needs a lot of work you could be the sole bidder because construction is insanely expensive so that puts people off. Good luck.
Nonsense.
Bidding wars are the worse. Thanks for the honest raw emotions.
Guys, we went through exactly the same heartbreak when we were about to buy our house. On the day of exchange the seller called us asking for more money. That was 30 years ago and we found this house a week or so later. We have been very happy since. Don't worry. As we say in Brazil, nothing happens on the eve. Everything happens the day it's supposed to happen. Keep strong. You have everything you need right now.
What a roller coaster! We have lost houses we loved, but always ended up somewhere better. Your place is out there, and you will find it! Valuable practice in making offer, bidding, and knowing your limits.
Someone bid over you. The seller didn't change their mind what they wanted paid. Can we keep the truth instead of lies plz
@@AnniCarlsson Welcome to the Internet, where everyone has an opinion and think they know better. No one bid over. The house stayed on the market for another 3 months. Be kind and don't call people liars if you don't know the story. ✌✌
I'm a Realtor in the USA, what I tell my first time buyers is have patience, what is to be will be, the right house will turn up. Fall in love but not attached until contracts are signed. I wish you much luck and fun in the search.
You sound like my husband (and that's not a compliment I'm afraid). We've put offers on 3 properties in the past 1.5 years and lost all 3. Telling someone it wasn't meant to be isn't helpful. When you visually put your furniture into a house being sold, then not getting it is heartbreaking.
@@lindathelondonb9504 Real Estate is a numbers game, especially in a sellers Market. Sorry you have lost out, but bad on you for getting emotionally attached, before your in contract.
@@lindathelondonb9504Another example of why people want to live in the woods in a tent! Tired of the greed and manipulations!
I'm Swedish and also daydream about owning a little house or cabin in the woods. But then i usually come to my senses and remember the darkness, bitter cold, mosquitos, isolation and general costs of maintaining a house. I think i'll stay in my apartment and rent a cabin for vacation instead.
I've heard that the mosquitos are really bad at lakeside properties in Sweden and that you have to live under a net. Another level from midges in Scotland in summer.
Sounds like Minnesota.
@@taterkaze9428 Pretty similar in terms of climate and nature
@@taterkaze9428 Yes, that the main reason Minnesota got the bulk of the Swedes that migrated to US in the 19th century.
Are these log houses insulated at all?
Hi guys! So exciting for you. As an American, living in Norway with a cabin in Sweden a couple of things to land you firmly on the ground. Do check with a bank in Sweden how to get an ID number to open bank account. You will need an account to pay your utilities and annual taxes. Also weather and damp is a struggle. Electric can be expensive. Mosquitos! That’s it. It is so nice in the summer months to be outside all day and just enjoying the space and friendly Swedes
What is hydro and what is weather in summer
Yep l live outside London and The Mosquitos are huge big black things l’ve never seen anything like them AWFUL 😞
@@doke889some people take out loans. Some spend with what they have saved.
Would one need snowblower & other winter requirements??
Did you think that it was a "ghost" bidder jacking up the price and taking advantage of you?
For me, the house is just one part of the equation. The surrounding community, towns, cities / infrastructure as well as climate etc. would be just as important or even more important to me than the house itself. I would take a step back and ponder all these questions before a wild goose chase of a cheap house with a nice view...
I am astounded that they bid on a house without seeing the nearby town and infrastructure first, and without experiencing it at different times of year
Logistics with kids, depend on creating content, climate, history with mental challenges and mosquitoes would keep me away. Portugal is a better option.
How much in usa money ?
And remeber cheap means house need expensiv work and some not allowed they do themself if want insurance to cover it
I'm British and been living in Sweden (Skåne) for the last 16 years. Honestly Skåne has some of the most beautiful landscapes and nature in Sweden (and some of the best weather and most light winter time!!). You can still get cheap (600 000 SEK) livable properties in the northern parts of Skåne and Småland without having to freeze up north!
I am going to share a secret with you. I am 74 years old. There have been so many times in my life where things seemingly went wrong, I didn't get my heart's desire, things seemed unfair or even punishment from God. But now as I look back I can honestly say I wouldn't change any of them because each one was necessary to lead me to where I was supposed to be. Trust me when I tell you this worked out as it needed to happen to get you where you need to go. It may take 5 years or 15 years to understand but you will understand someday and be so relieved. I admire your positive attitudes..
This is a good place to live, I know, I live not that far from where you zoomed in on the map. People sound a bit negative in the comments. The winters are long, they are also beautiful and the stars are everywhere on clear nights. There is a great sense of freedom with all the space around you, the nature, wildlife, lakes and mountains. The houses are built for the cold, Swedish homes are usually warm inside, the coldest I ever been iinside a house were the winters I spent in Ireland. The community up here is great, good neighbours are important. Mosquitoes aren't really an issue as long as there is a bit of open land around the house so there can be a bit of a breeze. I love this place on Earth. ❤
Interesting! We were born in Sweden and like the nature in the summer. We traveller all around the World until we spent a Christmas in Tenerife. That was 24 years ago. I fell in love and we bought a new built villa the same year. I always wanted to pick bananas in the garden.
We are now Spanish citizen’s. Good luck!😊
When we found our first house in UK, we too were very excited like you. We had picked a solicitor, everything was rolling along and we got to the survey. We got a message from the surveyor telling us that he had already surveyed the house for someone else. The owner was selling it to his friend behind our back. We were heartbroken. However, we continued looking and ended up with something better and cheaper. So chins up. It was not meant to be this time but there is a house out there waiting for you.
22 years ago when I was looking at houses, I found a house & was excited my bid was accepted. However, during the home inspection, they found mold in the foundation where it met wood. I am allergic to mold, so that was a no go. I kept looking & found my house! It was even better than the first one. I still live in that house. So, have patience, what’s meant to be will turn out. Good luck Beans!
Been through this journey. I'm a Brit and now live in a cabin in the woods in Sweden.
Always expect to pay a lot more than the asking price. Look for places about 20-30% less than your budget.
We paid just over a million for a small cabin with 2 acres of land and only 1 and a half hours from Stockholm
Mind me asking, did you retire there ? I’m considering moving out there but would need to find work
A cabin, a croft or a cottage?
Nope I'm only 33 😂 but will retire here some day i guess@d1ppaz
@annicaesplund6613 a very small cabin of around d 40 sqm
@@adamhillbillyking that sound like a croft or a cottage, not a cabin.
I have to jump in and say that I’m a firm believer that “everything happens for a reason”, and iI think that something much better is coming your way! Keep the faith. I know your ❤ was set on it but there’s a different path for you and yours. 🙏
It doesn't. Even as a 5 year old I understood that life is random and sometimes cruel. But if believing that ' everything in life has a reason' makes it bearable for you. Carry on.
@@howareyou857 if believing that makes you feel better then …. I’m 65 and I can tell you, from experience, everything does happen for a reason! I can’t tell you the amount of times, in my life, that I’ve had thing’s fall through or fall apart, just to have something better replace it. So if believing that makes you feel better then go for it because I know things happen for a reason!
@@howareyou857 I’m 65 and I have had a lot of ups and downs. If you choose to believe that, it’s your choice. I can tell you that when things fell apart and things didn’t work out…. Something better came my way! So believe whatever you want! If it makes YOU feel better!
Soooo because that’s what you believe makes you right and I’m wrong…. 65 yrs young and I’ve had many things go wrong and something better comes along… so if what you believe makes YOU feel better, carry on!
@@simplyme6558 there is plenty of nonsensical injustice in this world, murder victims who never see justice, children who die from war. People whose lives are cut short by devastating illness. Life IS often nonsensical and cruel. Accepting limitations but looking, where possible, to create change is the helpful approach. Just believing in ' fate' is avoidance but if it helps you manage, OK.
Welcome to Sweden 🇸🇪
Dont worry you will find another fine house and fantastic nature with the right feelings 😊 Many good places in Sweden 🌞🌳⛰️💧
That area on the map you zoomed in to is about a 10 hour journey from Stockholm. I thought you said 4 hours max would be good. I have driven from Stockholm to Mora, much further south, with young kids - it was a long way and then there were huge mozzies to contend with. Flights not cheap either, just booking today for August to Stockholm. I think you need to visit the area in mid summer and mid winter before you decide.
Could be a sign you were looking at Portugal 🇵🇹 and it would be warmer all the best what ever you do 😊
The house you put an offer on, was sold for 925K ( 85K$/70K£) so 33% up from asking price. Very common for houses here to sell for double the asking price. 💙💙💛💛
If homes sell for often double the asking price. Why do the agents undervalue the property in the first place. Why not value according to market prices. ?
@@stephenellis3430 It's more beneficial for the seller to have a bidding process. These types of isolated properties, far out in the countryside, often start at a very low asking price. This is not the case in our big cities.
@@stephenellis3430 It is a very common tactic in Sweden to put a low initial price to attract people and start bidding wars, unfortunately (I live in Sweden)
@@stephenellis3430 its a scam!
I would recommend, looking at places in southern sweden too. There are places in the northern parts of västergötland, dalarna, värmaland, but also småland where you can buy houses insanely cheep. Also the boarder between småland and västergötland. You would probably get less land for the money down here though.
Ive looked at some of the real estate in those regions, at least they aren't as crazy far up north as the typical counties you find cheap houses in (Västernorrland, Norrbotten and Västerbotten).
Tips Tänk på att vi har mycket nederbörd Regn och snö . När snön smälter så kan dom som har hus nära en Å eller sjö få översvämning å det är inte så roligt att vakan upp på morgonen och ha en ½ Meter vatten runt huset . Huset med brygga ser bra ut Men ligger på tok för nära sjön . Sedan måste nu ha en traktor med snöslunga med en så lång privat väg .
I felt anxious when I saw that long driveway, considering the amount of snow removal necessary. That mushiness underfoot is probably normal for spring. Here in New England (esp in VT, NH, and Maine) it's called mud season, resulting from snow melt.
If that was an proper road the local government has to make sure the snow gets away. Local farmers get some money for their service as long as they live there permanently.
At the actual property limit they stop.
Things to be mindful of (since you aren't used to colder countries). Be aware that country roads with big hills will be very fun driving in the snow. Also, make sure that your driveway isn't too long - snow shoveling is not fun after the first couple of times. If your driveway is long, you will probably need a snow blower, snow plow etc. Make sure your driveway isn't too steep, or you may have to park at the end of the road whenever it snows.
Completely understand the feeling, we went through the same thing last year but my advice is to not give up. We thought we lost our dream home only to find our current place 5 minutes away and couldn't imagine living anywhere else now 🇸🇪❤
Right property is awaiting you. As a Swede, I am honored you came looking for a home in my country. If I had a house to sell you in the lovely nature with a great property I would.
Sicily has nicer weather though for sure 😁🌻. All the best to you 🤍🙏🏽
I can’t remember how many houses we looked at before we finally got one! 40 yrs and 3 kids later we still have it. Gone through many ages of neighbors and all have been great. Wanted more land but that couldn’t happen but small town living turned out wonderful.
I remember the admonishment from my sister when I went to bid on a house that I was enamored with - ‘what are you thinking’ ?! In my case the house was big and so much work, I think for you the reality of Swedish winter would be daunting. The pleasure of a low price is forgotten long before the pain of so much continuous work. Find someplace warmer and easier for family to visit. Good Luck!
Don’t be surprised if they pull out. Sometimes it’s a realtors trick to up the price by having another “buyer” on the hook. But importantly, if it doesn’t happen, it’s because something even better await! Stay hopeful.
That is completely illegal in Sweden though, to add fake bidders. Also they have to disclose who the bidders are when making the deal.
Swede here. I hope you can endure the winter. It can be pretty tough if you never have experienced it before. At least in the north where i live. Best of luck. Your house looks beautiful.
If you’re willing to go up that much, meanwhile you could be looking at other properties in that range and you might find something that offers more.
Omg I was so gutted you didn't get it .your excitement was contagious I was watching it and hoping for you .I really hope you find a better one and make your memories there.
Omgoodness...I've been in this situation about 20 years ago...we bid on 8 homes and lost every last one...And yes it is blasted hard not to become emotionally attached.
Good luck..❤
Have you checked out the cost of taxes, insurance any other annual costs?🧐. Keep looking. I searched for a year and finally found 5 acres with a small cabin and out building in rural Texas just 1 hour from the Gulf coast. I can take my sailboat on it's trailer to launch & go sailing then bring it back home to work on maintenance on the farm. 🤗💖 You will find your dream home at the right price. 👍💖
Well done for sticking to your limit 👍You can't afford to get emotionally involved in buying property. It can be a long waiting game, but eventually more properties will become available and you have all the time in the world to dream your future life once you've bought a place, not before.
I think they have a lot to learn, especially since they thought they would win the first house they ever bid on!
Your positive attitude and open hearts 💕 will manifest what's best for you when the time is just 👍▶️
Hopefully you will find your forever home soon. We has our forever home for 40 years raised 4 wonderful children there and never thought we would move, but we did and now now we have our new forever home xx
My parents drove by a house and always loved it. Once it was up for sale but it wasn't the right time for us to buy it as we had bought a restaurant nearby and had too much to do....years later they drove by and it was on sale again and we went to have a look and put in an asking price bid and got it. I have been living here for over 50 years with my parents. I think you will find what is yours, and went it's not yours it is not meant to be
I can't remember the last time I felt so nervous watching a UA-cam video. I can imagine it was a stressful process. As someone who has lived in Sweden before, I'm also dreaming about owning a cottage in Sweden. It's just so beautiful and peaceful there. Good luck on finding your dream house!
There are tons and tons of places that are even abandoned in the woods farther in. You need to check it out more. It’s not over yet.
Check what costs will be when you come to sale it. Capital Gains, Local Tax, State Tax and especially Estate Agency %. Here in the UK we only pay 1% but in Spain where we have just sold it was 5%.
Look at houses in Dalarna.
Sweden concentrated, nature, culture and things to do.
If you don't look at ski areas, the prices are quite ok.
Love seeing the 2 of you in agreement about what you wanted, pursuing that and knowing when to throw in the towel… the home you’re dreaming of is there- keep looking, keep hopeful and stay positive 😊
Hey guy's if that bid doesn't fall through. I don't know about outside the US but here it really makes a difference to add a letter with your bid talking about your little family and how wonderful it would be to get said house. Good luck you guys❤
Good tip! I actually had the advantage that the realtor didn't have time and the owner showed me the house. And we had a really good click which I believe might have worked to my advantage.
The highest bid doesn't always win as in Sweden it is always the seller that decides who will get the house.
We got outbid on 5 of the houses we’d put bids on in 2008. We “settled” for our LAST choice, the one we dubbed the bad vibes house. After we got into the house and neighborhood, we discovered we were in actually the best location and house, for us, of the 5 in the neighborhood. There will always be another “dream” house. It may just take more time and now you have more experience. Good Luck!
You know sometimes it's just meant to be. Somebody upstairs is telling you something. Your dream house is out there. And it will be the right one. It happened to us. Be Patient, Stay Positive and keep looking. Sending much love❤❤ from where we are now (Porto, Portugal) The Love Beans, Harriet, Jim and Yuki
a tip for ya, in Sweden if a property is up for say 550 000 sek and you really want it then put in an offer 600 000 but only if they take the property off the market. That way you avoid bidding wars. Always go 50-100 000 sek over the asking price in order to get it and often they accept and take it off the market. Also in Hemnet put the search on oldest property, because if something been up for sale for a long time you can go under price and get a better deal :)
Hello from Norway! I was looking at properties in Sweden for some years in Blocket-but now I cant search in that site as good as before,is it not the best site anymore? By the way,I am 25% swedish also ;) and proud of it! It would be nice to find some stuga etc. in Värmland or near Vestra Gøta land.
You guys and Noah should do a travel vlog around my country, New Zealand. I love watching your UA-cam. You are so inspiring and real. Would love to meet you one day. Can't wait for your next video xxx
We lost out on 5 houses during our home buying process in 2015. I know the market had only gotten more insane since then, but it was so stressful in the moment. The only thing that kept me going was to know that the right thing was meant to happen. Sure enough, our house wound up being perfect for us, in the perfect location, and with a perfect neighborhood and community. I’m glad you also have the same attitude to know what’s meant to be will be!
At least your house did not catch on fire while you were driving it home! Take good care of each other through the disappointments that life puts in our way! Wishing you the best!!
Hey Beans, it is like my mother always used to say if it’s yours it will be yours if not who knows what it is good for. I truly hated it when she said that until I decided in my late 30ies that I wont worry about things anymore that I can not change or influence. It think that change came with the second kiddo. So you know what to do 🤪
I’m so proud of you! You stepped out into the unknown. You allowed yourself to feel all the crazy feelings that go along with this process and stuck to your budget. I know you will end up with a wonderful home where you can create all those beautiful memories.
We have a saying in Scotland What's for you will no go bye you. So the right thing is still out there. Good luck.
I started watching van-life videos during the pandemic, and 95 percent of them have purchased or built a home since then.
Most bought land because of brexit and people's attitudes and countries not willing and understanding motorhomers.
Because the pandemic caused issues for frequent travelers and many are now wanting a "home base" to return to!
@@stum8374
It’s not that people/countries misunderstand van lifers, it’s the few van lifers that abuse it and ruin it for everyone, just like so many other things in this world. Rules/laws are typically developed because of the few who can’t act like decent humans, or feel entitled to things they haven’t earned.
In the 80's there were loads of people in vans, I expect lots ended up on land or in houses. Constant nomadic is hard.
Van life is pretty much dead now the biggest Hoax in History is over.
First winter there, you will be yearning for life back in the mild gulf stream.
Don't feel bad I have bought and remodeled a few places. When I got bid out of a place I have later found out some had sewer failure or a well failure that would have cost a bundle to get fixed right after buying the property. So always keep the price in mind that you need to do a real inspection run the shower for more than a minute, flush the toilets and get a good look at the roof even if you use binoculars to look at it. Something will come up but if you can identify it before hand it is helpful. Remember on a long drive way they are great but you will need to plow it out yourself or hire someone to do it.
hi, When we bought our property in MN Us,I think it was a kind of Binoculars from the county that inspected our house. He said it was ok,but just some days after we had moved in -the rain was coming thru the roof! So that man from the county was not very helpful. We got the price down a little bit though. Sold now,and a very long story many years later.
@@Gullvivas Getting on the roof is the best way to look at it and look at it from the attic for any water leaks.
I forgot to mention, the property buying process in Sweden is extremely fast compared to abroad. You can view one day, and sit at the bank signing papers two, three days later. Done! It's really simplified compared to other countries.
Wow! Even the most simple sale can take up to 3 months in the uk
Jepp. Bidding war can make it longer as long as people up the bids but as soon that done paper signs and done
Really exciting! Having gone through this process several times myself I was caught up in your emotional journey.
One thing I would suggest though - Sweden is full of beautiful little houses by lakes. Keep looking - if that is your budget, then you will be able to find your actual dream home here.
Best of luck and I look forward to following the adventure.
The bit I would really like to understand is regarding residency, you know that small bureaucratic detail that us Brits now have to contend with given we no longer having the right of free movement in the EU.
Exactly what I was wondering! I thought brits could now only be in the EU for up to 90 days in a given 180-day period.
@@janeenright8450 6 months a year but no more than 3 months at one time
@@SimonParkerUK so I suppose it wouldn't be a full-time home for them
@@janeenright8450 I imagine there are ways around it based on income but it will be a lot harder that’s for sure. I read that Sweden has been particularly stringent with its expulsion of Brits.
I was wondering the same thing about the legalities of residency.
It's nice that one only seems to need two kinds of paint in Sweden. Seems a lot simpler. 🙃🙂
It doesn’t matter where you make memories, just that you do make memories- great vid guys
Living in Minnesota in the US, there is a reason why so many of our ancestors came from Sweden. The landscape is very similar. Lake front pieces is not so similar. A place like the one you found would be many many times more here. Perhaps I should consider moving to Sweden! I think you did the right thing with bidding when you saw ourself in that home. Sorry it didn’t work out for you but I hope you learned to trust the process. It will work out if it’s right.
Minnesota was way to far from the ocean for me,but I think people there are very lay back and nice compared to Scandi people ;) another issue with living in midwest, was all that exstrem christianity people all over.
So I could never move back ever. Scandinavians are not so engaged in religion. That is best for most people here.
Salerys is way lower in sweden so thats why prices reflect that. Should not be hard to understand.
Sweden has a very, very long winter, and even though you might be travelling, you still have to heat the house all winter to protect the plumbing... didn't see the 20,000 dollar house that you mentioned in your title.. property around water will have mosquitoes all summer...maybe it was a blessing in disguise...
Småland and Blekinge in the south, have many nice places too. Good luck!❤
There is always something around the corner which will be a wonderful home for you, also do you really want all those very dark, cold and long days, Try Sicily, much cheaper and brighter and Warm. 😅. Happy hunting guys, it's great getting the adrenalin going, and it gets ours going too. ❤
We are in our 60s and have been through this many times and it seems every time we end up with something we love more than we did the original heartache house. There’s a reason.🙏
Sorry it didn’t work out, this time! You will find the right place, don’t give up ❤
I've lived in Norway for 22 years now and we are planning on buying a second property as a holiday home in either Norway or Sweden, if I was you I'd definitely go for it, I can't see me ever living in the uk again
I meant to post this comment after your last video but as you said, it really comes down to how a place makes you feel. When I've house-hunted in the past, I knew within seconds of arriving and entering if it was where I wanted to be. And even after thinking through it logically, if those feelings are still there, it's the place to bid on and potentially go on another rollercoaster ride. You definitely learned from this experience and YOUR dream home will present itself. Not only your dream home, but the home you are MEANT to have.❤
Buying a home can be really tough. So proud of you to sticking with your budget. You will find a home, it may take a few tries.
I have to tell you, I believe a lot of times those bids are not real that they have. They know what your limit is because the realtors do talk to each other and they will do the bidding wars just to get you to go up to your limit. My husband and I went through that and we did the same thing you did by stopping fairly close to our limit. A couple days later they called us saying the other people pulled out and it did make us believe that it was not a real bidding war. So we told them that we were no longer interested and then we watched the property sit for another little while. Then we went back and offered them their beginning asking price again and they took it. We got the house and we were very happy about it but at the same time we were angry at the feeling of being manipulated or at least they tried to manipulate us. Of course that may just be the way things work in America because that's where we live and the realtors often talk to each other and want to get the biggest commission they can so they will work with each other. So hold out for that dream home. And don't put yourself into a bind and maybe even have a little extra money to put into some renovations. Best of luck and blessings to you both. 29:27
In Sweden, the realtor is obligated to take note of all bids that are made and who made the bids. When the affair is closed the realtor will give the list of all bidders to both sellers and buyers. This is a way to prevent fake bidding.
@@cristin5762 But a foreign couple won't know who knows one another. They're def at a disadvantage. I hate this system lol
I wasn't paying good enough attention when responded to this, at one point in the video. Alex says that if the bidding war raises the price but the other person backs out, The price rewinds back to the last thing The people bid before the other folks came in to the process. That's actually how they protect from it and it totally makes ton of sense
The winters are dark and extreme in the middle of nowhere. But good luck greets from Holland.
My heart breaks for you guys, but I’ve also seen you come across some amazing properties so far. So, I know ow the right one will come along and be yours. I can’t get over how much Noah has grown. It feels like only yesterday you told us you were expecting. He’s such a doll! Hugs to the Beans!
This was similar to a real life movie and I could feel the suspense..almost anticipating a cliffhanger at the end! So sorry guys. You two are remarkably tenacious and resilient. I like that first house more than the other one you checked out, and those properties in Portugal you looked at months before. Well as my late father often said, "Keep the faith".
Come to Finland! Even cheaper. We have a beautiful cottage for sale @45.000€ hardly any mosquitoes lake in most lake side cottages. The more north you go the smaller the mosquitoes become but have bigger teeth!
Do you have a link for your cottage ? I might be interested
Yes, its cheaper and better standard in Finland then Sweden, you dont have to go up so high, like in Sweden for make it worth..
Left my previous comment too soon... I'm sorry it didn't work out but it's quite incredible to see how beautiful and affordable Sweden is. Hopefully you guys will find your dreamhome soon!
I suggest looking into the metes and bounds of the 1st property. Just at first glance you don't see countless people traipsing down to the water but you never know because they are technically ALLOWED since it's considered common area!!! 🤔
You live and learn...wait for the winter months and short summer...
@@LoremIpsum1970 absolutely! Still melting snow in May? Imagine the cost of maintaining that long drive onto the 2nd property!
@@butchieblock9118 I think there would be a long list and none of it cheap... I could imagine easing into life in a town first, not going rural straight away. Not so sure about the bears, I'd be more worried about the ticks!
Y’all did a wonderful job biding on a house without going beyond your budget! Congratulations!! That’s not an easy thing to do even with your wishing it was yours! ❤️🤟😘💜🌹💝💜🥰💕👍🤟🤟
Bad luck this time but you’ll find others for sure! Good luck in your search 😊
Ahh, that's a sad loss. And you two brilliantly shared the emotional reality of real estate! People think climbing the real estate ladder is easy, only they don't take into account the extreme emotional roller coaster that comes with it. The excitement, the fear, the dreams, the disappointments, the falling in love only to fall on the face. I would like to tell you it gets easy, only nope...I have had exceptional success with real estate AND have given myself shingles twice from the emotions! Would I do it again...absolutely! Hypnosis and Meditation helps!
How easy is it to be a permanent resident in Sweden for a UK citizen?
That’s the question they have never answered. I presume that one of them must have an EU passport or otherwise it’s a non starter. As it is they are offering viewers who would like to do the same thing false hope. I expect it’s click bait.
I firmly believe that everything does happen for a reason.... and it just means that was NOT the place for the three of you and the one for you is out there waiting to be found, don't give up it will happen... I love y'all and thank you both so much for sharing your lives with us
So sorry for your loss.
I feel hour excitement and struggle. Thanks for video. Let me say, it's ok to be a family on the road. The little one is painting pictures of little cottage with a picket fence. It's all part of life.
Alex and Emma, sad to see you missed out on the lakeside home. But you're in the game and there will be other opportunities. Don't be disheartened over losing out... look at the life you have. You three are an amazing family and no matter what that is what is most important. Excited to see you three grow and your continued adventures!
Sweden is a beautiful country. You two are making an good investment. Lots too explore
What’s yours will never pass you by. 💐💕. Love you guys. Was there right with you and the feels. Something better is out there for you. 👍🏻💖
Hi there , I know the feeling you have . Me and my husband looked for houses 2 years and got out bids every time . But I found our home now and it’s the best. God placed us here. Best veiw ever!!
I really don’t understand why you would be in freezing cold and dark sweden, when you could be chilling in the sun in portugal?
Sweden is great when having kids, free good schools and pre school, healthcare, nature etc
@@lovisalindquist6678 And gangs and shootings and bombs and stabbings and rapes and murders and all the rest swedes call “dlverslty” . But sure, out in the countryside it’s ok for a little while longer, but still cold and boring.
@@Alfahippie casual racism
@@modoodlesCasual r-e-a-l-i-s-m. Go live in malmö if you want the first hand experience.
@@modoodlescasual r-e-a-l-i-s-m. Where did i mention race btw? YOU are the one who thought of that😄
My goodness, the suspense... I was so lucky when I found my house and there was only one other party bidding and my second bid won.
Before that I had lost another house I had really fallen in love with, though, and now I am so happy I had to wait a bit longer and found a much better option.
Looking forward to seeing if you will keep looking. Hemnet is on your phone even when you are not in Sweden, and if the perfect property shows up, you could still fly in and check it out...
I might have missed something explaining this so apologies if im repeating. But how can you buy in Sweden with the EU laws of the amount of time allowed in country. Is there something different if you buy a property
No, anyone from anywhere can buy property in Sweden. There is no Golden Visa scheme, and ownership doesn't mean you get residency, you still have to apply seperately.
no they will have to follow same rules. basically 6 months max per year with no more than 3 months at one time
@@SimonParkerUK They don't have to live there at all, but if they did and then you include the rules it would eat up time travelling elsewhere in Schengen.
You need to show residence contract at the police and sufficient means to live. Nothing else
Buying a house is one thing. Living there is something else. Working there is another level whatsoever.
Everything you both went through is so normal. And basically, what I think the whole about "not getting emotionally attached" is really only to not let the very normal exciting emotions cloud your better financial judgement. And you are right, when it is meant to be - it will be.
What ever happened to your Portugal dream? Surely it’s much better to have a base in Portugal with so many places to travel too than being stuck out in the middle of Sweden, It’s like the end of the world there. I Enjoyed this video though it was quite exciting! But it’s a sign!!!
End of the world ? For you maybe 😂😂😂 grow up
Oh good on you...yes emotions is all part of the buying process otherwise you wouldn't stretch out your money...but you can't imagine what's out there still...one day you'll go ' who knew this was in our future when we were looking at that place in Sweden?' All the best & well done. Just keep waking up determined to enjoy what today has to offer - all the very best!