Definitely bro being a INTJ is like a blessing but because of this addictive behavior and struggle to live in the moment a curse its like time just fly bye because im always in my head
You can do it bro! I stopped smoking weed, I play guitar,piano, sing and am a music producer. I meditate and go for runs almost every day and I’m focusing really hard on school. Never give up! I would recommend the master key system (book) this is the predecessor to think and grow rich
@@mbtisocialclub Thanks for the words of encouragement I will indeed check out the book and great job at taking control of your life I know how hard it is keep going
I'm commenting as I watch btw... I drank (heavily) and did a lot of impulsive and at times self-destructive stuff in Uni. And the looming undone work made me so anxious and then I'd be apathetic about the academics especially as the years rolled by. The irony (for other people because they don't know me) is that I love learning, I wasn't struggling with the concepts at all. I just couldn't find the will to do the assignments, study for exams. A friend and I were talking about honours and masters and they were surprised to hear me say I wouldn't return to school if I was paid to. I'm very lucky because if I wasn't naturally very intelligent, I would have failed or not completed my degree. This was between 17 and 21. I hadn't encountered the mbti or anything like that. I didn't have a frame of reference for my feelings or behaviour. As a teen I remember watching a documentary about a professor who drank through her whole degree (about 7 years). At the time I was surprised she could do all that inebriated. I get her now. Anyway, I can't say I regret it because I don't know what the alternative would be and you know how rewriting history goes: change one thing, change everything.
The contents of the video aside, the pacing around is the most relatable part by far. That's how I stimulate my thoughts and imagination. It's as if my brain processing things better if I'm mindlessly moving my body.
I am not experienced but I really have to remind myself that I have a highly addictive personality. Every day is me saying, hold, stop, wait. I used to go window shopping, it's going to a store picking up a bunch of stuff and then walking through the store putting it all back. It gives me the rush of shopping without the fall of being broke and being mad at myself. Online shopping is harder, can't put it back or walk away as easily. Learn control, it's all you got in the end.
this is actually a huge problem of mine, the addictions. i smoke cigarettes, e-cig, vape and weed non stop, i’ve been binging tv-shows i’ve watched multiple times before for hours straight and feeling empty and stupid because i am so unaware of the present moment and i could only process it much later, under the right circumstances. I feel like the fact that i’m an INTJ makes procrastination and addiction so much more mentally intense. i just want to shut off the world and drown in this pit of disgusting habits and live as a hermit sometimes. but then i remember my dream of becoming a cult leader and/or a brilliant journalist and my mind kinda gets back on track. funny thing: i am actually creating a video game in my head about cults and a character who became a cult leader - and that’s basically how I am planning my future ambitions to become one.
You need to medidate. The enhanced awareness will allow you to control your impulsivity and re-balance you. It won't take 1 session; it's something you have to build over time with dedication and consistency. You'll get better at it and be more stable overall and have more control over your impulses and trains of thought.
Thanks brother I appreciate it. I've been meditating and it helps but I'm not doing it regularly. Will it help me to get rid of weed dependency? I smoke due to boredom and habit
@@mbtisocialclub We are impulsive, you know it, so yes, drugs are not good, they will tear your nerves and shackle your mind with anxiety. I smoked (tabacco) well into my 30s, and I'm sure my life would have been even better (can't complain) if I'd quit sooner. You will have a better/quicker shot of becoming the "the strategist" we were born to be if you go down that path
Have Se fun while you can for a time does come (if you work towards your own "cognitive growth") when it will become a lost world...one that you want to indulge every once-a-while but never sustainable for a long time...good thing is you already mindful abt your Se. It all comes down to self control and what is at stake in your life. If time is still of interest to you then internalize it with in your own personal understanding and derive meaning that makes sense to you. My advise is to learn what interests you for that is your own reflection, your mirror that tells you more about yourself. Continue to get things done and your a champion. Cheers to all you will ever want to become.
Coffee have no effect on me (I only get the after effect of being more tired). Weed neither, I always been very calm. Sugar can made me nervous, I feel a little weird on the inside on my nerves. I escaped reality with video games for years, I played a lot, but I stopped it during depression in 2020. For a period I got an obsession with movies related to the time travel too. I understand when you said a part of myself enjoy the present, another part feel guilty. Sort of like ourselves (Ni Te) will always want to take over the others functions (the others parts of ourselves) I don't know. See how you have accomplished what you wanted to do : read books, not smoke anymore... you improved a lot ^^ A lot of ENFP INFP INTP I knew in the past, smoked, but not so much INTJ I have the impression. More than 12k views, it's really cool.
INFJ strong and capable with almost perfect 46 year driving record yet I have inferior sensing, which really helps me block external distraction as I delve deep into the abyss of my mind. Inferior sensing slightly improved when not using marijuana. Other wise I can see my minds eye visible in front of me, superimposed with what is seen in front of me Love the creative potential of this duality enhanced by THC At the cost of an even more inferior sensing It's a trade off
@@mbtisocialclub aside from intellectual pursuits, I often tell people that the best thing for me has come from hard physical exercise as there is a very big difference between a strong INFJ as opposed to an unhealthy INFJ We are somewhere in the middle of physical prowess naturally when compared to all the other types Age 15 struggled to lift 100 lbs two hands Began working out and only 1 year later was lifting 200 lbs although I grew 6" and gained 65 lbs in one year. Age 22 demonstrated a one hand barbell clean of 180 lbs from floor to ceiling. We favor our mind and emotions which work better with a strong healthy body Do not neglect the importance of sleep and diet This was all beneficial for my inferior sensing I did suffer from attention deficit disorder
How it's look like ? Tired don't have as much anergy as most of people cause brain never rest, overwelmed by too much light, noise, people, if too much things happen around, constantly aware, on guard, we see all, see all details that sometimes we know we missed something, mind constantly in past and futur, thinking more in the future, don't want do things if don't find a meaning or utility or important. Constantly ask Why since the beginning. Skeptical, never sure, doubt, constantly question everything, want to know, learn, not to annoy people but because we really want to know. What if ...? Plan, to not be surprise by random chaos things happen, imagine the worst scenario. We value time, energy and calm. Work is more fun than fun. There is always something or someone to improve, never get bored, always something to do or to think or to plan. We see what's wrong in things and people, when people lie or have suspicious behavior, we know without knowing how to explain it, by connecting the dots. We don't often appreciate the fun things, for us it's a waste of time/energy/money, to go to bar, party, club, social things... We think/imagine the futures consequences before to do something, to know if it worth it or not. If it worth to spend our time, energy, money or not. We feel missunderstood from most of people who appreciate to live in the present, sometimes we just feel like the Earth is not a place for us. Our life is just "Why" and "I don't know." We know what is important, usefull, worth and what is not. We could do philosophy, and questionning all things. Se = the concrete world, the here and now, the facts. And we : Ni = the abstract, the meaning. Where most of people give up aesily, we never give up, always improve.
I sat through the whole 20 minutes it was difficult because of my ADD however you did teach me a couple different things you were explaining about time travel and how the coordinates would not match up because the Galaxy is moving throughout the Universe that definitely makes sense I think you would have to have a spaceship in order to make a time machine and there was one other thing you said after that but my mind wondered and I started daydreaming you should travel down the rabbit hole of the channel like stories of old lsoo on UA-cam it is amazing I have watched every video at least twice or three times he is incredibly smart you'll learn a lot my favorite one he has that I show everybody is The Last of Us the painful art of empathy I've never played the game but I've watched this video like eight times
Dang man, you looked distressed. But ya I know similar to how you felt when I was in college. That’s a good live action in being in the moment after being burnt trying to stay on schedule to get through college. But my high was from working out, after finals was over, first thing I did was go on a hard run with epic workout music. But I assure you this is normal, it’s how someone process stress.
I run a lot. The repetitive motion is really meditative and then I just get lost in my thoughts but I think the extroverted Sensing action helps balance them out and keep them from overwhelming me.
The more I watch other INTJs the more I understand things about myself, we have this intense gaze due to our Fi, which is pretty active but we keep that part inside us. People often mistake us as evil, cold, ruthless...they do not know what we experience on a daily, we are above and beyond. Most of us would qualify as sigma personality, leaders yet introverted, we make a statement of our own life not my showing, nor telling, we keep ourselves to ourselves dancing with our Ni, grinding through our Te, creating with our Fi. It's a mystical and logical experience being an INTJ, we can see through the BS of the System, the systems, the collective cognitive biases...
@@mbtisocialclub cheers pal, I also subbed, found your vid yesterday, I was vivid because one of our tutors is just complicating things for the sake of it...a complete waste of time and energy, there won't be take aways after this module because he's incompetent...meanwhile classmates are up against myself because I stood my ground facing 'the authority'... most of us INTJs can do much better by ourselves, especially if you are able to find rigorous courses.bootcamps online at a fraction of the cost in comparison to those well-known institutions... not to mention that usually education is far behind the newest developments in any given field...in April I will start to study finance by myself, self-pacing, with a highly regarded online course...and I will be free to take tangents and investigate further, things which are not allowed once you are placed in a class following the old dynamic of masters and slaves... INTJ to the core xo
Yes I definitely agree! My ability to learn has drastically improved when I started teaching myself. We aren’t better than others but others aren’t better than us we just gotta find what works for us and be ourselves
recently, ive been struggling with eating disorder(possibly), either i dont eat during daytime, or i just overeat at midnight, knowing that ill hate myself, knowing what the problem is, but dont see the point of changing, cuz all i see is never ending suffering with what i have. i just started smoking, but tbh, i dont feel a thing either, ive completly halt on the school work, and just want to avoid everything, but i cant stand sitting in my chair or bed all day, cuz it feels pointless, I feel pointless, i dont know what type i am, but i think i kinda need a place or someone to vent to, so i comment here, if anyone kinda relate to this, its ok not to feel good, its ok to feel small, because theres a you , much better you exist, let the comparison stay, but you have to go foward, not even foward, just move, just a little bit will be good, in case you need this, im proud of you, and will continue to be proud of you, and hopefully you have faith in me too, luv
I'm letting you know before I even seen anything in the video I saw the title and I was like it's just like all the others but then I looked at the name of your channel and I was like okay I need to give this guy a chance so I'm giving you 20 minutes and I'll probably been never comment at the end or in between depends how much add i might have
I don't think is a drug, but I did stopped smoking because I wasn't doing anything else besides smoking, I wasn't able to enjoy the little things in life without it, I felt like every thing needed to be accompanied by weed otherwise I wasn't able to enjoy it as much. Depending on it to enjoy things in life was annoying. So I decided to quit weed because I wanted to be in charge again. That was my experience, my brother smokes and he has a different opinion, but for me as an infj I feel good about my decision.
any natural or artificially made chemical that is taken for pleasure, to improve someone's performance of an activity, or because a person cannot stop using it: Is a drug So yes, weed is a drug
I used to be obsessed with time travel I read books, watched all movies and shows on it and tried to build my own time machine so I bought a book called “ how to build a time machine” and it was quite the opposite
@@mbtisocialclubWell, I'm curious about what you have read, watched, etc. I do have a desire to time travel but it didn't cross my mind to build such a time machine sort of thing. Maybe u can make a video about what you think about that haha (it's a request).
@@ackerman8284 sincerely this did not cross my mind, great idea! :) hahaha I usually keep the nerdy stuff to myself hahaha XD I do have 3 videos I'm working on. An mbti analysis of hunter x hunter and the book frankenstein and a spiritual book...almost done reading both Edit: typo
Thanks for this video man,I honestly thought something was wrong with me so I took the easy path which was watching porn, I am trying to get rid of it but no, addiction is really bad.
Are you INTJ? Be careful cause repression is bad. We try to bury these things but then they resurface much more aggressively. There is a relationship between addiction and hot and cold behaviour. We leave we come back we hate it we love it. I think too much of something is bad that's abuse but too little of something is repression. I think it's important to have a balance.
@@mbtisocialclub yep,I am an INTJ,and It's not like hot and cold behaviour it's basically an addiction.The thing is I was depressed so I took what was easily available to me which was porn,if pills or weed were in front of me I definitely would have abused myself with it and it would have been worse for me.
@@dreamingsymphony do you have adhd? I have adhd and I can relate. I really recommend meditation or just watching your breath, once you do it you’ll know why I recommended it. Also positive affirmations help. I noticed that when I say something like I enjoy being sober or I am happy sober it works better than saying “I don’t want to smoke anymore.” I think I read somewhere that the subconscious mind doesn’t understand negatives like don’t or won’t so we have to flip it. I guess for porn it would be something like “I like spending time on productive stuff.” That takes your mind away. But yeah I hope you get better and achieve your goals, fellow INTJ.
@@mbtisocialclub I don't know if I have ADHD or not because I have not been diagnosed with it but sometimes when I read about ADHD in detail I do think I have it and you are 100% right I have reading and watching videos on subconscious and affirmation stuff and have started doing it so probably I'll see some result.
Is Se inferior the same for you as Te inferior is for me(infp)? : i admire it in others but im sloppy at it myself but there are also specific times when i am good at it 1. Under extreme stress (e. g. from having left something to do fot the last moment) I am actually very good at execution, prioritizing tasks and manage to complete things efficiently/make quick decisions ; 2. When it is an activity completely under my control and choice hence usually connected to an Fi personal interest: like i suck at schedules but when it comes to drawing comics which i enjoy I can be very consistent with my goals of output and sometimes i do more than planned just cuz i enjoy it so much (this comes at expense of not doing other stuff) xd but ya those are my personal observations on my inferior function which are different from its unhealthy use; because just cuz we have it 4th slot it doesn't mean we cant utilize it well, just not all the time, not sure what this would be like for Se so do let me know
Yes! I definitely do admire it in others and there are times when I'm good at it but in the past it's been more unconsciously. It's almost like it would activate on its own and I'd have brief moments of being really good. Playing call of duty, boxing friends, rapping, etc. It's like something takes over and I'm able to do something I don't understand but my senses are smooth and mechanical, I love it. I find myself being more accepting towards my inferior function and I've noticed that successful people have a positive relationship with their fourth. Moreover, I've also noticed that the fourth Is very pure, idk if that makes sense. It was the most painful thing for me to develop but so worth it. It's kind of like, someone who does something natural vs someone who's had to learn it from the beginning. The latter has a deeper understanding. I strongly believe we can get good at our 4th that's why it's called the aspirational but it still shouldn't be relied upon completely.
@@mbtisocialclub ive learnt that you need to love and respect it the same way you do your first function, in order for the journey to self mastery be less painful. Its not that its difficult, its just anytime we use it, it feels so draining because we arent currently using what we are so used to using, when we start going down the list, it just gets harder as we are slowly moving out of our comfort zone, it would require us to constantly make a concious decision to use them, as oppossed to being on auto pilot regarding our first function, all these factors contribute to the illusion that doing this is hard , but the reality is if we stop hating it, and pay attention , it would become easy overtime...we just have to overlook that feeling of unease and say fuck it....im an ESTP and ive been trying to develop my Ni for a long time now, it takes mad patience cus i really dont like doing it lol..but m always proud of the results of using it We can use all our fucntions constantly, the only thing causing us not to is simply prefrence.....so in order to master all the fucntions were gonna need to explore and embrace all of it
@@aladesanwageorge9155 one of the best things I've read. I think you and I think alike and we came to the same conclusion albeit through different ways perhaps. Anyway the point is that I agree 100% and what you are doing is amazing I really like your perspective
I have done it... the reason you probably into it is because you have done it as well but youre not aware when it happened. Your unconscious mind was aware.
@@mbtisocialclub parallel world's are identical to ours but there are details that define that reality that we do not have so you flip between realities and you do not notice it has happened.... your unconscious mind is pickin up on the details. For example i worked in the same place for years and when i was Flippin i found things like a light switch that was not in a wall beforehand.... a light post that was undamaged... that had bended down i was not afraid so my consciously mind was able yo accept this... I was just bummed because i was like what fuckin reality and i in now.
I am halfway through the video sort of struggling to capture my attention but you do say words that are real and this whole time I've been thinking you must be in Alberta Canada or something because I see no snow on the ground and you say it's cold and you keep taking your headphones off and on and you're wearing two hoodies but you won't put the joint down to put them on and then you really revealed that you are in Canada it's like an aha moment
+@@mbtisocialclub Ahh okay, thanks. I'm assuming you changed it recently? Somebody recommended your channel using the old name and I couln't find you for the longest
The thing is I don’t wanna make videos about just mbti. I’ve been reading a lot about the self-image, suggestions, hypnosis to improve self, spiritual concepts on the self, So I’ve been really unsure if I should just leave this channel for mbti or if I should just make videos on all those concepts. So that’s why I keep changing the name so much. Can’t decide if I should post here or make a channel with my real name and be myself on there. It’s really confusing tbh. Anyways, glad someone recommended me! I got cool stuff on the way some on the street interviews and regular interviews
+@@mbtisocialclub That totally makes sense. I have the same struggle, hence why this account doesn't really have videos, it's a commenting account! But, if you want some advice that might help you make a decision: UA-cam rewards channels that stay on one topic. So, I have one UA-cam channel that I use for posting music-related content and another I use for posting my thoughts. UA-cam has rewarded me with more views than if I had when I continued conflating the two. So that's what I know, pick for yourself though of course- not everyone cares about UA-cam views at all. I'm excited to see your new videos!
@@mbtisocialclub one idea could be interviewing IRL friends, family, etc. whose personality types you know! Those are always some of my favorite videos 🙂
Haha.. vulnerabilities...i know what you mean.. i thought something was wrong with me.. but nobody knows only me, my secrets.. all the knowledge I have from different topics, all the drugs I've done, all the thoughts I've had... No one knows. Vulnerabilities... knowledge. I wish I was more present at the present moment. But I have my moments. They are worth it. And then.. the vulnerabilities come again to rescue me from the pain of life...this time I think is cooking like a pro. Btw I think Marco Pierre White is also an INTJ haha. I am an INTJ btw.
Really Marco an intj? I want that to be the case so bad! It's honestly pretty hard to find intjs in real world because if the person doesn't fit stereotype then the person is believed to be other than and it makes it hard to find intjs. Anyway hope you are doing well, fellow intj!
There is no book that pushes one to think more deeply and consistently than the Qur'an does. Surely, in the remembrance of Allah, The One True God, do hearts find rest ♥️
Incomplete sentence, I think he tried to go for vibes. "ENTP vibes.*" But the difference is that ENTP gets very uncomfortable in reality compared to the INTJ that likes to inquire and participate in reality, both wanting things to get better. Difference between Se demon and Se inferior. ENTP likes to look good, INTJ likes to feel good. I notice that when writing one also forgets to read and end up skipping words while thinking we wrote it. Cheers.
@@mbtisocialclub please don’t apologize for not coming off as professional. this was an awesome video. life is a process, INTJs are aware of the scope of their existence and trivial stuff like appearing professional in a video are irrelevant. Showing your true thoughts and vulnerabilities to an audience who can relate is much more worth it than to cater to conformists
@@mbtisocialclub Also INTJ - meditation is not good for me. I prefer just chill thinking and talking to my mind than typical meditation which annoys me sooo much. Impatientce be like ... :)
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Definitely bro being a INTJ is like a blessing but because of this addictive behavior and struggle to live in the moment a curse its like time just fly bye because im always in my head
You can do it bro! I stopped smoking weed, I play guitar,piano, sing and am a music producer. I meditate and go for runs almost every day and I’m focusing really hard on school.
Never give up! I would recommend the master key system (book) this is the predecessor to think and grow rich
@@mbtisocialclub Thanks for the words of encouragement I will indeed check out the book and great job at taking control of your life I know how hard it is keep going
"What's the plan? Get it done. That's it!" 😂😂😂
Yup!
- fellow intj
I'm commenting as I watch btw...
I drank (heavily) and did a lot of impulsive and at times self-destructive stuff in Uni. And the looming undone work made me so anxious and then I'd be apathetic about the academics especially as the years rolled by.
The irony (for other people because they don't know me) is that I love learning, I wasn't struggling with the concepts at all. I just couldn't find the will to do the assignments, study for exams.
A friend and I were talking about honours and masters and they were surprised to hear me say I wouldn't return to school if I was paid to.
I'm very lucky because if I wasn't naturally very intelligent, I would have failed or not completed my degree.
This was between 17 and 21. I hadn't encountered the mbti or anything like that. I didn't have a frame of reference for my feelings or behaviour.
As a teen I remember watching a documentary about a professor who drank through her whole degree (about 7 years). At the time I was surprised she could do all that inebriated. I get her now.
Anyway, I can't say I regret it because I don't know what the alternative would be and you know how rewriting history goes: change one thing, change everything.
The contents of the video aside, the pacing around is the most relatable part by far. That's how I stimulate my thoughts and imagination. It's as if my brain processing things better if I'm mindlessly moving my body.
Oh. Interesting well thank you for sharing!
Was this channel MBTI Social Club?
I am not experienced but I really have to remind myself that I have a highly addictive personality. Every day is me saying, hold, stop, wait. I used to go window shopping, it's going to a store picking up a bunch of stuff and then walking through the store putting it all back. It gives me the rush of shopping without the fall of being broke and being mad at myself. Online shopping is harder, can't put it back or walk away as easily. Learn control, it's all you got in the end.
this is actually a huge problem of mine, the addictions. i smoke cigarettes, e-cig, vape and weed non stop, i’ve been binging tv-shows i’ve watched multiple times before for hours straight and feeling empty and stupid because i am so unaware of the present moment and i could only process it much later, under the right circumstances.
I feel like the fact that i’m an INTJ makes procrastination and addiction so much more mentally intense. i just want to shut off the world and drown in this pit of disgusting habits and live as a hermit sometimes.
but then i remember my dream of becoming a cult leader and/or a brilliant journalist and my mind kinda gets back on track.
funny thing: i am actually creating a video game in my head about cults and a character who became a cult leader - and that’s basically how I am planning my future ambitions to become one.
wait why do you want to be a cult leader?
I didn't even think when you said cult leader lmao wtf
I feel kindred.
"I feel like I should be reading more books" I think it everyday man
Oh I read daily now
Man , your fine don't stress about it but be careful with the weed
You need to medidate. The enhanced awareness will allow you to control your impulsivity and re-balance you. It won't take 1 session; it's something you have to build over time with dedication and consistency. You'll get better at it and be more stable overall and have more control over your impulses and trains of thought.
Thanks brother I appreciate it. I've been meditating and it helps but I'm not doing it regularly. Will it help me to get rid of weed dependency? I smoke due to boredom and habit
@@mbtisocialclub We are impulsive, you know it, so yes, drugs are not good, they will tear your nerves and shackle your mind with anxiety. I smoked (tabacco) well into my 30s, and I'm sure my life would have been even better (can't complain) if I'd quit sooner. You will have a better/quicker shot of becoming the "the strategist" we were born to be if you go down that path
@@davidsanchez8360 thank you! I'll try my best
@@davidsanchez8360 I've been meditating regularly and I haven't smoked weed in a while. It really worked!
Well, I'm a fat female INTJ. Food is my escape drug. I need to move around more.
Yeah go and work out. you know what you need to do and get it done, if you want that is
Good luck fellow intj!
UA-cam has been being my cigarette.
" There's a part of me, guilty.
And the other saying "lets have some fun."."
Paradoxically perfect
I lobe smoking in the cold, thinking, planning and watching the stars!
Have Se fun while you can for a time does come (if you work towards your own "cognitive growth") when it will become a lost world...one that you want to indulge every once-a-while but never sustainable for a long time...good thing is you already mindful abt your Se. It all comes down to self control and what is at stake in your life. If time is still of interest to you then internalize it with in your own personal understanding and derive meaning that makes sense to you. My advise is to learn what interests you for that is your own reflection, your mirror that tells you more about yourself. Continue to get things done and your a champion. Cheers to all you will ever want to become.
Pretty poetic, thanks! I'm assuming you're intj? Appreciate you
Coffee have no effect on me (I only get the after effect of being more tired). Weed neither, I always been very calm. Sugar can made me nervous, I feel a little weird on the inside on my nerves. I escaped reality with video games for years, I played a lot, but I stopped it during depression in 2020.
For a period I got an obsession with movies related to the time travel too.
I understand when you said a part of myself enjoy the present, another part feel guilty. Sort of like ourselves (Ni Te) will always want to take over the others functions (the others parts of ourselves) I don't know.
See how you have accomplished what you wanted to do : read books, not smoke anymore... you improved a lot ^^
A lot of ENFP INFP INTP I knew in the past, smoked, but not so much INTJ I have the impression.
More than 12k views, it's really cool.
high infj here. vibing out with you so hard right now, man.
Hahaha thanks!
INFJ strong and capable with almost perfect 46 year driving record yet I have inferior sensing, which really helps me block external distraction as I delve deep into the abyss of my mind.
Inferior sensing slightly improved when not using marijuana.
Other wise I can see my minds eye visible in front of me, superimposed with what is seen in front of me
Love the creative potential of this duality enhanced by THC
At the cost of an even more inferior sensing
It's a trade off
Very interesting. I'd love to hear more on how se has developed for you, but I appreciate the info
@@mbtisocialclub aside from intellectual pursuits, I often tell people that the best thing for me has come from hard physical exercise as there is a very big difference between a strong INFJ as opposed to an unhealthy INFJ
We are somewhere in the middle of physical prowess naturally when compared to all the other types
Age 15 struggled to lift 100 lbs two hands
Began working out and only 1 year later was lifting 200 lbs although I grew 6" and gained 65 lbs in one year.
Age 22 demonstrated a one hand barbell clean of 180 lbs from floor to ceiling.
We favor our mind and emotions which work better with a strong healthy body
Do not neglect the importance of sleep and diet
This was all beneficial for my inferior sensing
I did suffer from attention deficit disorder
How it's look like ? Tired don't have as much anergy as most of people cause brain never rest, overwelmed by too much light, noise, people, if too much things happen around, constantly aware, on guard, we see all, see all details that sometimes we know we missed something, mind constantly in past and futur, thinking more in the future, don't want do things if don't find a meaning or utility or important.
Constantly ask Why since the beginning. Skeptical, never sure, doubt, constantly question everything, want to know, learn, not to annoy people but because we really want to know. What if ...?
Plan, to not be surprise by random chaos things happen, imagine the worst scenario.
We value time, energy and calm.
Work is more fun than fun.
There is always something or someone to improve, never get bored, always something to do or to think or to plan.
We see what's wrong in things and people, when people lie or have suspicious behavior, we know without knowing how to explain it, by connecting the dots.
We don't often appreciate the fun things, for us it's a waste of time/energy/money, to go to bar, party, club, social things...
We think/imagine the futures consequences before to do something, to know if it worth it or not. If it worth to spend our time, energy, money or not.
We feel missunderstood from most of people who appreciate to live in the present, sometimes we just feel like the Earth is not a place for us.
Our life is just "Why" and "I don't know."
We know what is important, usefull, worth and what is not. We could do philosophy, and questionning all things.
Se = the concrete world, the here and now, the facts.
And we : Ni = the abstract, the meaning.
Where most of people give up aesily, we never give up, always improve.
First part sounds like autism, then Dyslexia, anxiety, depression and articulated thoughts respectively.
I sat through the whole 20 minutes it was difficult because of my ADD however you did teach me a couple different things you were explaining about time travel and how the coordinates would not match up because the Galaxy is moving throughout the Universe that definitely makes sense I think you would have to have a spaceship in order to make a time machine and there was one other thing you said after that but my mind wondered and I started daydreaming you should travel down the rabbit hole of the channel like stories of old lsoo on UA-cam it is amazing I have watched every video at least twice or three times he is incredibly smart you'll learn a lot my favorite one he has that I show everybody is The Last of Us the painful art of empathy I've never played the game but I've watched this video like eight times
weirdly enough I can only hear the silence when I spark a bland.
feel the cold air smell the breeze wonderful video.
Yup. Also, I have 5 lightbulbs burned out in two rooms alone and I kinda don’t care.
Dang man, you looked distressed. But ya I know similar to how you felt when I was in college. That’s a good live action in being in the moment after being burnt trying to stay on schedule to get through college. But my high was from working out, after finals was over, first thing I did was go on a hard run with epic workout music. But I assure you this is normal, it’s how someone process stress.
That was 2 years ago doing much better now mentally
I run a lot. The repetitive motion is really meditative and then I just get lost in my thoughts but I think the extroverted Sensing action helps balance them out and keep them from overwhelming me.
I used to run a lot, nowadays I bike to and from work
Enjoy the process (healthy Se) don't obsess about the end goal (unhealthy Ni)
The more I watch other INTJs the more I understand things about myself, we have this intense gaze due to our Fi, which is pretty active but we keep that part inside us. People often mistake us as evil, cold, ruthless...they do not know what we experience on a daily, we are above and beyond. Most of us would qualify as sigma personality, leaders yet introverted, we make a statement of our own life not my showing, nor telling, we keep ourselves to ourselves dancing with our Ni, grinding through our Te, creating with our Fi. It's a mystical and logical experience being an INTJ, we can see through the BS of the System, the systems, the collective cognitive biases...
Beautifully put!
@@mbtisocialclub cheers pal, I also subbed, found your vid yesterday, I was vivid because one of our tutors is just complicating things for the sake of it...a complete waste of time and energy, there won't be take aways after this module because he's incompetent...meanwhile classmates are up against myself because I stood my ground facing 'the authority'...
most of us INTJs can do much better by ourselves, especially if you are able to find rigorous courses.bootcamps online at a fraction of the cost in comparison to those well-known institutions... not to mention that usually education is far behind the newest developments in any given field...in April I will start to study finance by myself, self-pacing, with a highly regarded online course...and I will be free to take tangents and investigate further, things which are not allowed once you are placed in a class following the old dynamic of masters and slaves... INTJ to the core xo
Yes I definitely agree! My ability to learn has drastically improved when I started teaching myself.
We aren’t better than others but others aren’t better than us we just gotta find what works for us and be ourselves
One of the most realistic videos ive seen
recently, ive been struggling with eating disorder(possibly), either i dont eat during daytime, or i just overeat at midnight, knowing that ill hate myself, knowing what the problem is, but dont see the point of changing, cuz all i see is never ending suffering with what i have. i just started smoking, but tbh, i dont feel a thing either, ive completly halt on the school work, and just want to avoid everything, but i cant stand sitting in my chair or bed all day, cuz it feels pointless, I feel pointless, i dont know what type i am, but i think i kinda need a place or someone to vent to, so i comment here, if anyone kinda relate to this, its ok not to feel good, its ok to feel small, because theres a you , much better you exist, let the comparison stay, but you have to go foward, not even foward, just move, just a little bit will be good, in case you need this, im proud of you, and will continue to be proud of you, and hopefully you have faith in me too, luv
Trust me it gets better! Don’t lose hope!
I'm letting you know before I even seen anything in the video I saw the title and I was like it's just like all the others but then I looked at the name of your channel and I was like okay I need to give this guy a chance so I'm giving you 20 minutes and I'll probably been never comment at the end or in between depends how much add i might have
can you truly classify "weed" as a drug? After all, it is Nature made, not man made.
Good question.
I don't think is a drug, but I did stopped smoking because I wasn't doing anything else besides smoking, I wasn't able to enjoy the little things in life without it, I felt like every thing needed to be accompanied by weed otherwise I wasn't able to enjoy it as much. Depending on it to enjoy things in life was annoying. So I decided to quit weed because I wanted to be in charge again. That was my experience, my brother smokes and he has a different opinion, but for me as an infj I feel good about my decision.
any natural or artificially made chemical that is taken for pleasure, to improve someone's performance of an activity, or because a person cannot stop using it:
Is a drug
So yes, weed is a drug
Wtf? Tobacco is a plant, and it contains nicotine, a highly addictive drug... just to mention one example...
I can relate to that -time machine, time travel-
I used to be obsessed with time travel I read books, watched all movies and shows on it and tried to build my own time machine so I bought a book called “ how to build a time machine” and it was quite the opposite
@@mbtisocialclubWell, I'm curious about what you have read, watched, etc. I do have a desire to time travel but it didn't cross my mind to build such a time machine sort of thing. Maybe u can make a video about what you think about that haha (it's a request).
@@ackerman8284 sincerely this did not cross my mind, great idea! :) hahaha I usually keep the nerdy stuff to myself hahaha XD I do have 3 videos I'm working on. An mbti analysis of hunter x hunter and the book frankenstein and a spiritual book...almost done reading both
Edit: typo
I got myself, thanks
relatable AF, I can see myself there and i try the same in the mirror
Thanks for this video man,I honestly thought something was wrong with me so I took the easy path which was watching porn, I am trying to get rid of it but no, addiction is really bad.
Are you INTJ? Be careful cause repression is bad. We try to bury these things but then they resurface much more aggressively.
There is a relationship between addiction and hot and cold behaviour. We leave we come back we hate it we love it.
I think too much of something is bad that's abuse but too little of something is repression.
I think it's important to have a balance.
@@mbtisocialclub yep,I am an INTJ,and It's not like hot and cold behaviour it's basically an addiction.The thing is I was depressed so I took what was easily available to me which was porn,if pills or weed were in front of me I definitely would have abused myself with it and it would have been worse for me.
@@dreamingsymphony do you have adhd? I have adhd and I can relate. I really recommend meditation or just watching your breath, once you do it you’ll know why I recommended it. Also positive affirmations help. I noticed that when I say something like I enjoy being sober or I am happy sober it works better than saying “I don’t want to smoke anymore.” I think I read somewhere that the subconscious mind doesn’t understand negatives like don’t or won’t so we have to flip it. I guess for porn it would be something like “I like spending time on productive stuff.” That takes your mind away.
But yeah I hope you get better and achieve your goals, fellow INTJ.
@@mbtisocialclub I don't know if I have ADHD or not because I have not been diagnosed with it but sometimes when I read about ADHD in detail I do think I have it and you are 100% right I have reading and watching videos on subconscious and affirmation stuff and have started doing it so probably I'll see some result.
@@dreamingsymphony you got this fellow intj! We can do anything we set our minds to!
Is Se inferior the same for you as Te inferior is for me(infp)? : i admire it in others but im sloppy at it myself but there are also specific times when i am good at it 1. Under extreme stress (e. g. from having left something to do fot the last moment) I am actually very good at execution, prioritizing tasks and manage to complete things efficiently/make quick decisions ; 2. When it is an activity completely under my control and choice hence usually connected to an Fi personal interest: like i suck at schedules but when it comes to drawing comics which i enjoy I can be very consistent with my goals of output and sometimes i do more than planned just cuz i enjoy it so much (this comes at expense of not doing other stuff) xd but ya those are my personal observations on my inferior function which are different from its unhealthy use; because just cuz we have it 4th slot it doesn't mean we cant utilize it well, just not all the time, not sure what this would be like for Se so do let me know
Yes! I definitely do admire it in others and there are times when I'm good at it but in the past it's been more unconsciously. It's almost like it would activate on its own and I'd have brief moments of being really good. Playing call of duty, boxing friends, rapping, etc.
It's like something takes over and I'm able to do something I don't understand but my senses are smooth and mechanical, I love it.
I find myself being more accepting towards my inferior function and I've noticed that successful people have a positive relationship with their fourth. Moreover, I've also noticed that the fourth Is very pure, idk if that makes sense. It was the most painful thing for me to develop but so worth it.
It's kind of like, someone who does something natural vs someone who's had to learn it from the beginning. The latter has a deeper understanding. I strongly believe we can get good at our 4th that's why it's called the aspirational but it still shouldn't be relied upon completely.
@@mbtisocialclub ive learnt that you need to love and respect it the same way you do your first function, in order for the journey to self mastery be less painful. Its not that its difficult, its just anytime we use it, it feels so draining because we arent currently using what we are so used to using, when we start going down the list, it just gets harder as we are slowly moving out of our comfort zone, it would require us to constantly make a concious decision to use them, as oppossed to being on auto pilot regarding our first function, all these factors contribute to the illusion that doing this is hard , but the reality is if we stop hating it, and pay attention , it would become easy overtime...we just have to overlook that feeling of unease and say fuck it....im an ESTP and ive been trying to develop my Ni for a long time now, it takes mad patience cus i really dont like doing it lol..but m always proud of the results of using it
We can use all our fucntions constantly, the only thing causing us not to is simply prefrence.....so in order to master all the fucntions were gonna need to explore and embrace all of it
@@aladesanwageorge9155 one of the best things I've read. I think you and I think alike and we came to the same conclusion albeit through different ways perhaps.
Anyway the point is that I agree 100% and what you are doing is amazing I really like your perspective
The movie is The Kid
Huh?
@@mbtisocialclub the movie you are asking with Bruce Willis on it
@@mbtisocialclub well, there's Looper and 12 Monkeys too.
damn this dude is the next frank james sheeesh
Nah he’s the goat.
Also, I’m the next me.
If you drastically change your frequency you split between parallel realities That the most time travel u can do now.
That’s poetic
I have done it... the reason you probably into it is because you have done it as well but youre not aware when it happened. Your unconscious mind was aware.
@@TheBohemiansoul can u explain what u are talking about I think I know what u mean but it's like more unconcious I never tried to put it into words
@@mbtisocialclub parallel world's are identical to ours but there are details that define that reality that we do not have so you flip between realities and you do not notice it has happened.... your unconscious mind is pickin up on the details. For example i worked in the same place for years and when i was Flippin i found things like a light switch that was not in a wall beforehand.... a light post that was undamaged... that had bended down i was not afraid so my consciously mind was able yo accept this... I was just bummed because i was like what fuckin reality and i in now.
Now I must say im not a regular kind of human thats a disclaimer
I am halfway through the video sort of struggling to capture my attention but you do say words that are real and this whole time I've been thinking you must be in Alberta Canada or something because I see no snow on the ground and you say it's cold and you keep taking your headphones off and on and you're wearing two hoodies but you won't put the joint down to put them on and then you really revealed that you are in Canada it's like an aha moment
Yeah calgary
all want INTJs want when they smoke is to be in the present moment.
5:50 you can choose whether you want to be addicted or not. You choose your reality, and you choose to give in.
That’s true
Was this channel once called MBTI Social Club?
Yes, I haven’t settled on a name for the direction of the channel lol maybe I’ll change it again later idk but I have other mbti interviews to post
+@@mbtisocialclub Ahh okay, thanks. I'm assuming you changed it recently? Somebody recommended your channel using the old name and I couln't find you for the longest
The thing is I don’t wanna make videos about just mbti. I’ve been reading a lot about the self-image, suggestions, hypnosis to improve self, spiritual concepts on the self,
So I’ve been really unsure if I should just leave this channel for mbti or if I should just make videos on all those concepts.
So that’s why I keep changing the name so much. Can’t decide if I should post here or make a channel with my real name and be myself on there. It’s really confusing tbh.
Anyways, glad someone recommended me! I got cool stuff on the way some on the street interviews and regular interviews
+@@mbtisocialclub That totally makes sense. I have the same struggle, hence why this account doesn't really have videos, it's a commenting account!
But, if you want some advice that might help you make a decision: UA-cam rewards channels that stay on one topic. So, I have one UA-cam channel that I use for posting music-related content and another I use for posting my thoughts. UA-cam has rewarded me with more views than if I had when I continued conflating the two.
So that's what I know, pick for yourself though of course- not everyone cares about UA-cam views at all. I'm excited to see your new videos!
Sorry, we took the channel name dawg.
It’s alright man I guess y’all were meant to have it 🙏☝️, I still like the name and you guys’ content so I subscribed to y’all 👊
second commenter i guess xD NICE VIDEO
🙏. Ty any suggestions?
@@mbtisocialclub one idea could be interviewing IRL friends, family, etc. whose personality types you know! Those are always some of my favorite videos 🙂
@@dummyn.9575 ok thanks for the suggestion. Working on more content now that this semester is almost over!
@@mbtisocialclub sounds awesome! I'm excited for that
I hope someday I can find someone like you to chill with.
From an intp who also loves weed and wandering at night alone.
Every intp needs an intj in their life and vice versa
intp smoking weed lol dude u a mistype
Night owl
“Se”? The symbol on the periodic table for selenium? (That wouldn’t make sense). What does he mean by “Se” ?
Extroverted sensing
Lol idk why Im watching this but i guess I’m the first
Haha. Are you an INTJ as well?
@@mbtisocialclub yes
Haha.. vulnerabilities...i know what you mean.. i thought something was wrong with me.. but nobody knows only me, my secrets.. all the knowledge I have from different topics, all the drugs I've done, all the thoughts I've had... No one knows. Vulnerabilities... knowledge. I wish I was more present at the present moment. But I have my moments. They are worth it. And then.. the vulnerabilities come again to rescue me from the pain of life...this time I think is cooking like a pro. Btw I think Marco Pierre White is also an INTJ haha. I am an INTJ btw.
Really Marco an intj? I want that to be the case so bad! It's honestly pretty hard to find intjs in real world because if the person doesn't fit stereotype then the person is believed to be other than and it makes it hard to find intjs.
Anyway hope you are doing well, fellow intj!
There is no book that pushes one to think more deeply and consistently than the Qur'an does. Surely, in the remembrance of Allah, The One True God, do hearts find rest ♥️
This is giving ENTP
What?
Incomplete sentence, I think he tried to go for vibes. "ENTP vibes.*" But the difference is that ENTP gets very uncomfortable in reality compared to the INTJ that likes to inquire and participate in reality, both wanting things to get better. Difference between Se demon and Se inferior. ENTP likes to look good, INTJ likes to feel good. I notice that when writing one also forgets to read and end up skipping words while thinking we wrote it. Cheers.
@@amarilismelendez7878 are you an INTJ woman ? Also are you from NYC ?
Don't look professional with drug addiction
Ironically this is my most popular video but yeah you're right, I'll try to make my channel more professional
@@mbtisocialclub please don’t apologize for not coming off as professional. this was an awesome video. life is a process, INTJs are aware of the scope of their existence and trivial stuff like appearing professional in a video are irrelevant. Showing your true thoughts and vulnerabilities to an audience who can relate is much more worth it than to cater to conformists
3rd commenter yes lad
The marijuana mastered you. How does a slave get free from a master?
That was from a year ago. I don't smoke anymore. The answer is meditation. Do meditation and the craving goes away.
@Art of Self Mastery That's an excellent answer! Glad you found it.
@@mbtisocialclub Also INTJ - meditation is not good for me. I prefer just chill thinking and talking to my mind than typical meditation which annoys me sooo much. Impatientce be like ... :)
At 11:59 you are thinking of 12 Monkeys