If You Hate Women, You’ve Already Lost

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  • @jackharley8141
    @jackharley8141 Рік тому +2166

    I just want to mention how much one guy can change so many lives, you’re the inspiration to me and so many others

    • @ayaanbadal6748
      @ayaanbadal6748 Рік тому +1

      He still has shit takes

    • @jackharley8141
      @jackharley8141 Рік тому +3

      @@ayaanbadal6748 no

    • @JosephSneep
      @JosephSneep Рік тому +9

      Hamza is a currycel coper 😂👌

    • @ayaanbadal6748
      @ayaanbadal6748 Рік тому +3

      @@jackharley8141 he reposts videos, talks shit about other content creators without any reason (greg, sean, etc...)

    • @ayaanbadal6748
      @ayaanbadal6748 Рік тому +3

      @@jackharley8141 and there is another long list of things he did horribly

  • @ryanbailey8588
    @ryanbailey8588 Рік тому +32

    What actually made me dislike women was coming to understand them. I liked them a lot when I was blue pill. Once you learn how they are, you can’t “like” them.

    • @qannicc
      @qannicc Рік тому

      How are women really?
      Do you think women don't dislike men when they see the true nature of men? How men absolutely hate women?

    • @qwozi
      @qwozi Рік тому +3

      Bro just generalized half the population 😭

    • @ryanbailey8588
      @ryanbailey8588 Рік тому +15

      @@qwozi You likely do the same thing. Took some dude you didn’t know getting ripped to shreds by a bear for you to decide you wouldn’t f with them from now on…but why not go f with one for the sake of “not generalizing”? See how that goes. Generalizations are a kind of judgments, and judgment is how we survive. You make hundreds of thousands of judgments, maybe even millions, a day, both consciously and subconsciously…stop shaming me for doing the same.

    • @yagovmolotov5127
      @yagovmolotov5127 Рік тому

      i like their bobs and vagene

    • @bogdankovalenko5096
      @bogdankovalenko5096 7 місяців тому +3

      @@ryanbailey8588 exactly. you can not trust and like them anymore

  • @joshuatokosi
    @joshuatokosi Рік тому +1482

    try calling him a misogynist now

    • @xza5687
      @xza5687 Рік тому +319

      Most people that call Hamza and Tate a misogynist dont even know what misogynist means, they just repeat everything that the media says.

    • @subhzxyy
      @subhzxyy Рік тому +171

      If hamza is a misogynist so am I and so you are.

    • @UrbanPartridge
      @UrbanPartridge Рік тому +9

      @@subhzxyy No

    • @subhzxyy
      @subhzxyy Рік тому +94

      @@UrbanPartridge you didn't get it bruh. I mean if Hamza is a misogynist then we all should become a misogynist like Hamza.

    • @subhzxyy
      @subhzxyy Рік тому +23

      Not the actual misogynist

  • @hellomaifrendi_6658
    @hellomaifrendi_6658 Рік тому +753

    This video was literally 10/10 . You explained the female nature in the best way possible and you kept my attention with these amazing stories. Thank you Hamza for being so helpful

    • @czerwcowanoc8087
      @czerwcowanoc8087 Рік тому +29

      I agree only with the title of the video xD I would also add: "If you believe that all women are the same, you already lost" and "If you believe women are from Venus and men from Mars, you also lost". If you need advice on how to be succesfull with women, better ask a guy who is in loving, stable relationship than a f**boy who only gets with women because of his looks or wealth - as soon as he loses those things, he'll end up alone. Also in this film he assumes that a woman=promiscuous British college student, completely ignoring the fact that women have different worldviews and not every women will f*ck in the toilet any guy she finds attractive. Also, not all women are attracted to stereotypical "jocks" and a**holes. If a woman is attracted to men who treat her poorly, she probably had a messed up childhood. Some women (including my friends) actually prefer nerdy, delicate guys. He also depicted cheating like it's a universal female behaviour (btw, according to stats, men cheat more often). It's a typical error of cognition - you were cheated on and assumed all women are cheaters xD If all women you've been with are lewd or cheated on you, YOU are the common denominator. You choose specific type of women and assume all women are like that. Just because you slept with a lot of women doesn't mean that you cracked the female nature.
      No girl with good morals will want to be with you, if you treat her like a walking stereotype and assume she'll cheat on you as soon as she gets an opportunity xD To form a good, stable relationship, you need mutual respect. You have to be both lovers and friends. If you put her on a pedestal, she'll lose respect for you, but if you look down on her, treat her like an alien (because women are So DiFfErEnT than men!!!!) and assume she has no morals and values, such relationship is bounded to fail. Life is not a teen movie but also not some f**boy's idea of reality. I say this as a woman, so I might have some actual idea of what "female nature" is.

    • @PurXion_777
      @PurXion_777 Рік тому +2

      @@czerwcowanoc8087 summary

    • @CaribbeanAzure1
      @CaribbeanAzure1 Рік тому +12

      @@czerwcowanoc8087 Basically what you said is "if you need advice on how to be successful with women, better ask a Jeffrey that met a woman in her decline", basically 29+, fret not, she's been "run through" all kinds of jocks while in her prime, all you need to know is that all women ovulate, "feelings" and "love" come secondary.

    • @czerwcowanoc8087
      @czerwcowanoc8087 Рік тому

      @@CaribbeanAzure1It's not like you are either Jeffrey the loser or jock the a**hole and there's nothing in between. You can be successfull, confident guy who takes care of himself, but isn't a f**boy. Humans are more than animals, it's not like we are slaves to our atavistic mechanisms. Do you realize that there are a lot of people (especially women) that need to feel emotional connection first, before any sexual attraction appears? Also, as a woman I can reassure you that it's not like when I'm ovulating, I start hooking up left and right xD And I would never choose for a partner a guy who I'm only mildly attracted to, that's an a**hole behaviour that is depicted in this video as if it was universal. The only thing this video got right is that women seek emotional stability - so there is a ton of women who would never hook up with the f**boy knowing that he doesn't give a sh*t about them. And another thing is that indeed if you are insecure and a doormat for your partner, she will leave you.

    • @DominoRenzo
      @DominoRenzo Рік тому

      @@CaribbeanAzure1 if you did even a bit of research you would realize how much hamza lied to you. Average 25 years old body count for a women is 7. Average age a women looses her virginity is 16-17. Only 14% of women cheat so to act like the average women is a cheater is irrational. Plus do you really think hamza is truthful. He literally said that “90% of men are incels” if I make a channel trying to help young people out I would try to be accurate and provide evidence instead of repeating bullshit Redpill talking points.

  • @nivedinrai5515
    @nivedinrai5515 Рік тому +278

    Jeffrey's story is probably the only story I'VE EVER HEARD that made my heart sink so deep. Its all nice and pretty from the outside but dark emotions on the inside. One of the best videos this man has made. 10/10

    • @7oy
      @7oy Рік тому +24

      Jeffery is the sad horror story lots of men experience.

    • @sonofsparda657
      @sonofsparda657 Рік тому +7

      the only story? MY GUY, there is LITERALLY THOUSANDS of men living like this day in day out.

    • @nivedinrai5515
      @nivedinrai5515 Рік тому +6

      @@sonofsparda657 god help thrm

    • @sonofsparda657
      @sonofsparda657 Рік тому +4

      ​@@nivedinrai5515 there is no god down here, only despair and pain.

    • @elfascisto6549
      @elfascisto6549 11 місяців тому

      ​​@@sonofsparda657incorrect

  • @omegabrain230
    @omegabrain230 Рік тому +153

    Honestly I respect your no BS videos
    As someone who was very sheltered in my childhood I’ve come to realise by people like you the world is tough but with advice like yours I know how to handle these situations

    • @JJ-hu4cm
      @JJ-hu4cm Рік тому

      The 'hundreds of studies' on women supposedly desiring masculine men during ovulation was actually one study, and it was debunked years ago.

  • @jordankuttler1859
    @jordankuttler1859 Рік тому +29

    Very powerful video
    It’s crazy when we talk about dating at the start we end up talking about very deep truths regarding humanity and life as a whole.

    • @yarukaribana2652
      @yarukaribana2652 Рік тому +6

      The world is a reflection of the relationships between men and women

  • @julrence9954
    @julrence9954 Рік тому +19

    your such a big inspiration for us bro,u literally transformed almost every jeffrey subscribers of yours into adonisssssssssssss..

  • @Revnant666
    @Revnant666 8 місяців тому +23

    He missed the fact that women are attracted to things that u can’t change by simply going to gym/being healthy. Thing like ur face/height/race. That’s reason why some guys will never become a chad no matter how hard they try

    • @chuckcollins2349
      @chuckcollins2349 3 місяці тому

      No gym for my face or dick unfortunately.

    • @k1ndr3dspirits
      @k1ndr3dspirits 2 місяці тому +2

      There’s also genetics.

    • @James_36
      @James_36 Місяць тому +1

      you cant make money saying that though

    • @chuckcollins2349
      @chuckcollins2349 Місяць тому +1

      @@k1ndr3dspirits Genetics is everything.

    • @adriandj3141
      @adriandj3141 17 днів тому

      @@chuckcollins2349True. Some of us got taken out the game at birth due to shit genetics.
      Nothing we can do. The Universe is a bitch.

  • @oliviajane311
    @oliviajane311 Рік тому +25

    The story you're telling happened to a friend of my dad. Wife cheated, about 45-50 years old, killed himself. It's just awful

    • @Jzit-Animations
      @Jzit-Animations Рік тому +8

      That's just awful, nobody should ever cheat

    • @ragingsaviorkami9862
      @ragingsaviorkami9862 17 днів тому

      I got cheated on in two relationships in a row. I've been single for 5 years now, because I know that If I get cheated on the third time, I'm literally ending myself. Last time almost took my life.
      I know it's my fragile manly ego, I know it's the jealousy, but it's whatever. If it happens to me a 3rd time, I know it will most definitely kill me.

    • @Tasminmiami
      @Tasminmiami 16 днів тому

      @@ragingsaviorkami9862 stop going for the wrong sort of woman, sounds like you go for losers,

  • @yggnggv3519
    @yggnggv3519 Рік тому +139

    Thank you hamza I’m at the begging of my self improvement journey and i already feel so much better much respect

    • @imrank789
      @imrank789 Рік тому +2

      Keep it up bro! Self improvement is life changing and I hope you make a lot of great progress

    • @InvertedBread
      @InvertedBread Рік тому

      W

    • @aidendoesstuff185
      @aidendoesstuff185 Рік тому

      I believe in you!

    • @yggnggv3519
      @yggnggv3519 Рік тому

      @@imrank789 thanks bro I will I’m on the path for life only 15 now but I’ll never give up hard times create strong men

    • @yggnggv3519
      @yggnggv3519 Рік тому

      @@aidendoesstuff185 cheers bro u 2

  • @michaelW6
    @michaelW6 Рік тому +6

    ayo, this is like old school Hamza! one of the best videos lately

  • @AntarixOfficial
    @AntarixOfficial Рік тому +67

    As a 24 year old who has been bullied in high school, I can relate to this .

    • @Sergiu-Lz
      @Sergiu-Lz Рік тому +5

      Stay strong brother ✊🏼 you are and will be better than everyone!

  • @matthewneasbey6693
    @matthewneasbey6693 2 місяці тому +3

    He’s right, I hate how everyone tries to say women are smart but my brain rots whenever I get into a fight with one, all emotions no logic

  • @Depressed_until_dead
    @Depressed_until_dead Рік тому +238

    It's not about just women, it's people in general, I'm 20 and I STRONGLY believe my generation is complete shit ... can't find many things in common, our takes are different and the way we see things ... can't have friends at all lmao

    • @stayawayfromthewoke3412
      @stayawayfromthewoke3412 Рік тому +1

      Factsssssss

    • @carysontag131
      @carysontag131 Рік тому +21

      @@zs8796 There is a massive generational divide there. Hamza is 24 IIRC. I am 21. There is something in between those few years that MASSIVELY changed our generation and furthermore something those next three years that MASSIVELY changed zoomers. 20-22 year olds are in a weird state. We arent zoomers but we arent not zoomers. Like Hamzas generation, they didnt really have smart phones and they didnt use the internet, they just texted. Zoomers, they grew up on the internet, not just the nerdy kids but even the preppy kids and the girls, everyone was on instagram and tiktok and facebook. My generation however was in the middle. The internet was sitll up and coming, so a majority of kids didnt use it, only the nerdy kids were into internet culture. Preppier cliques only knew about dumb shit like flappy birds and angry birds and maybe had an instagram. Really weird generational split due to internet culture.

    • @carysontag131
      @carysontag131 Рік тому +18

      yeah like 20-22 year olds are most likely the lonliest generation over the past few decades. Graduated into covid and missed out on our first two years of college life. Completely missed out on our introduction to adulthood.

    • @carysontag131
      @carysontag131 Рік тому

      @@zs8796 Dude pftahaha. Yeah bro kids were using their blackberries to email one another thats totally what I meant. No you fool. Back then the closest thing they had to modern tiktok and instagram that was actually mainstream was MTV and magazines. Blackberries didnt have ask.fm, not instagram not snapchat not any of these apps I am obviously refferring to. When I was a kid and more especially likely when Hamza was in school people didnt start getting social media until they were in higshchool and even then they didnt use it the way kids do now

    • @filtheboss6003
      @filtheboss6003 Рік тому +1

      @@carysontag131 exactly. I am 21 years old and I feel so alone

  • @nikiplayer3002
    @nikiplayer3002 Рік тому +13

    Good idea is for you to add early access to videos for those who've joined the channel membership

  • @ohwell808
    @ohwell808 Рік тому +11

    I don’t hate them, I just down care anymore. The energy and time vs the ROI is not it, rather max myself out first.

  • @monster_gman.
    @monster_gman. 10 місяців тому +8

    well, and people ask why i am obsessed with money? the most fun i ever had was with money, not people.

  • @BattleBroadcasts
    @BattleBroadcasts 4 місяці тому +3

    Thank you this actually helped me a lot.

  • @prabhmeet6842
    @prabhmeet6842 Рік тому +22

    I am 13 years old preparing for a engineering exam working out hitting the gym daily and just because of you and your motivation Hamza i recovered from my video game addiction and am doing something productive

    • @sharwama992
      @sharwama992 Рік тому +14

      You don’t know how lucky you are to have this information early in life

    • @MohammedAhmed-td1ik
      @MohammedAhmed-td1ik Рік тому +1

      @@sharwama992 True

    • @RRues12
      @RRues12 Рік тому +1

      really proud of you, but ur 13 and still growing and if your kinda short dont exercize to much it will affect ur growth, but if ur already pretty tall than keep up the work 😁

  • @Frxnndd7
    @Frxnndd7 Рік тому +156

    I am going to start using every single piece of advice that Hamza has given from now on. I am going to start my own journey and 2023 will be ours, keep grinding boys

    • @lukestroud9630
      @lukestroud9630 Рік тому +11

      Find your own too brother. Not everyones advice works for one another just a basline guide.
      One thing hamza says which is brilliant and should be the focal point of your life is; do stuff when you dont want to/have no energy to. (Example i was falling asleep before i went training but i pushed through and did intense kettlebell session)
      Find your own way too man. Good luck.

    • @maxtheawesome4255
      @maxtheawesome4255 Рік тому +6

      @@lukestroud9630 Keep trying. A lot of these kids don't realise this. All roads lead to Rome, but maybe one way is not meant for you. It's my only issue with Hamza, his marketing makes people stop seeing the other options.

    • @Frxnndd7
      @Frxnndd7 Рік тому +2

      @@lukestroud9630 Ty man

    • @ahkafkhan4512
      @ahkafkhan4512 Рік тому +1

      yes,2023 WILL be ours boys.

    • @16saalkanigga
      @16saalkanigga Рік тому +2

      @@ahkafkhan4512 men*

  • @D3ANO01
    @D3ANO01 Рік тому +9

    Going camping with my fam for the first time since I watched you I doing this to embrace my masculinity hamza I’ll watch your videos when I’m back in 3 days love you

  • @lenntegs2785
    @lenntegs2785 Рік тому +8

    this story explaines the problem so extremely well
    great job Hamza

  • @Cybertech134
    @Cybertech134 Рік тому +29

    Let's not pretend women actually give a shit about the strength of the human race. No, I will not excuse their evil natures just because I understand it. As long as they act like our enemy, I will treat them as such.

    • @v3ryr4re55
      @v3ryr4re55 Рік тому +7

      cringe

    • @GabrielV65
      @GabrielV65 Рік тому +8

      Cringe

    • @qannicc
      @qannicc Рік тому +1

      Cringe as fuck, thinking women are literal Hitler
      Act like your enemy? That shit is internet spoon-fed to you to make women appear as evil creatures who "need to be humbled"
      If you stepped a foot outside and interacted with women you'd realize they're human beings just like you

    • @nene59
      @nene59 Рік тому +4

      bro what XDDDDD

    • @twif90
      @twif90 Рік тому

      Facts dude ignore the white knights they hate it when you don't conform and hate the religion (sex girls relationships) face it it is say the truth about any of it it's like saying the world isn't flat or something against Jesus a few hounded years ago people will jump down your throats simps looking for approval and hoes who don't want people to notice

  • @xaviergarces3125
    @xaviergarces3125 Рік тому +7

    Hamza your litterly the reason I started going to the gym 3-4 times a week. Every time I watch one of your videos it's tough love that I as a man need to hear in order to grow as a desirable man. Thank you for what your doing!

  • @TheREALHugo4
    @TheREALHugo4 Рік тому +54

    Still learning throughout this year. Thanks Hamza.

    • @Dondlo46
      @Dondlo46 Рік тому

      Hey Snake I just revisited MGS1, good to see you here

  • @user-mn6vx3xg1l
    @user-mn6vx3xg1l Рік тому +24

    If this video does not get this man canceled I will be very surprised. Keep going for as long as you can Hamza.

  • @kayay_luv9114
    @kayay_luv9114 Рік тому +13

    i really appreciate you for making this, you're not only changing men lives , but women too. Thank you

  • @ahmadrezaghasemi8152
    @ahmadrezaghasemi8152 Рік тому +13

    I grew up in Iran and I still live here, and in Iran, gender segregation is done very seriously, so that boys and girls schools are separated from the first grade to the end of high school, and men and women meet each other when there is no They have no knowledge of each other because they have not been together since childhood. If you look at the divorce statistics of our country, you will see that the divorce rate is very high, and this is because men and women are separated. In our country, the first time you find about a woman is on a porn site. In my opinion, men and women should not be separated from each other in any way, but I believe that gender knowledge should be included in schools and we should get to know each other from the teenage years.
    Much love for you hamza you helped me to find a better me❤️❤️

  • @danio5577
    @danio5577 Рік тому +21

    this story part from both sides was really good, loved it, you should do this more often

  • @ShawnThings
    @ShawnThings Рік тому +9

    Thanks Hamza

  • @trom_peter1022
    @trom_peter1022 Рік тому +99

    Hey Hamza, I just want to thank you real quick for your videos and your work. You motivated me to work on myself, go on a dopamine detox and finally start a little business. I just made my first sale today and I hope everyone else in this community can become successful and care for their family. Thank you.

  • @Mouadh2001
    @Mouadh2001 Рік тому +7

    Hamza, for me this is the 2nd best video you made after full masculinity guide, literally the type of videos that awakens the primal vulgar gut feelings in men . Keep it up man.

  • @finallyFreeee
    @finallyFreeee Рік тому +45

    The divorce part is my life now.. you perfectly described it... After taxes and retirement savings I pull in about $5k... Ex gets over 2k in wife welfare. I haven't seen my kids in 9 months. That 2k doesn't include children's expenses somehow. Which is why it is wife welfare. And I'm turning 42 tomorrow. Hamza it's like I am the most typical statistic of the broken western system. Don't get married or have kids here men 70% of the time you will lose.

    • @debbiedebdeb4183
      @debbiedebdeb4183 Рік тому +7

      Sorry mate

    • @GabeItch-pu8zq
      @GabeItch-pu8zq Рік тому +4

      damn

    • @icomefromoogaboogaland
      @icomefromoogaboogaland Рік тому

      Do it, end the misery brother

    • @JJ-hu4cm
      @JJ-hu4cm Рік тому

      So you just wanted to leave your ex with what?
      Nothing?

    • @finallyFreeee
      @finallyFreeee Рік тому +10

      @@JJ-hu4cm she keeps her own money she makes I see none of that. Her household income is greater than mine so she left me with worse than nothing. I can't see my kids and I have to live with my mom. So I guess if you think that is fair then more power to you.

  • @helieltonmarcos9399
    @helieltonmarcos9399 Рік тому +94

    ngl during Jeffrey and jessica story segment, I got this sick feeling in my stomic thinking that if I didn't meet Hamza that whould be mine and my future wife's story, thank you Hamza you saved me from suicide at age 40.

    • @kingawesomes4320
      @kingawesomes4320 Рік тому

      if you have shitty genetics this is your fate whether you meet him or not

    • @jrga9358
      @jrga9358 Рік тому +9

      Same here man I literally got so angry I paused every couple of minutes to just do some push-ups.

    • @finallyFreeee
      @finallyFreeee Рік тому +7

      It's my story expect my ex wife was a virgin, my kids are mine and I wasn't exactly a Jeffry. It sucks and men get fucked by the court system but you have to work through the pain and improve your life slowly... Suicide is not an option.

    • @zabiullahMONTAGES
      @zabiullahMONTAGES Рік тому

      Why'd she divorce you?

    • @JJ-hu4cm
      @JJ-hu4cm Рік тому

      The 'hundreds of studies' on women supposedly desiring masculine men during ovulation was actually one study, and it was debunked years ago.

  • @joshbyrne6494
    @joshbyrne6494 Рік тому +32

    I can not be more grateful how releved I feel knowing this. Thank you Hamza.

  • @ut997x3
    @ut997x3 Рік тому +26

    This made me hate them even more

    • @Terrydon
      @Terrydon Рік тому +5

      Fr bro idk what to think anymore

    • @Tasminmiami
      @Tasminmiami Рік тому +5

      @@Terrydon why don’t you just think for yourself? This hamza guy waffles most of the time, you need some individuality. Hating women is mad behaviour

    • @lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198
      @lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198 8 місяців тому +6

      This makes me hate myself and I'm a woman... But at the end of the day a man cannot exist without a female and a female cannot exist with out a male. We are like yin and yang. One pushes one pulls. One enters the other exits. One gives the other receives. The male fertilizers the egg(which when they join they literally become one) the woman haves to grow the fetus and endure the 9 months.... See how if you take male or female out of the simple equation we simply cannot be? Male and female aren't ment to be against each other we complete and complement each other...

    • @bogdankovalenko5096
      @bogdankovalenko5096 7 місяців тому

      @@lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198 women rewarding disgusting behavior. until they are more self aware this world will be going downhill..

    • @NikosM112
      @NikosM112 2 місяці тому

      ​@@lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198 that's pure bs. women only need chad to send the human race's best genes on to the next generations. since all women only want chad.

  • @LDwinter12
    @LDwinter12 12 днів тому

    Thank you teaching me this it definitely helps help me with my interactions with females
    You’re great at you’re job bro👊🏽

  • @Mustylounge
    @Mustylounge Рік тому +147

    You know as a 15 year old I see these videos as a good preparation for adulthood I already have a good image of adulthood although it's around 3-6 years away so I will definitely try to support these types of videos into the algoryth for more teens like me to watch and learn from them

    • @joemorris4558
      @joemorris4558 Рік тому +8

      Man I’m 36 and these videos literally sun up my life and I mean all of it from teen until now.

    • @Mustylounge
      @Mustylounge Рік тому +1

      That's beautiful man

    • @Anto_07
      @Anto_07 Рік тому

      The future is daunting

    • @rocketleagueshorts1961
      @rocketleagueshorts1961 Рік тому

      Lucky you am 19 but I feel its not late

    • @mohamednawar1584
      @mohamednawar1584 Рік тому

      @@rocketleagueshorts1961 it's not

  • @lucasm4056
    @lucasm4056 Рік тому +49

    "He understands women like Jeffrey understands League of legends" 💀💀💀💀💀

  • @mohamedaboda4945
    @mohamedaboda4945 Рік тому +9

    I’m happy to see your channel grows so fast ♥️♥️

    • @mohamedaboda4945
      @mohamedaboda4945 Рік тому

      @@AlphaMaleLifestyleAML F&F say almost the same things why do you think youtube stops their growth😀?

  • @blob4425
    @blob4425 Рік тому +7

    The more I got into this video the more it struck me how fast I have to move. If I don’t do it now while I’m still young I’m never gonna get past this stage in life. I am gonna improve and I wish everyone watching this video the same.

  • @cristianm7097
    @cristianm7097 6 місяців тому +8

    If you don't care about people, you won.

  • @Lowdave
    @Lowdave Рік тому +8

    This is probably my favorite video I've ever watched by you. The conditioning is so true on both ends even though the girl is favored. Now that ive worked on myself for over a year I've started to gain a pretty respectable amount of attraction from girls and up until now I really haven't been giving those girls any sort of respect or credit after what happened with my ex and have been really almost misogynistic which is terrible but it was just after being a jeffrey in so many relationships and getting evil results I had the jeffrey impression that all girls were out to get me. Im going to try to use what I know to do things the right way and fix this because it really is detrimental

  • @Shaheen7ameri
    @Shaheen7ameri Рік тому +14

    My what I used to call “my lady, my queen” has left me for another guy. I failed to give her all my attention so she made her final decision. Now only GOD knows how far I am going to go in life. I will better my life each and every single day. I will have a good heart, I will be happy again. I will show NO fukin mercy! And I will be the 1% man. ☝️

  • @craigfrober316
    @craigfrober316 Рік тому +4

    AF/BB was one of the more difficult concepts to come to terms with within the RP. The anger/hate stage is simply part of the grieving process one must go through with the death of their old perspectives.

  • @ANTI-CONSUMERIST
    @ANTI-CONSUMERIST Рік тому +346

    Hate can only rise up within someone who's scared or angry - Someone who's not in control of his emotions.

    • @ANTI-CONSUMERIST
      @ANTI-CONSUMERIST Рік тому +2

      @@Neaktivni99999 Thanks for the Example!

    • @imFruzzy
      @imFruzzy Рік тому +37

      I think you can hate someone/something without letting that emotion control you. Don't you hate terrorists? Yes? And you don't answer them with terrorism or hate towards all the people from the terrorist's ethnicity or religion? So your hate is under control

    • @wilburwilliams36
      @wilburwilliams36 Рік тому

      That ain’t what he meant bro.

    • @sick_fuck6279
      @sick_fuck6279 Рік тому +2

      Stoicism

    • @carysontag131
      @carysontag131 Рік тому

      Hate is a good thing and we have evolved to feel hate for a very real reason. If it was a pointless emotion: we wouldn't have it in the first place. Now is directing the hate toward women for not wanting to fuck you a good thing? No, because thats not what you ACTUALLY hate, the people you hate are the elite who oppressed you into this position into the first place and own 90% of the american economy. Those are who you hate deep down pill ideology is just proper brainwashing to distract you from the actual conflicts of life and focus on fucking..... College hookup colture.... Like jesus dude. This is not life. Wake up. People hate on andrew tate but atleast he told you to WAKE UP!

  • @DeenDriven444
    @DeenDriven444 Рік тому +2

    I see you've taken off your golden chain, Alhamdulillah!

  • @williamng6441
    @williamng6441 Рік тому +8

    This is prolly the darkest video I’ve watched but it’s prolly the one that resonates with me the most as this is all I’ve been through my childhood and I’m trying to get better now banish demons that have plagued my friends and relatives for quite a while. Thanks Hamza for opening our eyes and waking us up wish I discovered this age 15 instead of 23

    • @JJ-hu4cm
      @JJ-hu4cm Рік тому

      The 'hundreds of studies' on women supposedly desiring masculine men during ovulation was actually one study, and it was debunked years ago.

  • @dandaman9009
    @dandaman9009 Рік тому +4

    I see them for what they are, I’m done, I quit, my rage is to strong, I have committed to the gym, back into martial arts, pump and dump for life, I hate this world I hate women. I’m going to sit back and watch the world burn. I don’t have to do a damn thing or contribute, everyone work on yourself work for yourself and protect yourself.

  • @Biesliek1
    @Biesliek1 Рік тому +8

    Hate is a waste of energy. But I can't accept how women are, unfortunate but no choice but die alone.

  • @MLR020
    @MLR020 Рік тому +398

    I did hate women for a long time. But a few years ago I realized that I was the problem. To all kings out here: Work on yourself and the true feminine woman you want will come.

    • @MLR020
      @MLR020 Рік тому +7

      @@AlphaMaleLifestyleAML my guy. Are you ok?

    • @redbluepills
      @redbluepills Рік тому +3

      @@MLR020 what did he say?

    • @MLR020
      @MLR020 Рік тому +32

      @@redbluepills That it isn't weird because I am ugly. So I said that and he asked for a picture of me hahah. So first he calls me ugly and then he realizes he doesn't know how I look. But I didn't respond after that because this is a channel were we pull each other up not drag each other down.

    • @erickla7796
      @erickla7796 Рік тому +1

      @@MLR020 stop troo

    • @mistert8895
      @mistert8895 Рік тому +16

      Yes, don't chase women, work on yourself and let them chase you, keep up the hard work!

  • @JF-xm6tu
    @JF-xm6tu Рік тому +19

    Gotta be honest I'm tired of women being rude af to me at clubs just cause I'm 5'8. The atrocious reactions I get is pretty damaging. I think I might just quit that stuff and go focus on myself and stop caring about women. I have worked on myself pretty hard, I don't deserve such disrespect.

    • @cocopuffs8646
      @cocopuffs8646 Рік тому +4

      the women at clubs are low quality people, unless you’re gay or asexual or something you lose purpose if you stop caring about women. Me personally, I want to live my life focusing on my goals and in the end get a high quality woman.

    • @Otherwise_1
      @Otherwise_1 Рік тому +1

      use shoe lifts

    • @JF-xm6tu
      @JF-xm6tu Рік тому +1

      @@cocopuffs8646 I'm not gay. But man I'm just sick of the disrespect and being looked at like a rat. I'm not a bad looking guy but fuck just cause I'm average height for a European dude?? I'm just kinda done with them. I asked this chick where she was from and she said Egypt I said that's cool as guess what I am. And she said an idiot. Like bro??? Wtf I do to deserve that

    • @JF-xm6tu
      @JF-xm6tu Рік тому +5

      @@Otherwise_1 do I really need to resort to that? God that is really depressing. What brand and what are they called

    • @Otherwise_1
      @Otherwise_1 Рік тому +1

      @@JF-xm6tu Sorry I can't help with that, I ordered a 3 inch height increasing shoes for myself half a year ago

  • @vivelafrance6314
    @vivelafrance6314 Рік тому +6

    This is one of the most important videos on the platform. Brilliantly organized and delivered in a passionate matter that speaks straight to the heart and rips apart any excuse or doubt.

  • @monkebiznes4908
    @monkebiznes4908 Рік тому +5

    We support u here Brother thanks for everithing 🇭🇺🤝🇵🇰

  • @fastfatanger
    @fastfatanger Рік тому +14

    That part about this happening to the guys who wasted their time with things like video games probably hurt to hear more than anything I've heard for your channel because It's what I needed to hear most. Thank you I'm going to start journaling about the video games I play and I've already decided to stop playing one and focus more on my fitness and homework.

  • @maxtheawesome4255
    @maxtheawesome4255 Рік тому +4

    Actually banger video. I've really disliked your recent videos, but this one was actually worth watching. Useful message, no sidestepping the issue, no chaff and in depth. If only videos like this got uploaded every day

    • @JJ-hu4cm
      @JJ-hu4cm Рік тому

      The 'hundreds of studies' on women supposedly desiring masculine men during ovulation was actually one study, and it was debunked years ago.

    • @maxtheawesome4255
      @maxtheawesome4255 Рік тому

      ​@@JJ-hu4cm Who cares? A single mistake doesn't discount the entire video. So _that_ is not true. Doesn't really change much form the overall video

  • @majimagoro9882
    @majimagoro9882 Рік тому +13

    Sorry man this video only showed me that relationship isn't worth it ( especially with the divorce part ) and I prefer to stay single and happy for life than try and change myself to fit women ridiculous standards instead of my own happiness

    • @orenthabigg5973
      @orenthabigg5973 4 місяці тому

      Honestly man i just see myself jumping into short relationships for a lil companionship experience and sex. I dont see myself seriously committing nowadays

    • @Pieruto
      @Pieruto 4 місяці тому

      Damn right. This guy is a simp pretending to be an alpha male. You can see his low IQ straight through his eyes.

  • @robertsweeney3224
    @robertsweeney3224 Рік тому +1

    Dude, this is difficult to listen to! But I am grateful to hear someone say what has been on my mind for years.
    Thank you for this

  • @nasri04-o5x
    @nasri04-o5x Рік тому +4

    just started my online business
    may god be with me, pray for me brothers ❤👐

  • @jFIKO
    @jFIKO Рік тому +8

    And there are still people who call him a mysoginist

  • @ferb9623
    @ferb9623 Рік тому +5

    This video just made me lose all hope in romance, like, what is love anymore?

  • @snappycenter7863
    @snappycenter7863 Рік тому +9

    I agree with everything you're saying except one thing. It IS also women's fault. Unless they were forced against their will, the women chose to give in to peer pressure and drink/party/sleep around. That 13 year old DID choose to lose her virginity. While there are requirements of us men that we need to step up to, there are also requirements for women that they need to step up to. Since we men have been told we accountable ad nauseum - and also for thing that aren't under our control - I will just say men and women have different requirements and women also need to be held responsible for their choices.

    • @Zeni-th.
      @Zeni-th. Рік тому +1

      King spoke facts

    • @snappycenter7863
      @snappycenter7863 Рік тому

      @@Zeni-th. Hamza spoke facts, he just left a few out.
      Does it really make society, or humanity, stronger if women hook up exclusively with multiple chads/adonis’/tyrones/whoever in their early years - destroying their ability to pair-bond, making women spoilt and ungrateful, fueling the egos of douchebags AND leaving men of good character in the lurch just because they didn't have enough money or muscles for women’s subjective tastes at the time?

    • @Zeni-th.
      @Zeni-th. Рік тому

      @@snappycenter7863 I was talking about you lol

    • @snappycenter7863
      @snappycenter7863 Рік тому

      @@Zeni-th. My mistake lol. Thank you.

  • @gabestash4062
    @gabestash4062 Рік тому +34

    Now our job is to spread the message, emulate the masculine man, and slowly fix the current generation so we can build the next generation with a stronger foundation. I felt no negative emotions when i listened to the truth since i studied about it. Instead, felt determined to repair what was once lost.

    • @JJ-hu4cm
      @JJ-hu4cm Рік тому

      The 'hundreds of studies' on women supposedly desiring masculine men during ovulation was actually one study, and it was debunked years ago.

  • @QwertyGuy010
    @QwertyGuy010 Рік тому +26

    Thank you Hamza for all the work you've put into helping the world
    Edit:thanks for 10 likes

  • @cobragermany468
    @cobragermany468 Рік тому +4

    fuck, this video opened my eyes!

  • @MrHDProd
    @MrHDProd Рік тому +29

    You are literally saving millions of peoples life man and I’m thankful for that ❤️
    You inspired me to go harder and focus on my goals which is making music 🎧
    Hopefully I can make it one day ☝️

  • @Alphalo
    @Alphalo Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much Hamza for this amazing video continue like this.
    We love you

  • @mihalykaposztas8571
    @mihalykaposztas8571 Рік тому +1

    This is the most explanatory and BEST video I EVER SAW. Thank you sensei.

  • @obama3024
    @obama3024 Рік тому +10

    That's why i prefer men

  • @monkeyyy284
    @monkeyyy284 Рік тому +7

    Hi Hamza, I've been watching your videos for a while now and they have really helped me on my journey to improve myself and get on the right path. I would like to offer some feedback and suggest that you consider creating some videos that are less edited and geared towards people who are more advanced in their self improvement journey. I know you might say that your videos aren't made for these people, but I believe that there is still a lot that I, and others like me, can learn from you as a person. Thank you for all the great videos and keep up the great work!

  • @toni8003
    @toni8003 Рік тому +22

    I didn't believe any of those lies. But it's honestly been sad and eye-opening to see everything play out right before my very own eyes. Women say they hate assholes and want nice guys and then they do the exact opposite. My take-away from all this is that I need to get more fit, get my career started, make money and become a ruthless asshole with these women. And lastly, I need to be veeeeery careful, who I eventually commit to. It's a depressing reality we live in, especially if you're more of a relationship type of guy and not a male whore.

    • @moisesseco5997
      @moisesseco5997 Рік тому

      No don’t become an asshole become real and genuine dont confuse it for being an asshole

  • @lucario7327
    @lucario7327 Рік тому +2

    This video hits me like a truck at full speed, but deep inside me I know it's speaks truth. I needed it

  • @nunothedude
    @nunothedude Рік тому +1

    Woaw, this really oppened my eyes what a tougth provoking video jeez..

  • @jakubvita
    @jakubvita Рік тому +3

    This is one of the most impressive and accurate story I’ve ever watched on UA-cam.
    Hamza, bravo grande!

  • @ozodbekboriboyev1010
    @ozodbekboriboyev1010 Рік тому +11

    This is masterpiece, this generation, especially "nice guys" must watch this!

  • @rbj812haz7
    @rbj812haz7 Рік тому +21

    Hamza, I don't think guys who listen to you can comprehend in words how thankful they are to you and your work. Keep doing what you're doing, you do an amazing job 🙏🙏🙏

  • @fl4268
    @fl4268 Рік тому +2

    Bruv this video is perfect. Hamza's storytelling is on another level

  • @hah6360
    @hah6360 Рік тому +1

    this is the best video i seen in a while, gonna send to my jefferey friends

  • @imabrahamdc2464
    @imabrahamdc2464 Рік тому +4

    Hamza, I have been reducing my video game use and exercising more consistently. I put in effort even when sore. Thanks to your videos I can implement that knowledge to become Adonis.

  • @ThePoster-nosyT_hcnerF_http
    @ThePoster-nosyT_hcnerF_http Рік тому +56

    This primal fear in the gut he is talking about is 100% real. It's exactly what I felt when my ex was cheating on me.

    • @alicia.george
      @alicia.george Рік тому +2

      Sorry that happen to you. There’s definitely women who won’t cheat you

    • @ragingsaviorkami9862
      @ragingsaviorkami9862 17 днів тому

      ​​@@alicia.george It happened to me two times in a row. Two relationships.
      I feel like the only time it doesn't happen to guys is on two occasions: when the guy is either very financially and emotionally stable, so she settles down and goes "Ehh, I'm just not gonna cheat, it treats me well", but secretly wants to. And she knows damn well that there's stuff she doesn't do with her husband in bed, but would do for the Chad. Either that, or... she marries a Chad who is financially and emotionally stable, which is a perfect human being - stable, handsome, tall, good genes, etc.

    • @Tasminmiami
      @Tasminmiami 16 днів тому

      @@ragingsaviorkami9862 you’re very much an incel

  • @mixanderfigueroa3999
    @mixanderfigueroa3999 4 місяці тому +1

    Finally, some good, positive, and healthy content. It's both sad and scary how some men automatically lump all women into one category or just assume all women are bad or blame them when it's them that's the problem.
    Also, I keep coming across a bunch of horribly offensive channels that keep posting videos of "entitled" and "woke" women getting "owned" "humbled", B.S. like that but they don't ever post men being "entitled" or getting "humbled" or "owned". I would recommend reporting the following accounts (I keep reporting them but UA-cam literally isn't doing anything about it): Modern Dating, Modern King, Alpha Central, Anti Simp. It's really upsetting and makes me feeling like losing faith and hope in humanity when people have the energy to post this horrible crap that doesn't belong on UA-cam.

  • @christiam1840
    @christiam1840 Рік тому +1

    One of the best Hamza videos I've ever seen. Nice jab to Hamza and Sam.

  • @TheAthleteAcademy
    @TheAthleteAcademy Рік тому +2

    The story telling in this got so deep and gut wrenching

  • @alexandersturm8252
    @alexandersturm8252 Рік тому +24

    The Jessica story is actually very realistic because of human nature (or at least theories to human nature). This theory on human nature is that a woman will find the most supportive and stable man to raise her children with since that gives alot more security which means less stress and less danger for the kids (In this case Jeffrey is the supportive stable man) But will try to get the best genes possible which in modern day society is rarely the stable and supportive nice guy, (best genes the women are looking for are alpha genes for enhanced survival chances) so the woman tries to get in bed with the alpha without the 'beta' finding out that he will be supporting another mans children in fear of loosing this stable support. This is not done consously by women of course these are behaviour patterns they do without knowing. This is why you must be both. Be supportive and stable and also an alpha real man and you shall not fear being used for someone elses children.

    • @Android-ds9ie
      @Android-ds9ie Рік тому +2

      Man who sleep with other man's wife or pathetic dogs always wants to eat someone's leftover food have zero respect for this men

    • @alexandersturm8252
      @alexandersturm8252 Рік тому +7

      @@Android-ds9ie I am not saying you should sleep with other mens wives or girlfriend, I am saying that you should become a man who is desireable to a woman sexually especially in her ovulating phase but also in a supportive income wise way. But what to except from an anonymous account here to post hate.....

    • @JJ-hu4cm
      @JJ-hu4cm Рік тому

      The 'hundreds of studies' on women supposedly desiring masculine men during ovulation was actually one study, and it was debunked years ago.

    • @Android-ds9ie
      @Android-ds9ie Рік тому

      @@JJ-hu4cm jhalar other studies saying all women or other bisexual or lesbians

    • @JJ-hu4cm
      @JJ-hu4cm Рік тому +2

      @@Android-ds9ie What?

  • @cosminandrei9745
    @cosminandrei9745 Рік тому +22

    There will be always someone better than you, so how do feel when you know for a fact that maybe Anastasia will meet someone more intellectual, more muscular, more money ? In a way i think this is a form of motivation (based on what you said recently about the importance of it),but if its not motivation i think this is no longer about SELF improvement but competitiveness with others (for example social media, and not maybe friends which would be a healthier method ).

  • @uncharted4076
    @uncharted4076 Рік тому +1

    Amazing video. Thank you

  • @AhmedAyub-z5z
    @AhmedAyub-z5z Рік тому +2

    Bro this changed my life

    • @corbis7765
      @corbis7765 Рік тому +2

      So just let women cheat because if you better yourself and everyone betters themselves the standards go up and you will still be in the 90% of men

  • @imthelizardking
    @imthelizardking Рік тому +5

    just work on yourself, grind, get a good job, workout, get a nice house and then maybe one day you'll be good enough to get ghosted by a ran-through 5/10.

  • @rezonaysub3023
    @rezonaysub3023 Рік тому +11

    I wonder if he had a grudge with someone called Jeffrey back in the day and decided to use him as an example of the weak men in society

    • @STAIR_WAY14
      @STAIR_WAY14 Рік тому +2

      Maybe but if that happened he would probably tell the story already. Let's hope that didn't happen.

    • @vermilionrose4426
      @vermilionrose4426 Рік тому +2

      Bruh he was a Jeffrey before his self improvement journey💀

    • @STAIR_WAY14
      @STAIR_WAY14 Рік тому

      @@vermilionrose4426 yea. Thx God he changed

  • @harizzy1235
    @harizzy1235 Рік тому +3

    That’s cool and all and I do in fact agree with what was said in the video. However, I feel like in real life people try to shame you for having standards such as chastity, submissiveness,etc when it comes to dating women😐

  • @TaurulVisatorXXX
    @TaurulVisatorXXX Рік тому +132

    Jesus, man. This might just be the single greatest video you've ever made. A lot of people will hate you for it, but you are 100% right.

    • @jrga9358
      @jrga9358 Рік тому +12

      Of course they will hate Hamza. He literally just exposed all the lies we’ve been told about relationships and love. All they’ll just label him as a mysogynist without ever considering the fact that he could be telling the truth

    • @giannisms1861
      @giannisms1861 Рік тому

      @@jrga9358 relationships are just a competency teat just like finances etc in life. You are incompetent you get dumped for another guy. Simple as that. If you view almost everything in life as a competency test then you cant get heartbroken. Also no such thing as unconditional love. Maybe your parents love is as close as it gets to it but even they dont love u unconditionally.

    • @PB22559
      @PB22559 Рік тому +3

      As a 44 yo man with lots of life experience, I like Hamzas content in general but using a more realistic example for his Adonis character would be far more helpful for younger men imho. The last thing we want are young men taking steroids, peptides and TRT in an attempt to try to emulate the 'Adonis' prototype. The irony of the Adonis example is he's a caricature. Even if you're genetically gifted, work out everyday and juice you still won't look like Adonis.
      With regards modern women... The reality is the vast majority of them are leftover and used up. I'm 44 and married a 20 year old virgin last year because I wouldn't accept anything less. We're expecting our first baby this year and we're planning on having many more.
      Stay on the grind young men and never undervalue yourself.

    • @JJ-hu4cm
      @JJ-hu4cm Рік тому

      The 'hundreds of studies' on women supposedly desiring masculine men during ovulation was actually one study, and it was debunked years ago.

    • @JJ-hu4cm
      @JJ-hu4cm Рік тому +1

      @@jrga9358 He ISN'T telling the truth though, this video is full of lies.

  • @artunelcan9958
    @artunelcan9958 Рік тому +1

    I missed your old unfiltred videos

  • @Ianhawaii10
    @Ianhawaii10 Рік тому +4

    Forrest Gump is a great example of why you must be careful...

  • @jamescameron3024
    @jamescameron3024 Рік тому +13

    I agree with this video for a ton of points. HOWEVER, as a man of God, I have come to realize that even though wanting to have a lot of sex may be natural, it is not good. Women wanting to have sex with a lot of men is just a natural temptation from satan, and men wanting to have sex with a lot of women is the same. I understand the point being made, but just because it is a natural instinct for men and women to feel this way, does not make it good. Think about instant gratification, it is natural to pursue instant gratification, however that does not make it good. Well the same goes towards having casual sex, or cheating. Society has diluted our brains into thinking that having sex should be a casual thing, and that you should lose your virginity before marriage, man or woman, but this is simply not the case. We must turn from these lustful, youthful temptations (2 Timothy 2:22) and pursue pleasing God, before we please ourselves or society, FOR IT IS BETTER TO BE A SERVANT TO GOD, THAN A SLAVE TO SIN, and pursuing sex like this, makes you a slave to sin. My brothers only through christ will we be set free "Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks the water I give him will never thirst". I too am tempted by this innate sexual nature, but we must realize that these are mere temptations, and not a guide on how to live life.
    -Stay safe my brothers

    • @notfunny007
      @notfunny007 Рік тому +2

      Brilliantly said. As a Muslim, I couldn't agree more

    • @jamescameron3024
      @jamescameron3024 Рік тому +2

      @@notfunny007 amen my brother

  • @silenttrooper
    @silenttrooper Рік тому +4

    W Hamza

  • @nathanblack2570
    @nathanblack2570 Рік тому +1

    Bro, this hit different

  • @ChetZ23
    @ChetZ23 Рік тому +2

    In the Jessica's POV part of the video, my eyes were literally wide opened and I also shed a tear....
    Poor old Jeffery

  • @glehappletonjr6565
    @glehappletonjr6565 Рік тому +13

    Man, I can literally feel the power radiating as you speak. This is honestly one of the deepest videos you've ever made. You're the man bro.🤯✊

  • @redbaron2398
    @redbaron2398 Рік тому +5

    Bro the life story of Jeffrey is something my brother is buying into and I'm worried. I loved my brother to death but he's your typical Jeffrey who Thinks self-improvement is a waste of time. He wanted a "normal" ambitionless life that society loved so much, a wife, a finance car, a finance house and a 9 to 5. He wanted a stable life in his own word. Since I took the red pill and open my eyes I know this is anything but stable and safe. When I tried to tell my brother and mom about it and even pulled out book evidence and research they called me a weirdo and under bad influence. We even got into a fight. Hamza I don't know if my brother can be...helped anymore. I loved the guy and don't want him to become another statistic in the "man who divorces and has everything taken away from them" and worse of my nightmare, male suicide rate.

    • @bro918
      @bro918 Рік тому

      Does he have a wife or girlfriend tho