The truth about the best version of yourself
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- Опубліковано 14 лип 2024
- Seeing and walking into the best version of yourself are two entirely distinct things that require either imagination or authentic and deliberate action. Why do so many individuals desire this version, and why is it essential? What measures are required, and what does the process actually entail? As we sift through this essential topic, hopefully this conversation will yield numerous answers.
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I’m learning that test will be repeated until passed. I keep getting the exact same lesson because I haven’t passed the test. It’s like I understand what I should do, but because of the trauma, I am terrified to do so. I am finally at a full point of surrender. A part of me is upset with myself for not surrendering earlier and another part of me has grace for myself because of the level of trauma I have endured. Healing isn’t easy but it’s necessary. Thank you for sharing your personal journey.
I love this! So very true! We go through the lesson until learned and it can show up with someone new or a slightly altered circumstance until we learn and surrender
Thank you for this!! I surrender🙌🏽 my tired has become exhausted!!!
I love this
"The test will be repeated until passed." Girl that brought tears to me because it is very true and something I needed to read.
Same ❤
At the age of 60 years I am ready to start my journey 🙏 for your words of wisdom. I have struggled with self doubt all my life and I'm ready to discover who I am and not what people say I am!
I love this ✨❤️
Returning to myself once again and building a deeper relationship with the Creator. ⛅️
Thank you for this video ♥️♥️ I’m only 13, and from a young age i went through a deep depression. I was in the hospital many times due to my mental health and at a point i wanted to give up. But I made a big change and really learned and healed. I started writing, saying affirmations to myself, and giving myself the love that i needed. I really have a mindset of growth that not many my age have. And above all, i’m just glad to be here in this moment and watching this video being truly happy with myself ♥️♥️
I’m so happy for you!!! Keep writing those affirmations and keep loving on your self. This really touched my heart! Keep going sweetie! ❤️❤️❤️
@@SeasonedDialogue thank you 🫶🏾🫶🏾
I was in a similar place when I was around your age and I just want to say that I'm so proud of you and so happy for you and I'm wishing you all the best, you deserve it. 🙂
@@aliendeathrocker thank you so much
I’ve been in my healing journey for almost a year now. I call myself a recovering people pleaser because I made my whole life so much safer for everyone but me. When I finally broke it was through confronting people who had taken advantage of my “niceness” for years. The first time I set a boundary it was an absolute mess, if I could change my anger and my resentment I felt in that moment I would. But that’s also the part about healing - we’re all just out here doing our best with what we know at the time.
Now, looking back I know that next time I need to set a boundary I will do it gracefully and without explaining everything. Losing friends and changing relationship dynamics is what I’m now dealing with.
This video came at the perfect time - because I am aware of all of my negative qualities. I want to overcome those barriers and I didn’t know how. Now I know I need to fill up my cup and speak to myself authentically and with encouragement, not with judgement or shame. Gunna go stare at myself in the mirror for a while lol.
Just love your words. Your voice. Everything. Thank you for doing the hard work and sharing your story to help others 🤍
Setting boundaries was the HARDEST thing I had to do. I was intentional about doing so, but realized people were not expecting that from me and I lost a lot of people during the process because anything different means, "you're acting different'. But what is best for us, may not be best for them....and that is ok...we all will survive it.
I feel you I’ve faded from people I been around with for yrs moreso my friends folks say I changed I surely did I started giving out the same energy they don’t call or text I don’t do so either … when I felt someway I said something and certain people said they was longer my friend that’s cool yes it was odd and I miss certain things I’m sociable yet a loner life goes on no sleep lost 😂
Gurl! Only God lead me to you! 😇Thank you for letting him use You! 🥰 I am on a healing journey and I know my daughter will also benefit from your words!!! Thank you so much for your vulnerability and courage. Love your energy!!! God bless you!💖
Goodness
It feels like the universe is really pushing me to sit down and take a look at myself now and it’s time to unpack the why. Why I can’t form relationships why the self loathing why the sadness. And it’s time to start the journey to work through that. To get to that authentic self
Yessssss time to unpack!
God sent this podcast to me at the right time!❤ Lisa I feel like you put words to everything I’ve been feeling and I couldn’t explain this sudden season of solitude. Thank you!
Many of us are experiencing some of the same things and that is ok! We live and learn! Thank you so much for being here.❤️
Took the words right out my heart ❤ She's speaking from her heart and some of ours... I guess 🤷🏾♀️😁
My new motto " I don't play about me" 👏👏👏
Lisa Marie you have been a godsend. Your podcast is life. I love your perspective and truth that you bring forth. Thank you for sharing. Keep it going.
Thank you so much Melissa!!
Lisa you truly express what I can not at times. Your channel is amazingly authentic. Self esteem is what I’m working on. I’ve learnt to honour myself. Pessimism and negative self talk are still a challenge but it is well. I am light 💫
You can do it! I’m rooting for you!!
I appreciate your vulnerability. I feel like I’m in a similar space, realizing I’ve been broken and I have some things to change in order for my best version to show up. Thank you for showing up and sharing your testimony 💕
You’re so very welcome
✨ I love this. Self love is the fight of your life. It’s hard but so worth it ❤🙌🏾. I came for your healing voice and I appreciate you! ✨
Thank you sis
I really appreciate the idea of bringing in something positive about yourself when journaling, after writing the negative thing/experience.
Something that's been very formative for me along my journey is that I love people. I thought for a long time that I hated people - but it was just fear and a false certainty that everyone was toxic and harmful, and I was literally carrying that energy myself in that fear. It's like my defensive strategy was perpetuating a reality that made connecting and vulnerability impossible.
But I know now that I don't hate people. I still get a sense of fear, but I don't have to carry the associated weight of hate - a do unto others *before they do - kind of mentality.
It's taken a lot of work, and a lot of learning to love myself, and what I love about myself. That sense that "I hate..." comes up, and I give it space, but now I go back and address it - "what was I really feeling and what was happening at the time?" And now it just holds a lot less relevence in me.
Now I know I love people, and I love myself. The journey is rough - and often ugly - but I love that I find my way through it, I learn and grow through it.
It's wild what happens when we learn something about ourselves that seems so simple in theory - but is absolutely life changing, and reality shifting.
Thank you for allowing the space to share on aspects of our journeys; I love how we can all learn from each other and with each other in that way
I too have had a love/hate relationship with people, but I realized that it had everything to do with my personal anxieties and my experiences with people associated with expectations and the outcome. Once I realized that I am in control of the way I enter into relationships, I understood fear should not be present.
Learning about ourselves is very interesting. We learn new things everyday.
I’m 66 and newly retired. It’s a new journey for me and the blessing of more free time has brought me to your channel. I’ll be listening to your prior videos and anxiously awaiting new ones. Thank you for providing me with clarity and encouragement. God bless you.
This was beautiful, I appreciate it. I am on this journey and it’s been a lot of going back and forth within myself that I’m struggling with at the moment.
It will be a lot of pulling for sure....but keep going
You are just what I needed for this phase of my journey. Learning to accept myself as this new being & being okay with leaving people behind who do not align with my new life..& those who just don't understand that I am not who I used to be. Thank you for choosing to be a light to us who need it for the journey. & your voice is so peaceful, I'm working on speaking without stressing myself or speaking too loudly. Listening to you shows me that it's possible. 💛💛 Keep doing what you're doing.
Goodness!!!! Self preservation and honestly within self…. Step by step… you got this!
I needed this! I thought I was healed but I have been lying to myself!
“The change in you will allow people to just walk away and you have to be ok with that.” Truth and Tough but worth the turning the page. 🤍🌿📖
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THISSS I need to practice feeling ok!!
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@@LuvliexXJazzieXxsame
Ma’m your voice is golden ✨🫶🏾❤
Thank you sis
True! That chapter can be closed. When you get there, you simply know. Just don't rush it because, it cannot be rushed. Love you all
I’m in the middle of a healing journey for the past 8 months. The version of me in this season is so far removed from the woman who started the year and I love it here unapologetically. Thank you, this video has affirmed so much for me. Blessings to you.
this found me when i needed it on my healing journey. its not easy but its happening ❤️❤️
Keep going!
Thank you Lisa,
I am somewhere in the middle of healing from losing my mum. A decade down the line, I have learned to have a peaceful quiet relationship with God. To be kind and forgiving to myself. To have non negotiable boundaries. That therapy works and I found a balance between solitude and having healthy relationships.
You’re so welcome
Honor YOURSELF and who YOU are to your authentic self🙌🏽😍🤗
That’s right sis!
I am on the healing journey thank you so much may God continue to richly bless you!!!
Today I felt like I was loosing my self and everything was falling apart. You boosted my spirits and now I feel like I can shine brighter than ever! Thank you ❤
You are so welcome
This episode was beautiful yet challenging. I watched, rewatched and watched again. I recently got real about my healing journey. Your podcast has been so special and helpful for me. Thank you for expressing and sharing your peace.
I'm more thankful that you are here! Your journey will be a mess at times but it will be worth it! I promise!
I'm in the beginning of my healing journey reading, meditation and taking care of me saying no and not feeling guilty.
Thank you Lisa, I’m definitely on a healing journey, and I’m soo happy I came across you, your voice is so soothing, your voice is almost healing itself. Thank you ❤
Conger up self esteem so high, that the part of you that was missing and not fully together stays there and you honor yourself staying there 💋
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I’m here, allowing healing. Love your vibe Sis. Keep it up
This video is finding me now because….nothing before it’s time. You speak truth so eloquently poetic. I can identify with everything in your message…..I believe it’s a healing journey to self love and authenticity. It’s been quite a ride but I wouldn’t do it any other way.
Hard truth about those special relationships that naturally dissipate…..easier to release once we understand it has served it’s time and purpose.
Simply beautiful, true and powerful.
Thank you for your Authenticity ❤
I have just begun my healing journey and this is exactly what I am experiencing. I feel like I’m on the right track. Thank you for the confirmation
Thank you. Very relatable. Healing is a journey. My experience has taught me that each chapter has its own level; sometimes it is never 100% closed but I responded more positively as I accepted me for me.
I AM TRULY BLESSED NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION IS PERIOD MR O'NEAL
I call this journey a beautiful mess lol❤❤❤
SIS, and it can be....I often felt like it was dragging me, only to find out it was the best thing
Every single word articulated and profoundly describes, my journey of three years. I'm still a work in progress but through God's mercy I'm m reaching the best version of myself -while striving to walk authentically and unapologetic through my journey ahead. Your eloquent words compressed there years of challenges, sadness, anger, triumph and blesdings, where I had to dismantled my ego to find me. I passed it on cause I think we should all reach this better version of ourselves. God bless Queen, the soul in me sees the should in you.
This message feels like lotion for my spirit, thank you Lisa🤲🏾❤️
You are so weelcome
The more I do things to show myself I love me (self care) the more I realize how much I don’t like myself. It feels so weird like I shouldn’t be doing it or I don’t deserve it. SMH that sounds so bad but it’s the truth.
It could be something as simple as brushing my teeth twice a day, oil , pulling and all the way down to meditating.
it is indeed a very grueling process
Healing talking to friends family etc... I could see and hear the broken confused conditioned toxic energy. I didn't want or fit in anymore. I am ready to be who I am chosen to be🌿 Asé 💚 Goddess
That’s right!!!
I’ve recently started this journey. I’ll be 40 in August and I’m like Lord all I want to be is who You have created me to be. I have made peace with who remains and who goes. I don’t have to explain or apologize to anyone. I’m not an enigma or an anomaly. 🤷🏽♀️
Your channel, podcast, and message are a thing I really look forward to! I admire the way you carry yourself, I would love to hear more about how you have set boundaries, keep them and how you managed to justify them without feeling guilt, and how you learned to be unbothered by disappointing others. Thank you again for sharing your thoughts on life 🤍
I am on this Healing journey for the first time in my 41 years
finding channels like this make my day. subbed :-)
Thank you for subbing!
Agreed 💯🙋🏾💅🏾🫶🏾
Thank you I love this ❤ I am on a healing journey and I have a came out of a relationship that was toxic but God brought me through it ...Thank you God and thank you for this video 🙏🏾
I am on this healing journey and learning to embody this healing lifestyle. Thank you for your healing words of wisdom 💖
I have been healing and learning to truly just love me …., and pour into myself no matter what.
Yessss
Wow i am so amazed by this i am actually in the begging of this journey i didn't know how to say no to people 😢
Can watch this over and over. Thank you
Love this so much !
EYEM ON IT EXPERIENCE EXPERIENCES EXPERIENCE! IVE LEARNED AND CONTINUE AS WELL, BUT ONE OF THE STAND OUT ENLIGHTENMENTS IS REMEMBERING ITS SAFE TO BE JUST ME AUTHENTICALLY ME
Thank you for always been there for us
I think that i am currently getting into this phase. I really appreciate this video. there are a lot of behaviors that i have noticed about myself. and kinda like a voice in my head telling me to get over my shit because it couldve been worse. and that there are people out there who have gone through worse and are still shining and being great people. I think that I am entering a stage where I no longer want to feel like a victim and more so i just want to learn how love and deal with myself
I love this!!!! So honestly stated!
Think I'm in a similar place as you. I don't want to be a victim anymore either (and I acknowledge that the harm I've experienced was harmful and definitely didn't set me up for success, peace, or authentic love) and I'm currently learning how to better cope. I wish you well as you move through the stages of healing.
You are walking in your purpose because I didn’t even know this ended so soon. You said exactly what my soul needed and in such a concise manner. Peace and love
I’m at the self love part of my healing journey.
Thank you,I'm on it for life 🙏🏽❤️
Gold, thank you so much ❤
I am on this journey now & like you said it's scary & powerful at the same time. Thank you
I’m on my healing journey and I’ve just come out of an very wicked, mean spirited abusive in every way but physically abusive 3yr relationship with a narcissistic man. I’m also dealing with 3 adult abusive children I’m 57 yrs old. I have 5 children the other two adult children, one keeps picking the wrong men and has 3 baby daddy’s now and the current babies father wants her to have more kids when she already has 4 and one of those 4 children I take care of. The other of the two is in tact has her life and her sons life together and gives me no grief.
Thank you sm for the advice. I am currently going though a period of having enough and truly wanting to be the person I have always felt deep in my spirit. Going through a karmic relationship and wanting to break free has been a motivation as well.
So excited I found your channel. I'm in the process of healing and finding out who I AM.
That was absolutely mine expensive and consciousness expensive for me. Lisa Marie, I really appreciate you, thank you.
Beautiful!!! A very natural self love.
I really feel seen and understood by this wholesome and nourishing conversation. You put the healing journey into words so spot on, you make magic with the words. My journey has been filled with loads of aha moments, empathy to thyself and others and mastering the art of mindfulness. A day at a time.
For me it's that part where you say, "replace all the negative energy that has been released with positive/affirming words". LISTEN I AM HEEEEAAAALING!!!! I AM BEAUTIFUL,I AM ENOUGH, I MATTER
Yes indeed!!!!
I needed this on my journey. It puts me into focus in a way that my journaling skills can improve. Usually my words are all over the place and I never run out of things to say. -Thank you.
Thank you once again for getting my day off to a positive start.
I’m at the beginning of a healing journey. This is right on time for me
I can relate to this message.
No thank you,,you are a beautiful light, My journey of healing, Thanks for the good information,!
Your words are like a delightful blanquet of soothing peace and wisdom, once you lay on those words it's impossible to get up and leave. Feels so warm to hear and so cosy too.
I almost couldn’t finish the video 😢 thank you for sharing this 😢
You have popped up on my feed more than once and I always watch the shorts but I decided to finally watch this as I am trying again to heal and become my authentic self and I am truly blessed to have heard these things. Sometimes I just need someone who has been through it and understands it and lets me know I will get through it. Thank you for sharing, I will use some of these as a way to help me along my journey
You’re so welcome!!! Stay a while!
Thank you. Currently looking in that mirror and transforming my vision based on the lessons. Needed this today, I appreciate it so very much. 🙏❤️
Thank you🌸healing🧘🏾♂️🧘🏾♂️🧘🏾♂️🧘🏾♂️
Inspiring. Thank you so much ❤
I appreciate this video, because I am on this healing journey from a verbally abusive marriage and needed these tools.
I really enjoyed this, your raw & uncut openness… ✨Respect✨
Yes going through a healing journey very confused at times. Lost people in the knowing feeling to aware at times and always self reflecting. But love your commentary ❤❤❤❤
Thank you, thank you
U are truly a blessing and life saver! God bless you ❤
absolutely adore this channel! thank you for your words 🩵
Thank you!
I am healed, delivered and set free.Loving and Learning to love a new version of me.
Thank you 🙏
I appreciate your words more than you could ever know this has really resonated with me and it just confirms that the journey that I have chosen is going to be a great one and I know that I am able to get through it and I know that all these ugly things will come, but I’m ready to surpass them.
You always on point… thanks!❤
So welcome
I’m on this journey and I’m learning to really forgive myself and and not let others determine my level of forgiveness for my self
Right on time 💛
Thank you Lisa; it's been incredibly soothing to listen to your voice. You possess such a delightful tone that has the power to comfort anyone enduring a challenging day. I am a newly subscribed listener, solely drawn to your calming voice, sister.
Looking inwards in stead of outwards everything is within
Hmmm I love love listening to you, God blessed you sister for all your beautiful words
Im on this journey becoz I just started listening to you, and I want to be on this journey to heal from a brokem me. I dont even know how to explain. Thank you Lisa😢❤❤❤❤
I'm continuing my healing journey again after realizing how stunted i've been w my current belief system. In some ways I feel I've regressed- like my mind can't stop thinking of past, negative/traumatic experiences when I want to try something new or when I get challenged by something. I'm definitely trying to cultivate self compassion and forgiveness and not feel so disempowered and ashamed everyday.
I acknowledge that i'm really struggling rn but it's videos like this that keep me a little more afloat and grounded- even tho the path of healing is very daunting and sometimes lonely/isolating.
Thanks for sharing your wisdom and healing journey w us.
Thank u so much for this video, & even tho it’s months later it is confirmation. I am in the process of working on myself starting today. Back to doing mirror work & everything to become a better version of me. Thank u again God Bless you Goddess ❤😘
I LOVE THIS!!!❤❤❤ Walk into a path that is authentic to YOU!!!🙌🙌🙌
Yessss!!!!!!!! Thanks friend!!!
Still healing Queen and I utterly enjoyed spending time just listening to you 🙏🏾❤️
Love it❤❤
I needed this video, this moment was beautiful thank you 🙏🏽
So welcome
TEACH powerful, beautiful, amazing sister!!!