How do I let THEM go?

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  • @crystalhoorn5037
    @crystalhoorn5037 Місяць тому +45

    This year, I took it upon myself to let go of all the imaginationships. I'm extending grace towards myself to let go of friendships, which have been empty and void of care and respect for a number of years. I'm in a season of isolation and learning how to walk the road with the Most High. We so easily deny ourselves the grace we extend to others. Know that you are worthy and that you are loved and that you are more beautiful than you could ever know.❤❤❤❤

    • @travinatolbert5905
      @travinatolbert5905 Місяць тому +7

      Imaginationships hit me hard. 😮❤

    • @beth596
      @beth596 Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for your comment ❤

    • @pinnacle99
      @pinnacle99 Місяць тому +1

      I needed this. Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @MonetCherie
    @MonetCherie Місяць тому +122

    Perfect timing

    • @SeasonedDialogue
      @SeasonedDialogue  Місяць тому +4

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @melaninwarriorclub
      @melaninwarriorclub Місяць тому +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤​@@SeasonedDialogue

    • @MissMkhwanazi
      @MissMkhwanazi Місяць тому

      Sis you beat me up to this comment..❤😊

    • @tian7328
      @tian7328 Місяць тому

      Swear to god wth

  • @riverbilly64
    @riverbilly64 Місяць тому +8

    “The art of letting go is recognizing that you love yourself more.” This hits. With people and objects.

  • @memyself4588
    @memyself4588 День тому +1

    "The art of letting go is recognizing that you love yourself more" Lisa Marie

  • @UniqueWizdom
    @UniqueWizdom Місяць тому +17

    Can just start by saying everyone in this chat deserves to be loved lovingly. If there was a greater word, I would use it. Secondly, sister you are a vessel of wisdom, and I thank you for healing words. The confirmation was God sent!! May we all heal lovingly and show ourselves grace. I'm so proud I m finally choosing me. ❤❤❤❤

    • @SeasonedDialogue
      @SeasonedDialogue  Місяць тому +1

      Awwww indeed! We all deserve a beautiful type of love! And I pray each and every person experiences this ❤️

  • @DANNIEONEAL
    @DANNIEONEAL Місяць тому +8

    I AM THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN MY LIFE PERIOD

  • @carolrichardson3764
    @carolrichardson3764 Місяць тому +10

    nothing but confirmation. it took me like almost two years to go ahead and go through with it but when I say God his truly given me peace surpasses understanding and I’m not angry or bitter I’m just excited about getting all of me back and doing what I need to do. Thank You God

  • @racyo8755
    @racyo8755 Місяць тому +9

    You couldn’t have had this content at a better time, I am transitioning from this right now. I have stopped associating from these two “friends “ because I realized in retrospect that they committed the same actions with me for years. I finally accepted that this is how they always moved. I FINALLY chose to remove MYSELF from them and feel very liberated.

  • @Isabella-cx8wf
    @Isabella-cx8wf Місяць тому +6

    The timing of this couldn’t have been any better 💫

  • @stephaniewilson4164
    @stephaniewilson4164 Місяць тому +6

    Once you set boundaries and recognize your worth the decision to let go is easy. The actual process of letting go is a plan because it may take some time depending on your situation with that person. GREAT VIDEO!🦋🦋

  • @ayaaly2866
    @ayaaly2866 Місяць тому +7

    Yesterday was my birthday and i promised myself to let go of every one who I need to let go of from a very long time this is my sign❤I appreciate you so much

    • @SeasonedDialogue
      @SeasonedDialogue  Місяць тому +1

      So happy for you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @nyah-bu1sc
      @nyah-bu1sc Місяць тому +1

      happy late birthday 🎂💐

    • @ayaaly2866
      @ayaaly2866 Місяць тому

      @nyah-bu1sc thank you so sweet of you🩷

  • @goddesswarrioress6123
    @goddesswarrioress6123 Місяць тому +5

    Divine timing The Most High knows. Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @user-gk6nv1cv2z
    @user-gk6nv1cv2z 24 дні тому +2

    I'm a man going through a separation. Your show has really helped me.THANKS

  • @L.A.Denton
    @L.A.Denton Місяць тому +7

    your voice is so soothing 🧘🏽‍♀️🧘🏽‍♀️🧘🏽‍♀️

  • @user-zx4hn4gy6r
    @user-zx4hn4gy6r Місяць тому +4

    This message is PERFECT for me RIGHT NOW.😢😊bitter but sweet.

  • @kabelotloubatla6832
    @kabelotloubatla6832 Місяць тому +5

    I have no words 😢 i needed to hear this God bless you ❤

  • @Sabidreams
    @Sabidreams Місяць тому +6

    Thank you for this beautiful message. I find myself often upset because there are a lot of tings that could have been avoided.. and I wanted it to work out so badly. But I couldnt force that person to become a better person for me. They would dip their toes into healing for us and then run and it made me become so angry with them. Couldnt understand because if they loved me like they said & showed then they would do it for the both of us! 💔 once I realized deep down that they were never going to change, I became an angry person to them and the world. It hurt. Because I would’ve done anything for them and they could not. They knew I would never let go because I am just that loyal, so they kept hurting me until I was forced to let them go.. Felt like they threw me out like trash in the end… I learned never to allow someone to disrespect and discard me like that.

  • @beverleyreid563
    @beverleyreid563 Місяць тому +10

    I do wish I could find my tribe.

  • @AmaniMonique_
    @AmaniMonique_ 27 днів тому +3

    This definitely resonated with me. I can’t change my family but I can change how I deal with them.

  • @lela1291
    @lela1291 Місяць тому +4

    Girl who told you I needed this ? 😢 thank you

    • @SeasonedDialogue
      @SeasonedDialogue  Місяць тому +2

      Baby, I be peepin' in your window ❤️❤️❤️

  • @melontea2148
    @melontea2148 Місяць тому +5

    I'm being ghosted my my childhood friend, this is helpful thankyou ❤

  • @LuvLight44
    @LuvLight44 Місяць тому +3

    You know I can’t lie it feels so good to hurt so bad I’m so comfortable and holding on to them it feels good to dislike them. I can’t lie I really needed to hear this thank you thank you thank you

  • @CamrynBTV
    @CamrynBTV Місяць тому +8

    I wanna sit here and listen to you speak alllll day you have such a SOOTHING voice. I'm quite literally balling my eyes out right now because this hit home. I felt like you really seen me and what I'm currently going through. Feels like a big hug. Thank you so much for making this video.

    • @erickadates9535
      @erickadates9535 Місяць тому

      Me too!

    • @SeasonedDialogue
      @SeasonedDialogue  Місяць тому +1

      awwwww you are so welcome

    • @milliemotlhabinyana2890
      @milliemotlhabinyana2890 Місяць тому +1

      Worst part about this beautiful discovery is that I started watching it at work, and had to fight back the tears❤ Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and gift with us😅

  • @goddesswarrioress6123
    @goddesswarrioress6123 Місяць тому +9

    The person is just not spiritually there but I'm supposed to settle and accept the no substance no depths no nothing just a spiritual heavy weight I'm carrying in all conversations just a mundane connection. Nah it isn't for me. I realized it had been me this whole time carrying everything and I actually fell in love with myself. It was me this whole time I was trying to hold on to.

    • @marquitakillins2785
      @marquitakillins2785 Місяць тому +1

      You are speaking my truth

    • @alexrroberts
      @alexrroberts Місяць тому +1

      This is me. Yes yes yes yes yes WOW

    • @SeasonedDialogue
      @SeasonedDialogue  Місяць тому +2

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 you chose your peace and I’m happy for you ❤️

    • @goddesswarrioress6123
      @goddesswarrioress6123 Місяць тому

      Thank you love ❤ I appreciate you ​@@SeasonedDialogue

    • @jessicat2304
      @jessicat2304 Місяць тому

      Ase

  • @crocheting5087
    @crocheting5087 Місяць тому +4

    Sister you are ALWAYS on time with your message. Tysm!!❤

  • @Patts828
    @Patts828 Місяць тому +3

    This applies to family. Abandonment is a deep wound that takes so much out of your spirit. When they decide that they will not show up to meet you where you are, is rejection in repeat 💔 Oh how I long to have this connection but I must look at this in the reality. It’s about the “When”.

  • @d.mordaunt7730
    @d.mordaunt7730 Місяць тому +2

    I was in a verbally abusive relationship for 5 years can't explain how much I needed this information as a reminder to stay away .THANK YOU ❤

    • @SeasonedDialogue
      @SeasonedDialogue  Місяць тому +1

      Goodness! I’m so glad you found your strength ❤️

  • @kingkhyro7453
    @kingkhyro7453 Місяць тому +4

    Beautifully curated ❤

  • @shaysimon1763
    @shaysimon1763 Місяць тому +3

    You’re voice is so calming and nurturing

  • @LiyahLova
    @LiyahLova Місяць тому +4

    I can’t change the Christians I fellowship with who make me feel drained, I just have to find a new group to fellowship with. This is really hard and painful to leave those I consider my family 😔

    • @flippinginnovations
      @flippinginnovations Місяць тому

      This resonates with me. I am removing myself from my church.

  • @moniqueasbell1926
    @moniqueasbell1926 Місяць тому +4

    EVERY word that you have said resonates with me. I subscribed…… and thank you, thank you for being you and having the courage 🥰🥰🥰

  • @ashleeharding3289
    @ashleeharding3289 Місяць тому +4

    This is so true. Loved every word. New seasons, new opportunities, so people can't go. God is calling us to something greater.🙏

  • @aficharles3224
    @aficharles3224 Місяць тому +2

    I've been struggling with these said feelings after my break up ayear ago from a two year relationship..I'm thankful to Allah that i came across this video..Thank yoi ❤

  • @NeighborhoodMidwife
    @NeighborhoodMidwife Місяць тому +3

    So powerful! I needed this. Your energy and your voice is so healing. Thank you! ❤🙏🏾

  • @joyh2224
    @joyh2224 Місяць тому +3

    This was better than words can express. A True, reality check. I choose to build me up, and focus my energy in my dreams and ideas. I could've been a home owner and a traveler, doing things I like to do; by now. But, I allowed others to talk me down and focus on their goals and ideas; after being yelled at, and belittled. Now that this person was put in jail.

  • @erickadates9535
    @erickadates9535 Місяць тому +4

    I had to listen to this 2 times

  • @chrtyhwrd
    @chrtyhwrd Місяць тому +3

    Thank you for this message was truly timely and needed. I am currently going back and forth about if i should leave or stay. I been in my relationship for 13 years. I would love it if you can do a follow up video on how/steps to take to build self worth, self love, self respect. I am having a hard time understanding what that looks like and how to do it. Thank you again! ✨️🤗🙌🏽

  • @betriceseals7575
    @betriceseals7575 Місяць тому +2

    Clarification once again. Blessed one.

  • @_Renee2
    @_Renee2 Місяць тому +1

    It's been one year and four months. I still grieve but, choosing peace, my children, and myself was the best decision I ever made. Thank you for the confirmation.

  • @OjuOba_shangocita
    @OjuOba_shangocita Місяць тому +3

    Im crying as i listen to you… ive known this for years but havent been able to let go. Thank you for doing this, thank you

  • @YassmineWantsPeace
    @YassmineWantsPeace Місяць тому +2

    I git goosebumps, because its just what I need to hear right now. Thank you and thanks to Allah (God) for sending me this sign.

  • @peachylisa1558
    @peachylisa1558 Місяць тому +4

    All I can say is THANK YOU

  • @NeteruSekhmet9Ether
    @NeteruSekhmet9Ether Місяць тому +2

    Thank you for speaking on this.

  • @theevolvingmindset333
    @theevolvingmindset333 Місяць тому +3

    Lisa Marie, you always come through with a spiritual and message at the divine right time. Thank you for this message and confirmation. "The art of letting go is that you love yourself more and will no longer allow someone to demoralize you and take advantage of you over and over again." YES! Message received. I appreciate you, my sister. 💚💚

  • @krystalwillis7211
    @krystalwillis7211 Місяць тому +3

    Your messages always come through right on time!

  • @Huntress_fx
    @Huntress_fx Місяць тому +2

    I've been wrestling with letting my guy bestie go.....
    Perfect timing, thsnk you
    Now, let me pray through it again 🙏
    God's giving me signs

    • @MercLife100
      @MercLife100 Місяць тому +1

      Im in this same position…needing to let my guy bestie go 😢. It’s so hard

    • @Huntress_fx
      @Huntress_fx Місяць тому +2

      @@MercLife100 sis.... I've been wrestling with this for more than 8 months, so I completely understand, HOWEVER, We just gotta do it the God way.... Submit our all to God and I say this because, if you have been pushed up until that corner where u having thoughts of letting go, then, that's a clear indication that u should let go!

  • @talandaburkstb
    @talandaburkstb Місяць тому +2

    You have been such a great inspiration in my healing journey of my loss of grievance and my pass relationships. I have learn so much about myself just by listening to you. Thank you so much for your kind words you have truly been a blessing 🙌

  • @Popupz
    @Popupz Місяць тому +2

    I really needed to hear this. I asked for a message and stumbled on your video. It's something I already know but you just confirmed it ❤

  • @MARCUSX777
    @MARCUSX777 Місяць тому +2

    She is brilliant.much love 🖤 Queen 👑

  • @neikaw39
    @neikaw39 Місяць тому +2

    You are always right on time with your messages. Thank you for your words! ❤

  • @lilgirl803
    @lilgirl803 Місяць тому +3

    Whew Lord I hear you loud and clear 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Iamcarolgraham
    @Iamcarolgraham Місяць тому +3

    I needed this on this day every word you say thank you 🙏 beautiful appreciate you ❤

  • @tania0070
    @tania0070 Місяць тому +2

    Wow. Thanks. Need more of these.

  • @zerittamobley6350
    @zerittamobley6350 Місяць тому +2

    This was an on time message! I truly believe God sent for me and so many others. Bless your soul for letting Him use you cause you have been a blessing to me tonighttttt.

  • @cheryls4526
    @cheryls4526 Місяць тому +1

    This is a very very insightful talk. I’m not sure if i ask God to reveal this to me. But he did. And now it’s up to me, to do the work, accept the change and know, I’m gonna be alright, without them . One male, one female.

  • @jazzybunny89
    @jazzybunny89 Місяць тому +2

    I felt since I shared a child with this person, there was no way my child wouldn't know their father, but the disrespect was very bad not just to me but our child too. I had so much fear of having a male child who was fatherless and become a stereotype. But with therapy prayer/meditation and tiredness of trying to be accomadating and respectfully share my concerns and being met with some of the most hurtful words.I finally got the courage to go no contact 3 months ago as it was so unhealthy. Sent a prayer and released him with love.

    • @SeasonedDialogue
      @SeasonedDialogue  Місяць тому +2

      This!!!!! I’m glad you honored yourself and your child. This is a testimony!

  • @zenbuldu
    @zenbuldu Місяць тому +2

    You are part of my tribe away from my tribe! No Lie! I hope you understand you make this journey smoother with your intent, your love and the peace that you deliver your messages! I wish you and yours nothing but wealth, peace and security Queen!

  • @teleshahuskey8594
    @teleshahuskey8594 Місяць тому +2

    Spreading your love & knowledge everywhere, I see ❤❤❤

  • @shayshay9186
    @shayshay9186 Місяць тому +1

    UA-cam needs a love button in addition to the like. I needed this today, yesterday, and tomorrow.

  • @lysajackson6302
    @lysajackson6302 Місяць тому +2

    As always your messages are so inspiring and in touch with real lyfe🙏🏽

  • @Taongaa
    @Taongaa Місяць тому +1

    I prayed to God yesterday to emotionally detach me from someone and here you are being an answered prayer❤. Thank you Lisa.
    Someone commented "heavy", and yes, I agree. This is heavy, just heavy...
    "...Focus not on the past but the reality..."😣🙏🏾

  • @nicolajones9031
    @nicolajones9031 Місяць тому +2

    Omg I needed this so much... thank you 😊

  • @beyoncuh_
    @beyoncuh_ Місяць тому +2

    Im so glad you are who you are. 💛 You are so helpful. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @LUVMIKKI
    @LUVMIKKI Місяць тому +2

    This Was So Powerful. So Much Clarity For Me. Thank You

  • @seriouslytho5783
    @seriouslytho5783 Місяць тому +1

    I haven't followed you for long, but I knew the next time you dropped, I would need to hear your message. BINGO 🎯 Thank you 🙏🏾💛✨️

  • @corettabooker4123
    @corettabooker4123 Місяць тому +2

    Thank you for your healing message. You have become my soul therapist through your messages, that always come right on time. May God continue to use you. Stay Blessed sis.

  • @freemanhakeem3151
    @freemanhakeem3151 Місяць тому +2

    You the realest I respect you so much for that

  • @BlankFaceAma
    @BlankFaceAma Місяць тому +1

    I have been struggling with this exact thing lately but it’s about letting go of a job/team. The timing of this is just *chef’s kiss*. Thank you for releasing this into the world, I personally really appreciate it.

  • @ashleyrodriguez5225
    @ashleyrodriguez5225 Місяць тому +1

    This definitely gave me comfort with the decision I decided! ❤ thank you sista!

  • @shadelle93
    @shadelle93 Місяць тому +1

    This couldn't of come at a better time for me, so needed right now. Thank you 🙏🏾💚❤️

  • @916_Onyx
    @916_Onyx Місяць тому +1

    I had to chime back in on the comments…. GURL! I absolutely LOVED THIS! This is Sooo DEEPLY SINCERE! after listening to it again this permeated through my veins like a fix of wisdom. Shoulder Shimmey!!!
    YOU ARE HER❤✨💫☀️👑🔥🔥

  • @nyemanuel
    @nyemanuel Місяць тому +3

    This message - ON TODaY! 😢

  • @Aminah263
    @Aminah263 Місяць тому +2

    I needed to hear this. Thank you for this message ❤

  • @courageoustracian3741
    @courageoustracian3741 Місяць тому +2

    I absolutely love and appreciate this. Thank you

  • @keenahaveyaseena
    @keenahaveyaseena Місяць тому +2

    So grateful for your content!

  • @mistyjayy6420
    @mistyjayy6420 Місяць тому +1

    This could not have come at a better time. I need this in the most tremendous way. ❤

  • @racquelrobinson3030
    @racquelrobinson3030 Місяць тому +2

    Auntie, I needed this and you helped me figure out something so important. Thank you.

  • @916_Onyx
    @916_Onyx Місяць тому +1

    Yes Sis…. teach! You are the beacon light on top of the lighthouse that helps US find our way. Love & Respect❤✨💫☀️👑

  • @LadyLake-ic9dq
    @LadyLake-ic9dq Місяць тому +2

    Thank you❤ you told me all I knew already just needed to hear out loud.

  • @lovealwaysshanah7555
    @lovealwaysshanah7555 Місяць тому +2

    Needed. Thank you. I appreciate you so much.

  • @valeriebillings7248
    @valeriebillings7248 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you! A lot has been on my mind revolving this very message.

    • @SeasonedDialogue
      @SeasonedDialogue  Місяць тому +1

      You are so welcome I pray you receive confirmation.

  • @kiszarwest4096
    @kiszarwest4096 Місяць тому +2

    This hit my heart, I Thank you, I appreciate you so much❣️❣️

  • @Cherrisse-ui3qy
    @Cherrisse-ui3qy Місяць тому +1

    You are so beautiful and thank you for your videos and being such a light in this very dark world! You don’t know how much your videos can change and save a life at any moment!

  • @keda2038
    @keda2038 Місяць тому

    This video came at the point where neither of us know whether to end the engagement or not. I connect with so many things said in this video.

  • @wandafrazier135
    @wandafrazier135 Місяць тому +1

    Powerful Perfect Timing 🖤

  • @SoulSiren01
    @SoulSiren01 Місяць тому +2

    Heavy.... so Heavy 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

  • @SensualCee444
    @SensualCee444 Місяць тому +1

    Perfect timing 💙 I needed to hear this

  • @crystalpool7815
    @crystalpool7815 Місяць тому +1

    Love your channel ❤ Timing is everything! I’m currently in this situation, thank you for this video! You’re such a blessing to a lot of us that watch you!

  • @Wemakemoney51
    @Wemakemoney51 Місяць тому +1

    You spoke from the soul and from experience, thanks so much ❤❤❤

  • @foreverblessed2011
    @foreverblessed2011 Місяць тому +1

    ❤❤❤Keep Striving!!! Your messages are so important… ❤️❤️❤️

  • @reclaimingourthrone
    @reclaimingourthrone Місяць тому

    Found this right after saying I need to let them go... Giving thanks! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @rondab6390
    @rondab6390 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you Queen 💜 Needed to hear this…

  • @teebookwriter
    @teebookwriter Місяць тому +5

    I am in a relationship with a great person, treats me well but he has emotional connections with his daughters' mother and ex's that text on a regular basis..the daughter is 50!! I've never gone through his phone but I feel these attachments are the reason he doesn't want to make a commitment or get married..we have family that live an hour from each other when we vacation and he hasn't invited me to his family's home but he has been to mine..this year i know i need to make a decision. Thank you for any advice that you may give..

  • @brenyelldelk6932
    @brenyelldelk6932 Місяць тому

    Peace and blessings we all needed this, such an honor to hear this. Thank you God

  • @carlettachristian369
    @carlettachristian369 Місяць тому

    This word is necessary for me right now. I’m struggling to let it go! I’m crying God help!

  • @shirleywilliams9242
    @shirleywilliams9242 Місяць тому

    REAL TALK IS WHAT I SO MUCH NEED RIGHT RIGHT NOW THANK YOU💜

  • @warrenbryant1485
    @warrenbryant1485 Місяць тому +1

    So on point sister.Responsible;and loving wisdom.🔆

  • @user-yp6xp1dy6v
    @user-yp6xp1dy6v Місяць тому +2

    Give thanks, for right reasoning ❤ sounds like me.

  • @hectorhinds08
    @hectorhinds08 Місяць тому +5

    Narcissist we have 2 kids, family disrespected, he disrespects me keeps testing me & I understand that Narcissist will never accept that you love them tho they say it because they don't love them selves they belive that no one could love them so I know I have to leave. If I stay he's gonna keep attacking me why? Because when a Narcissist attacks you an empath it always back fires & they do need our energy when it keeps happening they get angry so they keep coming up with ways or every chance they get to do so they take it & it's a complete battlefield.

  • @Nkybaby
    @Nkybaby Місяць тому +2

    Thank you!🎉