When your parent wants you to pursue something you hate [Part 2] | K-DOC
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- Опубліковано 10 чер 2021
- Part 1: • Little Daniel and his ...
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*"support small businesses people"* lmao the editor is doing a great job
The editor is so shady 😂
That was real cute 😆🦭
what is his yt
What's the youtube account of Daniel?
Being caught playing in a computer shop/cafe by a parent/teacher is kinda rite of passage for a lot of asian kids 😂
a classic experience 😌
Lol
I would be dead lol but here parents don’t let their kids go to far away from home
@@-liazahirah-5171 same
@@-liazahirah-5171 I like your pfp
it was so hilarious when his dad was telling Daniel's friends to go home and daniel was walking with them and his dad like ?????? 😂😂
Yea lol
All of the things my parents tried to force me to do, I wish I hadn’t quit piano. If you know how to play the piano it literally opens up access to SO many other skills. When you’re older you just don’t have time esp when you’re providing for a full family.
OMG I’M UR FAN I CAN’T BELIEVE YOU COMMENTED
@@k-doc467 you are fanboyyjng/fangirling?!
Thanks for your advice. I will let my boy to read your comment who wishes to quit his piano after playing for 2 years
My parents sent me to attend a piano lesson for while. But I quit because the teacher is so strict. Every time I made mistakes, she hit my hands. My 7 year old heart couldn’t take it and it left me traumatized. I wished I have the perseverance to learn piano or maybe try to ask changing teacher. I’m envious of people who can play piano.
I know me too I wish I hadn’t quit piano if not I would’ve into entertainment industry now 🥲
I feel sad for Daniel's appa. Daniel is too young to understand his father's struggle. It is not easy being a single father and raising a son who is hitting his puberty. Daniel might be rebellious now , but by the time he realizes his father's sacrifices it would be really late. The one good thing about having an Asian parent is that they keeps worrying about your future more than you. Even when I was Daniel's age I used to get annoyed for every lecture my parents used to give me. But now at 30 I realize how important that were sometimes. I always say that we should not force our wishes on our kids, but seeing at what Daniels Appa is going through , he has no other option. He want to see a good future for Daniel. Korea being a competitive society , it is not easy to get into a good stable job so easily. I hope Daniel becomes a good soccer player and prove his determination to his father.
Agreed.
@Melody Bernard - In an earlier episode Leo explained that he and his wife divorced. She is Korean. That is all he shared and the show did not (and still does not) press for further information on that topic. Personal information affects not just Leo. There is Daniel to consider, and also Leo's ex-wife, who is also, of course, Daniel's mother.
@Melody Bernard u mean his other father?? loo
@Melody Bernard
It’s typical in Korea that when you get divorced one parent take the child(ren) and the other parent basically disappears to start a new life. There really isn’t a concept of raising children between divorced parents.
Reading this made me cry..
Daniel going to be debuting in NCT 2030 😂
i wheezed 😭
@@k-doc467 PFTT
yes please 💀
Is it only me who think Daniel looks like YangYang
Tell me why I'm not surprised by your comment!?😂😂
He’s too young to understand but years from now he’s gonna feel really grateful his dad pushed him to play piano and stuff. Heck I wish my parents forced me to learn like 4 languages, guitar and piano 😂😂😂😭
It's depending on the person ^^ but his dad been to harsh by saying some stuff to an undeveloped kid. I don't see why he need to be an artist or need to learn an instrument if he doesn't like it ,many people give up music if it's forced into them he should let him be more free in his music an allows mistakes so he can appreciate it bit by bit .
aha i know 4 languages but i play only flute and piano
School is tiring enough as it is. Forcing ANYTHING is not good, what are you even saying...
@@sasham6960 I dunno about u but school only got stressful in highschool. I had so much downtime when I was little and I’m seeing the same for little my cousins now. They come home from school and spend an hr of so on homework and 5-6 hrs lounging around watching UA-cam.
sooo true. Back when i was in highschool i was so thankful that my parents didnt force me to take some outside school activities. But now all i can think is how i wish they took me to piano lessons or whatever lesson that is 😂😂
i really don’t like it when parents invalidate their kid’s stress just bc they’re young. telling your child “how are you stressed, you’re only a kid” does not help them at all. not acknowledging whats bothering them can affect how they handle their problems in their later future.
agreed.
If Daniel dropped his UA-cam channel we’d get him to way more than 25 subs in like two seconds 😂
Deadasss
Literally what I’m looking for loll
@SHANOYA GORDON nahhh I’d enjoy it. He has a naturally funny personality
Deadass be scrolling through trynna find his yt😭
@@siynece3335 tell me if you find it 😭
I love the editor and THEY NEED A PAY RISE
I LOVE YOU
@@k-doc467 I LOVE U TOO
We ALL love the editor!!! 🤩
WE STAN THE EDITOR !!
It's like a drama scene that we watched in tv🙆🏻♀️😅
I wanted Daniel and his father to participate in The Return of Superman (fixed as well as the other families)🤧❤️
Sadly they only accept people under 6 years old
@@igotthejams4020 I know that, but they could make an exception just in this case, maybe some special episodes if they couldn't really be permanent. Definitely people would like this
genuinely curious is daniel famous? is his father famous? I'm not sure who they are but I think I recognize daniel
@@kris7833 he was in that teen show
@@sqftxsoob which one
The editor always be having me dead 🤣🤣🤣
i swear it’s all daniel 😂😂😂
@@k-doc467 well you make the video 50 times better, keep up the good work love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@k-doc467 nah you are super dope 2 and I really wanna support Daniel’s yt channel if you cld help me 😩❤️
You can see in his father eyes that he loves seeing him playing soccer.
I wish my parents forced me to play piano. Then I would be so cool now knowing how to play a classic instrument.
Me too me too
This is never late to learn. I mean im sure if ur parents forced u to do smthg u did not like for years u would not love it. What drives you is the want to pursue it, nothing else. So learn now, see ur progress
You can still learn it now. I actually start learning piano when I was 17. It's not that hard for me, learning how to play guitar is harder.
@@mijjjjj1815 i can play guitar, and i want to learn how to play piano, but i find it difficult.
lol same
05:29 I don’t wanna judge his parenting but you should never try and undermine a child when they say they’re stressed because of something you forced him to do, I’m sure the his dad knows what he’s doing but but it feels very invalidating from a child’s perspective when parents say things like “you can’t be stressed”.
Yes, it can be. I was glad to hear Leo say at the end of the video that he would trust Daniel more. I think Leo's father helped Leo adjust his approach with Daniel.
I get you stress but osomthing he doesn’t want so you going to stress about it and but he not even doing good school in school he reminds me of my brother he wants to be a gamer/ boxer but don’t do good in anything else because he so focused on the things he like and stresses out when put up for things to do my father ask him to do extra curriculum classes like maybe do football soccer ROTC but he did none of that and didn’t make the best grades so freshman year my dad just stopped let him be.
@@brandytuggle5374 they get stress but different kind of stress, such as stress for losing a game, social media, not able to following new trends. That are kind of stress which boy like him has.
Except, if he is a smart diligent boy at school then his stress may be related to grade and school stuff.
I agree with his dad, he really need to be forced to learn some skills that useful for his future. Being an artist is one of the example but when you learn a lot of skill in young age, you can be anything in the future. And it's not about learning piano but learn how to be discipline too.
@@jiyuchan17 well I dont agree with you. Forcing your child to do something they dont wanna do may result that they can be rebellious when they grow up. You have to listen to your child too. If they want to play soccer let them be. Sports required to have to SKILLS too to play it. Not just by playing piano that they can develop skills. Theres a lot of stuff. I have those kinds of parents too, forcing me of doing something that I didnt wanna do. For me it's not a good parenting because everyone (especially you if you have children) should listen to their children. Because if you didnt? Just like me, im not comfortable opening up to my parents, even if I have problems, I dont tell them, im more comfortable opening up to my friends or to someone who would listen and understand me. Or to some other people cases they tend to be rebellious in the future or can develop depression, if that happened? They will not tell you anything about it.
every child is different so there's no one size fits all for parenting. for instance, in US maybe there's much opportunities for your kids but in other countries, competition is fiercer that parents do these things in worry of the future of their kids, To you this is just a piano thing but for some asian countries being able to play a piano puts you in another level. One thing I find sad for people judging parents is that they never consider every angle. Yes kids can get stressed but if we don;t push them, how then can they handle stress in the real world when they start working and parents gone? Let's face it, the real world is not considerate of your feelings. Your boss will not console you because you're stressed - no. If we stop forcing them for every stress they make imagine how they'll do when they grow up. Of course there should be limitations and that differs from kid to kid, situation to situation, reasons to reasons so we can't judge parents by our own situation. It's sad that we judge parent by a mere hour-long or minute which actions of both might've been affected by the camera presence.
I hope Daniel’s grandparents are doing ok in Unkraine..
Was just thinking the same. Hope the Ukrainian side of the family is ok.
I grew up forced to play piano when I was younger, it's not always the best thing for a child. Children should do things that they are passsionate on so that they could learn to live life with passion and grow in things they love doing and not forced doing.
Exactly my thought! His clearly stressed about it cus it’s not what he likes. So the father shouldn’t rush things with him about the piano . but his a good dad tho!
@@dprimes9923 yes of course he is a good dad, most parents wants what they think its best for their child. He definitely is trying to do his best especially being a single dad. I imagine that it can't be easy.
My parents forced us to explore many things from music, dance to sports and martial art. But they never forced us to stay. It’s always like one month trial and I felt thank you for that.
Umm Isn’t that child abuse? Have you reported your parents to the police or cps? I hope you’re safe.
@@canadianaviator I don’t think so. They usually asked us to go to the one day free-trial class. If we like the activity, we can stay. After one month, if we still like it, then we can continue the class. Sorry if I put the words wrong, English isn’t my first language.
@@canadianaviator how is that child abuse
@@canadianaviator lol how is that child abuse, their parents are letting them explore new hobbies, gain experience and learn new skills. honestly i think its great parenting since their parents dont force them to continue doing it if they dont want to. you 100% interpreted the comment wrong.
@@canadianaviator wtf how in the world is that child abuse that’s quite the opposite in my opinion, my parents do way worse lollll
Ok people in the comments !!! Music is a form of expression and is best done by people who love it,yes its very cool knowing how to play an instrument but forcing someone to learn it when they have zero passion for it is pointless they will inevitably grow to hate playing that instrument and anyway that's not what art is about
Exactly and it's not even about playing an instrument but the fact his father straight up want him to be an artist . Even the kid said it's stressful for him ,cause he know he doesn't play for himself but cause his father want him to play and have high expectations . I don't think it's enjoyable to be constantly on pressure when you do something you don't appreciate the kid need to love the music he play , and he need to be more free with it leaving him experiment is the best way to give him and interest. But when your kid say it's stressful for him I don't think it's a good choice to still push him
I thought the same 😅
Uhuh, this
THIS!!!
Exactly
The oh no no no song right when Daniel got busted is so perfect 😂 sorry Daniel for laughing. It reminds me of when I got caught by my mom and my daughter got caught by me 😂😂😂😂
Daniel’s face looked so Korean at the thumbnail that I didn’t recognize him. I recognized the dad and then realized it must be Part 2! About playing the piano, I think when he grows up, he will appreciate that his Dad forced him to play. I quit piano when I was young and now look with envy when someone plays the piano well. Also, I loved the fact that it wasn’t edited out that Daniel’s Dad fell and focused on how Daniel was laughing out loud. Funny!
He’s not half?
@@artemissaerom9278 He’s half Korean. His Mom’s Korean. I just made the comment because he normally doesn’t look Korean, but in that thumbnail, he didn’t look half European/European but pure Korean.
@@riaconradt2554 who is the mum ? who is the dad ? he looks familar
@@meowishkat The dad is in the video. The mom is never introduced. Daniel was in another series with other multi-cultural kids. You might have seen him there.
@@riaconradt2554 but he does look obviously mixed Korean.
I understand the dad want the best for him, but he should listen to Daniel and his wants too. He doesn’t want to play piano but his doing it anyways cus his dad wants him to. He shouldn’t rush him at the Pace of which he learns the piano.
As a person who is been at his place constantly been forced to persue something not by my parents but some other ppl ik what Daniel feels but every one has its own life
Ik Daniel father is worried about him but Daniel has its own big dream to achieve
Daniel fighting you can do it
What I want to hear from is someone that was in YOUR shoes but also has their own kids now and how they approach this.. Too much of it is don't force them to do what they want to achieve.. But parents are there to help shape their children because they understand and can observe what they are lacking.. I took music lessons which I also didn't like.. but at the end even now I realize it helped 1) build confidence when presenting/preforming in front of an audience 2) builds patience and attentiveness because you are required to sit there and practice and focus... However, I do believe there are some parents which are just ridiculous.. ie. they hope their kid becomes a music superstar... in that situation.. they clearly don't know the limits of their children.. however.. Kids need to be pushed to their boundaries.. its a give and take.. gotta know when they are overwhelmed and how far you can be pushed so they can be successful and independent in the future.. otherwise you have kids just end up just wanting to watch tv all the time...
@@Mellowyellow8888 💜😊
@@Mellowyellow8888 True but a kid can be pushed to develop these skills by other means, it generally have to be revolved around music or a forced activity
I'm kind of addicted to all the "Camping kids" stories and life. I hope KBS keep inviting them and updating us with their progress 💖
His father voice came out and i was like is that an effect?
Daniel’s relationship with his father makes me shed a tear😭 in a good way
This kid is good at literally everything...
Daniel: give a massage
me: I can relate XD
It’s literally just one thing that he wants him to learn, and he was already failing school so I understand his dads frustration. He isn’t asking him to do much 💀
Ok but what's the point? he hates it and since he's failing he can use that time studying instead of the piano
@@blupeppers6437 you not wrong
@@blupeppers6437 uh he already has lots of time but he spends it on gaming and his UA-cam apparently. If he would have followed what his father had told him. He wouldn’t have to stress out about whether or not having time to study. He’s making it more stressful all on his own not because he’s practicing piano.
@@hobi.-. It’s called hanging out with friends. He’s also clearly an active kid that needs to be moving his body. Soccer isn’t a frivolous thing, it’s a lot of hard work, especially if he wants to be a pro. Like learning the piano, becoming pro at a sport takes a lot of time and effort. That should be the thing his dad makes him focus on if his dad wants him to focus on an extracurricular. But I do understand your point about the time management. He’s a kid tho, he just has to learn.
@@emj602 Yeah being social and active in a sport he loves is great for a kid psychological development and UA-cam is a legit avenue to pursue in entertainment these days, I mean you're watching this on UA-cam. His dad could hire a math tutor instead of piano lessons at least nagging him about that would make more sense
This guy is legit. He gets alot of criticism and takes it in stride. I offer no criticism, he is number one parent.
I reall admire his father, a very responsible and hard-working one. I just wish they will have a long years to live with together and be successful in the future.
The whole team works so hard thank you
Daniel we all love you
Daniel I understand that it's hard for you to study,play soccer and learn piano all at the same time but your father is trying to give you different experiences so that if one thing doesn't work out as planned in your future you still have other options to try. Not everyone gets the opportunity to try so many things in life. I hope Daniel father also will understand the stress he must be in and talk it out slowly for him. He is a good kid who is doing things for your happiness,Daniel Appa. Much love to you both
It’s very similar when I was his age (the kid). My dad would always take me to piano
lesson almost everyday on Friday and weekends for about 6 hours. Both of my parents wanted me become a doctor, lawyer, or engineer. Not every parents want their kids to be perfect in. It’s about letting kids decide what they want to be and being happy at what they good at.
OMG!! This is AWESOME!! Leo is a terrific father to Daniel. So much respect for him. Editor-nim, this is yet ANOTHER fine piece of work. You all deserve a raise!! Thank you all so much for this lovely video. 😍🙂🥰
I couldn’t have said it any better.👍
your life your choice. Believe in urself, sometimes hard things ur forced to do, aren’t worth sticking to. Sometimes u have to let others down. Dreams are worth a lot.
I think it is cool how the father wants Daniel to learn how to play piano but I think it is better to let the child learn or try what they wanted to do that will also bring benefit to their life in the future. Fighting, Daniel and his father!
His father is right. Good grades are far more important than anything. The chances of Daniel becoming a star soccer player or musician are slim, but he should do what he enjoys without sacrificing his grades.
Oh his dad is Ukrainian and daniels grandpa is in Ukraine rn I hope they’re doing well🙁🙁
His dad's voice is so high.
Good editing .his dad love him so much that he can't even smack him😅.nothing Daniel, but we love him and his dad.
I know his dad has good intent and they want what's best for their children, but forcing something you want to your child is a big no no they will grow up hating on that stuff, but again they are learning from each other and hopefully will grow together wiser.
Not changing even a bit for the world... That's what I took from this episode... Thank you Leo sir ❤❤❤
I understand Daniel about not wanting to do it but i understand what the Father's concern are too but i think the father should support Daniel too in his Dream
Edit : im glad he trust him
I‘m saying that in a respectful way: the father gives me fruity vibes 🥰🥰
I think im in love with the editor..... humor is at a peak lol 😆💗
I always look forward to watching new episodes every week. Thank you for creating content. This really fun and educational at the same time. Fighting KDOC! And I liiiiiike your song choice in this episode. Hehehe My carat heart is fluttered.
Everyone saying, “oh he’s gonna regret not learning piano” how many piano hating, kids become concert pianists? And how much money does that really make?” I think we’ve all seen how letting kids do what they’re actually passionate about is better in the long run. Shoot, that kid who reviews toys on UA-cam is a multimillionaire.
This kid could get scholarships and who knows, go pro!” He’s a good kid who just wants to be active. That says a LOT. Many kids just want to play video games all day. Let the kid do what he’s passionate about and he’ll shine brighter than anything. He looks like a damn soccer kid!!
I didn't go out with my friends to skip classes cause I had no friend to go out with, but I used to throw tantrums, now I feel blessed to have completed my music lessons.
I swear every child should be grateful if you have a parents like this. As for me, I grew up doing things without the care of my parents. No piano lessons, no sports, etc so today i don't have any talents to share with my friends and sadly made me feel insecure.
just cuz ur parents neglected u doesn’t mean kids who are forced to do things they dont want to do/pursue have a better life than u
@@m9kigf LMAOOO so because she never engaged in extracurricular activities she was neglected? Yea that’s not how it works.
@@ZzzZ-sb9ju she's not wrong tho, forcing kids to do shit they don't like Isn't good
I understand how he feels tbh. My family really wants me to focus on my art skills so that I can perhaps get a scholarship for college. I really used to love art so much but I started to despise it because I felt like that's all my parents thought I was capable of. I could even throw away my art projects and never show them hoping they'd just forget. But I really want to focus on improving my singing skills like when I was younger. I did so many things as a kid soccer, karate,cheer, singing, piano, volleyball, ice skating. But none of them make me feel the way singing does and it took me long to realize that but it's my passion so I hope one day my parents will understand as well. My father is glad I am going out and trying for my dreams but I know deep down they want me to do their wishes. It's normal for your parents to want success for you especially if they come from poor background. It's something many teenagers have/are going through. Especially when you have a big dream like becoming famous or going a national soccer team. They are all dreams but you have to come back to reality and have a plan-b I think his son will mature soon enough to understand that, just not now.
For me, since I was young, I don't have a dream & goals like the others. But it's really okay for me. Because even though I don't have my future goals, I can still doing the things that I want to do in my life. Now I am doing the youtube channel. I am still a learner so it's gonna be a long way to go. Whenever I think about that , that makes me sad but at the same time, it's makes me happy cuz it's one of the thing that I want to do in my life. So I wanna give some encouragement words to those who still don't have future goals just like me, It's okay not to have a dream. It doesn't matter. You may have so many things that you want to do, Right ? So among them, just choose one & start give it a try for that ❤❤❤
i hope i have a parents like this,ur lucky daniel protect them at all cost
I was too playing piano at a young age, I wished I would have not rebelled and continued, cuz piano is such a amazing skill that opens up a door for other skills that might be useful later
what a supportive father
I always wanted to play piano as a child even now just my mom couldnt afford to pay the lessons . Daniel will one day reap the benefits of being able to play piano
i wish i was expressive with my feelings like daniel, i have been taking a course that my parents want me to pursue...
If you’re really unhappy, you need to tell them. But you have to be able to present an alternative to what they’re making you take. Try to convince them why you want something else and why it’s better that you take that. If they’re really closed-minded about it, you’ll have to make a decision - to be an obedient child but unhappy/unsatisfied or pursuing your passion but possibly losing your parents’ support. If there’s any way to pursuing your passion while taking the course that your parents want for you, that’s would also be an alternative. Maybe taking an elective to see if it really is a good fit for you. And if you do well in that elective, maybe that could be an argument for taking your preferred course. Anyway, wishing you the best. Hope you fulfill your dream.
I told my parents and they literally cried LMAO 💀but now for my post graduate degree I get to choose wat I wanna know
same💀 it has been 2yrs
@@jo5206 just become famous and never ever talk to them again, that's what i'm planning to do like after doubting me for years and bellitling me well look at me now????
Bighit about to take this kid under their wings because he plays piano has potential
Omg shut the fuck uuuuuuupppp y’all sound so damn immature like « hE cUn gU tU biGhUt beCauSe hE waLkS wiTh tWo lEGz » SHUT UUUUUP
@@lolita960 why are you so annoyed? It’s a light hearted joke. If you don’t like it then scroll. Anyways, Daniel has the looks to be an idol and the height for it too. Many stars from big hit only had looks and now they’re striving due to training. Nonetheless, Daniel doesn’t like music so ig he would deny the chance anyways.
I was eagerly waiting for part
2 thank you so much 😭❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏
awww my pleasure 😭💕❣️
Finally part 2🙌!
*support small businesses people* lmaoooo i love you editor
Love the edit 👍🏽😊.
When I was younger I wanted to learn a lot of things but is always too lazy/can't afford/don't have the transportation to the school and all... look it is true that being that young, it is the BEST time to learn everything because you really don't have time and energy to do all that when you're older. But it is also very important to communicate this to children in the right way. A lot of parents just force them into different classes without heeding what they actually want/are good at.
I would love to say I loveeee the older man’s style!
It's hard to be a parent. You want your child to be happy but your aware that there's a reality
"중소 기업 지원" lol 정말 훌륭한 편집자
I wish he didn't quit his piano lessons, it'd be so useful in the future
I love this channel so much. Editor is superior. 💅🏻 ALSOOOO I need to see this UA-cam channel Daniel is speaking of. 👀
same 👀
Ikr I sure it would get many subs if they tell the name 👀
The Father is right try everything n give 100 percent to it.. one day he will be grateful to the father
i’m glad i know how to play piano, but if my child doesn’t want to be pushed into something they don’t want to do, i won’t force them. i don’t want them to go through the pain of being forced to do something that you hate and your feelings being invalidated
It seems like it's hard being a parent; they want their children to pursue their passion and follow their dreams but at the same time, they don't want the little things to end up homeless 😂. Especially those from the older generation, many of whom know what it's like to go hungry from not being able to feed yourself or worry about if the family is going to be living on the streets. You'd never wish that type of suffering on anyone else, especially those you love. I think open communication is critical for parents and children; encourage the child to have stability (maybe by picking up a skill trade so they will ALWAYS have options for a job - hard to find a place that doesn't need something like construction/electrical/wood/etc. work) but also pursue a passion (which can lead to everything from life satisfaction to alternative marketable skills).
Editor you are amazing 💕💕💕💕💕💕 I love this because of you
PLS- i love the editor so much
My asian parents also forced me to learn the piano and honestly even though i hated it, it opened so many doors, helped me in school and university
How did it open doors for you? I’m curious.
Yes how did it help u in school and university?I play the piano too so I want to know
you still should not force your kids to do something they hate tho
if u force ur kid to do something they don’t like, time n money r wasted for both parent n kid.
I wish my parents was like him
I wanna learn to play piano but we were very poor. I Was already working and helping my family at the same time going to school. This kid are lucky they dont need to worry how they gonna have food
Never a good idea to force your kid to do something they don't enjoy even if they are good at it, my father put so much pressure on one of my older brothers because he was.a good hockey player and soccer player and even though he was a star player at both he lost his enjoyment of it because of the pressure our dad put on him and it caused anxiety issues and he eventually rebelled and turned to drugs and alcohol.
I love this editor 😭
I can relate to Daniel cause I love soccer but my parents want me to become a doctor and they said the lowest I can become is a vet and I am fine with that but I am in love with soccer. You know when you get that amazing feel once you kick the ball but when you make a goal it’s like a bonus because you get praise for doing something you love. My favorite days are when you go on the field and the turf is wet but you play with your team anyways and slip and fall on the ground. It hurts a lot but I would do anything to play with my team and with the ball.
I understand how you feel. I was in the same shoes as you. Mine was arts and not soccer. I'm now in my final year in med school. It's not been easy but it's been worth it especially in a country like mine. I plan to explore once I'm done. I didn't have a lot of knowledge then and I was so afraid in telling my parents and I wasn't sure of what I wanted to do so I just went along that at least having a medical degree would always be useful. So if it's soccer you really want,go for it so as not to leave a lifetime of regret cos your parents would soon go and you cannot afford to keep blaming them. I'm glad I'll soon be a doctor, it's a great achievement for me. I plan to also find out more of life as I go ahead. The past is gone,the future is now. Good luck in sorting out your life and it's OK if you don't know what to do,you have your whole life ahead of you,don't feel pressured . Take care
That kid is gonna thank his dad later in life when he impresses the girls with his piano skills.Girls loveeeeee musicians
He is gonna be 5th generation K-pop Idol 🙂
This editor is literally doing the best job 2:01
There are people you just don’t really worry about when it comes to their future. It’ll all unravel when it’s time. Because Daniel and his father seems rather loving and so positive, there really isn’t any reason to doubt he’ll have anything but a bright future. Plus the kid is really good looking. That helps in a society like Korea. Tremennnnnnndously. Opportunities just comes to you. That is why plastic surgery is so prevalent in Korea. It’s unfair but he has a natural advantage. Any advantage in Korea will result in opportunities.
My favorite part is the ✨⚡oh no part ⚡✨
HAHAHA
Good job editor😉
The title reeled me in, talk about relatability🤧😂
He's a really great dad.
I totally understand his dad on this one . U should learn everything when you're young once u get older u will be busy working and also physically as well as mentally it will be really hard to catch up. And I'm sure Daniel will be really thankful to his dad when he gets older
I disagree the kid doesn't like it and he said it's stressful for him. There is no point in learning many things you have no interest in.
@@hfon3317 exactly
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I remember when I told my father that art classes were too stressful for me, or extra classes after school were draining me, he used to say the same exact words. "You're a kid, you don't know what real stress is."
Till this date I have issues sharing problems with people, I assume they'll invalidate them.
I understand that Daniel's dad means the best, but this way of neglecting your child in clear stress is just pushing them away from you. I distanced myself from my father for my own better health, I hope Daniel doesn't have to.
Hope they have a happy life forever
mann , this just hit me hard ....my parents wanted me to be a high civil servant like IPS/IAS since i was in 5th grade as my older brother was kinda good in studies and is preparing for civil service and i was really interested in different things before , from being wanting to become a dj , a footballer and then i came across a tv channel named FOX LIFE , and there i saw a chef show , ever since then i wanted to become a chef(Since 6TH grade) , i didn't know that i would like it so much that now i have almost graduated from highschool(20/21 batch) , i would still want to pursue in culinary rather than going to a college , my grades were never good and i didn't give a shit bout it too, didn't study for exams and stuff but when it comes to cooking and be it cutting onions , i was really interested in it.....my parents kinda trust me and i hope that i can pursue in culinary..thanks !!!!
Like the editinggg
Daniel's grandfather lives in Ukraine, I hope he and other Ukrainians are doing fine :(((
After watching this I miss my father he never forced for anything I miss him ,but I always regret I should have forced god to let him live with me I miss him everyday , every second but I can't tell anyone whom I know this .I love you pa
I'm 30 and I wish I had continued to learn Piano 😭
It's such a great skill to have.
Notice how he kept looking at his dad when playing soccer? All your kids want is for their parents to be proud of them, I swear.
isn’t this the boy from that show with mixed kids? he liked that one girl but she saw him only as a kid lol in a few years or so she’ll probably change her mind. you can just tell he’s gonna be handsome AND his personality is goofy, a great combination.
whats the name of the show?
@@tsuyuasui7297 ua-cam.com/video/a75sg6qx96s/v-deo.html i just realized it’s from the same channel
Does daniel or his dad does insta??
Him saying he can take care of things himself now after literally just having missed piano class to meet friends had my chuckling ngl
I feel for this dad. He seems lonely & isolated
I wish I had parents who let me do such things such as learn to play the piano, which is my childhood and is still till now my dream instrument, play soccer, which is my favourite sport, and get the freedom to explore the world not only through books 24/7, but to actually live the real life and experience it in it’s physical shape. But, people in the comments need to also realize that it is not okay to force one into doing things they don’t like as that will only destroy them both mentally and physically. Daniel’s dad is just like my parents, he always wants to be seen as a strong figure that is scary and can’t be approached. Parents think they are doing us a favour by acting in such a way, little do they know that it’s only making us depise and hate them so much. Why is it wrong to befriend your kid, in fact if you were to be friends with your kids, you’ll be better able to control them and they will listen to you very obediently, they’ll love you, trust you, and see you as a strong and reliable person. Parents, if you truly “care” about your kids and their future, why not work with them to build a great future where both sides are happy and satisfied with the end result? Also, EVERYONE, gets stressed, anxious, and could be depressed, so parents, stop acting like children can’t experience such episodes in life because it’s not just grown ups that have emotions!
It's never too late to learn piano ^^
everyone is saying that daniel should be more grateful but forcing your kid to do something they dont want to when they told u they didnt want to do it and instead wanted to pursue a different path then saying that what they’re doing isnt good enough is horrible🤦🏽♀️and not letting them play with their friends after they told u that the standards that you’re putting on them stressed them out is just not ok, your kids are young they need to do kid things not be so stressed about things because if they spend 90% of their childhood stressed about stuff imagine how its gonna be when they’re older, nonstop stress. but i like how he started to understand daniel when it came to the fact that he didn’t want to do piano and instead wanted to play soccer because it was something he genuinely enjoyed and cheered him on that was cute and lowkey made me shed a tear.