Entitled Mother STEALS MY BIRTHDAY and makes it HER DAY Instead - Reddit Podcast
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0:00 My Entitled Mother steals my BIRTHDAY and makes it her personal girls night out! (u/SoCalCourtney)
4:03 My barber of almost 4 years cut me off as a client out of nowhere, but then begs me to come back when his business starts to fail. (u/anonpotato76965)
7:54 My mother is dumping her emotional baggage on me and I feel guilty for setting boundaries with her, and I don’t know what to do. (u/SarahGranger1997)
11:50 My neighbors used our trash can against our consent, causing black bears to come in and spew trash all over their yard. (u/Shibaspots)
15:33 My chosen sister demanded that I pay her husband $10,000 for staying with them for 2 months, and I don’t know what to do. (u/Ok_Satisfaction_3828)
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Hair cut guy : I don't blame you for feeling hurt either. As a worker who is able to collect tips for services, you've done nothing wrong. This barber should lose you as a customer to teach him a lesson. Don't go back to this guy. Any of my customers that tip, I REMEMBER. I take very good care of them as well. Knowing they tip well. This barber did bad business with a good customer.
Yeah that’s bad because gay or straight, a dude’s barber is usually one of your closer associates traditionally and typically can talk about most things with them and shoot the shit.
1st story that's really sad that you couldn't enjoy your birthday because she's a drunk and thinks she's a teenager. She needs to grow up and realize that she is not a teenager but a grown woman. And I'm glad you got away from her and her toxic behavior 2nd story is just crazy it's hard to find someone who can do hair right and what he did was just wrong on so many levels and you tipped way generous. But they're more barbers out there who would be happy with you and the tips you leave. 3 I'd send mom for you being her therapist for the past 7 years. The last one husband is a jerk and I think she's in on the scam. He just wants you to put the money down for his business. Run away from her block her
who's her, but i get that the husband is a jerk, but who are you talking about the friend or the husband.
@@viviennemorgan7217 the father for being a petty person who doesn't understand how tipping works
Last story: You are being used, friend, check the rules in your country to see if there's any way for them to force you to pay, if there's a shred of common sense then you can tell them to f off, you are not their cash cow.
“$28 is too much for a haircut!”
Me looking at the average $150-$300 haircut for women
A $150-$300 dollar women's "haircut" is a lot more than just a haircut. Get rid of all the bells and whistles then compare prices.
I've never paid that much for a haircut as a woman. I also don't do dyes, highlights, extensions, or anything fancy either
I have never in my life paid more than $40 for a haircut as a woman. Where the hell do you cut your hair?
I pay 20 bucks as a woman. A simple haircut doesn't cost much than that.
Barber: What? A one hundred percent tip and he ghosts your calls over a date you didn't want (which seems fairly clear)? There's no need to go back and no need to feel bad about that. I wouldn't mind if my stylist tried to set me up, but they'd better be prepared to take no for an answer (I'm married, I just don't wear the ring half the time).
The story about the mother is something I really relate to, my other half does this constantly, venting, talking about everyone and everything, the way I learned to deal with it, is the look, it's sort of an uncomfortable smile which she then realises, she's oversharing and needs to calm down, it works for the most part and we're very happy
I totally agree with with this redditor said she made it all about her when it's supposed to be all about you she wasn't there for you she just basically dumped you like a lost infant so she could have a good time on on your day
It was only in her favour that isn’t even a slight birthday
I can relate to story #2. It's mentally draining...
As a black man, I can understand why the 2nd OP was hurt about his barber ghosting him
Sounds pretty horrible. You are right to have no contact. I waited way too long to do that myself. Not my mom though. My kids! That’s a story!
My birthday is actually tomorrow and I feel bad for people who has had this happen to them before and I hope i never have to deal with something like this ever in my life.
That loyal haircut guy threw his best customer under the 🚌.
I didn’t even realise this was posted five minutes ago lol 😂
I love this channel great story's
Great video keep the good work
Have a good day! And keep up the good work!
I love as he's reading the stories, he's playing what seems to be a rip off of Mario kart.
3rd post, mom is super abusive and gaslighting her child. OP needs to set those boundaries or go no contact.
Last story: it's most likely not him who is asking that money, but actually this so called "sister" is the one who wants money. I would guess that he doesn't even know about the matter. Maybe she have had this bright idea that op would give her money, maybe they are over and she need money or maybe she just want to take advantage of her. But what ever is the case she doesn't owe them anything. People around the world help their friends all the time and none of them ask rent afterwards, it's not what friends do.
What about those "weird jokes" the husband was saying?
@@humanbeing3551 probably just that a joke and the “friend” flicked the light switch
I feel like the chosen sister is more towards the innocent side of the scale, at least IMO. It sounds more like she is begrudging about the fact and is only doing it for her husband.
@@schizophrenicmelancholy2706 The fact that she didn't say to her husband that if she wants money from op, then he can get it from her by him self, that tells us that she is not innocent. Two moths and 10 000 dollars, is that a friend? is that a sister? or is that just someone who wants to take advantage of op. She should cut all contact to these people, they are not her friends.
@@Tontteman Maybe since they are sisters, she wanted to be the one to break the news? Like I said, I feel she is definitely a jerk, but in the shallow end of the pool unlike teh husband who is definitely in deep.
It’s funny seeing these stories and then also sing Garfield go cart racing in the background
I'm almost 27 and I haven't been able to do what I want for my birthday in years. She always makes sure that I do what she wants. Last year, I was going to go to the paintball field with a few friends, go and eat some wings with them, and come home and play GTA the rest of the day. Instead, I had to stay at home, had to cook for her, bring her food, get her a bottle of Dr. Pepper with my money, and watch what she wanted on TV. At midnight, she told me to go home and never even said happy birthday. The very next day, my ex best friend and her sister hung out with me, cooked me some spaghetti, and we got drunk and watched horror movies. The whole time, my "mother" was calling me every 3 to 5 minutes and demanding to know where I was. I turned my phone off, crashed at my friend's place, and went home around noon the next day. When I got my phone turned back on, I had 137 missed calls, 40ish voicemails, and too many text messages of her calling me ungrateful and telling me that I shouldn't have went anywhere and my birthday was over and I had a great birthday. This year, I've made sure that I'm gonna be working on my birthday. I'll be closing with my friend (who's more like my older brother) and I have no intention on being available for her to ruin the 16th birthday in a row.
Oh this is even worse than the last story with the younger entitled sister who got everything
True
Both stories are bad,
Idk how my mom and grandma are able to share the same birthday
Story 1: I would've went to the police of child neglect if my mom left me at that shady bar, honestly. Yeah, I'm that petty.
At 20, the OP is an adult, though. However, I’d have called the cops on Mommy for DUI.
She was 20! Why didn't she just say "no thanks" when mom said she couldn't invite her friends and that she invited her cousins and their friends instead 🤦🏽♀️ or when mom started drinking and driving report her to the cops for driving under the influence
Last Story: From what I heard it sounds like the "chosen sister" Really did not intend to make her pay, but it sounds like the husband is very desperate and and dominating man who just wants money, I feel like the "chosen sister" is also a victim in this case, because she is getting someone elses will forced on her
Story 3 it sounds like that’s all the mom knows how to connect with you and that’s probably how she connected with her family when she was younger and still probably now.
I thought it was over then I saw the time
As for the barber. 1) Definitely ghosted because of the set up. 2) They weren’t friends. Just friendly. 3) $60 for a $28 haircut!? WTFREAK!? A $32 tip? Really!? He’s not a hairstylist where the prices can be $40+! Amazing!
Story 3 is basically my mom but it’s been 22 years of that but it’s not just family but people she works with and theirs always someone new
Story 5 - ABSOLUTELY NOT. You don't owe them Anything, let alone 10 grand.
Story: That mother needs a sit-down with a psychiatrist as to why she is so entitled and manipulative
The mom: you can't bring your friends but your cousins can
$10,000 for 2 months? She could have stayed in a five star hotel. What the hell?
Last Story - Do they have a contract? No? Then they can shove off
The mom “venting” thing: This hasn’t happened to me and I’m only a kid but maybe you should silence notifications or cut contact from her and only talk for up to 30 minutes a month?
the gay that feel hurts because have to change barber was very funny haha
I live in WV it’s truly beautiful
Mom should have made HER night out on ANTHER night besides her DAUGHTER'S BIRTHDAY!!!!!
4:04 was that pun intended?
For the last sotry, I'd demand an itemized bill. Then deduct what you already paid them. And if they tried to claim it was all for the rent, ask for their social security number so you can fill out a 1099. (or the equivalent if not in the US) That kind of income needs to be reported to the tax authorities.
Story 4, pretty sure that’s a misdemeanor in at least a few states, so if this ever happens again, file a police complaint.
Is any one so happy that it is exactly 20:00
The third story look up emotional incest and how it messes up kids. It makes the child the parent and the parent the child when this stuff happens
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S3: OP needs to cut mom off. My mom raised me to be co-dependent on her and I guarantee this mom will use every guilt trip in the book to keep OP around. If she doesn’t set clear boundaries, OP will be stuck in that situation until mom dies.
now that i think about it, you sound like josh from lets game it out
*Story 1:* Stealing one's birthday and making it their own? How does one do that, and why? I don't get it.
As far as your chosen sister wanting 10 grand I agree with a person who said that that's just utterly ridiculous you can Google how much it is to rent a room in that area which is essentially what you were doing and if you contributed to groceries and utilities that's all I would give her I understand being grateful for helping you out in a tight spot but that's not really helping you out when she's trying to take advantage of you for 10 grand and while you're at it make a spreadsheet of what you did pay her pay her that pay her what's considered average for running a room and call it even and walk away if she's not happy with that if she truly doesn't think it's reasonable then why is she allowing her husband to even force her to ask for that amount of money I agree with the person who said she's just toxic walk away
Two months of rent in California could be around 10k.
This guy sounds familiar
He sounds like
Quandale dingle the XXVII
10k for 2 months I would laugh at the sister.
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Me: *hugs the redditors* Y’all get a cookie. Please stay safe mates
Story 2: did OP liked the barber like that?
10K for two months time? Uhm no. For those 2 months were you staying in a high priced resort? No? Then tell them to kick rocks!
In the last story. I agree with the Reddit commenters. The OP's "chosen" sister does *NOT* have her best interests at heart. I also agree with them that there is no *FUCKING* way in hell that staying with someone for two months is going to be $10,000.
STORY ONE : IN THE US YOU HAVE TO BE 21 IN MY COUNTRY NEW ZEALAND YOU COULD DRINK AT 1 IF YOU WANTED BUT WITH SUPERVISON
hello here early
that barber may be older but not mentally. He's a little baby.
Who’s first
what game were you playing in the background for the video? i wanna try it
Its sound like the barber was just robing the customer when he gets a great tip for previously doing a great hair cut and then, from out of the blue, completely refers the customer to a complete stranger who may not be as good as the previous barber.
I had to do some detective work to figure out you were playing a Garfield Kart game. I thought it was Nickelodeon, but no. I wish you would put in the description or comments the games you play in the background. Some of them I have no idea how to find them.
let the past be a scar not a wound :)
Last story; id talk to a realitor and see what rent for her situation in that area would be and pay that at most.
My mother wasn’t good either on my 16th birthday because she wanted a picture with me and I wasn’t paying attention I was looking at a cat outside the window and when I got my focuse back she started yelling at me for no reason and yet I was the one bad because I made a scene infront of everyone first of all I wasn’t paying attention and so later I didn’t asked a kid on my neck just wanted to talk to my best friend because she couldn’t be there because we both live in different countries and yet again I was the one to blame for no reason
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32 dollars is too much for a hair cut
my dad who cuts my hair 3 times a year for 9 years for free
My mom pays $1,276 a month unless she was living in a mansion rent should not be $10,000 so if it was that it means rent is $5,000 a month so if the op didn't sign a contract she shouldn't worry and she said she would contribute with groceries doesn't mean she was there for free so op just distance yourself from them and don't even contact them
Birthday girl. I'm so sorry she did that to you. I do know what it's like to have a mom ruin your bday. . My sweet 16th bday, my mom told me if she could have had an abortion with me she would have. Wasn't so sweet after that. Hang in there, .
It’s a bad idea to have a baby at 16. You are still considered a kid (or minor) at that age
When was your worst birthday ever mine was 8
Honestly, I think you went a little too hard on the “chosen sister”. She’s going through with it begrudgingly, even admitting that she initially didn’t want to charge her, as well as apologizing.
big bruh
For the last story unless your having explicit night time with princess peach and the Mario bros in her bed there ain’t no **** way you’re paying 5Gs mortgage a month… what’s the cheapest place to live ? Jail? Great send them there this is blatant extortion
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Dude the 1st and 3rd stories remind me so much of my own mother- narcissists and manipulators are the worst. They push their toxic behavior onto you then call you insensitive or manipulative for not wanting to listen.
And dude story 5 is so goddamn manipulative though- The so called chosen sister is a pushover and her husband is a dick.
My man says everything is toxic
The fact the op is GAY
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1:09 as a resident in the state of WV, the nature is beautiful but the school systems are ass here.
No such thing as "free healthcare"
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