@@CajunReaper95 watches lucifer once: spoilers: That show is based on DC comics and isn't biblically accurate. Biblically accurate Lucifer is evil without a shadow of a doubt.
The op was a little bit older than the 8 year olds and the 6 year old. The mom of the6 year old should be lucky he put up with his behavior and was nice enough for her son to exchange for a different Lego figure. Legos can be fun but throwing a tantrum over things that are small like losing in games or not getting what they want. That kind of attitude I don't put up with.
I understand Jake was like 6, but that is still absolutely insane even though its normal for a kid to pull tantrums. I respect the patience on both the OP and their mother for dealing wit this kid all day
Honestly if that happened to my kids bday party, i would have grabbed him after the first tantram and told him if he tries that again hed be sitting tied to a chair till the end of the party
As soon as the mother left Jake there, I'd have been, "Nope, not happening," and called his mother back, and if she didn't reply call CPS for child abandonment.
Wow. Way too soft on that little brat. He should have been kicked out after the first tantrum. Never give give an inch, spoiled child will take a mile.
As a Lego enthusiast myself I wouldn’t have been anywhere near as calm as the op of the first story when some entitled little brat decided to steal my figures so props to him
Same here I would have glared at the boy kick him out and lock myself in my room till the party is over as a Lego collector that's a big NO in my book if the brat tried anything to steal my lego hell no it's over party over for the little goblin.
Same with me. The controller one was ok, because I would just need the mom to buy another one, but the Lego one... First of all, my room full of Legos would be completed locked, and second of all, if I have to deal with this kid stealing my Lego, I'd probably screamed a lot and hit him hard, to him learn how fear looks like.
My cat once almost droped my Lego Saturn 5 from about 1,6m hight. He regret it, he was very wet after that, he know he was not allowed to go up there and the second he saw i saw what he was doing he got big eyes and was making hisself realy small. I had a water bottle what i used to spray him if he does bad thing's and i emptyed it, by opening it and pouring it over him. Last day he ever set a step up there. Also he did drop my Star Citizen model of the Constellation from there... it got a lot of things broken... he didn't come close to me for 2 day's despite i only screamed "WTF" at him once pretty loud, he know exactly what he had done.
Tantrums are acceptable, it's normal for a child to have it, but stealing is beyond acceptable. I would be worried. That's why when you have other kids in your house always keep your doors lock at all cost. Defend your room to the death. Edit: Half the people in this comment section has never dealt with children or are really impatient. It's normal for children to have temper tantrums until they are 7 to 8. They are emotionally undeveloped. That doesn't mean destroying objects however should be punished.
I remember this from another story,and the brother was super nice and helpful to do something about the problem,and even cleaned up when the parents thought the little bro was in the right.
Yeah, that is the story when the little brother is a functioning autistic person. And was like 10. Even with the age and the mental draws he is a very big ah
Story 2. BF doesn't sound like a bad person, I think if OP will have a calm conversation they will be able to have some more quality time together with no problems. Just don't put any harsh ultimatums.
Exactly, also it seem's people underestimate how much stress it is to have a own bussines. I don't now other country's but here you get phonecall's or emails all the time, my uncle has his own bussines too and he got called at christmass at 9am. So i think gaming in his case is a big part of venting that stress out too.
I understand the gaming. That's what he is used to doing. But waiting until after she goes to bed, then want to talk. That is what I would have issues with. Take time to stop BEFORE she goes to bed, then you can go back to gaming. b BOTH parties need to compromise when in a relationship.
That 1st story just frustrated the heck out of me. They should have lifted that little boy's behind up and then tell the mother please don't bring him back! However I give you kudos for patience!!
Fun fact! The dragon figure that the brat was trying to steal is now worth between $240 - $360 That specific dragon mold came from a retired Lord of the rings set (A series that is about 11 years into retirement) and is a SUPER collectible dragon mold.
I and a few friends went to a DC comics themed birthday party as hired costumed DC characters. There was a “Jake” at the party, the brat tried to open all the birthday kid’s presents, started fights, broke stuff, and tried to blow out the candles.
Story 2: Gaming is a hobby. Like any other hobby, if someone has a hobby (gaming, cars, sports, camping, poker, gardening, working out, etc) and that hobby takes up a substantial portion of their time, you should either accept that aspect of them and work around it, or try to share that hobby with them if you want to date them that badly. If you aren't interested in their hobby, you should date someone who shares hobbies with you instead of trying to change the behaviors of someone who has established interests that they enjoy and you don't. There are plenty of people out there. If you're not into camping, don't date a camper. If you're not into working out, don't date a gym rat. If you're not into gaming, don't date a gamer. My spouse and I are both gamers - video games, board games, card games, TTRPGs... We're both nerds. We aren't always playing the same thing at the same time, but both of us respect that it's an important hobby to both of us, and we can spend hours together with parallel play or playing the same thing together. I really have difficulty wrapping my mind around stories about "my boyfriend/girlfriend spends 20-30 or more hours a week doing this thing I don't like, they don't want to do less of it, and I don't want to do that thing with them - what should I do?" You should break up and find someone else who spends 20-30 or more hours a week doing the things YOU like to spend 20-30 hours a week doing.
Story 1: The OP and the OP's mom should definitely have called Jake's mom and told her how her son was acting so she could teach him some basic manners before his stealing and temper tantrums become a habit this world doesn't need.
I think with story 2 she could try to play that with him and do something that he enjoys as well such as gaming and if she enjoys watching him, she could enjoy playing as well
that's my mindset as well is like if you knew he was a gamer and you didn't like that dont be with him be with someone that likes what you like cause now is felling like op is trying to control what the bf does
I thought the same, she liked what she saw going into the relationship but wanted to change and control him, if things were going well as she said why rock the boat
Theres 3 ways here Sit and do nun while enjoying the little time with him Break up and get a man whos tryna spend time with you and not game 24/7 till weekends Or try and get him to change his gaming time so they can both be happy and actually live together nicely
@@basicabachannel9315 or she could start gaming with him and spend time with him that way it means she gets to have something more in common with him and it also means he doesn't have to quit playing games
Story 1: The OP is very admirable for remaining calm after finding the kid stealing his Legos. I collect figures, and if I found a brat trying to steal them, I would have gone psyco!
@@princessmarlena1359 have a neighbor like that she kept giving my mom her two kids and my mom has more kids then her and when my mom finally told her no she went on to our other neighbor
I can understand that little kids often have trouble with emotions and taking stuff that isn't theirs, but the parent should be disciplining him more. At least he gave the lego figures back.
Story 3: The boyfriend's habits just aren't right. No, shampoo covered in whatever was in your hair isn't enough to clean yourself. And not using deoderant? That's awful!
I'm not a germaphobe, but I am particular about keeping myself clean.(I dislike feeling sweaty and dirty.) I cannot imagine living like the boyfriend. How can you take a shower and not use body wash?! That pretty much defeats the purpose of a shower. My skin itches just thinking about it TnT
With the second story: I get the boyfriend needs to chill on his video games and such, but she knew he was an advant gamer throughout their entire relationship. If she didn't like it then she should've left him from the start. She put her own self in that situation so now she has to deal with it. If people think I'm heartless or a jerk for saying this, then oh well. It's the truth and ya just have to deal with it.
I mean, Thats kinda unapologetic. And to say its "The truth" means that all other opinions are invalid. soo....But personally on the matter, I think there should be a compromise.
@@SunSwirlin So she moved in with him, knew he was a gamer thats plays for 20-30 hours a week, and then complains about not getting enough time with him? Yeah no, He shouldnt need to change his life just because she wants to change him.
For the person in story 3, be calm, be gentle, get them a small gift, and say it very calmly and gently I'd know this should work because when i was younger and my parents would tell me i smelled disgusting and tell me i did a horrible job at cleaning when i did the best i physically could and it really affected my mental health
Yes exactly you go in too hard and they feel they have to get defensive but if you just calmly tell them that they cant just use suds running down their body
The first story, I remember there one incident that what happened to my younger cousin Bella few years ago. The party was great but I got this funny feeling about this big boy that I never seen before, I don't know if he was her classmates or relatives on her dad's side. When the cake put on the table, I noticed immediately when this same big boy is very too close to the cake where Bella is right front of the cake. I instantly closed to them because I don't know why but I know this boy will probably do something that he shouldn't do. When we finished the happy birthday song and when Bella was about to blow the candles. This boy blew it of all the candles. I was disbelief and angry at what the boy did, I instantly look up I noticed the lady look at me and the boy and I knew that lady is his mom because I seen the boy is close to her alots during the party. I saw Bella is very upset and I stopped her mom(my younger aunt) to cut the cake and told her what happened and redo the candles again. She was confused at first when I stopped her and understood when I explained her and saw Bella was very upset. She agreed and lite up the candles but this time, I blocked the boy and stand of his way to get close to the candles which he tried to go past me when he saw the candles are being lite again. Few of my relatives (mostly the adults) are confused but when me and my aunt explained to them, they understand. I guess the mom (the big boy's mom) probably heard us and I think she given an look (mostly at me) but couldn't said because she knew she won't win. Well, we sing quick version of the song and let her blow her candles without anyone (mostly the kids) disturb her and the candles. I tried make her happy, well I can tell she is grateful but still sour which I didn't blame her for that. While everything is settled, I heard some boy whining, I look at direction of the sound. I heard him complaining about the candles but his mom told him off and scorned him for what he did and making her looked bad. He was sulking and the party went great throughout the day.
that kid would be in a lot more trouble with me if he smashed my controlelr and tried stealing from me I dont care about his age I would call the cops on him
1st Story. I have witnessed it. The spoiled brat was beaten by me. The Mom fought me, i beat her too. It was with a cane of course. No one comes into my home and challenges my authority. Man, woman, young, old. Enemy is enemy.
Story 1 - Tell his mother outright everything he did and that Jake is not welcome there and to Never bring him around again. Story 2 - Are you making it a bigger deal than it is? Short answer, Yes, you are. Story 3 - Use Deodorant/Antiperspirant EVERY DAY. Personal opinions of them don't matter. USE IT.
I knew the poster was going to hate on the gaming boyfriend in the second video…. He doesn’t like gamers and what he considers to be over excessive gaming. Literally she knew what she signed up for when she moved in with him. He takes care of bills, chores and has a great career. He’s clearly an introvert and a homebody. If she can’t accept him for who he is then it’s unfair for trying to change him. He doesn’t watch tv or Netflix and is a homebody. Why not try and find a video game to play with him? Or work with him on a streaming channel or something. Again, she knew what she signed up for. She can’t try and switch it up on him after🤷🏾♂️
1st story, I understand why OP didn’t tell the mother that the brat ruined his collection. As an adult who has “hobby” for “kid”if we complains we will get “aw, it just a toys ,don’t fuwzzy over it” even though I spent over 100K my currency for all my “toys”
fun fact just for context the smaug figure can cost somewhere around 200 to 350 euros alone as for the set it ranges from somewhere around 120 to 1500 euros
It's crazy how much I relate to both stories 2 and 3 my ex-husband was a Avid gamer and I'm a gamer as well but when it came to spending quality time together it seem like we would only do something on holidays or birthdays I felt like we were more like roommates than a couple and it got worse after we had our son. And his hygiene disgusted me it's crazy how in the beginning when we were dating he would go out of his way to look nice and make an effort with his appearance but once we officially got together he would go 2 to 3 days without showering at all and was a complete slob, I had to start doing laundry once a week because the sheets and pillow cases made me gag and when I brought all of this to his attention I got all excuses and no solutions to the point I just couldn't take it anymore....😔
Alright, let me tell yall a story So i live on a street with about 9 other kids, all younger then me, all my middle school friends live across town, so we are good friends we play outside and play games every afternoon after school, eveyone dosent mind if they lose EXEPT one kid named owen who lives at the end of the street. He is 6 and still acts like a baby and wants attention for small reasons. Whenever he loses the SMALLEST games, he cries his little eyes out. We try to let him win but we still do something that makes him cry. His mom is not a joy to be around because: when he gets mad and cries he tells his mom, so his mom comes out and tells us to stop being "mean and unfair" to him. Then she watches us play a round of the game we are currently playing. Then picks apart every little thing and lets him win. Dont comply with her? She texts your parents. My mom and the other moms have gotten so many complaints from her for playing "unfair" that we dont even invite him out anymore.
I am a Lego collector myself, and I take personal offense to jakes actions, plus he ruined party games, I’m surprised the OP didn’t lose it on the kid! I mean he wasn’t invited but was still able to tag along, there was games that by the sounds of them were very good looking, and he even got something out of it, he still was acting like a brat!
Sometimes i think : " What goes on in a spoiled person's head?" like, i feel quilty asking for many things, but they ask for anything they want and expect to get it.
This is why I don't deal with kids. Because around th time Jake was stealing stuff the words out of my mouth would have started with "Listen you little shit...."
So you said he could pick a minifigure and he picked a $350 set piece I'm glad you didn't let him pick that cuz seriously that is ridiculous the figure itself is almost $400 on eBay the whole set is almost 600 like Jesus
Jake is 6 so i can understand if he has a small fit but a full on crying tantrum and faking injury is a huge problem and a definite sign that the mom or dad is spoiling jake to the core
In Story 2 I can get it you need to spend time when you're in a relationship but also it's extremely hard to change something that you have been doing for a long long while
Story 2: As an avid gamer myself I understand wanting to game most of the day and really enjoying it. it seems OP doesn't see it as a hobby when in reality it is, and it wouldn't be viewed so negatively if it was painting or reading. She says she likes watching him game but it seems there really isn't any true conversation about it. Maybe talk to him about his favorite games and why he likes them, take an interest and don't just be "oh he's gaming again." Maybe even try some multiplayer games with him! it's a hobby, it may help with stress relief, but taking an interest and wanting to be more involved rather than 'amusing herself' while he games may be a very good way to start breaking that barrier and maybe even help him game less, if that's what she wants.
So you got a guy who plays games a lot but is successful, has conversations with you while playing, invited you to play with him, does things with outside of the game but you still find fault worth him playing games? At least at all times you know where your man is. He's home, occupying his time with something he finds constructive and entertaining, and not out in the streets chasing other girls or doing something detrimental. He unwinds through the fantasy, mystery, action, and story that playing games provides, and you're complaining about it. Go ahead and try giving him an ultimatum. I guarantee it will change the dynamic of the relationship for the worse. He'll go from appreciating the woman who understands him and his faults and accepts him, to slowly developing feelings of resentment at the woman who's trying to change and control him. I'm a professional, a father, an active partner for my girlfriend, and an avid gamer who regularly plays around 30+ hours a week. My girlfriend knows this and themes the gifts she gets me on Christmas and birthdays around it, with most being handmade. We play games together and bond all the time over it, and she's nowhere near as big a gamer as I am. Accept them for who they are and engage with *them* every once in a while instead of demanding they engage with you at every turn.
Yk that is the problem. Gf and Bf gaming aint smart. It is basically an unwritten gaming manual where if Bf and Gf game together, they aren't usually the best duo.
Honestly, for story number four, I would send her a small message just saying hi and asking how she’s been. Not pressuring her into answering her or even getting back into a relationship but just checking in and showing you still care
Honestly I know that young kids always want to win (I was like that once, but I at least didn't throw a tantrum the second I started losing) I can imagine how that scene looked like: Announcer: Begin! The other kid: *hits his opponent ONCE* Jake: *unholy screeching and yeets controller to the ground*
That reminds me of my two year old brother that when he sees something he REALLY WANTS he will cry about it forever until he gets it but he’s not so spoiled
And I would have called the child's mother and told her right away that her child had just committed property damage and if they didn't pick up the child immediately, I would call the police and Please bring money with you
I remember going to chuckie cheeses for my brother 5th birthday (I was 15 at the time) and some kid probably like 9 or 10 kept messing with him and wouldn't stop. I did the only logical thing (in my dumbass teenage brain at least) and smacked the ever living shit out of him. I got in trouble but got a good job from my dad after we left.
Boys need to learn how to behave, If the family will not teach them, then, their peers will teach them. A lot of times, the lesson from their peers would be the worst lesson.
Story 1: i had a similair thing happen to me when on my friends birthday party they invited this one girl we all absolutely hated so that we could get on good terms. She brought the mood down alot And i remember nothing from that party anymore
With the gaming one I think the best way is to leave it alone or just ask him to maybe do a bit less gaming because my dad will play games when he can but still helps out with other things even though he had hardly any time playing video games when he was younger so the best course of action is to try to tell him to help out and spend time together some more once a while
You seems to don't understand how rare he is he's a competent man who loves gaming which is pretty hard to find, most of us gamers doesn't have that's much lv of competent bruh
Karen: my child is an angel.
Me: So was Lucifer.
Great comment!
Yeah
lol
@@CajunReaper95 I was meaning that he used to be an angel. I didn't say how evil he was.
@@CajunReaper95 watches lucifer once:
spoilers: That show is based on DC comics and isn't biblically accurate. Biblically accurate Lucifer is evil without a shadow of a doubt.
i hate when someone ruins someone else’s birthday and tries to guilt trip them for no reason 🤦🏽♀️
@@michiganborn8303 when the boy called the birthday boy a mean liar…
@@yamilet7933 it wasn’t the birthday boy, he was 8 it was the father or something idk
@@Mimi_ownsyouall okay
@@michiganborn8303 💯
The op was a little bit older than the 8 year olds and the 6 year old. The mom of the6 year old should be lucky he put up with his behavior and was nice enough for her son to exchange for a different Lego figure. Legos can be fun but throwing a tantrum over things that are small like losing in games or not getting what they want. That kind of attitude I don't put up with.
I understand Jake was like 6, but that is still absolutely insane even though its normal for a kid to pull tantrums. I respect the patience on both the OP and their mother for dealing wit this kid all day
I do to, but patience can and should only go so far
Jake's brother was probly forced to bring his brother.
seems like he needs asian parents instead, my nephew is sometimes like this and he would get a slap from me if he do those stuff
Same, I would throw him to the window if he kept like that
Honestly if that happened to my kids bday party, i would have grabbed him after the first tantram and told him if he tries that again hed be sitting tied to a chair till the end of the party
As soon as the mother left Jake there, I'd have been, "Nope, not happening," and called his mother back, and if she didn't reply call CPS for child abandonment.
But what if her phone died
@@gavinsmith9527 use the guy's phone no problem just borrow it
@@ItsmehAlfa bro what are you even saying
Happened at one party where I was performing and a “Jake” was dumped off despite not being invited. His mom was back in ten minutes.
@@gavinsmith9527
See the last phrase. No reply => call CPS. The reason why there is no reply is not my concern.
Wow. Way too soft on that little brat. He should have been kicked out after the first tantrum. Never give give an inch, spoiled child will take a mile.
I agree
As a Lego enthusiast myself I wouldn’t have been anywhere near as calm as the op of the first story when some entitled little brat decided to steal my figures so props to him
Same here I would have glared at the boy kick him out and lock myself in my room till the party is over as a Lego collector that's a big NO in my book if the brat tried anything to steal my lego hell no it's over party over for the little goblin.
Same with me. The controller one was ok, because I would just need the mom to buy another one, but the Lego one... First of all, my room full of Legos would be completed locked, and second of all, if I have to deal with this kid stealing my Lego, I'd probably screamed a lot and hit him hard, to him learn how fear looks like.
I would be especially mad since Smaug is worth about $200
Agreed 💯
My cat once almost droped my Lego Saturn 5 from about 1,6m hight. He regret it, he was very wet after that, he know he was not allowed to go up there and the second he saw i saw what he was doing he got big eyes and was making hisself realy small. I had a water bottle what i used to spray him if he does bad thing's and i emptyed it, by opening it and pouring it over him. Last day he ever set a step up there. Also he did drop my Star Citizen model of the Constellation from there... it got a lot of things broken... he didn't come close to me for 2 day's despite i only screamed "WTF" at him once pretty loud, he know exactly what he had done.
Tantrums are acceptable, it's normal for a child to have it, but stealing is beyond acceptable. I would be worried. That's why when you have other kids in your house always keep your doors lock at all cost. Defend your room to the death.
Edit: Half the people in this comment section has never dealt with children or are really impatient.
It's normal for children to have temper tantrums until they are 7 to 8. They are emotionally undeveloped. That doesn't mean destroying objects however should be punished.
And destroying private property (ie the controller) is intolerable.
At 6 temper tantrums are not acceptable. They can and should know how to use their words to express themselves at the age of 6.
Fr som reasons only 6 yo are the kids in this video
THEY ALWAYS GET AWAY WITH EVERYTHING QND CRIMES
lol it was my birthday, i was like 3 and got angry cause i needed to eat cake. Makes sense since i dont really like some cakes.
Tantrums are acceptable? Lmao no.
I remember this from another story,and the brother was super nice and helpful to do something about the problem,and even cleaned up when the parents thought the little bro was in the right.
Yeah, that is the story when the little brother is a functioning autistic person. And was like 10. Even with the age and the mental draws he is a very big ah
Different story
Story 2. BF doesn't sound like a bad person, I think if OP will have a calm conversation they will be able to have some more quality time together with no problems. Just don't put any harsh ultimatums.
I mean they have weekends together so idk
Exactly, also it seem's people underestimate how much stress it is to have a own bussines. I don't now other country's but here you get phonecall's or emails all the time, my uncle has his own bussines too and he got called at christmass at 9am. So i think gaming in his case is a big part of venting that stress out too.
Plus has she tried play games with him? You be surprised how many guys would be so happy if their gf or wife would at least attempt to play with them.
I understand the gaming. That's what he is used to doing. But waiting until after she goes to bed, then want to talk. That is what I would have issues with. Take time to stop BEFORE she goes to bed, then you can go back to gaming. b
BOTH parties need to compromise when in a relationship.
Yeah, it’s a tough problem but the boyfriend should watch out, because if the girlfriend is feeling neglected, she may find solace elsewhere
That 1st story just frustrated the heck out of me. They should have lifted that little boy's behind up and then tell the mother please don't bring him back! However I give you kudos for patience!!
Fun fact! The dragon figure that the brat was trying to steal is now worth between $240 - $360
That specific dragon mold came from a retired Lord of the rings set (A series that is about 11 years into retirement) and is a SUPER collectible dragon mold.
I and a few friends went to a DC comics themed birthday party as hired costumed DC characters. There was a “Jake” at the party, the brat tried to open all the birthday kid’s presents, started fights, broke stuff, and tried to blow out the candles.
If I was the OP in the first post. I would’ve went straight up to the mother and said. “You’re buying me a new controller.”
Same.
definitely
Absolutely
Story 2: Gaming is a hobby. Like any other hobby, if someone has a hobby (gaming, cars, sports, camping, poker, gardening, working out, etc) and that hobby takes up a substantial portion of their time, you should either accept that aspect of them and work around it, or try to share that hobby with them if you want to date them that badly. If you aren't interested in their hobby, you should date someone who shares hobbies with you instead of trying to change the behaviors of someone who has established interests that they enjoy and you don't.
There are plenty of people out there. If you're not into camping, don't date a camper. If you're not into working out, don't date a gym rat. If you're not into gaming, don't date a gamer. My spouse and I are both gamers - video games, board games, card games, TTRPGs... We're both nerds. We aren't always playing the same thing at the same time, but both of us respect that it's an important hobby to both of us, and we can spend hours together with parallel play or playing the same thing together.
I really have difficulty wrapping my mind around stories about "my boyfriend/girlfriend spends 20-30 or more hours a week doing this thing I don't like, they don't want to do less of it, and I don't want to do that thing with them - what should I do?" You should break up and find someone else who spends 20-30 or more hours a week doing the things YOU like to spend 20-30 hours a week doing.
The op in the first story was so patient after getting their controller broken then almost robbed
The second story, you knew this when you planned on moving in.
Op has more restraint than i do. If it was me, 6 y/o or not, that child would have gotten a backhand.
Story 1: The OP and the OP's mom should definitely have called Jake's mom and told her how her son was acting so she could teach him some basic manners before his stealing and temper tantrums become a habit this world doesn't need.
I’m an idiot and I live under a rock. What does OP stand for?
@@EccentricDrDino OP = Original Poster. Referring to the person who initially posted their story.
Thank you
@@EccentricDrDino No problem, friend. 👍
@Jimmy Goggins ...and I thought it standed for "Our Protagonist" 😂
Imagine being related to Jake, RIP Jake's brother.
If a kid tried to steal from my Lego collection, I would sell that kid and buy more Lego.
Pffft
I think with story 2 she could try to play that with him and do something that he enjoys as well such as gaming and if she enjoys watching him, she could enjoy playing as well
2nd story you knew what you were walking into. He shouldn't stop what he loves seeing he does stop gaming on the weekends
that's my mindset as well is like if you knew he was a gamer and you didn't like that dont be with him be with someone that likes what you like cause now is felling like op is trying to control what the bf does
I thought the same, she liked what she saw going into the relationship but wanted to change and control him, if things were going well as she said why rock the boat
Theres 3 ways here
Sit and do nun while enjoying the little time with him
Break up and get a man whos tryna spend time with you and not game 24/7 till weekends
Or try and get him to change his gaming time so they can both be happy and actually live together nicely
@@basicabachannel9315 or she could start gaming with him and spend time with him that way it means she gets to have something more in common with him and it also means he doesn't have to quit playing games
@@Emerald_Knight_Games but what if she doesnt like gaming
Story 1: The OP is very admirable for remaining calm after finding the kid stealing his Legos. I collect figures, and if I found a brat trying to steal them, I would have gone psyco!
Jake's mom just wanted a free babysitter.
Oh yeah. I hate those parents the most.
@@princessmarlena1359 Ugh so do I
@@princessmarlena1359 have a neighbor like that she kept giving my mom her two kids and my mom has more kids then her and when my mom finally told her no she went on to our other neighbor
Jake might have Been pissed off that his brother Got to go to a party and he didnt
Yea but Jake is a brat
The first story was really interesting. I feel bad that he tried to rob you and broke your controller.
I can understand that little kids often have trouble with emotions and taking stuff that isn't theirs, but the parent should be disciplining him more. At least he gave the lego figures back.
Story 3: The boyfriend's habits just aren't right. No, shampoo covered in whatever was in your hair isn't enough to clean yourself. And not using deoderant? That's awful!
I could not live with someone that nasty especially since I’m a bit germ-phobic .I wouldn’t even want them to touch me
I'm not a germaphobe, but I am particular about keeping myself clean.(I dislike feeling sweaty and dirty.) I cannot imagine living like the boyfriend. How can you take a shower and not use body wash?! That pretty much defeats the purpose of a shower. My skin itches just thinking about it TnT
Like how can you be so clueless regarding your own hygiene?😭
I mean it’s not only other ppl that are affected, your health is affected too! Smh
@@Jo-er6tw WHY THE FUCK IS EVERYONE SO IRRITATED ITS HIS FUCKING BODY I DONT CARE IF ITS DISGUSTING ITS HIS LIFE HE CAN DEAL WITH IT
On other circumstances, I DEFINITELY would've loved to be invited to that party as a kid
Same bro
Fr
as a fellow Lego collector I have one thing to say; That Spoiled Brat Does Not Deserve To Have A Lego Smaug!
When the OP mentioned Jake trying to steal Smaug, I almost had a heart attack. Smaug is one of if not the most valuable Lego dragon figures.
- my child is an angel!
- LUCIFER!!!!!
A fallen angel
That DC party sounds amazing (minus jake), I would’ve loved to go to that as a kid
With the second story: I get the boyfriend needs to chill on his video games and such, but she knew he was an advant gamer throughout their entire relationship. If she didn't like it then she should've left him from the start. She put her own self in that situation so now she has to deal with it. If people think I'm heartless or a jerk for saying this, then oh well. It's the truth and ya just have to deal with it.
Nah, you right. You right.
I mean, Thats kinda unapologetic. And to say its "The truth" means that all other opinions are invalid. soo....But personally on the matter, I think there should be a compromise.
@@SunSwirlin So she moved in with him, knew he was a gamer thats plays for 20-30 hours a week, and then complains about not getting enough time with him? Yeah no, He shouldnt need to change his life just because she wants to change him.
@@EvocadoTheEvoker Thats kinda why i said compromise..Did you even read my comment?
Forget about the first story, those 8yo's were playing injustice gods among us on the ps3. These kids are cultured in my eyes.
The girlfriend that broke up all of a sudden seems to have a record of doing this. She did this to the last one and she's doing it again.
For the person in story 3, be calm, be gentle, get them a small gift, and say it very calmly and gently
I'd know this should work because when i was younger and my parents would tell me i smelled disgusting and tell me i did a horrible job at cleaning when i did the best i physically could and it really affected my mental health
Yes exactly you go in too hard and they feel they have to get defensive but if you just calmly tell them that they cant just use suds running down their body
The first story, I remember there one incident that what happened to my younger cousin Bella few years ago. The party was great but I got this funny feeling about this big boy that I never seen before, I don't know if he was her classmates or relatives on her dad's side.
When the cake put on the table, I noticed immediately when this same big boy is very too close to the cake where Bella is right front of the cake. I instantly closed to them because I don't know why but I know this boy will probably do something that he shouldn't do.
When we finished the happy birthday song and when Bella was about to blow the candles. This boy blew it of all the candles. I was disbelief and angry at what the boy did, I instantly look up I noticed the lady look at me and the boy and I knew that lady is his mom because I seen the boy is close to her alots during the party.
I saw Bella is very upset and I stopped her mom(my younger aunt) to cut the cake and told her what happened and redo the candles again. She was confused at first when I stopped her and understood when I explained her and saw Bella was very upset. She agreed and lite up the candles but this time, I blocked the boy and stand of his way to get close to the candles which he tried to go past me when he saw the candles are being lite again. Few of my relatives (mostly the adults) are confused but when me and my aunt explained to them, they understand. I guess the mom (the big boy's mom) probably heard us and I think she given an look (mostly at me) but couldn't said because she knew she won't win. Well, we sing quick version of the song and let her blow her candles without anyone (mostly the kids) disturb her and the candles.
I tried make her happy, well I can tell she is grateful but still sour which I didn't blame her for that.
While everything is settled, I heard some boy whining, I look at direction of the sound. I heard him complaining about the candles but his mom told him off and scorned him for what he did and making her looked bad. He was sulking and the party went great throughout the day.
that kid would be in a lot more trouble with me if he smashed my controlelr and tried stealing from me I dont care about his age I would call the cops on him
1st Story. I have witnessed it. The spoiled brat was beaten by me. The Mom fought me, i beat her too.
It was with a cane of course.
No one comes into my home and challenges my authority.
Man, woman, young, old. Enemy is enemy.
Just liked the last story a brother's birthday party is ruined because of siblings spoiled attitude
Story 1 - Tell his mother outright everything he did and that Jake is not welcome there and to Never bring him around again.
Story 2 - Are you making it a bigger deal than it is? Short answer, Yes, you are.
Story 3 - Use Deodorant/Antiperspirant EVERY DAY. Personal opinions of them don't matter. USE IT.
This is such I good Chanel this is like therapy idk how
“He’s an angel”
But from hell
What, what did I say? \_😶_/
The truth.
@@jdensmorethagreat true
I knew the poster was going to hate on the gaming boyfriend in the second video…. He doesn’t like gamers and what he considers to be over excessive gaming. Literally she knew what she signed up for when she moved in with him. He takes care of bills, chores and has a great career. He’s clearly an introvert and a homebody. If she can’t accept him for who he is then it’s unfair for trying to change him. He doesn’t watch tv or Netflix and is a homebody. Why not try and find a video game to play with him? Or work with him on a streaming channel or something. Again, she knew what she signed up for. She can’t try and switch it up on him after🤷🏾♂️
1st story, I understand why OP didn’t tell the mother that the brat ruined his collection. As an adult who has “hobby” for “kid”if we complains we will get “aw, it just a toys ,don’t fuwzzy over it” even though I spent over 100K my currency for all my “toys”
I hate that most of these story’s don’t end with the entitled person getting beaten up or insanely hurt
fun fact just for context the smaug figure can cost somewhere around 200 to 350 euros alone as for the set it ranges from somewhere around 120 to 1500 euros
It's crazy how much I relate to both stories 2 and 3 my ex-husband was a Avid gamer and I'm a gamer as well but when it came to spending quality time together it seem like we would only do something on holidays or birthdays I felt like we were more like roommates than a couple and it got worse after we had our son. And his hygiene disgusted me it's crazy how in the beginning when we were dating he would go out of his way to look nice and make an effort with his appearance but once we officially got together he would go 2 to 3 days without showering at all and was a complete slob, I had to start doing laundry once a week because the sheets and pillow cases made me gag and when I brought all of this to his attention I got all excuses and no solutions to the point I just couldn't take it anymore....😔
let him game:gamers are like another species, let gamers be gamers
@@CajunReaper95 Can't deny that
@@nameless...................... you can have it both ways ya’know. Just put the games on hold for a few
But she gets two nights every week. Its different. And also, you left. Good for you because he sounded like he sucked.
@@CajunReaper95 both can happen. Both are needed if one of you truly loves to game.
For the well front “if your an Angel then why wont you fly?”
Well, it was certainly stupid of OP in the first story to let that little monster into his room!
Not to call the guy an idiot, but I have to agree, if i saw his behavior Before I DEFINITELY would have kept my room LOCKED
Right? Especially after seeing how he behaved at the party!
To be honest, I would have spanked him. Belt in hand, and Escorted him home Myself.
If a kid tried to steal ANY of my legos, I am snatching them back and throwing that little hellspawn out of my house.
Alright, let me tell yall a story
So i live on a street with about 9 other kids, all younger then me, all my middle school friends live across town, so we are good friends we play outside and play games every afternoon after school, eveyone dosent mind if they lose EXEPT one kid named owen who lives at the end of the street. He is 6 and still acts like a baby and wants attention for small reasons. Whenever he loses the SMALLEST games, he cries his little eyes out. We try to let him win but we still do something that makes him cry. His mom is not a joy to be around because: when he gets mad and cries he tells his mom, so his mom comes out and tells us to stop being "mean and unfair" to him. Then she watches us play a round of the game we are currently playing. Then picks apart every little thing and lets him win. Dont comply with her? She texts your parents. My mom and the other moms have gotten so many complaints from her for playing "unfair" that we dont even invite him out anymore.
I am a Lego collector myself, and I take personal offense to jakes actions, plus he ruined party games, I’m surprised the OP didn’t lose it on the kid! I mean he wasn’t invited but was still able to tag along, there was games that by the sounds of them were very good looking, and he even got something out of it, he still was acting like a brat!
The first thing I saw on the screen was jimmy neutron, I bursted out laughing.
I met a spoiled brat that annoyed us. So me and the boys beat him up for it and he was not so spoiled afterwards
Sometimes i think : " What goes on in a spoiled person's head?" like, i feel quilty asking for many things, but they ask for anything they want and expect to get it.
This is why I don't deal with kids. Because around th time Jake was stealing stuff the words out of my mouth would have started with "Listen you little shit...."
Children need parents but not every parent needs children.
So ur saying the parents are bad
So you said he could pick a minifigure and he picked a $350 set piece I'm glad you didn't let him pick that cuz seriously that is ridiculous the figure itself is almost $400 on eBay the whole set is almost 600 like Jesus
If Jake wasn’t there that would’ve been the coolest birthday party in history
The greatest revenge you can have is filling that kid up with sugar and giving him back to the mum
Probably cuz his mom was like "You can't go to your friends birthday party unless your brother is allowed to come with you."
Jake is 6 so i can understand if he has a small fit but a full on crying tantrum and faking injury is a huge problem and a definite sign that the mom or dad is spoiling jake to the core
5:40 I wouldn't be that calm if someone would try to steal my 300$ Minifigure (looked the price up)
im suprised the party kept going
I would have told the same with the glue, go asap to the hospital and check this
In the first story I don't think the kids friend wanted Jake to come along but was forced to take him.
"Thanks for looking out for my little angel"
More like your fallen angel
Jake : *steals Batman figurines*
Me : *pulls out a crowbar* You’re going to Jesus.
In Story 2 I can get it you need to spend time when you're in a relationship but also it's extremely hard to change something that you have been doing for a long long while
I had that same situation but with my sister going to my friends' party. I was so mad after that.
The way bro said chips🤓
Story 2: As an avid gamer myself I understand wanting to game most of the day and really enjoying it. it seems OP doesn't see it as a hobby when in reality it is, and it wouldn't be viewed so negatively if it was painting or reading. She says she likes watching him game but it seems there really isn't any true conversation about it. Maybe talk to him about his favorite games and why he likes them, take an interest and don't just be "oh he's gaming again." Maybe even try some multiplayer games with him! it's a hobby, it may help with stress relief, but taking an interest and wanting to be more involved rather than 'amusing herself' while he games may be a very good way to start breaking that barrier and maybe even help him game less, if that's what she wants.
Put him safely in a room alone until his tantrum is over. Set limitations, or call his Mom to come get him.
For the story 4 : remember folks, always wear eyes protection or at least glasses AND gloves when you are manipulating chemical products !
So you got a guy who plays games a lot but is successful, has conversations with you while playing, invited you to play with him, does things with outside of the game but you still find fault worth him playing games? At least at all times you know where your man is. He's home, occupying his time with something he finds constructive and entertaining, and not out in the streets chasing other girls or doing something detrimental. He unwinds through the fantasy, mystery, action, and story that playing games provides, and you're complaining about it.
Go ahead and try giving him an ultimatum. I guarantee it will change the dynamic of the relationship for the worse. He'll go from appreciating the woman who understands him and his faults and accepts him, to slowly developing feelings of resentment at the woman who's trying to change and control him.
I'm a professional, a father, an active partner for my girlfriend, and an avid gamer who regularly plays around 30+ hours a week. My girlfriend knows this and themes the gifts she gets me on Christmas and birthdays around it, with most being handmade. We play games together and bond all the time over it, and she's nowhere near as big a gamer as I am.
Accept them for who they are and engage with *them* every once in a while instead of demanding they engage with you at every turn.
Story 2: perfect solution to fix the problem. Teach the girlfriend how to game, make her a gamer. Boom! Quality time achieved
Yk that is the problem. Gf and Bf gaming aint smart. It is basically an unwritten gaming manual where if Bf and Gf game together, they aren't usually the best duo.
ok but the first story’s party is just such a cool and wonderful idea
Those are actually really cool prices now I'm even a bit jealous 😁
broo i like how the first one the kid who had the all the legos because he put up with it
i really enjoy listening to stories you narrate
Honestly, for story number four, I would send her a small message just saying hi and asking how she’s been. Not pressuring her into answering her or even getting back into a relationship but just checking in and showing you still care
For the first story, 3 words.
Kung fu style slap.
9:47 a lot? You underestimate my powers...
Honestly I know that young kids always want to win (I was like that once, but I at least didn't throw a tantrum the second I started losing) I can imagine how that scene looked like:
Announcer: Begin!
The other kid: *hits his opponent ONCE*
Jake: *unholy screeching and yeets controller to the ground*
That reminds me of my two year old brother that when he sees something he REALLY WANTS he will cry about it forever until he gets it but he’s not so spoiled
And I would have called the child's mother and told her right away that her child had just committed property damage and if they didn't pick up the child immediately, I would call the police and Please bring money with you
I remember going to chuckie cheeses for my brother 5th birthday (I was 15 at the time) and some kid probably like 9 or 10 kept messing with him and wouldn't stop. I did the only logical thing (in my dumbass teenage brain at least) and smacked the ever living shit out of him. I got in trouble but got a good job from my dad after we left.
You did the right thing.
O my god
Boys need to learn how to behave, If the family will not teach them, then, their peers will teach them.
A lot of times, the lesson from their peers would be the worst lesson.
“great start” 1:59
35 hours a week of gaming?! That is insultingly low
Yes a story with DC stuff in it full respect for ops brother
for gamer one: get a partner with the same interest so you don't get angry about it and if you game with him yhou both get happy
Story 1: i had a similair thing happen to me when on my friends birthday party they invited this one girl we all absolutely hated so that we could get on good terms. She brought the mood down alot And i remember nothing from that party anymore
As soon as I heard the name “Jake”, I knew he was the spoiled brat 💀
With the gaming one I think the best way is to leave it alone or just ask him to maybe do a bit less gaming because my dad will play games when he can but still helps out with other things even though he had hardly any time playing video games when he was younger so the best course of action is to try to tell him to help out and spend time together some more once a while
@@GunThots no thanks I don't want it and I think I am to young because I'm a minor
this reminds me of a time in my life when some kid almost ruined my brothers cake just because she cant get the first slice
You seems to don't understand how rare he is he's a competent man who loves gaming which is pretty hard to find, most of us gamers doesn't have that's much lv of competent bruh
that sounds like a dope party lol
I just love jimmy neutron In the background 😂
The background: LETS GO IVE BEEN WAITING FOR A GODDAMN NICKELODEON RACE IN MY ENTIRE LIFE