When the husband makes a big mistake and the wife wants to beat him ... I will tell you how to beat him... Step one- First of all convince your husband to apologize.. if he doesn't do that ... Step 2- give divorce your husband Step 3- after divorce then beat him with iron rods
The most sensible answer would be if a wife will hit her husband then a husband in rage can harm the woman and hit her much harder since he has a thing called ego. So its Allah's mercy to keep woman safe from the men and their nature being strong physically.
This guy is still in the 7th century. Nobody can beat anyone and should not. Don't spread hatred. Instead of beating her lightly, Hug her tightly. Calm her down, make her understand. If she resists, Keep doing the same till she stops.
@@NK236so what if men is cheating her? Pls rply..dont say teacher student relation l.. hus n wife are partners not like a teacher student relation.. pls answer my ques with appropriate ans
@@asha2988 That men should be punished.. And better if a woman divorsed such violent husband... We belief in equality justice ⚖️ Ur liberalism westernism doesn't
@@asha2988 And amongst God’s signs is that He created for you spouses from amongst you and placed between you love and mercy” Qur’an 30:21 Do not strike the female servants of God.” Sunan Ibn Majah
Let say some harrases you on the street better is to move from that place to safe zone but if you think if you slap him and he will leave her then it's ok but it may make him more angry and may be he come on more violence so better is to go to safe place
Assalamualaikum dr. Zakir naik sir You are my one of my favourite scholar. I watched the vedio of allama abdullah tariq sir of surah nisa ayat 34. He clearly explain this ayah. But your answer is different from him. Iam requesting you sir to watch the vedio of allama sir , and guide me the right way. Hope you understand May Allah bless you aafiya Ameen
Assalamu alaikum, if a husband cheats on her wife and keep lying to her about a loads of stuffs which he wouldn’t have done and if the wife finds out all those at a moment of time and slaps him on the heat of the moment is that haram too???
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It is there in majority of religion, son cannot punish mother, wife cannot punish husband what is speciality of islam here? In hinduism also mother is top and also wife should be under husband....
Huh, mother is 3 times more important than father in Islam, fool and husband should beat his wife lightly/gently, that's a final warning then after that divorce by the husband because the wife is too much disobedient and transgressing against her husband, if her husband beats her violently, then she has the full right to divorce her husband. In Hinduism, there is no concept of divorce, your Indian Constitution gave your women that right few decades ago.😅🤣🤣
@niceguy3117 so husband can beat wife as final warning but wife can't beat husband and you say mother is 3 times more important than father. Don't forget wife is mother of your children
@@rahulbattula3958 The reason why wife cannot beat husband because a man is always physically strong than the woman so the husband will overpower her which would lead to harm for the woman. Harming the woman is totally prohibited/forbidden/haram in Islam and if there is any harm on the woman, she has the right to divorce. Unlike your Indian Cultures where parents advise the daughter to adjust in the family where she is being beaten/tortured everyday or few days a week, in Islam a daughter has the right to disobey her parents if her parents tell her to adjust in an abusive family and then she can get remarried. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) enjoined kind treatment and honouring of one’s wife, and he described the best of people as those who are best to their wives. He said: “The best of you are those who are the best to their wives. As to those women on whose part you see ill-conduct, admonish(advise) them (first), (next) refuse to share their beds, (and last) strike them (lightly, if it is useful); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance). Surely, Allah is Ever Most High, Most Great” [al-Nisa 4:34]. If a woman rebels against her husband and disobeys his commands, then he should follow this method of admonishing(advising) her, forsaking(not sharing) her in bed and striking her lightly. It is not permissible in Islam for a man to deliberately harm his wife physically or emotionally. Allah said: وَلَا تُضَارُّوهُنَّ لِتُضَيِّقُوا عَلَيْهِنَّ Do not harm them in order to make it difficult for them. Surah al-Talaq 65:6 Al-Hasan al-Basri said: “This means that it should not cause pain.” Ata’ reported: Ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased with him, said: ضَرْبًا غَيْرَ مُبَرِّحٍ It is a striking without severity. It was said, “What is a striking without severity?” Ibn Abbas said: بِالسِّوَاكِ وَنَحْوِهِ It is with a toothstick or something similar. Source: Tafsīr al-Ṭabarī 4:34 Al-Razi writes: أن يكون الضرب بمنديل ملفوف أو بيده ولا يضربها بالسياط ولا بالعصا It should be a striking with a folded handkerchief or his palm, and he should not strike her with whips or clubs. Source: Tafsīr al-Rāzī 4:34 Al-Zamakhshari writes: وَقَالُوا يَجِبُ أَنْ يَكُونَ ضَرْبًا غَيْرَ مُبَرِّحٍ لا يَجْرَحُهَا وَلا يَكْسِرُ لَهَا عَظْمًا وَيَجْتَنِبُ الْوَجْهَ Scholars said it must be a striking without severity. It may not cause injury, nor break bones, and he must not hit her face. Source: al-Kashshāf 4:34 In this regard, the best course of action for a Muslim man is to never strike his wife at all. The action of symbolically striking his wife, within the aforementioned legal limits, is considered by scholars to be permissible but ‘disapproved’ (makruh), meaning a Muslim man will be divinely rewarded for not doing so. In sum, the Quran does not allow Muslims to harm or ‘beat’ their wives. Rather, the ‘striking’ mentioned in the verse is a symbolic gesture and a last resort to correct a wife’s misbehavior, before initiating divorce. If a husband harms his wife in any way, she has the right to seek a divorce from him and then get remarried.
no modern Hindu thinks wife and husband is like student and teacher, nore does any Hindu today say a husband can physically deciplin the wife, and specially in name of religion or culture. what you said about Hindus telling daughters to stay in bad merrages, that's a bad part of culture unlike what happens in islamic ntions all the time in name of religion telling her she will go to jahanam for devorsing or such things, or for refusing to let her husband have sex with her sometimes
When the husband makes a big mistake and the wife wants to beat him ... I will tell you how to beat him...
Step one- First of all convince your husband to apologize.. if he doesn't do that ...
Step 2- give divorce your husband
Step 3- after divorce then beat him with iron rods
good idea
Hey! That's actually a great idea!
Very good idea brother
The most sensible answer would be if a wife will hit her husband then a husband in rage can harm the woman and hit her much harder since he has a thing called ego. So its Allah's mercy to keep woman safe from the men and their nature being strong physically.
This guy is still in the 7th century. Nobody can beat anyone and should not. Don't spread hatred. Instead of beating her lightly, Hug her tightly. Calm her down, make her understand. If she resists, Keep doing the same till she stops.
Even if she cheats will u , ar u gonna hug ur wife???
Definitely u gonna slap her 😏
@@NK236wtf are you saying slapping best option
@@NK236so what if men is cheating her? Pls rply..dont say teacher student relation l.. hus n wife are partners not like a teacher student relation.. pls answer my ques with appropriate ans
@@asha2988 That men should be punished..
And better if a woman divorsed such violent husband...
We belief in equality justice ⚖️
Ur liberalism westernism doesn't
@@asha2988 And amongst God’s signs is that He created for you spouses from amongst you and placed between you love and mercy”
Qur’an 30:21
Do not strike the female servants of God.”
Sunan Ibn Majah
A womanizer doesnt deserve respect from his wife. He doesnt even deserve a wife.
Is self defense, can a wife hit him if he is beating
Yes better for you will be to move to a safe space .
Let say some harrases you on the street better is to move from that place to safe zone but if you think if you slap him and he will leave her then it's ok but it may make him more angry and may be he come on more violence so better is to go to safe place
Are you physically more strong that you can do self defence? Better is to move to safe space, divorce him and file a complaint against him
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Assalamualaikum dr. Zakir naik sir
You are my one of my favourite scholar.
I watched the vedio of allama abdullah tariq sir of surah nisa ayat 34.
He clearly explain this ayah.
But your answer is different from him.
Iam requesting you sir to watch the vedio of allama sir , and guide me the right way.
Hope you understand
May Allah bless you aafiya
Ameen
The example of teacher and student doesn't relate to the question..worst explanation
What if he is the physically abusive husband?
Divorce him immediately
Assalamu alaikum, if a husband cheats on her wife and keep lying to her about a loads of stuffs which he wouldn’t have done and if the wife finds out all those at a moment of time and slaps him on the heat of the moment is that haram too???
Yes, because he will hit you more because he is physically more strong. Better is to leave him permanently
assalāmu aleikom wa rahmatuLlāhi wa barakātuH, my dear sibling in Islam! I hope this message finds you well and that Allah is blessing you with His grace and mercy. I wanted to gently remind you that displaying images of women, which would additionally include non-sharia prescriped displays hijabi women’s faces and hands is not permitted in Islam, as stated by contemporary scholars such as Sheikh Uthmān Al Khamēs. This is not in regards to the matter of niqab versus hijab, rather this is in regards to the matter of posting online. I know you most likely did not do this with abhorrent intentions, and that is why I am reminding you of this ruling with love and kindness. Please take some time to reflect on this matter, and know that I am writing this out of a place of care and concern and obedience to Allah in enjoining good and forbidding evil, and not out of a place of judgment 💛💛 c
I agree. She-goats should not attack he-goats
He goats are stronger so they should definitely not hit the she goats
Are there any actual Islamic scholars?
It is there in majority of religion, son cannot punish mother, wife cannot punish husband what is speciality of islam here? In hinduism also mother is top and also wife should be under husband....
Huh, mother is 3 times more important than father in Islam, fool and husband should beat his wife lightly/gently, that's a final warning then after that divorce by the husband because the wife is too much disobedient and transgressing against her husband, if her husband beats her violently, then she has the full right to divorce her husband. In Hinduism, there is no concept of divorce, your Indian Constitution gave your women that right few decades ago.😅🤣🤣
@niceguy3117 so husband can beat wife as final warning but wife can't beat husband and you say mother is 3 times more important than father. Don't forget wife is mother of your children
@@rahulbattula3958 The reason why wife cannot beat husband because a man is always physically strong than the woman so the husband will overpower her which would lead to harm for the woman. Harming the woman is totally prohibited/forbidden/haram in Islam and if there is any harm on the woman, she has the right to divorce. Unlike your Indian Cultures where parents advise the daughter to adjust in the family where she is being beaten/tortured everyday or few days a week, in Islam a daughter has the right to disobey her parents if her parents tell her to adjust in an abusive family and then she can get remarried.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) enjoined kind treatment and honouring of one’s wife, and he described the best of people as those who are best to their wives. He said: “The best of you are those who are the best to their wives.
As to those women on whose part you see ill-conduct, admonish(advise) them (first), (next) refuse to share their beds, (and last) strike them (lightly, if it is useful); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance). Surely, Allah is Ever Most High, Most Great” [al-Nisa 4:34].
If a woman rebels against her husband and disobeys his commands, then he should follow this method of admonishing(advising) her, forsaking(not sharing) her in bed and striking her lightly.
It is not permissible in Islam for a man to deliberately harm his wife physically or emotionally.
Allah said:
وَلَا تُضَارُّوهُنَّ لِتُضَيِّقُوا عَلَيْهِنَّ
Do not harm them in order to make it difficult for them.
Surah al-Talaq 65:6
Al-Hasan al-Basri said: “This means that it should not cause pain.”
Ata’ reported: Ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased with him, said:
ضَرْبًا غَيْرَ مُبَرِّحٍ
It is a striking without severity.
It was said, “What is a striking without severity?” Ibn Abbas said:
بِالسِّوَاكِ وَنَحْوِهِ
It is with a toothstick or something similar.
Source: Tafsīr al-Ṭabarī 4:34
Al-Razi writes:
أن يكون الضرب بمنديل ملفوف أو بيده ولا يضربها بالسياط ولا بالعصا
It should be a striking with a folded handkerchief or his palm, and he should not strike her with whips or clubs.
Source: Tafsīr al-Rāzī 4:34
Al-Zamakhshari writes:
وَقَالُوا يَجِبُ أَنْ يَكُونَ ضَرْبًا غَيْرَ مُبَرِّحٍ لا يَجْرَحُهَا وَلا يَكْسِرُ لَهَا عَظْمًا وَيَجْتَنِبُ الْوَجْهَ
Scholars said it must be a striking without severity. It may not cause injury, nor break bones, and he must not hit her face.
Source: al-Kashshāf 4:34
In this regard, the best course of action for a Muslim man is to never strike his wife at all. The action of symbolically striking his wife, within the aforementioned legal limits, is considered by scholars to be permissible but ‘disapproved’ (makruh), meaning a Muslim man will be divinely rewarded for not doing so.
In sum, the Quran does not allow Muslims to harm or ‘beat’ their wives. Rather, the ‘striking’ mentioned in the verse is a symbolic gesture and a last resort to correct a wife’s misbehavior, before initiating divorce. If a husband harms his wife in any way, she has the right to seek a divorce from him and then get remarried.
no modern Hindu thinks wife and husband is like student and teacher, nore does any Hindu today say a husband can physically deciplin the wife, and specially in name of religion or culture. what you said about Hindus telling daughters to stay in bad merrages, that's a bad part of culture unlike what happens in islamic ntions all the time in name of religion telling her she will go to jahanam for devorsing or such things, or for refusing to let her husband have sex with her sometimes
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prophet married a 6 year old