@@HuffyPup it's just strange and bad writing from dhar mann. The point of a nanny is taking care of kids when the parents are out. The mother is there the whole time! She clearly doesn't care about the kids health and education and the kids are somehow failing 7000+1. That question is for preschoolers. ain't no way 13 yo are failing.
Another tone-deaf aspect of the ending: the whole "be nicer to people in your employ" aspect when Dhar Mann's just been exposed for being a terrible boss in more ways than one.
Ya know what’s unrealistic? The kids wanting to eat “sweets” for dinner and play outside before homework,dhar needs to know that children at that age would not be concerned about eating candy for dinner
The moral of this story, you shouldn’t be shitty to your employees. Dhar man; I’m not gonna pay my employees above minimum wage and if they complain I’m going to sack them
Im 22 and a full time Nanny. These kids I’ve been with for 1.5 years. I honestly relate a lot to this. The parents constantly let them eat candy and cookies for breakfast and whenever they throw tantrums. The parents are never around and spoilt their kids with junk food to make up for it. It’s really sad and the kids are are already facing lots of health issues mental and physical. They are only 3 and 4. I always try to encourage healthy food and rules but the parents always lie and obey their every demand just so they’ll stay happy.
A nanny's job is to take care of the kids instead of the parents. Nannies and babysitters are different. That's one thing the video got right. Rich people often don't take care of their own kids. They hire someone else to do it for them.
@@marshyboy4637notably dhar mann videos are ridiculously unrealistic, but you’d also be surprised at how many stay at home parents don’t actually pay attention to their kids despite being in the same household. 🤷♀️
Most of the time these "mothers" marry the man for the money and the "father" wants to continue his legacy soooo case in point the mother just has the children so she can stay with the money sad but most not all of the time true
"being a nanny isn't easy" about your own kids is just like when people say that they're "babysitting" their kids that night. It's not babysitting, they're your kids!
What they should’ve done is say that child care isn’t easy. Doesn’t matter if it’s being a parent, nanny, or babysitter. But yeah the mom saying that “being a nanny isn’t easy” doesn’t at all make sense.
As much as I f*cking hate this channel, I'll give this lady props for that one scene. Hell she may have just been letting out anger from not getting paid the right amount. Bet Dhar was like "Woah Kath, I didn't ask for this type of acting, let's go back to our piss acting😂"
This reminds me of my childhood. I still don't know what my Mom did all day. We had a full-time housekeeper/nanny and my Mom didn't work. I definitely learned alot from her and learned to be independent from her and not be as entitled as my Mom was. Rip Mama Jean ❤
I think the real crime from the mom in this video is contradicting the nanny in front of the kids. She sent a message to the kids saying "this person holds no authority over you" and then the nanny's job suddenly became hell for the rest of the video since the kids don't see a need to respect her
@@Adrianne519Ya and they’ve grown so accustomed to the mom allowing whatever they want so they also don’t see a reason to listen to her rules cause she’s shown them she won’t enforce any
You're 100% correct. It's children raised this way that we''ll see in a body cam video in 15 years, when getting pulled over for a DUI, throwing tantrums, falsely accusing the officer and crying to call mommy. They have no accountability, think no one can tell them what to do and if they make a big enough fuss, they'll get their way. A nation of toddlers will be running the world soon and it's terrifying.
I was just saying the same thing. He made the mom be the nanny? No. He made the mom be a mom. And how are you gonna have kids and be so useless at parenting that you can’t take care of them by the time they’re in middle school?
@@jborrego2406 I’ll repeat myself. How are you going to have kids and be so useless at parenting that you can’t take care of them by the time they’re in middle school? “At lot of people do” isn’t a good excuse for being so shit at what should be your main priority that you can’t even be sorta decent at it after 12+ years. If you don’t want kids and end up with them, then that’s fine. There were options to prevent that from happening, but shit happens. But if you’re gonna make the decision to keep them, then step the fuck up and get your priorities together. I hate kids, but I know for a fact that if it was the only thing that I had to do and I didn’t have to balance it with having a job, I’d be able to keep these dumbass kids fed for a week or a month or however long it took before this stupid bimbo had to throw up her hands and resign to hiring another nanny. Hell, if they were infants I’d understand her being so exhausted, but they’re at an age where they can go to sleep on their own or feed themselves if they get hungry and don’t need someone to help them use the bathroom and are away at school for almost half the day during the week.
Yeah, that woman with heterochromia is going to be one of the only old ones left because for some reason she supported him. My thought is she has some other source of income, but of course I don't really know.
It’s so crazy that a real human actually wrote a script where a mother refers to herself as a “nanny” after taking care of her OWN children and then begs her husband to get a new nanny so they no longer have to take care of their own children is absolutely WILD to me I almost can’t believe it. There’s no way Dhar Man studios isn’t trolling with this video.
Dhar Mann basically just rehashed that one video where the rich lady bullies her maid and considers her job really easy until she's forced to do it after she fired her and then rehires again (and ironically that lady was played by the same actress who plays the nanny in this video) Dhar Mann needs to come up with new material, also I love your Dhar Mann videos August, they're so funny and entertaining! 😅
I have a friend who's a nanny and she says stuff like this happens all the time. Parents set the rules and then the parents break the rules and blame her.
"Being a nanny is not as easy as it looks" You mean being a mom ? Like the responsibilities you _chose_ to have ? That's crazy, it's almost like you should've known !
The fact Dhar Mann choose to have teens play kids who are supposed to be around 5 years younger then them instead of kids who were at least 10. To play kids who are 8 or 9 years old. Like they are supposed to be in grade three yet they look like they are going to high school.
This story is deeper than it seems. Mrs. Jenkins is an uncaring mother that leaves her kids with a nanny, and Mrs. Jenkins spoils her kids often so that her kids think she loves them.
You are right. You need a LOT of patience and passion to be a nanny/babysitter. I worked in a nursery for a few hours at a time on Sundays, and a few times otherwise for events my church hosted. A few times, I did babysit for others for even longer periods of time. The majority of the time it was kids 3 and younger. The amount that kids cry for seemingly no reason, the amount of attention they require, and the fact that sometimes they rather be with their own parents far more than they want to be with you REALLY wears on the nerves when you have to deal with that for hours on end. If you don't have a heart for it, you will literally be watching the clock and sprinting to your car as soon as your shift is over and it's difficult getting up the next day knowing that you have to do it all over again. I used to be able to do it with more ease, but now? I'm just worn out and can't imagine picking up the babysitting gig again unless the kid easily gets along with me, is consolable when they get upset, and I have some freedom in the way that I work with them (as in not having to do something such as sticking to a strict schedule for feeding, sleeping, napping, etc). The last one is very important because it gives me more room to experiment and find out what the kid really likes. PS most babies and toddlers calm down and end up going to sleep if you either gently roll around with them in a wheeled office chair. I suppose the movement is calming similarly to a car ride. If you hold them for a while after they dose off before putting them down (I tend to shoot for 15-30 minutes), they tend to stay asleep. The worst thing you can do with a baby is put them down as soon as they fall asleep, because they wake right back up and you have to start over again :)
But unfortunately, it is necessary. The doctor or nurse can't have a mental breakdown every time something goes wrong with the patient (not even necessarily death, just any complication). Otherwise, they wouldn't be mentally able to work in this environment. They need to be focused on what is actually happening, so they know how to help.@@t1mburt0nsdandruff
I used to do babysitting. Helping my aunt or family friends was easy, but other kids were a hassle. They liked us but they didn't usually listen and being younger teens we weren't really sure what to do at that point. I absolutely love kids and I want my own, but babysitting, especially if they're spoiled like the kids in the video, I don’t know if I can handle; at least not currently.
I have not once in my entire life encountered any kids who want to eat that much candy before a meal. Snack on candy too much outside of them, maybe, but for actual meals they still want substantial food first.
They are old enough to make the decision whether they will eat candy before dinner or not. Most people around that age don't even like candy that much anymore
@@AWasteOfYourTime8205 So what is the problem then? They're also old enough to make the decision to stay up all night, skip classes and whatever detrimental thing a normal parent would not want their child to do. It's like no wonder your country is so fat, even the video maker thinks it's okay to encourage kids to adopt bad habits and then OH GEE I wonder why they won't eat dinner or go to sleep, who could have seen this coming?!
Hath no one else noticed that the kids test sheets stated that they were in THIRD GRADE? Now, I've heard some rather bad rich kid stories from nannies online, but this is beyond strange. Well, between that and two kids that "age" sharing the same bedroom.
Noticed that myself. The sheet said the son was in third grade and he was the "younger" child (though he looked older than the daughter) and while I couldn't see what the daughter's sheet said, the average age gap is about two to two and half years between siblings so lets use that. The actors looked like they were 12/13 (at minimum, I also admittedly suck with aging people), so assuming that they were supposed to be that age that would mean the son was 12 and in a grade that is traditionally held by eight to nine year olds. Let's assume the daughter had the same educational patterns as the son and is the average two years older, that would mean she's 14 in fifth grade where the average student is 10 to 11 years old.That would mean they got held back three years. Then, they were doing simple math problems that looked way more simplistic than "third grade intermediate". And that is WITHOUT getting into the issue of opposite sex children sharing a bedroom at those ages. Then again, I'm just overthinking some props and scene dressing that were created by prop and scene design departments that don't communicate with the casting and writing departments, or (more likely) whipped up by Dhar himself in two seconds using premade forms and cheapest sets, not caring about the little details that help to actually make a narrative work better instead of copy/paste shlock that is designed to be churned out quickly to feed the beast of the UA-cam algorithm.
I shared a room with my sib from like 4th-6th grade. Admittedly, it was because a wasp nest was started in her room and it took us years to figure out where they were coming from so she slept in the living room with me. I had the cot in front of the tv and she had the fold out couch. We had dirty sock wars in the evenings. She is 5 years older than me. When the new house was built on the same property (the old house being over 100 years old with crumbling foundation and little insulation), we got separate rooms again but still shared a wall.
I'm gonna be honest. The main reason I tune in to August The Duck is to hear his complaints about Dhar Mann. Mainly because his critiques are the best I have seen. I recently gave up on Dhar Mann altogether based on the allegations and I'm kinda glad I did. He isn't changing lives, he's just telling lame stories with overused morals. Edit: Based on everything you have said this video by Dhar Mann is Terrible. Every Character is written horribly. Especially the mother after the nanny leaves. It's like after the nanny leaves everything goes downhill as if the problems were not already happening before she left. It's like she has never raised children before and needs a nanny to fucking do it. My God. If you can't raise your own children well enough, you are not even a parent at this point. Great video as always August
A nanny’s job is doing the parents’ job. Raising kids and all that. It sucks that people don’t want to stay at home and raise their kids themselves so they hired a stranger to do their job
@@t1mburt0nsdandruff Damm right. Also, this fucking mother doesn't seem to understand the basics of discipline. The nanny should have been more stricter and put her foot down and showed those kids who was boss. The dad is useless and the kids are written like 5 to 10 year olds. I cannot believe Dhar Mann writes these scripts and thinks they help anyone. Parents need to raise their children on their own and only call the nanny when the won't be back for a long time or call their grandparents. It's free and save them more money. This story is a big mess.
Better ending: husband says hey we are getting a divorce I'm leaving you for porsha since she's am actual good person who can take care of our kids since you can do crap
Better ending: Husband says “Hey, we’re getting a divorce I’m leaving you because you’re a useless wife who can’t even take care of her own kids and Porsha is just as useless since she supposedly raised the kids but they still turned out like crap, so I’m just gonna find a new wife and have a new family because fuck this one.”
I've been to Düsseldorf quite a bit over the years as I'm half German, something you'll most likely love is the bakeries in Germany as well as the cakes they have there. I find that the cakes are atleast 20x better there than the ones over here in Britain, so you'd most likely love them too. The McDonalds in Germany have McRibs which was pretty interesting my first time going there, several years back. I hope you enjoy your stay.
Berlin had so many museums and monument so I definitely recommend seeing as many as you can. The Topography of Terror and Holocaust Memorials are worth visiting. Tempelhof is really cool too because it was an airfield that was decommissioned and turned into a public space.
My mother experienced something similar to this, where the couple have contradicting instructions for their child. It's physically and emotionally draining. She left that family and never looked back.
I get the part about taking care of someone else's kids. I do that daily at the school I work at doing summer camp, extended, etc. Definitely something you have to be passionate about. Kids are a lot. But they can also be sweet, funny, and overall fun to be around. Of course it depends on the kid. But I for the most part enjoy being around them. When they come up to greet you with a hug and are excited to see you makes it all the more worth it. But some people have it, some don't. Not everyone enjoys kids and their craziness.
“You never know how hard someone’s job is until you do it yourself” This is why there needs to be paternity tests and by that I mean test to allow you to become a parent!
@@craigpegasus eh, its not really the same thing. If you know that the baby isn't real, then it wouldn't really give you the test that you'd want, because there aren't any stakes, no real connection to the baby it just wouldn't be the same experience.
Hey I'm glad you're finally doing that europe tour you mentioned in an earlier video ^^ I'm from germany myself but I'm in bavaria...so I can't really help with sightseeing
I'm a nanny, i take care of a 3 years old girl and her 8 months old little brother. I would NEVER try to undermine their mother. She has the rules, she knows her kids, I just follow the rules, and adjust to the childrens needs. But it's a common thing here, in France, and their mother and father still spending time with them. I'm just a hired playdate every other day.
These guys look old enough to be my classmates. I'm not 13 anymore but it's weird when Dhar Mann has 13 year olds acting like 06 year olds and 06 year olds acting as 13 year olds. I mean what teenager has a bedtime, plays before finishing deadly assignments and eats candy before to suffer in the hands of dinner? And the most important question of all: WHAT 13 YEAR OLD HAS A NANNY? Okay, maybe they're people who have a nanny at that age but I feel like at the age of 13, you're brave enough to stay at the house by yourself. And the cringiest line was Ariana's line: I'm not the oldest, I'm only 02 years old. Like heck, bruh even the 02 year olds who are the eldest child never say these. I mean, even before the age of 13, like 12, you're parents would not give you this much attention. And even to all the peeps out there that have nannies at this age, I'm sure your nanny doesn't spend too much time caring about you, since they know you're old enough to make your own choices. It's beginning to bug me on how Dhar Dhar makes these type of things.
The main thing I had to do in Germany was get a rental and hit 140mph on the autobahn. Greatest experience I’ll ever have driving in public legally. They are amazing drivers there the only advice I have is watch for drivers way ahead to have enough time to slow down if they change lanes. Have fun! Love the videos ❤
My mom was a nanny and she disagreed with some aspects of how the children were being raised and she almost got fired. So the best thing to ACTUALLY do is to do what the mother saids. Even if it gets kids unhealthier, spoiled, brats, whatever. My mom told me she’s not the parent, the mom is.
welcome to germany august! there are a lot of things you can do in berlin, such as: -visiting the berlin zoo -trying out a kebab or a currywurst -visiting the brandenburger gates and much more! sincerely, a german
only halfway through this video but by the candy incident i feel like i would have raised my hands and said, "okay, im leaving. clearly you, the doting mother who is barely ever around knows her kids better than I the person who has watched them, raised them and helped them grow up. good luck ma'am and dont call me for the teen years. Tweens are just the start,"
3:58 I feel like Dharman learned this, really late in life, and then started the channel to try and show the problems in the world, despite being so detached from humans and these problems that he can only approximate these situations when he writes about them.
7:13. I’m pretty sure it’s not age-inappropriate casting, but these are supposed to be teenagers acting as kids in-universe, as there are people in the world who act like they’re younger than they really are.
6:43 OK yes, a 13 year old is going to eat and sneak candy before dinner but there’s a difference between them sneaking it and you openly letting then eat it. You should a thousand percent try your best to instill healthy habits in your children and that includes not letting them eat candy before dinner, IF it does in fact result in them not wanting to eat actual food for dinner.
So the mom realizes that her letting her kids get what they want is good until she has to watch them? And the nanny, who is being blatantly abused, is very overworked, overwhelmed and stressed is ok with working with the same family who gave her all that stress? Also, the kids are supposed to be in 3rd grade yet I never acted like that nor have I seen anyone in third grade act like that.
I was in a situation where I had to be taken cared of by someone other than my parents and I can relate so much to those kids! Except I was seven. An actually little kid, unlike these literal middle schoolers acting like elementary students!!😂
Hey August you should go to Heidelberg in Germany. There’s a lot of old and amazing architecture as well as pedestrian area filled with shops,bars and restaurants.
dhar mann hiring actors way older than their characters to avoid dealing with having to properly get parental consent and pay appropriate compensation and what not is very on brand
Also raising someone’s else kid is hard they always pull up the “you’re not my mom” card and these mothers don’t take a moment to say to her kids this is your babysitter or big brother or sister and you have to show respect and listen to them I had the same issue with my mom over my sisters “you want me to help you but you don’t make it easy by telling them to respect me or listen to me”
Yeah, because being told to respect someone or listen to them is definitely going to make a disrespectful, unruly kid respect someone or listen to them.
Ain't no way she's complaining that she has to be a mother. Especially when she doesn't even have a job, she doesn't need a nanny who takes care of her children. Don't have kids if you aren't gonna raise them
5:50 LADY!!! It is non of your business whatsoever. You raise your children the way you want and let the mom raise hers the way she wants. This is ridiculous.
She was hired to take care of those kids so it is her business. If they mom wants to raise her kids however she wants she shouldn't have hired the nanny.
it’s actually really logical, if the kids eat candy, they’ll want more and more until they’re full and sick of eating, causing them to stop eating dinner.
the mother needs more than 1 day to be a “nanny” because she and the father let their kids be this spoiled. she needs to have more consequences for her actions than 1 bad day 😭
The mom saying "I can't do this anymore" ....what? ...being a mom?? Ohhhkay, what am I learning here again? Appreciate your nanny when you're a terrible mother and that it's OK if you're a terrible mother as long as you appreciate the nanny? 🤦♀️
"eating candy before dinner will spoil your appetite!" *proceeds to munch on snickers before eating my cooked food* AYO THIS SH GOOD THO I AIN'T GON' LIE :DD
Porsha - "please get the nanny back! I can't be a parent anymore!" What the actual f**k, Dhar Dhar?! Spoiled princess wife "can't" be a mom anymore, even after learning her lesson?! She must just really not love her kids much. It's one thing to NEED a nanny. It's one thing to need breaks from our kids. It's a totally different thing to not care enough to do the hard work of being a parent. I just don't see this being a real-life thing for the general population.
The ending is the best. 🤣 A mother can't grow her two children. 😂 My wife and I have four kids, it's no cake walk but we control them. A part of being a good parent is teaching them obedience and to listen to you.
I worked as a nanny. never ever would I even try to tell them what I wanted to do, I try my best to explain them what their mom and dad wanted me to do cause they don’t have the time… if I included them with the decision they loved it. And if one of them was way upset we would just sit there and wait or I’ll let them sit waiting for them to calm down. At the end of the day I would always tell and include the parents as well… guess I wasn’t a good nanny🤣
The mother saying “being a nanny isn’t easy” is ridiculous. She’s not being a nanny, she was being a mother. 🤦♂️
Facts. It's called parenting when it's your own kids 😂
FOR REAL! She's the literal mother 💀
Like why even have kids if you don't even consider yourself a mother.
@@HuffyPup it's just strange and bad writing from dhar mann. The point of a nanny is taking care of kids when the parents are out. The mother is there the whole time! She clearly doesn't care about the kids health and education and the kids are somehow failing 7000+1. That question is for preschoolers. ain't no way 13 yo are failing.
@@isaacevers Ikr, I'd be damned if that was my mom.
@@isaacevers Haha exactly!!!!
I love how the moral here is to treat people who work for you with respect....when Dhar Mann did the opposite to his actors
Sadly
Idk if he’s trying to gaslight us or if he’s really stupid
It’s damage control
The likes are *perfect..*
@@jaydaravendra4413what were the likes?
Another tone-deaf aspect of the ending: the whole "be nicer to people in your employ" aspect when Dhar Mann's just been exposed for being a terrible boss in more ways than one.
It's non existent
“They’re just kids, you should be able to control them”
That’s right, you tell her, mother of your kids
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Ya know what’s unrealistic? The kids wanting to eat “sweets” for dinner and play outside before homework,dhar needs to know that children at that age would not be concerned about eating candy for dinner
Yeah! I'm 40, and I'm only just now concerned about eating candy for dinner. I'm starting a bit early, but, it's groovy.
As a 13 year old i comfirm that eating candy for dinner is not something we do, well atleast me
I wouldn’t be caught dead skipping dinner
I don't dare eat anything before dinner, I fucking love my mom's cooking and I wouldn't want to ruin my appetite
@@AslgamingOffical agreed
The moral of this story, you shouldn’t be shitty to your employees. Dhar man; I’m not gonna pay my employees above minimum wage and if they complain I’m going to sack them
And this isn't the first "don't be mean to employees" video he's put out since the protest started.
Makes sense dhar mann, the worst employer would do this
Speaking of this I have theory for the children thing He got fed up of younger children so he started hiring olders ones instead
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Dhar man is just one huge duckwitt. I wish he would just duck 🦆 off!!!
I hate how dhar mann makes the 13 yo kids act like theyre 2 years old💀
That's sadly not the first time this has happened in the Dhar Mann Universe
They're supposed to be 8-9😭😭 they look 12
@@armychan7565 Fr, like my little cousins aren't even that immature
@@Coolharry64 Like in the "babysitter loses child" video, the little sister looks 12, and is playing tea party
@@chillbuni it’s very cringey with the fact that 13 year olds act like 6
Im 22 and a full time Nanny. These kids I’ve been with for 1.5 years. I honestly relate a lot to this. The parents constantly let them eat candy and cookies for breakfast and whenever they throw tantrums. The parents are never around and spoilt their kids with junk food to make up for it. It’s really sad and the kids are are already facing lots of health issues mental and physical. They are only 3 and 4.
I always try to encourage healthy food and rules but the parents always lie and obey their every demand just so they’ll stay happy.
Parents don’t know how to parent their kids like what’s the point in having kids if you can’t parent them? It makes no sense
@@tasha3939 exactly, it’s so sad:(
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@@tasha3939 ikr why is it so easy for this shit to happen???
This is the perfect example of "every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child"
"Being a NANNY is not easy" ma'am those are your own damn kids.
"You never know how hard someone's job is until you have to do it yourself." Bro what do you mean?? YOU'RE THEIR MOTHER.
A nanny's job is to take care of the kids instead of the parents. Nannies and babysitters are different.
That's one thing the video got right. Rich people often don't take care of their own kids. They hire someone else to do it for them.
@@me-myself-i787That's stupid especially since the mother does nothing to bring in money. She just stays at home
@@marshyboy4637notably dhar mann videos are ridiculously unrealistic, but you’d also be surprised at how many stay at home parents don’t actually pay attention to their kids despite being in the same household. 🤷♀️
Most of the time these "mothers" marry the man for the money and the "father" wants to continue his legacy soooo case in point the mother just has the children so she can stay with the money sad but most not all of the time true
"being a nanny isn't easy" about your own kids is just like when people say that they're "babysitting" their kids that night. It's not babysitting, they're your kids!
What they should’ve done is say that child care isn’t easy. Doesn’t matter if it’s being a parent, nanny, or babysitter. But yeah the mom saying that “being a nanny isn’t easy” doesn’t at all make sense.
“ *Remember, we’re not just telling stories, we’re exploiting our workers* “
8:40 Ok I’ll admit that was decent acting there
Mhm
As much as I f*cking hate this channel, I'll give this lady props for that one scene. Hell she may have just been letting out anger from not getting paid the right amount. Bet Dhar was like "Woah Kath, I didn't ask for this type of acting, let's go back to our piss acting😂"
yeah, that actress is actually pretty decent
It was decent acting but the script there was strange she wouldn't be crying and begging the husband to take her word over the wife's.
@@USA_UNITED1776 yeah, more realistically the nanny would just up and leave, no speech
This reminds me of my childhood. I still don't know what my Mom did all day. We had a full-time housekeeper/nanny and my Mom didn't work. I definitely learned alot from her and learned to be independent from her and not be as entitled as my Mom was. Rip Mama Jean ❤
Same! I’m alive bc of my nanny. Literally! RIP Sally 🕊️
edited because stupid question
@@She_Gave_Me_Quite_a_Show-_- Cause I’m 55 now. She’d be 120 yrs old
@@TeddyLovesAxl sorry that was a dumb question on my part :/
@@She_Gave_Me_Quite_a_Show-_- I actually laughed at it. I was like damn coz she be old asf now 😂
I think the real crime from the mom in this video is contradicting the nanny in front of the kids. She sent a message to the kids saying "this person holds no authority over you" and then the nanny's job suddenly became hell for the rest of the video since the kids don't see a need to respect her
Right! The kids never even learn to be better, they are probably going to keep being terrible 😂😂
@@Adrianne519Ya and they’ve grown so accustomed to the mom allowing whatever they want so they also don’t see a reason to listen to her rules cause she’s shown them she won’t enforce any
Omg do we have some people making sense in the comments? I thought the world was devoid of that.
You're 100% correct. It's children raised this way that we''ll see in a body cam video in 15 years, when getting pulled over for a DUI, throwing tantrums, falsely accusing the officer and crying to call mommy. They have no accountability, think no one can tell them what to do and if they make a big enough fuss, they'll get their way. A nation of toddlers will be running the world soon and it's terrifying.
@@Maiasatara A nation of toddlers has already been running the world, haven’t you seen our foreign policy of the past 80 or so years?
Taking care of your own children isn't being a nanny 😂
I was just saying the same thing. He made the mom be the nanny? No. He made the mom be a mom. And how are you gonna have kids and be so useless at parenting that you can’t take care of them by the time they’re in middle school?
@@xinf3ctdx well lot ppl do , they go back to work when baby 3 months an live in day care . An barely talk to there parents at home lol
@@jborrego2406 I’ll repeat myself. How are you going to have kids and be so useless at parenting that you can’t take care of them by the time they’re in middle school? “At lot of people do” isn’t a good excuse for being so shit at what should be your main priority that you can’t even be sorta decent at it after 12+ years. If you don’t want kids and end up with them, then that’s fine. There were options to prevent that from happening, but shit happens. But if you’re gonna make the decision to keep them, then step the fuck up and get your priorities together. I hate kids, but I know for a fact that if it was the only thing that I had to do and I didn’t have to balance it with having a job, I’d be able to keep these dumbass kids fed for a week or a month or however long it took before this stupid bimbo had to throw up her hands and resign to hiring another nanny. Hell, if they were infants I’d understand her being so exhausted, but they’re at an age where they can go to sleep on their own or feed themselves if they get hungry and don’t need someone to help them use the bathroom and are away at school for almost half the day during the week.
Like saying “I got babysitting duty” when you’re a dad
@@nationalinstituteofcheese3012 Pretty much describes my dad
Those kids look my age (13-14) and he’s making them act like they’re seven. I know my age group is considered “ immature” but we don’t act like that.
I don't know why people consider 14 and 13 years olds immature, maybe like 1 or 2 people on the internet but most of us are pretty chill XD
@@Fatih_M177 Fr people have literally told me how they like how I'm so calm and chill.
Honestly, I didn't act like this at all. Some of my classmates at that age were immature but even they weren't like that.
When it showed the homework, it said they were in 3rd grade.
I'd rather not work with 3rd graders, either.
And then in the hs videos they make 20 years old look like they r 15 idk man
You can clearly see how fast Dhar Mann replaces his actors, definitely shows he doesn't care about them even more.
Yeah, that woman with heterochromia is going to be one of the only old ones left because for some reason she supported him. My thought is she has some other source of income, but of course I don't really know.
@@rebeccahicks2392 that or she got a bigger amount of money for it
As a kid that's in that age group of 12-13 we do NOT act like that we're literally going through puberty and we barely even play outside anymore🙃
No 12 or 13 year old would act like toddlers. Wouldn’t they somewhat mature?
You two sound like toddlers about yell about a toy
@@Coloriey um, what?
Tru
@@ColorieyYou sound like a toddler about to make a big fuss outta nothing
“You’re blaming me for letting them eat the candy, after I let them eat the candy!”
Favorite line 😂
8:06
😂
It’s so crazy that a real human actually wrote a script where a mother refers to herself as a “nanny” after taking care of her OWN children and then begs her husband to get a new nanny so they no longer have to take care of their own children is absolutely WILD to me I almost can’t believe it. There’s no way Dhar Man studios isn’t trolling with this video.
Dhar Mann basically just rehashed that one video where the rich lady bullies her maid and considers her job really easy until she's forced to do it after she fired her and then rehires again (and ironically that lady was played by the same actress who plays the nanny in this video) Dhar Mann needs to come up with new material, also I love your Dhar Mann videos August, they're so funny and entertaining! 😅
I Said the same thing. Vid Chronicles had the exact same video. Dhar believes in the adage of use, recycle, repeat.
Also savior complex.
Dhar Mann needs to come up with new material? You mean you only just now realized that? I realized that about his videos about 2 or 3 years ago.
He rehashes a lot of his videos
How he's still going strong is beyond me
I have a friend who's a nanny and she says stuff like this happens all the time. Parents set the rules and then the parents break the rules and blame her.
Fuck, that sucks. I thought retail was bad.
"Being a nanny is not as easy as it looks"
You mean being a mom ? Like the responsibilities you _chose_ to have ? That's crazy, it's almost like you should've known !
The fact Dhar Mann choose to have teens play kids who are supposed to be around 5 years younger then them instead of kids who were at least 10. To play kids who are 8 or 9 years old. Like they are supposed to be in grade three yet they look like they are going to high school.
This story is deeper than it seems. Mrs. Jenkins is an uncaring mother that leaves her kids with a nanny, and Mrs. Jenkins spoils her kids often so that her kids think she loves them.
I think anyone with a brain knows this already because it's very obvious
You are right. You need a LOT of patience and passion to be a nanny/babysitter. I worked in a nursery for a few hours at a time on Sundays, and a few times otherwise for events my church hosted. A few times, I did babysit for others for even longer periods of time. The majority of the time it was kids 3 and younger. The amount that kids cry for seemingly no reason, the amount of attention they require, and the fact that sometimes they rather be with their own parents far more than they want to be with you REALLY wears on the nerves when you have to deal with that for hours on end. If you don't have a heart for it, you will literally be watching the clock and sprinting to your car as soon as your shift is over and it's difficult getting up the next day knowing that you have to do it all over again.
I used to be able to do it with more ease, but now? I'm just worn out and can't imagine picking up the babysitting gig again unless the kid easily gets along with me, is consolable when they get upset, and I have some freedom in the way that I work with them (as in not having to do something such as sticking to a strict schedule for feeding, sleeping, napping, etc). The last one is very important because it gives me more room to experiment and find out what the kid really likes.
PS most babies and toddlers calm down and end up going to sleep if you either gently roll around with them in a wheeled office chair. I suppose the movement is calming similarly to a car ride. If you hold them for a while after they dose off before putting them down (I tend to shoot for 15-30 minutes), they tend to stay asleep. The worst thing you can do with a baby is put them down as soon as they fall asleep, because they wake right back up and you have to start over again :)
for me its hospitals and elderly homes, i dont understand how ppl can work in those places without becoming depressed
@@pizza134 Doctors are trained to be so deprived of emotion when their patient dies. It’s heartbreaking
@@pizza134My mom works with mentally challenged people. I don't get how she does it. She's very compassionate though.
But unfortunately, it is necessary. The doctor or nurse can't have a mental breakdown every time something goes wrong with the patient (not even necessarily death, just any complication). Otherwise, they wouldn't be mentally able to work in this environment. They need to be focused on what is actually happening, so they know how to help.@@t1mburt0nsdandruff
I used to do babysitting. Helping my aunt or family friends was easy, but other kids were a hassle. They liked us but they didn't usually listen and being younger teens we weren't really sure what to do at that point.
I absolutely love kids and I want my own, but babysitting, especially if they're spoiled like the kids in the video, I don’t know if I can handle; at least not currently.
Treating your nanny as a housekeeper is the surest way to lose a nanny.
I have not once in my entire life encountered any kids who want to eat that much candy before a meal. Snack on candy too much outside of them, maybe, but for actual meals they still want substantial food first.
They are old enough to make the decision whether they will eat candy before dinner or not. Most people around that age don't even like candy that much anymore
@@AWasteOfYourTime8205 So what is the problem then? They're also old enough to make the decision to stay up all night, skip classes and whatever detrimental thing a normal parent would not want their child to do. It's like no wonder your country is so fat, even the video maker thinks it's okay to encourage kids to adopt bad habits and then OH GEE I wonder why they won't eat dinner or go to sleep, who could have seen this coming?!
@@JeffreyBenzodiazepines I'm not even American
@bakielh229 so then file a complaint with August, not me
@@AWasteOfYourTime8205Why would I do that, is he your dad or something?
You can literally tell the boys voice is going thru puberty 💀
Hath no one else noticed that the kids test sheets stated that they were in THIRD GRADE? Now, I've heard some rather bad rich kid stories from nannies online, but this is beyond strange. Well, between that and two kids that "age" sharing the same bedroom.
Noticed that myself.
The sheet said the son was in third grade and he was the "younger" child (though he looked older than the daughter) and while I couldn't see what the daughter's sheet said, the average age gap is about two to two and half years between siblings so lets use that.
The actors looked like they were 12/13 (at minimum, I also admittedly suck with aging people), so assuming that they were supposed to be that age that would mean the son was 12 and in a grade that is traditionally held by eight to nine year olds. Let's assume the daughter had the same educational patterns as the son and is the average two years older, that would mean she's 14 in fifth grade where the average student is 10 to 11 years old.That would mean they got held back three years. Then, they were doing simple math problems that looked way more simplistic than "third grade intermediate".
And that is WITHOUT getting into the issue of opposite sex children sharing a bedroom at those ages.
Then again, I'm just overthinking some props and scene dressing that were created by prop and scene design departments that don't communicate with the casting and writing departments, or (more likely) whipped up by Dhar himself in two seconds using premade forms and cheapest sets, not caring about the little details that help to actually make a narrative work better instead of copy/paste shlock that is designed to be churned out quickly to feed the beast of the UA-cam algorithm.
I mean, I shared a room with my twin until around 6th or 7th grade
I shared a room with my sib from like 4th-6th grade. Admittedly, it was because a wasp nest was started in her room and it took us years to figure out where they were coming from so she slept in the living room with me. I had the cot in front of the tv and she had the fold out couch. We had dirty sock wars in the evenings. She is 5 years older than me.
When the new house was built on the same property (the old house being over 100 years old with crumbling foundation and little insulation), we got separate rooms again but still shared a wall.
@@catelynh1020Same! I used to share a room with my little brother but thankfully i can sleep in peace now. We still share a wall though.
@thepalaceworm- i was looking for this comment. Thank you
I'm gonna be honest. The main reason I tune in to August The Duck is to hear his complaints about Dhar Mann. Mainly because his critiques are the best I have seen. I recently gave up on Dhar Mann altogether based on the allegations and I'm kinda glad I did. He isn't changing lives, he's just telling lame stories with overused morals.
Edit: Based on everything you have said this video by Dhar Mann is Terrible.
Every Character is written horribly.
Especially the mother after the nanny leaves.
It's like after the nanny leaves everything goes downhill as if the problems were not already happening before she left.
It's like she has never raised children before and needs a nanny to fucking do it. My God.
If you can't raise your own children well enough, you are not even a parent at this point.
Great video as always August
A nanny’s job is doing the parents’ job. Raising kids and all that. It sucks that people don’t want to stay at home and raise their kids themselves so they hired a stranger to do their job
@@t1mburt0nsdandruff Damm right. Also, this fucking mother doesn't seem to understand the basics of discipline. The nanny should have been more stricter and put her foot down and showed those kids who was boss. The dad is useless and the kids are written like 5 to 10 year olds. I cannot believe Dhar Mann writes these scripts and thinks they help anyone. Parents need to raise their children on their own and only call the nanny when the won't be back for a long time or call their grandparents. It's free and save them more money. This story is a big mess.
Better ending: husband says hey we are getting a divorce I'm leaving you for porsha since she's am actual good person who can take care of our kids since you can do crap
Better ending: Husband says “Hey, we’re getting a divorce I’m leaving you because you’re a useless wife who can’t even take care of her own kids and Porsha is just as useless since she supposedly raised the kids but they still turned out like crap, so I’m just gonna find a new wife and have a new family because fuck this one.”
The good ending
we deserve that ending
That would be a great ending
Realistic ending
I’ve babysat for parents like this as a teenager, so you’re right. She would’ve quit or just stopped caring, I know I’ve done both.
"2:52"
Isn't that why you hired her?
I've been to Düsseldorf quite a bit over the years as I'm half German, something you'll most likely love is the bakeries in Germany as well as the cakes they have there. I find that the cakes are atleast 20x better there than the ones over here in Britain, so you'd most likely love them too. The McDonalds in Germany have McRibs which was pretty interesting my first time going there, several years back. I hope you enjoy your stay.
I agree. My ex was German and she loved her country's bakeries, I could see (& taste) why 😋
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Imagine one day August posts about a dharr video that's actually good.
Facts
That would be interesting, but it seems sadly impossible for dhar to write well :(
That’s a funny joke.
Hahahahahahahhhaahahahahahhahahaaahhahahahahahahhahhahaaahhahahhahahahaahahhha
@thegametheoristsoff 🗿
Dhar Mann: *Makes videos about how you should treat people who work for you with respect*
Also Dhar Mann: *Doesn't respect his actors*
I swear I've heard the line " *I'm so sorry for how I treated you* " 20 times now 😂
Dhar Mann never changes our lives for the better, he changes it for the worst
KonoSuba and Re:Zero changed my life more than Dhar mann
3:36 YO BARS
Mark my words August’s gonna become a soundcloud rapper with that line.
4:14 ok but what kind of psychopath would eat candy over this food? i looks so tasty dude!
100%
Dhar Mann- "The nanny leaves"
Me- "Oh, so the parents will learn to be actual parents right?"
Dhar Mann- "nO"
Berlin had so many museums and monument so I definitely recommend seeing as many as you can. The Topography of Terror and Holocaust Memorials are worth visiting. Tempelhof is really cool too because it was an airfield that was decommissioned and turned into a public space.
My mother experienced something similar to this, where the couple have contradicting instructions for their child.
It's physically and emotionally draining. She left that family and never looked back.
I get the part about taking care of someone else's kids. I do that daily at the school I work at doing summer camp, extended, etc. Definitely something you have to be passionate about. Kids are a lot. But they can also be sweet, funny, and overall fun to be around. Of course it depends on the kid. But I for the most part enjoy being around them. When they come up to greet you with a hug and are excited to see you makes it all the more worth it. But some people have it, some don't. Not everyone enjoys kids and their craziness.
I honestly haven't watched Dhar Mann for a year but augusttheduck's videos never disappoint
“You never know how hard someone’s job is until you do it yourself”
This is why there needs to be paternity tests and by that I mean test to allow you to become a parent!
Too many idiots are allowed to breed.
They should give you one of those lifelike baby dolls for a month and track how you do. It’s actually not a bad idea lol.
@@craigpegasus The real question is what happened to the kid after they fail 😶
@@craigpegasus You don't even have to test me I know I would be terrible. I mean I'm just a teenager but I wouldn't be a great parent me thinks.
@@craigpegasus eh, its not really the same thing. If you know that the baby isn't real, then it wouldn't really give you the test that you'd want, because there aren't any stakes, no real connection to the baby it just wouldn't be the same experience.
"A little candy never hurt anyone."
Diabetes type 2
Obesity
Strokes
High blood pressure
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Hey I'm glad you're finally doing that europe tour you mentioned in an earlier video ^^ I'm from germany myself but I'm in bavaria...so I can't really help with sightseeing
“the dad makes the mom be the nanny” you mean the dad makes the mom be a mom? 🤨
4:30 got me dead💀
7:54 I’m pretty sure she gave them each like,a handful of candy. So like 3 or 4 pieces. So i think that they went and got more.
I'm a nanny, i take care of a 3 years old girl and her 8 months old little brother. I would NEVER try to undermine their mother. She has the rules, she knows her kids, I just follow the rules, and adjust to the childrens needs. But it's a common thing here, in France, and their mother and father still spending time with them. I'm just a hired playdate every other day.
These guys look old enough to be my classmates. I'm not 13 anymore but it's weird when Dhar Mann has 13 year olds acting like 06 year olds and 06 year olds acting as 13 year olds. I mean what teenager has a bedtime, plays before finishing deadly assignments and eats candy before to suffer in the hands of dinner? And the most important question of all: WHAT 13 YEAR OLD HAS A NANNY? Okay, maybe they're people who have a nanny at that age but I feel like at the age of 13, you're brave enough to stay at the house by yourself. And the cringiest line was Ariana's line: I'm not the oldest, I'm only 02 years old. Like heck, bruh even the 02 year olds who are the eldest child never say these. I mean, even before the age of 13, like 12, you're parents would not give you this much attention. And even to all the peeps out there that have nannies at this age, I'm sure your nanny doesn't spend too much time caring about you, since they know you're old enough to make your own choices. It's beginning to bug me on how Dhar Dhar makes these type of things.
9:40 oh hell nah wdym? who would ever say no to nuggets and french fries?
The main thing I had to do in Germany was get a rental and hit 140mph on the autobahn. Greatest experience I’ll ever have driving in public legally. They are amazing drivers there the only advice I have is watch for drivers way ahead to have enough time to slow down if they change lanes. Have fun! Love the videos ❤
1:28 and so do i
Say goodbye!
*g u n s h o t*
Is this a rickroll
the mother was acting like they werent even her kids
My mom was a nanny and she disagreed with some aspects of how the children were being raised and she almost got fired. So the best thing to ACTUALLY do is to do what the mother saids. Even if it gets kids unhealthier, spoiled, brats, whatever. My mom told me she’s not the parent, the mom is.
"being a nanny is not as easy as it looks"
Actually, it's called being a mom when they're your kids
welcome to germany august!
there are a lot of things you can do in berlin, such as:
-visiting the berlin zoo
-trying out a kebab or a currywurst
-visiting the brandenburger gates
and much more!
sincerely, a german
I really hate how dhar mann makes 10-13 year olds act like small children. Realistically speaking, a child in this age range would not act like this.
only halfway through this video but by the candy incident i feel like i would have raised my hands and said, "okay, im leaving. clearly you, the doting mother who is barely ever around knows her kids better than I the person who has watched them, raised them and helped them grow up. good luck ma'am and dont call me for the teen years. Tweens are just the start,"
The grip on the candy 💀
3:58 I feel like Dharman learned this, really late in life, and then started the channel to try and show the problems in the world, despite being so detached from humans and these problems that he can only approximate these situations when he writes about them.
As a nanny for a very wealthy family I sadly see a lot of my worst days in this
My thought was what’s the point of hiring a nanny if you’re just gonna override everything she says? Why not just raise your own kids?
It's called being lazy, but she wasn't lazy enough to crawl in bed and create them and go shopping all the time
7:13. I’m pretty sure it’s not age-inappropriate casting, but these are supposed to be teenagers acting as kids in-universe, as there are people in the world who act like they’re younger than they really are.
Teenagers???They can't be any older than 12. As a teen im offended
@@anonymous.468. I apologize.
keep making dhar mann content
anyone else agree?
I agree
Hell yeah 😅
I agree
Yep
Yaz
6:43 OK yes, a 13 year old is going to eat and sneak candy before dinner but there’s a difference between them sneaking it and you openly letting then eat it. You should a thousand percent try your best to instill healthy habits in your children and that includes not letting them eat candy before dinner, IF it does in fact result in them not wanting to eat actual food for dinner.
9:57 honey that’s called being a mother
9:02 My kid is a nanny, and loves it. I still can't wrap my head around that.
Why hire a nanny if you're just going to undermine everything she does?
So the mom realizes that her letting her kids get what they want is good until she has to watch them? And the nanny, who is being blatantly abused, is very overworked, overwhelmed and stressed is ok with working with the same family who gave her all that stress?
Also, the kids are supposed to be in 3rd grade yet I never acted like that nor have I seen anyone in third grade act like that.
I was in a situation where I had to be taken cared of by someone other than my parents and I can relate so much to those kids! Except I was seven. An actually little kid, unlike these literal middle schoolers acting like elementary students!!😂
August "I'll let me kids do whatever the fuck they want" The Duck
I Love it when you dunk on Dhar Mann. It truly puts a smile on my face. This one is the Delorean of crappy life lesson vids.
Hey August you should go to Heidelberg in Germany. There’s a lot of old and amazing architecture as well as pedestrian area filled with shops,bars and restaurants.
Well then he can also visit Mainz etc. However now he is in Berlin and needs advice for that city
Charles Dharrmann continues to survive, and so do his videos. It's always good to see one of these reactions
No one:
Every person in the Dhar Mann Fam: "HoW DaRe YoU MakE FuN OF OuR LoRD AnD SaViOR!"
Every Dhar Mann Fan over the age of 9: They don't exist.
Me to Dhar Mann cultists: Ever heard of Terminators of SAO (Sword Art Online)
Why does Dhar Mann make 13-14 year olds act like they’re 4 years old
I actually find eating before dinner helps my appetite
dhar mann hiring actors way older than their characters to avoid dealing with having to properly get parental consent and pay appropriate compensation and what not is very on brand
Also raising someone’s else kid is hard they always pull up the “you’re not my mom” card and these mothers don’t take a moment to say to her kids this is your babysitter or big brother or sister and you have to show respect and listen to them I had the same issue with my mom over my sisters “you want me to help you but you don’t make it easy by telling them to respect me or listen to me”
Yeah, because being told to respect someone or listen to them is definitely going to make a disrespectful, unruly kid respect someone or listen to them.
@@xinf3ctdxnope but a least I have the power to spank the respect out of them
Ur not raising them ur taking care of them. Ur paying for them
@@chrispinion until they get bigger an fight back unless u have a girl there easier to abuse
@@jborrego2406the parents that hire a nanny are the ones that’s supposed the raise them in the first place
Dhar man video comments a few weeks ago: I hate Dhar Mann he is a terrible person
Dhar man video comments now: Thank you for inspiring us Dhar
Yk it’s a great day when August posts a video about Dhar Mann✨
Ain't no way she's complaining that she has to be a mother. Especially when she doesn't even have a job, she doesn't need a nanny who takes care of her children. Don't have kids if you aren't gonna raise them
5:50 LADY!!! It is non of your business whatsoever. You raise your children the way you want and let the mom raise hers the way she wants. This is ridiculous.
She was hired to take care of those kids so it is her business. If they mom wants to raise her kids however she wants she shouldn't have hired the nanny.
Yeahhh😭😭😭@@yourshoulderdevil5229
“Eating candy will make them not want dinner” what kinda logic is that?
it’s actually really logical, if the kids eat candy, they’ll want more and more until they’re full and sick of eating, causing them to stop eating dinner.
@@joey28I guess that makes sense, but I have a bottomless stomach so I’ve rarely had that happen to me
The moment they asked to go ride a bike and play ball sports instead of fortnite and tiktok made the video 7000+1 less realistic
the mother needs more than 1 day to be a “nanny” because she and the father let their kids be this spoiled. she needs to have more consequences for her actions than 1 bad day 😭
The mom saying "I can't do this anymore" ....what? ...being a mom?? Ohhhkay, what am I learning here again? Appreciate your nanny when you're a terrible mother and that it's OK if you're a terrible mother as long as you appreciate the nanny? 🤦♀️
Istg 😭😭
His videos mess up my brain 😭
@@noone0336 right?!
@@stankehfish 💯
August:you’re old enough to know what you want to eat at that age who’s to stop you
My dad belt
the test said grade 3 at 9:24 they had to act like they were 8 💀
Simple answer quit your job and sue them
Sue for what? And people need to support their families you can't just quit because your feelings get hurt.
"eating candy before dinner will spoil your appetite!"
*proceeds to munch on snickers before eating my cooked food*
AYO THIS SH GOOD THO I AIN'T GON' LIE :DD
Porsha - "please get the nanny back! I can't be a parent anymore!"
What the actual f**k, Dhar Dhar?!
Spoiled princess wife "can't" be a mom anymore, even after learning her lesson?! She must just really not love her kids much. It's one thing to NEED a nanny. It's one thing to need breaks from our kids. It's a totally different thing to not care enough to do the hard work of being a parent. I just don't see this being a real-life thing for the general population.
The ending is the best. 🤣
A mother can't grow her two children. 😂
My wife and I have four kids, it's no cake walk but we control them.
A part of being a good parent is teaching them obedience and to listen to you.
I wouldn’t say, obedience. I’d say respect
Children (people under 18) need to raised and protected. They deserve kindness and nothing but the best.
I worked as a nanny. never ever would I even try to tell them what I wanted to do, I try my best to explain them what their mom and dad wanted me to do cause they don’t have the time… if I included them with the decision they loved it. And if one of them was way upset we would just sit there and wait or I’ll let them sit waiting for them to calm down. At the end of the day I would always tell and include the parents as well… guess I wasn’t a good nanny🤣