“Dress for the occasion that is your BEAUTIFUL LIFE❤️” me encanto mujer Im writing this down on a paper and putting it on my night stand . Si me arreglo pero yo quiero y se que puedo darme más tiempo para eso. Gracias por hacer estos videos ! 🙏🏻💕
i started to get ready every day after my workouts and showering routine! it has changed my mood and confidence over time. i feel so cute yet so powerful! i tend to smile more and enjoy the day when i feel ready! my therapist also advise me to do something for myself every day and getting ready has truly changed my perspective of myself and what others thought of me. loveee ya stacey!! keep preaching!!
I'm a mom of 3 and I needed this reminder! I am worth the time it takes to get myself put together. And for me that means workout clothes (because I do workout daily), doing something cute but practical on my hair, and some mascara. Also showering right after my shower so I don't stink the rest of the day. But it hit me hard when you said this is the day to wear your perfume or wear that outfit. Too often we wait for some special occasion, but you're right, today is a special occasion. 😃
This is so true. I feel like a good mom when I go out in public and I look gross but at least my daughter looks good. I shouldn’t feel guilty about getting ready…
Girl 2 yrs ago i was at my heaviest weight of almost hitting 400lbs. Last yr october i went through wls thinking it was going to make me feel better about myself. Today im now 278 and still dont feel good about myself. Since quarantine ive stopped getting myself ready. And went into a depression. And still have my moments. Its hard, i have no self esteem. I do my makeup get ready and i feel good, but once that comes off im like disgusted looking at myself. I stilll wear the clothes I use to when i was almost 400lbs. Ive gotten a few new outfits but nothing helps. But i know i have to start loving myself. Its a struggle. Right now watching your video made me cry. Lol. Thank you for putting this video out. I need to make time for me and get back to my workouts and staying on track so i dont gain that back. Today because of your video, im gonna get all dressed up and i will love myself. Thank you, Love you girl.
Love this! 🙌🏼 I have been working from home/in my room and I always have made it a thing that I have to get up, make my bed, brush my teeth, shower and change out of PJ’s even tho I’m going to be in my room all day. I do skip out on doing my make up but I do make sure to always at least get out of my PJ’s and out of bed since since it’s so easy to just stay in bed and work lol
I’m not a mom yet but I needed to hear this for many many years my dad taught me to put others first because that’s what he did and always complained he never got anything in return. Today I’m 26 years old and I can say parents let your kids live there life and walk next to them that goes to me I poured my entire 6 years into a man that in the last two I could say I completely lost myself when it comes to appearance I lost over currently 35 pounds and I’m happy but now I’m in the how to get up everyday and get ready. It’s hard because I was used to the mentality of putting others first but thank you mamacita for this.
OMGOODNESS this helped so much!! I needed a pick me up. I’m not a mother but I haven’t been real motivated to dress up everyday of the week like I used to before the pandemic, I dress up 3 times out of the week and I want to get to a place where I dress up everyday and I am the person like you said I reserve fits, perfume and hairstyles for special occasions but what am I waiting for?!!!!!! Thank you girl!❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love classic dresses. It is so easy to put on and I look good while dressing simple with cute sandals. But I notice that some people get so negative about it.
This video came on while i was getting ready today and inspired me to do some extra steps like perfume and mascara. It leveled up my look and vibe even though they’re such subtle things, thanks!
The list you showed in one of your videos in your notes is something I've been using ever since. And my mom really liked it too! It helps me to put myself first in the morning just to shower, get in real clothes, etc and my kids don't care, they wait until I'm ready! Which is not what I expected. Our family wants us to put ourselves first and make sure we look good so we feel good. My friends dad used to always say, "when you look good you feel good." And I've remembered that for the last 16 years lol
You’re literally so inspiring. I used to not wear my expensive perfumes that I love because I wait for “special occasions” but after I saw one of your previous videos where you said that everyone is worthy of wearing expensive perfume everyday, I literally think of that every day and now I’m going to do that with makeup too!
This just popped off on my recommendation and girl let me just say I needed this!!!!😫 I used to always get ready and felt, looked confident but ever since I got pregnant (still preggos) and knowing that nothing fits me made me lose so much confidence in myself, I don’t feel like myself no more 😫 i just be looking fodonga now.. but after watching this video girl I’m so ready to get ready and feel pretty for myself Tysm and I just subscribed to your channel as well 🤍
Omg yes to the moms not getting ready .I used to get ready and go extra on my makeup and outfit but that all changed when I had my first baby’s 3 months ago,and don’t get ready at all. I really need to set aside time for myself because I’m 22 and I still want to get up and feel good about how I look but l feel drained or unmotivated. Thanks for this video Stacey ❤️
You are MORE than worthy of your own time, effort, and energy. Your exterior is the reflection of your interior. If you’re style is a bit more sporty with joggers and cropped hoodies, awesome! If you prefer dresses, awesome! As humans, the only thing we have to perceive others is appearance. Take the time to make your exterior reflect your interior because if you cant respect yourself, who will?
Ok I keep seeing this topic everywhere...guess this is my sign to start getting ready every day! This isn't easy when you have children but it's time I start taking care of myself too! Thank you Stacey!!
Very true Stacy...coming from a Mexican family the famous saying aste una manita de gato always heard that from aunts and mom and why not thanks amiga!!!😊
As a busy business owner, I find myself in leggings and cute crew necks all the time because I’m always on the go, I’m not a dress/girly type of woman, I don’t think one needs to wear makeup to look “ready” or heels, to each their own, but I’m thankful for my skin and I honestly feel so pretty without makeup, I just curl my lashes and a nice lip balm, and sprits my fave perfume and go about my day feeling great, self care is so important and it also comes in all shapes and forms, we got to find what feels good for us - and you’re so right, life is short, go get ready what ever that means to you ❤️
She did say everyone has a different definition of what arreglándote means. I think what you do is perfect! I think she’s talking to people like me I feel my best with makeup so I should be doing it but since you feel great without it that’s good too just to get ready ❤️🥰
The first 3 minutes made me cry so hard. That’s exactly how I feel. I use to take care of myself before having my daughter and now I feel guilty of even brushing my hair. It’s not my husband or kid, I think it’s the dam society I grew in making me feel bad. What’s sad is that my mom is in great shape and takes care of herself... I just can’t seem to do the same. Btw her family is low key haters and judgmental.
@@dianaestrada8711 your husband should step in and defend you and set boundaries with his mom. If he chose you to be his wife, he has the duty to cherish you and not let his mom make you feel bad. Talk to him about it. As for you mother in law, the next time she whines about you taking care of yourself, tell her: "your son likes it".
ive always felt a little bit like putting lipstick on a pig. I always felt like if i tried to put effort into getting ready and fashion that people would think i am pathetic for even trying. but this really makes me want to just get ready for myself and the fun act of it no matter where i am going, hopefully just trying a little bit by bit i can get there!
I cried 😢I use to get ready everyday but feeling like a stick I sweats and sweatshirt without make i lost myself I hear this loud going to put a wig back on and my makeup
i absolutely love this and I need to get that book asap. Thank you Stacey, you are always on point. It's like you knew I was feeling down on youtube with my messy bun and fast food.
If I had a wife I would really appreciate her wearing long dresses and skirts as a lifestyle, a reminder of how special she is. I don’t care about makeup or jewelry, just her feminine presence.
I’m a mom of 3 boys and I’m barely starting to fix myself everyday. Definitely felt that comment on feeling guilty! Its hard but it’s a process to get to that point where it’s no longer feeling guilty
Dude, she straight blocked me a couple years back on Instagram and yet here I am still supporting her because I love her content! Wow, I sound obsessed 😂 but no in all honesty Stacey. You’ve helped out a lot. Thank you. 💕
Stace! Thank you for your videos. You always inspire me to be more confident and most importantly love myself more. I see you like my big sister LOL (you and Amy) 💜💜💜 Que dios te bendiga a ti también 😊
Why did you stop making videos? Just found this channel and I love it. Unfortunately I will not be subscribing because there are no recent videos. Hopefully you start up again
To be honest, for me it's not about self esteem, it's just laziness 😅 - I enjoy pajamas, I feel like I deserve them, I wish it was socially acceptable to wear them everywhere. I think I will just invest in cute lounge wear
I never understood how to dress eloquent. Till now. I have a daughter and get on her about dressing cute. I as woman don't know how to dress "normal". People tell me I over do it if I dress up or get ready. If I don't dress up they tell me why don't you try. Help me!
I’m so glad I clicked on this video as I’m getting ready... I was honestly just thinking of doing my make up and wearing baggy clothes... not no more I’m going to be a bad bitch today 💁🏻♀️
To be honest I don't like to get ready everyday because I find recieving stares or unwanted comments and advances from men tiring, which I have to deal with when i put effort into my appearance and therefore look appealing. I prefer to wear hoodies and look as invisible as possible to avoid having recieving attention as I also have mild social anxiety so it's easier for me to complete errands, use public transport etc, when I look 'rough'
My husband was walking around the house when I was watching this and I noticed him paying attention and nodding to himself 😂 this was a great video 💕
😂
He sounds like a great guy! haha so cute
Girl!😂😂😂
This needs to be more talked about more. Be your own number one fan, be your own hype womens, we deserve to be the best versions of ourselves.
🙏🙌🏼💕👏🏻👏🏻
“Dress for the occasion that is your BEAUTIFUL LIFE❤️” me encanto mujer Im writing this down on a paper and putting it on my night stand . Si me arreglo pero yo quiero y se que puedo darme más tiempo para eso. Gracias por hacer estos videos ! 🙏🏻💕
My 4 year old son encourages me to get ready! He always compliments me when I do 💙
i started to get ready every day after my workouts and showering routine! it has changed my mood and confidence over time. i feel so cute yet so powerful! i tend to smile more and enjoy the day when i feel ready! my therapist also advise me to do something for myself every day and getting ready has truly changed my perspective of myself and what others thought of me. loveee ya stacey!! keep preaching!!
Mom of four ranging from 13yrs to 18 mos and as I approach my 30s I have started to work on my self care journey. Leaving the mom guilt behind
I'm a mom of 3 and I needed this reminder! I am worth the time it takes to get myself put together. And for me that means workout clothes (because I do workout daily), doing something cute but practical on my hair, and some mascara. Also showering right after my shower so I don't stink the rest of the day. But it hit me hard when you said this is the day to wear your perfume or wear that outfit. Too often we wait for some special occasion, but you're right, today is a special occasion. 😃
9:05 rlly got me. Thank you Stacey now I’m not gonna wait for that “special occasion” that I’ve been waiting for to get ready
This is so true. I feel like a good mom when I go out in public and I look gross but at least my daughter looks good.
I shouldn’t feel guilty about getting ready…
This top is gorgeous on you!
Stacy tell us please where you got your top from (:
@@valerierevolorio2139 i’ve seen similar or if not that one at Zara
Yes the color is beautiful
Girl 2 yrs ago i was at my heaviest weight of almost hitting 400lbs. Last yr october i went through wls thinking it was going to make me feel better about myself. Today im now 278 and still dont feel good about myself. Since quarantine ive stopped getting myself ready. And went into a depression. And still have my moments. Its hard, i have no self esteem. I do my makeup get ready and i feel good, but once that comes off im like disgusted looking at myself. I stilll wear the clothes I use to when i was almost 400lbs. Ive gotten a few new outfits but nothing helps. But i know i have to start loving myself. Its a struggle. Right now watching your video made me cry. Lol. Thank you for putting this video out. I need to make time for me and get back to my workouts and staying on track so i dont gain that back. Today because of your video, im gonna get all dressed up and i will love myself. Thank you, Love you girl.
I haven't had the desire to get ready anymore... it's been a struggle. I'm so thankful that I came across your video. It's the message I needed 💕
Love this! 🙌🏼
I have been working from home/in my room and I always have made it a thing that I have to get up, make my bed, brush my teeth, shower and change out of PJ’s even tho I’m going to be in my room all day. I do skip out on doing my make up but I do make sure to always at least get out of my PJ’s and out of bed since since it’s so easy to just stay in bed and work lol
I’m not a mom yet but I needed to hear this for many many years my dad taught me to put others first because that’s what he did and always complained he never got anything in return. Today I’m 26 years old and I can say parents let your kids live there life and walk next to them that goes to me I poured my entire 6 years into a man that in the last two I could say I completely lost myself when it comes to appearance I lost over currently 35 pounds and I’m happy but now I’m in the how to get up everyday and get ready. It’s hard because I was used to the mentality of putting others first but thank you mamacita for this.
God used you to speak to me today. Theres a reason I found your chanel. Lord knows I needed to hear this.
OMGOODNESS this helped so much!! I needed a pick me up. I’m not a mother but I haven’t been real motivated to dress up everyday of the week like I used to before the pandemic, I dress up 3 times out of the week and I want to get to a place where I dress up everyday and I am the person like you said I reserve fits, perfume and hairstyles for special occasions but what am I waiting for?!!!!!! Thank you girl!❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love classic dresses. It is so easy to put on and I look good while dressing simple with cute sandals.
But I notice that some people get so negative about it.
This video came on while i was getting ready today and inspired me to do some extra steps like perfume and mascara. It leveled up my look and vibe even though they’re such subtle things, thanks!
The list you showed in one of your videos in your notes is something I've been using ever since. And my mom really liked it too! It helps me to put myself first in the morning just to shower, get in real clothes, etc and my kids don't care, they wait until I'm ready! Which is not what I expected. Our family wants us to put ourselves first and make sure we look good so we feel good. My friends dad used to always say, "when you look good you feel good." And I've remembered that for the last 16 years lol
I grew up in Mexico so getting ready to go grocery shopping is second nature lol
You motivated me to dress cute this weekend for myself. Thank you, Stacey! ❤️❤️
This popped up at the perfect time, Thank you! 🙏🏾 ❤
Thankyou, I needed this ❤️
My dad had so much stuff with tags and brand new shoes that he never got to wear 😢😭 this is such a great point!!
You’re literally so inspiring. I used to not wear my expensive perfumes that I love because I wait for “special occasions” but after I saw one of your previous videos where you said that everyone is worthy of wearing expensive perfume everyday, I literally think of that every day and now I’m going to do that with makeup too!
This just popped off on my recommendation and girl let me just say I needed this!!!!😫 I used to always get ready and felt, looked confident but ever since I got pregnant (still preggos) and knowing that nothing fits me made me lose so much confidence in myself, I don’t feel like myself no more 😫 i just be looking fodonga now.. but after watching this video girl I’m so ready to get ready and feel pretty for myself Tysm and I just subscribed to your channel as well 🤍
Omg yes to the moms not getting ready .I used to get ready and go extra on my makeup and outfit but that all changed when I had my first baby’s 3 months ago,and don’t get ready at all. I really need to set aside time for myself because I’m 22 and I still want to get up and feel good about how I look but l feel drained or unmotivated. Thanks for this video Stacey ❤️
I ALWAYS GET SO MUCH MOTIVATION FROM YOU STACEY! I ALWAYS FEEL BETTER ABOUT MYSELF WHEN I WATCH YOUR INSPIRATIONAL VIDEOS. TE QUERO MUCHO 💖💜✨🙌🏼💐
"If they smell like fritos" deadddd 🤣🤣
You have made me ugly cry. I needed to hear this. Thank you for this beautiful lady. 💞💓💗💖
You are MORE than worthy of your own time, effort, and energy. Your exterior is the reflection of your interior. If you’re style is a bit more sporty with joggers and cropped hoodies, awesome! If you prefer dresses, awesome! As humans, the only thing we have to perceive others is appearance. Take the time to make your exterior reflect your interior because if you cant respect yourself, who will?
gonna start listening to this every morning as soon as my alarm goes off
I listened to this while putting on some makeup that I had been "saving" for a "good day" when in reality there is no better day than today
The timing of this video 🤌🏼 the language🤌🏼 just what ineeded to hear. Gracias Stacey💜
This spoke to my soul! You’re very talented in talking/reaching women! Thank you for this video.
I love to hear your talks. Peaceful, uplifting, & inspiring!
That’s true we’re overly tired & whenever I try to do my makeup my toddler is crying & screaming for me 😂
Ok I keep seeing this topic everywhere...guess this is my sign to start getting ready every day! This isn't easy when you have children but it's time I start taking care of myself too! Thank you Stacey!!
Amen Stacey!! I believe in getting ready daily. I am a stay at home mom of two kids and if I didn’t get ready, I’d feel like crap daily.
This made me cry Stacey thank you for taking the time to make us stronger women 😭 I’m going to challenge myself this week to get ready!
Omg I love how much love u put on all your videos and how it inspires us 😍😍
Very true Stacy...coming from a Mexican family the famous saying aste una manita de gato always heard that from aunts and mom and why not thanks amiga!!!😊
As a busy business owner, I find myself in leggings and cute crew necks all the time because I’m always on the go, I’m not a dress/girly type of woman, I don’t think one needs to wear makeup to look “ready” or heels, to each their own, but I’m thankful for my skin and I honestly feel so pretty without makeup, I just curl my lashes and a nice lip balm, and sprits my fave perfume and go about my day feeling great, self care is so important and it also comes in all shapes and forms, we got to find what feels good for us - and you’re so right, life is short, go get ready what ever that means to you ❤️
She did say everyone has a different definition of what arreglándote means. I think what you do is perfect! I think she’s talking to people like me I feel my best with makeup so I should be doing it but since you feel great without it that’s good too just to get ready ❤️🥰
Great video Stacy! Great message and love the honesty. Keep spreading these messages !
The first 3 minutes made me cry so hard. That’s exactly how I feel. I use to take care of myself before having my daughter and now I feel guilty of even brushing my hair. It’s not my husband or kid, I think it’s the dam society I grew in making me feel bad. What’s sad is that my mom is in great shape and takes care of herself... I just can’t seem to do the same. Btw her family is low key haters and judgmental.
Omg true! My mom is my biggest hype man but society! Also my mother in law judges me for taking care of myself and even getting my nails done!
@@dianaestrada8711 man that’s so sad. Especially when family end up throwing their 2 cents for nothing that’s needed
Realize that taking care of yourself sets a good example for your kid, so it's a very good thing. And stay away from the toxic side of the family!
@@dianaestrada8711 your husband should step in and defend you and set boundaries with his mom. If he chose you to be his wife, he has the duty to cherish you and not let his mom make you feel bad. Talk to him about it.
As for you mother in law, the next time she whines about you taking care of yourself, tell her: "your son likes it".
Wow! What I needed to hear! Thank you for your motivation💕
Love this message made me cry 🥺💕
ive always felt a little bit like putting lipstick on a pig. I always felt like if i tried to put effort into getting ready and fashion that people would think i am pathetic for even trying. but this really makes me want to just get ready for myself and the fun act of it no matter where i am going, hopefully just trying a little bit by bit i can get there!
This is important content and I appreciate the message
I cried 😢I use to get ready everyday but feeling like a stick I sweats and sweatshirt without make i lost myself I hear this loud going to put a wig back on and my makeup
This is what I needed 🥺💕
Gracias ✨
7 months later, I’m happy I found this video. Thank you. I needed to hear this!
Such a wonderful message!
i absolutely love this and I need to get that book asap. Thank you Stacey, you are always on point. It's like you knew I was feeling down on youtube with my messy bun and fast food.
If I had a wife I would really appreciate her wearing long dresses and skirts as a lifestyle, a reminder of how special she is. I don’t care about makeup or jewelry, just her feminine presence.
I’m a mom of 3 boys and I’m barely starting to fix myself everyday. Definitely felt that comment on feeling guilty! Its hard but it’s a process to get to that point where it’s no longer feeling guilty
Thank you So much for this video Stacey 🙏🏻💕
I needed this
Yes as moms we always put ourselves last and we shouldn’t
I don't take care of myself because I'm tired but this video is inspiring to try so thank you. 🥰
💜 Love this message. Thank you 💜
I needed to hear this!❤️ Thank you!👏🏼
What a great video, thank you so much.
Your eyebrows have been 🤌🏽 ::chefs kiss:: lately!! Your transformation has been so fun to watch 🥰
Dude, she straight blocked me a couple years back on Instagram and yet here I am still supporting her because I love her content! Wow, I sound obsessed 😂 but no in all honesty Stacey. You’ve helped out a lot. Thank you. 💕
Thank you
Im watching this first thing in the morning from Germany! Thank you I definitely needed this!❤️
You’re literally amazing
Tu blusa eata hermosa 😍 thank u Stacey I needed a reminder to take care of myself not just my family ❤💖
😭 so thankful for you!
Such a great video!! 😊 Thank you ! I needed this.
i have been feeling this & this in my confirmation to take action. 👏🏼
LOVE THIS SO MUCH!! ♥️🙏
You always have THE BEST book recs! Can you do a vid on feminine books?
I love fritos 😂 this video was good ❤
First time I've seen any of your videos. Loved this. Subscribed.
I love this I needed this today 💛
Ever since I saw you post I have bought the book myself and I’ve been loving it! 🤍
1000% yes!!! spot on girl!!
Thank you so much! I needed this ❤
💛 Loved this so much!!
I love this top! The color and style is sooo pretty!
Stace! Thank you for your videos. You always inspire me to be more confident and most importantly love myself more. I see you like my big sister LOL (you and Amy) 💜💜💜 Que dios te bendiga a ti también 😊
Dude this is me rn, I just had a baby this June and like I don’t have time for myself anymore 😞
Thank you ♥️♥️♥️
Why did you stop making videos? Just found this channel and I love it. Unfortunately I will not be subscribing because there are no recent videos. Hopefully you start up again
To be honest, for me it's not about self esteem, it's just laziness 😅 - I enjoy pajamas, I feel like I deserve them, I wish it was socially acceptable to wear them everywhere. I think I will just invest in cute lounge wear
I never understood how to dress eloquent. Till now. I have a daughter and get on her about dressing cute. I as woman don't know how to dress "normal". People tell me I over do it if I dress up or get ready. If I don't dress up they tell me why don't you try. Help me!
Love your blouse 💜
what if i work almost everyday and so on your day off, you do want to stay in bed in my pjs lol
True especially physically demanding jobs.
If you want to stay in Pjs I would buy some cute silk ones or cute lingerie 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
You can do that because probably when you go to work, you dress good, so you already gave yourself time to get put together.
Put on your cutest pjs and do some mask or self care 🥰
I struggle with this a lot..thanks.
I’m so glad I clicked on this video as I’m getting ready... I was honestly just thinking of doing my make up and wearing baggy clothes... not no more I’m going to be a bad bitch today 💁🏻♀️
Cute intro 🥰
You should write a book
Yes new video!!!!
I love love love your videos ♥️
It just takes me so long to
To be honest I don't like to get ready everyday because I find recieving stares or unwanted comments and advances from men tiring, which I have to deal with when i put effort into my appearance and therefore look appealing. I prefer to wear hoodies and look as invisible as possible to avoid having recieving attention as I also have mild social anxiety so it's easier for me to complete errands, use public transport etc, when I look 'rough'
I live in a bad area aswell so when I am dressed up I feel afraid that someone may even try to follow me or something like that
Motivational🥰
Hi Stacey, would you be open to making a video on plastic surgery or enhancements? Love your videos✨💐
She has done a video for every enhancement she has (on her main channel) and she speaks about why, and how she feels. (hope it helps)