5 Reasons Why To ALWAYS Dress Your Best (+ 5 Reasons Why You Don't!)
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- Опубліковано 8 лип 2024
- Today I want to share the 5 biggest reasons why we should dress our best every single day, even on the days we may not feel like it (those are usually the days we need it the most). Plus, I want to share the 5 most common mental blocks or limiting beliefs we can have when it comes to dressing our best because those can often stop us from being free and expressing ourselves with our style, and enjoying the way we look and feel.
So I really hope you enjoy this video and that you find it useful ❤️
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These are not just 5 reasons - these are 5 universal life principles that every person deserves to know. They are essential for mental health as well and maybe a few physical things along with that. They also apply equally to men.
I just discovered you and have been binging you videos for the past week or so and really enjoying them. Particularly your decluttering videos. They go beyond purging items that don’t fit, are in bad shape or that we love. I have found it so much easier to declutter once I analyze the fit, colour , needs etc. and identifying duplicates. Your minimalistic tips are excellent. Thank you so much. I have been so productive and inspired!
Aw, this means a lot, that's why I created this channel, so thank you for sharing! 🥰❤️
I second this!!
Great message. xx It’s easy to fall into a scarcity mindset. To prevent that, my personal credo is ... “Always dress like you’re going somewhere better later” - you will look and feel uplifted by the positivity this brings. #selfimage #selfcare
I'm super glad you liked the message, and it's great to have a powerful credo like yours, I really like it! 😊 Dressing up is definitely a part of a self-care. Thank you for sharing! 😘
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Love this! ❤😊
Oooohhhh... I like that!
I have a lot of pretty clothes, but they’re not fun just hanging in the closet, so I wear them everyday. It just feels great to wear and outfit that I love everyday, even if I’m not doing much.
That's great to hear! I'm the same, hehe, even if I don't leave the house I prance around in gorgeous dresses, hehe, it just makes us feel good 😍😘
You shared some excellent advice here! There's a lot to ponder on: our fears, cultural rules and family way of thinking create some deep rooted beliefs. The idea that caring of the way you look means you are vain, for example, it's something that I struggle with and so I dress badly, even on purpose because the more I dress bad, the more spiritual /intelligent it means I am... Crazy equations we make up in our minds! Taking care of our body and looks is actually self care, so the real question becomes why we feel like we are not deserving of our love?
Thank you!! 😊 I agree, this is a huge part of self-care, and it has a big impact on our wellbeing, that’s why it’s worth exploring further. So thank you for sharing your side 🥰❤️
You are right! For me, just use accessories and do your hair in a high bun or ponytail, a little bit of mascara and chapstick is enough. That’s the way I roll 😂 it doesn’t have to be a two hour job to get ready everyday. 👍
Exactly!! 💁♀😊
Sad to hear about your loss. Virtual hugs for you. On the other hand, I’m glad to see you back here again! Everything you said here is on point! Being locked down in our homes is no excuse to look frumpy. It’s amazing how putting some effort on how we present ourselves can impact our mindset and output. That’s what I’m learning everyday.. to live in the moment and enjoy each new day as a blessing!
Thank you! ❤️ I'm also happy to be back here again, I truly love making videos 😊 And yes, I absolutely agree - to live in the moment and enjoy each day is such an important approach to a happy life! Thank you for sharing 😘
Beautiful message Kim. I actually got rid of a lot of outfits only to get some new ones because I lost a lot of weight and looking at life with a better mindset. It is always great to dress your best whether you want to look sexy when walking down the street or dressing up for a gorgeous date. You are always stylish and real when it comes to looking our best when it comes to women's fashion. At the end of the day, women's beauty and fashion present confidence, style and all around fierceness! ♥♥
I’m so sorry. I had to put my 20 year old cat to sleep and it was so sad. I also lost the love of my life this year suddenly , I hope you feel better soon 💞
sending love your way
Yes, pets have a special place in our heart. And I'm so sorry for your loss, I hope you're feeling better with each day and I'm sending you lots of love ❤️❤️❤️
@@KimBedene oh thank you! And I wish the same for you 🌹🌹🌹
Everything you said in this video is absolutely true! I've been stuck in the "I don't care" mindset for a long time but I have so many beautiful pieces I want to wear. And I'm sorry to hear about your sweet dog 💔
I'm glad you liked the points! 😊 I also had a few phases of "not-caring", hehe, and I found they're not really helpful to our well being and self-confidence, so yes, go ahead and wear all the beautiful pieces that you have 😍 And thank you for your nice words and sharing ❤️
This video was spot on for the benefits for our pschye in getting “dressed” to look our best every day as well as the myths we tell ourself about why we shouldn’t. I think after a loss like your sweet puppy that you come to appreciate how every day needs to be cherished and celebrated by “showing up” even if you don’t feel like it. Thank you for sharing. A lot of us have lost for babies, so know you are in our thoughts.
I'm super happy you enjoyed the benefits and the myths 😊 Yes, going through something like this helps us realise the importance of showing up and getting the best out of every day while we can. Thank you for your nice words and sharing ❤️❤️
Sorry for your loss. I also have a dog and I understand the pain you're going through. Your videos are very helpful!Thanks!
Thank you for your nice words 😊 Now that some time has passed it's definitely easier and we can think of lovely memories with him without feeling sad. He was such a good boy 🐶❤️
I’m new to your channel, and really pretty new to UA-cam in general but watching your videos have been great because you seem so authentic. Even just sharing your recent loss with us was, in my opinion, a really warm way to connect your content to real life hardships, grief and just living the way you are encouraging all of us to live. I appreciate genuine people in my life and I guess even on UA-cam lol. I’ve been exploring minimalism quite a bit in the past few years and it really is how I feel the best inside of me so I know it’s worth the effort. Your channel is helping me so thank you!
Welcome! I'm super happy to have you here 😊 And thank you so much for your nice words, I was a bit worried about opening up, but I know on the other side there can be a deeper connection with people and I can help a little bit more with my stories and experiences. So thank you for letting me know how this helps you, and I'm truly happy that this channel is helping you on your minimalist journey. Also, well done for taking the steps towards minimalism and discovering how great it feels to let go of anything that doesn't serve us. If you ever have any questions or video suggestions feel free to let me know 😘❤️
@@siennas862 Thank you so much again for all of your nice words 😘 I'm super glad you're enjoying the channel 😍❤️
I am so sorry for your loss. I love you your video, its great to be open and honest.
Thank you ❤️And I'm glad you enjoyed the video 😘
Sorry for your loss. Our pets are our family, cherish those warm memories. xx
Thank you! Yes, the have such special place in our heart ❤️
Loved this!!!
good reminders!!!!
I can totally relate to what you said especially running into someone and feeling bad because we are not dressed well
Thanks for the message i will try to follow this
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Every day is a special day ❤️
Very true! ❤️
Thank you so much! I really needed it. Sorry for your doggie, believe he had his best 15 years in your loving family ❤️
I'm super glad this helped you! 😘 And thank you for your nice words ❤️
So sorry for the loss f your sweet doggy…though glad you have great memories of his love. You are so right about how we dress, impacts how we feel about our day. Thanks for the wake up call!
Thank you for your sweet words! ❤️ And I'm super glad you found the information helpful 😊
I'm a new subscriber and have been enjoying your videos and seeing your sweet dog in your previous videos as it reminded me of my own (I had to put him to rest end of 2020). I'm so sorry to hear of your loss - dogs are our family members and you did the best for him by letting him go. He felt your love while you had him in your care. Sending my prayers and thoughts ...
Welcome to my channel, I'm super happy you're enjoying the videos 😊 I'm glad you enjoyed watching him, I wanted to include him as much as I can, he was such a sweet little doggy. And I'm so sorry you had to say goodbye to your doggy as well, but I hope you feel better now. Time heals, and yes, we have to know we did our best and that they felt the love when they were still with us. Thank you for sharing ❤️
Love your videos!! So balanced, helpful and inspiring! Keep up the great work ❤
Aww, thank you so much!! ❤️
Just came across your channel and thoroughly enjoying your style and perspective; Bravo , looking forward to viewing more videos!
Yay, this is so nice to hear! 🥰❤️
Thank you for all your lovely comments, they mean a lot ❤ And if you want to feel even better, learn how to find your style without shopping for new clothes: ua-cam.com/video/TQhsEzmO55E/v-deo.html 😉
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Thank you I'm going through a really hard time right now and I have really been frumpy but you made me feel like I need to get up get around and show what I can do thank you so much
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I’m so sorry. I understand that heartbreak ❤️🙏🏻
Thank you so much! Yes, pets have a special place in our heart ❤️
You are so likeble and I do learn many new things from your videos.Congrats !! thumbs up
Aw, thank you! 🥰 I'm glad my videos can help 😊
One of the best videos EVER. ‼️👏👏😊❤️
Aww, thank you so much!! 😘❤️
This was clever and nice, I second to your outlook on life!!😊
I appreciate that! 🥰
I totally agree very inspirational 😍xx
I'm glad you agree, hehe 😘❤️
Time heals dear..Can feel your pain...Am.super proud of you that you have decided to move on nonetheless...loads of love from.India
Thank you for your nice words 😊 Yes, time definitely heals, and focusing on all the good we experienced together also helps very much. This is part of life and the best we can do is accept change and move on in a healthy way. Sending loads of love back! ❤️
This is so so true -- the whole video! My wake up moment was when my daughter said she wanted me to try again (with how I dress and look) after seeing some old pictures of me. She said she didn't know that I could look that pretty... yikes. Hahha. I was in the whatever, I don't care, I'm not trying to impress anyone as a stay at home parent, but I decided to try for her and it did make me feel better :)
Aw, how sweet of her 🥰 I think we all go through these phases sometimes, I did too, but at the end we really do feel our best when we also like how we look. Thanks for sharing ❤️
Ahh, so sorry for losing your dog! 🥺 I also have a dog and she’s my best friend and I can’t imagine my life without her. But I know this time will come one day when I will have to say goodbye…
You are such a nice person, I’m so happy I found your channel! 🤗 You are helping me with my every day style and confidence so much ❤
Thank you for your nice words, it means a lot I can help in such a way ❤️ And yes, doggies can fill the heart so much, it's hard when the time comes, but we're just grateful for all our memories and that we give him a happy life 🥰
@@KimBedene so important to focus on the positive!! ❤
Just saw your Channel on Channel Launch. You are doing great
Thank you so much! 😊😘
Living in Slovenia is not always that great - style and fashion wise. I think people are still pretty judgemental to some degree. Like you said, people think special clothes and shoes are reserved for special days (that don’t even come for many people and years go by so quickly) and it’s such a shame. We should be able to dress how we want and when we want without getting the looks from other people. It would be so nice if people would be more acceptable of other peoples choices 🙂
But like you said… people will judge no matter what 🤷🏼♀so why not wear what you want anyways? 😊
@@samantarizzi248 Yes, I did notice people here are saving pretty things for special occasions a lot, hehe, it's definitely a shame. But I do feel things are changing with young people, probably because of social media. Here in Ljubljana I see more and more chic looks, which is a nice surprise 😊 But maybe I just see what I want to see, haha 😍
@@KimBedene maybe because it’s Ljubljana 😊 in Koper there are still people who give you weird looks. But I’ve come to the conclusion that it doesn’t really matter, because you live only once so fuck them! 😄✌❤
@@samantarizzi248 Haha, yesss!! 😜
@@KimBedene 😃✌❤
I think my only impediment would be that I don’t want to wear out the clothes that I love by wearing them every day because I pay good money for them and I would like to have them around for a long time
Oh yeah, I completely get that 😊You can still have some more special items you wear less often, but overall I believe we should wear items we love and we should embrace dressing beautifully without the fear. Also, you can always find gorgeous pieces on the budget, and that way you get the best of both 😉 Thanks for sharing! 😘
Your accent is 🔥
I’m very sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved little doggy. I share your sorrow.
Thank you, I'm sending love to you as well ❤️❤️
Gosh I love your voice 😍
Thank you! 😍
so much wisdom in this message. thanks
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So sorry about your pup
You’re so cute 💗 and smart!
Aw, thank you for all of your lovely comments 💗
@@KimBedene I know your channel is going to take off. 🦋
@@joywhitley3141 Aw, thank you again! I'm doing my best, so I'm really glad you think so ❤️