woah, slow down. THIS is NOT self care.

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  • @paige1778
    @paige1778 12 днів тому +824

    not only is it over board on “self care” it’s INSANE overconsumption 😭

    • @IntegrityMeansAll
      @IntegrityMeansAll 12 днів тому

      These chics are literally pathologically insane. The whole generation is so manipulated by the cosmetic industry in a concerning way. I’m not on toci toci btw ;)

    • @rachul09
      @rachul09 11 днів тому

      Yeah

    • @vvitch-mist20
      @vvitch-mist20 8 днів тому +14

      People forget self care includes things you don't like doing. IE telling yourself no

  • @magdalenafinke
    @magdalenafinke 12 днів тому +662

    selfcare has become a marketing hook for overconsumption

    • @itzerinn2489
      @itzerinn2489 12 днів тому +20

      literally had to get off tiktok and reconnect with the real world because it's truly insane

    • @Ivy-xh2qo
      @Ivy-xh2qo 10 днів тому +4

      THISSSS

  • @mastermanifester8722
    @mastermanifester8722 12 днів тому +623

    10 step hand routine is actually crazy omg 😂😂

    • @killjoy6880
      @killjoy6880 12 днів тому +17

      there NO NEED for so many products on your hands shes only doing this to sell the products shown in the videos istg

    • @xyqnwdcn
      @xyqnwdcn 7 днів тому +10

      wasn’t the person doing the hand routine a hand model? 😅

    • @killjoy6880
      @killjoy6880 7 днів тому +5

      @xyqnwdcn just like how a 14 step skincare routine can damage your skin, a 14 step hand routine is going to damage your hands skin

  • @Rachel-zf2wm
    @Rachel-zf2wm 12 днів тому +426

    Self care is feeling a little too much like self hate atp…

  • @starboispacehippie
    @starboispacehippie 9 днів тому +214

    Self care can be as simple as sleeping in on weekends, cooking a nutritious meal, sitting in the sun with a cup of tea, taking a walk.

  • @datsesstella2375
    @datsesstella2375 9 днів тому +105

    To me I think self care is whatever you make it. It’s personal to you, your budget, your wants & needs

  • @krishaunafisher
    @krishaunafisher 12 днів тому +104

    Literally got a PT now and my self care was starting to tackle my PCOS lol. Walking more, lifting weights, making better food!!!! Literally taking care of yourself is self care

    • @gaslight.gatekeep.girlboss6476
      @gaslight.gatekeep.girlboss6476 День тому +1

      so real! I feel the best when I truly take care of my insulin resistence. Focusing on your health feels more productive than just focusing on your appearance, which may never be "perfect enough" for the insane beauty standards in social media

  • @hannafromatlanta
    @hannafromatlanta 12 днів тому +45

    You ate with this video! I think sometimes people forget that self-care could also just be rest like doing nothing and just existing so thank you for this video 💗

  • @Dina-c5p
    @Dina-c5p 2 дні тому +6

    Love all of ur tips but I especially agree with making ur space cozy bc for years my room felt cold and uninviting bc I never bothered to decorate and treated it lkke a storage room that I sleep in, but add in a carpet and some fairy lights and bam, legit enjoy every moment in here now!!

  • @chan-oe5fv
    @chan-oe5fv 8 днів тому +21

    The blush, the lip combo, the braids !!!!!

  • @ElDaCreatrix
    @ElDaCreatrix 5 днів тому +8

    Yes I love how practical and actionable your advice is. Self care isn’t meant to be inaccessible. Self care is simply practices
    That acknowledge and comfort you. One of my favorite mindless activities is writing although it mean seem counterproductive I can write til my hand fall off and often times it’s free-flowing.

  • @chessybur9386
    @chessybur9386 День тому +2

    This is the best video I’ve seen for self care, like you really got IT together! ❤❤❤

  • @zee-zee
    @zee-zee 9 днів тому +13

    4:09 im CRYING youre so real for that

  • @Paige-m6c
    @Paige-m6c 4 дні тому +3

    This was so refreshing to see someone not telling you what selfcare has to be, and making it more manageable for everyday.

  • @vvitch-mist20
    @vvitch-mist20 8 днів тому +9

    I have a penny jar!! I add any pennies to it. It's about half way full. I'm below poverty so anything bigger gets used for bus fare or groceries.

  • @livingdollgyaru
    @livingdollgyaru 10 днів тому +23

    I need to get on the self care of DISCIPLINE

    • @madelinekouassi9884
      @madelinekouassi9884 День тому

      Me too ! The hardest to get and the one that matters most tbh !!!!

  • @little_kvromi
    @little_kvromi 12 днів тому +42

    First to comment 🎉❤
    Tips on self care
    ♡ save for ur future self
    ♡ leave gifts for ur future self
    ♡ finish one product before buying other one
    ♡ make ur space cozyy
    ♡ get a mindless hobby
    ♡ movement
    ♡ get ready everyday
    ♡ maintenance
    ♡ make independent financial moves
    ♡ you timeee

  • @virikameni
    @virikameni 11 днів тому +7

    It’s been a year since I discovered your channel, I’m so glad I did! I feel like you’re the only creator I completely trust with beauty/skincare recommendations or anything really! Alsoooo, Congrats on 100k!!!

  • @Greater756
    @Greater756 8 днів тому +17

    People confuse self maintenance with self care.

  • @DareenBeat
    @DareenBeat 10 днів тому +8

    the way this video made me get up and so something for myself and write down my goals

  • @MélodieZogo
    @MélodieZogo 2 хвилини тому

    ok about all you said but we NEED a makeup routine from you because face card never declinnnneeee in every videos and i need your secrets for a smooth flawless makeup like yours .

  • @aiiixaa
    @aiiixaa 12 днів тому +6

    100K CONGRATULATIONS GIRL!! SO PROUD

  • @alissamaharaj791
    @alissamaharaj791 7 днів тому +1

    What’s crazy to me too is that self care is like this separate thing from everyday life like “I’m having a self care day” like no aren’t these just life skills we should be practicing all the time to make life as easy and enjoyable as possible? these are things we should be taught as kids as part of a healthy lifestyle imo

  • @nazzythoughts5096
    @nazzythoughts5096 12 днів тому +6

    You're sooo prettyyy!! ✨

  • @bootsmade4walking
    @bootsmade4walking 7 днів тому +1

    First time watching your channel -- the audio editing is HILARIOUS. Keep doing your thing!

  • @Someone-dq4zt
    @Someone-dq4zt 3 дні тому

    Wow this video is so helpful. It's really giving me a mindset shift. I never thought about it as gifts for myself. I've been struggling to get up and this video has made me realize bc I'm trying to get everything done in the morning and it's so stressful and demotivating :))

  • @graceskeate
    @graceskeate 12 днів тому +3

    This is the first vid of yours I’ve seen and omg I love your vibe! Your gorg also btw

  • @itsstisha
    @itsstisha 12 днів тому +3

    7:04 omg girl plss do a tutorial on your hair soo pretty 😻😻💗

    • @bossgirlified
      @bossgirlified  12 днів тому +1

      I have a tut on TikTok @bossgirlified 💞

  • @Liyah779
    @Liyah779 12 днів тому +5

    You‘re STUNNING!!!

  • @erinmartinez8360
    @erinmartinez8360 10 днів тому

    I’m so glad someone is addressing this!!

  • @imanina
    @imanina 12 днів тому +10

    I thought I was crazy for using hand sunscreen

  • @sweetlydiy326
    @sweetlydiy326 12 днів тому +7

    Happy 100k 🎉

  • @Yongbokie-brownie
    @Yongbokie-brownie 10 днів тому

    Girlll you are so underrated~

  • @arynjulieee
    @arynjulieee 9 днів тому +1

    it was so satisfying to like this at 999 and watch it go to 1k

  • @sunamitafernandes4047
    @sunamitafernandes4047 9 днів тому +1

    Your teeth and smile are so beautiful!

  • @berrybopforever
    @berrybopforever 3 дні тому +1

    What to do when you struggle to get the energy to even shower everyday?

    • @FluffyKittenMittens1
      @FluffyKittenMittens1 2 дні тому

      Just do it at the same time every day and get into a routine. I shower every morning when I wake up even if I don't want to and end up feeling 10x better afterward.

  • @HaahmayanShaalManasseh
    @HaahmayanShaalManasseh 2 дні тому

    🤣🤣 when you called your dog I hollered - girl all these videos are maddening and a waste of money 💰 10 different products on ya face as a woman I couldn’t think of anything worse 😅

  • @TemieBeauty
    @TemieBeauty 10 днів тому

    Where’s the stash link?

  • @annaadams7128
    @annaadams7128 6 днів тому

    Unrelated but omg you're so pretty

  • @DalandaWurie-go8ch
    @DalandaWurie-go8ch 12 днів тому

    Thanks for the video it was very helpful ❤

  • @nature2t386
    @nature2t386 12 днів тому

    Took notes. Thank you ❤

  • @newyt3033
    @newyt3033 4 дні тому

    thank you for calling me out

  • @agirllovetolive4196
    @agirllovetolive4196 23 години тому

    My sellary doesn’t allow me to save for future I pearly buy myself drag stor stuff and taking care of my family home I’m still single and it’s impossible to save unless I get 2 jobs minimum

  • @xbaeksky
    @xbaeksky 10 днів тому

    those videos are part of the substance

  • @julia-p1m6q
    @julia-p1m6q 9 днів тому +2

    The receipt is longer than my life so far

  • @coreyrobinson1900
    @coreyrobinson1900 11 днів тому

    🔥🔥🔥😍😍😍

  • @Curtis01824
    @Curtis01824 11 днів тому

    like you share,like Nordstrom🥰

  • @haddiewab6265
    @haddiewab6265 12 днів тому

    Omg hi

  • @ElDaCreatrix
    @ElDaCreatrix 5 днів тому +1

    Yes I love how practical and actionable your advice is. Self care isn’t meant to be inaccessible. Self care is simply practices
    That acknowledge and comfort you. One of my favorite mindless activities is writing although it mean seem counterproductive I can write til my hand fall off and often times it’s free-flowing.