5 Reasons Men Don't Want Relationships Anymore

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  • @PipoZePoulp
    @PipoZePoulp 2 роки тому +1705

    When she's saying "men", she's talking about a very small sample size of men; the top percentile of men that hold all the cards and have neither incentive nor imperative to commit to a single woman.

    • @jayandjlps
      @jayandjlps 2 роки тому +19

      5'9 is my height I know it isn't short but average (I have a model tier jawline and side profile, genuinely my side profile is better than most Hollywood actors. and I have a P size of 7.8 inches last time I measured. I could be at 8 inches now, since I just turned 18 and haven't measured in 5 months. (Black genes I guess) Is it still over for me with an average height?

    • @CuteAndFunnyFan
      @CuteAndFunnyFan 2 роки тому +60

      @@jayandjlps p size is not relevant, but looks and height is

    • @Jaccobtw
      @Jaccobtw 2 роки тому +68

      @@jayandjlps no it’s not over lol. You’ve been listening to too much black pill. If you’re at least average in looks then you can use game to get girls.

    • @SaturnFrost
      @SaturnFrost 2 роки тому +2

      💯

    • @KurokamiNajimi
      @KurokamiNajimi 2 роки тому +47

      @@Jaccobtw More like you just keep approaching women until you get a yes has nothing to do with game lol you just find someone you happen to meet the looks threshold for

  • @blazejecar
    @blazejecar 2 роки тому +2408

    ah yes, let me get surgery to fix my ugliness, let me go to the gym for years to get ripped, become a millionaire, learn game, social skills, secure status, have my own home etc. just to attract women, and then after all that I'm just supposed to take 1 entitled single mom with 25 bodies, who can't even cook and whose entire personality boils down to "I like to laugh" and "I like food", while I risk getting all my hard work destroyed in divorce court after she leaves me for a guy who's 2 inches taller than me. Yea gee, I wonder why men don't date anymore, sounds like a great deal

    • @chadgaston8615
      @chadgaston8615 2 роки тому

      Chad only needs to exist to get their panties wet.

    • @ryan6689
      @ryan6689 2 роки тому +250

      Couldn’t have said it any better! 👍🏻

    • @mikeprice8307
      @mikeprice8307 2 роки тому +61

      Gahdam smh

    • @Chrisicola
      @Chrisicola 2 роки тому +329

      You forgot "I like to travel," and "I like men that are generous."

    • @augustlion5105
      @augustlion5105 2 роки тому +1

      Women have no idea how much of an investment an average man has to make in order to attract even a single woman. And they don't care either. They have so many options for just being born a female that they can't even conceptualize a man's reality.

  • @yoooyoyooo
    @yoooyoyooo 2 роки тому +252

    It's actually much simpler. Chad that she wants has options and is tired of her shit as soon as he gets what he came for, but he keeps her around so he can show other women he has abundance.

    • @SirCalculator
      @SirCalculator 2 роки тому

      Or maybe after a month booty call her out for another easy lay

    • @VasiliZgRR
      @VasiliZgRR 2 роки тому

      Stop using Chad term…..Stop being an incel….

    • @badassnachos7051
      @badassnachos7051 2 роки тому +1

      Fuck it let Chad and Tyrone get all the STDs I'm good being single and having money lol no drama no bullshit no problem

  • @Neon-o4e
    @Neon-o4e 2 роки тому +735

    This falls under the fifth point that makes modern dating horrendous:
    The fact that modern women want men to be traditional, but don't want to be traditional themselves. This gets pointed out by the redpill community often, as well. Women still expect the man to pay on the first (second, third, and so on) date.
    Being a man with a good number of female friends (some of them with benefits), I can tell you it's a WHOLE lot better than being in a committed relationship with them. The expectations and demands of modern women are just not worth the investment, especially if you consider WW's first point about being easily replaceable.
    Stay safe out there, guys. Most of the time the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

    • @ultimateloser3411
      @ultimateloser3411 2 роки тому +36

      It's all about getting a cake and eating it too

    • @bpric13
      @bpric13 2 роки тому +42

      Never pay for a date unless it's your girlfriend. Always go Dutch and if she won't agree then keep it moving

    • @jaguarwarrior866
      @jaguarwarrior866 2 роки тому

      @Neon Exactly! Women Do NOT Treat Their Female Friends (Girlfriends) In This Fashion. Their Female Friends Get Reciprocation. That Is If They Want To KEEP That Woman As A Friend. For Their "Boyfriends" Women Reserve The Role of Romancer, And For Themselves The Role of Being A "Romantic" No Work, or Expenditure of Money Required. Then They Play The Victim, And Say Men Have "Commitment" Issues. Men Don't Want To Get Married, ETC. Where Is The EARNING of A Marriage Proposal Requirement on The Woman? Answer? Nowhere In Sight. "Women Are The Table"

    • @lapitop4206
      @lapitop4206 2 роки тому +13

      @@ultimateloser3411 The correct phrase is:
      "you can’t eat your cake and have it too" - Ted Kaczynski

    • @lucassousaesilva577
      @lucassousaesilva577 2 роки тому +21

      My GF pays for a lot of stuff when we go out and it doesn't bother her. And the woman has to buy gifts too on special dates. Tbh, I don't think I would prefer to have a traditional woman that doesn't work and whom I have to support.

  • @nicksundby
    @nicksundby 2 роки тому +282

    I'm retired, but you young guys are so fortunate to have this priceless information.

    • @ultimateloser3411
      @ultimateloser3411 2 роки тому +47

      And unfortunate at the same time too sir with all these very high standards nowadays.

    • @ShaunbirKlair24
      @ShaunbirKlair24 2 роки тому +30

      @@ultimateloser3411 just go to Brazil bro and date a favela baddie lol

    • @chadgaston8615
      @chadgaston8615 2 роки тому +12

      @@ultimateloser3411 You being tricked to raise that Chad kid like 200 years ago would be the real tragedy. Nazis at least tried to manage this brutality with a Lebensborn. I would support a Lebensborn program with the condition that Chad himself pays for all the expensives his kid will cause seeing how most ofnus here wont breed.

    • @jonihonkala1193
      @jonihonkala1193 2 роки тому

      The folk you just named would have been cure for most issues we face today 😆

    • @michaelangst6078
      @michaelangst6078 2 роки тому +4

      I wouldn't say it's good for men to watch these videos. It creates the man to have a depressing personality around woman, and for average looking man you need to have the most attractive personality possible for natural attraction to happen

  • @Mosisli
    @Mosisli 2 роки тому +151

    The average dude knows how futile and delusional it is for a woman to expect the local casanova, let's call him Joe Bigdick to suddenly settle down with her and become a one-woman man. It just does not work that way. Consequently, knowing this it would seem quite irrational for men to expect Sally Sleeparound to suddenly become the reincarnation of virgin Mary just because she's decided she now wants the status, convenience and support of being a married woman. Again, it just does not work that way.

    • @xanshen9011
      @xanshen9011 2 роки тому +9

      Love the names

    • @pinsnpies
      @pinsnpies 2 роки тому +1

      I love this comment Mosisli loool

    • @constablekennedy7705
      @constablekennedy7705 2 роки тому +2

      Underrated Comment and Nothing but the Gospel Truth …… 🙏🏿

    • @garypalmer1122
      @garypalmer1122 2 роки тому +2

      Good point - well made. Young men need to relate to this and watch out for 'Sally Sleeparound' - let her do IVF or get a surrogate if she wants kids...

    • @fxfxwc
      @fxfxwc 2 роки тому

      Men from the South want to be called "Sons of the Soil", but it's not going to happen.

  • @jans2887
    @jans2887 2 роки тому +51

    I cant imagine being a young guy or girl (below 30) in this day and age. The world, the social interactions and the young people today are so messed up it must be hard to find someone that's right for you, not to mention maintain a healthy relationship

  • @ryanveins3980
    @ryanveins3980 2 роки тому +402

    There is also the fact that having a girlfriend can be extremely exhausting. And when I say extremely, I mean it.
    A few years ago I was in a relationship with a girl, which lasted two and a half years. I made the huge mistake of trying to save her. She had a broken family, a complicated past and a lot of trauma. I am a 7.5/10, and she is a 6/10.
    Before I dated her, I always had time for myself. Excellent musician, brilliant at university, very active social life, a lean muscular body.
    During the relationship she would often yell at me for details, the neighbours even thought I was hitting her. She was always asking me weird questions, giving me ultimatums for nothing. The worst was when she scratched her face and threatened to call the police on me, even though I had never touched her. She managed to create tension in my family, while on the other hand I gave everything to get her to contact her family again, which I managed to do in the end.
    The more time passed, the more she wanted me to prove my love for her. I wasn't allowed to go out anymore, just having a student job drove her crazy and she cried because she said I was leaving her alone. I ended the relationship when she started hitting and biting me in the middle of a party with her friends. She even convinced them that I was to blame. She even spread the word in all my social circles that I was a monster during our relationship and that I often hit her.
    I ended up gaining weight, distancing myself from my family, developing self-confidence issues. I lost friends and fell into very bad habits to forget what I was going through with her. (drinking and gambling)
    Oh yes. Fun fact. She found a guy a week after we broke up. :)
    Obviously, I'm at fault for giving up everything for her. But I'm writing this in case someone is going through or has gone through the same thing as me. ALWAYS put your interests first and make no concessions. Follow your animality, have fun, because despite their cute appearance, many women are freaks.
    (I don't hate women at all, I love their organisational skills, their sensitivity, their bodies obviously, etc.) This is not a message to put all women in the same box. I've met some very nice girls too)
    PS: Today I'm back on track, I'm getting my Greek god body back, I've resumed my projects, and I'm even moving to the US soon.
    Thanks for reading, take care of yourself kings!
    => I speak French, so MAYBE there are some faults in my message :)

    • @ryanveins3980
      @ryanveins3980 2 роки тому +31

      @@cordfortina9073 Well, at the beginning of the relationship, she bombarded me with love. I loved her deep kindness when we were at the friend stage. It was only after the honeymoon period (that lasted 3-4 months) that she turned out to be dangerous and evil.
      I was convinced that if I took a girl a little less pretty than me, she would be nice to me. Well, no, it wasn't enough. Yet I am a good person, attentive, available, understanding, I do all the tasks, and she was the opposite.
      My example is certainly extreme, but I'm sure I'm not the only one who has experienced this. We don't see it all happening at the moment, and with love, we forgive a lot..

    • @ryanveins3980
      @ryanveins3980 2 роки тому +3

      @anaxagoras haha, you said it

    • @ryanveins3980
      @ryanveins3980 2 роки тому +2

      @•• Thanks a lot mate! :)

    • @Ikaros23
      @Ikaros23 2 роки тому

      This girl sounds like a " vulnerable narcissist". That is a extremely toxic personality.

    • @Chrisicola
      @Chrisicola 2 роки тому

      ​@@ryanveins3980 Typically, after 3-4 months of living together, women that are very manipulative will begin to pull the change of heart tactic/s**t test out of the blue. One minute she's happy, and the next minute she's downtrodden about the relationship- usually the silent treatment. This is typically used by her to start exerting control over the relationship and to probe asee how her future agenda may play out. Most men will be willing to sacrifice/compromise some aspect of themselves to steer the ship back to the former pleasant waters and this starts the process of more give and more take. Any woman that plays that 3-4 month "I'm not happy" card should be immediately and gracefully sent packing and men should NOT look back, or allow those women to try and wedge themselves back into your life.

  • @friedrichschnobel4000
    @friedrichschnobel4000 2 роки тому +279

    I guess this question falls together with the question why men don't want to marry anymore and why divorce rates are skyhigh. As good as expected. Never disappointed from your insights and always learning more how to apply the black pill in real life.

    • @activatekruger446
      @activatekruger446 2 роки тому +10

      *Pill of color

    • @secondchance598
      @secondchance598 2 роки тому +6

      @@activatekruger446 wtf imma use that 🤣

    • @pwh5805
      @pwh5805 2 роки тому +1

      It’s women that file for divorce, it’s men that want to get and stay married. Men that say no to marriage hardly exist.

    • @impudentdomain
      @impudentdomain 2 роки тому +3

      @@activatekruger446 Urban Pill

    • @Cub__
      @Cub__ 2 роки тому

      Indeed.

  • @giannisms1861
    @giannisms1861 2 роки тому +299

    The replaceability and the amount of low quality women are enough for us to stay out. My own gf told me in an indirect way that she would doumb me for a better looking guy. No joke. Also, how often do you see women getting bored of their boyfriends and dumbing them in search for new experiences. I see it all the time. As a man in the modern society if you get into a relationship you are expected to entertain her and pray she does not cheat on you or dumb you for another guy. You are expected to deal with a lot of double standards. Also asking your gf not to go out with other men is viewed as oppression and you are sexist. Basically asking for loyalty is viewed as oppression to modern women. And if you do everything right zthen there is s SMALL chance that she will stay with you and not dumb you after she gets bored. You are basically viewed as a decoration object that women can replace anytime they want with no remorse. All that just to get some intimacy. Chad gets this intimacy without dealing with this nonsense.

    • @bossgd100
      @bossgd100 2 роки тому +33

      Lol brutal but true

    • @Michael_the_Drunkard
      @Michael_the_Drunkard 2 роки тому +58

      @Xavier Behavier the definition of betabuxxing

    • @ozone8259
      @ozone8259 2 роки тому +74

      That's the cycle now-a-days.
      >Guy gets girlfriend and feels lucky
      >Guy receives narcissistic abuse from said girlfriend due to him being easily replaceable
      >Girl gets bored of guy and monkey branches with no feelings whatsoever
      >Guy is left devastated wondering what just happened
      >Guy then becomes a womanizer and doesn't commit to anymore women
      >"where are all the good men?" "Why are guys all players?"

    • @tedmccarron
      @tedmccarron 2 роки тому +18

      It's "dump" with a P. In the word "dumb" the B is silent and it means stupid.

    • @h0mo3rectus69
      @h0mo3rectus69 2 роки тому +9

      This is Why you should never get attached to one woman

  • @SonyCamry
    @SonyCamry 2 роки тому +163

    I loved a girl we had a relationship she cheated broke up with me had a new bf a day later. Brutal. Still hurts to this day.

    • @yamiyo6050
      @yamiyo6050 2 роки тому +18

      SMe bro 😢 my ex went to a party town and I got mad at her for going . She then preceded to make a false allegation to break up with me and had sex with another guy the same day and blocked me on everything. It hurts till this day

    • @yyyxx-p2v
      @yyyxx-p2v 2 роки тому

      L blackpillers get a better one

    • @Arthur-Morgan42069
      @Arthur-Morgan42069 2 роки тому +16

      Been there several times. I don't date anymore because I'm prioritizing my mental health now

    • @navamork8543
      @navamork8543 2 роки тому

      At least you learned a good lesson 👍

    • @CharleyChioma
      @CharleyChioma 2 роки тому +4

      So because of one girl, your life is ruined? ….Come on!

  • @YC-ls4yx
    @YC-ls4yx 2 роки тому +96

    My gf told me the other day she was not happy because I wasn't paying for the things she was buying for her work. I told her I knew that but I would only pay for OUR stuff and not stuff that has nothing to do with our relationship. She admitted she was wrong but insisted that she forner bfs paid for ALL her and her friends' stuff. I thought to myself, what kind of simp was that? I have no respect for who ever those men are, and on top of that, you are not in your twenties anymore so you had better start getting used living without your privilege.

    • @TheBudDex
      @TheBudDex 2 роки тому +30

      Wtf? She wants you to buy stuff for her WORK? Tell her that when you go to work there's this thing called a paycheck and that you can use it to buy things for your work.

    • @Michaelsimeon333
      @Michaelsimeon333 2 роки тому +36

      Leave her before it gets worse

    • @felipenascimento1964
      @felipenascimento1964 2 роки тому

      Wow! Now, that is some story! I think I would've break up after this...

    • @jimmyballer192
      @jimmyballer192 2 роки тому +10

      He said on video she has to many previous boyfriends she's damaged goods

    • @NBAThrowback00
      @NBAThrowback00 2 роки тому +6

      Let me guess, her money was her money and your money was hers and yours? LMAO.

  • @thinkoutsidethecontainer
    @thinkoutsidethecontainer 2 роки тому +78

    I'm a modern, liberated, independent man. I make my own money, have my own house, and I cook and clean too. I don't need no woman. And when I want a break from cooking I can go to Subway where female workers make me a sandwich. Life is great.

    • @ultimateloser3411
      @ultimateloser3411 2 роки тому +15

      Hope androids can be around before we incels die though lmao

    • @internetboy2000
      @internetboy2000 2 роки тому +1

      Subway sells fake meat don't eat it

    • @briskettacos
      @briskettacos 10 місяців тому

      So you pay the female employees to make you a sandwich and they provide you with a service, the same as male employees do? How is this a win again?

    • @XavierTatum
      @XavierTatum 10 місяців тому

      Problem solved.

  • @marcoslightspeed5517
    @marcoslightspeed5517 2 роки тому +636

    Male thirst is like the plague to society. It's ruining everything.

    • @ultimateloser3411
      @ultimateloser3411 2 роки тому +147

      I wish I was asexual now lmao. Better be attracted to rocks at this point

    • @captainhero7243
      @captainhero7243 2 роки тому

      Pornsick Brains and brainwashing from movies Like American Pie!

    • @SMLEFGFJB
      @SMLEFGFJB 2 роки тому +52

      I joke about the same thing. Even that it's easier to date being gay than it is straight in the dating world.

    • @malakbrood667
      @malakbrood667 2 роки тому +71

      True. The plague would disappear if men stop simping.

    • @rulanterp9422
      @rulanterp9422 2 роки тому +30

      @@cordfortina9073 You are right, but they shouldn't be blamed for playing with the full-of-aces set of cards that received at birth. Blaming them is Biiig Cope, man 😔

  • @BlazeDBFZ
    @BlazeDBFZ 2 роки тому +166

    Just recently i went out with a girl. We found we have a ton in common, we went for a long walk, great conversation, we both had shit to do in the evening though, so we agreed we'd meet again in a few days and make it longer. She seemed excited, me too, obviously. We exchange contacts and part.
    I message her the day after and I've been ghosted since then (5 days ago). Sent another message in between but no replies. No fucking clue what I did wrong, best 1st encounter I've ever been on and she still bailed out.
    I can't even imagine how much abundance women have nowadays. I've become best bros for life with dudes for way less, but I can be almost a carbon copy of the woman and we have a great time and she'll still be like "meh, there's probably something better out there".

    • @-haclong2366
      @-haclong2366 2 роки тому +40

      Women don't want similarity, they want better. They want to have a lot in common, but whatever you have in common with her you should be able to do better.

    • @salj.5459
      @salj.5459 2 роки тому

      Brutal. You know, you could potentially just have had the wrong impression. Girls will smile and lie, saying they had such a great time, and then never message you again. It happened to me. Be careful

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 2 роки тому +29

      She had better options. Your clue should have been that she had "shit to do" that night. Also, always wait for the woman to text YOU after 1st date. ALWAYS.

    • @sana.4.a
      @sana.4.a 2 роки тому +7

      maybe she was out of your league

    • @bavarois25
      @bavarois25 2 роки тому +30

      You did nothing wrong. Chad came and snapped her away in a couple of minutes. When Chad comes, it's pretty much over.

  • @robertfindley921
    @robertfindley921 2 роки тому +54

    Well done. I wasted countless hours hoping and pursuing women, and wondering what was wrong with me. Now that I've heard the black pill, I realize the vast majority of my effort never had a chance. Had I known then what I know now, I could have put out 10% the effort, been a lot more successful, and saved immeasurable heartache.

  • @Veteransolo
    @Veteransolo 2 роки тому +30

    As a divorced mid 20's man with no kids (thank God)
    It's because love for us men it's more serious than a woman's love,
    Women don't need love, us men need it, even though we don't wanna admit it,
    The reason I tolerate my ex for a long time was because I really loved her, and even though she changed for the worse, i still fought for us until i had enough,
    Like weather, people change, rarely for the best,
    So i took the initiative and left while she was visiting her family and left the divorce papers and a note,
    That was by far the best decision of my life,
    The next day after that happened she called non stop and i didn't answer and blocked her,
    Her friend which me and her were and are in good terms (she's married with kids) told me that she started dating one of her male friends who was apparently her SIMP in the exact same day when I left the house,
    Now
    She cries and regrets that she lost me, (I'm divorced for a year and a half now) according to her friend,
    Apparently women don't know themselves what they want,
    Maybe that's why men like me had enough of relationships.
    But that's just me.
    👁👅👁🍺

    • @robertlucky781
      @robertlucky781 2 роки тому +2

      "...She cries and regrets that she lost me,"
      To women, a man's love is like air: they take it for granted and don't appreciate it until they no longer have it.

    • @Veteransolo
      @Veteransolo 2 роки тому

      @@robertlucky781 yep,
      They take it for granted since they got a lot of options available.
      But in the end,
      It doesn't even matter,
      Us men need our freedom anyway in my opinion and a lot of excitement.
      So for me it was only difficult in the first months.
      Now,
      I'm enjoying my life.
      Well, as best as I can anyway,
      First covid,
      Now the global crisis with Russia and Ukraine,
      Ww3 is a possibility,
      That is why we have to enjoy our life friend.

  • @WillThat
    @WillThat 2 роки тому +121

    Point 1: I tried playing the divorce chicken game when she was getting too brazen with the "just a friend" guys in the DMs. Her response: go ahead.
    Point 2: Definitely not me. Got a single 3/10 in the three years since my divorce.
    Point 3: "Virtual media" isn't the same. It works with virgins maybe or to hold you over a bit. I've become a believer in P4P.
    Point 4: They're all unattractive (fat, tattoos, piercings, crazy hair) or $luts, often time both. They're nice people, but terrible potential partners.
    Point 5: "Pay attention to meeeeee" was the ex wife's favorite slogan. Always bitched I never bought her things, forgetting I covered the mortgage, paid for her health and car insurance, paid all the utilities, bought groceries and dinner outings the majority of the time.

    • @nickdobrov
      @nickdobrov 2 роки тому +7

      P4P is the way to go. Ever watch "The Wolf of Wall Street"? Was he married? Yes. Who did he sleep with? P4P girls. The wife (or any permanent chick) is therefore redundant.

    • @lpgame2036
      @lpgame2036 2 роки тому

      @@nickdobrov whats a P4P girl?

    • @sergeantmajor_gross
      @sergeantmajor_gross 2 роки тому +1

      Did your divorce end up costing you a lot?

    • @yuris6125
      @yuris6125 2 роки тому +4

      @@lpgame2036 pay 4 play?

    • @WillThat
      @WillThat 2 роки тому +6

      @@sergeantmajor_gross We were only married two years, so most lawyer fees and child support.

  • @rogerm3708
    @rogerm3708 2 роки тому +288

    Women, why do you stay with a man that doesn't want a relationship with you?

    • @CuteAndFunnyFan
      @CuteAndFunnyFan 2 роки тому +119

      Genetics

    • @__-bz7wh
      @__-bz7wh 2 роки тому +66

      They enjoy being mistreated

    • @petarzhelev1373
      @petarzhelev1373 2 роки тому +111

      __ they enjoy being mistreated by chad

    • @markfindlay8636
      @markfindlay8636 2 роки тому +27

      Live off the drama!

    • @JamalW239
      @JamalW239 2 роки тому +6

      Hope that they can be lured and the thought of having to settle to someone less desirable

  • @benj1236
    @benj1236 2 роки тому +105

    *Alimony, Child support, Shes not yours its just your turn, Shes for the streets, Women are not worth the investment, I don't want to pay premium price for a used product.......You're Welcome.*

    • @ultimateloser3411
      @ultimateloser3411 2 роки тому +10

      Dude at this point it's a subscription for beta buxx lmao. They need to keep paying premium price just to get that twice a year service lol

    • @Blaze72sH
      @Blaze72sH 2 роки тому

      @@ultimateloser3411 people in the US don't realize that they are indirectly beta buxx. Since 90% of the welfare wealth goes to single moms.
      God, I hate sexual liberation.

    • @chadgaston8615
      @chadgaston8615 2 роки тому +4

      Was never yours unless you verified her v-card. Hymen does not prove it.

    • @Blaze72sH
      @Blaze72sH 2 роки тому +1

      @@chadgaston8615 💯

    • @constablekennedy7705
      @constablekennedy7705 2 роки тому +1

      I Approve this Memo ……… 🙏🏿. 🎤

  • @wonderfulweavile5563
    @wonderfulweavile5563 2 роки тому +31

    The wait is finally over! I am so addicted to your videos. Not only are they never disappointing and always insightful, informative and straight up interesting, but they're also calming, in some way. I mean, your voice tone itself is calming, and so are the topics. You always tell the truth, so there's no point in getting heated. And most of all, it's always predictable, and that's the first reason why I feel so relaxed watching them. It's like tragedy: unlike comedy, you know from the start that there's no hope, that something bad, unavoidable and unalterable is going to happen. No suspense, no false promises, no delusional hope, just helplessness and hopelessness. Because life can also be like that and only by accepting its reality (unalterable unfairness) can we find peace of mind. In tragedy as well as in your videos, the tone is already set: we accept the hopelessness of the situation right from the start, without hoping for a miracle, and that's why we (or at least I) feel at peace.
    (By hopelessness I mostly mean the unavoidable importance of looks/ genetics and its repercussions in the dating scene, given the current circumstances and the behaviour of women.)
    In other words, keep up the good work. I enjoyed watching all your videos: this one is no exception and I am already looking forward to the next one.

  • @Narasthenics
    @Narasthenics 2 роки тому +34

    Finding decent single women in 2022? Playing the lottery would be a better use of your RNG, not to mention that because of their rarity, they can afford even higher standards than their damaged counterparts.

  • @valhalla7567
    @valhalla7567 2 роки тому +141

    🙏 To all men out here..
    Have your own:
    - Life
    - Hobby's
    - A nice job
    - Friends/familie
    - Passion
    - HAVE A OWN LIFE, FOCUS ON OTHER THINGS, HAVE STANDARDS AND CREATE YOUR OWN LUCK
    If you have your shi together you notice you DONT need a woman after all. A woman is a bonus.. and nothing more than that.. they are not that important and stop doing everything for them and you will see it attracts women instead of being thirsty and scare them away. If you are focus on multiple things in your life you forget to think about woman and when you dont give a women (that you date or text) too much attention.. THEY will be needy and thirsty and thats why its so important to focus on yourself.
    I see them as a sexual hobby rather that something sooooooo important that i will do everything for the women wich i date. I dont know how it is in your country but a lot of people are getting a divorce easy when they are married when they have a hard time or when the relationship gets boring. Love is not what it was anymore so you dont miss anything.. remember that. We need to stop giving women that power so they are not able to control the happines of men.

    • @SandeepSabarish
      @SandeepSabarish 2 роки тому +3

      Thanks man

    • @hydraforce2262
      @hydraforce2262 2 роки тому +4

      Beautifully said

    • @lima9313
      @lima9313 2 роки тому +6

      this is what everyone should do, but it's what only some will do because today's men are too emotional.

    • @valhalla7567
      @valhalla7567 2 роки тому

      @@lima9313 true. Im not gonna lie.. i was also that type of guy but now i know "the code" how to be happy without a woman it feels like freedom. Its feels powerfull to be happy without the fact that somebody else is responsible for my happines. I have multiple friends with benefits dates and thats ok.. like i said i see woman only for sexual goals and im fine with that. I hope that men will follow my tips so everything is getting back to normal so we get rid of deluted women who think they can get every men on the planent. The 5 guys with the 5 girls, the normal guys with normal woman and the 7 with the 7 and the Chads with the model woman.

    • @GastropodGaming2006
      @GastropodGaming2006 2 роки тому

      my dad rammed this down my throat as much as he could
      "if you cannot find a decent wife. dont get a wife."

  • @mgtowmonkapprenticegang8426
    @mgtowmonkapprenticegang8426 2 роки тому +245

    This video is incredibly true. Sadly I'm a normie and all the girls I wanted to obtain, I couldn't. My last relationship when I settled with a 4/10 (I'd consider myself a 5), the entitlement, attention requirements and emotional reassurance requirements were too much. The relationship felt like hell and a chore.
    So now i just casually date. I get all the benefits of relationships without the entitlement and heavy financial/emotional commitments.
    I feel alot of men are following the same route and not settling anymore. If we can't get the girl we want, we're happy to just casually date or just be alone.

    • @WildBillHickums
      @WildBillHickums 2 роки тому +34

      They will revisit you in your 30s, trust me.

    • @WildBillHickums
      @WildBillHickums 2 роки тому +28

      @Fan Made Trailer Mash Guy Their looks decrease, simple as that.

    • @rickywagner6990
      @rickywagner6990 2 роки тому +11

      How is this helping us save western civilization though? We need families with children to save the west.

    • @identicalgd2446
      @identicalgd2446 2 роки тому

      How tall are you

    • @mgtowmonkapprenticegang8426
      @mgtowmonkapprenticegang8426 2 роки тому +3

      @@identicalgd2446 5ft10, 62kg. Very low body fat.

  • @Kinosis79
    @Kinosis79 2 роки тому +40

    High body counts, nothing to offer except one thing (that every other guy already had), drama, divorce grape. There is no reason to be in one.

  • @evolutiontail5697
    @evolutiontail5697 2 роки тому +76

    It just occurred to me these dating coaches and some red pillers actually put women on a pedestal. They make it seem like the average guy is supposed to have the best personality and social skills just to attract the average woman. A few years ago I saw a guy who did drugs and play video games yet was still having an abundance of women every week. Screw all that self improvement just to get women. Do it for yourself.

  • @Falconlibrary
    @Falconlibrary 2 роки тому +56

    I've never had trouble attracting women, but I no longer seek long-term relationships because women today want to make the relationship all about them. There's no give and take, no reciprocity. My last serious girlfriend, who I liked a lot at first, wanted to quit her job and move in with me so she could "focus on her spirituality". So, stay home in her jammies while I worked and paid all the bills. Yeah, sign me up for that. Not into being used as a walking ATM and then blamed for everything that goes wrong in a woman's life because of her poor choices.
    Do better, women. Whatever you're doing now just isn't working.

    • @hellsangel4268
      @hellsangel4268 2 роки тому +1

      Most women are becoming more financially independent, but one case scenario doesn't represent the entire female population.

    • @freya6921
      @freya6921 2 роки тому +2

      @@hellsangel4268 ^^
      I don’t understand why these men think women need them. There are obviously much better men out there.

    • @hellsangel4268
      @hellsangel4268 2 роки тому

      @@freya6921 I agree.

    • @Arthur-Morgan42069
      @Arthur-Morgan42069 2 роки тому +7

      @@hellsangel4268 Spoken like a child

    • @BlueFish-kq9fh
      @BlueFish-kq9fh 2 роки тому +8

      @@freya6921 Did you even bother to read Daniel Bradford's comment?

  • @animetv6364
    @animetv6364 2 роки тому +50

    Relationships seem like missions these days, not relationships. I just hate the current society so much.

    • @mikeprice8307
      @mikeprice8307 2 роки тому +1

      I'm in the boat with you my friend 🤝

    • @ozone8259
      @ozone8259 2 роки тому +6

      For men it's nothing but walking on egg shells. For women it's like a candy store.

    • @derekmaullo2865
      @derekmaullo2865 Рік тому

      Screw society

    • @derekmaullo2865
      @derekmaullo2865 Рік тому

      ​@Ozone I remember a woman In a hospital where I did not, I DID NOT HIT a girl, and then a young woman just had the balls to just insult me and call me lies. Then everyone laughed at me(Young men included) and one man told me to respect the woman that just talked trash at me. Then he stood up,punched me two times in the face and the doctor had to control him because he was very aggressive with me. I was in a hospital of young people and EVERYONE,I repeat,EVERYONE just talked $hit about me. That's the whole story. And then I was forced to sleep in a confined and prisoned sleep in the hospital. Yeah I know,it's chaos

  • @JamalW239
    @JamalW239 2 роки тому +197

    As a high tier normie…..why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? Not to mention most women in the U.K. have poor traits for relationships and my smv match would think they are above me

    • @patrikjamesmusic
      @patrikjamesmusic 2 роки тому +13

      its about neither UK or US, the problem is acces to social media, and almost every country has it. Also by slavs that is a problem ;) (we drink so much vodka that it cant bother us, we dont really care that much

    • @ShaunbirKlair24
      @ShaunbirKlair24 2 роки тому +7

      Men should start going to Brazil or Colombia

    • @finlandsakke3505
      @finlandsakke3505 2 роки тому +17

      @@ShaunbirKlair24 But most men want to date white woman

    • @Chris-Ian
      @Chris-Ian 2 роки тому +13

      Getting the milk "for free" requires a shitload of work, and a reasonable amount of money as well. I mean unless you're a chick magnet, you're probably paying a lot more for dating and going to night clubs than if you just pay a professional. And there's no guarantee you'll even have sex on these nights out, so...

    • @ShaunbirKlair24
      @ShaunbirKlair24 2 роки тому +5

      @@finlandsakke3505 then go to Romania or Latvia or somewhere in Eastern Europe

  • @Clark_Kent_ZA
    @Clark_Kent_ZA 2 роки тому +17

    "Oh my gosh, why don't men ask me out. Are they intimidated?"
    Nope most unattractive guys have learned that we are better off on our own and the Chads are busy killing it on Tinder.

  • @altair91100
    @altair91100 2 роки тому +27

    I strongly agree with what you say at 05:41. Chads obviously don't want relationships at all, as principle, because they literally sleep with a different girl every night, so why would they. And those are the men that women mean when they say "guys don't want relationships". Below a chadlite level, I think, most men, deep down inside them, do want relationships, just then, because of things you mentioned, they stop doing so.
    I am especially freightened by the first one. I think no man is really safe nowadays. Should it be 10 months into relationship, or 10 years. You are so easily replacible, that you basically need to play a perfect game, or she throws you out of the window. This happened to me the last time I tried dating, after some 3 months of dating, came literally one small arguement between us. It was enough for her, though everything was going great thus far. But who cares, if she has 10 guys in my place?
    Similarly, I remember when my female friend told me how she was struggling in life, and how greatful she was for her boyfriend's family that they let her move in with her boyfriend to his parents' house. She was so much in love with him, posting photos together on instastory for like 2 years or so, they had a cat together and stuff. Well, after she broke up with him, it was less than a week that she started posting photos with another guy (and the same cat lol). I mean, of course I don't know exactly what happened, but no matter who's fault the break up was, the sheer awareness of the fact that you can be (and will be, if needed) replaced within a second is just terrifying.

    • @altair91100
      @altair91100 2 роки тому +2

      @Xavier Behavier I understand you very well. Those endless thoughts "what if I haven't said that", "what if I haven't done that", etc. These are pointless. Even if you wouldn't have "failed" that day, you would certainly "fail" in the few next days, weeks, or months ANYWAY. If she cared, she cared, you'd eventually work it out if it wasn't a big deal (in my case it really wasn't). But then you realize that you were trying so hard to please someone to whom you were worth nothing.
      And for what?

  • @blackpilledmelanin2300
    @blackpilledmelanin2300 2 роки тому +66

    Men's commitment can mean the difference between a woman living a good life in a warm home with food on the table or having to sell her body on the street.
    Never give your commitment up for just any female in your life trust me it is your strongest asset as a man.

    • @constablekennedy7705
      @constablekennedy7705 2 роки тому +6

      Stay Strong, Stay Single and Stay Safe Fellas …….. 🚶🏿‍♂️

    • @briskettacos
      @briskettacos 10 місяців тому

      This is only true if you live in the third world, and even there many women run businesses and help each other out when men act capricious.

  • @covertcounsellor6797
    @covertcounsellor6797 2 роки тому +35

    More great content, Wheat. Thank you! One other reason that I would add, though it applies to approaches more so than relationships is the hostile legislative environment. Here in Australia, we have ridiculous “enthusiastic consent at each point” laws that make it a huge risk to even look at a woman, let alone approach or progress to intimacy. And as a boyfriend, especially a live in, you face the risk of arrest should you be silly enough to get her angry. Womyn have weaponised themselves and, frankly, I have no sympathy. They have, metaphorically, made their bed and now they can lie in it!

    • @bf945
      @bf945 2 роки тому +3

      Lie in their bed. Alone. With their cats.

    • @user-qb7ms6vs7s
      @user-qb7ms6vs7s 2 роки тому

      This is a very important point in the Western world I myself have been arrested based on a woman's anger and lies to police months later she started to regret it

    • @covertcounsellor6797
      @covertcounsellor6797 2 роки тому

      @@user-qb7ms6vs7s I hope you didn’t sustain lasting damage, D. It’s a clear and present danger to men in the West. I am an old bas*rd and used to be a senior manager, who mentored younger team members, including womyn. Still happy to give young guys the benefit of my experience (if they’re interested), but young womyn can go to the Sisterhood for their mentoring.

    • @user-qb7ms6vs7s
      @user-qb7ms6vs7s 2 роки тому

      @@covertcounsellor6797 for sure there is lasting damage. Law makes don't realise how they are destroying families and society to the shock of even the narcissist wife

    • @wolfman_jagermeistro8445
      @wolfman_jagermeistro8445 2 роки тому

      Holy crap i knew it was bad in aussie land but i didnt know it was that bad! Wtf kind of bs is that good lord we need a revolution

  • @smilodon92
    @smilodon92 2 роки тому +18

    Been a long time since I talked to a woman with the goal of scoring or winning her affection. I just don't care anymore. If they come, they're welcome, if they don't, doesn't matter I got other things to do.

    • @jimmyballer192
      @jimmyballer192 2 роки тому +1

      Don't even welcome them juice ain't sneeze

    • @hellsangel4268
      @hellsangel4268 2 роки тому +1

      Everyone should be emotionally stable and independent, so good on you.

  • @EdwinBetancourtJr
    @EdwinBetancourtJr 2 роки тому +27

    Best gifts for a LTR after year 3 is.
    Gift card to her favorite clothing store, a nice hallmark card and write something sweet, expressing how you feel towards her. Works like a charm.
    I almost never say anything sweet to her during the year, mostly jokes and being playful, so she definitely appreciates what’s said in the card.

    • @fxfxwc
      @fxfxwc 2 роки тому +1

      I give "I'm 'bout to bust.....outa here."
      "Feets don't fails me now."

    • @ghhhv2027
      @ghhhv2027 2 роки тому

      Exactly less is more , wheat is too black pilled game does play a factor

  • @rrdutch4111
    @rrdutch4111 2 роки тому +31

    Why do men refused to commit to a woman, When she’s only using you for financial and emotional security while looking for a better relationship opportunity? Wow, that’s… that’s a really difficult concept to comprehend. It’s like, men are human beings Concerned about their own physical and emotional autonomy or something🙄…..

  • @Mrs.Silversmith
    @Mrs.Silversmith 2 роки тому +27

    As someone who has been married for over a decade, we are not obsessed with the gift giving stuff. Valentines is a candy only holiday for us. Some years we get each other Christmas presents, sometimes not. We don't do gifts on our anniversary, just dinner somewhere. My birthday is the only required gift day on that list, but so is his. We like to keep things low stress, so our goal is that family traditions should be fun. If its not fun, what's the point of a holiday?

    • @johnseventine_vfx
      @johnseventine_vfx 2 роки тому

      you should 've use your voice to speak about the most relevant point of this video. The rise of low quality women. I'm currently datin 3 girls and will never pay for anything

    • @Falconlibrary
      @Falconlibrary 2 роки тому

      Carole, that's exactly the attitude that a loving, caring spouse has. It's what you can do for each other, not just what your partner can do for you. So many single women have long lists of demands and never stop to think of what they have to give.

    • @CraigRodmellMusic
      @CraigRodmellMusic 2 роки тому

      Hear hear! Such occasions have been commercialized to the point that they're just another way to part you from your money. In our family, gift giving is not compulsory, too.

  • @flamma5095
    @flamma5095 2 роки тому +14

    In regards to 5:45 there's one thing I've noticed is that when women refer to men (in plural) they generally mean chads. "Men are not commiting anymore", "women like older men", "women care about guys with a personality", etc.
    Subconciously, they think of chads because the other 80-85% of guys are invisible to them.

  • @bluejaysmedicmike6831
    @bluejaysmedicmike6831 2 роки тому +13

    She is messing with Chad And Tyrone And They will never Commit, They have to many options, The Black Pill always Win, I Been Black Pilled Since 1991 Before The Matrix Movie

  • @julioandresgomez3201
    @julioandresgomez3201 2 роки тому +26

    Interesting that "waiting til you are too old for men to sexually desire you (not just intellectually or spiritually) to start looking for a serious relationship" is not a point. With men the problem is the exact opposite, impatience, rushing, trying to engage before you polish your rough edges, before you got yourself together and your life together. "Women are born, men are made" means, among other things, that a woman (usually) is ready for a committed relationship soon as she turns 15 or 16, but a man may not be ready until he´s 25 or 30.

  • @DangRenBo
    @DangRenBo 2 роки тому +21

    Blackpill is the reason Jordan Peterson said there should be enforced monogamy. Although he got in trouble over this statement, he didn't mean "arranged marriages." He meant a societal expectation and pressure to be monogamous. Otherwise, top men monopolize the dating pool, and men outside the top tier are left alone to become militant.

    • @palerider2132
      @palerider2132 Рік тому +1

      The Roman's figured this out thousands of years ago. It's sad all these people want to act like children.

    • @briskettacos
      @briskettacos 10 місяців тому

      @palerider2132 the Romans drank lead-flavored water, believed in superstitions and omens, molested children, and killed slaves for no reason. Who better to take sane and stable relationship advice from?

  • @Doll151
    @Doll151 2 роки тому +11

    it's ovER, your replacement is one argument away

    • @ultimateloser3411
      @ultimateloser3411 2 роки тому +5

      And you're suffering is one rope away from ending too

  • @easter_sunday
    @easter_sunday 2 роки тому +17

    All of this angst just to date an Amber Heard archtype. Sad.

  • @Carlton_Banks
    @Carlton_Banks 2 роки тому +51

    Women: I date 6'2 Chad/Tyrone for his personality, believe me. 🤭🤭

    • @ultimateloser3411
      @ultimateloser3411 2 роки тому +3

      But some do have great personality. Which means it's time for some ropium

    • @ragnarlothbrok367
      @ragnarlothbrok367 2 роки тому +4

      6'2 are manlets, 6'3 is the new trend

    • @gulfstream0079
      @gulfstream0079 2 роки тому +5

      What percentage of men are really chads?

    • @bpric13
      @bpric13 2 роки тому

      Carlton, glad to see you not slappin people these days

    • @chadgaston8615
      @chadgaston8615 2 роки тому +1

      @@ultimateloser3411 They only have that to secure the bait. I have seen many laugh here in Northern Europe how easy Chinese women in particular seems to be.

  • @jilk.7655
    @jilk.7655 2 роки тому +38

    it kinda disappoints me so much that so many women got down on this level nowadays. i don’t get why you would give the power you hold away for free? being intimate is the most powerful energy exchange you could do as a woman so why doing it with just any man (no matter how good he looks)? kinda sucks what this world turned into

    • @brocklanders3616
      @brocklanders3616 2 роки тому +15

      I can't agree more. This coming from a good looking dude. I remember when I was younger, wanting to start a family in my mid 20's with a sweet good looking girl. Now I'm in my 30s and honesty doing see it happening. Most chicks are thots, that have no pair bonding ability left. So intimacy is out the window for 90% of them, most chicks my age are looking for a unattractive beta male provider to take advantage of.

    • @briskettacos
      @briskettacos 10 місяців тому

      Believe it or not, women can also have sex for pleasure.

  • @jokerpilled2535
    @jokerpilled2535 2 роки тому +88

    Another problem with relationships, the gf won’t let you enjoy your hobbies such as gaming, anime/netflix, UA-cam, or anything that isn’t “productive” according to her. They’ll constantly try to control and change you in order to turn you into their “ideal bf” which they can show off to others, especially if you weren’t her first choice.
    Also, congrats on 70k subscribers WW, this channel is exploding in views just like it deserves 👍

    • @sacrosanctus318
      @sacrosanctus318 2 роки тому +19

      Oh yea, mainly because they do not have any hobbies, YOU are their hobby (as in you going through hoops and loops for her), and social media.

    • @constablekennedy7705
      @constablekennedy7705 2 роки тому +4

      Well said Fella

    • @sicarius.m1
      @sicarius.m1 2 роки тому +7

      To be fair, anime is wack as hell.

    • @jokerpilled2535
      @jokerpilled2535 2 роки тому +12

      @@sicarius.m1 different copes for different folks 🤷‍♂️ but I’ll agree, most weebs are beta soyboiis.

    • @sicarius.m1
      @sicarius.m1 2 роки тому +9

      @@jokerpilled2535 I’ve met at most 2 ppl out of 10 that are normal anime watchers

  • @parkerpeters3874
    @parkerpeters3874 2 роки тому +25

    Excellent Work. A breakdown on the mindset of Sub 5s, Normies, and Chads with regards to relationships would be worth exploring for further content.

  • @user-lt9et8iv7p
    @user-lt9et8iv7p 2 роки тому +2

    This channel genuinely protects male benefits. It's not like other dating channels, which aims to take away the audience time, money and resources but doesn't protect the audience's benefits. This youtube channel until now is still gold, keep posting the awesome content WW, thanks a lot for the value which is provided here.

  • @travelingjohn69
    @travelingjohn69 2 роки тому +21

    Even with a girlfriend you're always in competition even if you think you've won the game. This is why they say she's not your girl it's just your turn.
    I'm just hoping that one day I find that woman to my desire where I'm her last turn.

    • @mikeprice8307
      @mikeprice8307 2 роки тому +15

      You're never the last turn. That's why you have to stay on your game. I know women who cheat on some of the best husband's they'll ever have at the hospital I work at with doctors.

    • @rulanterp9422
      @rulanterp9422 2 роки тому +1

      @@mikeprice8307 I also know women who lose their minds (and open their legs) when a good looking doctor needs to release genetic fluids, no matter how good their husbands are...

    • @autism1151
      @autism1151 2 роки тому

      @@mikeprice8307 Women's behavior is why misogyny exists and is based

    • @RR.LL.3B
      @RR.LL.3B Рік тому +1

      @@mikeprice8307 I love how we are all grouping women together in this comment section yet men always whine and say “not all men😠😢!!!”

    • @Natttttttttt
      @Natttttttttt Рік тому +1

      @@RR.LL.3B agree it’s soooo damn pathetic you guys have no idea how you’re just creating your own problems. If you are not 100% the best you can be then how can you expect to find a good woman? We both have to give our 100%, yes some may cheat but some have got the right attitude to make it work. My cousin met his wife on bumble married after a year. He’s a good guy and she’s a good woman. It does happen believe it or not.

  • @SunRise-ul7ko
    @SunRise-ul7ko 2 роки тому +12

    I refuse to move in with my girlfriend, as the demands are never ending & I don't want the government sleeping in my bed.

    • @robertlucky781
      @robertlucky781 2 роки тому +1

      Check on the laws in your state for how long cohabitation has to last in order to become a 'common-law' marriage. When that happens, it is legally recognized by the state as a 'de-facto' marriage, with all the hazards for you (and all the advantages for her) wrt divorce.

  • @thedarkestknight8381
    @thedarkestknight8381 2 роки тому +14

    It’s over if you don’t have the looks it’s over your face height hair race determine your dating experience

    • @ultimateloser3411
      @ultimateloser3411 2 роки тому +3

      Your life experience too

    • @mikeprice8307
      @mikeprice8307 2 роки тому

      Don't forget pehpeh size 😭

    • @davdav8152
      @davdav8152 2 роки тому

      @@mikeprice8307 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ultimateloser3411
      @ultimateloser3411 2 роки тому

      @@mikeprice8307 Imagine being a short Filipino (already having a small peepee) with a micropeepee because of an illness. Nature is brutal

  • @eliastv5498
    @eliastv5498 2 роки тому +15

    3 years single and counting. Extremely peaceful. I'm physically fit, tall, and healthy but even so the relationships were literal torture. I think a whole other aspect of this generation is parents (and government) spoiling their little girls.

  • @onetruepatriot6718
    @onetruepatriot6718 2 роки тому +18

    As an American I wanted to commit, so I married a Filipina woman.

    • @brandonlevy8680
      @brandonlevy8680 2 роки тому +1

      yeap. Find a woman outside, Western countries. Western women are so screwed up in the head. They don't want a relationship. They want a dog...until they find a better dog. They want the world and they still expect you to beg for even the tiniest bits of attention. South America or South East Asia or Euro-Asia or Africa. Then on top of all that, if you get a divorce you need to pay her for being miserable. Yeah...no thanks.

  • @MrReaver55
    @MrReaver55 2 роки тому +6

    I swear, your videos aren't even that blackpilled as most haters say. You're pretty straight forward hybrid-pilled.

  • @richardkalmwater5996
    @richardkalmwater5996 2 роки тому +66

    This is such an intelligent channel. It communicates perspectives that other red/mgtow channels just don't offer.
    The concept of relationship power is so important. For these reason, I believe it is a mistake for most men to pursue women until they are about 28. At age 28, if a man has been on their path/purpose, they should be in a financial situation where they could support a family. They are more confident and bring more to the table. Conversely, I think a young woman is making a mistake to mess with any man younger than 28. An 18 year woman who messes with young guys is risking becoming a single mother which is a disaster for both the young woman and her child...

    • @nicelypenn
      @nicelypenn 2 роки тому

      true. it's sad to see innocent young women turn into used up whores.

    • @TheShowOff2I
      @TheShowOff2I 2 роки тому +2

      Exactly, the slide show and examples given makes it easy for people who have never heard of the red or blue pill to understand and easily digest

    • @literallyonlyfanz2308
      @literallyonlyfanz2308 2 роки тому +11

      Wheat waffles is incredible. Of course, as with ANYONE, not ALL his points are home runs and I downright disagree with some of his points, but gahdamn If he doesn’t hit the nails perfectly with a hammer 98% of the time!! Wish he posted 3 times a day lmao

    • @richardkalmwater5996
      @richardkalmwater5996 2 роки тому +7

      @@literallyonlyfanz2308 I agree. I'm not as black pilled as WW however, he makes a very good argument why the black pill philosophy has validity.

    • @onthaticeburgess109
      @onthaticeburgess109 2 роки тому +6

      Richard cope

  • @HughLeFitness
    @HughLeFitness 2 роки тому +20

    If you're not a chad, life only gets harder as time goes on

    • @chadgaston8615
      @chadgaston8615 2 роки тому +8

      Undeniable truth of life, rest is copium.

    • @ultimateloser3411
      @ultimateloser3411 2 роки тому +4

      Never even began

    • @mikeprice8307
      @mikeprice8307 2 роки тому +2

      And more expensive 😉 😜

    • @Michael_the_Drunkard
      @Michael_the_Drunkard 2 роки тому +1

      @@chadgaston8615 literally moneymax Can't say it didn't work. Look at Elon Musk, a tall and rich normie. 20 years ago, he could've easily competed with chads in terms of body counts (with a fixed hairline though).

    • @robertlucky781
      @robertlucky781 2 роки тому +1

      That is why you have to Go Your Own Way and learn not to care.

  • @sacrosanctus318
    @sacrosanctus318 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks a lot for reminding me why I don't need a relationship anymore, the gift part really got me some PTSD.

  • @jaxonv2098
    @jaxonv2098 2 роки тому +5

    Judging by the divorce rate, it isn't men who aren't willing to commit

  • @eskaban_edits_beats_and_more
    @eskaban_edits_beats_and_more 2 роки тому +1

    thank you wheat waffles with waking up and saving young men from a lot of headache and pain

  • @grantpenton1850
    @grantpenton1850 2 роки тому +5

    for my past 2 long term relationships (3 & 4.3 years), I set a rule of no giftgiving- special shared experiences only. That was eventually appreciated. After 26 months alone, I think I'll be fine for rest of my life, though it sometimes sucks to have no family, and friends who are too busy to meet. I sure don't regret my vasectomy!

    • @alpharexhusky9361
      @alpharexhusky9361 2 роки тому +1

      These comments are sad including yours

    • @Natttttttttt
      @Natttttttttt Рік тому

      This is the dating pool we have to choose from… rather dire isn’t it. 😂

  • @crabking0697
    @crabking0697 2 роки тому +11

    This guy got most of the reasons. But I'll add a few. From My personal experiences and perception , I always drew the conclusion that it is more risky and troublesome to approach in real life. The reasons being labeled a creep, and harassment.

  • @heroldjaras9909
    @heroldjaras9909 2 роки тому +4

    1:13 you are right. even 30s 40s females have many options. in all age groups dating is not worth it. she can ALWAYS replace you

  • @coreyworthingtonii9230
    @coreyworthingtonii9230 2 роки тому +1

    Wheat Waffles
    I don’t agree with everything you say, but you have a high number of original and well articulated takes on modern dating.
    Well done dude 👏🏻

  • @BrandonHalo
    @BrandonHalo 2 роки тому +6

    When she says "men" she only means the top 20 percent. Maybe even the top 5 percent. The bottom 80 percent aren't seen as men. They aren't even seen as human. 6:10 ha, one of my first videos was about this!

  • @MyCatsArchive
    @MyCatsArchive 2 роки тому +9

    I have seen men who get free sex and even free babies (!) from women. This way, those types of men get to continue their lineage without having to commit or put in resources. Amd when you see that, you will think yourself "Why society keeps telling me to chase and commit to a woman, when right here I can see women give free sex and even their womb for free?"
    Those examples you can give even to normies. And that's why I'd rather be sent my own way than conforming to society that gives me nothing.

    • @djlinux64
      @djlinux64 2 роки тому

      what country has women giving free babies lol

    • @briskettacos
      @briskettacos 10 місяців тому

      Their children often end up dysfunctional, and many opt out of having their own offspring as their childhoods were too traumatizing. So, in that way, their genes do not pass on.
      Don't envy these scumbags.

  • @mythrixx_world
    @mythrixx_world 2 роки тому +3

    In a culture where they say broke men dont deserve women when he becomes rich he dont have to stick to one girl keep that same energy

  • @jonpaul3868
    @jonpaul3868 2 роки тому +4

    These women want men to tackle burglars that breach the house (protector role) but in the same time don't want to respect them. Them expect men to be traditional, and in the same time don't want the traditional role for themself.

  • @someguyonaguitar
    @someguyonaguitar 2 роки тому +4

    At 35 having had a few longer term relationships it is quite alot of effort /time to expend when they don't work out. Not saying don't go for it but failure puts you at square minus one.

  • @infinit3platin7m90
    @infinit3platin7m90 2 роки тому +2

    It's actually: "Why don't highly desired men don't commit?" Because they get options, and it's just your turn to date.
    And many women won't settle for anything less than the highly desired men.

  • @jackmessick2869
    @jackmessick2869 2 роки тому +4

    You break it down so well and have evidence to back it up👍

  • @stan0033x
    @stan0033x 2 роки тому +2

    Yes, I've heard attractive women say that when a problem occurs in a relationship instead of trying to fix it they dump their boyfriend and try someone else.

  • @aaron_knight
    @aaron_knight 2 роки тому +7

    You didn't mention mothers day and the birthdays of her kids from other men, you'll be expected to pay for vacations, 'date nights' and much more

  • @charlespackwood9219
    @charlespackwood9219 2 роки тому +4

    I’m not in a relationship but I’ve had a ex gf try and tell me to get rid of a female friend that I’ve been friends with since high school cause it made her extremely jealous.

  • @augustlion5105
    @augustlion5105 2 роки тому +11

    Even if Chad commits to a woman, as soon as she has that commitment she will start to lose interest. Hypergamy makes it so women can never be content and the routine familiarity with one partner will subconsciously push her to look for other options.

    • @bossgd100
      @bossgd100 2 роки тому +4

      Yes, if she can get a chad, she probably can get another chad

    • @Michael_the_Drunkard
      @Michael_the_Drunkard 2 роки тому

      Thank no-fault divorce, so now she can leave with your money, whenever she wants.

    • @dushandvr5765
      @dushandvr5765 2 роки тому

      @@bossgd100 Better chad

    • @domino3554
      @domino3554 2 роки тому

      Holy shit this makes it seem that it’s over for all non-chads in terms of finding a stable long term relationship with a woman ,if even chads can be replaced for others chads

    • @augustlion5105
      @augustlion5105 2 роки тому +1

      @@domino3554 If a non-Chad wants to be a faithful beta and put up with his wife's bad behavior, he can have a long term relationship. Not all women will cheat, but if she has options, he will always have to be looking over his shoulder for warning signs. Not my idea of a good relationship.

  • @lilpumpkin7135
    @lilpumpkin7135 2 роки тому +1

    The woman in 0:00 is actually a good individual. She said "why do SOME of you men..."
    Most women would have said "WHY DO MEN"
    I really appreciate her not generalilzing men

  • @canoncalloway3705
    @canoncalloway3705 2 роки тому +12

    I wait for WW videos like I did for DBZ every saturday as a kid

    • @zimasajam
      @zimasajam 2 роки тому +1

      @@mr.midnight1997 why

  • @TheGamingAudiophile
    @TheGamingAudiophile 2 роки тому +9

    Juice isn’t worth the squeeze.

  • @donniehubleythebrokenartis7544
    @donniehubleythebrokenartis7544 2 роки тому +3

    ALL your videos are on point..This one VERY INFORMATIVE for where I am now. Im on the fence, but watching carefully on my situation. You really hit home on the REALITY of it all. I SEE IT CLEARLY from my journey over how many years, and why I came into stumbling blocks for so long. GREAT CONTENT, and I speak from expereince.

  • @Zenoandturtle
    @Zenoandturtle 2 роки тому +1

    Congrads on 70k subs. Quality, unique content.

  • @josephcieplak8920
    @josephcieplak8920 2 роки тому +11

    That's mainly due to a social engineering which has caused a very drastic change in most women mind who wrongly assume they're 10 out of 10, eventhough many of those women do not fulfill the genetic nor the adecuate aesthetic requirements needed for them to start demand.
    But keep in mind that you will be replacable if you're not a least a 'chadlite' who could be able to make her feel in a certain. unlike the other participants who might not be that genetically blessed and will not be able to make this woman develop a emotional clinginess toward that man .
    If you're in a relationship and the woman who you're being with does not develop any sickly obcession over you. then it's more likely you're there for her entertarinment until she finds someone who truly wants to be with!
    SUB5 wants to be in a relationship but CHAD just want casual sex!

    • @bossgd100
      @bossgd100 2 роки тому +4

      Obsession is a key part, i wonder why few people talk about it... For me, you cant say that she is in love until you see it

    • @josephcieplak8920
      @josephcieplak8920 2 роки тому +4

      @@bossgd100 She gotta be willing to die for you if she truly loves you!

  • @I4mHere
    @I4mHere 6 місяців тому

    4:20 Facts. My gfs always tell me about the amount of randos they constantly have to block every other day. Often we make fun of how they are usually mad unattractive. However, I can't help but wonder... What about all the lads that are MORE attractive than me that slide into their dms, would they show me those? Probably not. But this other one I currently have this situationship with (it's kinda complicated, we're kinda fwbs but we're both really into each other and the main reason we don't date is cause we're both kind of attractive and hate the baggage relationships come with nowadays, so a dating hiatus basically) had no issues telling me straight to my face that she does in fact flirt with other guys despite being into me, keep in mind that while we've made fun of all the ugly guys that try to hit on her online, not once has she shown me any of the chadlites let alone the chads that 100% hit on her. In reality, our relationship is quasi- or semi-romantic where we're both free to be with other people but just mostly get with each other for the afore mentioned reason. Anyway, the point here is, if i were in a crc romantic relationship with this girl, it's pretty obv that i'd be easily replaceable for more reasons than just the fact that she's mad hawt. This is a desperate situation we find ourselves in boys, buckle up, it's probably gonna get worse💀Also, i'm getting absolutely height mogged in uni omf💀

  • @evgheniprijilevschi9701
    @evgheniprijilevschi9701 2 роки тому +4

    I would add as a matter unbearable housing prices, especially after covid-19 crisis, unless you want to take a long-term mortgage and become dependent on your job/credit/payments. Girls' first questions are regarding owning your house, car, salary, but no one thinks about splitting the efforts and duties together. Those, who are capable of doing this, due to feminism liberalization, are usually seeking for richer Chads, more capable on providing than you, same class-level.

  • @eternalflame8104
    @eternalflame8104 2 роки тому +17

    Would be interested to find out why there is a higher satisfaction with women of over 21 bodies as a opposed to women with 6to 10 bodies. Is it because they are desperate? Also, why does the satisfaction with men that had 6 to 10 bodies suddenly rise and then drop again? Is it because of experience or just because of other variables playing into the interpretation of the study?

    • @prettyboyjeremy
      @prettyboyjeremy 2 роки тому +2

      Probably because after a certain point you don't care. I feel like age should also be a factor.
      A 22 year old spinster will likely be more happy with a body count of 25 than a 36 year old one with a body count of 6

    • @eternalflame8104
      @eternalflame8104 2 роки тому +5

      @@prettyboyjeremy so it's more about attractiveness than the number of body. So attractiveness and youth overshadow purity.

    • @WestCoastAce27
      @WestCoastAce27 2 роки тому

      They think they’ll lock Chad in if they give it up. Logic isn’t their thing. If it was they’d know Chad’s already had a hundred or more; can get another 100 in the next yr with little/no effort. But they still lay down, then get upset at all men when he ghosts them.

    • @mario_veca
      @mario_veca 2 роки тому

      Most probably it's statistical noise, nothing really meaningful

  • @bobbruce4135
    @bobbruce4135 2 роки тому +3

    So true. This is why some men of above average attractiveness will go their own way and hot guys will limit their dating to no cohabitation. Too many risks, divorce, etc. It's not 1920 anymore. Peace.

  • @DezmondBroadway
    @DezmondBroadway 2 роки тому +2

    Pre watching I usually don’t find them worth committing to. The ones worth committing to I usually invest too quickly thus turning them off.

  • @armoredlumberjack1999
    @armoredlumberjack1999 2 роки тому +4

    10:40 Oh man.... i actually broke up with my last gf because of this, i mean i love you but i also got shit to do. I even saw myself declining in some areas especially in the beginning of the relationship so i knew this wasn't working, this was not the only reason of me ending it tho.

  • @masterasia4175
    @masterasia4175 Рік тому

    The coloring on reason 3 was absolutely on point lmao xD

  • @dualshock3
    @dualshock3 2 роки тому +11

    "Why do men" should be replaced with: Why does CHAD..
    ..There I fixed it for you..

  • @davidosalsero2519
    @davidosalsero2519 7 місяців тому

    At 5:55 the printed "contraire", blimey, French now! Well, it's simply just obsolete in English now-a-days, but even-so clearly used meaning "on the contrary" or "opposite". Eloquent.

  • @lonefurseal3607
    @lonefurseal3607 2 роки тому +32

    This video is 13 minutes of the best arguments I've heard about why many of us have just gone MGTOW.

    • @Vfl666
      @Vfl666 2 роки тому +12

      MSTOW

    • @Flex4LX
      @Flex4LX 2 роки тому

      @@Vfl666 Sent there or not. Mgtow is still the only rational way. Men are practicing this regardless if they identify with it or not. Bang ugly girls for free, fwb your looks match and $ for hot girls. Treat dating like netflix.

    • @Michael_the_Drunkard
      @Michael_the_Drunkard 2 роки тому +1

      @@Vfl666 the inkwell sperging begins.

    • @Vfl666
      @Vfl666 2 роки тому

      Mgtows are the biggest hypocrites going they own way but still talking about women how bad they are for 24/7.

    • @mrgeek434
      @mrgeek434 2 роки тому

      @@Vfl666 To be fair, even if many of them are MSTOW, that doesn't change the fact that a lot of the MGTOW principles are rational life advice for sub 5's. A 2-3/10 male will probably be much happier by just focusing on himself, getting a fulfilling career, achieving financial independence, having his own place, having male friends, escort-maxxing and pursuing his hobbies vs marrying some whiney bottom-of-the-barrel bitch, living in suburbia, spending all his life working to support his family, having minimal free time to himself and then potentially getting divorce-raped at the end of it all.

  • @Unstapables
    @Unstapables 2 роки тому

    Man your videos are gold, it be awesome if a broader audience was effected or saw some of these videos ,keep doing what your doing

  • @petarzhelev1373
    @petarzhelev1373 2 роки тому +13

    Normal men want to commit that’s cope. It’s women and chad that hesitate to commit

    • @ultimateloser3411
      @ultimateloser3411 2 роки тому +1

      Women and chad don't hesitate. Commitment isn't even in their heads when in their 20s. They want to experience the best sex from the best looking people they can match with. Even if they settle, divorce or an open relationship will be their choice. They can't take that promiscous lifestyle away that easily and maybe never will.

  • @definegaming640
    @definegaming640 2 роки тому +3

    Relationships are hard mode and hookups are easy mode.

  • @wyald7240
    @wyald7240 2 роки тому +14

    Pretty much just escortmaxx, I only talk to women if it’s business, work, or college related if it’s not any of those areas it has to be sexual. If it’s not sexual I’m not hanging out or befriending women.

    • @zimasajam
      @zimasajam 2 роки тому +1

      Very good

    • @wyald7240
      @wyald7240 2 роки тому

      @Hubert Humphrey you’re not wrong and when I say this to normies, they get butt hurt

    • @ThomasFoolery8
      @ThomasFoolery8 2 роки тому

      Yup. You nailed it. That’s the most efficient way to live life as a man in 2022.

    • @Blaze72sH
      @Blaze72sH 2 роки тому +2

      Red pill has some good advice regarding this matter. They clearly state that being a friend of women is a waste of time.

    • @bossgd100
      @bossgd100 2 роки тому

      🤣

  • @Dad_of_War
    @Dad_of_War 2 роки тому +2

    An arrangement is cheaper than a marriage, plus you're guaranteed bedroom action every time.

  • @DearMr.Fantasy
    @DearMr.Fantasy 2 роки тому +4

    Men- avoid ALL risk. Do not marry. Do not cohabitate. Do not cause a pregnancy. Do not date single mothers. Guard your health, wealth, and happiness.

    • @Prochillah90
      @Prochillah90 2 роки тому

      The best intimate encounters i had, was with single mothers. Just saying.
      But i know what you are implying. Don't date seriously or get involved with the kids.

  • @georgeedward1226
    @georgeedward1226 2 роки тому +2

    Men don't commit for the same reason soldiers in battle avoid minefields. Finding yourself in one can be a bit of a health hazard.

  • @lawv804
    @lawv804 2 роки тому +11

    For the same reason women keep men in their friendzone. Because there's some kind of benefit. A friendzoned guy gets used for validation, emotional support, help whenever she needs it, and maybe resources.
    The opposite is the friend with benefits. A man will keep a woman in his life he doesn't want a relationship with likely because she is a reliable supply of sex, and maybe some other benefit.

  • @sakuraforest4268
    @sakuraforest4268 2 роки тому +18

    Out of curiosity, what characteristics make a "high quality woman?" From what I gather from points (1) [including 1.1, 1.2, and 1.3], (2), (4), and (5), if a woman does not spend a lot of or any time on social media sites/apps, a lot of these issues would be greatly reduced if not vanish. Points (1) and (2) vanish entirely while (4) and (5) become significantly less of an issue.
    Additionally, points (4) and (5) are just basic discipline of character issues. If a woman recognizes basic character values, believes in them, and actually tries to live by them, these last two points shouldn't be an issue. Entitlement is a character fault and having the appropriate discipline/principles would kill that mentality. As for promiscuity, that is just loyalty and chasity. If women were taught these things, they would have the proper mindset and how to judge and engage with men.
    I mean, honestly, when I look at these problems, I don't see "modern women" being the problem, I see "women who use social media a lot and have poor character discipline/principles" as the problem. Simply focus on character growth, discipline, principles, and responsibility and I would imagine these problems disappear entirely and it just boils down to personality and looks after that. So is a "high quality woman" just a woman who has actual virtues and a disciplined character starting from their youth? Because, that seems like a basic and low bar.

    • @Koozomec
      @Koozomec 2 роки тому

      Hi, it's more "the women we met on the dating market."
      Usually high quality women are in relationship (and not always with high quality people ...)

    • @mikeprice8307
      @mikeprice8307 2 роки тому +1

      If everyone lived by the Bible, WW wouldn't have content based for this type channel. Only pill that would exists would be blue.

    • @johnseventine_vfx
      @johnseventine_vfx 2 роки тому

      Interesting observations. Unfortunately the only way to « save » women from their true nature (hypergamy, immaturity, chaos and delusion) Is to go back to what ancient civilizations have developed during hundreds of centuries. Shaming, forbid divorce, gender roles by law, etc. Obviously it will never happen again soon. In other words, humanity is doomed##

    • @sleeper9638
      @sleeper9638 2 роки тому +2

      Yes it is an extremely low bar, the lowest in the world as a matter of fact since non western countries maintain much higher standards, and yet the majority of western women will never meet it which is why they're not only the most single and childless but also the worst demographic of female relationship partner that's ever been recorded by every measurable statistic. That's the whole point of this kind of the video, men are looking for very little from women in regards to relationships and they can't find it in the west so they're just not going to commit

    • @Quantum_Cola
      @Quantum_Cola 2 роки тому

      There is no hope. The new generations of girls are completely messed up by Tiktok

  • @andyjay9346
    @andyjay9346 2 роки тому +6

    2) My research says that if she is having issues with the boyfriend/husband/partner she ALREADY HAS a replacement ready waiting in the wings. The replacement relationship is established BEFORE she leaves the existing relationship. This has been proven time and time again. She has a replacement ready.