Sorry everyone about the audio being a bit overpowering. I've informed the animation team about the audio issue. We will watch out for the audio level in the future. For now, feel free to turn on CLOSED CAPTION for the subtitles. Thanks for all the love and support!
Hello Psych2Go, This is Selasi ... I kinda feel sometimes I'm a bit too nice, which makes me quite uncomfortable as to the interactive response I receive from most people around me. This made me wonder if being excessively polite is a bad thing. 🤔 Please do help me with this.
Time stamps: 0:40: 1.) Highlight similarities 1:44: 2.) Start simple and open 3:12: 3.) Joke around 3:38: 4.) Share a meal 3:59: 5.) Compliment them 4:38: 6.) Seek help 5:30: 7.) Your friends have friends too 6:05: 8.) Spend time 6:51: 9.) Dealing with doubts and insecurities Hope this helped! 😄
Fully agree with you. Past hurt can.. really suck. It's like getting locked in a box, and it's even worse if the past hurt repeats itself the second you actually decide to step out of your comfort zone again.
I came running after seeing the notification! I grew apart from my friends from highschool and have social anxiety wich makes it very difficult to make new friends. I've been struggling a lot with this for 3 years and the closest I've gotten to people were two boyfriends I had but since I didn't have any other friends I ended up becoming emotionally dependent on them, making the breakups unbearable and a mess. My single goal for 23 is growing my social circle and developing a meaningful connection to at least 3 people :)
I really like seeing you make videos like this. As someone who's always struggled to make friends, you're really helping people like me, and I can't express how much I appreciate it
@@Psych2go friendships usually take time, although in some circumstances they seem to pop up out of the blue. You have to be trusting and trustworthy, so that both yourself and your friend will feel comfortable around each other. You have to be supportive of them and a positive influence, but you also have to be able to get serious and put your foot down if needed. You gave me a good insight into making good, strong friendships. Thanks
Meaningful friendships matter. If they last, or if they don't. It doesn't matter, because you should still try. People can help you change, in a good way! You learn from your mistakes, friendships help.
True but easier said than done. You have a friendship that's among the most important thing on the planet to you for so many years and then suddenly its over. Yeah I'm jaded.
It can be hard to make friends but don't give up, and don't settle for less. Your people are out there, and they are so worth it. I used to be more of a loner, but I now have very deep and meaningful connections, and it was worth the wait. Keep trying, guys
I just wanted to say thank you to the person/people that made this channel you helped me feel my emotions again and it tears me up just thinking how much I have gained more help from this channel than my own family so thank you for existing I would be in a really dark place without you
1) 0:40 Highlight similarities 2) 1:43 Ask simple & open questions (that start with "how" or "what") 3) 3:12 Joke around (good & non-aggressive humor) 4) 3:39 Share a meal 5) 3:58 Compliment them (occasionally & genuinely) 6) 4:39 Seek help (ask them for assistance/advice on something you're genuinely interested in) 7) 5:30 It's likely that your friend's friends can become your friends, too 8) 6:05 Spend time together (do activities that help you get to know each other) 9) 6:51 Dealing with doubts & fear
@@shraddhaanikhindi620 Thank you! ☺️ You're the first person to mention it I found this picture of Entrapta drinking Caprisun on Pinterest, but when winter came I added a Christmas hat to it :з
Let's just take a breath here; Psych2Go has made videos for a very long time now, people have special traits that can affect the way they go about doing things, psychologists have been analysing how people think/behave, etc. However, it's not everyday that you can come across a channel like this that can help in some areas when we feel lost. Thank you Psych2Go, for being one of our biggest guides in this giant game of Life.
I am struggling to make new friends. I am always polite to people, but it doesn’t always work. I do feel from watching this video from It can definitely help me and many other people like me who struggle to make friends. I really want to build meaningful friendships.
I am a very open person, and have it somewhat easy to make friends. Personally I can recommend you to talk about topics which you are interested in! I sometimes just ask random people from my school, when I'm in the bathroom e.g. and there's a line to wash your hands, stuff like: "So...do you know Star Wars?" and then I just start ranting on the Sequels, and from there we go on about teachers, exams, stuff we'd prefer to do instead, then our hobbies, my Sims 4 addiction, etc.. You get it. I know that it's hard to just straight up ask people, but it's easier when you know a lot about the topic. Btw, If the person for example doesn't know Star Wars, I just go huh, and ask what their actual favorite movie or singer is. Or just recommend it to them. I hope, tho I doubt, that I was able to help a little! ^^
Takes time and effort for BOTH parties. It really sucks when after a couple years of utter happiness the serious issues suddenly arise and it seems you're the only person trying to repair and mend it. You're being vulnerable and admitting your shitty qualities but they just won't put in the work themselves, kinda sabotaging your own efforts to be a better person
@@Coryraisa Regardless of that there's always the 1 you rely on most though and when they are the ones who seem to have given up on it. That is always gonna leave a bruise
@@Coryraisa The number of friends you have is kinda immaterial though. Doesn't make it suck less when 1 of those friends no longer wants to put forth any effort into said relationship. More people absolutely makes me ke it easier to deal with and process but it's still a shitty situation to handle regardless. Friendships are supposed to be equal but you both aren't equal if only one party is putting in effort
It literally made for me, I don't know how to make friends , and I didn't get any friends for 2 years( shifted to new place, starting of covid & quarantine....so I didn't get any chance ) Now, in my college I'm struggling to talk with people. I don't know how to talk friendly or how to be in a group. I'm struggling with it..... I hope I get better in my social life😅
Thank you for this video! I really want to make new friends. Desperately. Just because i need a change of mindset and to be more sociable. I wanna stop isolating myself and try to get out to speak and share thoughts and even be vulnerable. Maybe I don't want to leave my current friends, I just want a chance to be genuine with my thoughts and my relationship with them
I wish you the best of luck. I had lots of trouble my first year especially since my best friend made tons of friends, yet I only had her. But it's now my second year and I met someone really nice and things are getting better. Give your relationships lots of time to grow and don't give up. Even if it takes awhile!
When a person, you want to get to know, say 'no' or 'yes' to your question and doesn't want to say anything more, you should stop trying to befriend them if they don't want to do that either.
I have found exactly 6 people (in person) to be the least bit interested in anything I am, so I have to escape to the internet to find anyone to interact with
I don't think I could ever build another form of friendship. I'm an introvert and have social anxiety. I understand that I have to initiate the step but it's so tiring. I don't think I have a close friend or someone that I can call when I feel down. I'm always the 3rd person of the group; the other 2 are closer so I feel left out. Some of their friends does not like me as well. I could feel the vibe. I'd say I'm just replaceable based on my previous relationships (friends/lover). So I'd prefer to be alone than start over and build one only to see it crumble into pieces.
I'm also an introvert. I agree, it is super tiring to initiate the first step. Omg, I met a few people. Initially thought they were nice and we might have the potential to be friends but it seems like one is just really boring. Like the topics he talks about just do not do it for me. Before that he kinda ghosted me, so that kind of made me question his honesty in a couple of ways, long story. 😪 Another person I also wanted to be friends with but he isn't even interested 🙄 like I sent out an invite, we had a few things in common and he just gets up abruptly and just leaves the table and no words since then even when I sent out a message. It kinda hurts but what can you do. Can't force interest from someone. 😕😞 People are so weird.
Also, I get the vibe thing you're referring to. The first "friend" gave me some weird, repulsed look, after I said bye to him. Idk if he expected something from me? But I was the one who set up the meet-up, and I literally felt offended afterwards by his expression. It was dumb and stupid on his part. Why even go with someone if you can't communicate well? 😒🙄 Maybe he wanted to be my boyfriend, hell knows. But I'm like nah dude, that judgy, sneer put me off BIG TIME. Anyway, I hope you find some nice, fun friends who are accepting of you. Sucks to be the initiator and have your efforts turn to crap. I just hope I get invited to something. I'd love that! 😀😁
I have a BFF and we have been friends since kindergarten. It's been 12 years now, but I want to build a stronger relationship with her so that she never forgets me.
I'm so lonely it actually pains me 😭 I have online friends and i love them but it just doesn't feel the same as having friends from school or smth. I'm gonna start 12th grade (senior) next year, my goal is to make 1 new friend, and get close to them! I hope yalls search for friends goes well for u guys, wishing all of u luck!
When i was in high school i had like people i liked to hangout with but i never felt like i had real friends so i felt lonely, when i went into art school i talked more to one of my highschool buddies online and we got somehow closer ? XD weird but now we're besties, and since im in art school i really made such great friends. I basically met my platonic soulmate i cant remember how we got close but we see each other so often to see movies, or just eat together at a fastfood and rant (its our ritual now lol) i know i can tell them anything and them too and im so happy to have them in my life now, we always talk about our new interests and help each other to be better ! Ive had a toxic friendship before, so if you feel scared because you know that person will judge you if youre vulnerable with them, if you know they wont help you if you have a problem, i suggest you to be careful, and maybe its just a bad feeling that can be solved with talking with them, but if they gaslight you or tell you its your fault when youre trying to solve something.... ugh bad vibes really, get this person out of your life or dont let them being a strong part of your life.. friends are supporting each other :) if its one sided its not good
A nice video to start my semester as new classes means new classmates. As a talkative person, I go overboard so I'm trying to slim it down. Already having problems with a class, so I contacted everyone to see if they have the same. Still a shame some classes are online, but slowly but surely most things will turn back for the better. If you're planning for an event, I hope one of the choices would be in California.
Timestamps 1). Highlight similarities 0:40 2). Start simple and open 1:44 3). Joke around 3:12 4). Share a meal 3:37 5). Compliment them 3:58 6). Seek help 4:37 7). Your friends have friends too 5:29 8). Spend time 6:04 9). Dealing with doubts and fears 6:50 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.💙💙💙💙💙
First I want to say, I love this channel and it's content. I wanted to make you aware that, even with my hearing impairment, this is the first video I've seen that I had to watch twice and souly read the subtitles because I could not understand the audio.
I hear just fine and I had trouble. The audio sounded like mush, like it was all one stream of endless breathing rather than words. I dunno how to explain it. My brain was so confused. 🥲
THX SO MUCH 4 THIS VID PSYCH2GO! I WAS LITERALLY JUST THINKING ABOUT THIS! I can never seem to form meaningful friendships, and when I see a tv show, and I see a character having fun with their 2 best friends, I think “I wish I could have friends like that. 😢” VID WAS PERFECT, THX AGAIN!
Btw, for that first one, I look for discord servers which are fandoms for my fav book series or tv show, but I don’t know if I’ll ever see them in real life. So… yeah.
Some similarities: 1.Common numbers in contact number. 2.ZIET,Mumbai 3.Green suit 4.Common area of interest 5.Same organisation 6.Guitar 7.Singing songs and chorus 8.Same place of origin 9.Same denomination (maternal) 10.Optical isomers of each other.
when I was 24, I attended a school for people with disabilities, the Tennessee Rehabilitation Cener, (TRC). My first night, January 25th 2016, I see this girl limping, I ask her if she needs help, she says 'yes'. by April, our acquaintanceship blossomed into a beautiful friendship. The following year, 2017, our friendship was put through hell. Hower, the two of us were able to make it out unharmed, physically that is, by the time Sarah and I left trc, we were not only best friends, but brother and sister.
This is really helpful. I have a hard time making friends and even just connecting with people, and this video provided a lot of helpful tips! Thank you!
I really love your voice your voice just relax me and I feel out of my bad mood or that episode just by hearing your voice and watching 1 video really thnks for existing🧚♀️💗
@@Psych2go very relatable. I mostly sit around and watch UA-cam, or watch other people actually have social lives. I really liked the tip about asking questions that start with "how". I have a HUGE problem when I try talking to people and the conversation just stops and we sit there awkwardly in silence 🫠 it makes me want to stop trying in the first place. I've been watching your videos for relationship and mental health advice. Some of them made me realize I have depression and for so long I told myself I didn't because I couldn't. I went to a psychiatrist and was diagnosed a year ago. Now I'm in college and watching more videos on making friends and I've sortaaa made a few. I'm getting there 🥹
Hang onto your friends people. FRIENDS. Not just romantic partners. I've been struggling with my relationship with my very best and honestly first adult friend and I feel is on its last legs if not already over and this makes me so sad to watch. It fucking sucks and nobody else should go through it. Its like they're gone, except they aren't and you're actually just no longer important to them
Watching this video I remembered Legendary artist Dionne Warwick song 🎵 "That's what friends are For ".My most favorite song 😍 Thank you for your good thoughts towards mankind 🍃🌷🤗
As helpful as these tips are, the music is a bit loud and distracting.... I honestly would appreciate it if the volume could be turned down a bit or if there's a different track that can be played altogether.
Most of my friends are neighbours but when one moves they don't keep in touch, I'll let them ghost me three times and will then let them be, anyone who knows me know they can reach out when they wish too (most people wish too when they want something lol). I've not been able to spend time on activities that we like, always at home with kids so no opportunities to make friends out of who's near by. But this year I'll be starting tai chi, swimming more, tea dancing, craft groups and hopefully a choir. I hope to make friends but I'll still have fun either way, taking time for things I'm interested in will be nice. Hopefully next year I'll have to confidence for cosplays and similar events. Would love to make a friend as passionate and enthusiastic about random pretty things as me (I seem to mostly have great friendships with ND persons but then get forgotten about when someone moves and due to situation outside my control I've had to move around the country too many times, loosing friends along the way).
i have been bullied my whole life and now i have to go to a new rich private school with a lot of snobby kids and im scared i will get bullied again, idk if this is possible but i may have ptsd from school or im just really really scared and worrying too much :( plus idk how to talk infront of ppl my anxiety is really bad and nobody really understands? i forget how to speak when people talk to me and honestly i just really wanna be sleeping and alone all the time for an escape of reality.
I just meet someone that is amazing and we are working and growing a bonde together if it works out I'll be my 1st friend as a adult and I've been a adult for 15 years 🤯🤞
A buddy is one who overlooks your damaged fence and admires the plant life in your garden.” “An accurate pal is like a four-leaf clover: challenging to locate and fortunate to have.” “There is nothing I would now not do for these who are certainly my friends.” "True friendship comes when the silence between two human beings is cosy!
Psych2go I'll just rather be silent to everyone one i had this 2 friend who only good at me when they need something they sometimes talk about me laugh at me and make me embarrass i tell them multiple times why they're like that and i had the time i realize they're bullying me so i stop talking to them and focus to other of my friends i tried to be socialize but sometimes i ended up like this i might lost 2 fake friends but i left with more friends moral from my story is when someone bully you don't hesitate to kill them and sorry for bad english!
10th way : people love to "know" where they are, comparing to others, that's why personnality tests and stuff like that has a lot of success. You can start a conversation with someone as : < I see you are writing, I'm writing too. > and you can use some knowledge in graphology to guess something about their personnality, based on the way they write. Either you are right, and they feel amazed, or you are wrong, but they find you are clever and interesting. You can also compliment them by looking at their hands : < Oh, your hands are strong, you must work hard > or < they are very beautiful, you must be a painter or musician, right ? >
"Nothing is permanent in this world just yourself and your smile which remains forever and makes you happy Accept those you really understand you because it is very hard to find such angelic people around although in our lives too" . - Yogitaaa ✨😌💙 I have been suffered in past life and although suffering although But iam strong and expert in these situations...
Thank you Psych2go! You posted this at the right time . I needed this piece of advice. I can’t wait to make new friends. (sorry I’m not that good at English) :’D
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Sorry everyone about the audio being a bit overpowering. I've informed the animation team about the audio issue. We will watch out for the audio level in the future. For now, feel free to turn on CLOSED CAPTION for the subtitles. Thanks for all the love and support!
Hello Psych2Go,
This is Selasi ... I kinda feel sometimes I'm a bit too nice, which makes me quite uncomfortable as to the interactive response I receive from most people around me. This made me wonder if being excessively polite is a bad thing. 🤔
Please do help me with this.
No problem. Just keep the background music in the background.
Time stamps:
0:40: 1.) Highlight similarities
1:44: 2.) Start simple and open
3:12: 3.) Joke around
3:38: 4.) Share a meal
3:59: 5.) Compliment them
4:38: 6.) Seek help
5:30: 7.) Your friends have friends too
6:05: 8.) Spend time
6:51: 9.) Dealing with doubts and insecurities
Hope this helped! 😄
Thank you for the timestamps
This is so complicated I wish it was socially acceptable to approach a random person and exchange "all about me!" Papers 😭
Yes, it helped💚
@@ivythealiencat YASSSSS I KNOWWWWW!
@@tannuverma5526 I'm glad!
We should really be grateful this channel exists. Literal life advice.
Actually!
frr!! ❤
It's the only channel for me where I can be myself nobody can judge you here
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That is so sweet of you! What do you love about our video?
I have always wanted to have a friend that I can feel 100% comfortable with and feel like I'm not being judged.
Many have fear of making friendships because of past hurt. It's okay to wait until you found your tribe.
I'm sorry to hear that - are you still scared of making friends?
@@Psych2go yes i only have few whom i can trust:(
@@Psych2go yes, is difficult
I can relate to this so so much! 😩 It's actually pretty scary in all honesty! 🥲
Fully agree with you. Past hurt can.. really suck. It's like getting locked in a box, and it's even worse if the past hurt repeats itself the second you actually decide to step out of your comfort zone again.
In my opinion, friendships have 2 vital ingredients: time and vulnerability. It can be hard to grow a friendship when one or both of these is lacking.
Time and effort, absolutely number one. Can't overstate those enough but its 1 thing a lot of people don't put into maintaining long term.
Raise your hand if you've been watching Psych2Go for a long time🤚
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I came running after seeing the notification! I grew apart from my friends from highschool and have social anxiety wich makes it very difficult to make new friends. I've been struggling a lot with this for 3 years and the closest I've gotten to people were two boyfriends I had but since I didn't have any other friends I ended up becoming emotionally dependent on them, making the breakups unbearable and a mess. My single goal for 23 is growing my social circle and developing a meaningful connection to at least 3 people :)
That's a great goal. I'm really sorry about what happened, don't worry. Life goes on and you can go with the flow. I believe in you!!!
Wish you the best
Ohh we are at same level ..may I ask how far have you reached your goal ?
As a person who hasn't had friends for 3 years, this video is really helpful
I really like seeing you make videos like this. As someone who's always struggled to make friends, you're really helping people like me, and I can't express how much I appreciate it
You are very welcome! What did this video teach you about friendship?
@@Psych2go friendships usually take time, although in some circumstances they seem to pop up out of the blue. You have to be trusting and trustworthy, so that both yourself and your friend will feel comfortable around each other. You have to be supportive of them and a positive influence, but you also have to be able to get serious and put your foot down if needed.
You gave me a good insight into making good, strong friendships. Thanks
Meaningful friendships matter. If they last, or if they don't. It doesn't matter, because you should still try. People can help you change, in a good way! You learn from your mistakes, friendships help.
Never give up
@@TheBlindedForest I'm... Trying not to lol.
True but easier said than done. You have a friendship that's among the most important thing on the planet to you for so many years and then suddenly its over. Yeah I'm jaded.
It can be hard to make friends but don't give up, and don't settle for less. Your people are out there, and they are so worth it. I used to be more of a loner, but I now have very deep and meaningful connections, and it was worth the wait. Keep trying, guys
Friends may have differences, but we can understand it. It doesn’t mean we don’t ever make sense! Hope that’s helps!
Yes, definitely
I just wanted to say thank you to the person/people that made this channel you helped me feel my emotions again and it tears me up just thinking how much I have gained more help from this channel than my own family so thank you for existing I would be in a really dark place without you
We're so happy to be able to be there to help you out! - Cindy
1) 0:40 Highlight similarities
2) 1:43 Ask simple & open questions (that start with "how" or "what")
3) 3:12 Joke around (good & non-aggressive humor)
4) 3:39 Share a meal
5) 3:58 Compliment them (occasionally & genuinely)
6) 4:39 Seek help (ask them for assistance/advice on something you're genuinely interested in)
7) 5:30 It's likely that your friend's friends can become your friends, too
8) 6:05 Spend time together (do activities that help you get to know each other)
9) 6:51 Dealing with doubts & fear
Bro copied this from someone else 💀
@@that1countrieschannel I wrote this by myself (and for myself initially) based on the video
so yes, I copied the info from the video
@@that1countrieschannel who cares..
I love how ur profile pic is entrapta with a Christmas hat drinking caprisun.
@@shraddhaanikhindi620 Thank you! ☺️ You're the first person to mention it
I found this picture of Entrapta drinking Caprisun on Pinterest, but when winter came I added a Christmas hat to it :з
Let's just take a breath here; Psych2Go has made videos for a very long time now, people have special traits that can affect the way they go about doing things, psychologists have been analysing how people think/behave, etc. However, it's not everyday that you can come across a channel like this that can help in some areas when we feel lost. Thank you Psych2Go, for being one of our biggest guides in this giant game of Life.
💗yesyesyes
I am struggling to make new friends. I am always polite to people, but it doesn’t always work.
I do feel from watching this video from It can definitely help me and many other people like me who struggle to make friends.
I really want to build meaningful friendships.
Same
I am a very open person, and have it somewhat easy to make friends. Personally I can recommend you to talk about topics which you are interested in! I sometimes just ask random people from my school, when I'm in the bathroom e.g. and there's a line to wash your hands, stuff like: "So...do you know Star Wars?" and then I just start ranting on the Sequels, and from there we go on about teachers, exams, stuff we'd prefer to do instead, then our hobbies, my Sims 4 addiction, etc..
You get it.
I know that it's hard to just straight up ask people, but it's easier when you know a lot about the topic.
Btw, If the person for example doesn't know Star Wars, I just go huh, and ask what their actual favorite movie or singer is. Or just recommend it to them.
I hope, tho I doubt, that I was able to help a little! ^^
Much-needed. Also, building solid, stable friendships takes time, a fact that many people overlook.
Takes time and effort for BOTH parties.
It really sucks when after a couple years of utter happiness the serious issues suddenly arise and it seems you're the only person trying to repair and mend it. You're being vulnerable and admitting your shitty qualities but they just won't put in the work themselves, kinda sabotaging your own efforts to be a better person
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Which is why it's good to take your time and to form several friendships, not just one.
@@Coryraisa Regardless of that there's always the 1 you rely on most though and when they are the ones who seem to have given up on it. That is always gonna leave a bruise
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As I said...rely on several people the most, not just one.
It is too much to expect one person alone to shoulder your burdens.
@@Coryraisa The number of friends you have is kinda immaterial though. Doesn't make it suck less when 1 of those friends no longer wants to put forth any effort into said relationship. More people absolutely makes me ke it easier to deal with and process but it's still a shitty situation to handle regardless. Friendships are supposed to be equal but you both aren't equal if only one party is putting in effort
It literally made for me,
I don't know how to make friends , and I didn't get any friends for 2 years( shifted to new place, starting of covid & quarantine....so I didn't get any chance )
Now, in my college I'm struggling to talk with people. I don't know how to talk friendly or how to be in a group.
I'm struggling with it.....
I hope I get better in my social life😅
"Wanna do some pot...sculpting?"
I am someone who lives in constant fear of losing friendships and people..Like it's my biggest fear
So this helps
Please turn down the background music and speak in clear voice. That would help. Thanks.
I think this whole chanal is one of the most useful things in earth because it's like these videos help me with literally anything am dealing with
Friends. You know what they say, if you got them, flaunt them. I don’t have any friends.
Thank you for this video! I really want to make new friends. Desperately. Just because i need a change of mindset and to be more sociable. I wanna stop isolating myself and try to get out to speak and share thoughts and even be vulnerable. Maybe I don't want to leave my current friends, I just want a chance to be genuine with my thoughts and my relationship with them
I’m going to a new high school soon so this video will basically be my “survival guide” on making friends
I wish you the best of luck. I had lots of trouble my first year especially since my best friend made tons of friends, yet I only had her. But it's now my second year and I met someone really nice and things are getting better. Give your relationships lots of time to grow and don't give up. Even if it takes awhile!
who else really appreciate Psych's videos?
When a person, you want to get to know, say 'no' or 'yes' to your question and doesn't want to say anything more, you should stop trying to befriend them if they don't want to do that either.
They aren't interested in you so it's pointless to spend your precious time on these people. This is my humble opinion :)
I have found exactly 6 people (in person) to be the least bit interested in anything I am, so I have to escape to the internet to find anyone to interact with
Maybe I’m lonely because of my unorthodox interests, no one else I’ve met has.
I’m so grateful this channel exists. Helped me get through SO much.
I don't think I could ever build another form of friendship. I'm an introvert and have social anxiety. I understand that I have to initiate the step but it's so tiring.
I don't think I have a close friend or someone that I can call when I feel down. I'm always the 3rd person of the group; the other 2 are closer so I feel left out. Some of their friends does not like me as well. I could feel the vibe. I'd say I'm just replaceable based on my previous relationships (friends/lover). So I'd prefer to be alone than start over and build one only to see it crumble into pieces.
I'm also an introvert. I agree, it is super tiring to initiate the first step. Omg, I met a few people. Initially thought they were nice and we might have the potential to be friends but it seems like one is just really boring. Like the topics he talks about just do not do it for me. Before that he kinda ghosted me, so that kind of made me question his honesty in a couple of ways, long story. 😪 Another person I also wanted to be friends with but he isn't even interested 🙄 like I sent out an invite, we had a few things in common and he just gets up abruptly and just leaves the table and no words since then even when I sent out a message. It kinda hurts but what can you do. Can't force interest from someone. 😕😞 People are so weird.
Also, I get the vibe thing you're referring to. The first "friend" gave me some weird, repulsed look, after I said bye to him. Idk if he expected something from me? But I was the one who set up the meet-up, and I literally felt offended afterwards by his expression. It was dumb and stupid on his part. Why even go with someone if you can't communicate well? 😒🙄 Maybe he wanted to be my boyfriend, hell knows. But I'm like nah dude, that judgy, sneer put me off BIG TIME. Anyway, I hope you find some nice, fun friends who are accepting of you. Sucks to be the initiator and have your efforts turn to crap. I just hope I get invited to something. I'd love that! 😀😁
I have a BFF and we have been friends since kindergarten. It's been 12 years now, but I want to build a stronger relationship with her so that she never forgets me.
You do not know how much I needed a video like this! 💚
I'm gonna try some of these on a new guy I recently met. He seems really cool and I wouldn't mind being friends with him. I hope it works.
i already know this is gonna be a great video, keep it up!
Appreciate it! What did you like most about this video?
@@Psych2go the animation style! its really adorable
I’m happy this channel is the therapist they can’t have like I can
I'm so lonely it actually pains me 😭 I have online friends and i love them but it just doesn't feel the same as having friends from school or smth. I'm gonna start 12th grade (senior) next year, my goal is to make 1 new friend, and get close to them! I hope yalls search for friends goes well for u guys, wishing all of u luck!
When i was in high school i had like people i liked to hangout with but i never felt like i had real friends so i felt lonely, when i went into art school i talked more to one of my highschool buddies online and we got somehow closer ? XD weird but now we're besties, and since im in art school i really made such great friends. I basically met my platonic soulmate i cant remember how we got close but we see each other so often to see movies, or just eat together at a fastfood and rant (its our ritual now lol) i know i can tell them anything and them too and im so happy to have them in my life now, we always talk about our new interests and help each other to be better !
Ive had a toxic friendship before, so if you feel scared because you know that person will judge you if youre vulnerable with them, if you know they wont help you if you have a problem, i suggest you to be careful, and maybe its just a bad feeling that can be solved with talking with them, but if they gaslight you or tell you its your fault when youre trying to solve something.... ugh bad vibes really, get this person out of your life or dont let them being a strong part of your life.. friends are supporting each other :) if its one sided its not good
Right
The Mandalorian Armor was a nice touch.
A nice video to start my semester as new classes means new classmates. As a talkative person, I go overboard so I'm trying to slim it down.
Already having problems with a class, so I contacted everyone to see if they have the same. Still a shame some classes are online, but slowly but surely most things will turn back for the better.
If you're planning for an event, I hope one of the choices would be in California.
Timestamps
1). Highlight similarities 0:40
2). Start simple and open 1:44
3). Joke around 3:12
4). Share a meal 3:37
5). Compliment them 3:58
6). Seek help 4:37
7). Your friends have friends too 5:29
8). Spend time 6:04
9). Dealing with doubts and fears 6:50
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.💙💙💙💙💙
First I want to say, I love this channel and it's content. I wanted to make you aware that, even with my hearing impairment, this is the first video I've seen that I had to watch twice and souly read the subtitles because I could not understand the audio.
I hear just fine and I had trouble. The audio sounded like mush, like it was all one stream of endless breathing rather than words. I dunno how to explain it. My brain was so confused. 🥲
THX SO MUCH 4 THIS VID PSYCH2GO! I WAS LITERALLY JUST THINKING ABOUT THIS! I can never seem to form meaningful friendships, and when I see a tv show, and I see a character having fun with their 2 best friends, I think “I wish I could have friends like that. 😢” VID WAS PERFECT, THX AGAIN!
Btw, for that first one, I look for discord servers which are fandoms for my fav book series or tv show, but I don’t know if I’ll ever see them in real life. So… yeah.
Thank you for the amazing video!
You're so welcome!
@@Psych2go Thank you so much for replying!
Thankfully, this channel makes me studying psychology and my mental health stable since i was a teen.
We all need meaningful friendships. That music isnt really fit in video, but thanks for video tho :)
This is such a good video. So remindful of things to remember when it comes to friendship building.
the hardest thing for me is finding a place to meet new good people
Some similarities:
1.Common numbers in contact number.
2.ZIET,Mumbai
3.Green suit
4.Common area of interest
5.Same organisation
6.Guitar
7.Singing songs and chorus
8.Same place of origin
9.Same denomination (maternal)
10.Optical isomers of each other.
This channel is so vital thank you for existing
when I was 24, I attended a school for people with disabilities, the Tennessee Rehabilitation Cener, (TRC). My first night, January 25th 2016, I see this girl limping, I ask her if she needs help, she says 'yes'. by April, our acquaintanceship blossomed into a beautiful friendship. The following year, 2017, our friendship was put through hell. Hower, the two of us were able to make it out unharmed, physically that is, by the time Sarah and I left trc, we were not only best friends, but brother and sister.
This is really helpful. I have a hard time making friends and even just connecting with people, and this video provided a lot of helpful tips! Thank you!
6:38 “Wanna do some pot....... sculpting?” 😭
I really love your voice your voice just relax me and I feel out of my bad mood or that episode just by hearing your voice and watching 1 video really thnks for existing🧚♀️💗
The way the video cut STRAIGHT to an ad as soon as tip #6 came up
"Seek help-" LMFAO 😭😭
the first 10 seconds of the video literally described my daily life
How relatable did you find the content?
@@Psych2go very relatable. I mostly sit around and watch UA-cam, or watch other people actually have social lives. I really liked the tip about asking questions that start with "how". I have a HUGE problem when I try talking to people and the conversation just stops and we sit there awkwardly in silence 🫠 it makes me want to stop trying in the first place. I've been watching your videos for relationship and mental health advice. Some of them made me realize I have depression and for so long I told myself I didn't because I couldn't. I went to a psychiatrist and was diagnosed a year ago. Now I'm in college and watching more videos on making friends and I've sortaaa made a few. I'm getting there 🥹
Hang onto your friends people. FRIENDS. Not just romantic partners.
I've been struggling with my relationship with my very best and honestly first adult friend and I feel is on its last legs if not already over and this makes me so sad to watch. It fucking sucks and nobody else should go through it. Its like they're gone, except they aren't and you're actually just no longer important to them
Anyone watching this to see how they can build meaningful friendships between their oc's rather than their own friendships? Just me? Ok-
1:40 Ah yes 4chan decently a place to make good and stable friendships
Thank you for this video!
You are so welcome! Did you enjoy seeing a video on friendship?
@@Psych2go I did.
Watching this video I remembered
Legendary artist Dionne Warwick song 🎵 "That's what friends are For ".My most favorite song 😍
Thank you for your good thoughts towards mankind 🍃🌷🤗
Thank you for this video ❤
You are so welcome! Do you have meaningful friendships?
As helpful as these tips are, the music is a bit loud and distracting.... I honestly would appreciate it if the volume could be turned down a bit or if there's a different track that can be played altogether.
What a great video, and suuch an important topic 💗
Slowly getting used to your voice... and that pretty accent♡
Most of my friends are neighbours but when one moves they don't keep in touch, I'll let them ghost me three times and will then let them be, anyone who knows me know they can reach out when they wish too (most people wish too when they want something lol). I've not been able to spend time on activities that we like, always at home with kids so no opportunities to make friends out of who's near by. But this year I'll be starting tai chi, swimming more, tea dancing, craft groups and hopefully a choir. I hope to make friends but I'll still have fun either way, taking time for things I'm interested in will be nice. Hopefully next year I'll have to confidence for cosplays and similar events. Would love to make a friend as passionate and enthusiastic about random pretty things as me (I seem to mostly have great friendships with ND persons but then get forgotten about when someone moves and due to situation outside my control I've had to move around the country too many times, loosing friends along the way).
i have been bullied my whole life and now i have to go to a new rich private school with a lot of snobby kids and im scared i will get bullied again, idk if this is possible but i may have ptsd from school or im just really really scared and worrying too much :( plus idk how to talk infront of ppl my anxiety is really bad and nobody really understands? i forget how to speak when people talk to me and honestly i just really wanna be sleeping and alone all the time for an escape of reality.
I just meet someone that is amazing and we are working and growing a bonde together if it works out I'll be my 1st friend as a adult and I've been a adult for 15 years 🤯🤞
How does these videos always appear when one is thinking about the subjects inside them?
A buddy is one who overlooks your damaged fence and admires the plant life in your garden.” “An accurate pal is like a four-leaf clover: challenging to locate and fortunate to have.” “There is nothing I would now not do for these who are certainly my friends.” "True friendship comes when the silence between two human beings is cosy!
Thanks, but I'm content being a loner, and rarely feel the emotion of loneliness. Besides most of whatever friendships I had are dead.
I know how hard it is to make friends let alone trust people
I love this channel, keep out the wonderful work!!!!😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Psyc2go helps me through my tough times, my happy times and even ny depression times. I cannot stress enough on how much this channel has helped me.
Same
What do you mean you don't only have shallow materialistic friendships???
I enjoy the videos friendship is more important than money in my honest opinion
Thank you for letting us know! What other video would you like to see?
@@Psych2go to be honest I would like a video about life
Is it only me or was the music in this video a bit loud? 😅
This is exactly what i've been wanting to find for a while. I want to know how to make new good friendships so i can move on from bad ones
I'm In a dark place right now
Me to its night time Lol
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It’s super hard making friends I’m 37 with 0 friends and I’m not kidding on that 0
Bestest channel I have ever seen🌿
You are the sweetest! Do you you love most about our channel?
School. All of my friends were met throught school. I failed in every other setting.
Thanks for the video.
Psych2go
I'll just rather be silent to everyone one i had this 2 friend who only good at me when they need something they sometimes talk about me laugh at me and make me embarrass i tell them multiple times why they're like that and i had the time i realize they're bullying me so i stop talking to them and focus to other of my friends i tried to be socialize but sometimes i ended up like this i might lost 2 fake friends but i left with more friends moral from my story is when someone bully you don't hesitate to kill them and sorry for bad english!
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Great chanel, gives greats advice, been subscribed for so long.
If your having a friendship make sure your both committed.
Thank you sm!!
I only have 4 words
I
Love
Your
Videos.
I can listen to this for hours..
so true...thank you very much
Morning Morning or nighty night 😘
It's late afternoon for us! What about for you?
@@Psych2go It's about time I head to sleep but still early enough for me to watch one more 😁
10th way : people love to "know" where they are, comparing to others, that's why personnality tests and stuff like that has a lot of success. You can start a conversation with someone as : < I see you are writing, I'm writing too. > and you can use some knowledge in graphology to guess something about their personnality, based on the way they write. Either you are right, and they feel amazed, or you are wrong, but they find you are clever and interesting. You can also compliment them by looking at their hands : < Oh, your hands are strong, you must work hard > or < they are very beautiful, you must be a painter or musician, right ? >
"Nothing is permanent in this world just yourself and your smile
which remains forever and makes you happy
Accept those you really understand you because it is very hard to find such angelic people around although in our lives too" .
- Yogitaaa ✨😌💙
I have been suffered in past life and although suffering although
But iam strong and expert in these situations...
Thank you Psych2go! You posted this at the right time . I needed this piece of advice. I can’t wait to make new friends. (sorry I’m not that good at English) :’D
You are so welcome
Her voice is so relaxing ❤
Thank You
Interesting topic and very useful.Only the background music is too loud.
Very good video. 😊
Thank you! What did you like most about this video?
I met my best friends online or through school
Sounds like good advice