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  • Опубліковано 17 сер 2024
  • The Legendary Fatman Scoop Gives His Insight On Dating & Love. He Shares How Women Can Attract A Man In The Entertainment Industry.
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    0:00 - Intro
    01:29 - Who FatMan Scoop Is
    03:08 - How Fatman Scoop Heard About Ask Ashley
    03:58 - Why he Got Divorced..
    05:36 - How Do Women Attract Men In The Entertainment Industry
    06:48 - What Rich Men Are Need & Want
    07:29 - Why Are Rich Men Prefer Beauty Over Brains...
    08:00 - The Circle of Life For Rich Men
    10:25 - Why Men Dont Like Bad B*tches..
    12:45 - What Keeps A Man After Segg & Being Pretty
    14:48 - If A Man Is Not Obsessed W/ You, Youre NOt the one..
    16:58 - Looks Get Old To Rich Men..
    19:58 - Kevin Samuels Was Wrong About Looks..
    21:45 - Why Are "Average" Plain Women Single?
    23:18 - The Importance Of Working On Yourself...
    24:12 - How To Meet Rich Men
    25:34 - How To Meet Rich Men In Entertainment Industry
    29:30 - Men Shouldn't Commit when they are building themselves..
    35:58 - When are men ready to settle down?
    41:01 - His Money Mistakes/losing it all..
    44:35 - Tricking & Blowing the bag On modern women
    47:40 - 1st Guest Joins & is DISRESPECTFUL
    54:07 - 2nd Guest Joins & He Goes Off Topic..
    58:55 - Women Are Prostitutes & Escorts...
    01:02:02 - 3rd Guest Joins - How 20yr olds Should Approach Dating..
    01:06:47 - What Advice He Would Give His 23yr Old Daughter
    01:08:37- Accomplished Women Stay Single..

КОМЕНТАРІ • 414

  • @calikeisha365
    @calikeisha365 Місяць тому +192

    Why was the first caller so hostile? Did you want his advice or did you want to argue?
    I appreciate his take. Like anything, you take what’s useful and leave the rest. No need to be disrespectful.

    • @Rene-cn4jc
      @Rene-cn4jc Місяць тому +34

      Yeah…. She could’ve saved the attitude. How do start off with that attitude? I was embarrassed for her.

    • @Naturalsonja
      @Naturalsonja Місяць тому +27

      She definitely did too much I was caught off guard. This man is a legend.

    • @allthingsmianc
      @allthingsmianc Місяць тому +11

      She wanted the smoke

    • @ordellmichaels7866
      @ordellmichaels7866 Місяць тому +21

      She was very disrespectful to Fatman and he’s a celebrity. I can’t even imagine how she talks to regular men.

    • @melaninandaura9713
      @melaninandaura9713 Місяць тому +21

      @@ordellmichaels7866he is a regular man. He’s just a well known regular man.

  • @Librynerd
    @Librynerd Місяць тому +101

    "Broke people stay broke trying to look rich, rich people stay rich looking broke"

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +7

      actual facts!

    • @lesliemarshall88
      @lesliemarshall88 Місяць тому

      That’s actual facts…Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Jeff Bezos, Lukas Walton and the list goes on. They all dress like just regular dudes but have big money.

    • @mikeandmars2345
      @mikeandmars2345 14 днів тому

      That sounds like something that should be on a shirt 👚 💯 💯

  • @tisha812
    @tisha812 Місяць тому +116

    As soon as he started talking..."Are you gonna answer the question though?" Whoa...who are you really mad at? Therapy does wonders for misplaced anger.

    • @ordellmichaels7866
      @ordellmichaels7866 Місяць тому +10

      😊she definitely needs help. Hopefully she reads the comments and seek help.

    • @jayscott5618
      @jayscott5618 Місяць тому +7

      Hit dogs holla. She was definitely triggered.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +8

      thats someone not wanting to hear from the jump

    • @dinajones2761
      @dinajones2761 Місяць тому

      First caller was cringe and unattractive. A very UNpretty person inside and out.

  • @jenetsyamaris
    @jenetsyamaris Місяць тому +111

    “I ate him up” girl what you ate??? Disrespect and that facial pose?? 😂

  • @piscespisces6
    @piscespisces6 Місяць тому +125

    He had such great positive energy while dropping gems and here comes this woman with unnecessary rudeness and insults. Ashley please hang up on disrespectful people.

    • @allthingsmianc
      @allthingsmianc Місяць тому +21

      And plus this is NOT the place for that type of energy.

    • @ladymariej4156
      @ladymariej4156 Місяць тому +5

      Thank you!

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +22

      I could have been nasty, but I just said forget it!

    • @ladymariej4156
      @ladymariej4156 Місяць тому +10

      @fatmanscoop Thank you💕
      You showed a level of maturity most people can learn from👏 She was out of pocket and childish, and grown men don't argue with children anyway.

    • @allthingsmianc
      @allthingsmianc Місяць тому

      @@fatmanscoop you did what was right. God got it.

  • @Hjwoqjqbwkk
    @Hjwoqjqbwkk Місяць тому +74

    This man was 100% spot on, you literally have to just be lucky in order to find your match. This is what almost all of my married friends say aside from the ones in arranged marriages.

  • @lesleya-m8689
    @lesleya-m8689 Місяць тому +57

    The woman who said she ate. Ate what exactly? The comment about looking like a construction worker was unnecessary, he looks like a man sitting in his house lol, i love that he doesn’t feel a need to impress people, especially with what he wears.

    • @OurNYCHome
      @OurNYCHome Місяць тому +3

      Right. That particular comment (about his outfit) was extremely childish and distasteful - just below the belt, for no reason. Of all the folks to call in today, can’t believe this one slipped through. 🤦🏾‍♀️ I feel like the quality/calibre of Ashley’s audience is usually a little better/more refined.

    • @lesleya-m8689
      @lesleya-m8689 Місяць тому

      @@OurNYCHome yes, I agree

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +10

      dudes that have money never show they have money....people who act like they are rich are wearing their money.....

  • @susi09
    @susi09 Місяць тому +72

    Huge facepalm at the first person who called in and was disrespectful. What did you gain by doing that?

    • @colastyles
      @colastyles Місяць тому +16

      And had the nerve to think she ate?!😂

    • @calikeisha365
      @calikeisha365 Місяць тому +13

      She was embarrassingly ridiculous!

    • @susi09
      @susi09 Місяць тому +12

      Right?! I’m glad the camera caught her saying that at the end because it seems like she just wanted to have her moment. Its one thing if people want to be rude on their own platforms, but don’t be rude on Ashley’s, please

    • @mrttamara
      @mrttamara Місяць тому

      Why is homeboy making it about his experience? 😕

  • @shygal976
    @shygal976 Місяць тому +48

    She was so disrespectful for no reason

  • @TerezGemma
    @TerezGemma Місяць тому +70

    Ladies- your looks gets you the man. But who you are as a person, your heart, your nurturing feminine nature keeps him. So many women put so much effort into their looks yet there personality isn’t there. The superficial phase passes. And the obsession of marry for money reminds me of the 1800s. Women are willing to trade their happiness for someone who can take care of them.

    • @allthingsmianc
      @allthingsmianc Місяць тому +2

      So true.

    • @prettiilexii672
      @prettiilexii672 Місяць тому +1

      Preach

    • @mzbrown6969
      @mzbrown6969 Місяць тому

      men are very arbitrary and are conditioned to be centered and self serving, they will cheat on you with a very undesirable woman just because she is there and you went off to be great, ask Beyonce. Major Key is be the best version of yourself, don't worry so much about men who pursuit but moreso aligns

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 Місяць тому

      Exactly

    • @LILLYBIJOU69
      @LILLYBIJOU69 Місяць тому

      Lazy and unambitious

  • @colastyles
    @colastyles Місяць тому +67

    Wow... Are kids not raised being taught manners anymore? Dialogue and debate while maintaining respect IS possible and how quality human beings carry themselves.

    • @aquafina6544
      @aquafina6544 Місяць тому +7

      No they aren't bcus the mother's don't have any manners or decent upbringing parents stopped raising children and let children raise themselves so the streets gave them their mannerisms. Anybody can create kids but not many can parent or create prosperous productive ppl.

    • @colastyles
      @colastyles Місяць тому +1

      @@aquafina6544 Facts. So sad.

  • @MyAeq
    @MyAeq Місяць тому +48

    First caller just embarrassed herself

  • @shygal976
    @shygal976 Місяць тому +61

    This was a great interview. Thank you Fatman a scoop and Ashley for your wisdom.

  • @Rene-cn4jc
    @Rene-cn4jc Місяць тому +82

    No she didn’t say she ate him up 😅😂😅😂😅… How sis? Where? When?

    • @morningsunshine0216
      @morningsunshine0216 Місяць тому +3

      I was cracking up 😂. Honestly this guy just likes to hear himself talk. I skipped through most of the interview and went straight to the callers

    • @OurNYCHome
      @OurNYCHome Місяць тому +17

      @@morningsunshine0216If you skipped through most of the interview it’s a shame, became he had some great gems that he dropped. I hope you decide to go back and listen to it in its entirety. It’s a worthwhile listen, imo.

    • @sherwoodholmes1171
      @sherwoodholmes1171 Місяць тому +5

      She came across like a thirsty bum being materialistic

    • @morningsunshine0216
      @morningsunshine0216 Місяць тому

      @@OurNYCHome what gems did he drop? I don’t aspire to be with a man like him and definitely don’t want a guy like french Montana. I can tell he’s low class. Yall are always so eager to listen to any man speak like he’s speaking the gospel. And don’t let him have a little bit of money then you all act like he’s a demigod

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +3

      she ate nothing! hahahahahahahahah

  • @cassadiesmith4645
    @cassadiesmith4645 Місяць тому +48

    The First Lady can’t even pull a rich man her looks tell it all

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +15

      thats why i did not even argue

    • @mr6foot687
      @mr6foot687 Місяць тому

      💯💯💯

    • @mzbrown6969
      @mzbrown6969 Місяць тому +2

      maybe not a rich man but definitely a wealthy one, look up the appearance of their wives

    • @lesliemarshall88
      @lesliemarshall88 Місяць тому

      @@mzbrown6969 true but she’s not a pleasant person. The wealthy men that typically marry average looking women, married them earlier in life so they met them before becoming wealthy and or those women are very peaceful in the home. They don’t nag or down their men, instead they’re just simply nice to them.

    • @michaelsmith8947
      @michaelsmith8947 Місяць тому +2

      @@mzbrown6969 😂😂😂😂😂 wait , your serious?

  • @Kariwoo
    @Kariwoo Місяць тому +55

    I love fat man scoop, and I really enjoyed this episode. I don’t have a man yet, but I’m planning my wedding and he will be performing😂🤣

    • @MsLovelylady32
      @MsLovelylady32 Місяць тому +8

      😂😂Okay🎉🎉❤❤ congrats on your engagement

    • @allthingsmianc
      @allthingsmianc Місяць тому +4

      The marriage is coming. Lol

    • @jasminek33
      @jasminek33 Місяць тому +3

      We manifesting it with you. Congrats🎉 😂

    • @allthingsmianc
      @allthingsmianc Місяць тому

      @@jasminek33 Factz

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 Місяць тому +1

      Amen!!! 👍💜

  • @ImaniEstrellaPatterson
    @ImaniEstrellaPatterson Місяць тому +35

    Miranda from Sex and the City was right… you don’t know a man’s ready for serious relationship or marriage until his light goes on.

    • @Amodernelder
      @Amodernelder Місяць тому +1

      She called it.

    • @caliwestmiami
      @caliwestmiami 16 днів тому

      That's BS hence why the creator of the show wished she would of chose family over a career. Most Men are Open books but y'all want the man who's most desired and expect that man with a plethora of options to settle down with you as if you're special

  • @iAmTynieceSade
    @iAmTynieceSade Місяць тому +13

    Why she came up like she had beef with him? 🤣

  • @cmichole
    @cmichole Місяць тому +17

    First caller is DEFINITELY single. She’s super combative, disrespectful and arrogant. You called to speak to HIM. Not the other way around.

    • @ashleyldalton
      @ashleyldalton  Місяць тому +17

      She actually was just on my show a week ago speaking about the challenges of her relationship. Her boyfriend told her to go home while he went into a bar. The story is on my channel now.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +3

      @@ashleyldalton you gotta send that to me!!!!!

    • @ciciIBe
      @ciciIBe Місяць тому +7

      @@ashleyldaltonI can see why he sent her miserable ssa home. 🥴

    • @Tionaintown876
      @Tionaintown876 Місяць тому

      @@fatmanscoop”Her amateur comedian boyfriend sent her home” is the title of the video from 1 month ago. I want to apologize on behalf of women for her behaviour and I hope you feel the love from the comments!!

    • @dinajones2761
      @dinajones2761 Місяць тому +1

      @@ashleyldaltonI understand perfectly why the poor man needs to drink.

  • @shadowblackt
    @shadowblackt Місяць тому +14

    The first caller was rude as heck. Men can't tell their truth without women like her on the offense.

  • @letsbeclear2897
    @letsbeclear2897 Місяць тому +10

    Men stop saying you need peace because a lot of BM are not peaceful. Say you want reciprocated respect and trust because wording means everything. It’s plenty of BM who are disrespectful and distrustful but want a woman to be the opposite of how they are moving

    • @Amodernelder
      @Amodernelder Місяць тому

      Exactly.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +1

      thats a great way to articulate it. Ill give you that! Thats really sharp!

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +2

      its respect, trust, agreeability, kindness, nutruring, submission, etc. But i will say, all of that comes with a price. wbhich is you having shit together to the point the woman dont have to worry about NOTHING. Guys - if u not that dude its NOT GONNA HAPPEN.

  • @Ki-Yemaya
    @Ki-Yemaya Місяць тому +14

    I'm not a bad itch and I don't have issues attracting men of means. I don't wear makeup, and I'm over 40. Look at Ceo's, doctor, lawyers, engineers,,,, look at their wives . The majority of them are not glam.

    • @LILLYBIJOU69
      @LILLYBIJOU69 Місяць тому

      And they are usually just as educated and ambitious. Unlike what these red pill clowns are claiming, that men don't care about.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +5

      that is 5000000000000000000000000000% if you look at the truly rich dudes wives, its less glam, no tatoos, regular looks......

    • @PurpleGalaxies123
      @PurpleGalaxies123 Місяць тому +8

      Their wives are plain janes, but their mistresses look totally different.

    • @Ki-Yemaya
      @Ki-Yemaya Місяць тому +5

      @PURPOSEFULFILLED if you're looking to be a mistress , I guess.

    • @ciciIBe
      @ciciIBe Місяць тому

      Facts!! Most Men really like natural looking Women.

  • @dugohaslanded.1434
    @dugohaslanded.1434 Місяць тому +31

    The first caller was absurdly hostile and very rude ! My jaw dropped. What was her problem ??? The man clearly stated he came from the gym .. does she have stock in SHEIN? That was so unexpected and unnecessary. 🤮

  • @Workof_art
    @Workof_art Місяць тому +7

    Lead with your heart? We been there done that & it only works in the men’s favor. Ladies use discernment when taking dating advice from men.

  • @taymo5163
    @taymo5163 Місяць тому +19

    The first girl was a clown

  • @allthingsmianc
    @allthingsmianc Місяць тому +14

    I enjoyed fatmanscoop, alot of women dont wanna hear & cant stand hearing the truth. But i heard what him and ashley said. Ashley always preach it and fatmanscoop just reiterated it. I receive it.

    • @TwoPrettyRedDimes
      @TwoPrettyRedDimes Місяць тому

      And alotta men especially bm don’t wanna hear the truth and can’t date properly and never really accountable or never marry properly or obtained mental help or any generational wealth or never have it either or bread aslong we don’t deal with the ick/or likes of y’all we will be ok ✅because I will never have kids by y’all either toxic dusty on the bottom males

    • @sylviabooze7122
      @sylviabooze7122 Місяць тому

      The majority of modern men especially black men will lie about every damn and many women have found themselves in horrible situations for believing them so we as women are right to be extremely cautious about who we actually listen to, however this gentleman seems to have a lot of wisdom based on his lived experiences and seems to be a Godly man.

  • @sherwoodholmes1171
    @sherwoodholmes1171 Місяць тому +12

    Poor people think clothes are an investment

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +3

      correct!

    • @nnena3631
      @nnena3631 Місяць тому +4

      ​@fatmanscoop If you believe that why bring up the lady's Shein dress?

    • @Blueballs517
      @Blueballs517 Місяць тому

      Clothes CAN be a investment just not the cheap ones that your poor ass buy! Only ppl with NO real money think clothes can’t be an investment. Very dumb & broke thinking.

  • @brittanyb5942
    @brittanyb5942 Місяць тому +13

    He’s correct! Peace is EVERYTHING 🙏🏾❤️

  • @Jasminered15
    @Jasminered15 Місяць тому +11

    Best male guest ever! I liked the other ones, but he gave us direct answers. Shout out to Fatman scoop!!!

  • @pl3312
    @pl3312 Місяць тому +7

    Ashley is always such a class act! Amazing example for any women or young lady to be inspired by ❤️

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +1

      ashley is classy! and that rhymed too!!!!

  • @sincitee5026
    @sincitee5026 Місяць тому +4

    I love that he’s a REAL INVOLVED FATHER- PERIOD

  • @susi09
    @susi09 Місяць тому +23

    Ok Ash! Come through with the connections! More content like this, please

  • @jayc5756
    @jayc5756 Місяць тому +8

    That was Hilarious when she said she ate. LMFAOOO 😂😂🤣🤣

  • @ericaporter2664
    @ericaporter2664 Місяць тому +7

    i loved this insight tonight with him,this was good

  • @theanswersisinsideu
    @theanswersisinsideu Місяць тому +16

    Men need a platform to share spiritual insights on dating especially the men who are over 40

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      somebody told me to do that......

  • @crystalbolden4081
    @crystalbolden4081 Місяць тому +7

    Loved this interview, beauty matters, but it’s more than that. He broke the dynamics down in stages. It’s extraordinary, beautiful women and regular pretty, agreeable women who are lonely and single. Don’t get fooled by the one-trick pony. It’s plenty extraordinary, gorgeous women outside of Beyonce, Halle Berry and others who were cheated on and/or got divorced. Be beautiful inside and out women‼️ Take good care of yourselves for you not just for a man. Love on you FIRST, build up your value so you have something to offer like confidence, support, nurturing demeanor, a good analytical brain so y’all can further build together etc and prepare yourself for that man that’s gonna add value to you that mutually works for the both of you🥰

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      this is 70000000000000000000000% correct

  • @IdeastoIncome
    @IdeastoIncome Місяць тому +7

    This was a great conversation. Real and raw.

  • @kimberlystrother6493
    @kimberlystrother6493 Місяць тому +14

    I think he did an amazing job

  • @ChanelNo5568
    @ChanelNo5568 Місяць тому +1

    The bottom line is.. it doesn’t matter what you do or don’t do.. if a man love you and want you, he is going to stay with you. If he doesn”t, he had a different agenda from the jump.

  • @agelessbeautee5.04
    @agelessbeautee5.04 Місяць тому +6

    Great interview

  • @Cbanksfitness
    @Cbanksfitness Місяць тому +2

    Legend!!!! Congrats Ashley!!!! Whew!!! I was young but I know about him for sure. Love it!!!

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo thxxxxx

  • @malinda.malinda
    @malinda.malinda Місяць тому +2

    Thanks, Ash and Fatman Scoop. This was a healthy discussion. I appreciate Mr. Scoop's honesty. Would be great to have him back, maybe on a panel with previous guests.

  • @trenellclarke10
    @trenellclarke10 Місяць тому +5

    I love his voice on records! He hypes the crowd!

  • @cheyennestephens9417
    @cheyennestephens9417 Місяць тому +4

    Aww the first girl is just angry at life 😂

  • @zoebeauty25
    @zoebeauty25 Місяць тому +4

    Every man that i know that has long money don't wear designer to show off. You wouldn't even know that they have long money because you have to be trustworthy to know that info. Ladies stop judging these men by what they wear cause you will miss out on a wealthy men because you are closed minded❤. SALUTE! TO THE HOST Very classy and respectful & WE APPRECIATE THE KNOWLEDGE FATMAN SCOOP JUST DROPPED ON US.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      what u said is accurate. the ones getting it, DO NOT SHOW IT

  • @maxlogan7388
    @maxlogan7388 Місяць тому +2

    The first caller got triggered because she wears Shein 5 days out of the week. 😂

  • @dorothymatthews6690
    @dorothymatthews6690 Місяць тому +2

    He spoke the truth! I'm glad he woke up! And now he will help a lot of people to not go down the wrong road. Kudos to him!

  • @ciciIBe
    @ciciIBe Місяць тому +2

    He said what he said! Peace. Agreeable. Submissive. Etc..Women don’t listen. I get the most compliments from Men when I am in a natural state. Hair in Cornrows, Braids, press out…now locs. Men are really simply. Women make things complicated.

  • @LaLa-gk6rd
    @LaLa-gk6rd Місяць тому +2

    I respect everything he said about sustaining his legacy. This is a man who is focused.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +2

      im on another level of thought right now......

    • @LaLa-gk6rd
      @LaLa-gk6rd Місяць тому

      Thank you for sharing, Scoop! I appreciate your gems, and the little girl in me wants to thank you for the bangers. 🔥 God bless.

  • @Stacy..H
    @Stacy..H Місяць тому +17

    First girl came up looking like Billy Porter trying to get slick with someone 🙄

  • @Queenbelieveit
    @Queenbelieveit Місяць тому +3

    Hey fatmanscoop ❤I remember back in the day w/ my friends in school...listening to hot 97 we use be like get ya hands up....the hype man 🙌🏽🥰

  • @TestimonialsbyTamarie
    @TestimonialsbyTamarie Місяць тому +2

    God align the man for you at the right time. Sometimes the woman who doesn't have a man yet is in Preparation for him.

  • @crystalbolden4081
    @crystalbolden4081 Місяць тому +3

    If you’re asking questions to be antagonistic, argumentative, demeaning, prove a point, or have 30 seconds of fame while NOT adding value perhaps have a talk sessions with your friends. He has a point. People are operating in transactional manners while saying they want a valuable and/or serious relationship. How you asking about somebody’s money while you not looking like you have money. Dress the part if it’s about transactions. This subject matter has layers. When you’re hunting or trying to get hunted, you would dress the part even while the camera is on and you’re asking a question. It’s one of the reasons Ashley prefers women to come on looking “polished.”

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +1

      my thing was how can you have nothing and try to PREQUALIFY a man to be with you when you have or bring NOTHING......

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      that is correct. Ashley comes out and she means FUCKING BUSINESS. Put Ashley in ANY ROOM with wealthy men , SHE IS COMING OUT WITH SOMETHING. It's not only how she looks - but more importantly HOW SHE CONDUCTS HERSELF. Wealthy and well to do men KNOW THIS WHEN THEY SEE IT. Class, quiet demeanor yet strong vibe, dressing sexy WHILE being covered to let a mans imagination wander and not give him everything to see IS WHAT LOCKS THESE DUDES IN. Im just saying....

  • @RMVoy
    @RMVoy Місяць тому +4

    First person that came on was disrespectful. He is telling his truth about his experience.

  • @Anna-zi2so
    @Anna-zi2so 2 дні тому +1

    He made some good points. He told us some Real Life info.

  • @LILLYBIJOU69
    @LILLYBIJOU69 Місяць тому +3

    What he's saying is mostly in the entertainment and sports industry. In the real world of corporate America, politics etc still want a woman on their level educational and status career wise.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +2

      i would beg to differ, this is across the board. CEOs, corporate level dudes everything.....and it is NOT BOUND TO COLOR.

  • @SignedbyOlivia
    @SignedbyOlivia Місяць тому +4

    Thanks Ashley. This was a very informative interview and fatman scoop dropped some gems, i really enjoyed it and learned alot. Thanks queen 👸 ❤

  • @Antonetteinbk
    @Antonetteinbk Місяць тому +5

    That first caller 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️…I wonder if she still thinks “she ate”?

    • @sincitee5026
      @sincitee5026 Місяць тому

      She dumber than a tack in the wall lol

    • @sincitee5026
      @sincitee5026 Місяць тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      pure foolishness!!!! hahahahahahah

  • @uhsaywhat
    @uhsaywhat Місяць тому +5

    “Ate him up” needs a time out bc Fat man Scoop came with facts and experience!

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому

      i could have been nastty but i stopped myself!

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      sometimes, I have learned, u can't listen to them!

  • @truettadevil
    @truettadevil 22 дні тому +1

    Black men didn't mind Kevin Samuels telling them to make 6-figures... but when a BLACK WOMAN asks for a Black man who makes 6-figures is a problem 🤔

    • @candorsspot2775
      @candorsspot2775 21 день тому +1

      For quality women. Not the average or below average woman.

    • @truettadevil
      @truettadevil 21 день тому

      @@candorsspot2775 and yet, you're not capable of earning 6 figures, no matter who demands it of you 💅🏾

    • @candorsspot2775
      @candorsspot2775 21 день тому

      ​@@truettadevilLow effort women are for low effort men. Women who look good, have morals, are cooperative don't have to beg men to make more money. They attract successful men.
      A lot of these women complaining can't even get unemployed men to take them seriously. They need to start putting in the work. Know what I'm saying?

  • @allthingsmastery
    @allthingsmastery Місяць тому +5

    Some of us have such a nasty disposition. Amd we wonder why

  • @LavidaLovesCoils
    @LavidaLovesCoils Місяць тому +3

    I really enjoyed this interview. It doesn’t seem that Ashley and Scoop really aligned with what he was conveying.
    I totally agree and understood what he was saying. He is choosing his purpose, assignment and choosing to be God-lead when entering partnership and he’s past the superficial and ego-driven relationships and decisions. I wish he was allowed to really dive a little deeper into this. He was asked, as a man with access, what it takes to land a man that women want and he told us. It depends on the phase of life he’s in and when a woman ready, willing and able crosses his path at the right time. This is a great topic.
    That caller was out of line.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +1

      you are actually 100000000 on point

    • @LavidaLovesCoils
      @LavidaLovesCoils Місяць тому

      @@fatmanscoop I appreciate you. I’m sure those who the message was intended for, got it. I haphazardly (with skepticism… because not another relationship instructional) clicked on this interview… suggested by UA-cam, but I’m glad that I did. It was refreshing to hear a man who has been in this industry, give his real experience on what truly matters at the end of the day.
      I believe as we age, experience life, and the challenges that it forcefully has to offer, things are really put into perspective. Those things, especially the tumultuous things, give us those “ah ha” moments of clarity. What is really important? Our assignment here on earth. God strategically gives provision which aligns with fulfilling that thing we are all here to do, and hopefully, a Purpose Partner to boot.
      Without writing another full, drawn out comment, I encourage those who feel hopeless and alone in this journey, to listen to Pastor Toure Robert’s “Five Keys To Identifying A Soulmate” here on UA-cam. It’s encouraging.
      Again, your take is truly appreciated and understood. It’s a perspective worth sharing even while the collective narrative says otherwise.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      i understood

  • @erinblake1423
    @erinblake1423 Місяць тому +3

    The first caller is a mess, why come on with an attitude. This is a sharing space, his answer to that question was on point. She didnt eat nothing but his crumbs, his answer made sense

  • @Pandering_equalsmoney
    @Pandering_equalsmoney Місяць тому +9

    Lmaoooooooooo and then yall act like men lying when we say there are rude, horrible on the other side. Perfect example, to a man they would “value” cause he makes money. IMMEDIATE disrespect imagine the household with that lady.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +1

      it would be a mess. and the way she came was disrespectful and also showed a inability to listen to others. I would love to see what her results are in 10 years....

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      that's why I said, her results will be the results. If you do that to ME what will you do to HIM?

  • @karlenwilson2909
    @karlenwilson2909 Місяць тому +1

    Shout out to everybody watching the show within the show: Ashley’s facial expressions 😂

  • @laurenpearson2541
    @laurenpearson2541 Місяць тому +6

    That First Lady was insane and really rude

  • @user-hs9wh2qf7c
    @user-hs9wh2qf7c Місяць тому +4

    The first caller was a hostile and hardheaded woman. She was way too willing to try to start an argument. She needs therapy.

    • @breawalker3854
      @breawalker3854 20 днів тому

      He needs therapy too , they both do . He was over talking her and evading her question.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      @@breawalker3854 if you watch, you will see i never evaded her question. What i DID do WAS SPEAK truth and she was not trying to hear it. As I am speaking she jumps in and asks "is this a monologue" the level of disrespect, arrogance and stupidity will get you a result in the end of being alone. If you can't see what took place, I understand. You can't change everybody's mind. However these comments tell a different story than what you saw.....

  • @ladyt4905
    @ladyt4905 Місяць тому +7

    Aye!!! Legend!!!❤❤❤

  • @pl3312
    @pl3312 Місяць тому +5

    In a nutshell be the baddest b you can be 😅

  • @intellectual3348
    @intellectual3348 Місяць тому +1

    This was a great interview! ❤

  • @ashkash6849
    @ashkash6849 Місяць тому +1

    That first lady was out of pocket! What he said was 100% true. Looking like that why would you worry about a mans finances. Part of Ms, Ashley's message is to upgrade YOURSELF first.

  • @jayc5756
    @jayc5756 Місяць тому +7

    Probably get a guy that got women when he was younger. Most of these entertainers never got any women before they became popular & rich. Facts!
    Then you also gotta find a guy thats mature on your level...thats out of his dating casual stage...which is usually 29 going on 30. Most mature men in their 30s(thats not players), we can be that monogamous man. So it is what it is.

  • @jayc5756
    @jayc5756 Місяць тому +4

    Yes, be there...but more importantly, Be AVAILABLE. So hes able to holla at you. Cant be too grouped up.

  • @jayscott5618
    @jayscott5618 Місяць тому +2

    A man who keeps it completely real.

  • @crysj1932
    @crysj1932 Місяць тому

    I'm late but I really appreciate Fat Man Scoop for being vulnerable and transparent, we ask our men to communicate and when they do some individuals (first caller 👀) try to tear them down, that's wild. Thanks to him for the advice and loved hearing him speak about love and peace, this was refreshing!

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому +1

      thank you. We can't get anywhere if we don't tell the truth. People have to see other are going or have gone through it.

    • @crysj1932
      @crysj1932 12 днів тому

      @fatmanscoop you're welcome and I agree 💯%!

  • @user-no8bd9eg9b
    @user-no8bd9eg9b Місяць тому +5

    He does this thing a little of black men do that I genuinely no longer find attractive. Talks down about the value of women, while trying to appear helpful…he hasn’t said much positivity and he also doesn’t have any actual responses. He just seems like he wanted to talk freely. So many points I wanted to say, “JUST ANSWER THE QUESTION!!!!” 🙄😳😒 also, a woman doesn’t need to be a man’s “peace” to be cared for by an affluent man. These black dudes with money are so broken.

    • @boobear9488
      @boobear9488 Місяць тому

      Thank you!

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      This shows you listen to nothing. All I did was come on there and answer questions IN A DETAILED way. So much so they complained about me talking! I will never talk down the value of women, HOWEVER I will tell the truth. If you accept it is your issue. As far as saying that a woman doesn't need a mot be a mans peace to be cared for by an affluent man shows you have NEVER been in that arena or circles. The problem we have as people is we QUESTION people about things that we have NEVER DONE. There is NO WAY that I would question Jeff Bezos about scalability logistics and shipping. BECAUSE I HAVE NEVER DONE ANY THING ON THE LEVEL HE HAS. SO I WOULD SIT BACK AND LISTEN....as I always say.......good luck! And the results will be the results.....

  • @Leslie-ss2sr
    @Leslie-ss2sr Місяць тому +3

    I don’t think the first caller is familiar with Fat Man Scoop’s accomplishments to know the spaces he’s been in. He actually has some credibility!

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      a lot...she does not know....

  • @sharonthebaron88
    @sharonthebaron88 Місяць тому +2

    I love the description of Mr. Ralph's (2nd caller) segment.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому

      ralph was ill with it....

  • @avagreene797
    @avagreene797 Місяць тому +4

    I agree with most of what Fatman Scoop said.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +1

      what did you disagree with? LMK

  • @quiettefoxworth4713
    @quiettefoxworth4713 Місяць тому +3

    This was a very well articulated interview. The perspective and insight from FatManScoop seemed very much knowledgeable and just dead set spot on. I appreciate that he backed his perspective by examples and even some of his own personal experiences. His accountability is impeccable. And his achievements and longevity in the industry and entertainment realm proves his credibility to be able to speak from another angle of the dating and marriage relationship field. And Ashley your energy and his energy was on point during this interview. It made the conversation that much more engaging with all of your follow-up questions. By far this is one of the best guest interviews that I've enjoyed on your channel. Thank you.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому

      thank you!!!!!!! i appreciate it!

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      i thank u for that

  • @beth4990
    @beth4990 Місяць тому +1

    Let the church say Amen! This was a sermon. 👏🏾

  • @rikaegill
    @rikaegill Місяць тому +1

    I enjoyed this interview!

  • @caliolivera4272
    @caliolivera4272 Місяць тому

    The first caller clearly didn’t agree with Farman scoop but I love how Fatmanscoop has been so respectful thus far

  • @Tuwhokw2
    @Tuwhokw2 Місяць тому

    Great video thanx!💎

  • @capturedbyshelly
    @capturedbyshelly Місяць тому

    Fatman Scoop was amazing, great vibe and energy, It was refreshing to hear his insight and his testimony, he was definitely the best guest you brought on Ashley 🎵 FATMAN SCOOP MAKE SOME NOIIISEEE 🎵😂

  • @talkswithcookie
    @talkswithcookie Місяць тому +6

    ❤ I love FatMan Scoop. I used to watch his podcast with Shonda. I really enjoyed how they interacted with one another.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      that's where all that started. back then i just said it in a comedic way!

  • @kiopos4764
    @kiopos4764 Місяць тому +1

    Ashley, you are a great interviewer, please continue with these type if possible as you asked great questions and content which was amazing 👏... Also, good the see Fatman coming back on the scene 😀 🎉❤

  • @Humbled_Imperfection
    @Humbled_Imperfection Місяць тому

    It’s crazy how a legend is giving straight facts, and she was so hostile and disrespectful towards him! She doesn’t understand that caliper of a man and the conversation he trying to have with her.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      you can't speak with fools!

  • @CarolynYouman59
    @CarolynYouman59 Місяць тому

    In addition to my previous comment, I want to emphasize that the first young lady approached the conversation with an argumentative attitude. I believe Fat-Man-Scoop provided excellent advice, and I particularly appreciated his response regarding the importance of both males and females focusing on personal growth before entering into a committed relationship.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      💯💯💯💯💯💯 #facts

  • @Nikki-Adams
    @Nikki-Adams Місяць тому +3

    Ready to settle down at “grandfather” stage? 👀
    What age is the woman they want at that stage though?

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +1

      probably 10 years younger. However, the question is....are they gonna get what they want. A bunch of factors decide that.......

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      with all respect, depends on how powerful the man is. U got men that are 60 with 20 year old (which i think is creepy shit) but usually dudes will do 15 -20 years - 60 year old dud is going 40-48 years old.....

  • @NubianLion
    @NubianLion Місяць тому +4

    He just spoke so much…… I’d rather he just got to the point.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop Місяць тому +2

      the point is to give you articulated answers with examples so you get the point. If i said "yeah" "sure" "no" "cool" etc...what understanding would you get out of that?

  • @askpam9558
    @askpam9558 Місяць тому

    Great interview with FMS. Ashley just walked in my head, basically to heck with the bags and nonsense. Yes, these women don't get it - a bag and a lace front are not that serious.

  • @bettystallworth8853
    @bettystallworth8853 Місяць тому

    He deserves his own UA-cam. We need someone like him (10 x better thank KS).

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      im saying the same exact thing, but lowering my voice and not being arrogant. Those shock things and tactics get viewers. The more negative = more viewers

  • @IAMMOVIN4WARD
    @IAMMOVIN4WARD 9 днів тому

    Go FatManScoop! Talk that truth!!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👊🏾👊🏾

  • @jrenee34678
    @jrenee34678 Місяць тому +1

    This was really good. We as women should take it all in and apply it where it fits.. Those that don't agree. Like he said the result will be the result.

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      i live on that with everything....whatever you do.....the results will be the results....

  • @dwaconsulting1609
    @dwaconsulting1609 Місяць тому

    He's definitely telling the truth about them performers watching especially when you don't think they are... I'll never forget my experience with some performers, if they are interested in any capacity they'll definitely interact with you

  • @aquafina6544
    @aquafina6544 Місяць тому +3

    I'm sorry i disagree with fatman on the man will come in time. Bcus im in my 50s im average looking to me but ive always been told im beautiful super gorgeous. Ive always worked out, i have some traditional values, my body is decent for my age. I dont wear makeup but will put on a lil bit to enhance my features. Im agreeable resourceful nurturing and can hold a household down. Ive raised a baby boy to a man alone bcus his dad died when he was very young.
    I don't understand why i keep getting the temporary busters. Im tired ive dealt with so much I'm ready for my peace and growing old with someone im attracted to that's attracted to me til death.
    It shouldn't b so hard to love and get loved in return.

    • @hrstories2
      @hrstories2 Місяць тому

      Wow that strange, not even a warehouse worker making $15 ph? No one stayed with you?

    • @megayummyrockstar
      @megayummyrockstar Місяць тому +2

      Honestly, there’s so many factors to it and I have no idea what you look like nor other key factors that will play into this(i.e. regardless of how you look are you confident with yourself? How do you conduct yourself), but I will say this based on what you said you seem to still be a little bit male center/validatedvalidated, and that might be something to look at and work on because it shouldn’t matter if you find someone or not, it’s all about you enjoying your final days regardless of that. i
      It’s easier to attract something when you’re not desperate for it and with respect I say this🫶🏾

    • @mzbrown6969
      @mzbrown6969 Місяць тому

      @@megayummyrockstar I agree, that's the irony, picme's usually don't get picked that why they are saying "pick me" Men tend to gravitate towards women who are being the best version of themselves vs the best version for them.

    • @malangeowens7708
      @malangeowens7708 Місяць тому

      @@megayummyrockstar final days.. sheesh

    • @piscespisces6
      @piscespisces6 Місяць тому +1

      Are you open to other races or just black men? Try opening up your options if you haven’t already.

  • @glammahming
    @glammahming Місяць тому +3

    He was great guest. Good job Ash!

    • @fatmanscoop
      @fatmanscoop 12 днів тому

      i tried to speak truth and be extremely detailed with answers

  • @jayc5756
    @jayc5756 Місяць тому +2

    Lead with your heart?? No! Logic Over Emotions sis.

  • @colastyles
    @colastyles Місяць тому +5

    Love Scoop❤