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  • @BunnysRandoms
    @BunnysRandoms 2 місяці тому +117

    You were preaching in this video! I’m not trying to be mean but weight is definitely holding back A LOT OF BW from getting the man they desire! No Shade! I seen it with my own eyes with my older sister! She lost almost 200lbs last April and she is about to meet her boyfriend’s parents in Spain this weekend!

    • @dogy1.2
      @dogy1.2 2 місяці тому

      Allot of Women think they offer allot of attributes to men but in reality that don't. Men are shallow , beauty , fit , feminine, and cooperative will always be first of most men's list .

    • @Nicholes-Dad
      @Nicholes-Dad 2 місяці тому +11

      Exactly! Finally, a woman that gets it! Weight issues are ABSOLUTELY holding back a lot of black women.

    • @BunnysRandoms
      @BunnysRandoms 2 місяці тому +11

      @@Nicholes-Dad Mind you, my older sister is an OB/GYN and very successful! The weight was the only thing holding her back! I thank God she finally stopped being delusional and got it together!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @tinawalker5335
      @tinawalker5335 2 місяці тому

      Funny thing is it’s not holding them back from men in the their reality but from the men of their dreams (rich, high value men). These men want attractive women. You know by 21 if you are sexy, hot, attractive, etc. This show only shows how delusional a lot of bw are.

    • @IAMHERE486
      @IAMHERE486 2 місяці тому

      What men?Most men don’t make enough money to afford a wife.

  • @Kimberly.T
    @Kimberly.T 2 місяці тому +24

    A lot of women don’twant to accept that they are not finding these men because they are invisible to the men they want. You can let your girlfriends gas you up all day but unless you’re trying to date a woman it doesn’t help🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @Nicholes-Dad
      @Nicholes-Dad Місяць тому +1

      Exactly!

    • @Higfsyourvioihb
      @Higfsyourvioihb 26 днів тому +1

      Big Facts...for Rich men you have to look the part...

    • @Kimberly.T
      @Kimberly.T 25 днів тому

      @@Higfsyourvioihb Majority of men who actually have money don’t date/marry the “baddie”. Yes many do especially in the entertainment world. Directors and Executives of Tech, Operations, Banking, Finance, Politics, and many other fields that make the world go round are married to average looking women. The % of high earning men is low anyway so demanding or requiring that you want to attract that man is setting you up for around a potential of a 4% success rate. ( % adjusted for age, sexual preference, marriage status and locality.) It’s already distasteful to require it, then you aren’t the most attractive, struggle to comprehend that these men are all around and there is no specific place to find them lowers her chance to .02%🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 Місяць тому +18

    Men are everywhere. Ladies upgrade your look, be feminine and smile. Wear more dresses.

  • @meloran2571
    @meloran2571 2 місяці тому +48

    Nari don't want to hear anything about improving herself. She want these men who worked their way to the top to approach and compete for her as she is. She said forget all that weight talk, where these men at 😂

  • @moblack5883
    @moblack5883 2 місяці тому +108

    She laughed when Ashley said book a session. She won’t change because she thinks she is perfect. She feels her degree , career , and her lifestyle should be what men want. She needs to lose weight and dress herself up. Her press needs more silk added.

    • @LadyAsh8888
      @LadyAsh8888 2 місяці тому +30

      Totally agree but that last sentence took me out lol

    • @moblack5883
      @moblack5883 2 місяці тому +9

      @@LadyAsh8888 as a dad who pays for a silk press I’ve come to pay attention to that hairstyle.

    • @trb294
      @trb294 2 місяці тому +10

      @@moblack5883 Love that! But I do think this is a wig

    • @nikki09190912
      @nikki09190912 2 місяці тому +1

      @@LadyAsh8888 🤣

    • @twylamoses1471
      @twylamoses1471 2 місяці тому +4

      Yeah she needs a little sprucing up

  • @yvonneatsu5323
    @yvonneatsu5323 2 місяці тому +26

    I work with 98% men who are multi millionaire men. There are a lot of great men. But as women we have to look presentable, speak nicely, take care of our physical self, and not being in our bubble. All the men who are my business partners are great men. As classy women, it’s important to find common interests and speak to these great men. They know other great men. If you open up to change, you will be surprised that your husband has been in front of you the whole time.

    • @Nicholes-Dad
      @Nicholes-Dad 2 місяці тому

      Exactly. You sound like a woman that gets it.

    • @Chikou14219
      @Chikou14219 2 місяці тому +2

      What industry are you in?

    • @chibaby0306
      @chibaby0306 Місяць тому

      How do I learn more things

  • @robinsnestradio
    @robinsnestradio 2 місяці тому +53

    High caliber men like high caliber and beautiful, fit, self aware women.

    • @lennylink8772
      @lennylink8772 2 місяці тому +3

      Fit and beautiful gets them to look. that is it.

    • @rickiesmith413
      @rickiesmith413 2 місяці тому +8

      Self awareness is big, some people don't realise that lips need moisture. Some people look tired and old because they won't groom themselves.

    • @Quinten4M
      @Quinten4M Місяць тому +2

      Women all you be is fit! Not young always! Sad Women wit no kids so out of shape.100k-200k man getting fit women even if they paying 😂

  • @gin376
    @gin376 2 місяці тому +25

    Ashley you are so right. When I lost weight and was at the gym , I was more confident and had so many guys. I gained weight and it’s not the same. I need to get back to myself and hit the gym.

    • @Nicholes-Dad
      @Nicholes-Dad Місяць тому +5

      It's just that simple; lose the weight and dating options improve.

  • @jacjackson4768
    @jacjackson4768 2 місяці тому +42

    Shes not lying... and you dont even have to overdo the clothing cause your confidence will draw men to you

  • @anonmon8550
    @anonmon8550 2 місяці тому +37

    What Ashley said gently was- she’s giving plain Jane. Therefore, it doesn’t matter where you go, bc the men are not checking for you! Take the glasses off. Make the hair more polished. We’re women of a certain age, never leave the house without makeup. No one is saying a lash at 8 am. But mix your foundation with your daily moisturizer-to make a tinted moisturizer, put concealer under the eyes, mascara, and lip gloss-always!
    Put on some perfume, get that signature scent! You will feel sexy and confident and you’ll draw men in.
    Think 2/3…out of hair, makeup, and outfit 2/3 has to be on point!

    • @DanteFortson
      @DanteFortson 2 місяці тому +1

      Plain jane is fine... overweight is not. We also don't care about makeup.
      You women give each other trash advice instead of just asking men what we want and then doing exactly what we ask for.
      Most of us successful men will choose a fit younger childless woman over an overweight older woman all day.

    • @rickiesmith413
      @rickiesmith413 2 місяці тому +3

      Yes, lips must be moisturized.

    • @angelacox8322
      @angelacox8322 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@DanteFortson I tend to agree, but the thing is men say they like "no makeup" but what they really mean is "natural looking makeup" -- what she described above is the type of makeup that gives a glow (esp to women late 20s and up), not heavy. If this lady had a little glow to her skin (even with better moisturizer and lip gloss) she would look 10xs better.
      Perhaps another way to put it -- Ashley is wearing heavy makeup, yet 99.9% of men are going to approach her over Nari. Much like women who proclaim to like "good guys", results speak differently.
      - Signed a woman that always wears makeup, married 20 yrs to a man that loves "natural". ❤

    • @ToniaAlex13
      @ToniaAlex13 29 днів тому

      You definitely Do Not need to wear makeup to look put together!!!

  • @Richard-Reloaded
    @Richard-Reloaded 2 місяці тому +98

    It seems like she wants to rush to the fairytale outcome without doing the work first. You have to be the best version of yourself to attract the best options in the market. You can't out strategize the realities of the dating market.

    • @moblack5883
      @moblack5883 2 місяці тому +18

      She feels her education and career should push her to the front of the line. That just doesn’t work lol.

    • @schokococoa575
      @schokococoa575 2 місяці тому

      @@moblack5883it doesn’t even work for men anymore either, definitely not going to work for a woman.

    • @DanteFortson
      @DanteFortson 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@@moblack5883 right... I'm so sick of their education and careers... I'll take a younger childless woman with no job over old overweight career women all day long.

    • @moblack5883
      @moblack5883 2 місяці тому +2

      @@DanteFortson are you dating someone with those qualities ?

    • @DanteFortson
      @DanteFortson 2 місяці тому

      @@moblack5883 I have 2 women. Both of which know each other and are in shape. Respectful and non combative. 1 is 41 and the other is 22 y/o aspiring model. Both are very attractive and we all had dinner together just 2 days ago.
      I happen to be tall and successful... and nothing most of you women think we want is remotely close to what men at my level actually want.
      We don't settle because we don't have to. We aren't monogamous unless we choose to be because we don't have to be. We don't deal with a lot of talk back nor do we play step daddy if we don't want to... and the majority of us don't.
      Listening to what us men say would actually help a lot of you but instead y'all get sugar coated advice from women that don't wanna hurt your feelings.
      Unattractive women likely aren't getting a HVM if she doesn't bring another woman to the table with her.
      Where it will fall apart for most women is trying to require monogamy. We can simply replace you with 2 women that don't ask for monogamy... and there are plenty out there. Many women are shooting way above their level and aren't even close to competing with our options.

  • @ThreehoodooSisters
    @ThreehoodooSisters 2 місяці тому +56

    She needs a makeover

    • @kingzfan2000
      @kingzfan2000 2 місяці тому

      She needs to lose weight, end of story.

    • @maxlogan7388
      @maxlogan7388 Місяць тому

      "She needs to be reincarnated"...Kevin Samuels.

  • @mkhonzakoketso9540
    @mkhonzakoketso9540 2 місяці тому +35

    She wasn't ready to receive the advice

    • @Nicholes-Dad
      @Nicholes-Dad Місяць тому +1

      Exactly. And that will continue to hold her back.

  • @jamipty
    @jamipty 2 місяці тому +41

    👉🏽 One thing about Ashley, she gone practice what she preach!! 😉 So don't come for her... keep it cute or keep it moving!! 😆

  • @chibaby0306
    @chibaby0306 Місяць тому +8

    “My stomach flat” baby Nara doesn’t think she needs to change a damn thing 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @maxlogan7388
      @maxlogan7388 Місяць тому +1

      Women in her circle been lying to her.

    • @PSYCHDEGREE63
      @PSYCHDEGREE63 23 дні тому

      It might be, but she has a lot of masculine energy

    • @maxlogan7388
      @maxlogan7388 23 дні тому +1

      @@PSYCHDEGREE63 and she ain't pretty

  • @Royal-kg8wp
    @Royal-kg8wp 2 місяці тому +11

    You weren't hard on her you were practical.

  • @Ameejack
    @Ameejack 2 місяці тому +15

    That analogy was so spot on!! Men are everywhere, they are always there. That’s a word!!It’s up to you to show up as your best self for them to see you!!

  • @tee7105
    @tee7105 20 днів тому +3

    As I get older I’m noticing that a lot of us (myself included) think that degrees and high-income jobs are what certain men care about… and that’s not the case. I grew up in a strict household that pushed higher education. While this isn’t bad and I’m grateful for the financial security I started to realize that the men that I was attracted to didn’t care about those things and I went a long time without making my looks a priority because I never felt that I had to. I’m getting to a point where it takes balance. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being intentional with your appearance and it doesn’t make you any less serious. I’m learning that taking pride in your appearance does not make you vain. If I can put in all this effort in school, and work and everyone else, I should be able to pour some of that back into myself too. I found that I was disciplined in career and school but lazy in other areas..

  • @marchgirl0719
    @marchgirl0719 2 місяці тому +12

    Yes facts , men are visual ..smart, great personality comes after they approach! …

  • @nikevabrown6614
    @nikevabrown6614 Місяць тому +3

    7:25 “when you look good and you look put together you won’t even make it to the location”. This is an actual factual! Men approach me everyday when I go outside, and even more so when I wear dresses or skirts.

  • @user-kz8xl8xr9v
    @user-kz8xl8xr9v 2 місяці тому +7

    I'm totally agreeing with you 💯....
    I'm a og now but bayybee back in the day i was that extraordinary young lady and went through to be that extraordinary middle aged woman.....
    I'm close to being a senior citizen but I'm still that lady..... Literally ‼️💯

  • @dogy1.2
    @dogy1.2 2 місяці тому +11

    Let's be real . If a man is already established why would he want to settle down when so many women him . I don't care how much a woman works on herself. The bottom line is that high earning men regardless of color are in demand .

    • @tye1939
      @tye1939 2 місяці тому +8

      Mostly for status reasons. In many of my networks, the majority of established men are married across all races. Whether they're sexually faithful is a different story though, most of them obviously not. Nonetheless, your point is still largely valid, because there's far less of an incentive for a successful man to get married and "settle down" today compared to 40yrs ago. The women are far easier to access, less sacred, and more entitled.

    • @nikevabrown6614
      @nikevabrown6614 Місяць тому +4

      Despite what is spewed in the media, many men want one woman. High caliber high character men who are grounded and truly living in their purpose don’t have time and have no desire to allocate their time/resources to multiple women. It’s counterproductive to their mission, defies discipline and quite frankly is a waste of energy.

  • @LisaS483
    @LisaS483 2 місяці тому +39

    She needs to glam up. Take makeup lessons, get a stylist, etc. start going to the opera and symphony, join the expensive gym.

  • @ebonidaneen5639
    @ebonidaneen5639 2 місяці тому +21

    I havent been in nyc in years but in midtown guys will stop you everywhere on the st , starbucks any place basically

    • @shygirl920
      @shygirl920 2 місяці тому +4

      Right! It's the same way. They'll approach you on the subway, on the street, at the park!

    • @ebonidaneen5639
      @ebonidaneen5639 2 місяці тому

      ​@shygirl920 yes I said on the live have lunch in Bryant Park. I remember telling my boss about the men n how bad it got she was overprotective like get pepper spray their neck 😂😂. Like on a busy block no 😂

    • @schokococoa575
      @schokococoa575 2 місяці тому +1

      It’s actually scary how these men will come to you in nyc💀 I was visiting and had a man trail me in his car until I went into the train entrance I needed😭

  • @jasminebaby3375
    @jasminebaby3375 2 місяці тому +9

    Ash is 💯💯💯 right. I hope she listen and book 30 mins consultation. This video is full of great informations❤❤❤

  • @prettiilexii672
    @prettiilexii672 2 місяці тому +10

    Ashley can you make a video on basic pieces we should have for every day wear when entering our 30s? Thanks ❤

  • @kekejefferson9219
    @kekejefferson9219 2 місяці тому +12

    Filter where?
    Get them, Ashley! 🔥

  • @Eyeluvjess
    @Eyeluvjess 2 місяці тому +14

    Ommmmg Ashley you’re so right‼️

  • @NewJohariClassic
    @NewJohariClassic Місяць тому +4

    I think Nari's typical work outfits look like what she's wearing in the video. If she gets more attention from the men she wants while she has her ends bumped and lashes then she'd have to do all that more often. Consistency is key!

  • @free2beme568
    @free2beme568 2 місяці тому +7

    Ashley is the truth, so glad I found your channel ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @g.ndiegebuchanan8862
    @g.ndiegebuchanan8862 2 місяці тому +2

    Love your perspectives and how you always keep it real but also real classy. Men and women both have self reflection and leveling up to do before they should even think to disparage the other sex for their wants. Subscribed.

  • @slayernae
    @slayernae Місяць тому +3

    Ashley always hits it right on the head! When you can’t even get all the way to where you going without being approached, you know you doing the damn thang!!! In real life doe!!! 😏😂❤

    • @nikevabrown6614
      @nikevabrown6614 Місяць тому

      Facts! 🎉🎉🎉

    • @PSYCHDEGREE63
      @PSYCHDEGREE63 23 дні тому

      Ashley body is straight 🔥🔥🔥, that a huge plus if you do in fact have that beautiful body, men truly desires to be seen with
      Ashley is absolutely beautiful on all levels 🌹🌹🌹

  • @maxlogan7388
    @maxlogan7388 Місяць тому +2

    Ashley didn't wanna tell her. The Godfather would have told her the truth.
    Kevin Samuels: "Be reincarnated, if you want a high value man!" 😂😂😂

  • @naturallove6615
    @naturallove6615 Місяць тому +1

    No lie I started going to the gym about two years ago and now I attract men that I have always thought was out of my league. And I mean fine idris elba type of men! I go to gym regularly and it feels so nice when they even notice my weight loss. Having a gym/yoga/step class/ run class hobby is good to get you out your normal routine and around new people

  • @jasminesaez4878
    @jasminesaez4878 2 місяці тому +10

    I started working out 🏋🏾‍♀️ honey 😊

  • @Dallas_214-wy1ix
    @Dallas_214-wy1ix 2 місяці тому +12

    I’m glad Ashley addressed the broke loser men who are always in the comment section 😂 they need to hear it.

    • @shaungarrett5291
      @shaungarrett5291 2 місяці тому

      Yall swear yall know someones bank account. You people keep showing why the black race is at the bottom and will remain there.

    • @shaungarrett5291
      @shaungarrett5291 2 місяці тому +1

      Its hilarious how she spoke about people (not specifically men) in the comment section and the filter stuff. Yet, you glossed over everything she stated about how a woman needs to improve herself. As if you ignored that part on purpose.

    • @juniorleslie4804
      @juniorleslie4804 Місяць тому

      Why does she get a millionaire?

  • @ennvee1989
    @ennvee1989 2 місяці тому +5

    She kind of reminds me of Oh Steph Co ❤

    • @TyWerks
      @TyWerks Місяць тому +1

      I love stephco

  • @CHRISTEL-LULU
    @CHRISTEL-LULU 2 місяці тому +22

    Nari is beautiful ❤️ , nice face, nice hands , she just needs a bit of “ drizzle “ …. Because unfortunately this is the reality out there!

    • @mzzzd818
      @mzzzd818 2 місяці тому +6

      Right, she is cute, but needs some umph..probably 4-5 months of serious leveling up

    • @CHRISTEL-LULU
      @CHRISTEL-LULU 2 місяці тому

      @@mzzzd818 …. It can even be 1-2 months, depending on willpower and budget 😀👍🏼

    • @shaungarrett5291
      @shaungarrett5291 2 місяці тому

      She is not beautiful!!! Yall need to start telling the truth. Beautiful women gets results. Clearly she is not getting results. Men dont find her beautiful, you females just cant stamd to.hurt each others feelings.

    • @ennvee1989
      @ennvee1989 2 місяці тому +1

      Yes she is just plain looking. No shade because I am a plain jane as well lol but I do put myself together when I go out with friends

    • @Polyglotgoddess
      @Polyglotgoddess 2 місяці тому

      @@mzzzd818More like a year😊

  • @tasintamron
    @tasintamron 6 днів тому

    Loved this video especially the last portion. Reminds me of the old videos you used to post. I love listening to them while I run! 😂❤ #coachash

  • @kekejefferson9219
    @kekejefferson9219 2 місяці тому +15

    "Let me stop playing with the lotion at night ".😂😂😂

    • @marriejames01
      @marriejames01 2 місяці тому +2

      I saw your comment as she said that. 😂

    • @meababy5409
      @meababy5409 2 місяці тому +1

      I cackled 😂

  • @esehomoghibo9447
    @esehomoghibo9447 2 місяці тому +4

    Thank you! I need to hear this ❤

  • @gracedrosie5127
    @gracedrosie5127 2 місяці тому +1

    love you Nari, Ashley you are the sister everyone need in life

  • @tinawalker5335
    @tinawalker5335 2 місяці тому +5

    Based on looks alone her best bet is middle aged white man.

  • @johnferebee9511
    @johnferebee9511 Місяць тому

    Thanks for the help in getting men and women together the RIGHT way.

  • @tanbutterfly8282
    @tanbutterfly8282 18 днів тому

    She preached on this one!!! Yeesss!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Polyglotgoddess
    @Polyglotgoddess 2 місяці тому +8

    She does not look fit and in shape but says her stomach is flat😁Is that the new euphemism for being overweight?

    • @taylorthenatural5509
      @taylorthenatural5509 2 місяці тому +4

      She straight up lied to Ashley. My stomach has a slight pouch and I'm 150 pounds. 5'8

    • @Quinten4M
      @Quinten4M Місяць тому +3

      Right 😂! Fitness self-awareness? No way she in shape 😂. Why Ashley need to tell women this?😂😮

    • @Nicholes-Dad
      @Nicholes-Dad Місяць тому

      😄

  • @leelee5593
    @leelee5593 2 місяці тому +2

    Ppl have to understand you can’t out work a bad diet weight loss starts in the kitchen. Sending prayers hugs and strength hope she finds someone.

  • @msn9565
    @msn9565 2 місяці тому +1

    Ashley, you are a godsend! Sending love from South Africa!

  • @citrustaco
    @citrustaco 2 місяці тому +5

    I don't know her, but I can see the truth. You don't just snap your fingers and declare yourself as highly coveted and expect to be entitled to the best. She wants top 10% of men. OK, fine, but those men want top 10% of women based on THEIR criteria. She feels left out and wondering why she can't get those men, yet there's also 90% of men she is ignoring and telling to bite the dust. She is passing up SO many other men that's right for her, but she's overvaluing herself. The equivalent would be an average man (pay wise) constantly chasing after top 10% women and continuing to fail, then wanting to turn around and blame all women for his predicament passing up lots of good women.
    At her current state, she's not going to attract a super rich man and needs to let that go. Rich men put in a LOT of work. To be with a rich man, you also have to put in a LOT of work. Even if I were a very rich man and attracted to her, I still wouldn't talk to her. Her focus seems to be on more of what I can provide for her and give her, than it is about ME. If my money were to dry up tomorrow in a stock market crash, will she be there for me? The answer is NO. She is looking for sponsorship and a lifestyle and many men can see that.
    Ashley is trying to be nice, but doesn't have the heart to tell her the honest truth. She is not beautiful in her present state and she needs to resort to clothes or makeup to look like someone she is not. Sorry to say that.

    • @Nicholes-Dad
      @Nicholes-Dad Місяць тому

      Agreed. Sometimes the truth hurts.

  • @megayummyrockstar
    @megayummyrockstar 2 місяці тому +4

    You told no lies 🫶🏾

  • @ArabellaCharm
    @ArabellaCharm 5 днів тому

    She's dressing "invisible". She looks married and like she doesn't have to impress anyone anymore. The intelligent women work so hard on the inside, that the outside just needs to be clean, neutral, and pressed. She just needs to find her inner Jacqueline from Boomerang lol. She can do this.

  • @Ndrreed
    @Ndrreed 8 днів тому

    6:51 She said “My stomach is relatively flat.” Right, and an elephant’s trunk is relatively small too. 😂

  • @JaneNoordpool
    @JaneNoordpool 29 днів тому +1

    Rich man choose who they want. They dont care if youre beautyfull, ugly, young, old, poor, rich. Women make puzzles about man but they dont. 🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @CarolynForney
    @CarolynForney 2 місяці тому +4

    Nari needs some polishing and trimming. She is too uptight.

  • @fitzgeraldsemelfort3938
    @fitzgeraldsemelfort3938 2 місяці тому +20

    You are what you attract

    • @kimberly329
      @kimberly329 2 місяці тому +22

      We literally attract everyone. We just don’t notice or entertain everyone. Who you entertain speaks to what’s happening inside of you, not what you attract.

    • @tallulahdozier
      @tallulahdozier 2 місяці тому +8

      @@kimberly329Thank you. Exactly this.

    • @Haz2288
      @Haz2288 2 місяці тому +2

      @@kimberly329 I think in this particular case, she's actually not attracting the man she has in her head. I don't think the problem is that Mr. Big is approaching her for a date at Carbone and she's turning him down. Gotta be real about that.

    • @kimberly329
      @kimberly329 2 місяці тому +1

      @@Haz2288 I think the problem is the men she’s interested in have a type and her appearance here doesn’t project that. Although it could with a few changes. Right now that guy might notice her for reasons that don’t align with something serious but it’s an attraction nonetheless.

    • @Haz2288
      @Haz2288 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@kimberly329 It sounds like you're agreeing with me. The problem isn't that she's entertaining the wrong men. She's not attracting (like romantic attraction) the guy she wants. Those guys are dating beautiful NYU grad students. She doesn't realize who she's competing against, unfortunately.

  • @esehomoghibo9447
    @esehomoghibo9447 2 місяці тому +3

    I think she should come back for date night looks

  • @DCRefugee123
    @DCRefugee123 Місяць тому +2

    Nari thinks she knows what she's doing and just needs to know where the men are. She's putting the cart before the horse. The key isn't being around men, it's how to behave when she's in their company. Ashley gave good guidance that Nari needed to work on maximizing her appearance first, but Nari didn't want to hear that. There are loads of men who can give her valuable guidance about how to present herself to men, but I'm confident Nari wouldn't want to hear that either. If a woman looks her best and conducts herself in a way that is pleasing to men, it doesn't matter where she goes, the men will find her.

  • @googleuser6250
    @googleuser6250 2 місяці тому +6

    To be so educated she sure can’t answer a direct question lol

  • @meababy5409
    @meababy5409 2 місяці тому +2

    Period Ashley 👏🏾

  • @tinawalker5335
    @tinawalker5335 2 місяці тому +1

    Talk that talk Big Ash!!

  • @shaungarrett5291
    @shaungarrett5291 2 місяці тому +2

    0:57
    She said most black men in America dont make enough to have a family, yet black women are still having babies by them. Also, black men still average 45k per year. Thats more than enough considering men dont spend frivolously like women.

    • @Nicholes-Dad
      @Nicholes-Dad Місяць тому +1

      Yes, I thought that comment was offensive.

    • @Speakinurmynd
      @Speakinurmynd Місяць тому +1

      I was thinking the same thing! BW are still having babies by broke dudes. But the narrative that BW are making more than BM has been proven false so many times.
      I believe the average income for BM has reached 50k, which is the US average! BM make more than BW on average.

  • @nikki09190912
    @nikki09190912 2 місяці тому +5

    Hersh!!! Yass!

    • @Isika123
      @Isika123 2 місяці тому +2

      😁. Love her feistiness!!!

  • @happyholidays8230
    @happyholidays8230 Місяць тому

    She’s preaching!

  • @Sassyminaj
    @Sassyminaj Місяць тому +3

    A lot women will never get the man of their dreams.

  • @delightfular9200
    @delightfular9200 2 місяці тому

    Nari is a very beautiful and I found lovely woman. I really hope she books the 1-2-1 with Ashley... she will set her straight...

  • @StandingPeacefully
    @StandingPeacefully Місяць тому +1

    Kevin Samuels said it …

  • @SkyLove80.
    @SkyLove80. 2 місяці тому +2

    Until she lose the weight if she choses, if she puts on a fitted suit, heals, a high bun, and lipstick, foundation, she'll be bangin

    • @Nicholes-Dad
      @Nicholes-Dad Місяць тому

      Agreed. The weight loss is half the battle and will have a huge impact on her results.

  • @marchgirl0719
    @marchgirl0719 2 місяці тому +2

    How much for a 30 min session

  • @suec8337
    @suec8337 2 місяці тому +1

    Nari needs needs new eye glasses to begin.

  • @Eyeluvjess
    @Eyeluvjess 2 місяці тому +12

    She’s gorgeous!

    • @islandprincess9666
      @islandprincess9666 2 місяці тому +5

      If she wants to attract the type of men she wants to and she is not getting the results she wants she needs to follow her advice and level up herself. Working on being well put together, working on losing 10-15 pounds, and working on her makeup and hair and mindset is EXCELLENT advice.

    • @taylorthenatural5509
      @taylorthenatural5509 2 місяці тому +14

      ​@islandprincess9666 To be honest she needs to lose 30lbs, but 15 is a great start. And I'm sorry but I don't believe her when she says her stomach is flat.

    • @ShaneusSnake
      @ShaneusSnake 2 місяці тому +7

      Men disagree.

    • @Haz2288
      @Haz2288 2 місяці тому +11

      Comments like this are exactly why she's stuck. She truly thinks she's gorgeous and that her look isn't the problem, when it has a lot to do with it

    • @islandprincess9666
      @islandprincess9666 2 місяці тому +1

      @@taylorthenatural5509 I agree she looks like she needs to lose more then 15 to 20 lbs. Probably closer to 30 lbs. I have noticed that the women who come on her UA-cam fir advice if they are already in shape the don’t mind standing up or showing a picture of themselves. She never offered to stand up so she could see how she looks so I doubt if her stomach is flat. She looks plain and she needs to fix herself up with makeup, jewelry, having her nails done and wearing nice clothing so that she looks put together but her weight loss must come first before any of her clothes will look right on her. Women need to look right in their clothes to turn heads.

  • @truthseeker4460
    @truthseeker4460 2 місяці тому +3

    She could probably lose a little weight as well. Men that make her income probably want a smaller women. She is pretty, and has pretty hair. Get contacts instead of glasses, and wear lip stick and earrings.😊

    • @lennylink8772
      @lennylink8772 2 місяці тому +1

      lol!!! Probably?

    • @moblack5883
      @moblack5883 2 місяці тому

      All men want slim women. Has nothing to do with economics.

  • @yvettenziffa7556
    @yvettenziffa7556 2 місяці тому +2

    Amen Ashley!!!

  • @Angelica._.officalll
    @Angelica._.officalll Місяць тому +4

    Ashley: "I'm mot saying you're not beautiful" Lol, that's exactly what Ashley is saying. The reality is, she is not beautiful. She's not gorgeous. She is average - like most women. Even if she lost the weight I can see she'd still be average. And thus, will end up with an average dude and not a rich dude. But she does not want to face that reality. And average is ok. There's nothing wrong with average!
    Nature granted true beauty (guy beauty) and looks to only a small percentage of women, despite how they gas each other up with lies. Nature is not fair, and it does not have to be. I mean, every woman thinks she is beautiful. And every woman tells other woman they're beautiful.
    If you're average be satisfied with a man on your level, which is also average: in money, wealth, looks, height, etc

    • @Speakinurmynd
      @Speakinurmynd Місяць тому

      The most sensible comments ive seen so far! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @TyWerks
    @TyWerks 2 місяці тому +1

    She's a cute woman , articulate.

  • @lennylink8772
    @lennylink8772 2 місяці тому +1

    Basics: Fit, Feminine, ,Friendly...she does not possess two of those. Looks easy 40-50lbs extra. Hire trainers and nutrition people.
    Her mother, aunts and grandmothers.....It was their responsibility to raise her to be a wife and desirable.

  • @ayanak4682
    @ayanak4682 23 дні тому +1

    She is delusional. I mean that in the nicest way possible.

  • @brown_beauty7499
    @brown_beauty7499 8 днів тому

    Norie can do it. Lose some weight and get some makeup. She already has a cute face. And get some contacts!

  • @southerngent2011
    @southerngent2011 Місяць тому +1

    Lets be honest, she needs lessons from Supahead not Ashley.

    • @Speakinurmynd
      @Speakinurmynd Місяць тому

      If she gets lessons from both, she'll have men tripping over themselves to get to her!

    • @southerngent2011
      @southerngent2011 Місяць тому

      @@Speakinurmynd You sound like a female. You don't know men.🤣🤣🤣

  • @ddavis8988
    @ddavis8988 2 місяці тому

    3:30 into this video.
    She has a problem liatening and answering questions that she asked directly.
    Most people in general have this problem.
    Most dudes about their bauiness are not gonna keep asking yiu the same question over and over waiting for you to comprehend the question.
    She asked her directly, how are you showing up?
    Then she proceeds to tell you which restaurants she does or does not go to. That's a turn-off for any man. Its especually turn off for a man who values his time.

  • @sabrinae.6361
    @sabrinae.6361 9 днів тому

    IMO she needs a makeover… HVM ignore this look

  • @876me7
    @876me7 Місяць тому

    She’s being willfully obtuse and acting like she doesn’t get what Ashley is saying.

    • @moblack5883
      @moblack5883 29 днів тому

      Because she bought into the idea that her degree would supersede natural selection in attraction.