Like Ashley said, he's getting his mindset from redpill podcasts instead of the real world. This tells me that he really doesn't travel that much. If he did, he would know that the women on social media does not represent the majority. He just wanted an argument. Glad Ashley set him straight.
Yes. Some people do not understand social media is not a reality. It’s an artificial world. We see this commonly when people are creating a storyline to gain followers and views.
This guy does not actually interact with women. All of his talking points are based on conversations that he has heard on podcasts and social media. This is part of the problem, a bunch of corny guys sit around having hypothetical conversations about what should happen and what they would do, but none of them are actually doing anything.
These dudes are a never ending fake contradiction. The fact that they don’t even feel embarrassed for being so phony says even more about how little self awareness these dudes have
“If you look at it, if you look at social media, if you look at what’s going on right now” if the loud women who aren’t wifey material are on social media then get off of social media. People are making things harder for themselves than it has to be.
What is wrong with taking a woman on a picnic? Men we must be creative. Kay, you don’t have to spend a lot of money. I have not always had money for 5 star restaurants. But when I didn’t I was creative. Ladies love creativity.
If u take a woman on a picnic ur getting clowned, ridiculed as a broke boy, and women aren't coming out n the sun to possibly risk makeup failure as that is big upkeep investment in the transaction. Ur talking about courtship which is meeting the family then picnic, carnival, farmers market, etc. All this new dating is frostitution , ho & trick play at best
@@Joshua-eo5hr The fella had a problem for every solution. Therefore, whatever you focus on is your reality. If you perceive modern women to be a hurdle, they will be because that's what your energy will attract. No happy healthy minded woman wants to be in the presence of negativity.
@@Joshua-eo5hr What do you think carves our reality? Is it our thoughts & actions, or do you think reality is just a deck of cards, and we're all sitting by waiting on our hand to be dealt?
@@Joshua-eo5hryou exist in the west lol it’s like you think projecting your failures will make you look better The men that dominate you aren’t impressed. They tell me so all the time
@@Joshua-eo5hrlies but also thats why she said head back home or to another country in Africa. Yall just want the baddie hoes to be submissive housewives. Outside and touch grass.
@@ArtLee68It’s not a competition, so please don’t mistake my comment for that, but I think it can lean towards a little easier for attractive men to date than women b/c the men are usually the ones approaching or making the first move. I think it’s a difference in outcomes for a pursuer vs the ones who wait for something/someone to come to them.
They always have a dusty and substandard look...They go through these fake scenarios and get so worked up that they ruin any real interactions they get...As soon as I hear any red pill phrases or see the behavior - game over...It's a mental health issue at this point
Emphasis on “they go through these fake scenarios and get so worked up”. This can be seen by him bringing up that list. Like you’re worried about dating a woman because you think she’s going to deny you because of the list? Do you know how many people haven’t seen it? The only place I know that’s on there is Cheesecake Factory because of that Cheesecake Factory lady. If you ask me to name 5 places off that list I can’t tell you and this is taking into consideration that I saw that list, I just didn’t care to remember what was on there.
I'm actually proud of my "substandard" look. It's easier to eliminate superficial ladies. Men who appear to be the part are often players who run through women like dogs...seems to me the criticism needs to be directed in their attention. The women entertain them more often and then ask "where are all the good men"...maybe they have the appearance you don't like???
This first man is so worried about getting tricked out of food that it’s alarming . If you are so worried about that how in the world are you going to deal with marriage, and having kids ? They have no problem dropping money on trips and going out to eat with friends, but when it comes to wanting a quality lady suddenly they want a bang for their buck. I am content that the standards for women globally are improving. Please avoid men like this who make you question and earn your value .
Ashley , you’re absolutely right. A lot of men are saying they want this quiet and submissive woman because it’s sort of trendy now. I’ve never subscribed to this and like you I believe that even the men who say that they would be bored with that woman. That woman to be at home, being this woman, he says he wants while he’s out chasing the woman who is opinionated and feisty
Yupp a lot of men say they want the plain Jane’s and how these IG baddies aren’t wife material, but they will cheat on their plain Jane wife for the IG baddies at first chance they get 🙄
I don't think it's a trend, this has long been popular opinion. I myself actually like aggressive women, but I differ from most of my friends. Most women prefer masculine men, it's only a problem when we desire what they're not.
Women who are not on social media are professionals who don’t have time for the internet. She is grounded in her life and doesn’t have a need for things that take up too much of her time. Be creative in how to meet women. He travels, on a cruise, on a plane, in the airport, in the airport lounges . Be creative, smile and have fun.
Facts. I did not know much about any Social Media until AFTER I retired. I was too busy engaging in my profession, being a husband of a professional Black woman, and being a father.
@aestheticmikey3826 not for the general public nor consumer viewing. You had to be at a certain echelon to view it or at least in proximity. That man doesn't have access to quality women because he is fascinated and still has an appetite for low vibrational women.
Many men have fostered these preconceived notions about women and dating. They then date from this mastered negative point of view. They may come across many great women but the moment she does anything he finds to fit his negative view he thinks his notions are 100% correct. However what is never mentioned is these type of men project their negative view when dating. You hear it in conversations with them…
He told on himself don't let this man fool you men like this be looking for a wife but be doing them all kinds of dirty some men aren't ready for wife's!!!
There are plenty traditional Nigerian and black American women. Several of them. We even called them pick me, but none of them ever get picked. These men are talking to the women who they claim they don’t want. It’s so hilarious to witness in real time.
He definitely was not there was not there to learn he was there to be condescending towards women bc he is not having the results he wants he was hoping ashley said the wrong thing😂 he did all that to say he doesn’t have that issue he wanted to debate 😂😂
Naw, he just faltered on his talking points and premise instead of standing on business.😂😂 The dude definitely was making points but was absolutely the wrong messenger.
The first caller is very emotional and lacks logic. Wanting the map to the perfect women is lazy…..just like wanting the map to the perfect man is lazy! Rare things are not in abundance and that’s where the problem starts because everyone feels like the deserve the top % person, job, home, lifestyle with minimal effort!
This❤, you have to change certain thing about yourself .men and women,you can’t do minamal work and expect great results… people that think they can are delusional
Second caller is a perfect example of a woman overlooking obvious red flags to engage with a man she knows damn well she should have never even been involved with. When she caught him in a lie their interaction should have been permanently discontinued.🤦🏾♂️
@@Richard-Reloaded not to someone who is playing around with someone's feelings. Do u know how it hurts to be played with for no reason when you are genuine?
I love that Ashley remains positive about the dating world. I’m guilty of being pessimistic based on my latest experiences but remaining positive might be the key.
Once a man ghosts you, he should never get a second chance…unless it’s life or death. 99 times it’s not. Save yourself the headache and block & delete. Belle is a beautiful girl, she needs to just move on. She was already settling from jump and then he’s not even treating her like he should.
He didnt grow up in Nigeria. I gre up there, went to uni there, worked there. Nigerian men would throw it to our face that Western women were better because of 50-50. 😅😅😅😅. An average Nigerian chic then goes out on a date, would request a takeaway/2go for her friend/s. We are not following the west. Even the weddings the man takes care of it. My husband took care of the wedding cost. It was a big wedding. I was working and only thing I paid for was my mother and mother inlaw's attires. He paid my wedding dresses down to shoes everything. It was when I came here that I heard women sponsor the wedding. Different cultures
Omg this first guy spends too much time watching fresh n fit and also don’t get me started with what one of the podcaster did versus what they preaching lmao. This man just Yapping and he gives me “chase me vibes” like 💅
He said, does he need the “Holy Spirit” Sir she said discernment, which is your internal compass. If you are grounded and level headed, you will be able to sense if a person is on the same vibration as you. However, if you don’t embody this balance. Then yes, you will choose poorly. No thank you.
the problem is the women that have the qualities they won't don't have the looks they want. they want these traits in a barbie doll and it doesn't work like that.
Dudes like him wanna date outta thier league they want the IG MODELS and she gotta be 20yrs old and he has to be able to mold her mind 😮 smh than he says ...oh i don't have that issue BUT JUST WANTS TO DEBATE
He exposed his issue. “they’re not the loudest”. Quality women aren’t “loud”. They’re poised. They don’t seek validation/attention because they’re whole. So naturally you would look for the woman who isn’t as overt. She might not have a platform or followers or social media at all. You’re not going to see her at every event. Just say you lack discernment. He’s seeking a wife but has no idea what one looks like.
❤️ Love you Ashley. Your so Patient my Love. Young Men Go to the festivals for your culture and look around and pass out your networking cards. Like back in the day and then communicate on your phone when you get a hit on your networking. Or go to networking functions to meet someone of your social class. Look at the adds for these festivities.
Exactly, I think he's married or in a committed relationship, BET, he is definitely playing with her, she just needs to walk away she's wasting her time, he ghosted her for a big reason
Clocked it that he was Nigerian the first time, sir figure out what you're looking for, there are many women out there and there are various ways to meet people
The fact he on here in a velvet robe and Kool Moe Dee glasses talking out the side of his neck is enough to ignore everything he said… clearly he is corny and can’t get nor does he interact with the woman he desires.
These men are chronically online! This is not how our parents, grandparents or hell how you even met friends! Like stop being scared of “wasting your time” and just get to know people. Because even your perception of people on social media can be warped. No one I’ve met is a 100% like there profile people are multifaceted!
The manosphere Is merely a bubble in the echo chamber with these guys throw around all of these theories. He’s coming up with every excuse as to why he can the ideal woman. Like she said get out These chats and red pill bubbles and into the real world.
The red pill arguments are self defeating. It's tiring and not even worth arguing with someone like that because like a lot of folks have mentioned, the arguments are hypothetical. These people are actually not connected to the real world.
4:22 baby, get off the internet and touch grass. I don’t know any woman who says you can’t take her to Cheesecake Factory. That list was made up by a very small group of single women who will probably forever stay single or switching from man to man.
Men need to understand it in the current climate, where there is so much praying on women with spiking drinks and spiking your food. It is best to go to a restaurant until she gets to know you and know she can trust you, because no smart woman is going to come to your house and eat food. She didn’t watch you prepare or a drink she didn’t see you make whether it be a home date or a picnic. It’s about safety and self preservation.
There are so many places to meet beautiful single women these men aren’t creative, they go straight to the bar because it’s easy and it increases the chances of a woman lowering her guard. Why don’t they go to church? Volunteer? Take a specialized fitness class? Join a club? Get into a new hobby? Take a painting class? Go to a wine festival? They want to skip dating and go straight to the bed because they’re scared of the woman not liking them. They’re lazy and scared and that’s why they’re creating podcasts to project their hatred for women they aren’t even trying to find. Can you believe that?
He sounds lazy making all these excuses. He's looking for someone out of his league. He's watching to much Kevin Samuels wannabe. Find out what she's into and make a date around that
Smh a walking RED FLAG SMH whatever happened to the traditional see someone and introduce yourself than its yes or no and keep it moving! Smh i don't think he knows what's coming out of his piehole lol
Even his bpdy lamguage shows that he just came online to debate. He's not actually looking for a solution, he just came to keep throwing differnt talking points at Ashley so he could get a reaction.
Is meeting women in person really this difficult? I don’t think you should arbitrarily spend on each woman who is physically attractive. You meet in person… let her know you’re interested.. maybe have a 2 min conversation.. exchange info. Have a real conversation. Set up the date. The conversation should give you an idea if you want to move forward.
I came on here thinking this was going to be an intelligent convo/debate I was absolutely wrong😒 the callers were delusional and majority of the advice you gave them was really just basic knowledge that they should possess anyway🥴
@@idontplaygames3k296 Okay, my comment was 5 months ago but I'm thinking I was probably saying that A Person's (random, hypothetical person) maturity level - and perhaps also their personality - would determine whether or not they go for someone who is "fiesty." Not speaking of a specific person or gender. People can have bad pickers no matter their gender 💁♀
@sweetumsDenise Being fiesty isn't really a positive trait for either gender when it comes to building a healthy relationship.😂 I agree with the personality part of your statement, but the rest was humorous. I guess you mean a "little bit" fiesty is generally acceptable as a personality trait in people moreso women.
@@idontplaygames3k296 No my dear, I agree that fiesty wouldn't be considered positive concerning a healthy relationship...thus why in my reply to the original comment which said "nope" to fiesty, I mentioned it speaking to his maturity, as in he doesn't go for that b/c he has a level of maturity. I also mentioned yesterday people having "bad pickers" when referring to people who might go for someone fiesty for whatever reason. I don't get how you misunderstood that, lol, but hope this is more clear. Ultimately I hope people choose and work for healthy. And if people notice traits in themselves that aren't, I hope they work on themselves for themselves and others. I help people who are working on emotional intelligence growth and fiesty is generally something people want less of 😅 While SOME people do like fiestiness in women, I can acknowledge that without thinking it is a good or healthy trait. It's also relative, so there's that.
Unfortunately women most times are speaking from pride instead of strength. Women must learn how to fight their desires for a man because if you don't you will find yourself putting your expectations aside and taking the first man that tell you you're cute.
For the first guy, you impress by being thoughtful and creative. Take her to places that you feel she would like based on your conversations. Show that you listen, are considerate and thoughtful. Ask her what she likes, based on those responses think of something fun that would interest her then gauge her excitement by asking her what she thinks and take action to plan it out.
4TH CALLER:SOMETIMES WE ASK U BACK JUST TO TEST TO SEE IF U READY TO PROGRESS THE RELATIONSHIP, THATS HOW MEN ARE… HE WASNT DISRESPECTFUL WITH HIS REQUEST … SO JUST DECLINE & KEEP DATING HIM BUT THE CLOCK IS TICKING.
3:28 this man acts like you can’t go to the park or simply have a couple of phone conversations. I knew within 2 phone conversations if I wanted to get to know someone further.
The first guy is the main reason why I don’t deal with people who love problems for solutions 😂 I couldn’t take him seriously coming on the live in a robe 😂 sir where are your clothes?!🤣🤦🏽♀️
Like Ashley said, he's getting his mindset from redpill podcasts instead of the real world. This tells me that he really doesn't travel that much. If he did, he would know that the women on social media does not represent the majority. He just wanted an argument. Glad Ashley set him straight.
Yes. Some people do not understand social media is not a reality. It’s an artificial world. We see this commonly when people are creating a storyline to gain followers and views.
This guy does not actually interact with women. All of his talking points are based on conversations that he has heard on podcasts and social media. This is part of the problem, a bunch of corny guys sit around having hypothetical conversations about what should happen and what they would do, but none of them are actually doing anything.
yes absolutely
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Correct!!!!!
He said he doesn’t have this issue personally! He just wanted to debate he must have a podcast 🤦🏾♀️
@Pre0115 I hope you could tell that he was lying.
It was the equivalent of "I am asking for a friend."
Ladies remember this too...There are SOOOOOOO many men who are doing their thing out here. Yall gotta log off and get out here and LIVE!
He don’t want NO good woman he want to be up in an ig model face wanting traditional outcomes 😂
😂😂😂
Exactly.
These dudes are a never ending fake contradiction. The fact that they don’t even feel embarrassed for being so phony says even more about how little self awareness these dudes have
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@@IntegrityMeansAllITS SO EMBARRASSING 😂😂😂
“If you look at it, if you look at social media, if you look at what’s going on right now” if the loud women who aren’t wifey material are on social media then get off of social media. People are making things harder for themselves than it has to be.
Yes. If your type isn’t on a platform get off the platform. If type is in a certain then go to that place.
What is wrong with taking a woman on a picnic? Men we must be creative. Kay, you don’t have to spend a lot of money. I have not always had money for 5 star restaurants. But when I didn’t I was creative. Ladies love creativity.
We absolutely do. A thoughtfully planned out date is a turn on
Nothing.
I love a nice picnic
If u take a woman on a picnic ur getting clowned, ridiculed as a broke boy, and women aren't coming out n the sun to possibly risk makeup failure as that is big upkeep investment in the transaction. Ur talking about courtship which is meeting the family then picnic, carnival, farmers market, etc. All this new dating is frostitution , ho & trick play at best
@@aestheticmarc if you are dating the right woman who actually likes you she would most likely enjoy this
He's creating his own hurdles. 💅🏾
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Nope the modern woman is a hurdle
@@Joshua-eo5hr The fella had a problem for every solution. Therefore, whatever you focus on is your reality. If you perceive modern women to be a hurdle, they will be because that's what your energy will attract. No happy healthy minded woman wants to be in the presence of negativity.
@@Fancypolkadots I don't believe in creating my own reality bs reality is real not some magical fairytale
@@Joshua-eo5hr What do you think carves our reality? Is it our thoughts & actions, or do you think reality is just a deck of cards, and we're all sitting by waiting on our hand to be dealt?
In his red pill bubble, he has been told that there are no good women out here and so he’s working from that premise
They don't exist in the west
@@Joshua-eo5hryou exist in the west lol it’s like you think projecting your failures will make you look better
The men that dominate you aren’t impressed. They tell me so all the time
@@Joshua-eo5hrlies but also thats why she said head back home or to another country in Africa. Yall just want the baddie hoes to be submissive housewives. Outside and touch grass.
@@Joshua-eo5hr Stay off the internet. Did you heard a word Ashley said?
@@FeiTheVillain What's that going to do? This is my lived experience and statistics are on my side.
Ashley definitely handled that first guy. Yes, yes and yes!😂
She did
Notice guys aren't allowed to criticize you.
Ashley, bring Fashion Friday back to UA-cam.
Miss you boo
@@alinag844Your profile pic is gorgeous.
Love your comments sir! I think you should join one of the lives and speak knowledge
Yes!! I hope she brings it back awe :/
Everyone wants it to come back, but everyone is also too shy to hit the link and most of the show is Ashley asking ppl. to come up lol…..
Attractive men who have something going on for themselves aren’t having trouble dating.
I agree. Neither are beautiful women and are fit.
Especially black men...they are literally outnumbered
@@ArtLee68It’s not a competition, so please don’t mistake my comment for that, but I think it can lean towards a little easier for attractive men to date than women b/c the men are usually the ones approaching or making the first move. I think it’s a difference in outcomes for a pursuer vs the ones who wait for something/someone to come to them.
@@sweetumsDenisealso because there are normally more women than men
@@ArtLee68exactly. Anyone complaining is simply not able to at the very least lead with their looks.
They always have a dusty and substandard look...They go through these fake scenarios and get so worked up that they ruin any real interactions they get...As soon as I hear any red pill phrases or see the behavior - game over...It's a mental health issue at this point
Emphasis on “they go through these fake scenarios and get so worked up”. This can be seen by him bringing up that list. Like you’re worried about dating a woman because you think she’s going to deny you because of the list? Do you know how many people haven’t seen it? The only place I know that’s on there is Cheesecake Factory because of that Cheesecake Factory lady. If you ask me to name 5 places off that list I can’t tell you and this is taking into consideration that I saw that list, I just didn’t care to remember what was on there.
I'm actually proud of my "substandard" look. It's easier to eliminate superficial ladies. Men who appear to be the part are often players who run through women like dogs...seems to me the criticism needs to be directed in their attention. The women entertain them more often and then ask "where are all the good men"...maybe they have the appearance you don't like???
He's so worried about the things he sees online. He doesn't even have any real life experiences to talk about
Is he literally asking her how to have a normal social interaction? What has happened to people?
They spend too much time on the internet.
@@shadeenah8791yes!!
He want some damn attention. You know how they say "All questions are good questions" His was dumb Goofy
This first man is so worried about getting tricked out of food that it’s alarming . If you are so worried about that how in the world are you going to deal with marriage, and having kids ? They have no problem dropping money on trips and going out to eat with friends, but when it comes to wanting a quality lady suddenly they want a bang for their buck. I am content that the standards for women globally are improving. Please avoid men like this who make you question and earn your value .
Ashley these braids fit you perfectly 😍
I was thinking the same thing 😊 the braids, the softer makeup 🤌🏾🤌🏾 And to me she’s looking younger. Always beautiful 💖
@@sweetumsDenise yess so prettty
Yes & those glasses 🤌🏽
Ashley , you’re absolutely right. A lot of men are saying they want this quiet and submissive woman because it’s sort of trendy now. I’ve never subscribed to this and like you I believe that even the men who say that they would be bored with that woman. That woman to be at home, being this woman, he says he wants while he’s out chasing the woman who is opinionated and feisty
Facts!
Thank you sir for telling the truth out here!! 😆
Yupp a lot of men say they want the plain Jane’s and how these IG baddies aren’t wife material, but they will cheat on their plain Jane wife for the IG baddies at first chance they get 🙄
I don't think it's a trend, this has long been popular opinion. I myself actually like aggressive women, but I differ from most of my friends. Most women prefer masculine men, it's only a problem when we desire what they're not.
Exactly! These are exactly the women that get cheated on.
Women who are not on social media are professionals who don’t have time for the internet. She is grounded in her life and doesn’t have a need for things that take up too much of her time. Be creative in how to meet women. He travels, on a cruise, on a plane, in the airport, in the airport lounges . Be creative, smile and have fun.
I agree. Yet, you had a little time to drop into the comments. So there are some high quality ladies on social media.😉
Facts. I did not know much about any Social Media until AFTER I retired. I was too busy engaging in my profession, being a husband of a professional Black woman, and being a father.
He has NO ZERO people skills and blames it on women
Lambos and Porche don't have commercials because they don't have too. Most good woman don't need advertisements.
Drop that 🎤 and walk away.
nah I work in the upscale vip Suites. They actually do have commercials
@aestheticmikey3826 not for the general public nor consumer viewing. You had to be at a certain echelon to view it or at least in proximity. That man doesn't have access to quality women because he is fascinated and still has an appetite for low vibrational women.
@aestheticmikey3826 makes sense you have to be a part of an exclusive class or in proximity to it, not just the general public
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Many men have fostered these preconceived notions about women and dating. They then date from this mastered negative point of view. They may come across many great women but the moment she does anything he finds to fit his negative view he thinks his notions are 100% correct. However what is never mentioned is these type of men project their negative view when dating. You hear it in conversations with them…
Those women are hiding from you sir. Lol why on earth do you expect them to be loud on social media??? You don't know what you want
Ladies are supposed to be seen and not heard traditionally
@@sparklesp9304who cares?? Now women are loud like they should be.
He told on himself don't let this man fool you men like this be looking for a wife but be doing them all kinds of dirty some men aren't ready for wife's!!!
The women he wants don't want him back he needs to date in his league
If he gets his money and his swag up he will more into another league.
He doesn't like women.
Exactly!!
@@ArtLee68which is what he needs to do before looking for women
@@ArtLee68nope no sensible woman wants a man with his personality. quality women focus on character
There are plenty traditional Nigerian and black American women. Several of them. We even called them pick me, but none of them ever get picked. These men are talking to the women who they claim they don’t want. It’s so hilarious to witness in real time.
There's no traditional women in America barely any so few it's less than 10% of the population.
Because they aren’t attracted to the pick me women
@@Deevine_ we are
Do these "men" actually remove themselves from social media and go out into the real world and interact with real women?!
He needs to go outside and touch grass. does he expect to find a wife on social media get so for real
😂😂😂😂😂
The first guy seemingly had ALL the pushback for problems but then he was like “personally I don’t have these issues” 😅😅 People are a trip.
😂😂😂 I peeped that, he had all of those issues and then some.
He definitely was not there was not there to learn he was there to be condescending towards women bc he is not having the results he wants he was hoping ashley said the wrong thing😂 he did all that to say he doesn’t have that issue he wanted to debate 😂😂
Naw, he just faltered on his talking points and premise instead of standing on business.😂😂 The dude definitely was making points but was absolutely the wrong messenger.
@@JP-gx6piyes. 😂😂 coming on live show with a robe on 😂😂😂 he does
Sooo .... This guy sounds kinda bitter. I really don't get the impression that he does the self work to get the girls the wants🤦
You already know he approaches women out of his league and uses that rejection as fuel for hate and negativity.
@@rosewatersweetteaI just said something like this before scrolling through this but ur right hun
Agreed.
Truth. I don’t think he does all the traveling he claims, either! 🤦🏾♀️
The first caller is very emotional and lacks logic. Wanting the map to the perfect women is lazy…..just like wanting the map to the perfect man is lazy! Rare things are not in abundance and that’s where the problem starts because everyone feels like the deserve the top % person, job, home, lifestyle with minimal effort!
This❤, you have to change certain thing about yourself .men and women,you can’t do minamal work and expect great results… people that think they can are delusional
I miss the days when men persued and women let them. There weren't all of these weird expectations. Everyone just knew their roles
Really.. I guarantee you dont want that arent you a feminist?
Second caller is a perfect example of a woman overlooking obvious red flags to engage with a man she knows damn well she should have never even been involved with. When she caught him in a lie their interaction should have been permanently discontinued.🤦🏾♂️
They all lie even in marriage. The best revenge is to pretend to be a fool and drop them when they get attached.
@@trixieke8462 that's horrible advice.
@@Richard-Reloaded not to someone who is playing around with someone's feelings. Do u know how it hurts to be played with for no reason when you are genuine?
@@trixieke8462 therapy
She was frustrating
Ashley handled that conversation really well. Thank you for enlightening the young man on your show and your audience
I love Ashley having an abundance mindset with the first guy ❤
I love that Ashley remains positive about the dating world. I’m guilty of being pessimistic based on my latest experiences but remaining positive might be the key.
She's not very smart 😅
Good grief, ugh. Where is the personality? Where is the balance? Too much emphasis on the wrong things.
That’s a fact
You can't help everyone. He's redpill, saying he wants something, but listening to content that makes you hate the very thing you say you want.
“You have to get off these apps and STOP listening to podcasts” 👏🏾 ❤️
Step number 1 get off the internet and get in the real world.
Once a man ghosts you, he should never get a second chance…unless it’s life or death. 99 times it’s not. Save yourself the headache and block & delete. Belle is a beautiful girl, she needs to just move on. She was already settling from jump and then he’s not even treating her like he should.
He’s the woman he doesn’t want
Wait… he’s Nigerian and still complaining about women? Nigeria has some of the most traditional, educated women on the planet. This has to be fake.
He didnt grow up in Nigeria. I gre up there, went to uni there, worked there. Nigerian men would throw it to our face that Western women were better because of 50-50. 😅😅😅😅. An average Nigerian chic then goes out on a date, would request a takeaway/2go for her friend/s. We are not following the west. Even the weddings the man takes care of it. My husband took care of the wedding cost. It was a big wedding. I was working and only thing I paid for was my mother and mother inlaw's attires. He paid my wedding dresses down to shoes everything. It was when I came here that I heard women sponsor the wedding. Different cultures
@ijeonu2405 So, if not following, then leading?
Omg this first guy spends too much time watching fresh n fit and also don’t get me started with what one of the podcaster did versus what they preaching lmao. This man just Yapping and he gives me “chase me vibes” like 💅
When I met my husband, I was nicely pursued, AND he knew how to fix a car. I loved it! This was in 2020.
He’s an incel!! Wearing a robe…
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Exactly
So what who cares
I dont understand why ppl are over complicating dating. Its not that hard. The overthinking is what is killing people.
These men on podcasts simply have NO GAME
That’s the real issue.
I wish Ashley wouldve asked him what he did on his last 1st date.
Great question.
People don’t know how to be social. It’s weird. No one knows how to go outside meet each other and have fun. Why is it such a task????😂😂😂
He said, does he need the “Holy Spirit” Sir she said discernment, which is your internal compass. If you are grounded and level headed, you will be able to sense if a person is on the same vibration as you. However, if you don’t embody this balance. Then yes, you will choose poorly. No thank you.
If he adore me, dior me😂❤ never heard that one before
Why don’t they just get the women that they want and stop complaining.Or is it that women simply don’t want them.The complaints are old and tired.
I said same thing as he was debating with Ashley. He had an answer for everything! I wish they would just date in their tax bracket. Simple!!
@@SBrown-ej5vp I agree.But now I’m thinking maybe they really can’t get anyone at all.He probably doesn’t know how to act normal.
the problem is the women that have the qualities they won't don't have the looks they want. they want these traits in a barbie doll and it doesn't work like that.
Dudes like him wanna date outta thier league they want the IG MODELS and she gotta be 20yrs old and he has to be able to mold her mind 😮 smh than he says ...oh i don't have that issue BUT JUST WANTS TO DEBATE
He exposed his issue. “they’re not the loudest”. Quality women aren’t “loud”. They’re poised. They don’t seek validation/attention because they’re whole. So naturally you would look for the woman who isn’t as overt. She might not have a platform or followers or social media at all. You’re not going to see her at every event. Just say you lack discernment. He’s seeking a wife but has no idea what one looks like.
I agree with Ashley: I gotta delete those apps to force myself to go outside and meet ppl organically 💯
❤️ Love you Ashley. Your so Patient my Love.
Young Men Go to the festivals for your culture and look around and pass out your networking cards. Like back in the day and then communicate on your phone when you get a hit on your networking. Or go to networking functions to meet someone of your social class. Look at the adds for these festivities.
Eventbrite
To that young lady, I mean that man is either married or is interested in someone else. That is heart break waiting to happen.
Exactly, I think he's married or in a committed relationship, BET, he is definitely playing with her, she just needs to walk away she's wasting her time, he ghosted her for a big reason
Red Pill dude is giving big incel energy.I actually feel bad for him
Clocked it that he was Nigerian the first time, sir figure out what you're looking for, there are many women out there and there are various ways to meet people
The fact he on here in a velvet robe and Kool Moe Dee glasses talking out the side of his neck is enough to ignore everything he said… clearly he is corny and can’t get nor does he interact with the woman he desires.
Not kool moe dee 😂😂😂😂😂
I’ve been a KG fan for so long but I love it over here. Your energy is so warm and I love the content you’re producing. New subscriber ❤
These men are chronically online! This is not how our parents, grandparents or hell how you even met friends! Like stop being scared of “wasting your time” and just get to know people. Because even your perception of people on social media can be warped. No one I’ve met is a 100% like there profile people are multifaceted!
The second woman nutrition deal breaker is accurate !!! I’ve ran across men with terrible diets and it’s quite disgusting.
The manosphere Is merely a bubble in the echo chamber with these guys throw around all of these theories. He’s coming up with every excuse as to why he can the ideal woman. Like she said get out These chats and red pill bubbles and into the real world.
Awesome to see her actually have a stance, and he respect it. 👍
I was 38 when I married my King. It was worth the wait..
The red pill arguments are self defeating. It's tiring and not even worth arguing with someone like that because like a lot of folks have mentioned, the arguments are hypothetical. These people are actually not connected to the real world.
This man isn’t being chosen,he’s pressed to get anythingggg
All he did was make excuses, go somewhere else sir! Find the solution instead of focusing on the bad.
4:22 baby, get off the internet and touch grass. I don’t know any woman who says you can’t take her to Cheesecake Factory. That list was made up by a very small group of single women who will probably forever stay single or switching from man to man.
Love this show just subbed … all it takes was chicken and rice and dim lighting 😂 took me out . True it starts with us ❤
This is one of the best episodes ever! ❤
Bell as soon as he said daughter she should have him blocked
Men need to understand it in the current climate, where there is so much praying on women with spiking drinks and spiking your food. It is best to go to a restaurant until she gets to know you and know she can trust you, because no smart woman is going to come to your house and eat food. She didn’t watch you prepare or a drink she didn’t see you make whether it be a home date or a picnic. It’s about safety and self preservation.
There are so many places to meet beautiful single women these men aren’t creative, they go straight to the bar because it’s easy and it increases the chances of a woman lowering her guard.
Why don’t they go to church? Volunteer? Take a specialized fitness class? Join a club? Get into a new hobby? Take a painting class? Go to a wine festival?
They want to skip dating and go straight to the bed because they’re scared of the woman not liking them. They’re lazy and scared and that’s why they’re creating podcasts to project their hatred for women they aren’t even trying to find.
Can you believe that?
All it takes chicken and rice took me out. I'm in the gym I laughed out loud🤣. Things is Ashley isn't wrong 😅😭😩
He sounds lazy making all these excuses. He's looking for someone out of his league. He's watching to much Kevin Samuels wannabe. Find out what she's into and make a date around that
Smh a walking RED FLAG SMH whatever happened to the traditional see someone and introduce yourself than its yes or no and keep it moving! Smh i don't think he knows what's coming out of his piehole lol
Your videos are so helpful and on point.
Definitely a lie. No one wants a doormat!
Even his bpdy lamguage shows that he just came online to debate. He's not actually looking for a solution, he just came to keep throwing differnt talking points at Ashley so he could get a reaction.
Is meeting women in person really this difficult? I don’t think you should arbitrarily spend on each woman who is physically attractive. You meet in person… let her know you’re interested.. maybe have a 2 min conversation.. exchange info. Have a real conversation. Set up the date. The conversation should give you an idea if you want to move forward.
Very good Rene
I came on here thinking this was going to be an intelligent convo/debate I was absolutely wrong😒 the callers were delusional and majority of the advice you gave them was really just basic knowledge that they should possess anyway🥴
Nope, don't want someone who is fiesty.
I think that speaks to your maturity. Well, could be just personality too. You’re really handsome btw 💁🏾♀️
@@sweetumsDenise Ma'am, what?😂 This logic speaks to ya'll as women
@@idontplaygames3k296 Okay, my comment was 5 months ago but I'm thinking I was probably saying that A Person's (random, hypothetical person) maturity level - and perhaps also their personality - would determine whether or not they go for someone who is "fiesty." Not speaking of a specific person or gender. People can have bad pickers no matter their gender 💁♀
@sweetumsDenise Being fiesty isn't really a positive trait for either gender when it comes to building a healthy relationship.😂 I agree with the personality part of your statement, but the rest was humorous. I guess you mean a "little bit" fiesty is generally acceptable as a personality trait in people moreso women.
@@idontplaygames3k296 No my dear, I agree that fiesty wouldn't be considered positive concerning a healthy relationship...thus why in my reply to the original comment which said "nope" to fiesty, I mentioned it speaking to his maturity, as in he doesn't go for that b/c he has a level of maturity. I also mentioned yesterday people having "bad pickers" when referring to people who might go for someone fiesty for whatever reason. I don't get how you misunderstood that, lol, but hope this is more clear. Ultimately I hope people choose and work for healthy. And if people notice traits in themselves that aren't, I hope they work on themselves for themselves and others. I help people who are working on emotional intelligence growth and fiesty is generally something people want less of 😅 While SOME people do like fiestiness in women, I can acknowledge that without thinking it is a good or healthy trait. It's also relative, so there's that.
Wow, Ashley knows about my country, Sierra Leone 😂 👋
Fashion fridays please
Please 😊
@ArtLee68 pretty please
Ate him up like go touch grass bro!
Unfortunately women most times are speaking from pride instead of strength. Women must learn how to fight their desires for a man because if you don't you will find yourself putting your expectations aside and taking the first man that tell you you're cute.
If this boy can’t figure out how to date he for sure could never figure out marriage
For the first guy, you impress by being thoughtful and creative. Take her to places that you feel she would like based on your conversations. Show that you listen, are considerate and thoughtful. Ask her what she likes, based on those responses think of something fun that would interest her then gauge her excitement by asking her what she thinks and take action to plan it out.
He doesn’t want women (💅) and he’s laughing at how he is getting men to stop going after women
How do they want a man to make what they make but they don’t want to pay bills
School him Ash!!! 💅🏽
4TH CALLER:SOMETIMES WE ASK U BACK JUST TO TEST TO SEE IF U READY TO PROGRESS THE RELATIONSHIP, THATS HOW MEN ARE… HE WASNT DISRESPECTFUL WITH HIS REQUEST … SO JUST DECLINE & KEEP DATING HIM BUT THE CLOCK IS TICKING.
ASHLEYYY 😂😂😂 THE MOAN AT THE SALON IS DIABOLICAL 😭
21:33 We should normalize choosing men based on their background. He’s a red flag. You’re in college, in the states. You’ll find better.
8:46, I LOVE how she simply and effortlessly ran that down on him. 😂❤... Shut that down real quick.
The lady with the blonde dreads would probably fit well with an artist type of guy.
Woooow the third girl said so much truth and it makes her so rich❤
3:28 this man acts like you can’t go to the park or simply have a couple of phone conversations. I knew within 2 phone conversations if I wanted to get to know someone further.
By Investing time you’ll be able to find out about a person.
The first guy is the main reason why I don’t deal with people who love problems for solutions 😂 I couldn’t take him seriously coming on the live in a robe 😂 sir where are your clothes?!🤣🤦🏽♀️
Complement the person, ask them out. If they say no crash out and call them all sorts of names. Modern dating.