It doesn't happen irl. They sniff each other out, circle and leave in 99.9% of the time. If they are even aware of one another in the first place, they do operate on different speeds, they are people after all. The 00.1% they do interact, it either ends in violence or sex if it's a physical interaction irl, or a mind game that probably ends in profanities if it's online. Neurotypical's really do have to many fantasies about them based on too many fictional views stirred on by Hollywood, books, TV/online shows and videos like this. Take you for instance; You've already created a fantasy, a funny scenario, innocent at first, but all a real sociopath needs to start and manipulate you and pull you in🎭.
@@thatdutchguy2882 it does happen often enough. they target, exploit, hate, destroy each other, then get divorced. then go on tricking and sabotaging, slandering, destroying each other still decades after. often pulling innocent children into the drama dysfunction and scapegoating the healthiest, intelligent good hearted child. some stay in such dysfunctional marriage, or work environment, or mafia like organization made off sharks out to exploit and rip each other apart. sounds pretty familiar to me. sometimes one is a normal, good person being targeted, but sometimes both are pathological, it's both possible. there are just so many toxic people everywhere, and truly healthy people avoid them like the plaque by trusting their self-respect and healthy boundaries. there a lower and higher functioning ones of NPD and ASPD, it's all a spectrum. nothing can be generalized. most important is to have boundaries to protect yourself. never keep up with toxic or confusing behavior or traits.
Me either. I can't seem to get a date. I do have a ridiculous understanding of psyops and propaganda though which I imagine requires a certain sociopathology... so maybe I educated myself into becoming a Nun At The Church of Sociopathy.
sociopath is a strong word. i feel like manipulative or childish is more appropriate. sociopath is more fitting for scam artists who have no conscious about stealing an elderly woman's entire pension
KaskaVenom - sociopathy means basically you don't relate to anyone. Not that you have nothing to relate to, just simply that you aren't empathetic at all. It's anti-social behavior, which isn't "non-social", it's "anti-social" as in, against social norms. It's also narcissistic. So these are more symptoms of someone who is sociopathic. But if they aren't a true sociopath, there is still something very wrong with them if they are displaying these symptoms.
They are a great channel! We really looked forward to working on something together. Did you guys get a chance to check out their video series on this topic?
@@theloserthatdraws987 Thank you, she's definitely a sweet person, and we are doing our best to see if we can collaborate with her sometime in the future! She's busy, so we don't want to bother her. :)
Psych2Go If you guys ever do collab, I can’t wait to to see what you guys do together. For now I guess I’ll keep watching you guys and Ilymation’s videos, because both of you guys produce such great and entertaining videos.
I'm glad I'm not the only one here to purely educate myself. Me and my boyfriend are very happy together, a year strong, I'm just here because I like to learn. I'm glad you're happy in your relationship 😊
I'm happy for you..i'm too in a good relantionship and i love my boyfriend so much... Btw i am from Brazil and i'm still learn english, i learned just listen to musics. Xoxo
You should feel bad for the person manipulated by the sociopath. High functioning sociopaths have basically an easy life. They feel naturally confident, good in bed, amazing manipulators and lack of guilt.
@@saverio_6990 your 1000% wrong. Go spread false info somewhere else we do feel guilt we aren’t always confident either neither are we always “good” in bed if it’s a one night stand than probably . A committed relationship though he’ll no.
@@jshaka3769 i dont get the point of your comment. Of course they dont always feel 100% confident, they arent all sex gods and some may feel guilt more than others, some may be better manipulators than others. Sociopaths dont have superpowers. Still having those "stats" being even a bit higher than the avarage person is a huge advantage. Also i would like to underline that im referring to the so called "high functioning sociopaths". So yeah...i think its fair to say i feel more bad for the generally "weak" person that is their victim, expecially if they also show narcisistic behavior, which is the case most of the time
As overly simplistic as this video may seem, and after having confirmed my ex was a low functioning sociopath, I can say truly that yes we can all be or feel these things at any one time and not be a sociopath but.. The difference? The consistency in motive, lack of empathy and non-situational cause for this constant need for a feeding of the ego/status. Sociopaths are people too, but having only ever fallen in love once, and for it to have been with a low functioning sociopath I can say it really hurts. The whole thing is devastating.. then they move on to weave another web of lies, leaving your empathic, pushover self to pick up the pieces. How do you stop this happening?Value yourself. It's the only way to protect yourself from being used by anyone, sociopath or not. Self esteem is the killer of more evil than you know. You're valuable. Trust me.
I am so sorry you went through that, and yes! Always value yourself, that is the best thing you could ever do for yourself! ♥ You are so strong and I'm glad you are no longer with your ex.
I'm glad I left when I did. I started getting weird vibes and whilst I was monitoring unusual behaviour I did make excuses for it until I grew to be uncomfortable with him. And you're right no one can degrade you as a human being when you value yourself and know what you're worth. I'm just happy that I was in love with who I was before I could say I was in love with him. Thank you for your comment, I could relate to every bit.
I also was in an extremely romantic relationship with what appeared to be a non functional sociopath , i noticed the read flags i knew allot about her past behaviors with other people but i was too blinded with how good it felt thinking that we were different from people in the past but apparently we were not . The problem is i lift her of the dirt when we met she had no one as she ruined her relationship with everyone she knows , introduced her to my friends tried to motivate her and push her forward , thought we were unbreakable even tho i saw the red flags she made lots of mistakes then i found myself apologizing even tho i knew i wasn't wrong once she knew how much i needed her she left off with another person leaving me with all this pain in my chest that i try to heal , i did this to myself and i learnt from my mistakes . NEVER IGNORE THE RED FLAGS FOR THE SAKE OF NOT FEELING ALONE OR TRYING TO FILL THE HOLE IT WILL ONLY GET WORSE VALUE YOURSELF
But it is also a strong sign of sociopath, and honestly ... I think if you had theses traits you have something more than just insecurites, these traits show you not able to love but it is able to manipulate and use the person in purpose, its kinda evil (Sorry about my English).
Am a sociopath but i cant say i would ruin the life of a friend of mine sure i would use them but i find it pointless destroying their mental health if anything ussually i just use them for to have fun same way they use me the difference is i dont feel a connection towards them sometimes i do but nothing too significant
You abuser coddling fucks dont realize what pain/abuse she could be going through. GET OUT NOW cause my ex BF that shoved me into a wall, broke my phone, and tried to blow us both/our roomaye up with propane in just under 4 months before i found him limp, cold and 3 hours dead due to an overdose, GET OUT. IK YOUVE HEARD IT BEFORE BUT IT ONLY GETS WORSE N IM LIVING PROOF. Please...staying longer wont change them.
Don't ask youtube. Just eat well, do exercise, meditate, be the best you can be. You will attract better people to you. If you date you date, if you don't you don't. You will be happy with yourself either way.
Anyone whose been in a relationship with someone like this (whether it was a friendship, or a romantic relationship) can definitely see how accurate this is. Thanks for this.
Hits all the bullet points of an ex of mine. She also had Bipolar. She mentioned to me that she couldn't understand why some of her past friends and family would straight up disappear from her life. Some even moved and never told her. I was like..."that's odd. I don't know why someone would do that" But in the end I did it too. I realized that you can't reason or explain with words to make these type of people understand. You want to pacify a situation. Or you want to even apologize. She wouldn't have it. Anything you say...anything...is just twisted around and used to push that knife of guilt further in your back. The anxiety of being on the other end of it drove me to a point where I knew she would never stop mentally abusing me and I was left with only one choice. Complete cut off. She would call me and I physically couldn't bring my arm touch the phone. I would often just crawl into bed in a fetal position with a pillow over my head saying to myself "no no no no I can't do it. I've had enough. No matter how much I love her or miss her and want to fix whatever she's mad at me this time about I can't do it anymore.
I see a new psych2go video I get a League of Legends add that was animated by Nevercake And in the video there’s a shout-out to illymations This is a good day
stop speaking in absolutes. these are all invalid statements. "sociopaths are good at sex" socipaths do this, sociopaths do that. Sociopaths have differing identities JUST like your average person. you make truthful points but giving the wrong impression to people who dont truly understand sociopathy
One of the things that sucks most is that after finally removing yourself from the awful person/relationship is that you want to warn others about this person but there's no way to do that without looking like a crazy ex or looking like you're incapable of moving on.
I can totally empathize, especially when sociopaths/master manipulators often win the crowd's support. But, I can tell you that you're not crazy, that it's valid you've been hurt, and that it's okay to have these good intentions of warning others. Keep doing you and stay strong. What would you like to tell our fans based on your awful experiences?
Yes lol my ex husband has a history of train wreck relationships and blaming them on everyone but himself. I cheated on him because I got sick of his shit and i wanted desperately to let go and to love him less(in fear I'd turn to suicide for an answer) and so did every other girl he's had a relationship with, but they're somehow still friends with each other. I'll never understand how or why they continue to support him even though hes clearly shown hes not worthy of any of it.
Psych2Go why do you make it out that we’re monsters? We have emotions and feelings and currently my feelings are hurt. Yes I can completely disconnect from any emotion and not feel an ounce of empathy, and I admit it’s scary. But If I actively attempt to put myself in someone else’s shoes, I can empathize to a certain degree
I don’t break the law, refuse to take responsibility, deliberately manipulate others, use sex to control others and use friends to my advantage. No dude... just no.
Yeah, the video is very blunt with the info of sociopathy. Some people can have these traits and not be a sociopath, I get what they are trying to do as being in a relationship with one is risky if you are not very careful. But with the culture that surrounds sociopathy, being too broad can bring more harm than good.
Yea I mean if you're dating someone with these traits you're definitely not dating a quality person but I don't think classifying them as a sociopath is exactly fair.
Tiffany Renee some of them... you might have a good connection with a person but she’s not doing it in a fake sense? More or less the rest I agree with you
good one, lol. anyway this point is wrong and can't be generalized. people with ASPD come in all forms and also can be bad and uncaring in bed. or can be criminals who sexually assault people.
I just want to point out the vid is a lil disrespectful. There are more regular functioning people with normal lives that are sociopaths than dangerous ones. Literally 1 and 100 people are sociopaths. You literally could be one and not know it. Psychopaths are usually a danger to themselves or others. Not every sociopath is a person putting another person in danger
The whole topic is rather interesting....according to what I’ve been able to gather so far I exhibit some sociopathic tendencies would I consider myself one? No as I am not a trained psychiatrist and me exhibiting these traits could be purely coincidental but still interesting to think about
@@EspritArkitekt "They don't let you meet their friends." He makes me meet all of his friends. He can't keep many because he "has a unique personality."
So...for anyone interested in what it’s really like: the actual disorder is called ASPD. That stands for Anti-Social Personality Disorder. It exists on a scale from high functioning to low functioning. The terms “Sociopath” and “Psychopath” are commonly misused, and are actually descriptors of how the disorder formed in the patient’s brain. A “sociopath” formed from childhood trauma, while a “psychopath” did not, and instead formed the disorder naturally. The symptoms of ASPD are as follows: the inability to feel empathy, remorse, or guilt; the disregard for ones own safety and/or the safety of others; the disregard for rules; impulsiveness; chronic boredom; compulsive lying, among some others. ASPD is not treatable, although talk therapy can help. In many patients however, their symptoms and severity of their symptoms lessen with age. From my personal experience (I have high functioning ASPD), I have been able to develop deep connections with a handful of people: some friends and family members. I personally try to cope and handle my situation with a peaceful mindset. Yes I have some things which make everyday life challenging, but I do my best. I am in a relationship, and she does know about my condition. I have no reason to lie to her because she’s important to me. And yes, I do feel “love”. P.S Most people with ASPD are not like what you see on TV or Movies.
Oshun Forest thanks for the first hand account! I’m highly disappointed in their content lately... if you wouldn’t mind liking my comment, it should be just below yours, I want them to see it and realize that they need to take a step back and rethink their current work.
Polopony20 absolutely! I don’t blame them for being misinformed, but spreading misinformation, even unintentionally, only leads to disorders like mine being demonized by the public.
It's scary how i just watched a video describing my relationship for the last 3 years with my ex. Even the appearance of the cartoon looks just like her. She recently dumped me with the excuse that i'm too good for her and broke my heart on pieces. I guess she made me a favor.
I thought my partner could be a sociopath just for that one but i realized he's one of the best human beings in the world, just a little clingy and falls in love so easy
This is hilarious...I study sociology and I laughed so much at this video. There isn’t a single person I know including me that doesn’t have at least a few of these traits. I guess we’re all sociopaths to some extent based of this ridiculous video. Okay I have to watch the psychopath one now lmao
We realize the points may be vague, but it's hard compacting so much information in one video. We definitely don't recommend self-diagnose or diagnosing others without a licensed professional. This is just what we came across in our research. :) Have a lovely day, and thanks for taking the time to watch our other videos!
john quinn the point is, if I was not a student and did not have any background on this delicate subject, I would go out into the world naming others a sociopath by watching this video. This video makes it so simple to just point the finger at anyone.
Wow. Wow. Wow. My ex is a pathological covert narcissist, but I never considered him a sociopath. I just watched this video and he literally has every single trait that you described. I always wondered why he didn’t have any close friends until I moved in with him and I realized he hardly had any friends at all. He told me he loved me after our third date. I didn’t respond because I was so shocked. I will never allow someone like this to manipulate me again. Thank you for your videos.
So weirdly accurate. I only had one dating experience so far and this person turned out to be like one. Lot of times I questioned my own intuition if he's genuine or not, I even started having doubts. And eventually, that deteriorated my mental health in the long run. It was such a painful process to cope up with. It's so difficult for me to open or loosen up, and yet that happened. What a bad experience, but it def taught me a hard lesson.
Honestly its hard for me to tell if I'm in toxic relationship or not. Its so complicated to tell, but sometimes when I try express how I feel about the way the relationship going, trying talk about problems in relationship. My partner would try ignore that or change the subject quickly. When my partner finally talks to me about issues, my partner gets a little defensive and so quick to say you're overthinking or it just your aneixty. I find myself questioning myself sometimes is it me or my partner.
Oof this turned the tables on me real fast, I started thinking about the past relationships and now I'm pretty sure I should get checked to see if somethings up.
My ex was a narcistic sociophat. I did a lot of research and next to the abuse he did to me and my kids, i came to this conclusion. It's been a hell. And I'm happy that i have a lot of lovely family members that helped me and my kids through this hard time. But we are still in recovery.
Same! My ex literally physically and mentally abused me yet would always somehow seduce me back with sweet talking and sex! Man I feel so bad that I was manipulated like that!
I'm ''guilty'' of most the signs here, so what? A lot of the traits you've described are also true about introverts. We can't all be social butterflies with 1001+ friends, and always-go-lucky attitude..
Lmao I have no friends except my boyfriend. I have a lot of these traits too. I’d take a bullet for that man though, no greater love in my heart do I have than for him. Once when he became ill, I’d set my alarm clock for every 1-2 hours at night just to check my phone and ask if he was doing okay. I hardly got any sleep for months during that time, but it was all worth it to make sure he didn’t stop breathing or suffer any anxiety attacks.
@Your Boss They... do though. Sociopaths know and even flaunt the fact that they're sociopaths, they never don't know, unless they're extremely low functioning...
Curtistine Miller well we are are a little narcky sometimes so don’t think you’re some sort of purist. I really hope you don’t comment about narcs all the time cuz you probably don’t even fucking know anything about anything
I dated a woman with Borderline Personality Disorder and all these signs are identical! The twin flame/soulmate connection the same day we met at a retreat! Immediate s*x, unprotected from the get-go; they are extremely impulsive in every way! A month later she told me she had a STD from a previous Boyfriend. Had been married and divorced 3 times by age 27! Mood swings off the hook, manipulated me with suicide threats, was always talking to other guys while telling me that they didn't know she was dating me...I know, a bunch of red flags! I was too codependant...She cheated 3 times...It was pure hell. Yes, she was beautiful, at first sight perfect but a total nightmare inside..Worst 4 years of my life.
I was seriously sociopathological in my teens and all through most of my adult life. I finally realized what how I had been hurting people. So after my last divorce, I decided to work on myself in order to become a person worth being in love with. I’ve been alone and celibate for many years, and I’m fine with it. Now I know who I am and what I have to offer. I’m in no rush.
I almost dated a sociopath recently. I think She knew I liked her, too. I was being manipulated by her and I ignored all the signs of a possibly unhealthy future relationship since I had a MEGA crush on her. A few weeks ago I realized what I was doing and I stopped, and I'm glad I did. This video helped me further solidify my position.
Sociopaths can develop feelings for people. They can be invested in a relationship and actually care about the person. Just because you’re dating a sociopath doesn’t mean they’re trying to hurt you or manipulate you or they’re dangerous.
@@yuu_miran hey! diagnosed sociopath here. yes, we can feel and want to be in relationships. though, it might be harder for us then others it’s not like we plan to kill or hurt everybody we lay our eyes on. its literally just stronger intrusive thoughts that follow with actions.
@@パイモン-o2m well i know sociopath not equals a murderer XD i meant all the sociopaths ive come across so far were maybe even worse than a murderer since they kept torturing me for years and ruined a big part of my psyche. Of course i cant label all other sociopaths out there, if there are some better ones thats a great news.
its possible to get someone that isnt against our kinds. for example me. as a sociopath. but i never use any of the sociopathic traits or whatever in a relationship. i guess? lol if u wanna make sure. if ur a sociopath or not u can Google the traits. or look it up anywhere that doesnt seem. sketchy?
@@auraliax1323 I think it's better to ask a psychiatrist, a professional who knows a lot about the Psyche. You can't be entirely sure just because Google says so or you think it is so. And by any chance if the psychiatrist can confirm that you're a sociopath, S/he could help you...well if you let her/him.
TW!!! sharing my experience: im a sociopath and was dating one too (long distance). our relationship was terrible. once we got out of our 'honeymoon phase' it was just fights, manipulation, victim complexes, stupid excuses, lies, broken promises. only way to make up to each other were nudes or cyber sex. it drained both of us both mentally and physically yet we couldnt live without each other. i got gaslighted with suicide multiple times, couldnt find the difference between manipulation and actual emotions. then i realized i did the very same. attempted for suicide 2 weeks ago and all i got from them was 'aight imma do the same'. yesterday, we broke up, got into a terrible fight and both of us were on the verge of ending it. then he texted me saying 'i wanna die with you'. honestly i dont even know why im sharing all this. just please please please be careful with people. you could get hurt soo badly and not even realize. forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest, think about consequences before eating it.
Okay yeah these are legitimate reasons and signs of sociopathy but there are also plenty of other explanations for these behaviors including adhd, add, schizo, etc. Or, you know, for some of these , as farfetched as it may seem, you may just be made for each other. It does happen sometimes that your personality and another person's personality fit together almost perfectly. Not always the case, it's very rare, but at the same time, a relationship may not always be as perfect as you percieve it either. Don't just jump ship because this video said if you apologise a lot your partner is a psychopath; if you're really convinced seek medical journals and learn more about the subject. A lot of these apply to every relationship. And some people are just assholes too and you won't see it right away. If you're unhappy leave , if you're happy stay. That's just what it boils down to. Not that this video is bad in anyway, but it can mislead those who might just take it at face value and relate to one or two things on this list and just won't do any more research and needlessly break their own heart; although if you're that willing to break it off it might not have worked out in the end anyway
They seem to forget that sociopaths are not exactly born- trauma in their lives is what made them sociopaths. Per example, my significant other was bullied to the point where he just started not to care about other people at all and would do horrible things just because he felt like it. Eventually however he began to see that what he was doing was wrong and stopped doing it- although he claims that he can understand it he claims that he can't feel it. He doesn't feel remorse for what he did but he understands that it was wrong. I've been with him for six years now and we may have our ups and downs but we're still together. Well I agree that sociopaths are dangerous people, remember at the end of the day they're kind of human to, not some monster. If perhaps they would seek medical help or see a psychologist or even a therapist, things would get better for them. But I know not all sociopaths are the same some are exactly like this video. People call me a fool but I I've done enough research to know that sociopaths are sociopaths for no reason- something horrible must have happened to them that made them like that.
@@anaisdiaz7346 Not your problem. They need to get help. You only damage yourself if you stay. They tend to tell you stories to make you feel sorry for them. They could be playing off of your emotions.
Teila Mckendry - I agree with your end point that you can't see a couple things in this video and instantly conclude your partner is a sociopath. However, any one of these, let alone multiple/all are signs of dysfunction. You don't want to just shrug your shoulders at that. 1) If you are with someone who is dysfunctional, you should want to help them if you love them. 2) If you are with someone who is dysfunctional, this can be disastrous for you over the long term. 3) If you identify as having a significant other who shows one or more of these symptoms, you should also consider your own internal dysfunction and how/why you got into that relationship or why you are letting things slide. Often, people will say things like "because I love him/her" but unfortunately, sometimes the most loving thing is actually a swift kick in the ass. If a person won't acknowledge and/or won't admit to their problems it's harmful to you both.
i am a high-functioning sociopath and i just realized my partner is also a sociopath. our relationship is toxic af. but it's too toxic that it's actually exciting. idk whats wrong with me i just can't change my personality...
Whay is like being two sociopath in a relationship? I know a couple of psychopath in my social circle, but Idk what it feels like to be an aspd individual involved in a relationship with another aspd
@@diealtf4378 well we actually broke up cuz we learned we both cheated. it was for the best i guess. our relationship was exciting though. we both loved the feeling of thrill but we never stayed loyal to each other. he talked shit about me with his friends and expected me to get angry but i was too unbothered so he was mad at me for a while. Well everything was great at the beginning i was actually happy to have someone not judging me but we got bored too easily.
My ex told me up front he was a narc, which seems to line up with sociopathy as well and these traits. He left me six months ago and moved on immediately like I never existed. Shit hurts
This is a long read, so just a head up. This was me with my last ex, we were together 5 or 6 years, I had no idea I was acting like a sociopath during our relationship, I did and still do care about her well being, but I did realize near the end of our relationship that I was being a shitty boyfriend because a bunch of problems came up about my impulsive behaviour and me going behind her back by smoking (cigarettes) at work and whenever she wasn't around, and I told her that I would try to do better, over and over and over again like a broken record with no results. I didn't want to keep hurting her the way I have been, I made her a promise to not hurt her like her other ex's, but I was being the one thing I told her that I wasn't. After I started noticing my behaviour and slowly pieced it together, I told her the truth, and I told her that I can't keep doing that to her and broke it off. I told her that I'd still like to remain friends if she'd be okay with it because I did cherish the wonderful moments we had together, but I didnt want to hurt her anymore like that again, and I realized that I wasn't ready for a relationship, at least not yet
I’ve dated a schizophrenic with multiple personalities and on top of it It was a long distance relationship when I was only 14. Needless to say it didn’t last long.
Cody Mullins my ex didn’t talk to me in public and made me think that it was my fault, we only talked to me through text it was practically a long distance relationship and it tore me to shreds
Most of you are missing the point and dwelling on the "good in bed" sign. Sociopaths manipulate thru emotion so they spend their time focusing on how they can keep you entrapped. Sex plays a big part of that since it keeps you connected. But it's not the ONLY sign, there's usually multiple signs.
You say that like all of us do it. If you did your research you would see that a lot of us aren't even interested in sex. You don't even know the tip of the iceberg when it comes to people like us, so please do yourself a favor and don't take this video to heart. Like the seven deadly sins, this thing has a hook for everyone.
@@siouxisecirice224 That could be true but it can be used as a tool. Do you realize that people (sociopaths or not) use sex thru means of manipulation. Not because they truly enjoy it but because it can give them control and power.
one of my good friends is a sociopath, she’s not extremely manipulative, only when she has to be...she just wants to be loved and genuinely cares about her partners,,, i really don’t appreciate a psychology channel adding to the alienation of sociopaths,,,please do some reliable research before...
It's not really that.. If sociopaths in general have problems with understanding morals etc, of course they'd end up with a video like this. If ur friend is a more kind sociopath and you feel attacked then i'm sorry :3 Maybe she's one of the few kind sociopaths and super special :3
just because hollywood and youtube have told you all sociopaths are serial killers and insane doesn’t make it true. Yes she is a high functioning sociopath but most are, now actual serial killer crazy sociopaths can happen, doesn’t mean that you should just alienate a whole group of people because of something a few people did and for a trait they can’t help
@@moriraya I thought psychopaths were the unapologetic aggressive assholes edit: and potential serial killers, while sociopaths are just manipulative and narcissistic.
What if 2 sociopaths date each other? ! :o
Goodluck to them
That be nice
Usually they fuck
Strange Person Usually they are more strategic than that.
That would be classic!!!!!
if two sociopaths date eachother ...
“god you always make me seem like the bad guy!” *pulls victim card*
partner: *uno reverse card*
Underrated
It doesn't happen irl.
They sniff each other out, circle and leave in 99.9% of the time. If they are even aware of one another in the first place, they do operate on different speeds, they are people after all.
The 00.1% they do interact, it either ends in violence or sex if it's a physical interaction irl, or a mind game that probably ends in profanities if it's online.
Neurotypical's really do have to many fantasies about them based on too many fictional views stirred on by Hollywood, books, TV/online shows and videos like this.
Take you for instance;
You've already created a fantasy, a funny scenario, innocent at first, but all a real sociopath needs to start and manipulate you and pull you in🎭.
blossom tenshi me and my gf 👀
@@lexgomez3281 bollox
@@thatdutchguy2882 it does happen often enough. they target, exploit, hate, destroy each other, then get divorced. then go on tricking and sabotaging, slandering, destroying each other still decades after. often pulling innocent children into the drama dysfunction and scapegoating the healthiest, intelligent good hearted child. some stay in such dysfunctional marriage, or work environment, or mafia like organization made off sharks out to exploit and rip each other apart. sounds pretty familiar to me. sometimes one is a normal, good person being targeted, but sometimes both are pathological, it's both possible. there are just so many toxic people everywhere, and truly healthy people avoid them like the plaque by trusting their self-respect and healthy boundaries. there a lower and higher functioning ones of NPD and ASPD, it's all a spectrum. nothing can be generalized. most important is to have boundaries to protect yourself. never keep up with toxic or confusing behavior or traits.
Came here to see if my Ex was a sociopath. Left here thinking I possibly am D:
If you're wondering if you are, most likely you're not.
Then you're not. A sociopath doesn't care enough to ask "am i a sociopath" because the reality is they just dont care.
sociopaths dont just go saying "i think am a socipath", they are smarter than that
This traits was like my ex. 💯
Same
"Sociopaths are incredibly good in bed" finally I am convinced I'm not a sociopath
Me either. I can't seem to get a date. I do have a ridiculous understanding of psyops and propaganda though which I imagine requires a certain sociopathology... so maybe I educated myself into becoming a Nun At The Church of Sociopathy.
That’s just Disgusting
@@londoncarpenter5484 can I ask why? Attempting to understand the psychology behind your "disgust."
@@seratonyn sorry I’m confused umm well not all Scorpios are physical or psycho so I can be disgusted bc I’m a person too
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Shit, I need to change my tacti---III i mean yeah, you should watch out for these things...
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Hahaha
Dreamon Xonos same my dude, my partner is seeming like she wants me to do her work
😂😂😂😂
Literally me when i saw that vid😂😂👏
See? That's why you shouldn't date a cartoon girl.
2d girls are best
-weeaboo
Luan Souza but my Waifu. ;3;
LOL 😅
@@limetreelt0384 wtf?how u know that the commenter is a sociopath u idiot
Insted go for anime girl
Is anyone checking if "you" are the sociopath of the relationship? Lol
All Nine Livez I am
I think everyone is nowadays to a certain degree
we both are (i mean, my partner and i lol)
This Video Said you should Only Date mediocre do-gooders so If your Partner is angry or attached to you dump him or her
All Nine Livez lol yeah
Honestly, this doesn’t sound like a sociopath to me. It sounds like a narcissist
Sociopaths are narcissistic.
Narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths are all grouped in the cluster B personality disorders, so that's why they share some characteristics.
Facts !!!
Agreed
According to Dr. Ramani Durvasula, all sociopaths are narcissists but not all narcissists are sociopath.
You left put one important fact. They're pathological liars.
Yup, that's one of their defining characteristics.
Fuck
we are not pathological liars, we lying for manipulation, but pathological is a other thing
Rhoda Yackez thats... two different things
M.A.A.D City
No you are pathological liars, you just lied in this comment!
Also just because someone has these traits doesn’t mean they are a sociopath
sociopath is a strong word. i feel like manipulative or childish is more appropriate. sociopath is more fitting for scam artists who have no conscious about stealing an elderly woman's entire pension
Keep telling yourself that.
Hmm seems like something a sociopath would say
KaskaVenom - sociopathy means basically you don't relate to anyone. Not that you have nothing to relate to, just simply that you aren't empathetic at all. It's anti-social behavior, which isn't "non-social", it's "anti-social" as in, against social norms. It's also narcissistic. So these are more symptoms of someone who is sociopathic. But if they aren't a true sociopath, there is still something very wrong with them if they are displaying these symptoms.
That is why u are one.
9: They, _ugh,_ rip tags off mattresses. Or listen to Nickelback unironically.
You listen to Nickelback unironically I just don't listen to them at all
Is it a crime to do either of those things? 🙄
Nickelback have great music and the thing with the mattresses is just... "aand theen?". 😛
@@UnusualPete I've just died inside, Nickelback is good, that is bullshit.
Aye aye aye... Nothing wrong with Nickelback 😐
I have one Nickelback song on my playlist. Am I a sociopath?
U know that they said
“Crazy in the head/crazy in the bed”
funny how no one replied to your comment so here i am
Yeah not worth though
I know only about: "Don't stick it into crazy."
Yea, but I'm worth it!
That’s nice that you guys shouted out Ilymations!
They are a great channel! We really looked forward to working on something together. Did you guys get a chance to check out their video series on this topic?
Psych2Go Are you kidding? I watched the video multiple times, and she is a very sweet person. Can’t wait to see you guys work together!
@@theloserthatdraws987 Thank you, she's definitely a sweet person, and we are doing our best to see if we can collaborate with her sometime in the future! She's busy, so we don't want to bother her. :)
Psych2Go If you guys ever do collab, I can’t wait to to see what you guys do together. For now I guess I’ll keep watching you guys and Ilymation’s videos, because both of you guys produce such great and entertaining videos.
I dont really recognize these signs and I know I'm not dating a sociopath but thanks for the warnings anyway
I'm glad I'm not the only one here to purely educate myself. Me and my boyfriend are very happy together, a year strong, I'm just here because I like to learn. I'm glad you're happy in your relationship 😊
@@xnuttyhheadx it's more of a far distance relationship
@@lunafoxlover That doesn't make it any less special. If you're happy then that's all that matters
@@xnuttyhheadx well you have a point there
I'm happy for you..i'm too in a good relantionship and i love my boyfriend so much... Btw i am from Brazil and i'm still learn english, i learned just listen to musics. Xoxo
I'm single...But I'm watching to see if I am the sociopath people date😂
Vitani B Mamba Lmfao same 💯😂
Literally me. I wouldn't be surprised.
Yeah same. Its weird because if I'm being honest, I fit into alot of these criteria.
Vitani B Mamba jajaja same here
Same. And I may be high, but shit
I kinda feel bad for sociopaths they didn't chose to be like this
Edit: I killed my empathy its been a rough year
Yea
You should feel bad for the person manipulated by the sociopath. High functioning sociopaths have basically an easy life. They feel naturally confident, good in bed, amazing manipulators and lack of guilt.
@@saverio_6990 yea I do feel bad for them
@@saverio_6990 your 1000% wrong. Go spread false info somewhere else we do feel guilt we aren’t always confident either neither are we always “good” in bed if it’s a one night stand than probably . A committed relationship though he’ll no.
@@jshaka3769 i dont get the point of your comment. Of course they dont always feel 100% confident, they arent all sex gods and some may feel guilt more than others, some may be better manipulators than others. Sociopaths dont have superpowers. Still having those "stats" being even a bit higher than the avarage person is a huge advantage. Also i would like to underline that im referring to the so called "high functioning sociopaths". So yeah...i think its fair to say i feel more bad for the generally "weak" person that is their victim, expecially if they also show narcisistic behavior, which is the case most of the time
9.) They convince you that Season 8 of Game of Thrones is a masterpiece!
Totally
🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣😂
Lol
Fuuuuuuuuuu
I like how they didn’t just victimize the female in this one
Yeah, I'm so proud
Tremaine Reid The guy wasn’t a victim tho.. he was just treated like men treat women lol
Omg stfu dry feminists no one cares about gender as much as you
@@marteumar8429 stop being sexist and a stereotype.
@@marteumar8429 no xD
OMG IM DATING A---
wait i have no one.. 😐
*cries while eating nuggets*
Lol feel happy being single for now before you get into a romantic relationship and get cheated on
*D E P R E S S I O N*
At least u got your nuggets I'm eating peanut butter out the jar...alone so alone where is my jelly
Not chicken nuggets, just nuggets.
This comment is sad in a lot of different ways.
Yo what kind of nuggets
attractive patient: So, am I a sociopath?
therapist: Well, there's a test for that... (closes blinds; undresses)
JAIL
sounds more like the therapist is haha
Lmao 🤣
YOU ARE GIVING BAD THOUGHT WITH MY THERAPIST IN THE FUTURE LMAO
Let's go
As overly simplistic as this video may seem, and after having confirmed my ex was a low functioning sociopath, I can say truly that yes we can all be or feel these things at any one time and not be a sociopath but..
The difference? The consistency in motive, lack of empathy and non-situational cause for this constant need for a feeding of the ego/status. Sociopaths are people too, but having only ever fallen in love once, and for it to have been with a low functioning sociopath I can say it really hurts. The whole thing is devastating.. then they move on to weave another web of lies, leaving your empathic, pushover self to pick up the pieces.
How do you stop this happening?Value yourself. It's the only way to protect yourself from being used by anyone, sociopath or not. Self esteem is the killer of more evil than you know. You're valuable. Trust me.
I am so sorry you went through that, and yes! Always value yourself, that is the best thing you could ever do for yourself! ♥ You are so strong and I'm glad you are no longer with your ex.
Thank you for the comment, I currently relate to your past situation.
AndyMacster i felt everrryyy word you said ! ‼️
I'm glad I left when I did. I started getting weird vibes and whilst I was monitoring unusual behaviour I did make excuses for it until I grew to be uncomfortable with him. And you're right no one can degrade you as a human being when you value yourself and know what you're worth. I'm just happy that I was in love with who I was before I could say I was in love with him. Thank you for your comment, I could relate to every bit.
I also was in an extremely romantic relationship with what appeared to be a non functional sociopath , i noticed the read flags i knew allot about her past behaviors with other people but i was too blinded with how good it felt thinking that we were different from people in the past but apparently we were not .
The problem is i lift her of the dirt when we met she had no one as she ruined her relationship with everyone she knows , introduced her to my friends tried to motivate her and push her forward , thought we were unbreakable even tho i saw the red flags she made lots of mistakes then i found myself apologizing even tho i knew i wasn't wrong once she knew how much i needed her she left off with another person leaving me with all this pain in my chest that i try to heal , i did this to myself and i learnt from my mistakes .
NEVER IGNORE THE RED FLAGS FOR THE SAKE OF NOT FEELING ALONE OR TRYING TO FILL THE HOLE IT WILL ONLY GET WORSE VALUE YOURSELF
This video is so psychologically inaccurate it hurts.
Most of these "signs" are also traits of bpd/hpd/npd or just people with some insecurities.
Voilà!
@@diealtf4378 tuchè
@@unicornsparkleswirl7564 Touché* :)
@@diealtf4378 hi;-)
But it is also a strong sign of sociopath, and honestly ... I think if you had theses traits you have something more than just insecurites, these traits show you not able to love but it is able to manipulate and use the person in purpose, its kinda evil (Sorry about my English).
Sign #9: They are a politician.
Or a journalist!
Or a lawyer.
i love this comment and the replies under it
No, that would be psychopathy. Sociopaths are way too erratic and impulsive..
I used to have a "best friend" who's as sociopath... she basically fucked up my life and my mental health even more than it was already. NEVER AGAIN
If you're not already in therapy be sure to see a therapist! Stay strong, you'll be ok. ✊🏻
Uhmmm can u tell us what she did? Or what happen exactly
@@user-yj3py8bp9v that’s incredibly private information. Why would you ask that in a UA-cam comment section?
Am a sociopath but i cant say i would ruin the life of a friend of mine sure i would use them but i find it pointless destroying their mental health if anything ussually i just use them for to have fun same way they use me the difference is i dont feel a connection towards them sometimes i do but nothing too significant
@@nyansybones4983 reddit is really mad hearing your statement
Me: *rolls my eyes* *starts watching* signs: *match my bf perfectly...* ... me: *heart skips beats and I get scared*
Sure
Same...
@@nakshatraprabhu6020 o_o run
Every woman I've ever dated.
You abuser coddling fucks dont realize what pain/abuse she could be going through. GET OUT NOW cause my ex BF that shoved me into a wall, broke my phone, and tried to blow us both/our roomaye up with propane in just under 4 months before i found him limp, cold and 3 hours dead due to an overdose, GET OUT. IK YOUVE HEARD IT BEFORE BUT IT ONLY GETS WORSE N IM LIVING PROOF. Please...staying longer wont change them.
Lol I'm not even dating rn,but thanks!
Edit:Thanks for the appreciation, guys!
Same I'm single
Get used to it Pony man
I can tell just by your profile picture you're not dating.
@@Keshaire Lol yeah I'm underage to be dating
@@klemenator I plan on dating later in life,just not now
What am I doing here UA-cam? I don't have a date. Or a relationship. Or close friends for that matter
Don't ask youtube. Just eat well, do exercise, meditate, be the best you can be. You will attract better people to you. If you date you date, if you don't you don't. You will be happy with yourself either way.
And fap, fap a lot
Holo 😂
Because *you're the sociopath*
Lol jk
@@leonoir definitely not
Anyone whose been in a relationship with someone like this (whether it was a friendship, or a romantic relationship) can definitely see how accurate this is. Thanks for this.
Yeah. True!
*shane dawson has entered the chat*
Lmao, where he at?
:0
If this is true then I’m a sociopath
So you meet all of these criteria and show them in all of your relationships...?
Hm, have you been diagnosed by a professional? We don't recommend using these signs as the only information to make this confirmation.
Yes. Congrads. You're a regular Ed Gein 😏
Me too....
Stay away from everybody else even from pets.
To whoever reading this while being reminded of their sociopath ex: I hope your wounds heal steady and I promise you'll find real love.
ivoryvignettes thx xx
That’s a lie hahah
Hits all the bullet points of an ex of mine. She also had Bipolar. She mentioned to me that she couldn't understand why some of her past friends and family would straight up disappear from her life. Some even moved and never told her. I was like..."that's odd. I don't know why someone would do that" But in the end I did it too.
I realized that you can't reason or explain with words to make these type of people understand. You want to pacify a situation. Or you want to even apologize. She wouldn't have it. Anything you say...anything...is just twisted around and used to push that knife of guilt further in your back.
The anxiety of being on the other end of it drove me to a point where I knew she would never stop mentally abusing me and I was left with only one choice. Complete cut off. She would call me and I physically couldn't bring my arm touch the phone. I would often just crawl into bed in a fetal position with a pillow over my head saying to myself "no no no no I can't do it. I've had enough. No matter how much I love her or miss her and want to fix whatever she's mad at me this time about I can't do it anymore.
Dogs say bork
Cats say mew
Idiots say first
But what does the fox say?
lol u just did
FIRST
*"Ok."*
Oppa gangnam style
*i was thinking about shane dawson everytime i heard sociopath*
thelopsvt_9 Shane Dawson is wrong.
@@LoveWarDeath that's the entire joke about Shane and sociopaths
*sociopath*
Oh god! Just thinking of that series makes me want to jump off a bridge 🤣🤮
thelopsvt_9 😂
I see a new psych2go video
I get a League of Legends add that was animated by Nevercake
And in the video there’s a shout-out to illymations
This is a good day
Sounds like my ex 🤢
We HAVE THE SAME NAME. 🤣
Aw, did you also eat any good food, too? :D
stop speaking in absolutes. these are all invalid statements. "sociopaths are good at sex" socipaths do this, sociopaths do that. Sociopaths have differing identities JUST like your average person. you make truthful points but giving the wrong impression to people who dont truly understand sociopathy
She literally says not all are the same
@@steellion1803 are you stupid? that was not the point.
@@steellion1803 but then talks like they are for the entire video
I only watched this video to find out if I was a sociopath
Im not
Clay Hoggins thanks for the clarification, I was getting really worried there
Have you been diagnosed by a professional?
Looks like your on the right "path" (I'll let myself out lol)
One of the things that sucks most is that after finally removing yourself from the awful person/relationship is that you want to warn others about this person but there's no way to do that without looking like a crazy ex or looking like you're incapable of moving on.
right? god, i wanted to do that so badly, but i was already being made out to be the "crazy ex" or the "incapable of moving on". it really does suck.
I can totally empathize, especially when sociopaths/master manipulators often win the crowd's support. But, I can tell you that you're not crazy, that it's valid you've been hurt, and that it's okay to have these good intentions of warning others. Keep doing you and stay strong. What would you like to tell our fans based on your awful experiences?
@@Psych2go thank you!
Yes lol my ex husband has a history of train wreck relationships and blaming them on everyone but himself. I cheated on him because I got sick of his shit and i wanted desperately to let go and to love him less(in fear I'd turn to suicide for an answer) and so did every other girl he's had a relationship with, but they're somehow still friends with each other. I'll never understand how or why they continue to support him even though hes clearly shown hes not worthy of any of it.
Psych2Go why do you make it out that we’re monsters? We have emotions and feelings and currently my feelings are hurt. Yes I can completely disconnect from any emotion and not feel an ounce of empathy, and I admit it’s scary. But If I actively attempt to put myself in someone else’s shoes, I can empathize to a certain degree
I came here to have a nice time watching a video, and I'm feeling so attacked rn
Ha! Brilliant.
Same
Azeneth Trupa - are you secretly a cartoon girl?
Me too
Relatable
"sociopaths are good in bed"
*sherlock fans dying*
Jake Paul?
Creativ Brian: I don't think so.
I think so.
Thanks for summarizing this video 😂
Shanes jake paul series....
(\/0 - 0\/)
Logan Paul*
According to this video, everyone’s a sociopath
Right lol
Twisted4kStudios ok
Zappygurl you say i love you after the first date..... yikes
Mr. Sir well, unlike you called yourself a Mr. Sir 😉
I don’t break the law, refuse to take responsibility, deliberately manipulate others, use sex to control others and use friends to my advantage. No dude... just no.
Take the info in this vid with about 1000 grains of salt.
You mean 102 grains of salt?
Yeah, the video is very blunt with the info of sociopathy. Some people can have these traits and not be a sociopath, I get what they are trying to do as being in a relationship with one is risky if you are not very careful. But with the culture that surrounds sociopathy, being too broad can bring more harm than good.
Why ?
Yea I mean if you're dating someone with these traits you're definitely not dating a quality person but I don't think classifying them as a sociopath is exactly fair.
Tiffany Renee some of them... you might have a good connection with a person but she’s not doing it in a fake sense? More or less the rest I agree with you
Good thing I'm single and plan on staying that way.
Ye. Save yourself. Dont settle for less. Ppl really be cheaters sometimes
@Renice Eccles ....Probably because he thought that your sister was you.
U dont have to be alone man u can buy new samsung with virtual assistent waifu.
He was exactly like this. Every single step. It’s ok he’s in jail now
Damn what happened?
Spill sis
spill the tea please
@@skibidibopbopbopbopbop are you fucking numb in the brain?
Raelly 😓
Thought I was a sociopath till they said they were good in bed haha
The Professional Amateur 😂👌🏾
good one, lol. anyway this point is wrong and can't be generalized. people with ASPD come in all forms and also can be bad and uncaring in bed. or can be criminals who sexually assault people.
damn i was 9 months late for that joke :l .... my mother could say the same thing
@@projectboylp wait... WHAT !
Sociopaths simply cannot self reflect. Remember that.
He said “I love you” in the first phone call. 😵💀💀
lol girl run
Already done..😬
Celeste DayRider same and then he broke up with me 10 months later cause I was moving too fast
I love you
Mary Pauline Palacio lmao rip
I just want to point out the vid is a lil disrespectful. There are more regular functioning people with normal lives that are sociopaths than dangerous ones. Literally 1 and 100 people are sociopaths. You literally could be one and not know it. Psychopaths are usually a danger to themselves or others. Not every sociopath is a person putting another person in danger
1 in 100 are pycopaths not the same thing
Manga Micah *psychopaths
Manga Micah and when I read ab it it said sociopaths.
Manga Micah some say it’s for both. Truth is we’ll really never know
The whole topic is rather interesting....according to what I’ve been able to gather so far I exhibit some sociopathic tendencies would I consider myself one? No as I am not a trained psychiatrist and me exhibiting these traits could be purely coincidental but still interesting to think about
When your boyfriend shows 7 of the 8 signs...
Lizbeth Moya which sign didnt he show...yet?
being good in bed i bet
@@EspritArkitekt "They don't let you meet their friends." He makes me meet all of his friends. He can't keep many because he "has a unique personality."
Lizbeth Moya oh :/ r u planning to stick it out for the long run?
@@EspritArkitekt yeah, I might..
So, I’m a really high functioning sociopath.
LMAO
Wtf who asked!? I can be too and do say that idiot...
Martin Hromočuk Hmm... that response is too good to be true
Sherlock?
So you're good in bed?!
UA-cam: Are you dating a sociopath ?
Me: no...
UA-cam: Yes you are, watch this video!
Me: But I'm single!!!
😂😂😂
😅😅😅
Me too
Yes
Just broke it off with a sociopath. Came to this video to affirm my suspicions. It's true. Be safe out there.
as a sociopath, this is not true. Dont be stupid please this is embarrassing
*Laughs in single*
At least you're not dating a sociopath. :)
@@Psych2go True 😂
*cries in forever alone*
So...for anyone interested in what it’s really like: the actual disorder is called ASPD. That stands for Anti-Social Personality Disorder. It exists on a scale from high functioning to low functioning. The terms “Sociopath” and “Psychopath” are commonly misused, and are actually descriptors of how the disorder formed in the patient’s brain.
A “sociopath” formed from childhood trauma, while a “psychopath” did not, and instead formed the disorder naturally.
The symptoms of ASPD are as follows: the inability to feel empathy, remorse, or guilt; the disregard for ones own safety and/or the safety of others; the disregard for rules; impulsiveness; chronic boredom; compulsive lying, among some others.
ASPD is not treatable, although talk therapy can help. In many patients however, their symptoms and severity of their symptoms lessen with age.
From my personal experience (I have high functioning ASPD), I have been able to develop deep connections with a handful of people: some friends and family members. I personally try to cope and handle my situation with a peaceful mindset. Yes I have some things which make everyday life challenging, but I do my best. I am in a relationship, and she does know about my condition. I have no reason to lie to her because she’s important to me. And yes, I do feel “love”.
P.S Most people with ASPD are not like what you see on TV or Movies.
Oshun Forest thanks for the first hand account! I’m highly disappointed in their content lately... if you wouldn’t mind liking my comment, it should be just below yours, I want them to see it and realize that they need to take a step back and rethink their current work.
Emily Hope thank you! I’m glad I could offer a firsthand account and give some info
Polopony20 absolutely! I don’t blame them for being misinformed, but spreading misinformation, even unintentionally, only leads to disorders like mine being demonized by the public.
Emily Hope That’s great! Obviously, though, exercise caution. There ARE some out there who DO fit the more......macabre stereotypes
Developing "Deep connections" and Feeling "love" requires compassion/empathy, which people with ASPD are void of at a brain structure level.
Im not dating anyone lel
sAmE lool
Same
No one would ever date me lolz
Me too
um why did this get 80 likes? Im so confused??
Plot twist: Turns out I am the one who is Sociopath.
It does not make you cool. Go to doctor -.-
@@foodiechalks6878 I wouldn't for some reason
@@foodiechalks6878 these are hardly any signs of sociopath ppl comments like this because they think it's cool
I felt attacked for a second. I thought this said “scorpiopath” 😂
C R I N G E 😂
😂😂😂😂
Omg same I thought was about Scorpios
Most girls with their astrology signs tend to be sociopath
Oof I’m a sociopath
Rocky Reyes same :(
Same :(
ArtificialSoul WHAT!!
Which part
Welp... At least it's not raining
It's scary how i just watched a video describing my relationship for the last 3 years with my ex. Even the appearance of the cartoon looks just like her. She recently dumped me with the excuse that i'm too good for her and broke my heart on pieces. I guess she made me a favor.
I literally thought I were a sociopath after reading the Number 1! Good thing I continued watching.
Therefore I conclude that I'm not.
I thought my partner could be a sociopath just for that one but i realized he's one of the best human beings in the world, just a little clingy and falls in love so easy
they have a nose ring
Whaaaat?😂😂😂😂
Good in bed? Dominant in bed? They might just be kinky🤣
I know right 😂
Dude good comment!
They are shit in bed
I great deal of people in the bdsm community have alllll kinds of fun issues
etc etc - it's almost like that's what draws them to the BDSM world
This is hilarious...I study sociology and I laughed so much at this video. There isn’t a single person I know including me that doesn’t have at least a few of these traits. I guess we’re all sociopaths to some extent based of this ridiculous video. Okay I have to watch the psychopath one now lmao
We realize the points may be vague, but it's hard compacting so much information in one video. We definitely don't recommend self-diagnose or diagnosing others without a licensed professional. This is just what we came across in our research. :) Have a lovely day, and thanks for taking the time to watch our other videos!
@@Psych2go then dont make videos like this just to get Views, such a delicate subject and you choose the most unprofessional way to aproach it.
Hey student, most things in life are on a spectrum
You must have failed or talking shit as you would be more switched on, if true you wont do very well 😂
john quinn the point is, if I was not a student and did not have any background on this delicate subject, I would go out into the world naming others a sociopath by watching this video. This video makes it so simple to just point the finger at anyone.
Wow. Wow. Wow. My ex is a pathological covert narcissist, but I never considered him a sociopath. I just watched this video and he literally has every single trait that you described. I always wondered why he didn’t have any close friends until I moved in with him and I realized he hardly had any friends at all. He told me he loved me after our third date. I didn’t respond because I was so shocked. I will never allow someone like this to manipulate me again. Thank you for your videos.
So weirdly accurate. I only had one dating experience so far and this person turned out to be like one. Lot of times I questioned my own intuition if he's genuine or not, I even started having doubts. And eventually, that deteriorated my mental health in the long run. It was such a painful process to cope up with. It's so difficult for me to open or loosen up, and yet that happened. What a bad experience, but it def taught me a hard lesson.
same thing... still trying to let go. but every time i close my eyes i see her .-.
Honestly its hard for me to tell if I'm in toxic relationship or not. Its so complicated to tell, but sometimes when I try express how I feel about the way the relationship going, trying talk about problems in relationship. My partner would try ignore that or change the subject quickly. When my partner finally talks to me about issues, my partner gets a little defensive and so quick to say you're overthinking or it just your aneixty. I find myself questioning myself sometimes is it me or my partner.
@@burgerking1200 It’s harder when you they are basically the girl version of you
@@wackgaming6639 yessir! I’m getting better tho haha
Oof this turned the tables on me real fast, I started thinking about the past relationships and now I'm pretty sure I should get checked to see if somethings up.
Ive never dated, yet i still watch this lol
@Ismael Enciso
Never hurts to be prepared!
Do you feel like you have a better grasp on the topic now? :)
@@Psych2go Of course, y'all always helpful 😊
My ex was a narcistic sociophat. I did a lot of research and next to the abuse he did to me and my kids, i came to this conclusion. It's been a hell. And I'm happy that i have a lot of lovely family members that helped me and my kids through this hard time. But we are still in recovery.
Whoops the ex that gave me PTSD has literally all these traits :')
Same for me. He was abusive and sexually assaulted me and shit. Ptsd now
Same! My ex literally physically and mentally abused me yet would always somehow seduce me back with sweet talking and sex! Man I feel so bad that I was manipulated like that!
Oof that's REALLY bad
Covert narcissist,My wife of 15yrs.Until I had enough and said GTFO.Seriously,I can relate to this
Luvia I'm right along with you love, 😪
I'm ''guilty'' of most the signs here, so what? A lot of the traits you've described are also true about introverts. We can't all be social butterflies with 1001+ friends, and always-go-lucky attitude..
Lol I have social anxiety but I want to talk to people
@Your Boss Why? Because you, a random comment on UA-cam that I'll forget about soon, said so? I think not. :D
@@queenkid4391 Sure. Craving company and social interaction is the most human thing ever.
Lmao I have no friends except my boyfriend. I have a lot of these traits too. I’d take a bullet for that man though, no greater love in my heart do I have than for him. Once when he became ill, I’d set my alarm clock for every 1-2 hours at night just to check my phone and ask if he was doing okay. I hardly got any sleep for months during that time, but it was all worth it to make sure he didn’t stop breathing or suffer any anxiety attacks.
@Your Boss They... do though. Sociopaths know and even flaunt the fact that they're sociopaths, they never don't know, unless they're extremely low functioning...
Sociopaths and Narrccissts seem to have a lot in "Common"!
@@Twisted4k yeah Good point.. Thanks.
It's interesting, isn't it?
Curtistine Miller well we are are a little narcky sometimes so don’t think you’re some sort of purist. I really hope you don’t comment about narcs all the time cuz you probably don’t even fucking know anything about anything
Why’d you put common in quotes
Curtistine Miller Because almost all sociopaths are narcissists but not all narcissists are sociopaths, does that make sense?
I dated a woman with Borderline Personality Disorder and all these signs are identical! The twin flame/soulmate connection the same day we met at a retreat! Immediate s*x, unprotected from the get-go; they are extremely impulsive in every way! A month later she told me she had a STD from a previous Boyfriend. Had been married and divorced 3 times by age 27! Mood swings off the hook, manipulated me with suicide threats, was always talking to other guys while telling me that they didn't know she was dating me...I know, a bunch of red flags! I was too codependant...She cheated 3 times...It was pure hell. Yes, she was beautiful, at first sight perfect but a total nightmare inside..Worst 4 years of my life.
I watched this because I wanted to know if I was one. 😂😂🤭
Lol😄
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same here, and it turns out ... i am
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What was your result?
She named everything I do an a relationship i think I might be a sociopath .......... in bed.
Im convinced my ex was a narcissistic sociopath. I wish i could go back in time and not fall for his lies
I was seriously sociopathological in my teens and all through most of my adult life. I finally realized what how I had been hurting people. So after my last divorce, I decided to work on myself in order to become a person worth being in love with. I’ve been alone and celibate for many years, and I’m fine with it. Now I know who I am and what I have to offer. I’m in no rush.
wow. my ex matches every single one of these to the extreme...
If this ain’t the truth, holy shit why did I have to see this video so late.
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Oh no I am the sociopath
They best way to avoid such a relationship is to never get into a relationship at all, it's more trouble than it's worth.
Except for the victim role-playing;
I guess I'm a sociopath.
Jose Martini same
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You wanna date?
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... and probably annoy the heck out of each other?
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Well done. I have definitely dated somebody with this disorder
ME TOO...URGH!!😠☻
Of course. Because a 4 Minute Vid is the same as a Therapist
Well that's because literally everyone has sociopathic traits and psychopathic ones too
Shat ho according to this stupid video lol even Jesus was one
You should read a book instead of watching a low quality youtube video
I almost dated a sociopath recently. I think She knew I liked her, too. I was being manipulated by her and I ignored all the signs of a possibly unhealthy future relationship since I had a MEGA crush on her. A few weeks ago I realized what I was doing and I stopped, and I'm glad I did. This video helped me further solidify my position.
Sociopaths can develop feelings for people. They can be invested in a relationship and actually care about the person. Just because you’re dating a sociopath doesn’t mean they’re trying to hurt you or manipulate you or they’re dangerous.
I need evidence or else it just denies all my previous experience with them and means their actions were just fine(but they werent)
But i hope you r right and some of them can treat others nice
@@yuu_miran hey! diagnosed sociopath here. yes, we can feel and want to be in relationships. though, it might be harder for us then others it’s not like we plan to kill or hurt everybody we lay our eyes on. its literally just stronger intrusive thoughts that follow with actions.
@@パイモン-o2m well i know sociopath not equals a murderer XD i meant all the sociopaths ive come across so far were maybe even worse than a murderer since they kept torturing me for years and ruined a big part of my psyche. Of course i cant label all other sociopaths out there, if there are some better ones thats a great news.
They are.
I think i'm the sociopath, that's why no one dates me.
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its possible to get someone that isnt against our kinds. for example me. as a sociopath. but i never use any of the sociopathic traits or whatever in a relationship. i guess? lol if u wanna make sure. if ur a sociopath or not u can Google the traits. or look it up anywhere that doesnt seem. sketchy?
@@SchizoPotato can u know your a sociopath yourself? And only based of google articles?
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I think it's better to ask a psychiatrist, a professional who knows a lot about the Psyche. You can't be entirely sure just because Google says so or you think it is so.
And by any chance if the psychiatrist can confirm that you're a sociopath, S/he could help you...well if you let her/him.
@@BlackCat-tg7th i don't i'm a sociopath, the girl who replied to me is.
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Oh. Kinda got confused I guess. Thanks for your enlightenment. :)
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Thanks for uploading ❤️
Anytime, have a great day!
TW!!! sharing my experience: im a sociopath and was dating one too (long distance). our relationship was terrible. once we got out of our 'honeymoon phase' it was just fights, manipulation, victim complexes, stupid excuses, lies, broken promises. only way to make up to each other were nudes or cyber sex. it drained both of us both mentally and physically yet we couldnt live without each other. i got gaslighted with suicide multiple times, couldnt find the difference between manipulation and actual emotions. then i realized i did the very same. attempted for suicide 2 weeks ago and all i got from them was 'aight imma do the same'. yesterday, we broke up, got into a terrible fight and both of us were on the verge of ending it. then he texted me saying 'i wanna die with you'.
honestly i dont even know why im sharing all this. just please please please be careful with people. you could get hurt soo badly and not even realize. forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest, think about consequences before eating it.
Best to date someone who is not aspd next time.
Okay yeah these are legitimate reasons and signs of sociopathy but there are also plenty of other explanations for these behaviors including adhd, add, schizo, etc. Or, you know, for some of these , as farfetched as it may seem, you may just be made for each other. It does happen sometimes that your personality and another person's personality fit together almost perfectly. Not always the case, it's very rare, but at the same time, a relationship may not always be as perfect as you percieve it either. Don't just jump ship because this video said if you apologise a lot your partner is a psychopath; if you're really convinced seek medical journals and learn more about the subject. A lot of these apply to every relationship. And some people are just assholes too and you won't see it right away. If you're unhappy leave , if you're happy stay. That's just what it boils down to. Not that this video is bad in anyway, but it can mislead those who might just take it at face value and relate to one or two things on this list and just won't do any more research and needlessly break their own heart; although if you're that willing to break it off it might not have worked out in the end anyway
They seem to forget that sociopaths are not exactly born- trauma in their lives is what made them sociopaths. Per example, my significant other was bullied to the point where he just started not to care about other people at all and would do horrible things just because he felt like it.
Eventually however he began to see that what he was doing was wrong and stopped doing it- although he claims that he can understand it he claims that he can't feel it. He doesn't feel remorse for what he did but he understands that it was wrong.
I've been with him for six years now and we may have our ups and downs but we're still together. Well I agree that sociopaths are dangerous people, remember at the end of the day they're kind of human to, not some monster. If perhaps they would seek medical help or see a psychologist or even a therapist, things would get better for them.
But I know not all sociopaths are the same some are exactly like this video.
People call me a fool but I I've done enough research to know that sociopaths are sociopaths for no reason- something horrible must have happened to them that made them like that.
No you need to pay attention to certain signs.
@@anaisdiaz7346 Not your problem. They need to get help. You only damage yourself if you stay. They tend to tell you stories to make you feel sorry for them. They could be playing off of your emotions.
schizoaffective disorder
Teila Mckendry - I agree with your end point that you can't see a couple things in this video and instantly conclude your partner is a sociopath. However, any one of these, let alone multiple/all are signs of dysfunction. You don't want to just shrug your shoulders at that.
1) If you are with someone who is dysfunctional, you should want to help them if you love them.
2) If you are with someone who is dysfunctional, this can be disastrous for you over the long term.
3) If you identify as having a significant other who shows one or more of these symptoms, you should also consider your own internal dysfunction and how/why you got into that relationship or why you are letting things slide.
Often, people will say things like "because I love him/her" but unfortunately, sometimes the most loving thing is actually a swift kick in the ass. If a person won't acknowledge and/or won't admit to their problems it's harmful to you both.
i am a high-functioning sociopath and i just realized my partner is also a sociopath. our relationship is toxic af. but it's too toxic that it's actually exciting. idk whats wrong with me i just can't change my personality...
Whay is like being two sociopath in a relationship? I know a couple of psychopath in my social circle, but Idk what it feels like to be an aspd individual involved in a relationship with another aspd
@@diealtf4378 well we actually broke up cuz we learned we both cheated. it was for the best i guess. our relationship was exciting though. we both loved the feeling of thrill but we never stayed loyal to each other. he talked shit about me with his friends and expected me to get angry but i was too unbothered so he was mad at me for a while.
Well everything was great at the beginning i was actually happy to have someone not judging me but we got bored too easily.
@@chimera2654 I'm sorry to hear that.. Tho a thrilling relationship might sound nice actually
You really don’t seem like a sociopath.
I am shocked that a sociopath could be so self aware. I am wondering if you have been professionally diagnosed?
My ex told me up front he was a narc, which seems to line up with sociopathy as well and these traits. He left me six months ago and moved on immediately like I never existed. Shit hurts
This is a long read, so just a head up.
This was me with my last ex, we were together 5 or 6 years, I had no idea I was acting like a sociopath during our relationship, I did and still do care about her well being, but I did realize near the end of our relationship that I was being a shitty boyfriend because a bunch of problems came up about my impulsive behaviour and me going behind her back by smoking (cigarettes) at work and whenever she wasn't around, and I told her that I would try to do better, over and over and over again like a broken record with no results. I didn't want to keep hurting her the way I have been, I made her a promise to not hurt her like her other ex's, but I was being the one thing I told her that I wasn't. After I started noticing my behaviour and slowly pieced it together, I told her the truth, and I told her that I can't keep doing that to her and broke it off. I told her that I'd still like to remain friends if she'd be okay with it because I did cherish the wonderful moments we had together, but I didnt want to hurt her anymore like that again, and I realized that I wasn't ready for a relationship, at least not yet
So basically, if she has purple hair you should ditch her immediately
That's one way to look at it haha.
No, you stupid moron! She also needs to have a nose ring and a deck of cards with the word "victim" on it. Didn't you learn anything from this video?
The leader of my favorite philanthropy group has purple hair
I’ve dated a schizophrenic with multiple personalities and on top of it It was a long distance relationship when I was only 14. Needless to say it didn’t last long.
Cody Mullins my ex didn’t talk to me in public and made me think that it was my fault, we only talked to me through text it was practically a long distance relationship and it tore me to shreds
I am dating one he is nice ....
@@aliaamahmoud3772 For now.
Sorry I ruin the mood.
@@OutlawKING111 what do u mean ....
@@aliaamahmoud3772 well you should start looking for a new one ....
I wonder if I am a sociopath... "good in bed". PHEEEEW!
XD
What happens if a good 9 out of 10 traits describe you? Asking for a friend....
Most of you are missing the point and dwelling on the "good in bed" sign. Sociopaths manipulate thru emotion so they spend their time focusing on how they can keep you entrapped. Sex plays a big part of that since it keeps you connected. But it's not the ONLY sign, there's usually multiple signs.
You say that like all of us do it. If you did your research you would see that a lot of us aren't even interested in sex. You don't even know the tip of the iceberg when it comes to people like us, so please do yourself a favor and don't take this video to heart. Like the seven deadly sins, this thing has a hook for everyone.
@@siouxisecirice224 That could be true but it can be used as a tool. Do you realize that people (sociopaths or not) use sex thru means of manipulation. Not because they truly enjoy it but because it can give them control and power.
@@ladymariej4156 that kinda goes against what you said because you specifically said sociopaths.
Or if they use sex to distract you not so much how good they are at it but if they're more likely to use sex when theres other issues at hand
@@siouxisecirice224 So, um, care to set the record straight?
one of my good friends is a sociopath, she’s not extremely manipulative, only when she has to be...she just wants to be loved and genuinely cares about her partners,,, i really don’t appreciate a psychology channel adding to the alienation of sociopaths,,,please do some reliable research before...
It's not really that.. If sociopaths in general have problems with understanding morals etc, of course they'd end up with a video like this. If ur friend is a more kind sociopath and you feel attacked then i'm sorry :3
Maybe she's one of the few kind sociopaths and super special :3
Are you sure she's a sociopath?
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just because hollywood and youtube have told you all sociopaths are serial killers and insane doesn’t make it true. Yes she is a high functioning sociopath but most are, now actual serial killer crazy sociopaths can happen, doesn’t mean that you should just alienate a whole group of people because of something a few people did and for a trait they can’t help
@@moriraya I thought psychopaths were the unapologetic aggressive assholes edit: and potential serial killers, while sociopaths are just manipulative and narcissistic.
.... Am I a sociopath? ._.
Umbra Dread no u idiot
Yes you are
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You look like .....
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Wow so I guess my ex wasn’t just narcissistic but also a sociopath, damn, glad I got away